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DebateBluePillUprising/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:35 PM
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5

When I was single friendships with women often turned into withbeneditsships. Including what became a marriage. I say you should make friends, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:07 AM
5

But embracing the decline does not get them laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:14 PM
13

I don’t think “dirtbag” is the word you are looking for. You just learned to be yourself. And by that I mean talk about stories that happened to you, topics that interest you, etc. You probably also decided not to suck up to people just because they are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:32 PM
0

Are we still allowed to say that gender is fluid?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:48 PM
0

The way I see it, if 19 year olds can access all the money in the United States’ treasury, they’re fair game to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:43 PM
1

Everyone is looking for a relationship where they are valued. People with low self-esteem have trouble finding it because they feel that they are worthless and, as a result, put up with demeaning and disrespectful behavior from their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:00 PM
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Just date people that you like and trust. If you don’t like them or trust them, don’t date them. It’s really just that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:56 PM
7

I think we can just close down this sub now. Because that comment is all we really need to know about the subjects people earnestly debate here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:38 PM
1

Sounds like hell
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:37 PM
3

If men carry themselves with confidence and display people skills and/or an aptitude music, dancing or sports, they will get laid. That statement is true no matter who you heard it from. It’s really all you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:16 PM
1

I’m not trolling at all. When I was single, everyone on my circle of friends was constantly in and out of bed with each other. It did get messy but it was lots of fun. Then, when I did settle down, it was with my very close coworker. We’ve been together for 12 years and have two beautiful children. Hooking up with friends works because you know you like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:53 AM
2

I know how to avoid ever having this “who pays for the date” problem. Don’t go out to dinner with strangers you met on the internet and intend to have sex with. Hook up with people you met at parties instead. Way more fun, less awkward and saves a bunch of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:17 PM
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I’m a man and I’m going to give you some advice on social media: don’t cold approach women. Just have sex with your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:30 PM
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When I was single I avoided this problem by having sex with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:47 AM
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I’m old and married now but once upon a time, I used to find myself in lots of those “situationship” type settings. I’m not that good looking either. Nor do I fully recommend them, monogamy is more fun. However, if you want to hook up with friends. Here’s what you do: Drink. And have friends that also drink. Tell good stories. Be fun to be around- I really can’t emphasize this enough. Like, have go to karaoke songs. Get other people out on the dance floor, all that good stuff. Follow those simpl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:33 PM
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Ok. I’m going to hit you with the bluepilliest of bluepill words ever. Get ready for this - Arguments don’t have sex. Talk less and fuck more. You’re welcome!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:55 AM
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You see this is the problem. Sex is fun. It’s really fun Y’all are acting like it’s national security or something and wondering why you can’t get laid. Just chill the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:19 AM
1

Zero and one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:56 AM
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OP, what you don’t know is that Basic Bob is really good at giving head. It’s the “Bob” part of Basic Bob that makes him just perfect how he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:30 AM
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I think it correlates to just being chickenshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:07 AM
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Here’s the thing: if you’re “putting effort” into getting women, you’re not getting any. Yes, it’s a Catch 22 and yes it’s unfair but it’s just the way the world works. The trick is to have a cool life. Tell stories, be quick with a joke, listen to other people without considering the possibility of getting into their pants, go out, have a go to song at karaoke, be the first on the dance floor. Be a fun person And the rest just comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:53 AM
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Try explaining this to a 22 year old virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:10 PM
1

Only one way to handle this: whine less and fuck more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:22 PM
0

If women are having more casual sex than men we need to overtake them. If you need volunteers…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:00 PM
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Fucking hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:58 PM
1

The first way is the right way but you have to really mean it. If you be your best you and go and have fun and meet people because that’s what you’re into. Not because you’re looking to hookup, eventually the hookups will just happen. You won’t even realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:44 PM
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In fact, when you are having fun, you become a more attractive person too. So it’s win - win!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:32 PM
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Easy way to avoid this problem - marry dudes who make way less money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:12 PM
11

If men could get pregnant, they would start acting like women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:26 PM
2

Yeah, this is exactly what I wanted to say. And I’ll bet if we look at their parents we can find clues into their preferences too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:31 PM
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There are indeed. People are typically attracted to youth and fitness for example for biological reasons. But people don’t lie about what they’re attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:59 PM
5

But you are saying that people “lie about who they are attracted to”. This may happen in extremely rare circumstances but in general people simply are not aware of what attributes they are attracted to, even if those characteristics are toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:13 PM
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How is it different?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:08 PM
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I’m going to say that most people don’t really know why they are attracted to the people they are attracted to. Not just women. If I use myself as an example, it is really only when I look back at my youth (I’m 48) that I realize that most of the women I seriously dated and even my wife now are slightly “boyish” and petite and bisexual and very assertive in their personality. But that was not something that I sought out consciously. I have a really good friend whose wife (a very “girly girl”) le…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:49 PM
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I’m pretty sure all human beings behave differently when they find someone attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:38 PM
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I stand corrected!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:29 PM
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Christian Bible says nothing about tattoos and looks askance at debt collectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:03 PM
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Whether it’s a damaging message or not, there are people who already think this way and likely always will and there are those who think this is total bullshit and likely always will. Haters gonna hate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:55 PM
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I don’t know if I could possibly disagree more. I am married to a person that I worked really closely with for almost a year before we sort “accidentally” found ourselves making out at an after work party one day. Before being married I don’t even know how many times I hooked up with people that I already knew from work and/or just a circle of friends happened. And I am by no means exceptional. All of the people around me, men and women, gay and straight, were doing the same thing. You don’t “lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:22 PM
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Ok. I think may have found the problem. If every time you talk to a woman, you’re thinking, “is this the person who’s going to have sex with me and have my baby”, you might come across as a little unnatural.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:16 AM
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Here’s a mind blowing proposition for you: don’t develop skills for talking to women, develop skills for talking to people. The best way to do this is to have an interesting and fulfilling life, acquire experiences and skills that you can share with others. Learn how to listen actively and emphatically. Apply humor to diffuse tense and emotional situations. See where that takes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 10:29 AM
5

