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I dated a porn star for a while. Its really not as exciting or different than dating any of the other girls I've been with, besides the fact that you get daily nudes. I'd have no issue marrying someone who works or has worked in the industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 04:08 AM
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Okay, not RP but I get where you are coming from. I've had my phases of just wanting to fuck and it gets boring after a while. Most hook ups are based on superficial things and if you are looking form them its probably not going to turn out well. Having a stable relationship is definitely more fulfilling, but more work for both parties. If you have fallen for all the RP bullshit you will probably not be getting into those relationships though. RP is good at teaching you how to approach women and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 03:52 PM
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However, there is an underlying threat to our society lurking just beneath the surface. For each woman that graduates, there is one man that did not. There are limited college resources and only so many people can get a degree. How is college a limited resource? I understand that a certain college can only admit so many people, but there are tons of community colleges and other public institutions that will admit people. A woman is vastly more likely to never use that degree, and instead only go…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 05:07 PM
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It is impossible to produce evidence for "being too drunk to consent to sex". Impossible? No one can witness someone taking advantage of a drunk person and testify about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 05:56 PM
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What purposes would cops, legislators, and judges have to be mixing that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 04:38 PM
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The police, Judges, juries. Ya know, the legal system that enforces laws
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 03:53 PM
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If drunk sex becomes taboo (because you can't have consent when intoxicated by alcohol) will this kill hookup culture? You are equating being drunk with being too drunk to consent to sex. Those are two very different things. One of the possible consequences is that people will spend less time going out to clubs, discos, bars etc, and spend more time doing indoor activities. Those already are indoor activities. This will affect the economy to an extent because people will be less willing to spend…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 03:28 PM
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Idk man, but if women are constantly calling you a creep, so much so that you avoid being friends with them all together, maybe do some introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 04:28 PM
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If you keep having this problem with women have you ever thought it might because you are creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 02:34 PM
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No, definitely talking about bonding. I really dont measure my friends in how much they can offer my life, just how much I enjoy hanging out with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 02:31 PM
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Even if they could, I find it far more unlikely so there's no point in even attempting to have a close friendship with a woman. Ok so here you go. You don't want to be friends with women, so of course women are going to make good friends to you. Not every man shares your mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 09:32 PM
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I've had female friends let me use their car. I've had female friends want to hang out. I've mad sex jokes and talked about sex to female friends. If you dont have these things with female friends maybe they don't trust you, don't like hanging out with you, and dont think you are funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 09:12 PM
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Well, it sound like you dont enjoy being around women then. If you dont like women you probably wouldn't be good friends with them. I think it has more to do with that then you're gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 08:51 PM
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I am male and have tons female friends. Personally I think if you cant have platonic friendships you must be one thirst mother fucker. It's one thing to say "I can be friends with this specific person because I am too attracted to them," but a completely different thing to say that "I can never be friends with a woman because I would end up wanting to fuck them so bad it would ruin my life." As for the "women dont make good friends," I really dont agree. I will say they are different to be frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 08:46 PM
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I was heavily involved in Fraternity culture while at school and I personally think they have their upsides and down sides. First and foremost, they keep party ratio's even. A lot of the time, in colleges that have ratios, guys will usually find one party and stick to it the entire night, while girls have the ability to go to any event they want. I order to keep the ratio of guys to girls in the party even you need to be letting more girls in knowing that they will stay for a shorter time and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 08:17 PM
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Google Correlation vs Causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 02:22 PM
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Posting this to the Automod because this is a Q4W and I'm not a woman but have been sexually assaulted fitting the description of what you are looking for. I was probably about 19 at a Frat party drinking with a few friends. I had gotten a little too intoxicated and by the end of the night the only person who I knew still at the party was my friend's roommate. She was also drinking but considerably less drunk than I was. I was barely able to walk so she walked me home to my place a few blocks aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 02:13 PM
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"Ay, shuddup!" Clearly she needs to stop trying to date Mario. Luigi is much quieter and can jump way higher so he would clearly be the better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:40 PM
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She will have another man come into her life, whether it be at work, at the gym, at church, wherever - and her hamster will view him as more desirable than what she has now. The grass is always greener on the other side. Then she will look at the man she is committed to, be disgusted, and that's it. It's over. Gotta love the "logic" of having self-confidence be so low that you think your GF simply meeting a "more attractive" man will cause her to lose all attraction to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:36 PM
