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Europe is a continent of 51 countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 12:52 AM
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And she’s a rich sexy actress herself, why should those traits alone keep her?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:56 PM
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Haha that comment in the OP made me laugh out loud for real. I doubt 98% of women even know what ‘beta uprising’ means, let alone feel anything above amused curiosity towards it. Note to self: stop spending so much time on Internet forums before you lose touch with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:58 PM
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Loving your kids unconditionally doesn’t have to equate to coddling them. A mother disciplining her child properly, or becoming disappointed in their behaviour, doesn’t mean they don’t love them anymore. Most women would say they love their kids unconditionally, regardless of parenting style.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 02:27 PM
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That was implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 02:24 PM
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Honestly it’s a lot better you’ve waited to get involved with them. Some people will call it ‘naivety’ but you’ve had time to build your self respect and boundaries without influence. Real naivety is letting men determine and push back your boundaries from a very young age. I wish I waited, I rue the years from 17-25 where I’ve let men determine my self esteem. Now at 27 I’m finally taking control of how I let myself be treated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:04 AM
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You just know that when some guy posts a story about a girl breaking his heart over some seemingly insignificant thing that it was simply the straw that broke the camel’s back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:55 PM
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How is that the same thing? If the question was about giving a man a blowjob obviously most women would say fine. But you asked about pissing on his head 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 03:59 PM
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I know right. My expectations for men are pretty low at this point but Jesus... 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:27 PM
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Gina is my self-confidence goals ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 05:59 PM
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Love this ❤️❤️❤️ I found this sub after having my LVM break up with me and although it’s helped immensely I can’t help but in low moments to have the exact mentality you’re talking about. I was way too openly interested, or I shared way too much of my sexual history, and how was he ever supposed to respect to me with that knowledge? But NO, he was supposed to respect me because he was actively telling me he did (while his actions showed otherwise) and that’s what you do with another human. He sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 05:56 PM
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Oh ye I know that. He didn’t manage to use it against me lol he just would try to use that angle. It only succeeded in making me find him pathetic and laugh, he’s a long gone ex. But yeah, if a guy’s too obsessed with your looks it’s usually because he thinks you’re way out of his league, and that insecurity will bite you in the ass eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:02 PM
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This meme confuses me. Does ‘bird’ mean something I’m not aware of?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:11 AM
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There’s probably other ways but what I’ve personally experienced is insecurity and controlling behaviour because you’re ‘out of his league’ and will inevitably cheat on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 12:46 AM
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It’s so sad how often ‘treat women like human beings’ is offered around as a tip to get a gf. The bar is that low for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 01:54 PM
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Some people just aren’t mentally ready to commit, or more likely there are other incompatibilities completely unrelated to ‘leagues’.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:45 PM
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Sorry derailing completely but I don’t get this anxiety over saying ‘black’ thing? I’ve only ever seen it expressed on the Internet, is it just an American thing? I’m from the UK and black myself btw. If you have to say African-American what do you call black people in other countries? Or black Americans who come from the Caribbean? I actually have funnily seen an American person refer to black people in England as ‘African-Americans’ without realising why that was wrong haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 03:00 PM
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It sounds like your thinking of a specific type of relationship breakdown. There are so many different dynamics that lead to a breakup is impossible to generalise who is the ‘victim’ in said relationship. Context is everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:47 AM
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It’s a comedian’s bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:53 PM
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How long til this on an incel sub as ‘proof’ women just want abusive chads 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 01:36 PM
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The fact that you want to ‘make a statement’ shows that you care. Blocking isn’t just for them, it’s for you. When my ex first broke up with me I thought something similar, I wanted him to see my new profile pictures of me looking skinny and travelling and regret what he’d done because I STILL CARED. When I actually began really moving on I finally just blocked him, I didn’t care for him to know what I was up to and I had absolutely no desire for him to contact me ever again, so I made it virtua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 04:25 PM
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The fact that he went from 5’4 to 5’3 to 5’1 and then back to 5’2 makes me question his reliability. But maybe he’s either actually 14 or buying progressively taller platforms 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 09:43 AM
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Okay but obviously I’m not talking about a man who’s said any of those things. Hence ‘if I’ve already got that far I obviously like him’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:12 PM
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Yup. When my recent ex broke up with me I was heartbroken but lo and behold my bad anxiety that had been crippling me for months (with no direct thoughts of it ever being about him) completely up and vanished. It’s crazy to think that his existence was making me that anxious and I didn’t have a clue, I really thought I was having an identity crisis the whole time. I guess I was, it was just a crisis about making him a part of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:06 PM
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I’ve only experienced it once when I was a lot younger and I did the pity fuck then dip, I can vividly remember how weird it felt it my hand as well. Honestly, if faced with the same situation now I still think I’d do the same again. If I liked them enough to get to that point I can throw them that one bone and make up an excuse after the fact, maybe they’ll see through it maybe they won’t. Put me on FDS trial but I’m not out here trying to shatter a decent man’s confidence to bits lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:49 AM
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Omg I read it as 22. 32?! This girl is in her thirties?! This tale has taken an even sadder turn..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 03:00 AM
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He sounds like a massive troll, look how he keeps going on about antifa and liberal feminists. Probably just some blackpill incel fantasising about what his sex life would be like if only he could actually get some.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 11:01 AM
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I read the title as ‘finally tasted this A-hole’. Had to double check what sub I was on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 05:19 PM