Spluge
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:22 PM
37

What?! You’re trying to tell me that you don’t switch positions four or five times while you’re having sex, make as much noise as you possibly can while you’re doing it, and try to maximize the amount of spluge you get all over your girlfriend when you shoot your load? What the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:22 PM
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What do you mean exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:30 PM
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Yeah I’ve heard this too. Asking someone to do you a favor is a good way to not be intimidated by the person as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:34 PM
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Yeah, you pretty much got it. Only thing I would add is that it is ok to practice random acts of kindness. Like is if you help someone change a tire by the side of the road or help a mom carry a stroller down the stairs. But that is in no way connected to romance obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:09 PM
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There are two things that the people who complain about “nice guys” not finding romantic success usually miss. One is that if you do a lot of favors for people who haven’t done anything in return, you will look pathetic and be taken advantage of. This works for all relationships too. Parents who shower their children with gifts are not respected, students make little effort in classes where the teacher gives easy As. This is human nature. The second is that while it is important to be respectful…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:41 AM
2

Great song
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:18 AM
2

I’m interested to know about your experiences with approaching women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:23 PM
2

Dude, yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:46 PM
1

Hooking up with people is different. Just accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:11 PM
0

You don’t need to tell them. Just do it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:04 PM
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I’d tell her that I’m going to report her to HR if she doesn’t back the fuck off. No, seriously though, she’s probably right. Generally speaking, “approaching women”, as in asking them out with the express purpose of initiating some kind of intimate relationship, is not a good idea. Not that I haven’t done it, but it’s literally never worked. Attending mixed sex events that involve alcohol and dancing on the other hand, that’s the ticket.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:43 PM
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Yeah, you got that right. We were expats.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:29 PM
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We were often out for drinks and parties in this office. High stress environment. Had a party at my place and she remained after everyone else had left. 11 years later we have two kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:27 PM
1

Quite the opposite. But bear in mind that this was a group of expats and drinking and partying were constant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:49 PM
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100% the opposite for me. I married my coworker and before that I was in a social group where we were always in and out of bed with each other. It got messy sometimes but it was fun !
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:40 PM
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What kinds of systemic or structural barriers cause men to be lonely? What can women do to mitigate this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:06 PM
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Speaking of economics, consider this: Monogamy and basically all the traditional sexual mores (shaming promiscuous women and homosexual men) came from a time when close to 100% of people lived in agricultural communities. In such circumstances, there is a clear incentive to have lots of children as they significantly increase economic production and security (more hands to work the land) and promiscuity is also profoundly disruptive in a society where wealth is passed through bloodlines and almo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:49 PM
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OP, here is the question, who is going to enforce your idea, some kind of sex dictatorship? I can tell that this is not going to happen. And the reason is lies in understanding economics. Monogamy and basically all the traditional sexual mores (shaming promiscuous women and homosexual men) came from a time when close to 100% of people lived in agricultural communities. In such circumstances, there is a clear incentive to have lots of children as they significantly increase economic production an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:53 PM
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So, when you got attention from overweight women, did that feel like privilege to you? Because I think that’s the point that OP is trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:36 PM
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Well that does sound awful. Watching a grown adult throw a tantrum is not a pleasant experience, right? Now imagine how that would feel if the person in question could kick your ass. Would that feel like an advantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:29 PM
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I’m not a woman and I hear your frustration but I don’t think you are really thinking about this in the correct way. Having a plethora of people who want to have sex with you but who are not attractive to you is not an advantage, to anyone. Have you ever been in a situation where a woman is interested in you but you are not interested in her? Or have you ever had a gay guy come on to you really hard? It does not feel good, right? In fact, it feels really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:29 PM
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But is people not wanting to have sex an example of systematic discrimination?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:32 PM
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I think what you are characterizing as an advantage is simply a difference in sexuality. All people want to have sex with people they find attractive. Women have just as much trouble finding a person who meets their criteria as men, they just have more criteria. But you have standards too. You could have sex with other lonely dudes (which is what prisoners and sailors have done for millennia) you just don’t want to. Same goes for women who complain that they can’t find a good man. They know that…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:31 PM
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OP, you are using the language of the social justice movement (“privilege” “ignorance”) to describe what I guess you would term as a systemic advantage that women have in dating. But how would you mitigate that advantage? Are you suggesting dating quotas? Do you think that women should have sex with people that they don’t find attractive? Would you have sex with someone you don’t fancy? Can dating be fair? What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:53 AM
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I seriously cannot imagine being in a relationship with such a low level of trust. If this is how both parties feel, just break up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:24 PM
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Probably the solution is whacking women over the head with a club and dragging them back to your cave
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:31 PM
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Read the last paragraph of my comment. I’m not anti-porn. I enjoy it in moderation. But I think it has a detrimental effect on a lot of young people who have no actual experience with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:14 PM
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How is average sex different from porn sex? Let’s make a list: ⁠You don’t have to worry about camera angles and the like so there is more hugging and less switching of positions. ⁠Tends to be less noisy. There are people that really squeal and moan but not constantly throughout the entire act as is the norm in porn. ⁠Tends to be more gentle. I’m all about a good hard fuck now and then but in porn it’s never the soft romantic love making and just straight pounding usually. ⁠Tends to be more clums…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:49 AM
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Fun people are sexy. They have an easy smile, they tell funny stories, they have a go to song at karaoke night or a little dance they like to do. Nothing too elaborate, just something that says, “this guy knows how to have a good time, and I like how I feel around him.” You cannot really exhibit this behavior if you’re worried about why some other guys get laid and others don’t or about a formula for success. Just relax, enjoy the ride that is life, have a little bit of fun and then see where th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:24 AM
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Chill the fuck out and enjoy life + having hobbies and interests which engender meeting fun and interesting people - stress and resentment toward people who have already had sex = state of mind where entering into a intimate relationship is actually possible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:09 AM
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Cubicle Carl sounds like a catch!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:31 PM
2

