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You’re right to be skeptical. Why would you put all of your trust in someone who hasn’t earned it? If he wants to be treated like the leader, he needs to be the leader. He’s trying to be in power without earning it and the way to do that is by riding on your back. Not to mention the possibility of you supporting his vision only for him to leave you with all of the debt. You are basically doing all of the work and taking all of the risk. Why do you have to give up control for him to have your bes…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 08:23 PM
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Why would you submit to a man who is not your husband? Never give a boyfriend (he’s not even your fiancé!) husband benefits. What control does he want you to relinquish?
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 01:44 AM
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We’re going to have to agree to disagree. There’s no way I’m going to passively let someone hurt me without fighting back so my options would be pepper spray or hand to hand combat. I’m pretty sure I can’t take a punch and I’m physically weak. So by your logic, I’d fight him off until he punches me. As I’m seeing stars he can go ahead and do whatever to me. I’d rather he hurt as well and unless he’s on drugs or something, pepper spray would distract him enough for me to at least try to get away.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 12:19 AM
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No doubt a gun is better, but if it’s between pepper spray and nothing, I don’t see how my bare hands makes me safer.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 10:21 PM
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Isn’t it better than nothing?
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 09:20 PM
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While I support MGTOW, they can still be toxic. Some of their assumptions are wrong and can be damaging if internalized by a young or vulnerable woman. I know this sub is anti-feminism but to survive in this world, women have to understand and believe that they are capable of determining their own lives and actions. MGTOW and red pill type of sites like to quote broad stereotypes as fact. Read them enough and you will start to believe it. It’s best for women to stay off of those sites and let th…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 09:32 PM
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I recommend staying away from the male red pill sites. They have their own goals which are opposite of ours. They want to better themselves, which is good, but they also want to spin as many plates (meaning sleep with women) as they can. Our goal is to never be a plate and to date/marry good, quality men.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 11:15 AM
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If I were the friend, I would pretend like I didn’t hear it. If he had said it to me, I would respond pretty aggressively and it would turn into a thing. I learned the heard way that taking disrespect in silence leads to more disrespect. So if someone disrespects me in that way, we’re going to have a long heated talk about it and it’s going to be annoying for all involved. Cause and effect. If he continues to do it then that’s a sign that he’s not the one for me. But there are children involved …
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/20 11:53 PM
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There will always be someone better looking, smarter, funnier, richer, etc than you. Having said that, you are prettier, smarter, funnier, and richer than millions of other people! Why compare yourself to this one lady who is prettier and ignore the tons of people who are not?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/20 02:11 PM
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He’s not the only one that can give you peace. The only one that can give you peace is yourself! Peace will come with time. Your ex is pathetic. What kind of man picks a cam girl over his girlfriend? He’d rather live in a fantasy. I dated a guy who was also dating another girl. When I found out about it, I asked him to only date me. He claimed that he liked me more than her but refused to give her up. We went back and forth on it but he wouldn’t be exclusive with me. So I broke up with him. He d…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/20 05:30 PM
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Hugs I know this hurts and that’s ok! You did the right thing. You set a boundary and stuck to it. He chose the cam girl over you. That is on him and makes him the stupid one. That also shows that he doesn’t value you as much as you thought. So I strongly recommend you go no contact. Don’t text him again. If you need to talk, talk to you’re friends. Also, put on a nice outfit and make up and go out with your friends. Take pictures and post it on social media. Look happy. I normally don’t recomme…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/20 05:19 PM
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I’ve noticed that guys post on here with the mindset that we are “plates”. Those guys don’t belong here, imo.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 06:02 AM
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I believe that trans women are women and I wholeheartedly include them in all womanly things with one exception: sports. Even after surgery and hormones, they will always dominate cis women and that’s just not fair nor safe.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 03:24 AM
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Wow. That comment was uncalled for. She, in no way, exhibited dependa behavior. Shame on you for bringing such negativity here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 07:00 AM
