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Your looks are not the problem here. The problem is the way you see yourself. Women (and people in general) will see you the same way, it's a subconscious process. You say that you are uncomfortable with women because you are attracted to them. This is one of the many lies you have bought into (that being attracted to women is bad), and you did so because of your very innocence. It's our very innocence that allows us to get programmed by msm, peers, family, whatever. You let yourself being progr…
/r/seduction04/11/18 08:25 AM
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You wrote in the wrong place. TRP is not here to validate your feelings. TRP is for you to take responsibility for your life. Study and take actions.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 03:46 PM
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You treated her as a friend and she accepted your offer. All the rest is BS.
/r/seduction26/01/18 03:31 PM
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Not all of them do and when they do the timeframe within which they do it depends obviously on their age. This is true for traditional girls with traditional/controlling families (most of them). Then if they studied abroad or they have some sort of western influence is a bit different, but not so much. Been there done that.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 03:49 AM
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Thanks for your comment I wasn't aware of this dynamics but it obviously makes perfect sense.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 02:57 AM
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I don't see anything great in this post and nothing new anyway. OP you don't see the forest for the trees nor you seem to be aware of how the emotional body works. Also seeing how many retards upvoted this shit makes me wonder about what this sub has become. One thing is saying that you don't have to show your emotions, which I agree, the other thing is to say that you have to suffer in silence. When you suffer first of all you have to understand why the thing makes you suffer in the first place…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 08:01 AM
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Become self-reliant asap. At the same time learn the "guanxi" concept. If you want to do business in China and be successful you need the guanxi. That's how it works. China still works in small groups about everything. You're in the group, you're fine. Outside of the group you're nobody.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 12:17 PM
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Like any other girl as long as they are westernized. But that depends, maybe being a little on the beta side would help. My post was actually about girls who have never been abroad.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 05:25 PM
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Hope I'll be still alive by then. Don't want to miss it.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 12:11 PM
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It's less common than in the western world but it happens. I'm talking in general of course.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 04:36 AM
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I always did, I just didn't see the connection with the time you spent here
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 03:07 AM
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Sorry I misread your comment. Anyway even for straight people the same principle apply. There is no such thing as genes controlling the outcome. Genes are just blueprints and they can be turned on and off according to external conditions. Epigenetics explains it very clearly. This is why in several cases of identical twins one developed cancer and the other didn't.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 09:28 PM
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They don't because they simply aren't. Gay or lesbian, like any other disorder, is simply the result of certain core beliefs you hold. Those beliefs are the result of your past experiences/traumas. Potentially a gay could stop being gay if he really wants to and knows how to do it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 03:19 PM
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Thanks, it's clear. Awesome post.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 01:02 AM
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Can somebody explain this expression? I'm not native speaker, don't get it
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 12:50 AM
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There's a subtle difference between using power and using force. If you get something with force, something else you have to lose, like a tug of war. Instead if you get things by power is different, there's no consequence. You act like a magnet. What I mean is: anger makes you use force. There are consequences. If you already see yourself as what you want to become you instead have power and the things you want will be drawn to you with basically no efforts. Anger must be just one of the first s…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 04:37 AM
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I just learned about this few days ago. I don't know the process in the details yet but you can watch the videos, especially the second one.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 02:27 PM
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Great job, this post is gold and it's basically my strategy. Very Corey Wayne stuff. One thing that I didn't see is when you set the second date after the first date. For me is of course a week while writing in the middle to set the date exactly as I set the first one. Then no contact again. You do this twice, she gets the rules of game, if her attraction level is high she will start pursuing you because she can't wait a week to see you again (at that point you just sit back and wait). When she …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 02:07 PM
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She had the intention to fuck her male friend from the beginning, that's why she asked him specifically to help her put together the desk. That guy was probably an orbiter and beta as well but maybe less beta than her husband since he escalated kind of well and closed as he wanted. That guy is an idiot since he got her pregnant and, after that encounter, he probably started pursuing her asking for more. Two reasons why she stopped talking to him. If that guy didn't get her pregnant or pursue her…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 01:35 PM
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You sound like a girl. Life will kick you in the nuts unless you grow a good pair and stop being a pussy.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 04:41 PM
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In this particular situation just by walking away and keeping her wondering. Definitely not chasing as I did even though she later told me she liked how I talked to that guy. I wouldn't do that again. Dancing with another girl/her friend also could be an option but that would look like playing the same game and lose it at the end/loss of frame.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 10:55 AM
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Thanks. My point is, just be prepared. I see a shit-test simply as a tool a woman has to protect herself from all the weirdos out there. Therefore nothing personal. She's not shit-testing you but they way you show yourself to her. It should be as no surprise that, the older a woman is, the more weirdos she met and the more shit-tests she has ready to throw at you. But the way to pass them is always the same. Be a fucking man.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 06:30 AM
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From my understanding of what you wrote I think you don't escalate properly at the beginning (too soft or too hard). Then you try to make it up by texting later and overpursuing. Am I right?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 06:09 AM