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And people will still argue that it comes with the territory of being famous and making your life public. ‘She should’ve checked her eyeballs first if she didn’t want to be raped... ‘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:34 PM
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As a girl I have to agree, it’s definitely usually for fear of rejection. There is a social idea that guys are horndogs and will take absolutely anything. The flip side of that is the idea that girl’s are ‘harder to get’ and you need to relentlessly pursue them (the chase). Both of these are pretty damaging to both genders. As a girl if you’ve internalised these thoughts being rejected can be a pretty big blow, it can make you feel pretty worthless to be rejected by someone that society has told…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 02:52 PM
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So you intimidate insecure men? Sounds like a good thing to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 09:11 PM
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I haven’t read this book, but I think sometimes butterflies are just your fight-or-flight. If a guy’s making you feel fluttery (i.e. nervous), maybe there’s something to be wary of that you’re picking up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 02:08 PM
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I think you’d be surprised how much it affects attracting men. Men generally only notice bad/heavy makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 01:40 PM
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That’s actually hilarious 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 04:09 PM
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It’s only toxic because of your personal mindset/life. It’s easier to be objective to things that don’t personally relate to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 08:35 PM
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I find other people’s perspectives and experiences endlessly interesting. Just because someone has a happy healthy life doesn’t mean they don’t have downtime to waste away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 08:32 PM
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I think carol was absolutely stunning personally, I actually think she was the most unrealistic. Jennifer aniston even if you don’t think much of her yourself was definitely considered to be super hot within the world of the show. Emily was the most believable admittedly, still very pretty but in a very girl-next-door way. I personally find Ross to be the least attractive of all the male leads and think he’s extremely average. True, it’s honestly not that crazy that he could be with any of these…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 04:36 PM
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Carol, Rachel and Emily were all absolute showstoppers though, I think that’s where it becomes unrealistic. Average guys in tv/film get model-looking girls. Unfortunately that’s just a symptom of the sexism of tv/Hollywood where female actresses are held to a higher aesthetic standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 03:44 PM
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I hadn’t thought about it this way, but it definitely makes the most sense. He didn’t really think I wanted to be with him, he just started to like me himself and shat himself so blamed it on my ‘feelings’ instead. Thank you this closure m4dam3x, I always thought I was secretly coming of as desperate somehow haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 03:14 PM
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Ugh this happened to me and it frustrates me to think of to this day! I was having sex with this guy as a rebound and tbh I really wasn’t even very nice to him. He was way less attractive than me, unintelligent and I found his sense of humour really irritating, which I didn’t hide. (If you wanna know why I was even doing it, I was young and thought he was amazing at sex - he wasn’t). He used to ask all the time if we could go on dates but I’d refuse and explicitly say I was just in it for reboun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 03:05 PM
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I do that everytime. When I really ‘click’ personality-wise with a guy and love their character I get infatuated so fast. And then usually around the 2 month mark it’s like all of a sudden I’m out of the honeymoon phase and I realise they’re super gross looking and I’m not attracted to them anymore. Like legit they’ll be a whole 4 points below me or something. Broke a lot of hearts this way haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 08:01 PM
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Lol okay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 11:50 AM
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No, like I said, I just notice a difference in the way men deal with them. I.e. repressing them and just loading them onto a SO. Now of course that’s not to say all men do that, the confident ones are ofttimes just ones who have learnt to deal with their insecurities healthily.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:57 PM
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Yes, I am repulsed by the idea of spending my entire life as an emotional punching bag for someone who doesn’t want to help themselves. No excuses here. Everyone’s insecure hun, it’s how you deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 02:56 PM
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Number 2 any day. The biggest factor being the insecurity/confidence thing. Unfortunately men tend to dump their emotional baggage solely on their romantic partner and I’m pretty over begging men to see a goddamn therapist. Self-confidence is hot AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 02:00 PM
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Right. Bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 11:20 PM
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How do you know they have no other talent? They don’t let on about their other talents because that’s not a great marketing strategy. Why not make a lot of extra money by just putting up a saucy photo if you can?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 10:00 PM
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As someone who has worked in the sex industry in various ways I can tell you this much from my experience at least: most don’t do it to be worshipped, we do it because it’s an easy ass way to make a lot more money than we should, purely because we care less about social norms. And I’ll tell guys that to their face. (But on the other side of that, yes I have met girls with daddy/ esteem issues but they’re less common than the average civilian imagines)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 09:56 PM
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And a 50 yr old man dating a 20 yr old girl is not there for her great personality either...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:17 PM
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In my experience ‘strong and silent types’ are just secret hotbeds of issues themselves and end up being bombs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 06:58 PM
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I think you’re giving way too much credit to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 12:07 PM
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As opposed to the past or future? You can only remember your feelings in the past and you can only estimate the future. This comment means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 12:00 PM
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There are plenty of ‘alpha’ men who marry. When most people get to a certain age they want to settle down. Very few people want to be single forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 11:50 AM
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So basically what you’re saying is that men are going to be insecure either way? If she goes with the rich guy she’s a golddigging whore, is she goes for the other guy he’s now eternally going to feel ‘settled for’ and bad about himself. Damned if she does, damned if she doesn’t, that kinda sounds like a him problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 11:45 AM
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I think light muscles are generally attractive to most girls, but when it veers into the training every day of the week, cloud man, bulky muscles that’s where attraction falls off. Disclaimer: I realise that the light/aesthetic muscle look can often also require just as much training and upkeep as big muscles. I personally like the kind of muscles that look naturally developed e.g. a guy who has naturally nice arms from rock climbing, but they’re really not a big deal to me. I’d definitely rathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 01:24 PM
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