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No, you were not the practice girl. You two dated for 9 months. That’s a real relationship and sometimes sex is part of it. He’s 27. What the heck is he practicing for? He’s old enough to not need practice. Like most relationships, yours came to an end. Take time to mourn and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 04:43 PM
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Never, under any circumstances, take the opinion of some random dude over your fiancé/husband. Never, under any circumstances, take some random dudes opinion over your own. Having said that, I think you are blowing virginity way out of proportion. Are you really willing to let a good man go because YOU think your lack of virginity makes you unworthy. Girl, get ahold of yourself. Your fiancé is with because he loves you. Stop putting your value in your lost virginity. That doesn’t matter.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 07:43 AM
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First, don’t break up with him. You’re stressed and you would be doing it for all the wrong reasons. Second, As a working mother of three, (working outside of the home), one thing I realized is that you can’t have it all. You’re working, going to school, and helping your fiancée with his business. Stop cleaning up after his dad and brother. That is not your job! In stressful times, eat out and hire a maid. If money is tight, get premade meals at the grocery store. In the freezer section you’ll f…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/20 03:35 AM
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Please don’t change your personality. I don’t think you act like an alpha male at all. You act like a confident, charming woman. A HV man wants a woman who can handle herself in social situations. Think of the wives of politicians and CEOs. They are beautiful, and feminine and charming. They can talk to donors and politicians to help their husbands succeed. No quiet, shrinking violet can do that. Also, you should not be submissive to men who are not your husband.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 10:15 PM
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Wait. He asked you to stop dating other people knowing that he wasn’t monogamous? How is that ethical non-monogamy?
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 05:36 AM
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You’re going through a stressful time right now. Cut yourself some slack. It sounds like your BF is a giver. Show him love, respect, and appreciation. Tell him how happy your are because of him. I don’t think you have to worry. Just be happy (if that’s how you feel), sweet and loving.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 04:22 PM
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I think your father is doing what dads are supposed to do: protect his children. Go ahead and let him. You have a great support system in place. You’re worried that the kids will get abused if you are not living with him. Well, you are there now and they still got abused. You don’t have to divorce him right away. I recommend you take the children and live with your parents. Go to couples counseling with your husband. Try to get him to go to personal counseling. Those are logical steps before a d…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 06:01 PM
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Unless you raise them in a bunker, your kids will be exposed to toxic ideas. The best way to combat this is to explain your viewpoint. If you just say XYZ is wrong and don’t explain why you believe that, then your kid will naturally lean toward the side that DOES explain why they believe the way they do. Then you sit back and continue to love your children, no matter what they believe. It’ll be tough but you have to do it. I’m very liberal, but if one of my kids came out as hard core conservativ…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/20 01:55 AM
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Do you want to be with a 40 year old man?
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/20 07:33 AM
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I don’t understand why you want to change your personality. You work in the comedy industry, so why crack less jokes? Funny people are amazing! As far as being the loud black woman, I get it. But the solution is not to stop being funny. Doing that without lowering your voice will turn you into the angry black woman. I also tend to speak loudly because my husband is hard of hearing. So I project my voice when I’m at home. Of course, I then end up doing it everywhere. I’m working on speaking softl…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/20 03:32 AM
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So when you show your emotions he gets upset, but when you show no emotion, he still gets upset? When you say that you felt something for two seconds, but don’t feel like that anymore, why doesn’t he believe you? This sounds like he is controlling and trying to keep you always off balance, but I’m not sure. Can you give an example of when this came up
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 09:23 PM
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His back and forth is giving me whiplash. I think it’s time to put this relationship away and move on. If a guy wants to be with you, he’ll say yes. I rarely gave guys second chances when I was single. I learned from my first marriage that when a guy pushes you away, it’s best to leave him alone. Going back and trying to get him to change his mind will make him feel contempt for you. My ex had me jumping through all kinds of hoops. So once I got my divorce, I was much more strict. If a guy rejec…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 02:15 AM
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Are you sure he’s your boyfriend? What is the purpose of this trip? Are they mountain climbing or something? Where are they going? Is it just the two of them?
