BlueButterfly77 Archive

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2	Book Club: FascinatingWomanhood Chapter 17: The Domestic Goddess Loving FlyLady! Helps me so much😊I enjoyed this post, thank you. I seem to remember owning this book at some point. I am going to see if I still have it and read it again.🦋	/r/RedPillWomen	20/04/19 03:13 PM
–	Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & Questions Yep!	/r/RedPillWomen	06/02/19 03:24 AM
–	Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & Questions The Fly Lady system keeps me on track.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/02/19 11:50 PM
2	I, as a woman, hate feminism Well, now that you put it that way, I don't know either, lol! I guess I just toughened up and got used to it...and it certainly isn't all bad....so there's that. And I got to raise our kids, which made it worth it to me.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/19 11:21 PM
1	I, as a woman, hate feminism Thank you!	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/19 01:39 PM
6	I, as a woman, hate feminism Yes, moms do create a lot of friction for each other by "assuming" things about the lives of moms whose choices are not the same as theirs. In my mind, do whatever YOU need to do to have a happy and contented life. But, please allow me the same consideration. I am 100% happy being at home and I shouldn't have to defend my lifestyle to anyone. I think the women who put down us who sahm are maybe secretly unhappy with their particular situations? I just hate that there isn't as much support for wo…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/19 01:21 PM
1	I, as a woman, hate feminism So much truth here.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/19 01:11 PM
6	I, as a woman, hate feminism I am far from demanding. The money is not an issue. I am the first one up and the last to bed. I homeschool and work inside and outside of our home, all day everyday. I help with his business, he is self-employed. I defer to him in absolutely everything. The only thing I ask/need is to be home. I think I do at least my fair share. I have also worked from home at two different times, but he resented the time that took. So, I don't know.... But, I am going to think about what you said....maybe the…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/19 01:00 PM
2	I, as a woman, hate feminism There is a lot of compromising, picking my battles, and digging my heels in on being home because it is the one thing I need. But, I am constantly busy at home. I run this house as far as chores and I set the tone of our home with my love for being here. I make sure it is a place my husband and family WANT to be. I would be so miserable if I had to work outside my home again, which would bleed over into our family life. I am willing to give up a lot of material things to be home. I just wish I h…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/19 06:22 AM
5	I, as a woman, hate feminism My choice as well. It has been a life-long struggle, and it took me until I was 33 and my first child was 3. I am 55 now and STILL have my husband tell me I need to go to work any time I think out loud of a trip I would like to take, something special I would like to do for our kids, or something that needs to be done to improve or maintain our home. The money is not the issue, I am as far from a big spender as you can get. But my heart is so content at home. It is where I believe to my soul I a…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/19 12:02 AM
2	Advice for daughters and young girls? Hard truth right there!! Lol!	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/18 12:32 PM
6	Advice for daughters and young girls? It's probably a good thing I'm not in charge because people would have to be 25 to do ANYTHING since the reasoning part of the brain isn't fully developed until then!	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/18 12:40 AM
1	Advice for daughters and young girls? 😄😄	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/18 12:35 AM
42	LTR I think you care for him more than he cares for you. I think this is hos way of keeping you "on file" while he explores to see if the grass is greener elsewhere. If it were me, I would tell him to go do what he needs to do, but I would be permanently walking out the door when I said it. There is no way I would put up with this. There has to be trust and respect in a true relationship and this is neither. Don't stand by and let him do this to you. 💜	/r/RedPillWomen	14/09/18 04:48 PM
8	Will soon be quitting my job and becoming a full-time housewife. I (26f) want to impress my husband (31m) with how well I take on the role, so what advice do you have? A basic flexible household cleaning/laundry/errand schedule, tweaked as needed. A running grocery list. And, meal planning if that helps you. A place for everything and a routine to keep it there. Also, a little fun built in just for you! Best wishes 😊	/r/RedPillWives	03/08/18 04:54 PM
1	Are there any other big wives here? Yay!! I feel the same. There is nothing like it!	/r/RedPillWives	26/07/18 10:53 PM
3	Are there any other big wives here? You are welcome. I don't usually give advice, but this truly works and I have first-hand knowledge. I checked out the books from my library because I was certain this was another scam or something that I couldn't or wouldn't do and I certainly didn't need another weight loss book taking up space on my shelves! But when I started reading, something just clicked. I started on Jan 18, 2017 and I told NO ONE I was doing anything different until the weight began coming off.	/r/RedPillWives	25/07/18 06:41 PM
7	Are there any other big wives here? Please research Trim Healthy Mama. It is the ONLY thing that has ever made sense to me as a way to eat. It totally works! I was never obese, but I was larger than I wanted to be. But my main issue was just not being as healthy or feeling as good as I knew I could. I started Jan 2017 and I have lost 49 pounds. I am within 1 pound of my goal weight. You can get the book and cookbook probably at your library and there are a lot of THM facebook groups as well as the THM website and message boards to…	/r/RedPillWives	25/07/18 06:17 PM
5	Becoming a goddess of light! Perfect! I LOVE this! 💙😊	/r/RedPillWives	03/07/18 02:45 AM