Every meaningful relationship I ever had with a woman, including my marriage, just happened without being proactive. That doesn’t mean I just sat on my ass at home and whacked off, I went out and did shit. But wherever I was like, “I need to find a lady!”, it never worked out. And I when I was focusing on other stuff it did. Just sayin’.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:34 PM
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Having had two kids, I really cannot imagine demanding a paternity test. Like, the thought never even entered my head. If I had had any doubts about my wife’s fidelity, I would have left the marriage. The only reason I can conceive of demanding a paternity test is if a person that I had only had sex with casually was claiming I impregnated her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:49 PM
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A prenup is not trusting your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:46 PM
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In OP’s world there are those suckers who are nice to people that they want to fuck and the chads who treat the people they want to fuck with disdain and indifference. I wonder if there is a way of interacting with other people on the basis of their individual humanity and assessing their suitability for intimacy based on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:47 PM
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I found the opposite to be true. Having a large circle of mixed sex friends who are comfortable around you provides amble opportunities for hook ups and “with benefits” type of affairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:41 PM
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I have two things say. First - Lots of people say they want one thing and then do something else. Nothing surprising in this. It is frustrating but it’s human nature. My advice is to just accept it and don’t resent something that won’t change. Second - As oxymoronic as it might be there is a storied tradition of men having sex with men in prison or in the navy and then going back to women later. And like literally millions of bisexual men walking the earth all the time. It’s a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:50 AM
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I think you’ll find that your comment does not hold up to any scrutiny whatsoever. Sexual fluidity was the norm in many civilizations, including classical civilization, which is one of the bedrocks of the modern west. Homosexual behavior between prisoners and military men remains common. And then the existence of bisexual men. I mean…come on! What are you saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:54 AM
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I am absolutely not using it as an insult. First and foremost as I have had male and female partners. But that’s beside the point. I see post after post, comment after comment from men on this sub who are obviously frustrated and confounded by the behavior and sexuality of women. So…I reckon to myself, “why don’t they get satisfaction somewhere else?” Homosexual sex between heterosexual men is nothing new. And if you are attentive to one another’s needs and desires, it can be quite fulfilling. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:02 AM
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I think we need to read between the lines a little. It’s a common meme here that women like manipulative assholes. I would say that’s only part true. Lots of women can’t stand manipulative assholes (and lots of men), however, manipulative assholes almost always find someone to have sex with if they are so inclined. And that makes sense. Manipulative people are good at getting what they want, even if it means other people get hurt. That’s what makes them manipulative assholes, right? So, any pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:32 PM
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No, no one wants to be that. And what’s more, think that even if you wanted to become one, you would be able to. Manipulative assholes are born, not made.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:28 PM
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You did say everyone is going to have to marry a “reformed sl*t”. Doesn’t sound ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:26 PM
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You’re just jealous that Niki and I French kissed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:00 PM
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OP, I have a clarifying question. Based on how you wrote this, “everyone is gonna marry a reformed sl*t”, “men should be manipulative and abusive” and things of that nature, you really don’t seem to have much respect for women. You seem to resent them for wanting something that you don’t really want to be. So…maybe they’re just not your thing? I’m not saying that to troll. It just seems like a logical conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:55 AM
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So now we’re gonna have to submit a sexual history along with a work and education on our resumes? I’m totally gonna say I made out with Niki Manaj.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:49 AM
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In my experience this is mostly just window dressing. You go to the training, you parrot the phrases, you get your paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:51 PM
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Life has never been fair. And you have access to resources and advantages that earlier generations could not have imagined. Young men are experiencing less romantic success because of how the internet has made it possible to live a life completely devoid of human interaction. This is the problem, not some cruel form of “discrimination”. I don’t often agree with Peterson, I actually think he’s a bit of a joke, but he’s absolutely right here. You can make choices that will make you feel better abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:00 PM
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I kind of had this happen to me. After a terrible break up that left me absolutely devastated, I was just like, “Fuck it. I’m not doing this anymore.” And I stopped hoping for love and wanting it but I didn’t stop going out and having fun for my own pleasure. And I think that made a big difference. Because there were suddenly a ton an interested women. But I kind of steadfastly refused to date anyone until one day I hooked up with a coworker after a party at my place. The next day, instead of be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:59 AM
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My point was that in my case, I was so stressed out about it being my first time that I couldn’t help but tell the truth and then when I did, everything was fine. And I was in my 20s, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:13 AM
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21
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:46 AM
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True, but as everybody has but one virginity to give, it’s hard to gather a sample. I think it will be fine for the OP if has a good emotional connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:36 AM
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When I lost my virginity (nearly 30 fucking years ago…) I tried to play it off like I knew what I was doing and I was so nervous that I couldn’t get it up. Eventually, after trying probably four or five times, I told her I was a virgin and she was super understanding and we had a relationship that lasted like four years. And then we had a horrible break up. But that wasn’t such a big deal in the long run, because I got really good at sex! Sorry, that story was a bit discombobulated. I’m just say…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:28 AM
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Of course. But the meeting is not happening because with the expectation that we might have sex. It’s happening because we got invited to the same party or we’ve been assigned to work on the same project or something. It’s happening naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:39 PM
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Theoretically. But it’s called a “dating app” for a reason, right? The expectation is that you find a person to hook up with. And you are still meeting a stranger that somehow rated you based on attractiveness, right? Isn’t that what the whole “swipe right, swipe left” thing is about. Sounds awful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:30 PM
