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| 22 | Lessons my father taught meAverage guy is a slave to the pussy. How do you break free? By making getting pussy your goal for a short period of time (up to 2 years I'd say) and realizing that: It's not that hard to have sex It's not as great as you thought it is You will never truly internalize that unless you get laid. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/19 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Lessons my father taught meThanks, I will definitely work on expressing my thoughts more accurately. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/19 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Lessons my father taught meEarly 50s. I'm not in favor of excessive plate spinning myself, but I believe that every man should have sex with at least 10 women before thinking about finding an LTR. I think it was doable in his 20s. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/19 03:21 AM |
| 19 | Lessons my father taught meI'm glad to hear that. Good luck, brother. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/19 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Unmarried couples living apart have the highest levels of sexual satisfaction while married couples are among the least satisfied, finds a new German study (n=3,207) of sexual satisfaction among seven relationship-status groups. Only unmarried individuals with no partner scored lower than married.Correlation shows that there is something going on and it might be a good starting point to do research, in our case: What kind of men decide to get married? How "alpha" are they? How did their behavior change after putting a ring on it? How dominant are they? That statistic is a really good indicator that there's some underlying cause that makes women want fuck their husbands less. But by itself it proves nothing. A good example of that fallacy: If there's a small fire, small amount of firemen … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/19 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Unmarried couples living apart have the highest levels of sexual satisfaction while married couples are among the least satisfied, finds a new German study (n=3,207) of sexual satisfaction among seven relationship-status groups. Only unmarried individuals with no partner scored lower than married.Something something "correlation proves causation" fallacy. Statistics like this shouldn't be used as a proof that marriage makes spouses fuck each other less. This is a common fallacy to think that because thing A is related to thing B, so A causes B. It's wrong, correlation doesn't imply causation. As someone pointed in the comments, there can be a lot of explanations for that phenomenon, for example chodes marrying the first girl they met because they don't think they can do any better, and C… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/19 01:16 AM |
| 11 | 20 year old plate just told me her body count....True, but the time frame upon which they judge men varies. A random Joe may not be the highest value man in her whole life, but right there and then in the bar or at the party. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 04:20 PM |
| 9 | 20 year old plate just told me her body count....Imagine you were hit on every time you go out. Women are fighting for your attention and are down to suck your dick right then and there. No consequences at all. Just pure fun. Wouldn't your N-count be high as well? Because mine certainly would. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 03:27 PM |
| 3 | I'm learning that as a man nobody is going to step in and give me a helping hand if things go downhill. As a result I am gradually taking on more and more responsibility because I'll be damned if I go down as a victim.Congratulations man, it's nice that you're putting yourself together. People here like to shit on Jordan Peterson, but he's really helped me. I'm in my mid 20s myself and thanks to his videos I've been putting my life together for almost a year now. I started cleaning up my room, writing down my thoughts, fighting bad habits and addictions, dealing with my problems myself. It's not always easy, and sometimes I do feel overwhelmed by life and my own flaws, but overall I've never been better. Keep… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | After being a part of the TRP community for 5+ years, here is my #1 observation I have of the community: Most of you are not ready for LTRs.While I agree with your claim that the majority of people here are not ready for an LTR, I don't agree with your 25/25/25 rule. It feels like you just chose an arbitrary number that would look good when wrote three times next to each other. 25 months - some people are so traumatized, socially awkward and damaged it might take years for them to fix themselves. Some are naturally alpha and just need a bit of polishing up their social skills, or focusing on lifting and being dominant. 25 years - wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/19 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Isn't the divorce rate statistic irrelevant in TRP context?That hit home. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Isn't the divorce rate statistic irrelevant in TRP context?That's just your speculation. TRP people like to point out how logical their minds are, so I'm curious how they would address my argument. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Girl I orbited drove 300 miles one way to sleep with me. TRP lessons work, let everyone on the outside call them whatever they like. This advice works.Congrats man, your journey is impressive and inspirational. Stay hungry, don't settle for any girl, keep lifting and focusing on your career. Keep it up! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/19 05:38 AM |
