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DiscussionBlueParsec/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:01 PM
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For real. At this point, being called a misogynist is simply a shortcut to figuring out if the guy's got balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 10:12 PM
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So have women. Thanks for proving his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 10:09 PM
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Many cases of "pointing out that something is hurtful" is just a sneaky way to manipulate. I'm sure every man in the world could empathize with your arm being amputated and the difficulties that come with it. On the other hand, calling any negative criticism of women's behavior as an attack on women by misogynists.... well that's a power trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 10:08 PM
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The narcissism to think you can speak for men.... hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 10:04 PM
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There is a post on reddit about a 30f woman asking for advice after being asked her body count by someone she dated for a few months and slept with after the 3rd date. All the comments advice boils down to something like: have some standards and dump the sexist - so logically, the standard is "a man can not even ask about my body count". It's unrealistic because their "standard" is basically a way out of being held accountable under the guise of misogyny and sexism. Thinking in that way is extre…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:50 PM
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Strawman argument above.... Actual redpilll logic: Ran through women are less desirable. It's bad because most men agree on this. The consensus exists because of experience with multiple women and the ability to identify the pattern of poor decision making skills prevalent among high body count women. u/President-Togekiss Redpill does not tell you that women have power over men because men have no standards. Redpill does not say that men stop being attracted to women over 30. Redpill would say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:02 PM
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I agree! I would love to get married if I receive comparable benefits like the women that wanted me to propose to them. Disagree, may be your experience but mine is the opposite. It's hard to pursue my passions when I am responsible for someone else's needs in addition to mine. Fake propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:52 PM
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someone I know: lifetime alimony from first 20 year marriage, 500k payout from 2nd, 2 year marriage but nice try gaslighting men, lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:47 PM
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How do you know she's in a relationship if you haven't talked to her? The dude could've just been her fwb and they also lift together.
/r/seduction09/09/24 09:12 PM
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Trying to spin "not working and getting to play with your kids all week" as a power imbalance is ridiculous lmfao. Why don't you ask the SAHD's whether they think there's a power imbalance in their relationship? Good luck finding them... The whole idea of the traditional gender roles is that there is no divorce, the family becomes one unit with people doing what they are best at. Divorce is not traditional. Guess what, getting half of something you didn't have to work for is not a "disadvantage"…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:49 PM
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Can't relate - never been able to stay friends with a girl after rejecting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:01 PM
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Agree, i still choose to stay in touch with some abusive women not due to lack of options but just because they are magical in the sack :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:53 PM
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Where is that famous empathy for all the autistic men falsely accused of drugging someone when the girl just couldn't handle her alcohol and tarnished the dude's rep for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:21 PM
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Too bad this realization only happens after trying it lmfao. Most young women at the bar are just begging to get railed and the older ones want you to take them on a "real" date. lmfao...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:37 PM
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No eye contact beforehand but I saw her get out of the car, when i turned around after taking my helmet she was gone so i waited until i saw her come out of the store and walk to her car and started her right as turned the corner around the pump lol.. obviously she saw me too as she pulled into the pump behind me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:18 PM
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I disagree. Self esteem is exactly that, the esteem I have for myself based on who I am. While it's true that others influence our self-esteem, this only happens when we value their opinions more than our own. I'm pretty happy with everything I've accomplished in life at my age so a stranger's judgement of my appearance doesn't even make a dent. A person I'm cold approaching literally knows NOTHING about me. I also know nothing about them, other than the first impressions we've made on each othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:50 PM
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You just have to accept that women aren't the goal. They're a symptom of living a good life. Once you find the more pleasure from things other than female validation it actually becomes fun to talk to anyone without expectations and that's when the magic happens. You gotta imagine this. There is no "correct" way to approach. That's the thing, what's "right" and "wrong" when it comes to sexual selection is determined by the top tiers of each gender at all times. They are the trendsetters of what'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:24 PM
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I exaggerated with 90 seconds to get the number, it was probably less. 3 texts to set up the date logistics 3 days later. I got lucky she didn't flake. Interestingly, she was just seeing her older brother who told her she should put herself out there so she attributed me coming up to her as "fate" lol - which is why she didn't flake on the date. The amount of numbers I've had flake or not lead to what i want is easily in the thousands.... so i'm pretty sure i'm not chad status. Most likely that …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:03 PM
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Yes, the 90 seconds i spent to say hi and see if she's interested was a huge time waster... lol I definitely did get lucky that time and I'm really happy about that! Makes me think of the thousands of times i've seen attractive women and never said anything to them. Those are the real losses right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:49 PM
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Met a gf of 3 years at a gas station from a cold approach. Don't really lose anything when you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:05 PM
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The redpill doesn't care about going around the block and telling which woman has and has not hit the wall... The redpill is just sharing information with younger men that at some point in their lives, the typical woman's attitude towards sex, dating, and commitment will change from feeling like they are a rock star with all eyes on them to one of noticing significantly less attention compared to their younger years causing them to execute a type of "stop loss" order by finding and committing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:30 PM
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Why would I want to correct them when many men in my social circles think in a very similar way... I would never say the thing you quote but it sounds very similar to our beliefs of "men instinctively prefer younger women" and "men have an impulse to mate with as many different women as possible which is checked by the man's desire to conform to social norms". I've honestly never heard any red pill man preach the things you've said and if I did I would correct them but it sounds like you've take…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:15 PM
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What is your goal with putting words in the mouth of red pill people? Where have you heard any redpilled man say "women past XX age should just drop dead"? Just because you can find examples that don't follow the trend, why are you so intent on trying to convince that the redpill observations of general gender behavior are not true?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:58 PM
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The argument is anecdotal. The wall is simply probabilistic forecasting not a scientific law. OP framed the question as if the examples he provided have any meaning - when it fact they do not counter the points made by the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:54 PM
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Redpill describes trends. Just because men prefer younger women doesn't mean they are banned from having older ones...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:43 PM
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Lol @ the lack of empathy from the "empathic sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:56 PM
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Do you realize that everyone who found the redpill was someone who was unknowingly blue pilled? I think anyone who is "unknowingly redpilled" is what you would call a seducer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:51 PM
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I think she should NOT. However, in practice that is what most end up doing without realizing it when they are shooting out of their league and desperate to get the guy they like the most instead of settling for someone who isn't as handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:15 PM
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I said nothing about him being marriage material. Obviously he was more than good enough for her to give him a chance based on looks and her looks were good enough for him to think "i'll take it if it comes with no effort". She can either go for other guys who don't have as many options or try to to trap a guy with options. The first one is usually the 'right' thing to do. Of course she will keep trying to do the latter and therefore become just another notch in the roster once she feels the anx…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:43 PM