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I am somewhat extroverted but do like my alone time too. But that’s not really relevant here. Being in a relationship with someone is not easy. You have to be patient and empathetic and you have to accept that you won’t always get things as you want. Really hard to acquire those skills if you don’t have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:27 PM
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Yes. Because I got to know them a person to talk to and hang out with before I got to know them as a sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:24 PM
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I realize that people frown on it. But I met my wife at work and I think that the bond that we formed working on stressful projects together and dealing with a dipshit boss was an essential component of making our relationship work. Seriously, in a lot of ways, no one knows what shit you have to deal with like your coworkers. I recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:58 PM
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If you don’t have or want friends, I’m thinking there are very few people that would be interested in dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:52 PM
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I’ve been with the same person since 2012 and never used a dating app when I was single. They sound awful. I really can’t imagine anything more awkward and uncomfortable than going out with a stranger that I might have sex with. Yuck. Can’t people just hook up with friends and coworkers the old fashioned way?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:40 PM
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I feel like this should not be such a problem. If you’re at the point where you’re worried about someone being “parasitic”, just break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:01 AM
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Quite possibly the best answer I’ve ever seen on this sub .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:19 PM
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How is average sex different from porn sex? Let’s make a list: You don’t have to worry about camera angles and the like so there is more hugging and less switching of positions. Tends to be less noisy. There are people that really squeal and moan but not constantly throughout the entire act as is the norm in porn. Tends to be more gentle. I’m all about a good hard fuck now and then but in porn it’s never the soft romantic love making and just straight pounding usually. Tends to be more clumsy. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:03 PM
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I’m not a radfem and I certainly do enjoy porn when I get chance (which is not that often because I have two kids and a full time job) but I can give you another reason that porn is not good. It’s bad for you. It creates a completely false impression of what sex is actually like and it saps the energy that you could have spent actually getting into a relationship with someone. I guarantee you that a large percentage of the dudes that incessantly whine about unavailable women are on this sub are …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:38 AM
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I think that there are two keys really. First is to speak about your partner with respect. I’ve known dudes who are like, “yah, dawg! I tapped that ass and peaced out. That bitch had hairy nipples!” That is a very ugly thing to say and it should be called out. The other is to be sure that your audience wants to hear the details of your sex life. Some people are really freaked out by sex and should not be subjected to unwanted information.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:06 PM
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I love it when my wife goes on and on to her girlfriends about how awesome my cock is. She even has a name for each vein - her favorite is Generalissimo Maximiliano. 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:54 PM
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I’m sorry to hear that you had those experiences. I’ve been in situations where I was very hurt because of feelings that had changed but I can’t say that I ever was lied to so directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:09 PM
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Well put. And this comment encapsulates the ironic and confounding nature of intergender sexual relationships. And…as awesome as masturbation can be, it somehow always falls short of actual sex. My advice, and I mean this very sincerely, is develop your douchebagdar and use it liberally when selecting sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:40 PM
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That sounds like less fun than an eye popping orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:27 PM
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I’m not being sarcastic. I just have a juvenile sense of humor. Check out this gif of future you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:09 PM
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I’ll be completely honest here. I actually do think I’m rather good at sex. And that’s because I’ve been told that I am and because sex has been a big part of my life and my relationships. I like it a lot and I do it a lot. But I wasn’t always this way. There was a time when I obsessed over how much my cock was being craved and it kinda ruined the first relationship I ever had actually. So, my advice to you is to just relax and enjoy sex. It’s a really great time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:06 PM
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All right, dude. Godspeed to you in your quest to become King Dong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:55 PM
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I’m not trying to insult you here but what you saying is so ridiculous that you either are trolling or you’ve just never had sex. Which is totally fine, by the way. It’s just not what you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:46 PM
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Here is the thing. From what I know, what makes sex amazing when it’s really good is an emotional connection and experience having sex with that person. So, it is very likely that the first time you have sex with someone it’s going to be a little weird. And that’s OK and normal. But if you’re patient it’s going to get better and better. And the vast majority of people in the real world (not Netflix) don’t have a connection to their exes anymore. So even though the sex might have been just fantas…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:43 PM
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Take a good look at what you just wrote. Do you think that you are relationship material here? Would you advise someone to date you? Someone who will commit suicide if they are not the best fuck ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:36 PM
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Worrying about a partner’s ex or obsessing over your own ex is relationship poison. That’s really all you need to know
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:34 PM
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The easy way to avoid being used for sex is to have more fun having sex than your partner. That way you use them for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:32 PM
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Dude, you got to let this go or you’re never going to have a normal relationship. Here is what you need to know. If a woman you’re in a relationship with wants to have sex a lot and if after you do it she starts giggling like crazy or panting or just having a look in her face like she’s really high, that means you did a good job in the sack and she’s happy. Be satisfied with that and you will have bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:29 PM
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Have you ever been in a relationship with a woman who was not sexually attracted to you? That seems bizarre to me. I would leave that relationship for her sake and my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:23 PM
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Again, this sounds exactly like the arguments that all bigots use. “I assume some black people are ok but…enough of them are criminals that you are better off not taking chances.” Just treat every person as an individual. It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:48 PM