| 2 | 20M. I don't have a strong father figure. My parents (mom and dad), treat me like a snowflake and have spoiled me . How do i become more disciplined, masculine and tough?roasting in a group I live in the US and English is my second language, so it's not easy to be witty for me. My technique when being roasted is laughing and staying relaxed, like I heard a good joke. Don't show that it got to you. Just look the guy in the eye and laugh, you don't have to say anything. Then when you are more confident you can agree and amplify, like with shit tests: Dude, you look gay as fuck. I actually fucked a guy once to see if I like it. Did your mom buy you that shirt? No, … | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 12:13 AM |
| 2 | "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP layFirst I was feeling her ass and books through clothes. Then I shoved my hands under her shirt, felt her boobs through her bra, then under the bra, took of the shirt and bra. Then I was feeling her pussy though pants, unzipped them and continued touching her pussy through her underwear. She took the pants off, I took off her panties and I fingered her for two hours because she wouldn't cum. After that we took a break to just talk and laugh, I wanted to continue, but she was like "I want to make y… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/19 10:01 PM |
| 3 | "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP layThanks for that comment. I believe you're right, I am lucky and as I recall my past lays, I often was weak and not taking the lead. A lot of the times the girl had pretty much spread her legs right in front of me without me initiating anything. Thank you, I realized I have to be more proactive and courageous. Cheers! | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/19 03:43 PM |
| 2 | "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP layYeah, it kinda seems like a contradiction, so here's more context. Because of my anger phase, I was utterly disinterested in meeting women. I went MGTOW, but after a while I started missing female companionship. When going out with this girl, I still had my mindset "you are a fucking psycho who wants to divorce rape me" though. I saw the opening for the kiss, but I simply wasn't sure if I want to invest more time in this girl. I knew sex wouldn't happen (perhaps a mistake on my part), so I didn'… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/19 05:28 PM |
| 11 | "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP layI've heard this line "we're not having sex" before in different variations ("I have to pace myself" for example), it's a standard line a girl says when she doesn't want to feel slutty and just wants sex to happen. The next morning we were making out and fore-playing on her couch, when I told her "let's listen to some music in your room". A fun and indirect way of saying "let's have sex". | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/19 05:23 PM |
| 3 | "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP layValid question, did she win? Yes and no. Yes - I told her the truth that I'm not seeing anyone else. No - I still plan to go on dates and not give my exclusivity easily. She seems like a good LTR material, but I need more vetting. Four dates to smash can seem like a lot, but honestly I don't care. She might have fucked other guys on third, second, first dates, or maybe she even gave head to a random guy in a club, while another guy was fucking her ass - I don't care. She's not my girlfriend, she… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/19 05:21 PM |
| 3 | "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP layI enjoy making girls cum. I tried to make her cum by fingering her, I got her a few times to the edge, but she never could orgasm for some reason. I'm patient, so whatever, I enjoyed my time. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/19 05:10 PM |
| 4 | "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP layShe told me she was surprised because usually after she said that guys would leave. I just shrugged and continued as if she didn't say that, making out, taking her clothes off etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/19 05:03 PM |
| 2 | "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP layAfter 15 minutes of messaging on Tinder I had a girl come over, I didn't enjoy it. As simple as that. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/19 05:02 PM |
| 10 | "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP layApparently you know me better, so fine. I am a beta cuck. And you wasted your precious time on a beta cuck. Have a nice day. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/19 04:58 PM |
| 60 | "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP layGay hipster shit is my specialty. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/19 03:53 PM |