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Your friend should take notes and aim lower. Jason clearly has better marriage prospects than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:45 PM
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Another woman telling men what is the "right" way to think hahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:44 PM
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"man up bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:56 PM
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Either draft men and women equally for frontline roles or stop claiming that men and women should have equal rights with different responsibilities as citizens. When one party has their cake and eats it too, both parties lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:56 PM
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Change "revenge" to "power" and I agree with everything you've said!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:50 PM
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"marriage was built to provide a context for people to come together and raise children, that's it." - "everything on top of that.. is heavier than the institution of marriage was built to support" =/= "exclusivity is ruining marriage" Guess this forum isn't for debate but for the shaming of men's wants and needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:39 PM
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You've strawmanned the whole idea of hypergamy into "women m only want to fuck tall white men." I think you misconstrued the argument that women always want the best option available to them and decided to fight against something you made up... great science bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:44 PM
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Maybe you should let women decide what a "good guy" is with their actions and not their words. So maybe a "good guy" is the agressive immorral and objectifying misogynyst since he always gets rewarded... and the "bad" guy is the one who doesn't get rewarded. There's a difference between being a "good man" and being "good" at being a man. Even psychopathic criminals are usually pretty "good" at being a man... whereas a lot of "good men" aren't very good at being a man at all. What you think is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:24 PM
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Quote him. I dare you. Show yourself out to be the strawman argumentista that you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:51 PM
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Totally agree, the expectation that people are not "happy" because of their partner not making an effort is just that. An expectation for losers and whiners that can't find their own happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:49 PM
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Because it's easier to escalate. You can f close in the same time it would take for her to respond to your first message by the time she checks the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:39 PM
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I once had a woman switch because i didn't want to marry her. She came back later lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:44 PM
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I never paid anything to read reddit...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:20 PM
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Well that pseudoscientific way surely helped all of my relationships over the last 6 years. I couldn't be happier knowing what I know and being able to help the male friends i have in my life with their divorces and struggling relationships. Shit on it all you want, the people that understand the idea will get the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:17 PM
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" Saying you can't leave because it's uncomfortable garners zero sympathy from me." This should be pinned on female subreddits everywhere. Like oh you married a guy that made a shit ton of money but didn't expect him to have any power over you because you're supposed to be equals and now you want to leave so you say you're trapped? You should get kicked to the curb by society....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:07 PM
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I'm not getting married, i've never settled for less though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:21 PM
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Red pill never tells people what to do. Just understanding women's nature. You're thinking of popular mainstream gender discussions which kind of blurs the boundary being red pill and average male.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:01 PM
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They make the best wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:54 PM
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Most of the red pill boils down to accepting women's nature and just having fun with them. Typically this implies never be exclusive with any woman. Do you think they care about anything this woman brings to a relationship when they don't plan on getting in one with her? Make it make sense. Of course the women keep riding the carousel and don't understand why all guys that meet their standards want "situationships" or date for 3 years and get ditched when they give the marriage ultimatum. They n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:52 PM
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Nah you're right... personal experience with a woman that had negative 40k net worth at the age of 25 and unemployed for 5 months once told me that to feel safe she would need to marry a guy that makes 200k a year. She had no problems in dating. Pretty privilege is real. Whichever guy she ends up marrying is fucked as soon as his business or job goes away. Poor slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:47 PM
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Congratulations, you've just discovered the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:45 PM
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Excluding deception, this is because usually married men don't go out spreading their legs without being caught quickly. They have to be hunted by a woman that wants them inside her. Married women commonly do this - it's the only way they can cheat - let a man inside. So yes, women carry the responsibility for sex occurring or not occuring. This is usually a bad thing for men - except in the case of assigning blame for infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:12 PM
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Nice DARVO attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:09 PM
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It's how it was before the government stuck their nose in our sex business. All I know is a lot less people were divorcing before the breadwinner was forced to subsidize the other's parasitic lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:01 PM
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Avoiding a relationship is a good choice - according to the logic following from your words! Why would any man allow the government to have domain over his assets? These laws can be changed retroactively many years after entering into a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:58 PM
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From my experience, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:13 PM
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That's the thing, while she was spending her college years binge drinking daily and having fun for a ba psych degree, i was working 12 hour days while going to school as well so I could be set later in life. I would have no problem splitting domestic 50/50, however, it would cause issues for me when i've been told that basically just because I make more it makes more sense that I cover everything for dates/bills/vacations, etc. basically the "your money is our money but my money is my money" lin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:25 PM
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She was really good looking and would've had her whole life on easy mode for if she didn't assault me. I wasn't asking for much by asking her to "pull her weight", just not to be attacked... lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:08 PM
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50/50 effort is easily quantifiable through money. If i can make $300 an hour whereas my wife can make $30 per hour, does that mean I should do my laundry while my wife does her own? It's pretty obvious the family benefits from the woman doing the laundry and the man spending an extra hour at work... Yet, women don't see it this way. No woman cares that a truck driver works 20+ days in a row non stop... they just look at his income and the negative of time away from home why should men care how …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:58 PM
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I'd swipe right just so I can turn her into a spy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:53 PM
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The problem is, where is this line between a crime, unethical behavior, abuse, and a flirty test? If someone tells their partner to shut the fuck up, it's abuse, right? However, what if they were in bed at the time and their partner was purposefully keeping them awake for two hours trying to pop their back pimples while someone was peacefully begging to be left alone before snapping? Well what if their partner decided to punch them in face because they felt abused by being told to shut the fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:49 PM
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Have you ever thought that maybe men became red pilled because they had to deal with shit like "i will kill myself if you break up with me" and then watch that same girl fuck another guy the same night on a regular basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:36 PM
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He's not top 10% yet... the women are the indicator. He may be top 10% on rankings we believe make a man attractive for an LTR but at the end of the day, he's going to be a late bloomer. The qualities he has now will have him swimming in ass when women approaching the wall are going to be fighting over him. The truth is most women his age are banging bad boys. Guys that can take her on a motorcycle ride at 3am and sleep in with her on a weekday while she works from home or make her do coke off t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:06 PM
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I refused to go 50/50 domestically because I made 6x more than my ex, who also made more than the median household income... She claimed I was a misoginyst... i lol'ed. The funniest part is now I'm still paying her rent since she lost her job even though we're not together haha. I must hate women so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:43 PM
