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Question for RedPillBlueFairyPainter/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 12:32 AM
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That's exactly how I feel too. Also, guys here think that visual attraction at first glance is everything but overlook that that mostly just helps you find someone in the first place. And like you said, while the statistical chances are much lower, most average guys manage to find someone somehow. And then, things like personality and sexual compatibility are much much more important to keep the spark once you are in the relationship. They see men in relationships whom they don't find attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:42 PM
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I defined "incel" as a set of problematic behaviors, mentalities, maybe even a cult of sorts. These problems may have been driven and enhanced by sexlessness but at least in our circles (as always, ymmv), "incel" does not mean its literal words so even if the insult is traced back to its meaning, the meaning is the behavior, not their circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:19 PM
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You got it backwards, I only call people who have fucked up views regarding women and sex because of sexual frustrations, whether they are complete virgins or just unsatisfied, incels. Incels has become a label that comes with culture and symbolism way beyond just being a sexless dude and by far not all involuntary celibates identify with that term nor will I call them that for that reason. See it as some kinda "incelTM". And I judge them not for their lack of romantic success but for the way th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:51 PM
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Ok, I'll bite. I'm a woman who uses this term and who has mostly male friends that also use this term. I know that many of you won't believe a word of what I'm about to write, and that is exactly what this term is about. It is not about shaming a guy for wanting sex and not getting it. I'm in CS and I know plenty of wonderful men who are sexless for all kinds of reasons. It's much, much more about how they deal with that fact as well as why they are stuck in that pit. The "insult" is used much m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:03 AM
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I don't write much here because I feel I'd be wasting my time trying to argue against the more conspiratory mindsets. But this one, even if the initial question is clearly biased, I thought I might have a teenie tiny chance of making a difference, opening, if not changing, someone's mind. Being in tech, I meet a lot of men whom I can imagine not knowing what women do in their free time, simply because they spend all their lives in their own spaces. Many of them are genuinely nice people, too, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:56 AM
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I crochet, which is a mostly-female community. And so are sewing and embroidery. I play the flute, and flute players (and players of many of the other smaller, more "delicate" instruments) are mostly female. I play the piano, which is pretty much 50/50. Guitar seems slightly male-leaning but women love men who can play the guitar. I draw, paint, edit photos, 3D-model and some other artsy stuff. Gender ratios differ depending on what style or area of application you are in, e.g. game concept arti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:36 AM
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Oh god my dad did the exact same thing. Fortunately, not with any regularity. He'd try to show us that "it's not just your mom who knows how to cook", and then proceed to dig up all the utensils in the kitchen to make something that could've been made in a pan and maybe a pot. Even with a dishwasher it took my mom the rest of the day to clean that mess up…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 11:01 AM
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Somewhere between 2 and 3. It's real, but affects different males differently. In my social circles almost every guy who wants sex gets it. The rest have an "it happens when it happens" attitude and would only have sex within a relationship and would only get into a relationship with someone they genuinely like. I only know one guy who wants sex but doesn't get it. So my personal experience would say "2, they are volcels if at all". It's only because of you guys here that I think incels could be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 10:51 AM
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Yes, I certainly do. Both genders have struggles but men's struggles are largely ignored these days. That's also kinda the reason I don't really want to label myself as feminist, even though I can relate to large parts of the movement, because the name itself is so focused on women only. The only time I stop feeling sympathy is when they are actively hostile towards me for being a woman and still expect me to like them somehow? Fortunately, in the real world, the average guy is not like that. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 02:33 AM
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I don't think that deviating from traditional masculinity is costly per se. The curve for attractiveness as feminine traits increase would first go up, and after a while go down exponentially. Being uptight about your fragile masculinity is unattractive and unfun. When I say that I like men who break a few rules, the point lies in a few. It's directed at the men who are too afraid to be more open with what to try and what to like. I think that's the point that gets misinterpreted. It's directed …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 10:49 AM
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Rape, birth control sabotage that the other party has no knowledge of, and last but not least, even the safest birth control does have a chance of failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 07:48 AM