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 07:27 AM
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I think OP would be overstepping if she did this. She would also alienate her one real parent. Who’s making sure her school is paid? Who’s going to help her plan her wedding? Who’s going to babysit her kids? Who’s going to support her as she goes out into the world? Her mother, not her checked out dad. Should she befriend her dad? Sure. Should she take sides? No way!
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 10:16 PM
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I feel like your parent’s relationship is not yours to judge. This could be a chicken-or-the-egg situation. Is your dads passivity caused by your moms nagging? Or is your moms nagging caused by your dads passivity? A good way to build a relationship with your dad is to do what HE likes to do. What is he doing on the computer? Playing video games? Join his game and play with him. Spreadsheets and stuff? Ask for his help on your own work. Better yet, ask for his help in everything. Dads love to he…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 10:08 PM
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Well, he’s showing you exactly who he is. If you officially move in with him, this will be your life. Can you handle that? There’s nothing wrong with having your own place or staying with your parents. He’s your boyfriend, not husband. You don’t have to live with him.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 03:43 AM
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It sounds like they are trying to knock you down a peg. For some reason, guys think that criticizing a pretty woman will make her yearn for their approval. I wouldn’t seek out conversations with boys who do this. They need to learn that if they try to make you feel bad, then they lose the joy of your company. Don’t worry. When you get older, you won’t give a crap what they think.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 10:54 PM
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Regarding my hair, I care about his opinion because I want him to be attracted to me. He likes long hair, so I'll never cut it. We combine our money, so I always run big purchases by him. Friends hasn't come up yet, but some guys try to be controlling. Boyfriends have no say but I'll take my husbands opinion into account if he has a problem. Depends on how close I am to the friend.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 10:40 PM
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That’s for each woman to decide. For me, I didn’t cook for men I was dating. I’d agree to having cooking dates where we cooked together or if he was over for a holiday, I’d cook the meal, but daily normal cooking. Nope. They also had very little say in my private life. How I spent my money, did my hair, who I spent time with (females) was not his to dictate or have an opinion on. I never lived with a boyfriend. It’s very easy to fall into wife mode when you live together. Always give guys space.…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 05:55 AM
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This is where the saying “why buy the cow if he can get the milk for free” comes into play. Don’t do wife stuff for a man who won’t make you his wife. He is getting all of his needs met by dating. If you don’t ever want to get married, then by all means, stay with him. But if you do, then prepare yourself for the inevitable break up so that you can move on and find a husband. Doesn’t have to be now or even soon. You’re young. Enjoy yourself. But keep you eyes open. When you’re young and pretty i…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 01:10 AM
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Since you do not want to have kids, there’s no reason to put a time limit on it. You’re not “older” at 30 years old. You’re young. My 30s was a great decade. I had plenty of money to spend and the maturity to not waste it. I was also more confident and refused to put up with foolish people. Fun times!