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Try to force a tradwife spouse to have sex with you since she's your sex slave... see how that works out to be an instant ticket for her financial independence. Win - win.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:35 PM
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Haha i always pay for the dates but an ex-gf became homeless because she didn't pull her weight in the household. Guess that filtering really worked for her lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:31 PM
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Every like i get that has something about trans rights / socialism in bio i instant swipe left even if she's hot lol.. so yeah. Huge turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:54 PM
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If you were a man this is how your argument would sound: "Domestic violence is not a mirroring scenario. When a man chooses to beat the woman, it means she fucked around and found out. It doesn't work the other way around. The man gets the choice to beat women because he is literally the one who can. Physically he is the one stronger. "
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:23 PM
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For sure. It's insane when some men I know need women for only one thing. Easy and convenient access to sex. Yet they're supposed to pretend that women are valuable for other things. Of course just admitting this automatically categorizes one as a misogynist. What motivation does a man that can have everything he wants (outside of unlimited sexual access to women because he's not a celebrity) have to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:55 PM
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It probably wouldn't be undesirable as it's better than nothing but even knowing your woman wants to rip your pants off is sometimes just as much of a need being fulfilled as the actual act.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:51 PM
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Defend this woman at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:49 PM
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I'm willing to bet 100% your husband has done this. Of course he won't admit it because why ruin your mood? He takes what he can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:43 PM
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If protecting my future wife from intruders who want to rape and murder her becomes an obligation or a responsibility especially on a day when she nags me too much and I don't feel like doing it, it stops being something I will do. See how that sounds to men? From a young man who has rejected multiple marriage proposals because he realized will get laid more often while single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:42 PM
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Reading your comments about the way you worked out, slept, etc, whatever you did was not going to improve your physique. Assuming you had toned muscles. You're looking at .5-1% of body weight in MUSCLE gain per month. So if you're 200lbs, You may have gained at most 6lbs of muscle in 3 months. Given that you went days without sleep i seriously doubt you gained that much. So most of what you gained is fat. Yes I'm sure you look bigger but you need a bigger AND lean look to be more attractive. Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:19 PM
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This is actually the narrative being pushed on society as a whole to make everyone accept those statements as "normal". If a woman falls out of love with a man it's his fault. If a man falls out of love with a woman it's his fault. "Women are wonderful" effect in full blast everywhere. Most of them are so far down the rabbit hole of being brainwashed they actually believe this is normal. Also sad that so many men fall for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:11 PM
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What's extreme?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:00 PM
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Of course, the reason his wife stops having sex is because of him...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:40 PM
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A man doesn't need to feel that he is doing better to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:39 PM
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Translation: Do stuff so we can shame you for being "commitment phobic"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:08 PM
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Is it okay for a man to end the relationship because his wife stops having as much sex with him as he wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:00 PM
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You're projecting female nature onto men. A man doesn't need to feel he can do so much better to have sex. He can actually downgrade and still enjoy it. Especially if the wife he married is withholding the ONLY thing a HVM needs from a wife. A consistent supply of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:58 PM
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"The only messages I got were asking for hookups. I saw on all the profiles, there was no material related to being a future husband and father." This means those men are not interested in commitment with you because they have way better options, sorry to say. How do I know? I do the same thing because I've been on and off with a girl that I was willing to commit to and who has been seeking to get married while trying to work out some issues I had with her (her financial skills are horrible) and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:40 PM
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I think you just watched a blue pill become a red pill due to his personal experience with a woman. But go ahead, spin it your way...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:21 PM
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You actually think liberal woman would admit to their true behaviors? Ha Ha Ha...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:30 PM
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"Integrating intuitive and analytical thinking" does not mean that women exceed men for analytical thinking. The fact that you made this conclusion from your own source just shows how bad women are at logical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:34 PM
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The right move in that situation would have been to enjoy whatever he could afford instead of "helping" him. The way you thought of helping him (having your parents pay) was not actually the type of support men need from women. Red pill men don't preach to be taken care of women or for men to take care of women. Red pill doesn't say how things should be, just how humans behave in either instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:03 PM
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I think a = b and b=c so a=c. If someone else thinks a=b and b=c so therefore a=d, I'm going to consider their argument illogical. If they try to convince me they are right, I will get angry at how stupid they are. Am I a bad person?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:18 PM
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Guess which gender uses sex to control the other ... i'll pass on the advice to act like a woman lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:27 PM
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IRL it's like 95/5 - think of any educational level classes, etc. Most women crushing to top 5% men and rest are invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:11 PM
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Seriously, the fact that people blame tinder for creating the hookup culture is a lot more ridiculous than pointing the finger at the actual people voluntarily engaging in the hookup culture as a result of marketplace economics and solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:10 PM
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lol just wanted to bait the natural shame inducting rhetoric stemming from feminist gross entitlement that women try to play off as "acceptable expectations" these days
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:53 PM
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Bad women are best in bed Good women are best for bread If women can do AFBB I can do psycho fucks incel cooks lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:08 PM
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"it only tracks who files the paperwork" No shit... that's literally what "initiating the divorce" means... Most women admit they can't decide on what food to eat but making the decision to go to court and file legal papers is something they would do if their husband wanted the divorce? The fuck kind of mental gymnastics is this? What you're doing is one of the reasons so many men are avoiding marriage. You're deciding to change the definition of things widely accepted by everyone to align with …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:03 PM
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I would like someone to explain to me what a "high maintenance man" is because I don't think I've seen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:26 PM
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100% redpill advice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:15 PM
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Red pill is teaching men they have no chance with women and instead fills their minds with hatred rhetoric about women Not sure what you're talking about here but red pill teachings actually doesn't make men hate women. It get's them laid. The fact is many of the red pill men have qualms with women is not false. However, you're thinking that the red pill causes men to hate women but the causality is actually reversed. Men that have been hurt by the duplicity of women's behavior are the ones easi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:01 PM
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Kinda hard to support a man when you don't have a vagina for him to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:56 PM
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To not be terrible people who hurt others and themselves. Wow, it sounds as if you believe women have the full right to judge what is "terrible" and "hurts others and themselves"... Gee... so for comparison, an equivalent argument would be for a man says a woman having a body count above 0 prior to marriage makes her "terrible" and having done things to "hurt others (her future husband) and herself (her future prospects)" Then the only question we have to decide is who has the moral authority on…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:30 PM
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Guess we have different experiences... but there must be a lot of crazy women out there then for all the redpillers to be slaying so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:25 PM
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Enlighten me on what those interest's are?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:23 PM