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Feminism is (or at least should be) about equality of opportunity. As long as your desire to be a patriarch still gives women the choice to be independent it is okay. If a couple decides they want a power dynamic, in or outside the bedroom, it's their thing and should not be problematic, in fact, one could even say it is great that people nowadays have the freedom to choose whatever dynamic they want. BUT if you mean your desire to be a patriarch includes forcing your ideas on random people arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:39 PM
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This is kinda why I see myself as purple but you see me arguing against reds only. I agree with many of the core ideas but the way they approach it all, the intentions behind their actions and how some of them spread misinformation about women based solely on the few women in their lives, can get pretty disturbing at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 08:36 PM
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I agree, it's all pretty complicated once you try to include all edge cases. I know about porn addiction, nofap, deathgrip and all these but I cannot say what goes on in their minds, whether they really are horny or it's something else that drives them. I don't think we ever actually disagreed much aside from these definitions being unclear, leading to different conclusions. Thank you for one of the few reasonable discussions I've had on here, they seem to get more and more rare by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 09:52 AM
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My point was never whose sex drive was objectively higher or lower. I just wanted to clarify that the percentage of people you find appealing and the percentage of your waking time where you desire someone do not have to be the same and that just because there are few people you find attractive, it does not mean you never feel sexually attracted to someone. And that "half of the time" was me saying that I myself am not the super high sex drive woman this comment thread was talking about. It was …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 09:19 AM
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It's not 1% of the time, it's 1% of the men in our lives. I am in a long term relationship with my 1% man. And even though my sex drive is not that crazy high, I'd say I lust after him about half of the time we're together. If I stay with him for the rest of my life, I wouldn't say that 1% was that insignificant after all. It's really about what a man should be prepared for in case they find themselves in a long term relationship with a high sex drive woman. How rare the case of getting into a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 08:12 AM
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Woman here. What do I even get from lying anonymously on reddit? I know I have a sex drive, I know my girl friends have it, some random guy on reddit claiming otherwise is just… idk man. It feels like me saying men are incapable of feeling happiness because of the miserable posts I read on here. It's stupid and I feel stupid for feeling the need to even having to argue about myself. With a stranger who does not know me. Maybe that helps you realize how weird this whole thing is from another pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 06:11 PM
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There are things where I believe women are still oppressed and if asked, yes, I would prefer it were different, but my life's good and I got more important shit to do. It's kinda like enjoying someone's music without being a fan. It really comes down to the lack of enthusiasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 09:28 PM
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I have never used these products. I think I'm more reactive. It takes a certain mindset for me to be really into it and there are times where I just can't stop thinking about these things. Not sure if that's enough to be called active though. I've been taking birth control for as long as I'm sexually active so I don't know about that. The times directly before and after and during my period are the times I am most sensitive. Most things feel better during this period so it's easier for my partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 06:22 PM
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Reality is in no way as black and white as that, there are men pursuing relationships and women wanting casual sex and people are getting together in all kinds of ways. But the tendency is there. And as long as men have a higher demand and women don't care/don't want a man, women will get to choose. What do you think of women getting taught not to have premarital sex or sex out of relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 07:37 AM
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Take a look at chats from r/nicegirls and imagine getting those texts. Maybe it'll be more relatable then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 07:19 AM
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In a hypothetical world where every single woman only wants sex in a relationship and every single man only wants to have casual sex, there are only two choices for both groups: change or have no sex until the other group gets desperate enough. And if men are unwilling to change because "why should we have to change", take a step back and think, why should women? You can't really resent anyone one group. Both are trying to make the best out of what they have. Nature made us unbalanced, some thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 11:36 PM