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I still don’t get why it’s ok to assume men are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:34 PM
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Being prejudiced against a massive group of people is always bad. Your argument is akin to saying that we can’t trust black people because many are criminals or we shouldn’t let Muslims in the country because they are terrorists. Not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:28 PM
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Why does it bother you, my brother. Understand. Accept. Adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:00 AM
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Yeah, but Europe also doesn’t have incels. The government hands out sex to all the kids when they turn 15
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:31 PM
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I never really understood the problem with the “FriendZone”. I’m old but in the circle of friends and coworkers I had in my 20s and 30s it was completely normal to hook up. That’s where most relationships started and that’s where my marriage started. To me it seems awkward and bizarre to go out with someone you don’t even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:19 PM
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Not really sure what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:11 PM
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But social legitimacy of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:58 AM
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Ok. But how to translate this to the dating world?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:22 AM
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Good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:21 AM
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Theoretically you can effectively lobby a corporation to pay its employees more or to treat customers better. But I cannot imagine using logic and reasoning to convince someone to be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:01 AM
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I understand and sympathize that people who are inconsistent are frustrating but I don’t think that ranting about it is healthy or helpful. It just exacerbates this sense of injustice. Just accept it. People say that want one thing and then do another. Make it work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:00 AM
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Is it insane or actually kind of normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:15 AM
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There is nothing tasteful or logical or fair about anyone’s sexuality anywhere. Why would anyone expect that there is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:13 AM
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Well, there is the fact that gay people exist for one. There is the fact that some people prefer overweight people, old people, bald people. There are the beauty standards that evolve over time and which are different in different places.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:10 AM
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How do you envision making dating fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:46 AM
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What would “not much” look like? What would a small percentage of men have to do? What would the lives of women after the end of “fine and dandy” feminism look like. Be specific
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:25 AM
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Please elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:19 AM
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How would men stop feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:15 AM
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How can we fix the inequalities in dating? What can we, as a society, do to address the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:11 AM
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I’m not trying to shame virgins or anyone else. I’m simply pointing out that dating isn’t fair and isn’t meant to be. I feel like accepting that and not being bitter about it would help a lot of people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:03 AM
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Because it feels really good to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:01 AM
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It’s a fine idea but it never really works. From my own experience, I remember a time when I was new in a city and I met a girl who seemed to like me and kept texting me and calling so I gave it a try. Even though my heart wasn’t in it. It didn’t work. I wasn’t attracted to her and I felt like shit. So, I dumped her and she felt like shit too. You cannot logic your way into attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:00 AM
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Outstanding comment. You are very wise. I’m guessing English is not your first language but you still put this very well and I wholeheartedly agree with what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:56 PM
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Wow. You put this very eloquently. I sincerely think that your intellect should open the door to romance for you if you can let go of some of the resentment I’m feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:53 PM
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You are the 2nd person to say this so bluntly. You recognize what women find attractive, you just hate it. Do I have that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:21 PM
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Hmm… This is a very self aware and articulate statement. I would think that your intellect alone should be enough to find a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:19 PM
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You are 100% right about that. And this goes for all people, of all genders and sexualities
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:02 PM
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People are different. Different people are attracted to different things. Let unraveling the mystery be a joy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:56 PM
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I get what you’re saying. I posted what I posted to point out that dating is not fair and it’s never going to be and it’s not even supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:46 PM
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Ok. If we are using abolition of slavery as a metaphor, what is the equivalent of the Emancipation Proclamation or the 14 Amendment? Can we govern our way to lonely dudes getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:19 PM
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I wouldn’t disagree with this. I would add that you don’t just need to learn game, however, but learn to love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:14 PM
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I think men’s desire is set to be on all the time. It takes more effort but women are turned on it’s pretty powerful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:07 PM
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Well, I can assure you that men cheat on women. And that poor people commit for robbery.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:05 PM
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“Bad faith” is one of those Redditisms that means nothing to me. I am being sincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:58 PM
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Physically attractive people have more success having sex with people that they barely know. Is this surprising to anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:54 PM
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But why? Why not just warn against manipulative and insincere people of any gender and sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:51 PM
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That seems to be the case indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:47 PM
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So, you are suggesting foregoing sex with women completely? I do not recommend. I enjoy my heterosexuality and that’s why I made this post
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:46 PM