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My post gave you tingles, didn't it? Be cool darling, keep posting on dirtypenpals, I enjoy your stories.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 04:18 AM
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I agree with that, it was a good experience worth sharing though.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 04:16 AM
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In my modest opinion OP doesn't need any advice from us, he knows exactly what he should be doing but he just couldn't and can't commit to it. OP you're feeling like shit and there's nothing wrong with it. Actually you should feel exactly the way you are feeling. OP suffered from this situation in an unnatural way, for if he was balanced he would have never put himself in that situation or tolerate that disrespect. This situation turned into a trauma. Every trauma we suffer in our adult life is …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 06:42 AM
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For you haters: 16 weeks with my stupid diet.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 07:38 AM
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Their life sucks and they know it. My guess is you were the most loser in that group so they constantly felt good because, even losers as fuck, they were a little better than you. RP obviously turned the tables. The shaming was totally predictable because, guess what, they did it to feel better about themselves and keep you in that shitty state (behind them). This thing happens all the time with friends (if in a group of losers), family (if they are losers) and losers in general. I was fat mysel…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 04:29 AM
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This is the so called "AWALT Misconception". Shortly women are not always like that but, given the same circumstances, they are. Further reading THE AWALT MISCONCEPTION
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 04:08 AM
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I had and it was not a joke. Been drinking coffee for 15+ years, 2/3 times per day, strong espresso, usually double. One day I decided to quit completely. It takes your body 3 weeks to overcome the withdrawal. First week you feel like shit, at the end of the first week you have symptoms like a real flu. I quit 2 years and six months ago. Never touched a coffee after that. Feel great.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 06:03 AM
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That would have been a good picture lol
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 04:07 PM
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For sure. I wasn't even thinking about doing this, let's say I took the chance. I'm committed to growth but I'm glad to have some satisfaction here and there. Thanks for your words
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 04:06 PM
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I could care less about reception. It was for sharing the story with a group of like minded people which, unfortunately, you don't belong to.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 04:03 PM
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Actually the plan from the start was to not fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 05:12 AM
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I agree with you about how I spent my time, at the same time though it felt good turning her down with not much efforts. That was my plan. Like: I can turn you on and get you but I don't need it and I'm not letting you pursue your sexual strategy with me. In my opinion not kissing her would have been beta behavior. Choosing not to fuck her well, that's another story because that was my decision. Then she can find thousands of other dudes willing to run at her beck and call but.. not me.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 04:58 AM
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That's exactly what I meant. I may be just to full of myself but, from my small perspective, I felt like I wanted to give her a little lesson. I mean, it's easy to complain about how bitch women are and then just go along with it doing nothing but enabling the branch swinging behavior. You may be alfa as fuck but.. guess what.. alfa is what she wants, with beta on the side. Glad someone here got the point. Cheers dude
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 04:49 AM
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I chose date and place according to my schedule. You are not seeing the forest for the trees. I agree that trp is amoral, it's up to you to choose which side of the fence you want to be.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 03:19 AM
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It's all right, it was not about revenge but more as a practical test. Plus I feel great about it and it's all that matters.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 02:07 AM
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I think it was not much of a revenge towards her but more of an empowerment of myself.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 01:56 AM
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Yeah like you are wasting your time replying to this post instead of being with the tight 19. No hard feelings dude, self-improvement is a process.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 01:53 AM
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Success depends from where you started from. And this is big for me considering where I was 2 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 01:44 AM
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No reply
/r/askTRP01/07/16 06:23 AM
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If you are good looking OkCupid is great for you. I think it's the best free dating app out there. If you want to improve your OkC game I suggest you a book named "Cracking OkCupid" really well done. The guy is not an idiot, he joined one of the podcasts of C MCQueen. But again, looks help tremendously.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 06:21 AM
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All right, I agree with you. Anyway this is still a big victory for me, this is the first sort of "relationship" where I act as I should so, whatever happens, I win anyway. All my hours of reading and learning have paid. What I'm doing now is of course keep my options open and I'll make sure to be the one to end it on my terms. Thanks mate for your reading.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 06:16 AM
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This shows that you are not important enough for her. I agree with this. In the first weeks of dating she used to show up at my place unannounced just to say hi. Then no more. Do you have any suggestion on how to get her more committed? Of course I liked her attentions but this is also for sake of game knowledge.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 04:57 AM
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Don't trust her message and her promises. She's broken my friend. She won't change until she hits rock bottom (which is you walking away and mean it this time) and probably it won't even be enough being her a woman (lot of validation from beta guys available everywhere in Asia). I live in Shanghai. Ghost her and see what she does, I predict a lot of drama. Keep your frame. In the meantime raise your SMV, plate some bitches and focus on your goals. In the future you may be able to have her as a f…
/r/askTRP01/07/16 04:13 AM
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I'm not in oneitis and I know she will ride the cc. I'm cool with that and that's not the point. I'm trying to game her but some feelings are still here and there once in a while. I'm still learning. I want her to remember me like the one who did something for the first time with, make her an "alpha widow" so to speak.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 03:38 AM
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Agreed
/r/askTRP01/07/16 03:36 AM
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yes, confirmed. I believe also that it's not my job to do it, but at the same time, given the situation (her leaving), I'm trying to learn how to game her for keeping her willingly commited to me exclusively. Get the point?