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Most of the time, it's not something the guy can work on. If I have to over-analyze the reasons I don't like this guy or that guy, my primary reason is I have a boyfriend and legit do not feel attraction towards other guys. But even when I'm single, there are people I feel a spark with and people where there is none. I've once tried dating a guy who was a great person and physically attractive but the chemistry just wasn't right. What should I have told him to work on when I broke up with him? S…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 11:16 PM
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Criticism is one thing, even though I think the only criticism that makes sense after a rejection is if it was too harshly or executed badly. But from what I've seen on r/niceguys, those outbursts are far from constructive criticism. "You didn't deserve me anyway slut haha you will regret this later" and messages of this kind are pathetic and childish and - and that was the point of r/niceguys from the very beginning - not nice at all. The title itself is meant in a sarcastic way. Sometimes thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 11:06 PM
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Doesn't really matter, does it? If a person looks at you funny, whether there's more to it or not, you don't owe them anything. Just like eye contact with strangers can be really awkward and make you uncomfortable, I have all the right in the world to feel just the more uncomfortable if I'm getting repeated long stares from strangers. Sex theory stuff aside, if a generic stranger did that to you, you'd feel put off as well, wouldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 10:52 PM
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I'd say there are two types of girls that like nerdy guys. Those who love nerd media/culture can mostly be found on conventions. From my experience they are very inclusive and accepting because they, too, are social outliers outside of their little meetings so there's a feeling of belonging and deep mutual understanding even though you are complete strangers. Just find the courage to talk to any group, preferably cosplayers and start a conversation about the thing they are cosplaying. If you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 03:37 PM
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Can't agree more. I don't look very feminine. No make-up, simple hoodie and jeans look. I'm decently groomed, just not dolled up. But I am feminine in my nature. I like all the relaxing cute and fluffy things and like making the people around me feel as warm and comfortable. I enjoy making my partner a tea when he's not feeling well while helping him bugfix his code. I know we're a minority, but we exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 03:09 PM
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So it's about if there is a willing man, it's possible for her to cheat. So it's like if there is a big enough window, it's possible for people to jump, even though most people don't. There are a lot of possibilities for all kinds of things, and under the right circumstances, every person who fits these circumstances could do some random thing you like to focus on. What's even your point then? Seriously curious what you gain from making up a rule that applies to every single thing in this world …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 01:48 PM
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Many of the women there would have left the guys alone because they had nothing to do with them. But the thing is, it's those guys who started it. I don't know what you think, but to me, no matter if it's a man or a woman, if they text me bullshit like the guys (or sometimes girls) in subs like r/niceguys do, I just want them to leave me the fuck alone. Maybe not die in a fire, but most of the time it's their fault for provoking someone first. Wouldn't ostracize a man for saying "hi" or anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 11:41 PM
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That's exactly me. Used to have mostly female friends as a child, then puberty came and I felt so judged by a lot of women, I couldn't feel comfortable being myself anymore. I know it's by far not all women, but in groups just two friends all of a sudden hating each other and being in between is stressful enough. I do have casual contact with a few women and two closer female friends who stay away from all the drama like me but my friends are mostly male because most of the time, it's just more …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 10:40 PM
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Why would it be a red flag to you? As in, what do you deduce from the fact that she has no female friends? And why is it bad? Own insecurities or do you believe that women who don't get along with other women must be different in a bad way?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 10:25 PM
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It should be so obvious that modern day feminism is a huge joke that has been taken way too far. I actually feel insulted for being packed with them for being more or less blue pill and a woman. This discussion has been there a thousand times and just understand that they won't understand. Please. It hurts to see people try to argue against them. Just let them be and let them feel like the snowflakes that they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 02:47 AM
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To me, AWALT is ridiculous not in that it generalizes women and takes away some snowflake narrative or whatever justification TRP has for people disliking this part of their theory. Imho, it's even way too general, I could replace the word "woman" with "humans" and I'd still think it fits. Humans are selfish. Humans want the best for themselves. Humans like to fuck physically attractive people. Humans enjoy being financially stable. Hell, when some TRP guys use AWALT as an argument, it almost so…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 09:13 AM
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I'd say "Player" vibes are indicative of a high n count and thus, women who seek out LTRs try to avoid them. Enough women who are just there for the fun and likely have a high n count themselves certainly do love the players. Which again leads to that it's more indicative of compatibility. I kinda agree with both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 08:48 AM