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 10:59 PM
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All guys lust after other women. Gals lust after men, too. We’ve all seen Henry Cavill, amiright ladies? It becomes a problem when you act on it. I think in the grand scheme of things, your boyfriends instagram behavior is generally wrong. He shouldn’t be liking the photos because it’s disrespectful to you. But he’s going to look and he’s going to “like” them in his mind. That’s something you can’t control and you should stop trying. I agree with you that he shouldn’t be following his exes. I do…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 12:35 AM
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Things are getting worse because he’s abusive and abusers tend to escalate their bad behavior. I’m so glad you are not married to him. You should break up with him.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 05:37 PM
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Is he a jerk for wanting her to stay home, or for being checked out? Her whole post reeked of loneliness. I’m not buying that he’s stressed because he’s the provider. Especially since OP is afraid to buy things for herself. If he took pride in being a provider, then his wife wouldn’t feel afraid to buy things for herself. Besides, she’s not even asking him for money. She wants his attention and time. So this man is letting his wife basically be a beast of burden and he’s supposed to get respect?…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 01:30 AM
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Yet he doesn’t want her to work outside of the home. I would think that if he’s so stressed, he’d want her to help with the finances. OP seems to be openly communicating her need for affection. She’s verbalizing her problem and he’s calling her selfish. Is he a jerk? I don’t know. But he’s acting like one in this situation.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 01:03 AM
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I read a study that said being a SAHM is usually only fulfilling if the woman WANTS to be one. There's no crime in not wanting to be a SAHM. ​ Your husband calling you selfish is an attempt to shut you up. He has you convinced that you don't deserve the basic things that he's supposed to provide: companionship, love, sex, physical comforts, etc. As a wife, it's perfectly okay to 'selfishly' want your husband's love and affection! ​ You do deserve it and he should be providing it. ​ I think the f…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 11:25 PM
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This has got to be the worst response I've ever seen. Shame on you.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 11:08 PM
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Such a beautiful response! ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/20 03:29 PM
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I remember feeling like this when I was young. Black girls receive the message that we are not beautiful because we don’t fit the western standard of beauty. It didn’t help that I’m 5’10”, so I felt like a beast. Things that helped me: - practice being graceful. (Keep in mind, I’m tall so my goals are different) I took ballet as a kid and later as an adult. That helped me with my posture and not being a clod. Yoga would help too. Focus on black stars. As a black woman, your beauty will most like…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/20 03:28 PM
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Ok. Not sure we are disagreeing on anything substantial, here. Have a nice day.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 09:01 PM
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She might get the house. The courts might rule to keep the children in their home. I don’t know about spousal support. I didn’t get it when I got divorced. I lost the house too because it was too expensive. Men aren’t the only ones hurt by divorce. Also, if they have joint accounts, she should get half. Just like in a divorce. I see no reason for the man to get it all.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 05:30 PM
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I think you’re misunderstanding me. Whether he married or not, the consequences will be the same if they break up.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 06:40 AM
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I’m not trying to sell the relationship. I was replying to the poster above me. If he doesn’t want to get married because he might get screwed over in a divorce, he might want to consider what happens if they were to split up. Pretty much the same thing if he cares about his kids. If he doesn’t care about his kids and just leaves, then the OP is taking all of the risk because she’ll be left with any debt that needs to be paid.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 04:05 AM
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If you want marriage, then you need to find a man who is on the same page as you. All of the arguments about divorce rape are moot because even if you split up, you’re still going to have to split up your stuff (if he’s a responsible person) and you will still get the kids. The only thing not being married does is make it easier for him to just walk out and leave you with all of the debt.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 11:36 PM
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This doesn’t make sense. If they don’t get married and split up, he’s still going to lose the kids and house.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 11:32 PM
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I don’t know who he liked the best, but he definitely lied to you and didn’t lie to her. Cut him loose and find a man who is worth your time.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 08:50 AM
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Hmmm. This is interesting. Do you flirt? I think the appropriate emotion to show guys you are dating is flirtation not neediness. That will show your interest and warmth.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/19 07:30 PM
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I think you’re going to have to fake it at first. It’s hard to give tips without knowing what you’ve been doing. Think back to all of those dudes who broke your heart. What are their flaws? Allow yourself to see that they are just regular, dusty dudes. They all are. Your job is to find the regular dude who truly deserves your love. He’s going to have flaws too, but there will be something about him that makes him special. That’s the one you love. If you are accepting last minute dates, then stop…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/19 07:24 PM