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Once their government subsidies are taken away - I would love to hear the same statement being said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:33 PM
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MGTOW is basically "oh you want me to listen to your bullshit? - nah I'm out" Feminism is basically "oh you want me to listen to your bullshit? - nah you're a toxic patriarchal piece of shit that I'm going to destroy in divorce court and make sure your children never see you again, or if you don't have kids, make sure you get fired, or if you don't have a job, make sure you can't get one"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:30 PM
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Sounds like a psy op to take away women's social decision making rights at least and make rape legal at worst. I love how naiive they are to think it's going to combat "pro-natalist" policies lmfao when it's just going to expedite the urgency of the situation and government will take drastic action.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:24 PM
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s narrative bothers a lot of men, they should fight against it. No one’s worth should be based on whether they can get with the opposite sex or not. What should men's worth be based on? The use of the word "worth" when referring to people is kind of ridiculous. It does nothing except objectify people. Stop with the pop psycho babble bs please.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:48 PM
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Can confirm, it plays out exactly like this very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:40 PM
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It’s transparent fear-mongering. It's only fear-mongering until it happens to you or someone you know hahah Also, it's more of an insult for a woman to me unmarried in her 40's because the system is pretty rigged in her favor. That's why divorced women are treated with more respect than never married women. They are at least smart enough to play the system in their favor. Whereas the older unmarried women is the ultimate rejection. Innate value that's never been enough to secure commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:36 PM
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I wonder why men feel this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:34 PM
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Those women usually tend to spread a lot of their own negative opinions about men but otherwise I wouldn't give a fuck. Although I think most empathetic men just feel bad for them, you know? Like it's sad they're lonely. At the same time I get why they're roasted... Hearing them make a daily self-deprecating joke at work about them being alone gets pretty exhausting after the first week. Imagine suffering with that shit for a year or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:33 PM
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"women enjoying sex grosses a lot of PPD men out. " What's gross is the hypocrisy of young women and men having lots of casual sex without any requirements then "wising up" and making other men work (provide emotional connection and resources) for what they're "worth" in marriage and long term relationships. Dead bedrooms are a thing. no man will appreciate this disrespect - perhaps the ones that are upset at casual sex have been affected negatively by the blue pill idea of "do everything right …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:30 PM
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Amen brother!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:21 PM
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I really like the first result on google which is: "In essence, power is the ability of one person to exert control and influence within a relationship or group. Power means taking charge, fixing issues, getting things done, and offering an empathetic ear or a shoulder to cry on when the other person is in a vulnerable spot. " Taken from: https://www.counsellinginmelbourne.com.au/power-in-relationships/#:~:text=In%20essence%2C%20power%20is%20the,is%20in%20a%20vulnerable%20spot. I think the artic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:05 PM
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Mutual compromise and no one party getting their way all the time seems healthy to me. The only way this is possible is with a perfect 50-50 split in power at all times. Let's say at the time of marriage it exists. What happens when one party loses their job? What happens when one party decides to go back to school or do a career change? Gets sick? Receives a life changing inheritance? etc. etc. All data I've seen indicates that if the women takes more than 50% of power for a long enough time th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:00 PM
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"No one gives a shit no one ever gave a shit no one will ever give a shit." This is the best thing to do - stop giving a shit - it's what makes a man a man in my opinion. Learn to play the game and get power then do what you want. I'm sure I'm a raging misogynist in some opinions but guess what - I don't give a shit. I still get what I want due to the power I've accumulated. Life is good. The only reason women are successful in shaming men is because other men subscribe to the female narrative. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:32 PM
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Sounds like very redpilled thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:58 PM
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Well done!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:56 PM
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Literally everything I asked one of my girlfriends to do would never be "finished" ... ie. paid her to clean my place at a rate higher than my usual cleaning lady, and it took her 3 weeks to finish 3 hours of work out of the 5 i paid her for and she forgot to do parts such as cleaned the kitchen without cleaning the stove... LOL. Not sure why you put (usually a man) when my experience has always been the complete opposite. The women that take care of their shit seem to go for guys that need shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:47 PM
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"But it's a common redpill argument that the man with the most resources is the most attractive in the room" This is false - no redpill argument goes like this. This is like me trying to start a debate on a ridiculous topic such as: "Why does the blue pill say that the guy who treats the woman the nicest is the one who will get access to sex from her?" The red pill says that status has an affect on a woman's attraction, so do looks, so do game. Having all three is best but men should have at lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:32 PM
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Women due to evolutionary biology ( needing care for them and offspring during pregnancy and nursing) are hard wired to seek provision just as men youth and beauty. It’s not the “ only “ thing and how much provision they seek will be based on their earning capacity too. I seek first and foremost a man who can engage in intelligent discourse. Education matters to me FAR more than income as I just find I gel better with educated men with critical thinking skills and an appetite for learning. Kindn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:42 PM
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Not sure why your comment was removed but I think I was elaborating on the solution to your observation I quoted... which is to ignore the things women say about dating and look at what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:17 PM
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Didn't mean "you" you, just in general the men that listen to women tell them how to act and lack the internal guidance system to take action because of their own beliefs and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:02 PM
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You're trying to make the more "empathic sex" empathize what did you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:22 PM
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New world modern-day women have made it a point to make sure that if we are not in that less than 1% we shouldn't bother. You're not in the 1% because you listen to them instead of failing to see the shit test for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:17 PM
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Acceptance bro, last stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:05 PM
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why are you settling for the thinnin hair the saggy bits and the menopausal pussy? Never understood this myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:40 PM
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The craziest part is she thinks it's so justifiable she's able to post it on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:33 PM
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Strawman argument, women are sexual by nature is literally what TRP educates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:00 PM
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I tried blocking her but she showed up at my house 3 days after calling me from 4 different numbers offering to clean my place. How could I say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:48 PM
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Imagine a world where anti-cuckold biological programming hard-wired into men through all of history is considered "inexperienced" or "conservative" hahah you could do with an upgrade to your man-shaming tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:40 PM
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Keep dreaming of fantasy land.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:31 PM
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A woman's past decision making towards sex has the potential to devalue women's worth for long term commitment in the eyes of many men much like a poor credit score devalues a borrower's approval chances or a short guy can be a fling but not marriage material. Whether you like it or not, that's what it is. Nobody is pretending, it's been this way for a long long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:15 PM
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I have literally been telling this one girl over a year that I do not see her as a long term partner and will never be able to marry her. Why is she still around?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:54 PM
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Game, body, career are advice because they work. Choose to "be yourself" as a basement dweller gamer at your own risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:25 PM