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It's really the attitude that makes the difference. I even agree with many of the observations of TRP. But the selfish attitude towards women is what leaves me Purple Pill. I can totally see why saying things like "All men think about is sex. As long as they get sex they're happy" is fucking disrespectful and condescending towards men. The same content wrapped in something like "Men like sex a lot. It makes them happy when we have sex with them. I like seeing them happy" and see? It's a lot less…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 01:47 AM
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I'm using an extreme because way too many people don't seem to understand that you don't need bruises on your physical body to not be fine. If it tells you anything at all, I have Asian parents. "Stay healthy so you can move your ass to school and don't you dare spending time having fun because that will surely make your grades bad so I can't brag about it on WeChat to rub it into my backstabbing online friends' faces which is the only source of happiness for a parent." And if you ask, no, I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 12:38 AM
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If I get a cold, they'd nurse my body as well as they can so I can go to school asap. At the same time, they blame me for staying up late (sometimes for school work!), going out to have fun with friends even during the day, saying it's physically exhausting for my body and there are all kinds of germs outside, for not eating all kinds of veggies (you can never eat enough because this is clearly just an excuse), and give me hour-long talks about how I should have listened to them. Sure, if I list…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 11:56 PM
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He has to charm me before he can show me how well he fucks. And I love a guy who can play me. Not a bad guy who treats me terribly but one that knows how to tease me, one that is witty enough to be a mental challenge, one that can diss me and challenge me to fight back. I need the ups and downs of these playful mindgames to keep things interesting. The good guy is friendly and nice. After a year, he's still friendly and nice. But that actually gets boring just like people who have more than enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/16 10:40 PM
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This. Can't speak for all women because I can't read minds but as much as my brain says don't be an emotional bitch, I can't help emotions. They just come up and make me upset. The only solution I have right now is quitting the conversation with the excuse that I know that everything I will say from that point on is going to be emotional ranting. I really wish there was a way for me to just stop being who I hate. Women becoming more emotional while on hormonal birth control that contain female h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/16 10:22 PM
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Is running away from a murderer selfish because I am denying him the satisfaction of killing me because I did things he dislikes? Yes, I am doing it for me but there's clearly a limit to how much you live for others and shit on your own well-being. Not like my parents are gonna kill me - they've always treated my body well - but that's all. How they treat and affect my emotions and mental stability is a whole other story and I do not wish to hear another judgmental word from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/16 08:59 AM
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I wouldn't lie to my partner. If I can't trust them to know my truths, that would be a bad relationship. Thing is, because of circumstances I HAVE to deal with my parents so I'd better keep it peaceful. Family are the only people you can't choose. Either you're compatible and have a good relationship but unlike partners, I can't break up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 07:13 PM
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Sure thing people don't want to be lied to. I wouldn't want to either but what's done is done, I'm not a virgin, not gonna become a nun either. This makes me a hypocrite, saying how important honesty is and lying to my own parents, but really, they have formed a complete exception for me. Usually I can chose the people I want to be with to be people I can be honest with. They are the only ones I can't. To me, it's like having to play a role in front of them, a role the real me hates, including t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 05:53 PM
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I'm from Germany and that was something that I did a presentation on during highschool. When my friend and I received this topic, we were hyped because it seemed so easy to judge it as an unimportant issue, seeing as the world is FAR from being a peaceful place. The reactions we got, especially from our usually totally okay teacher (and highschool kids don't say that about many teachers!), hit us hard in the face with the downsides of what people call feminism nowadays. Ever since then I've been…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 09:27 AM
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You could, even if your expectations would disappoint you time and again. The few women who do stay then, would be people who have passed all your "tests".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 08:38 AM
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Ah riiiight, those 16 personalities. Did the test before but I don't remember my results so I did the test again, turns out I'm an INFP. I would not full on reject a man in the making but if he seems too immature, insecure and not emotionally stable enough to handle a possibly tough relationship at all, I wouldn't want to start one with him. That goes for LTRs though. Never did ONSs but I can imagine that as long as the chemistry is good and he isn't so whiny about his bad sides that he becomes …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 08:22 PM