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Women certainly do sleep with misogynists. Manipulative and cruel people do tend to have a lot of success, both in the bedroom and without.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:44 PM
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Can you give me the steelman version?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:41 PM
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I don’t think I’ve heard anyone of any gender suggest that. And if anyone does, man or woman, they are full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:18 PM
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But what can you change? Are you going to use logic and reasoning to convince someone to change their sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:17 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:12 PM
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I see how cathartic it could be to point out inconsistency, however, as you say, it’s best to accept the reality and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:57 PM
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Generally speaking, people make sexual decisions with zero consideration for logic or other people’s feelings or long term consequences or any of that stuff. It’s just the id driving the car. The sooner you make peace with this fact, the more you’ll understand the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:22 AM
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I sometimes say it to guys who make this long list of why they hate who women are and what women do. Usually, it boils down to they don’t understand women and find them to be illogical. So, I’m like, if you want to bust a nut with someone who makes sense to you, put a wig on your buddy and get him to go down on you. Then return the favor. Honestly, it’s how the navy worked for most of reported history
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:53 PM
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I’m not a woman and I don’t want to speak for them but I do believe that this flies the face of what they prefer sexually. Most heterosexual women in my experiences and relationships are turned on by interactions and innuendo. This is precisely what confounds a lot of the men who complain about being lonely here. They want women to be like them and just want sex with some generic “hot person”. It’s not going to happen OP. Having sex with hookers is a guy thing. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:06 PM
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There are no leagues. People get the best they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:27 AM
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All right, dude. Do it your way. Just trying to give some wisdom here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:12 PM
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You don’t have to just slobber all over someone’s face you know. A lingering smile and a touch on the hand are a good indication that a kiss is going to be well received. And I repeat, what you absolutely don’t want to do is make some big confession and ask them to start dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:56 PM
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Well, I married my friend. So there’s that. We had been working together on a lot of projects at our office for several months and had grown very close. But I didn’t just walk up to her one day and say, “I like you, will you be my girlfriend?” I can’t imagine how awkward and uncomfortable that would have been. What happened was that I had a big party at my place for coworkers around Christmas because we had had a lot of stress and all needed to unwind. As the party was wrapping up and people wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:29 PM
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Here’s the mistake “nice guys” make - you don’t tell people you like them, you show them by making out with them. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:00 PM
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Tenet # 1 - Wind people up on the internet Tenet # 2 - Never be consistent Tenet # 3 - ??? Tenet # 4 - Profit!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:05 PM
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That doesn’t sound very satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:16 PM
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I married a woman 11 years younger than me and we have been together for 11 years. We have two beautiful daughters who are flourishing so I think this is working rather well. I don’t give a toss if people think I’m a creep. I know I love my wife and I know she loves me. If you want to date younger people, do it. If you want to date older people, do that. I would say focus on dating people that you have a genuine connection with. No need to debate strangers on the internet about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:05 PM
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What you are describing is undoubtedly frustrating and confusing for the hypothetical man. However, be that as it may, if a person does not want to become intimate for any reason that has to be accepted, no amount of negotiation or pointing out inconsistent or misleading behavior is going to change that. For what it’s worth, in my experiences, when I was single, the initial romance (first kiss) never occurred in such a stereotypical surrounding as “dinner at my place” or “out to eat at fancy res…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:01 PM
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Here’s my GenX advice. Do with it what you will. Hang out with lots of different people - gay, straight, men, women, native, foreign, etc Be cool. What I mean by that is talk about what you enjoy talking about. Don’t fake anything. Also, listen to other people. They won’t always be cool and that’s ok. Never try to force yourself to think someone is cool because they are attractive. Drink. This can be tricky obviously. You don’t want to overdo it and you certainly need to understand that alcohol …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:51 PM
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I think the problem is that romantically unsuccessful men don’t have friends that are women. Hence, women are mysterious and foreign to them and they can’t act natural around them. When I was single (over a decade ago), I had a large group of friends of various genders and sexualities. We also drank like crazy. So we hooked up sometimes. It was very natural. That doesn’t mean that there were no broken hearts or hurt feelings but there was also a lot of platonic relationships between men and wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:25 PM
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The best advice to meet a partner is to be yourself. It sounds corny but it’s true. If you’re playing some role to attract people, it’s probably not going to work and even if it does you are eventually going to get tired of it. If being yourself is not attractive, you might want to consider stepping outside of your comfort zone and trying new activities
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:58 PM
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When I was single “the friend zone” was precisely the place where romantic relationships began. I didn’t plan it this way, I just had a mixed sex group of friends and we drank a lot and inevitably hook ups happened. Sometimes, those hook ups turned into actual relationships. One of them became a nine year marriage and produced two children (still married, by the way). Don’t sell “the friend zone” short.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:07 AM
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I never would have gotten laid (or married) without booze. I really have no idea how that would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:01 AM
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Whatever happened to hooking up at parties and after work get togethers and stuff? (I’m old). I can’t imagine why anyone would want to try to use a dating app or “cold approach”. There was one time when I met a woman at a bar, we got to talking and I understood that I really liked her and I asked, “Do you have a boyfriend?” She said no. And I said, “This is my lucky day, then!” I got her number and we hung out a bunch over the next weeks. Ended up dating for a few months. Is that a “cold approac…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:22 PM