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I'm like you but have a best friend that's like the guy above - who will basically fuck anything. It doesn't do it for me with a woman that's even slightly overweight - I've tried countless times and it's never the same experience as a fit, hourglass shaped woman. At the end I realized I would rather hang out with my dog in nature than hook up with a girl I'm not 100% into. You like what you like! For example, I'm picky with green eyed girls for relationships (2% of population) when combined wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:38 PM
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I used to use this line "you'll do." to open women on dating apps... guess what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:29 PM
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Forced government exercise for all USA adults ages 18-40.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:27 PM
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" questions a woman's need for safety " A woman I know is paranoid while living alone in an apartment building to the point that she can't sleep at night without someone she knows in her house. So according to you, I should be disqualified if I question if her need for safety is rational? I lack empathy and socialization by questioning ridiculous expectations on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:56 PM
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The average age gap between couples is only 1-3 years. You keep focusing on using statistics from marriage or some other type of committed relationships... the red pill doesn't care about those and actually discourages them. When you say "date" I think something different than you. I think of enjoying my time with someone else - not looking for someone to use me as an ATM and use sex as a weapon of control to manipulate me into getting their needs met - aka what most marriages/relationships even…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:41 PM
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When i do X most women do Y. When Z happens most women respond with W. "Science Beatch"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:08 PM
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Ahhh, the beauty of this three comment exchange exemplifies every thing about women that the red pill teaches. Woman: "With men it's pretty much out of sight out of mind" Man: "I disagree as I'm a man" Woman: "Don't make statements on how women feel"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:03 PM
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Whoever leaves first is the one most tired of the relationship Or the one who finds someone better. Too bad out guy friend here wasn't looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:01 PM
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Forgot Borderline
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:59 PM
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War brides duh "Men are the disposable sex, women, the preserved sex. Men would simply die in favor of a superior aggressor, but women would be reserved for breeding. So it served a feminine imperative to evolve an ability to cut former emotional ties more readily (in favor of her new captor) and focus on a more self-important psychology – solipsism." -RT
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:50 PM
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" entire concept of the wall" Is simply that a woman reaches a point that represents the threshold at which most women realize their lessened capacity to sexually compete with the next generation of women in their ‘actualized’ sexual peak (22-24). If you take any man, given a choice between a woman that is 22-24 and one that is "post-wall" (age not defined explicitly). The man will almost always choose the 22-24. There is nothing to debate there. The fact that most 22-24 year old women are in re…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:49 PM
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Women don’t care about men’s preferences Bro... the looks i get from women my age when I'm bringing in someone 7+ years younger than me on my weekend getaways say otherwise :D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:27 PM
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If anything the redpill is the healthiest understanding of female sexuality as it is based entirely from observations of female sexual behavior. One of it's points is that it is impossible for a woman to truthfully represent her own sexuality through words as that would conflict with her being able to have her cake and eat it to. You can get mad about this all you want but the fact is there will be more and more men waking up and looking at how women act instead of what they say. If you want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:22 PM
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believe that women don't think about or desire sex, so they can't grok female sexuality or the idea of chemistry and mutual attraction. This is literally the blue pill belief and the complete opposite of the redpill belief. Maybe you're confusing tradcons with redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:48 PM
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As a man whose been a victim of DA and false DA accusations - your words are garbage just like most of the DA accusations women toss around because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:35 PM
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Murderers are bad. Men are not. Did you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:33 PM
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Women are awarded custody in 83% of cases. Tell me again how separating a man away from his child is beneficial to him. So they are HIS children prior to the divorce but HERs after? Makes sense. Maybe they should reconsider a divorce if they are SAHMs... but maybe that's the reason their household DISPOSABLE income drops 30%... the child support payments only cover so much. I think the point I'm making is that divorce hurts everyone... so maybe things such as "irreconcilable differences" shouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:37 PM
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If a woman feels ignored and abused it doesn't mean that was actually the case!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:05 PM
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Before people say “women are always looking for someone better” men are more likely to remarry after divorce: The interpretation of this data is that men are more interested in a marriage and committment in general. This data just proves once again that women have no reason to stay committed in marriage - especially after they've been divorced once - they have less reason to enter into another as compared to men as they're already milking alimony from the first. The article itself even states th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:03 PM
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Financially, women are more likely to be worse off after divorce than men. https://theconversation.com/womens-probability-of-being-in-poverty-more-than-doubles-after-separation-181345 "Our new research suggests that while a breakup, on average, reduces men’s disposable household income by 5%, on average women’s household income decreases by almost 30%. We also found a woman’s most important defence against falling into poverty after a separation is having a stable job and income before the break…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:01 PM
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All this to say - we are more incentivised to stay in LTRs/marriages than men. The majority of women aren’t leaving men they’ve invested years into over nothing. This claim above is absolute bullshit that is not even up for debate. Just because you broke up with a boyfriend because he didn't stop shouting at you and then tried to gaslight you doesn't give you any right to claim understanding of the point of view of men being blindsided in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:58 PM
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They are single but dating guys that say they're in a relationship because they're dating like 3-5 women at a time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:59 PM
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I'm curious because I'm having a hard time with this. Some things i used to think as tells for high ended up being false and others i used as low were too popular that women faked these tells on purpose initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:50 PM
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What are your tells for high/low?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:31 PM
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Can you be more specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:02 PM
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Attention is not approval. Grabbing someone's attention does not usually imply you're also seeking their approval. Sometimes it implies you're looking to get some kind of benefit from them. Your statement is true in some cases but not in others. Also, how can you judge if a man is putting up a masculine front for attention or if he is just like that normally? Are professional athletes doing it to attract women? One could easily make this argument...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:02 PM
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Get rich and learn game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:06 PM
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Yes, the internet is full of shit that doesn't make sense as well as perceptions of people that lived lives unlike yours who may have different stances on the topic you're talking about, what else is new? Same can be said for men. There are posts on the internet that say men need to be in tune with their emotions and then there are other posts saying men shouldn't cry or express their feelings to their partner... so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:01 PM
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Effectively, most of the population whether they know it or not, agrees with the idea that the genders are equal, but that we must also artificially elevate women and give them special privileges... i.e. anecdotal evidences can be used by them but not against them. Feminism is very much concerned with controlling and policing speech, it's become a very Orwellian ideology since it's inception as a simple civil rights movement. The way institutions are biased towards women today is due to the idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:37 PM
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" I told a few women this recently, and they lost their shit. " They lost their shit because you took away their power of exculpability, regret, anti-slut defenses. You're supposed to know better than that bro. Most women want a reason to avoid accountability for sleeping with a guy they're not going to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:22 PM
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Red pill philosophy explains this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:10 PM