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Girl, you have to stop putting these guys on pedestals. I get it though. I love being in love too and I used to fall hard and fast. It seems like you love the 'potential' of these guys and get your hopes up. Try to do the opposite. Expect less and make the guy earn your love.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/19 07:53 AM
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That he has not changed. My ex changed for the worse during our marriage. My current husband is the exact same guy after 10 years. Don’t get me wrong, his hobbies and some preferences have changed. But his personality is solid. He’s truly genuine.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 01:49 AM
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This seems odd. On one hand, guys have to be careful because some ladies just view them as a meal ticket. On the other hand, you’re looking for a man who will be a provider. Dating is how you learn about a guy and see if he is the type to do so. At this moment, he doesn’t seem like a provider. But maybe he is and is testing you to make sure you’re not a gold digger. I think the thing to do here is to be honest. When he recommends expensive dates, tell him that you can’t afford it. Definitely do …
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 05:32 PM
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A better scenario would be if she said “I read an article where a mom killed her kids. They must have been really bratty.” Should the man think she will kill their kids? No. But there’s something strange about that statement. It’s a yellow flag.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 05:10 PM
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I don’t disagree with you. High status men can do whatever they want to women (whether the woman consents or not). What we are not agreeing on is what that means when a woman is told that. You jumped to OP worrying that her man is going to have so many options that he’ll leave her. You’re right. He will have more options. I don’t think that’s her concern though. I think she is worried that her high status man will change and start abusing her. We also don’t agree on whether the mans power is tak…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 04:59 PM
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When woman find themselves in abusive relationships, they always ask “how did it get to this?” Answer: ignoring yellow flags. I’m not saying this guy is going to abuse her, but it’s a yellow flag. To me, it’s illogical to ignore it.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 04:41 PM
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First of all, calm down. There is no need to resort to name calling. Second, you are putting your own feelings and beliefs into OPs situation. She specifically said in her post that she didn’t feel safe. Third. Men absolutely kill women with their bare hands. There was a recent situation where a woman ignored a man’s cat calls. He followed her into the parking garage, choked her to death and then raped her dead body. There’s a reason why cops suspect the husband/boyfriend when a woman is murdere…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 04:38 PM
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Women get murdered by their husbands and boyfriends everyday. You shouldn’t completely ignore that fact. Her boyfriend wasn’t threatening her, but you can’t discount her initial feelings as illogical. Her feelings are very logical.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 04:24 PM
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OP said she didn’t feel safe. How you are leapfrogging to the status thing is beyond me. Man: I can kill a woman with my bare hands That’s also a true statement. It may not be directed at the specific woman he’s talking to and he may not actually want to choke or beat a woman to death. But it can still feel like a threatening comment. That’s not irrational.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 04:19 PM
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Yeah, I can see this as a yellow flag.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 03:46 PM
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If a man told me the same thing, I’d be concerned. Even without money, men have power over women just due to their superior physical strength. He could literally kill a woman with his bare hands. OPs boyfriends statement can definitely be interpreted to mean that he believes a rich man can do whatever he wants to a woman (violence) and she’ll let him. What guys don’t realize is that in a lot of cases, the only reason she lets him is because she has no power physically or in the courts (now that …
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 03:45 PM
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The fact that it left you unsettled tells me this is a red flag for you. Listen to your gut, always. I would just file this away for now. Maybe it’s nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 06:47 AM
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It’s definitely easier said than done. That’s why the best thing is to have plans outside of seeing your boyfriend. That way you won’t be put in this situation as much. From what you’ve written, I wouldn’t say you overreacted. You just reacted, which is totally fine.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/19 12:13 AM
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Him: I want to cancel so that I can play with my friends. You: Ok (pulls out your phone and calls your friend) Hey girl, I’m free today. Let’s go get our nails done. In other words. It’s time for you to get busy. He is testing you and showing you where you stand in his life. He is way to comfortable in this 6 month relationship. No more chilling at his place. And no more spending the night. You’re coming across as clingy. You need to start filling your time off with other things that don’t invol…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 10:06 PM
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I’m a wife and a gamer, so I see both sides. I play an online role playing game, so if I make plans to meet someone online, it’s really important that I show up. So I see your boyfriend’s point. Having said that, your relationship is important to. It’s just that your specific date wasn’t as important. I bet that if y’all had a specific thing to do like go to a wedding, or to see a play, he would have chosen to spend time with you. Here’s what I recommend: do your own thing. I personally think it…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 05:28 AM
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