/r/askTRP01/07/16 03:35 AM
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RP community did a lot for me, indeed. Thanks for the support bro.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 02:08 PM
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I'm just trying to see if the border between LTR and plate is well defined or if there's some grey zone in the middle. Maybe I'm wrong but I believe that there is something that you may call as "exclusive plating".
/r/askTRP30/06/16 01:56 PM
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You're right, I have to learn how to plate also the girls I'm attracted to. I actually have to learn how to plate.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 01:53 PM
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We all know what happens here. And I know it too, I'm cool with that and I have no plan to have LDR. This is you telling her you want an LTR, no matter what euphemisms you use. Maybe, but I don't spin plates because I have no time to spin many of them. I stated what I wanted. Who's the plate here? Well, she kept writing me first and chasing after the second date so I'm definitely high value in her eyes.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 01:50 PM
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Yes, the two of them only.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 01:46 PM
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Agreed, I still have to work on that genuine IDGAF attitude. This is a good test for me.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 01:46 PM
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You got my point, that's exactly what I meant. I know she will be riding the cc the day she steps into her "new life" and I'm cool with that. I had no plan to get serious since the beginning but, I don't know how to say it, "submit her to my will" until she's here. It's a good play test of my ability (this is how I see it) and yes, I'm having a lot of fun with her. I won't miss her, I'm just trying to tune my "relationship game", which had always sucked.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 01:44 PM
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I think I'm not totally unplugged yet, I did a lot of progress since my beta past but, as you say, I still have some of that insecurity. I had no plans to actually lock her down and I took this story as a chance to test my new red pill "persona". Probably I'm still not well calibrated enough but I learned a lot. My goal is to keep my frame as much as I can (or at least show it). Still a lot to learn.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 01:38 PM
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Sure, I always wrap it up, no exception
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:37 AM
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Haha you cracked me up and changed my mood. Cancun-Poon it is ahah
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:37 AM
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You have a point, and yes I noticed her tests many times. She can't help it. Probably I was a bit emotional when I wrote the post but reading your reply you seem to be right. I'll wait for her to contact me and decide what to do when that happens. Considering the situation, I'll start looking for a replacement. Thanks to all of you guys for your different perspectives. And thanks to RP community, 1 year ago I would have totally screwed up here.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:32 AM
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Well, she obviously thinks you are in some kind of relationship because she wants you to break up with her. So you think she's doing this on purpose? Just to test how long am I going to accept her misbehavior? Anyway, thanks for the great suggestion. Radio silence mode is now ON, let's see what happens.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:03 AM
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Yeah, that's what I've been thinking to do. Thanks for the support.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 06:45 AM
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Also, what do you think I did wrong and how do you think I should have behaved in the past? Considering the situation now, is there any better thing to do than walking away?