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I don’t think that it is as black and white as you say. But, what I’m saying is that we should presume innocence for anyone accused of anything. Obviously, in the case of friends and family, it’s hard to be objective. We are probably going to believe our love ones if they say they have been raped or if they have been falsely accused. However, for strangers, and for actually applying punishments (imprisonment, expelling, termination from work), the moral imperative is to withhold judgment if we h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:21 PM
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Not sure what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:16 PM
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If you take a Descartesian approach to all things, then it’s pretty much impossible to completely remove doubt. What I outlined are how police and courts typically approach criminal investigations and establishing guilt. The system is not perfect but I don’t know of a better one. Maybe you do? How else would you approach criminal accusations other than the presumption of innocence?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:30 PM
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Well, it might be weak but it’s true. And, when you think about it, are there any accusations a person can make where the proper response is, “Welp, I guess we just have to believe you and punish this person!”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:19 PM
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Totally agree. Allegations of sexual assault have not been taken seriously in the past. And the they should be. This whole, “what was she wearing?” and “Did she want it?” crap needs to be put to rest forever. But if anyone accuses any one of anything, they need to understand that there will be uncomfortable questions and there have to be in order to understand what really happened. And before anyone faces actual repercussions, including losing their job or their place and university or even thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:55 PM
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Ok. I can get down with this. However, I believe that there should be a kind of due process of some sort before any person is expelled from university, a serious move with major repercussions for the expellee. This should not be a matter left to the arbitrary caprice of the administrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:11 PM
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Sometimes rapes are violent. They nearly always leave some kind of physical evidence. If the two parties are in a committed relationship,it will be more difficult to establish guilt. However, talking to people that know the couple is still wise. We can establish if one of the partners felt threatened by other or if there was tension and resentment in the relationship. It’s important to gather evidence before coming to a conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:05 PM
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I’m sorry, I did not mean to upset you. Let me explain. I see know reason why presumption of innocence is not an applicable principle in both legal and cultural matters. I get that I’m going to believe my friend if she tells me that she was assaulted because I personally know her. But I don’t personally know most people. Therefore, I think I we should not jump to conclusions about cases where all we have to go on is one person’s word against another.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:02 PM
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Well, to start with physical evidence: DNA, hairs, fluids, possibly injuries. A medical examination of the victim would help but is not always possible under the circumstances of reporting the crime. Cross examination of the accuser and the accused, of course. Are they able to keep their stories straight? This is where a lot of criminals and false accusers are caught. It’s hard to keep a lie going under questioning. Then, it’s possible to talk to people who know both parties, particularly people…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:58 PM
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You apply the same principles that you would with any other criminal investigation. Substantiated allegations would look like evidence that the accusations are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:56 AM
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Well, the alternative is basically some form of dictatorship or theocracy. Do you really want all accused people to be presumed guilty? Think about what that would look like in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:49 AM
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The right of the accused to confront the accuser is a fundamental tenant of due process and applies to all crimes not just sexual assault. Also bear in mind that in over 99% of cases, the confrontation is done by the accused’s lawyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:12 AM
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You see this is why it’s important to have due process. Otherwise you get a bunch of assholes trying to get their own “justice” John Wick style. It gets messy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:04 AM
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We don’t. That’s the thing with any accusation. You almost never know if it is true or not. And that’s why the principle of innocence until proven guilty is the best policy. Because if we operate from the opposite assumption then we essentially give people carte blanche to ruin people’s lives by fabricating stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:41 AM
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OP, I am 100% on board with due process and rights for the accused. But your post is dripping with an “if men don’t get justice, they gonna have to take it” attitude. And that’s kinda hard to take seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:38 AM
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I see no reason why you cannot apply the principles of due process to an institution that is not a court of law. The premise is quite basic: The accused is assumed innocent, has the right to defend themself against the accusations and to confront the accuser in a controlled setting. No negative sanction shall befall the accused until the allegations against them are substantiated. This can easily be applied to a university or corporation. In many countries companies do not have the right to fire…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:36 AM
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I’ve got a mind blowing proposition for you: People date people that they care about and have a connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:27 AM
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I’m sorry, man! That for real happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:47 AM
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Cool man! We might have crossed paths at some point. I was all over Russia and Ukraine once upon a time. I really think that people date whoever wherever though. I know some really cut Russians that value fitness very highly, both men and women. And that’s fine. There’s nothing wrong with that in my book. I also know a lot Americans that don’t and who have slightly to very overweight partners. Again both men and women, gay and straight and again, no judgement from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:26 PM
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Dude, we’re cut from the same cloth! I’m also married to a Russian and I have let myself go in recent years and developed the “dad bod” and, I might add, two kids to go with my new physique!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:11 PM
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Ok. Well put. But, are you expecting that people will adjust their sexual preferences based on your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:44 AM
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Where do you think all the short, bald men came from? Storks?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:08 AM
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I don’t understand what the point is of posting stuff like this. Do you think that women are going to say, “Shit! I guess I am shallow and dumb, I’m gonna buck the trend and make a move on the next overweight bald guy I see at the grocery store.”? Probably not going to happen. So…if you are an overweight bald guy or a short guy or skinny guy, you could work on being really cool and getting laid like that instead of relying on genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:44 AM