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Whoever executed the psyop against the redpill to completely disfigure the original message was sucessfull.. I've literally had an argument with someone on this sub claiming that resentment about women having sex is fundamental belief of redpill philosophy and did not believe me when I said the whole point of the redpill is to not care about a woman's past because you understand it's just your turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:07 PM
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Every red pilled man shouldn't have any negative reaction to the video - if they do, they are not a red pilled man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:51 PM
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Money Looks Game. Have at least 2. All three is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:42 PM
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This is literally one of the stages of the red pill. Accepting that she's not yours and it's just your turn, that she has a past due to having more opportunities than men in her younger years, and appreciating the experience with her. Carrying resentment about women's sexual experience is normally associated with blue pill mindset because of the illusion of purity the blue pill lens filters for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:28 PM
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Oh so it's bad for women huh? Why should men care?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:48 PM
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The desire of hypergamy is always there. However, the zero sum nature of mating means it can't always be actualized. Inherently every man wants a perfect 10, biologically multiple perfect 10's are even better. Every woman always wants the most powerful man in the world, but not all of them can get resource commitment from him. So yes, the highest value men and women always settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:58 PM
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Men have no standards and will fuck anything / Men have tons of standards but can't say any of them because of feminism Men have standards and won't fuck anything. Men can say them and get shamed for having them. Women should have as few partners as possible / women should sleep with any man she dates as fast as possible Women should sleep with a man as fast as possible and stick with him for the rest of their lives. Casual sex is terrible, ruins you for future partners, and increases the probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:35 PM
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So long as men make absolute embarrassing nuisances of themselves, the men who are more relaxed will succeed by comparison. You realize you are literally repeating the red-pill right here? Also, what's wrong with approaching X number of women? Dating for red pill men is shooting a school of fish with a shotgun. For blue pill men it's sniper mentality. Neither way is objectively good or bad just has a different lifestyle and may or may not be appropriate for a certain man depending on his own goa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:13 PM
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Like a good little doggy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:10 PM
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I should've said "loses more" than if he was a woman. The kids will most likely be awarded to the woman. So will the house. If the man was not the breadwinner, the woman won't have to pay alimony, etc. Conversely, a woman who was a stay at home mom can be single (officially) and have less responsibilities while maintaining the same standard of living as awarded by the courts. A man can't do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:48 PM
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Hypothetically yes, when the ratio of stay at home moms is equal to stay at home dads and the amount of relationships with male breadwinners is equal to the amount of relationships with female breadwinners. However, in practice it will never be as men will be scrutinized more often in the courts due to the presuppositions of being the breadwinner. If women paid the same cost as men did, the divorce initiation rate would be pretty close to 50-50 by gender - but it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:28 PM
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Who is mad? The response was answering to the poster above who could not differentiate between flirting and a shit test. You're missing something that makes you believe the below are more than just information gathering or rejection statements when said by a woman to a man: What are we? When was the last time you had sex? You're boring You look like a player Etc. That something is probably called the experience of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:12 PM
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Old concepts of binding yourself to someone for life, no matter what happens are no longer applicable. If you are no longer the best mate your parter can get, you will be abandonned. The problem is that whether the man find a better mate or the woman finds a better mate the man loses in both cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:41 PM
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So what I understand you're saying is that a fully grown male should be reluctant to share his experiences from his teenage years with other men as it would show that he is stunted. Can you imagine if society labeled grown women sharing their experiences of being used by players in their teenage and young adulthood as pretty pathetic and indicating social stuntedness? Society as whole would keep repeating the same mistakes over and over again...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:18 PM
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Am I the only girl you're sleeping with? Is this flirting? No. Is it a shit test? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:12 PM
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If a man is so hypersensitive he can't handle flirting and teasing, I rule him out for sure, but it isn't a "shit test The first two lines are basically the definition of a shit test. The third line is a woman denying that men have the ability to observe and classify female behavior. I wonder why though? In my opinion, she is paranoid that if an awkward asocial man understands and learns about shit-testing she will no longer be able to filter men that naturally had it and ones that had to learn …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:09 PM
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I haven't seen anyone crying about it and communicating this for the benefit of future men that are currently boys that learn it earlier sounds like a good thing. Is there a reason you would like men not to share their experiences with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:48 PM
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You literally just proved their point, as kids they were given advice by movies that they are now realizing was misleading. What's the issue with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:41 PM
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Attraction does not imply compatibility in a long term relationship. Just cause the asshole can get in the pants of a nice guy's girlfriend doesn't mean she would leave her beta bux relationship for him. I would add that most assholes are single because they don't sacrifice their own time to make women happy (this is what it takes to be called an asshole nowdays). The reason they can do this without issues is because they know they can have a steady supply of sex regardless if they're in a relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:23 PM
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"I'm allowed to judge anyone" Then "Men who call me a slut for not being a virgin are abusive, incels, etc."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:08 PM
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That's quite a game to play, especially considering there's no real point. Isn't it more realistic that you just might not feel horny towards someone you resent? Yes, what's upsetting is how would a husband be looked at if he stopped listening to his wife and caring for her financial needs because he is resentful at her for not having sex with him? He would be called "emotionally/financially abusive and coercive". This is not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:56 PM
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Huh? I'm not pretending that men like anything, I'm simply pointing out that as a woman you've decided that your opinion on sex and relationships is the only morally right and ethical way to see them. That comment was more so for any man who doesn't share your views and understands that he is being manipulated with guilt messaging from you projecting your own views. No need for insults towards people who are different than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:28 PM
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Average ppl can do whatever they want because relationships are optional. If you don’t think there’s a benefit to having a relationship then stay single. What if I think the benefit to a relationship is sexual desire from my partner? I'm led to believe this is the case initially. After a few years and marriage, kids, the sexual desire stops. Any time I try to talk about this I'm labeled abusive for expressing frustration that my needs aren't being met. What is the right thing to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:31 PM
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Men and women have different definitions of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:29 PM
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I would say people with BPD/NPD are the worst culprits. Maybe some players are in that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:19 PM
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That's up to him. Would he be wrong for leaving someone who doesn't meet his needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:12 PM
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Viewing sex as a "return on investment" as opposed to the result of a genuine connection between two humans suggests that you don't really consider the other person. It's a pretty sad and frankly sociopathic view on relationships that does not bode well for anyone. Translation: "Being a man is shameful because women decide what's the right way how both sexes should see sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:48 PM
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Gee who would expect women or men to give advice that's not in their best interests? The red pill is really about avoiding these illusions lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:43 PM
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Men are allowed to regard women as products, but that doesn’t mean it’s correct or an ethical view of human beings. Women are allowed to regard men as purchasing power, but that doesn’t mean it’s correct or an ethical view of human beings. The problems happen when a women with that view meets a man who doesn't regard her as a product and vice versa. Unfortunately, women who regard men as purchasing power and men who regard women as products usually do not last long. In what way would expecting t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:32 PM