| 19 | "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP layOK, so you wasted four dates, wasting hours of your precious time on each one, to fuck a simple Tinder slut. I no longer have joy in casual, quick sex. I tried that, was fun for a while, but now it's not anymore. I chose to try to actually get to know the girl. That way sex is more enjoyable for me. I chose that. Not everyone has to be a Chad Thundercock fucking a girl 10 seconds after meeting her. I don't aspire to be that guy. Does it make me less of a man? You have idealised her in your mind.… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/19 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Is the TRP standard for a woman worth LTRing unrealistic?Thanks for you reply, solid points. Also tbh, 1 in 1000 is not really that hard as you think. If you approach 10 women daily, statistically you'll meet that girl every 3 months roughly speaking. Now I'm aware that rarely anyone here approaches, let alone 10 girls a day, however over the course of 10 years of implementing TRP (20s to 30s, or 30s to 40s, which I believe includes greater part of the community) , you are highly likely to meet that kind of girl, LTR-worthy at least once. So if you th… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Is the TRP standard for a woman worth LTRing unrealistic?Personally I won't mind if the girl n-count is 10. (basically anything smaller than mine is fine, I guess it's an ego thing). It's super unrealistic to expect a girl that's 21+ to have a low n-count. It is possible, I personally know a girl who is 26, a decent 8 and has only seen 2 dicks in her life (yeah yeah, TRP is gonna yell at me for believing her, but I know her really well to know she's being honest). But it's not something I would require for an LTR. The main point of my post is to sho… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 04:01 PM |
| 2 | "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it"Next time you see a smoking hot girl, observe your reaction. Compare it to your reaction when you see an average girl. You'll be more calm during the approach, you'll maintain the frame easier if you get intimate with her, you'll less likely to develop oneitis for her and it's gonna be easier to move on if you break up. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/18 03:44 PM |
| 7 | "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it""Wise man learns from his mistakes, wiser from other people's mistakes". Be the wiser man. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/18 01:47 PM |
| 8 | "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it"True. That's the reason why I'm here, to un-beta myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Is the TRP standard for a woman worth LTRing unrealistic?Alright, I can agree with that. TRP is after all a toolbox, not a philosophy or a lifestyle. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Is the TRP standard for a woman worth LTRing unrealistic?Because TRP is about self improving, so that in consequence we can have sex with women we desire. We don't desire 1s or 2s, but 9s or 10s, right? But yeah, I guess for me the girl has to be "pretty enough", so anything above and including 7 is fine for me. Also I read that 10 is riding the CC. Personally that's not that bad, but that's what TRP in general preaches. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 01:44 AM |
| 0 | Is the TRP standard for a woman worth LTRing unrealistic?who gives a fuck Me and my curiosity of other people's opinion make your own standard Here I'm discussing ideas, not looking for a girlfriend as I said in the beginning what do you hope to accomplish with this thread A discussion that will hopefully teach me something new. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 01:34 AM |
| 3 | "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it"Thanks for the advice. In hindsight, this is definitely what I could have done. But to be honest, I didn't notice that opening, because I was butthurt about the rejection, and still to this day I'm not that huge into fucking a girl that's taken. I'm not sure if the pleasure is worth all the drama that follows. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/18 12:34 AM |
| 14 | "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it"That's the very reason why I haven't talked to her since. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/18 11:07 PM |
| 17 | "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it"Yeah, after she left I realized I had an opening there. I was trying my best not to show it, but I was a little butthurt about that rejection, that I didn't notice that she might have been down to stay. Oh well, I won't make this mistake again. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/18 05:43 PM |
| 10 | "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it"Love. Three guys have told her "I love you" this year. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/18 05:27 PM |
| -7 | Plate's n-count increased significantly after a year of no contact, is it wise for me to pursue an LTR with her?Yes, because I personally don't care, but I wanted to consult TRP. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 05:48 PM |
| 2 | I alpha widowed two girls so far and I feel badFair point, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 07:25 PM |
| 8 | "I don't feel so good today, so we won't have sex, ok?"If I met her now, she would be a plate at best. After learning TRP I realized she was a living red flag, so sex would be the only thing I'd want from her. That's why I'm asking. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Old plate hits me up, tells me she now has a boyfriendI mentioned the movies, because we made a list of movies that we wanted to watch. But yeah, watching movies is a rather unoriginal excuse to have sex. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 03:55 AM |
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