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Haha, I totally get your girlfriend's mindset. I also hate that nagging girlfriend stereotype, I don't want to be the jealous stalker, the emotional shittalker, the money burning oven, the starfish in bed, things like these. I'm not a starfish because that's just not the way I am, I feel extremely guilty when he spends too much money on me so I try to always split it evenly and when he pays more here and there, I'd treat him to an ice cream on hot summer days or something like that. He has helpe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 07:55 PM
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Sad but true. Maybe one day it'll finally be completely normal for girls to ask guys out? Thing is, some people even think that girls HAVE TO play hard to get. As if actively asking guys out devalues them in some way. And then there are these weird tumblr feminists who are too fat, ugly, bitchy, everything, to get a guy's attention and then complain about body shaming and say that everyone is beautiful without working on themselves. And when they do get some attention they complain. I seriously …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 10:00 AM
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Ah I see. If he kindly offers to take over my share of work, I'd be a dick to demand more, makes sense. I was thinking of a completely different scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 09:39 AM
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That's actually pretty sweet :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 08:26 AM
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Mopping the floor is a bit much unless they are trying to clean the whole house and she is still occupied with something that's gonna take a while. But taking out all the garbage at once seems convenient and logical to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:43 AM
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I went and assumed from your first comment you weren't in a relationship. Seems I assumed wrong! A slut and conservative? For me, they kind of contradict each other but that depends on which aspects of conservative you mean. Not all relationships are made to last so it's good to see you enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:40 AM
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If I encountered a woman with a weapon I'd be just as scared. It's just about the potential danger. If she's unarmed, it's most likely she'd have no chance against you even if she tried. I'm the small creature that has to fear everyone physically as even any 14y/o girl is stronger than me. But I have to live with that. Thanks for the comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:33 AM
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I really hope it's true. The internet hates you but some of you seem really nice. I wouldn't date anyone that I couldn't be friends with either. These standards sound totally okay on paper, too. The only thing I can see a problem with is the nagging. It would not be okay for me not to be allowed to complain or ask for things. So it's really the extent of it that forms the thin line between that and nagging. What do you think? How much is too much for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:24 AM
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Currently in a LTR with a loving MRA-ish guy so there's no need to attract anyone new, just looking for grudges men might hold against women that some non-TRP men are just too afraid of speaking out loud. Partly for potential self-improvement and partly out of mere interest. Never heard of RPWi, what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:16 AM
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Glad to hear that. Not asking you to dictate my life, not like I'd just mindlessly follow an internet stranger either. Just always looking for ways to improve myself and trying to get hints on things I'm still a bitch at. Modern society has made it a crime to say a word against women so I'm trying to get honest opinions here. Can you elaborate on the "something deeper"? Is there something women could do to to help you with finding it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:11 AM
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Not really that interested in the literature itself but the effect it has on people. Reality is way more interesting than theory. The thing I hate most is hate. Sounds weird but it's true. If I am the object of hate, it's hard for me not to dislike you guys which is why I am asking if and to which extent I am. And just as I stated that women are simply there, men are there, so I was asking about what you would like me to be. I don't expect much more of men than to not hate us unconditionally. Pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:01 AM
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Have you seen r/tumblrinaction ? These SJW are outright hilarious. Sad that mankind's gotten there but this sub is really entertaining if you want to get more internet brain cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 05:45 AM
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Fair enough. Wanna share which things are most important to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 05:35 AM
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It's easy for people to say don't jump to conclusions and that you might misunderstand people. Of course you shouldn't make conclusions based on skin color or gender alone, but you can never know everything either. Your whole brain works based assumptions that maximize the chances of a good outcome for you. You see this, you hear that, you conclude something. If chances look good, you might wanna check but else? I'll give u/darksoldierk the benefit of the doubt and believe him that it's not the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 05:31 AM
