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BlueIncal/r/seduction26/08/18 02:04 PM
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Its a great feeling isn't it? I would like to give you some advice as a fellow European. Ditch cold approach day time game. At least stop dedicating time of the day to go somewhere like a Mall to chat up women. You may get away with this in the states, but in Europe its considered creepy. The truth is its a low value thing to do in the first place. Talking to girls like you ended up doing, on a trip, is an environment where the interest is much more likely to be mutual (bored, same train, seeing…
/r/seduction03/07/20 02:51 PM
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Read through the FAQ’s and “guides”. At first the content you absorb may induce a bit of a system shock, especially if you come from a liberal/progressive background as I do. Its not going to make you misogynistic (Unless youre already bitter and are looking for external reasons to blame), it is however going to fundamentally change the way you view relationships. In my case its been for the better; I have a much healthier view on women and what they mean to me, and what my self worth is. Take t…
/r/seduction21/09/18 10:30 AM
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You want to make the girl feel as if things are “just happening” . This is important for her to not feel like a slut. So if you meet her in the city for some drinks, try to progressively move towards your place throughout your date night, so that by the time you feel you want to bring her home you’re only 10-20 minutes away. This makes it a lot easier to justify going to yours: “Lets go have some cake at my place, its a 10 min walk from here” What do you notice about my example ? Im not asking h…
/r/seduction21/09/18 07:50 AM
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Hard to tell from what you wrote, but you may be thinking too mechanically about Kino. You should really be starting with touches on the lower arm and upper back. Lower back sometimes before a kiss is also ok. Situation will dictate what is appropriate; Are you at a bar? Restaurant? Park? Have you met before? Have you kissed before? The body parts you mentioned are highly sensitive to touch and very erogenous; if you are not very experienced I recommend only touching those areas after the initia…
/r/seduction20/09/18 10:03 PM
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Art posters are also in if you live in Europe, something like Klimt's kiss, will always look better on a poster imo, as it would seen as "kitsch" to have such a renowned piece as a replica painting.
/r/seduction18/09/18 02:53 PM
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Definitely do not have sex with someone you dont want to do it with, this will make the experience ever more shitty. Find a girl who is into you and whom you feel you can be honest with. Game her like you’ve done with the other girls, except escalate until you’re about to have sex. Thats when you withdraw a bit and start to tell her you have to be honest with her. From personal experience, if the girl is into you she will think its cute that you’ve chosen her to be honest with - do not focus on …
/r/seduction16/09/18 02:46 PM
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Why are you scared? Do you have a form of ED? Are you otherwise insecure about your member? Are you scared you wont be able to satisfy the girl? You feel like you wont be ready? Heres a piece of advice that may be uncomfortable to hear. You know whats going to be the worst? If you end up sleeping with a girl you really like at the age of 34 and because you have never had sex before you end up looking like a fumbling 15 year old. She may like you back a lot, enough to forgive this and work with y…
/r/seduction16/09/18 10:15 AM
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This is the right answer. I actively follow politics (I am an International Relations and Politics student) And until recently I found it hard not to automatically stir conversations to the political. DO NOT feel the need to give up who you are (a political creature) in order to pick up women. Instead, leave the explicit political talk for platonic conversations, and learn to have "banter" with girls youre interested in. Additionally you can use your knowledge of politics to be witty around girl…
/r/seduction16/09/18 09:57 AM
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As far as my understanding of extroversion vs introversion goes, its not that youre less socially adept, its simply you extract energy from alone time as opposed to being around other people. You said yourself you can be really chatty if you feel like it, thats good! I recommend you make sure to have some nice alone time before going out be it for day game or night game. That way you wont already be drained from other social interactions when it comes down to it.
/r/seduction16/09/18 09:49 AM
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No one here can tell you based off of what you said/know. It doesnt matter, this was long ago, you really really need to move on - If I knew you personally I would be seriously concerned.
/r/seduction15/09/18 10:43 PM
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We all have difficulties in life, and there is nothing wrong with that. I have mine and you have yours. Yours unfortunately include obsessive behaviour ( you posting the same story multiple times through multiple accounts over a time span of months ), and you need to address this. Please get professional help.
/r/seduction15/09/18 10:02 PM
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Cold approach? Warm approach? Day? Night (club) ? I never ask if a girl is taken because generally, a girl will let you know if she has a bf/gf. More importantly, things aren’t always black and white with relationships. My last ltr started with me chatting up a girl from my class, exchanging numbers and then inviting her to a house party the very next day. She didnt tell me she had a boyfriend until we were dancing, grinding on each other with my face 2 inches away from hers. You know what this …
/r/seduction15/09/18 09:38 AM
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Solid. I would however be careful with cutting her out, OP is 16, friendships have a slightly different function at that age, he should be hanging around as many girls as possible at that age. Turn her into an ally if anything. This has helped me immensely in my growth as a sexual being: Spend time in platonic relationships with women and you will have a very different view on womanhood as opposed to just talking to guys about chicks.