/r/askTRP30/06/16 06:33 AM
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That is why she is much more easily influenced by other people around her, probably even strangers. Their judgment of her is intoxicating. I confirm this, she told me it herself. How did you come to this? I add that in the last 3 months we always met during the weekend and once or twice during the week.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 06:07 AM
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Your comment doesn't give any information either, just a subtle shaming (if we read between the lines)
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 04:39 AM
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I made myself misunderstood. Healthy attachment yes but you have to be able to be rational all the time. If she pushes your boundaries she has to suffer some consequences, no exception. Otherwise she will respect you less and less. You have to be able to walk away if needed, no matter your attachment.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 03:18 PM
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Just one more thing, as long as you consider yourself normal, and not a catch, you will always be normal and not a catch.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 02:07 PM
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My take on what you say is this, she can test you as much as she wants and you can pass or not but, as long as you have stronger frame than her (taking most of decisions and her agreeing with that) you'll be fine. The key is as you said not being attached and let her know that her actions have consequences. Now, as long as your strategy (having sex with no commitment) wins over hers I wouldn't bother. If you are in LTR and she is acting bitchy you can play some dread games, which you should be p…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 02:03 PM
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Oh sorry, I believe we talk about a different kind juice haha, I was talking about vegetable juice. For the steroids of course I agree and will never do.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 11:47 AM
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What's wrong with juicing? Mike Cernovich does it. "Even idiots can teach you something", his words.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 08:50 AM
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Thanks for the link, much appreciated. I'll definitely have a look.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 05:43 AM
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I agree with the protein thing. I focused more on the training because I wanted to point out that even with limited time and no gym one can train in an "acceptable" way with a bit of resourcefulness. This was the main point of my post.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 05:41 AM
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Thanks for the tip, I didn't think about belt actually and it's definitely a good idea. Dumbbells also will be good in the near future. I'll start working on my legs later, now the priority is losing fat. For now I climb the stairs twice per day, 8 floors, instead of using the lift.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 01:50 PM
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I agree with that but in that case your body needs way more time to actually digest them.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 07:32 AM
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If you had had your shit together since the beginning of time you wouldn't need to be here.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 07:31 AM
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Thanks for your words, you got me, I'm an overplanner but also very methodical and diciplined. But you're definitely right. I'm very motivated this time.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 04:32 AM
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I enjoy myself quite a lot, RP principles of course are still valid. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 03:17 AM
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Fucking great post man. This was baptism by fire. You got wonderful pussy, and a threesome with 2 hot girls. The beauty of this is now you have abundance mentality and you will treat the average girl for what she is, a non-exclusive source of pussy. You had the best, you are unplugged, I honestly don't know how to word this. Average girls can't top that shit. Happy for you. Now, back to your weight. I was fat myself. At the age of 13 I was 200 punds. I lost 55 in a year. Let me quote you on this…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 03:04 AM
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Leftover here starts at 28 but I agree with your point
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 11:24 PM
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I confirm this 100% and this is basically what happened to me. I live in China. Didn't know RP at that moment but still acted like IDGAF. Her on the border of "leftoverism". Got dumped. Beg her like a pussy. Didn't work. Discovered RP.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 04:59 AM
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I ask this question with zero intention of being judgmental nor bitchy or belittling, to someone with more experience than me and for the pure sake of knowledge. I swallowed the red pill and I have no intention to go back, I'm only 1 year into it though. The question is: Is this the end game of the RP? Being so unbreakable that even the hottest girl will run at some point because she also needs some sort of beta traits? Should you be a bit less unbreakable with a girl you really feel something f…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 06:48 AM
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I'm certainly not the first person to bring this up, but why would any woman stick around for a second beating? Let alone 4 years' worth? Especially a smoking hot chick with all the options in the world? Is Depp's penis really that magical? I think as long as a woman is attracted to you she will bear basically anything. Beating women is wrong, of course, but this is another topic. The moment your "perceived" value (from her emotional perspective) becomes lower than hers, her true nature shows up…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 06:23 AM
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No intentions to belittle anyone. I said op did a good job but suggested him to be careful. I talk from my analytical perspective. Never said I am true alpha. Avoid BPD.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 11:37 PM
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I didn't attack anyone, I shared my experience and knowledge. This is what we are here for. You attacked me instead. You're sad because you brought nothing to the table.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 11:20 PM
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It's a good excercise against shit-tests and a good lay but that's not the point. You need to understand why you want to prove your alphaness to women so much, look inside yourself and your past (exes, upbringing, whatever). If you don't know your demons, and can't handle them, it WILL backfire hard.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 08:51 AM
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Dude, girls are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Once a girl sleeps with you she loses her power. When you commit you lose yours because she thinks she's your only source of pussy. Don't commit and you keep your power. You are young, I wish I had known trp at your age. You are lucky that you're here so young, I envy you.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 08:42 AM
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I fell you dude, my father is as beta as it gets and I had no model to follow. If you are willing to invest 5 box I suggest you Christian McQueen podcasts. He changed my life. Then, when you feel like you have something to offer you can start building your own rat pack.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 08:37 AM
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You are what Mark Manson calls "fake alpha". Dude, your ego is your problem, at some point it will explode and it won't be good. Be careful. You are hamsterizing all the shit to get approval from here. Good job indeed you did but the inside of yours is fragile. You deserve better than that and need to work on your inner game to the point where all this comes natural. You can show an IDGAF attitude but, honestly, you do give a F.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 08:32 AM
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