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Everything you said is true!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:29 PM
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If that's his type, all the power to him! The whole point is that the guy who made the post above should be allowed to say he's not interested in someone because they're fat without being labeled a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:18 PM
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women do x for other guys so they should do it for me too" etc. They are allowed to have this expectation, aren't they? So you agree that women that complain their boyfriend didn't want to marry them after two years of dating because he found out that she gave head to some guy on a first date but refused to do the same for him are actually delusional because they boyfriend is fully allowed to make that decision, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:06 PM
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Tact is a skill and beneficial when used appropriately. How did you translate this to "men do not value tact"? Assuming men say what you claim, it is still unreasonable and biased to prefer women to men. It is reasonable to prefer tactful people to untactful people, regardless of gender which may mean that more women are preferred to men if men do not value tact.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:03 PM
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women: "here are some things I'm going to accuse you of saying that you never actually said" also women: "you're such a hypocrite"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:20 PM
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Someone is coming on to you and you have zero attraction…so you pay them attention and hear them out before telling them they are unattractive? Yes, I'm not going to just disrespect someone by ignoring them and act repulsed by the fact that they approached me. Attraction is relative, it's not truthful to say they are unattractive. I would say either I'm not interested in them or let them know they are not my type. For some reason you keep trying to make it personal, as if looking for something t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:06 PM
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I gotcha and I agree. My point is there is benefit in saying the truth even if it is mean. Do you agree or disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:56 PM
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level 4HighestTierMaslow · 17 min. agoNo Pill Woman. I hate people.The whole issue is that it has become acceptable for every woman (regardless of what level they're on) to feel entitled to set the same expectations for the top x% of guys Maybe you're right. However, I should've stated"every woman [not in a relationship]"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:55 PM
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If you're imagining me going up to a fat chick and telling her that she's fat and not good enough for me - you're missing the context. The context here from the earlier posts is that someone is coming to me and has expectations/desires of me. I am paying attention and hearing them out. Then responding with the truth as I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:51 PM
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Glad we agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:47 PM
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Is it wrong to expect unconditional love in exchange for unconditional love? This hurts my brain to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:42 PM
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Congrats! You win the truth!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:40 PM
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Your whole example is based on something that can't be changed. Guess what, being fat can usually be changed (unless it's dues to medical conditions - which I'm sorry but it is what it is) if a fat chick goes up to a guy out who is fitness focused, there is a reason for the put down. Maybe if she was also fitness focused earlier in life, she would've met the love of her life and they would've been compatible due to similar interests. Alternatively, if a woman has financial expectations from a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:03 PM
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No I don't. Didn't make that argument that it's a good policy 100% of the time. In the case of rejecting a fat chick it definitely is. Hearing the whole truth is always positive, it allows me to see what people truly think of me. Why would not knowing how people truly think of me not be a positive thing for me? When I conduct a job interview, I probably wouldn't invite a weirdo loser. However, if I actually thought that, i would say something to communicate how far away from the expectations of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:58 PM
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Tact is a skill and beneficial when used appropriately. When someone believes in fairy tales and that is why they allowed themselves to let themselves go - it's not. Hiding the truth to avoid hurting someone's feelings only causes them to live in disillusionment and frustration. If a man lost his job and doesn't want to get off the couch and drinks beer all day instead of being motivated, would you avoid calling him lazy for the sake of being tactful? Again, tip toeing around the truth is not he…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:43 PM
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A woman pointing out her own beauty is not objectification It really is. You can go through any kind of mental gymnastics you want but you're not fooling anyone. Whether it's said out lout and admitted or not, literally every single female influencer is profiting from objectifying themselves according to the feminist definition If women weren't so quick to scream "objectification" when any male asked his wife to cook or clean, it wouldn't have gotten to be this way. Comparable to now any man sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:02 PM
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Why wouldn't he say it? it's the truth as he sees it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:31 PM
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Yes, money = power and control for your lifestyle which includes your relationships. I don't think any guy wants to be a full financial supporter, however if you want a sexy wife who has the energy and desire to be sexual with you at your beck and call it's only natural that you will have to be able to afford a life of luxury and provision for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:19 PM
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Women are cool with it! Why do you think so many are hopelessly in situation ships where the guy has no plans of committing? They know this is the reality and they just get sad if they don't get picked for commitment and try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:09 PM
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Thanks! Is your point that wearing something "provocative" is not a factor to getting sexually assaulted/harassed?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:55 PM
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I totally agree! So? The double standard is there because if any person dresses provocatively, he/she is sexually objectifying themselves. Men are already commonly considered to be sexually available whereas women are not. That's why a woman dressing provocatively is held to a different standard - the outcome of the decision has the same effect but the impact is of a different magnitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:54 PM
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Because men not the one afraid of being raped by women. Edit: To all the virtue signaling folks who automatically assume I'm victim blaming, please get off your high horse. You can acknowledge reality: " The variables found to be related to women's being sexually victimized were (a) number of different lifetime sexual partners, (b) provocative dress, and (c) alcohol use. " https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/9519576/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:12 PM
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Found this elsewhere and feel it's relevant lmfao: https://www.askamanager.org/2024/01/men-are-hitting-on-my-scheduling-bot-because-it-has-a-womans-name.html?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=facebook&fbclid=IwAR2hLWh9G2fi2dxC9OUhJ4JHEHx7JavRxK9rC-my9-sY4nCeZ_Aa0WWa_pA_aem_AWvFvVIm_Pi-meqdOmdJ-szNu3QUiXNUrl0SmrGDBt2UzULTf3YrFPcVIwedGarUYuU
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:15 PM
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I think you're comparing your woman with the general female population in the 18-35 age range these days. As a general rule a women's genuine desire is all that matters. The comment about philanderers is the exception not the rule. To see the rule in action just look at any celebrity/athlete. Look at this: https://nymag.com/intelligencer/2016/10/derrick-rose-nba-teaches-players-to-get-rid-of-used-condoms.html
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:33 PM
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Bingo. That's why the red pill arose. "women wanting things". In every rom com, all a woman wants is a man to "love" her. This is not true - obviously. Yet many men have been raised to believe it is and when reality hits them in the face they don't understand why! Enter the redpill to explain. How many times have you heard a guy complain that he can't understand why his girlfiend left him to be with a douchebag when he "loved" her so much? Those are the guys that need the redpill to avoid becomi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:26 PM
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i went up to a good looking girl at a gas station said hi, my name is ... dated her for two years. she turned out to be crazy lesson: don't cold approach women at gas stations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:29 PM
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The "tactics are highly efficient" is key. If it works, why not share that information? It's up to the student to internalize it. Fake it till they make it. Act until they become. Once the "tactics" become the student's genuine behavior, there isn't a need for dating coaches. Your post assumes personality is static. It's not. Your real self should always be getting "better" whatever you believe that is. If "better" is acting in ways that women like you more. Then is it bad to become that? Absolu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:11 PM
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I think the truth is closer to "prettier people have an easier life".