/r/seduction14/09/18 09:50 PM
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Bless up. This is a welcome post amongst the slough of bs thats being posted as of late.
/r/seduction14/09/18 09:42 PM
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Reminds me of the high school kids on the trains...are for younger guys. Lmao not gonna deny that. Its definitely part of the appeal, having that kid energy definitely helps for opening in loud/hectic places. ..They’d get Asian coaches Yes.
/r/seduction13/09/18 05:45 PM
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Cheers, very interesting! I think it doesnt help that I like Maze’s vibe the most, yet he doesnt post a lot of infield. And even when he does it takes up a minimal amount of the video. In this respect I have found the content of Honest Signalz to be a lot more satisfying and informative.
/r/seduction13/09/18 05:34 PM
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I definitely see how they’ve got the emotional part down, they emphasise the importance of fun during pick up/gaming, which I like. My problem is that when I try to get into their content, it seems like now a days all their videos follow the same structure of 90% rehashed motivational talking, and only 10% infield. I personally learn through osmosis and repetition (I suspect Im not alone) so their video format doesn’t appeal to me..
/r/seduction13/09/18 02:29 PM
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Interesting, whats your personal take on RSD? Id be interested to hear your opinion.
/r/seduction13/09/18 10:59 AM
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lol thats me. I mean I live in Europe so my height ( 5'7 ) isnt to bad, but still.
/r/seduction12/09/18 09:05 AM
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Thank you for your answer. I infer from your tone that you find it tedious communicating what to you may be obvious ideas, to beginners. As to not bother you any more I would like to ask what literature and other media you have consumed and find crucial for the process of learning game.
/r/seduction10/09/18 09:14 AM
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Let me know if Ive got the gist right: Im more on the handsome/cute looking side of the spectrum. My escalation is decent, but I can tell many girls kiss me and then look at me thinking "boyfriend material, but tonight I want to fuck..." This is my own game issue. With this context OP's "questions" directed at me by a girl may have the implied meaning "Im afraid youre a virgin/youre inexperienced". In which case the appropriate response may be something along the lines of "Enough for me to know …
/r/seduction09/09/18 11:14 PM
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Great comment. Very pleasant and informative read. I only have one question: What did you answer to that last test you mentioned ;) ?
/r/seduction09/09/18 10:59 PM
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Great anecdote! Regarding mind games, you got any examples? I ask because I myself enjoy intellectual stimulation, however have a hard time projecting it in my game.
/r/seduction09/09/18 10:36 PM
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1) You see she's wearing a leather jacket and converse - shes probably into rock or at least will be amused if you tell her she looks like a rocker (if you say it playfully). She said during an ice breaker in one of the first classes that shes from a certain place: you can talk to her about that. You see her listening to music, so you use what I mentioned about observing her looks to make a "read" and tell her "let me bet you're listening to pink floyd". This is all observation. 2) Contrary to w…
/r/seduction09/09/18 10:31 PM
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Mind to expand what you mean by "mental foreplay" ? Sounds very interesting!
/r/seduction09/09/18 09:04 PM
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First off, remember that what you say isnt as important as how you say it (aka the energy you give off). Knowing what energy to project is like any social skill, you learn through trial and error and observation. With that said, what you say, should compliment whether you want a friendship, hookup, or long term relationship- If you think a girl is cute you probably have spent some time observing her. When you do this (maybe in class) dont just ogle her; look for information, like where she comes…
/r/seduction09/09/18 09:01 PM
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Society. We are products of culture and societal norm. The idea of an app that simply lets you hookup with other people sounds like a great idea to everyone. However many girls who are raised to be very conservative in their choice of sexual partners will have a hard time overcoming what they have been conditioned to think about having sex for fun with a stranger. It is your job to overcome these barriers and remind her of her primal drive.
/r/seduction08/09/18 05:09 PM
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I think youre going to have to play the social circle game to find what you're looking for. Others have already mentioned Uni Libraries and cafe's, I would also like to add your class. If you notice a cute girl in class who hits your criteria, walk up to her after class, start talking and either go on an insta-date or get her number.
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:59 PM
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I have adopted a single philosophy that has greatly help me reduce my anxiety in bed. She comes first . Foreplay is a must, and when things progress you should go down on her. Watch some videos, and read articles on how to eat pussy properly and then do it. Also once you feel youve been down there for a long time, stay another 10 minutes. It helps to have music playing in the background as it will give you an idea as to how long youve been down on her. Of course you should also be gauging her re…
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:54 PM
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Lets be real here, its pretty damn good and if anyone says otherwise they’re either a 9-10/10 or just a plain liar.