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Sociology, Art History, English etc don't pay like male dominated majors do (reframing of the pay gap) Okay, what information are you basing this on? Based on my quick research, It doesnt seem like women are really choosing "low paying majors" when it comes to their undergraduate degrees. Also, just because you pick a major doesn't mean you will wind up working in the field you studied. Men are more likely to see that college is a scam unless you're doing engineering/CS/something useful and drop…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 04:38 PM
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Im a Millennial and I'm dope af
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 04:04 PM
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I dont really spend too much money on clothes. I mostly just wear T-shirts, jeans, and a nice pair of sneakers. I also buy a new nice jacket every winter but thats usually a cheap one that just looks good. I do spend a lot of money on tattoos if that counts? I get my hair cut every 3-5 weeks from a women who I trust to give me something good. Each morning I spend about 10 minutes doing my hair as well. Sexually I think Im pretty successful, compared to most men here at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 04:02 PM
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hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:52 PM
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I ask them usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 04:58 PM
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I pay for my porn. Free stuff is good, but I dont mind paying 10 bucks a month for the amazing stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:56 PM
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Im 6'1 and went on a date with a women who was 6'3 a few weeks ago. It was wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:31 PM
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is it because they've discovered it's a good way to keep beta males away from them, fapping on their own? This one, its definitely this one. Porn is the epitome of AF/BB. Women get to fuck hot chad's all day and the lowely beta's pay to watch it! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:28 PM
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pedophilia is defined by sexual feelings directed towards a child. The United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child defines child as "a human being below the age of 18 years unless under the law applicable to the child, majority is attained earlier". So, by the legal definition, atleast in america, this is pedophilia. What goes on in nature really doesnt matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:19 PM
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I wouldn't say that they are doing it more frequently because I dont have those numbers. But I would assume that stuff like this has been going on, people are finally reporting and prosecuting it as appose to just saying "nice'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:15 PM
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Doesnt matter if they look 100 years old. Sleeping with people who are underage is illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:11 PM
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Does this strengthen the argument for AF/BB? No, this is pedophilia. Anyone who sleeps with underage people should face consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:59 PM
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How good looking are you? Pretty good looking Sexually aggressive? Pretty verse tbh Of course the less polarized person is less attracted to the more polarized people. But that isnt what the OP stated in the slightest. Also I've never seen trp make these clains so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:31 PM
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I in no way said that these were "near-rape-experiences." I said that being penetrated can be painful or uncomfortable if not done correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:28 PM
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In my personal experience this is true. Nearly every woman is attracted to masculinity just like nearly every man is attracted to femininity. Im not really a "masculine" man. I've never played sports. I dont lift. TBH most of my time is spent playing video games and working my tech job. I dont act in any way trp describes as mandatory to getting laid constantly. But guess what, I still have a happy and active sex life. I'm really not attracted to the most "feminine" women either. I've always gon…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 06:05 PM
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I dont agree with this because their isn't one way to "fuck properly." What I will say is that a lot of people do not do a good job expressing their sexual preferences to their partners, which can lead to awkward sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 03:43 PM
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Well I guess it all has to do with what you consider "behave and dress nicely" though. I dont think that teaching young girls manners and how to dress in and of it self is misogynistic. However, enforcing strict gender roles in how they act and dress can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 03:40 PM
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is it less likely to be painful if the guy is super hot (because more experience is assumed?), or is it a "Oh well, at least he was hot" kind of thing? Honestly not a girl so I cant really tell you. Im just relaying what I hear from my female friends. All of them have expressed interest in having more casual sex, but didnt follow through due to most of their previous ONS being painful and unfulfilling. If some women want a ONS every month or so but a lot of men would love one every week, the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 03:34 PM
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I don't think a lot of the problems that the men on here are describing are problems most men face in dating, just the most unattractive ones, which are probably overrepresented on TRP.- Yea exactly Also, trp completely glosses over the fact that men and women experience sex differently. Getting penetrated is much different than doing the penetration. Bad sex for a guy is usually just lack luster, bad sex for women can be downright painful. Obviously you're going to be more choosie if you are pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 01:44 PM
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the 85% of guys considered "below average." Thats not how math works. Also everything else was wrong too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 01:35 PM
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Would it be misandristic to teach a boy cooking, cleaning, house keeping, washing, dressing/speaking like a man, weeding out toxic masculine culture? Honestly, cooking, cleaning, house keeping, washing, and dressing/speaking well is something everyone should be taught.....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 01:30 PM