/r/ExRedPill25/01/24 10:51 PM
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What was your point? That men do not value women and so women are going off marriage? Given that women initiate nearly 70% of all divorces everything you said is just man-hating, maybe it's true for your experience but it contradicts the general trends. If your point is that women are hurt more by divorce then you're obviously living in a different reality or else what is your explanation for the statistics here? https://www.asanet.org/women-more-likely-men-initiate-divorces-not-non-marital-brea…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:39 PM
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Her standards are a guy so desperate that he was willing to wait 1.5 years... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:41 PM
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How long between last FWB encounter and husband first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:40 PM
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Idk i didn't marry someone who wanted to marry me because she did the opposite of "help the man earn that money". lmfao...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:20 PM
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Think of what is being taught to them as "valuable". Women are taught attractiveness is valuable just by the behavior of boys giving them attention. boys are taught that "interesting" boys are the "cool" guys who get the girls. Or maybe boys just don't give a fuck about girls and just like to do cool shit as kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:19 PM
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Correct, individual case decides. If for example, the 39 year old was conversing and establishing a relationship with someone under 18 years of age with the goal of some kind of sexual relationship once the minor becomes of legal age, that would be grooming!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:00 PM
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Ahh spoken like most young men until they've gained the experience firsthand of some tough lessons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:21 PM
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It would be great if women allowed men to share real life experiences with false accusations of "abuse" without accusing them of being abuse-deniers. The point made is that women do actually exaggerate abuse due to the missing contexts of social media psychology. As another example, I've had my friends who tried to prevent their girlfriends from drinking their alcohol in their house labelled as "controlling and violent (for breaking a can of truly)" among their family until they were given a cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:04 PM
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Typical female strawman attack
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:49 PM
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It's wild how many people these days are trying to deny the things they've seen with their own eyes, right? Like it's so obvious and people still try to say it's not true because they don't want to accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:02 PM
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Women whined about a lot of things and look at where they are now!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:58 PM
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In society, men know women are more valuable (9 month pregnancy vs 30 seconds to ejaculate), Is that equivalent to superiority? I guess it can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:58 PM
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It's a lot easier for a 30 year old than a 20 year old...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:24 PM
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Nothing like good old experience to give OP a nice lesson eventually lol..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:21 PM
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The problem is these days women get their definition of "abusive and controlling" from tik tok... So what ends up happening is you have people being told my ex was abusive/controlling because he did [insert any appropriate action taken out of context] and then it's perpetuated to different contexts... example: "making me feel bad for buying sex toys [by asking why one is spending money on this when they haven't paid the rent this month] is financial abuse as I'm entitled to decide how I spend my…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:17 PM
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Spending quality time with your partner through different excursions is what comes with being in a partnership. I think his point is that there's nothing wrong with it as long as it's the man's choice. Guess what's a woman's first reaction when a guy says no? Emotional manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:12 PM
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or to expect to get sex from doing sport/hobby which will lead to disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:10 PM
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Can confirm from personal experience of my reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:07 PM
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Actually this girl Pearl H. Davis does promote woman not voting lol... then again she is nothing like the red pill I learned about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:01 PM
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Statistics say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:00 PM
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The first 3 things are things that women do to compete with each other for the best mate. I didn't understand #4. Claiming they do it for men is nothing but blatant gaslighting. Just the same, men that don't pay for dates should not have the expectation that they should be considered the same as a man that does pay for dates. Men aren't asking you to look at men that pay for dates and don't pay for dates as bringing the same thing to the table...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:32 PM
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This just proves his point, as a man, what is the benefit in talking to a woman about an interesting topic when their typical response to hearing an analysis of society slightly critical of their behavior is a personal attack. Your response is founded on the emotional reaction, and is the reason I know so many men in their 30's that have accepted not marrying and my 20's male friends are being hit on all the time by women in their 30's looking to commit. I know very, very few (if any) men that e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:21 PM
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She's obviously worried the guy will take half her assets since you know he would be a stay at home dad and the courts would make her pay him alimony.... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:06 PM
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Easy, don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:05 PM
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Why though? Shaming isn't bad. People do it all the time to bad people. It's why misogynistic men kicked out of friend circles. Women are allowed to shame men for things and men should be allowed the same opportunity. According to your logic though, a woman believing or mentioning something as basic as "he was a player" is not okay? What kind of censorship is that? Can you imagine if there was a group of male influencers going around complaining to society that they are being shamed for being a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:03 PM
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This is why I always pay, also because I can. It's such a fucking hassle to discuss shit like this and complete waste of time that is easier avoided. If you wanna accuse me of trying to get in your pants for doing so. You're a sick misandrist and I probably won't call you after anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:24 PM
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Life is not fair, the men that can afford it are the ones the women are looking for. When did you get this idea that anyone ever tried to move away from men's gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:42 PM
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course, but why would men’s and women’s motivation for having casual sex be different? Why do some people like casual sex and some don't? Maybe OP doesn't like it and wants to know what should be motivating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:34 PM
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They believe they have the power and are addicted to that feeling..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:23 PM
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A woman takes 9 months compared to the few minutes a man needs to procreate. The decision to have sex has different implications for a man and woman until there is no such thing as accidental pregnancies. This is why it is seen differently when men vs women do it. It does not COME from our social structure. Our social structure made it this way due to our biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:22 PM
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How do you know for sure if she truly repents and changed? It's a trust issue. It's how credit scores work. It's how business relationships work. Past behavior indicates future behavior. Forgiveness is one thing (I don't think sleeping with many ment is something that needs forgiveness actually), acceptance is different. The process of her changing is done with the intention of manipulation... now she is trying to secure men who wouldn't accept a woman with a high body count so the bigger issue …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:16 PM
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I think he is bringing up the amount of influence out there which exists to "shame" his beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:10 PM
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It teaches that what men are taught was "game" such as buying women flowers and being nice in order to get her into bed does not work because it's negotiating attraction. Red pill teaches that you have to BE more attractive by being more interesting in conversation, more successful in life, and developing your own physique. Kind of a stretch to call working on yourself to be more attractive and interesting as "negotiating attraction" but you can simplify it that way if you choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:04 PM
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The thing I'm concerned about is how many women have accused me of being old-school because I don't like having something shoved up my butt. I like dominating women because it makes me feel good. I don't like things in my butt because it actually doesn't do anything erotic for me - not because I'm afraid of being emasculated. Nobody believes me though :) Everyone thinks I've just been conditioned not to like things in my butt. It's next level mindblowing gaslighting that just makes me laugh at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:56 PM
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When they decide to stop trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:50 PM
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Imagine a stay at home mom complaining to her bff... "my husband is such a servile man, I can't believe i have to put up with him" Maybe it's the narcissistic women that work overtime to turn normal men into simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:56 PM
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Let's just say your grandma's didn't have 50 guys with a 6pack and over 6ft in the top 10% of the income bracket available to give her some dick a few times when they were free... so they kind had to behave better for the grandpa instead of just running off to them when grandpa did something they didn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:42 PM
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Automatically date with the expectation that each woman is already doing this... makes it easy to next when they cancel. I think men don't like the fact that women will still lead orbiters on to go on dates when they're already sleeping with the guy they like, as it's more deceitful than when a man simply refuses to commit and the girl is hoping to change his opinion by sticking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:01 PM
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