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Makes sense. If gender is unimportant, does that mean that you just don't pursue love and relationships at all? Even if you fall in love with a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 04:51 AM
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If my partner can't deal with some wild past (which I don't have so I'll be speaking theoretically here), it would add to the reasons NOT to settle for this partner. Can't do the same with parents and even if most people do say family are the closest people you'll ever have, sadly it's not so true for everyone. Not that I have abusive parents but in some aspects (esp. career choices and sexuality) I'd rather not have them there. I enjoy thinking about stuff like this and sharing opinions so than…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 11:48 PM
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Just as there are these terrible women out there, and as a woman, I do say they are the worst, and that I feel shame for being a woman and sadness when being put into the same category as them, there can be terrible men who hate all women. You can choose to be that man or a good man like most men I know. Men are great. Most of my friends are male because they are funny and witty and do horrible jokes that make me laugh that most females I know would never dare saying. If you don't believe there …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 07:44 PM
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Yeah in the end I do. But I expect the most honesty out of the person you chose to be with. You can't chose your parents and if they forbid sex, you have to make a choice. Get disowned or whatever the consequences, abstain from sex just to be able to play their little princess or just tell your conscience over and over again that this lie is an okay one. Sad but true :/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 07:30 PM
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I can only assume you're trolling. Why the hell would you label people high and low value? That guy sounds logical and mature to me. Sticking to a girl totally lovesick for eternity no matter what her reaction is is either hardcore disney princess "There's only one in each life" bs that leads to frustration or just stalker-ish creepy. And I'd always consider a guy's advice. Even if they've never had to ask a guy out, they are the guy and might share an interesting perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 01:04 AM
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I'll just trust reddit's anonymity here but no, he didn't support me emotionally and that was totally fine. I had my share of teen problems but he was facing harder times. Two of his best friends died in a car accident and another friend of his who was my classmate was found dead in a lake. A dear cousin of his was ill with cancer. It's totally understandable that he had no nerves left for a girlfriend's emotional tantrum about having no friends. Though what did bug me in the end was that he cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 12:07 AM
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The people I lie to the most are my parents because they are conservative and would be shocked to know everything about me. I really hate saying something that is not the truth. If I want to spare feelings, I tell them that they might not want to hear and that they should be prepared. Most times I do tell the hard truth others are grateful. If I'm being confronted head-on, I'll try to tip-toe around it until the other gets the message. "Do you like this dress?" "I liked the yellow dress from las…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 11:47 PM
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Even if I've never been a man, I would guess it's the same as the men saying they want sex and that it's a dilemma when they want sex and get none in their monogamous relationship. Makes you feel undesired by your partner, makes you resent your partner for "denying you the chance of getting sex elsewhere" in a way (if monogamous). Pretty sad outcomes in the long run. As for what he was like, he had lots of hobbies and we had many in common. Drawing, painting, making music, gaming, he also liked …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 03:20 PM
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It might be damn fucking rare but without being pro-minority SJW, there are cases like these where it's the woman who wants sex and the man does not. Was referring to the part about how it's not cruel when a woman doesn't get sex. Imo even if the general tendency is that men want sex more than women, a woman's sexual drive should not be ignored. Blue walls hurt, too!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 03:15 PM
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I'm a woman and I couldn't stand a relationship without sex… My first boyfriend declared himself asexual after we broke up and said he felt forced to have sex because of society's expectations on men to always want and be ready for sex. Just to throw in another perspective. But yeah, lying fucking hurts. No matter about what. Honesty has top priority for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 01:43 PM
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Sex releases hormones that help bonding, both for men and women. There's this thing called libido or sex drive, that also both men and women may or may not have, and to varying degrees. Fulfilling this need for sex feels good. It's as simple as that. In a non relationship setting you do your best not to fall in love, you try to separate emotions from sex. This is the only difficult part. The hormones tell you to fall in love but your brain clearly states no. For some it's easy, for others it's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 01:23 PM
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