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Being rejected and being manipulated are both incredibly painful. I know from experience. However, I would argue that being rejected is actually worse because it’s more difficult to bounce back from. If you’re rejected it’s difficult to make sense of why. If you ask the person who rejected you, you are only going to look more pathetic and possibly even threatening, not a good move. So the rejected are just left to ponder their humiliation alone and it often spirals out of control, especially on …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:29 PM
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You believe that all men are bad and that when women are wrong everyone should accept them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:18 AM
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Some look bad ass and sexy but don’t cooperate? I’d like to see that in action
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:52 PM
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Do autistic guys know how to look bad ass and sexy? I’m asking for my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:48 PM
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So, whether or not women have leverage in dating is open to interpretation but, I will grant, that heterosexual women have an easier time finding a willing sexual partner than heterosexual men. I think is rather obvious. But what can you do about this? How can you counter this? As far as I can tell, it’s just nature. However, I went through about three years where I only had sex with men and…wow! I really got laid a lot! And I had a lot of fun. Eventually I did get tired of it but…I think I acqu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:26 PM
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Exactly. Just because someone is attractive doesn’t mean that they’re a good person. So, don’t put attractive women (or men) on a pedestal. Just treat them as normal human beings and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:01 AM
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I don’t believe that you actually agree with what you wrote. Just be with people you care about. It’s really not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:00 AM
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I just don’t see the point. Woman are who they are and they like what they like and so do men. And as long as they are not hurting anyone, we really ought to just accept it. Fuck who you like and get on with it. But why complain. And yes, I am directing this at all heterosexuals who gripe about the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:06 AM
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But why are you criticizing women? Why don’t you love them?They are beautiful after all. And…so are men, by the way. In a different way. I also don’t understand women who criticize men. Why be heterosexual if you hate the people you that you want to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:05 PM
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I have had sex with men and women. And I like both though I am now married to a woman. Masturbation is a good time and I do cherish it but it’s not a substitute for sex with a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:35 PM
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I’m not being homophobic at all. It just seems like you don’t like women. Or find them to be petty and nonsensical and illogical. It does seem to me that the logical solution is to seek sexual satisfaction from people who make sense to you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:11 PM
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Why not just not just give up on all these mind games and confusion? Putting a wig on your buddy and asking him to give you a blow job is low cost and drama free. You wouldn’t be the first to go this route.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:39 PM
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I think a good way to think of it is like this: don’t break people into categories like men and women, or gay and straight, or people that I want to fuck and people that I don’t. Obviously there is some nuance here. You are going to treat children differently than adults or your boss differently from your colleagues but generally, if you approach everyone as human beings, not as people that you resent for not finding you attractive or that you are in awe of because of their physical appearance, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:54 AM
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So easy to never have to worry about this. Just don’t go out to eat until after you have sex. Dinner is way more enjoyable this way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:27 AM
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As someone who’s totally against entitlement (check out username, duh!!), I can say that I sympathize a little bit with the sexually frustrated men in that so much of how our society values men is based on their success with women. I lost my virginity in 1997, at the age of twenty and I remember feeling like the biggest loser in the world. Back then, it was rare to not have been laid at that age. But the way these guys go about expressing their emotions: assigning numbers to people’s attractiven…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:24 AM
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Here’s the thing - Sex is awesome and life is undoubtedly richer and more fulfilling with a steady supply of it. But getting sex, especially regular sex is tricky and enigmatic and, this is where the advice comes in, you are going to look more attractive if you’re enjoying being single and not stressed out about the lack of intimacy in your life. Yes, it’s a bit of a Catch-22 but you can do it. My advice is music. Ever heard of a rock star that never gets laid? Me neither. 🤘
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:04 AM
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The thing is that it’s not supposed to be easy to find a truly compatible partner, even if people are knocking down your door for a date. So no one who’s looking for a relationship and hasn’t found one is going to think they have privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:22 AM
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I’ll bet those slaves had kids though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:21 PM
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Yeah, could be. Be I also know lots of unemployed losers who hang out on their girlfriends’ couches playing games and smoking pot. Or I did when I was in my twenties anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:20 PM
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Being Jewish was very often a death sentence in Tsarist Russia
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:22 AM
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But there were much wealthier people in each society. None was elite
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:53 AM
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I don’t think any of them was born rich actually
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:33 AM
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Ok. Dad’s basement then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:32 AM
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Yes, those halcyon days when men did not reside in their mothers’ basements.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:28 AM
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So, what you are saying is that women don’t want to date men without any measurable signs of success or talent or drive? Does this surprise you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:26 AM
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Diego Rivera would disagree. He was a hard core leftist and he was a true playa! Or Leon Trotsky or Fidel Castro or Che Guevara
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:10 AM
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I’ve got the greatest hack to overcome this problem. Y’all ready for this? You hook up with your friends and only start the going out to eat at fancy restaurants part of the relationship after you have already started having sex. Then you can both enjoy a great meal with the knowledge that you going to fuck someone you like afterwards. You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:07 PM
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