/r/seduction05/09/18 03:18 PM
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Could you expand on what you mean by that?
/r/seduction04/09/18 11:09 PM
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Very well written and interesting report! If I may ask, where are you based?
/r/seduction04/09/18 10:55 PM
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Absolutely. I would recommend you look into the tinder “algorithm” and learn how it works so that you can gameify the experience.
/r/seduction04/09/18 12:50 AM
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Look for something in their bio/pictures to make a witty/humourful comment on. Practice free association while out and about, it will help with developing “wit”.
/r/seduction04/09/18 12:10 AM
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Ive been using tinder for 47 days and I have received 65 matches. I used tinder gold for 27 of those days. I am white, 5’7 , and I would say from the women I have dated/hooked up with, I am between a 7 and 8. If shes into boyish looks and more “handsome” features Ive been placed at 8-9. Shows that personal preference matter! I live in a European capital.
/r/seduction04/09/18 12:00 AM
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“Tinder is shit for talking, you got whatsapp?” This is my go to line to get her number once I feel we’ve reached a point where we’re both interested in the conversation.
/r/seduction03/09/18 11:47 PM
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This is a situation of dont ask, tell. Instead of asking her whether she wants to have coffee, say “im heading to the cafe down the road, (care to*) join me!”. This can be added if you’re less certain about her level of interest. Ironically, It is important with many girls that you give her the feeling that youre not actually asking for a date. Instead you need to create the feeling that you truly desire to spend time at the cafe regardless of the girl and you just so happen feel like inviting h…
/r/seduction01/09/18 12:58 AM
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Sorry for the late response. Resources: Honest Signalz. Its the only "pick up" channel I ever watch with even remote consistency. Its not too heavy on the promotion of products like "bootcamps" which is what you really have to beware of with other pick up channels, because thats where they try and make pick up ultra complicated to give you the feeling you need to buy something in order to "get it". Honest Signalz is good because Vadim has a great grasp on "self amusement" which I personally thin…
/r/seduction30/08/18 01:12 PM
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Let me give you an anecdote that will hopefully give you confidence in your ability to read a girl. I went on a tinder date a couple weeks ago. 2 hours into the date we're sitting in a park next to each other and we're having good laughs, the conversation isn't even remotely sexual but she's slightly smiley and just ever so gently breathing heavier than usual. I go in for the kiss and she reciprocates. 4 years ago "being smiley and slightly heavy breathing" wouldnt have been indicators that she …
/r/seduction26/08/18 03:10 PM
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what was i gonna do chase her? Not chase, but seduce. It sounds like you didn't even know those hot girls, and they just randomly said "hey" to you and you didn't start chatting them up? Are you fucking kidding me? Heres what you do in this sort of situation, since I have the feeling you must be relatively good looking and this may repeat itself: They say "hey" to you (this is if they're strangers btw). You relax your face, maybe lift an eyebrow before turning towards them smiling and say hi bac…
/r/seduction26/08/18 02:53 PM
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Im sorry, but anyone else notice the time stamps on the tinder chat vs the chat they were afterwards through phone messenger? Dont really align properly, very fishy, someone care to explain?
/r/seduction26/08/18 01:48 PM
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This. English/German speaker here. Im starting to think we need a mega thread where german speakers give each other advice on how to flirt in German. At the moment I can only flirt through intonation, energy and kino when speaking in german. In english I can do all of the above, but I can also verbally flirt, I manage to be more teasing without being mean, while in german I feel like im insulting the person if I try to tease them!
/r/seduction24/08/18 08:26 PM
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He never said it was a white person thing.
/r/seduction22/08/18 04:43 PM
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Oh boy. Stop with this. Stop blaming PC culture and ""modern feminism"" for your own failures. There is plenty of good seduction based stuff out there, in fact its better than ever. Check out Honest Signalz.
/r/seduction13/08/18 10:55 PM
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Wow. Thank you for sharing, I was scared you may wanna keep them a mystery but its much appreciated!
/r/seduction11/08/18 09:23 PM
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Ok Im curious. What are your top 3 moves.
/r/seduction11/08/18 07:05 PM
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Concrete advice regarding social media, since you imply shes not a heavy texter. I used to be like that and so was my ex. You know whats a god sent for dealing with people like that? Snapchat. Because snapchat/instagram makes it feel a bit more genuine; She posts a pic/video, then you can respond to whatever is happening in said pic/video. This makes the start of the convo feel a lot more genuine instead of her picking up her phone and seein something along the lines of "hey whats up hope youre …
/r/seduction11/08/18 06:58 PM
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I recommend Honest Signalz, they approach a lot of native girls.
/r/seduction11/08/18 04:57 PM
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Invite one of your bros. A good friend of yours. You will have so much more fun with him/her than sitting next to a girl you like who doesnt like you back and knows you like her, youre gonna suffer.
/r/seduction11/08/18 04:28 PM
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Where are you from? I am willing to bet you live in Europe? I felt the same reading this. However I think what is at hand here is cultural differences, I can see OP's method working decently well in the more constantly chatty/outgoing atmosphere that Americans display.
/r/seduction11/08/18 04:20 PM
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Im going to go against the grain and recommend some non-pickup based stuff. I highly recommend you do some research on the philosophies of yoga and buddhism, as life styles, not religions. These are life philosophies that teach you that your self worth is without condition, and is inherent. I recommend this because I am not someone who believes that you will find long lasting happiness in basing your self worth on how many people you hookup with. With that said, check out r/MFA for fashion. Also…
/r/seduction11/08/18 03:09 PM
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People dont like you or dislike you. Its a scale. You know how there are some people in your life you like more than others? It doesnt mean that you dislike the other person, it just means you like someone else more. Well its kinda like that. These girls obviously thought you were cute, and they wanted to see whether they could get to know you, and perhaps even eventually like you on a deeper level, but we're getting ahead of ourselves. Please dont worry about game right now, you need to focus o…
/r/seduction11/08/18 03:02 PM
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Again, I wasnt there its hard to tell, but it sounds like you could have started talking to them. Mate I was serious with my previous reply. Get comfortable talking to people, in fact forget flirting for now, Im being dead serious. Your post history makes me think you have until recently perhaps not been the most sociable of people. Thats ok, everyone is different, but you need to start somewhere. Learning how to flirt before maintaining a conversation is like trying to sprint before you can wal…
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:58 PM
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u/Shbshshshsjap I wouldnt know, I wasnt there. All I know from what youve posted is that they wanted to talk to you. Whether they eventually want something more from you is largely up to how you decide to handle the situation. Listen I scooped around your post history a bit, and you worry to much. I saw the pictures you posted, you're a handsome lad! You're obviously more on the quite side, but you need to take things more at face value. Im a bit similar to you. People like us over think to much…
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:49 PM
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Take it slow. If you like this girl, take it slow. Treat her like a person you want to be friends with, except you escalate. Keep things casual and fun, and eventually she will reveal whether she is ready to have something more serious.
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:41 PM
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Lmao. As long as you're not basing your entire personality around giving high fives then I think you're good fam.
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:10 PM
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Go r/MFA and make sure you tick the boxes. Do a sport, any. Develop a deep passion for one non sport extracurricular activity, such as drawing, sowing, politics, whatever, just be passionate about something. Make as many female friends as possible, and talk to them. You will naturally develop your flirting skills when hanging out with girls, dont over think it. Be kind and helpful, but don't let people use you.
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:03 PM
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Go to every dance with the goal of having fun. Why would a girl want to be around someone who doesn't look like they're having fun? They may not even realise it, but more than a hookup, girls ultimately want a good time when they're out dancing. So really your game should be centred on the question of how do I infect the people, and specifically girls, with the fun that I'm experiencing. Concretely however asking a girl to dance requires one thing: confidence. There is nothing more lame for a gi…
/r/seduction11/08/18 01:57 PM
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Discard any self pity you have, and stop blaming your environment/external factors. You will see a change in your environment/interactions when: -You work on improving your inner self. -Practice/repetition. This is where also having female friends will help - learn how to talk to girls, what makes them laugh. Befriend girls and flirt with them all the time (obviously keep it appropriate, flirting isnt just sexual intention displayed in your choice of words, your intention can show in the way you…
/r/seduction11/08/18 01:38 PM
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Bro. Youre maybe not used to such direct attention, but yes they wanted to talk to you. They must be very cruel if they just wanted to mess with you. I really dont think thats the case. More than anything you should have taken the opportunity to open conversation; its rare for multiple women to give you direct opportunities to hop in on a flirty conversation. From the sounds of it I think you would benefit from going out with friends who are good at socialising and hooking up and observe the dyn…
/r/seduction11/08/18 01:22 PM
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Depends. All rules have exceptions. With some girls its a sign that they're bored, others that they're into you, and with some its just a tick/habit.
/r/seduction09/08/18 09:39 PM
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Some of the advice is solid. However some parts are silly and are selling you a fantasy. "Almost all the woman in the club will be atracted to you. Ok. Thats not really how it works.
/r/seduction07/03/17 02:47 PM
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