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There's too many desperate men out there that just wants to get laid, and will often times be willing to fuck someone less attractive than he is just so long he gets his dick wet. How can you say you are hungry when there is a perfectly good hotdog sitting on the sidewalk that you can eat!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 01:27 PM
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The definition you gave does not indicate that it needs to be to the same person. harassment is illegal when it is so frequent or severe that it creates a hostile or offensive work environment If these men, or even a faction of them, were to constantly do this to women on the streets, would that now be a hostile of offensive environment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:15 PM
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Of the 20 incidents shown in the video, 13 of them included remarks about her body (such as calling her beautiful, sexy, or just looking at her body and making some sort of exclamation). Assuming the others were all "asking for cigarettes", thats still a majority of the interactions having some sort of sexual element in it. Furthermore indicating interest in a woman a single time isn't illegal. How often do you think these men cat call? Do you think it is more probably that this was their first …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:19 PM
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true, but the definition you provided includes "other verbal or physical harassment of a sexual nature." Do you not think that a good portion of the comments made at the women in the video were sexual in nature? So of the comments were clearly more sexual than others, but were they all not attempts to indicate that they were interested in her?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:36 PM
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25 male single. Some plates, couple spoons, 3 forks, and a crock pot. I get paid 2 times a month. Every month I deposit the maximum amount into my 401k. 1/3 of the remaining money goes to rent / bills / food shopping / ect. 1/3 goes to savings. 1/3 is slush money for the money, anything left over at the end goes to savings. Dont have any debt either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:21 PM
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These aren't repeated incidents that create any hostile environment. The video you posted explains how a woman got cat-called over 100 times in 10 hours and this aren't repeated incidents?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:08 PM
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Welfare wasnt put in place to mitigate the fallout of the war on drugs, it was enacted during the great depression. The video itself isn't racist I didnt say "the video was racist" I said it had a hint of racism because it played on those racial stereotypes I explained above.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 08:17 PM
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Her description to the video states Why is it that in the 50's African Americans had a lower divorce rate than whites, and today 73% of black mothers are single? She doesnt really mention black families specifically in this video though. What she does do at 2:00 is bring up the stereotype of the Welfare Queen which is an old dog whistle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 07:55 PM
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Ohhhhh baseless claims with a hint of racism. Just like grandma used to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 07:37 PM
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Growing up I never felt "targeted" by feminism to think "Manly Men" were bad. Feminism taught me that there are both positive and negative aspects of masculinity and femininity. Growing up with this knowledge helped me incorporate the positive aspects of both into myself while trying my best to not fall into the negative aspects of either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 07:39 PM
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I think hell be able to find a woman who meets his standards. She might be painted on the front of a body pillow, but who am I to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 01:46 PM
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transitioning doesn't affect the heart, cardiovascular system and blood that much. What science are you basing this off? Transitioning does effect these areas a lot. When my friend began transitioning she was told by her doctor to stop smoking because the hormones would put a strain on her heart and smoking would exacerbate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:19 PM
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People have described my style as "Danny Zuko if he smoked a ton of weed" and I am completely okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 02:41 PM
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Theres a difference in telling people who to have sex and that they should have consent before they have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 09:03 PM
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Most woman don't just want to say "ok lets have sex now" then take off their close and start thrusting. Particularly the first time. Most woman that I know would be like "ewww gross that is a man's idea of sex" You keep referring to getting consent as some formal negotiation with no emotion. Is it really that hard to whisper in a girls ear while making out/dry humping/ect "I want to fuck you, do you want to fuck me?" and then listen to her response?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 04:48 PM
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My exact quote was "if you play your cards right we might have sex tonight but don't take it for granted" and you interpreted this to mean "she definitely wants to have sex" Which is hilariously wrong. I more interpreted it as "Even is she says no sex, sex is still on the table." So, how are you certain that sex is still on the table or when she actually means its not going to happen? Reducing sex to a spergy dronelike "Do you want to have sex with me human woman" "Yes I will now procede to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 03:44 PM
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I understand that can be frustrating, but whats worse: Her texting you that because you took her at her word and simply having sex at another time. or Getting a sexual assault charge because she actually meant no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 03:24 PM
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Try to not strawman here please. Can't have a productive conversation that way. No stawman here, that was a serious question. Your exact statement was. When she says "we are not having sex tonight" after she comes back to your place what she means is "if you play your cards right we might have sex tonight but don't take it for granted" How can you definitely say that she means that, and not "Im not having sex, but making out a bit would be nice." or "Im enjoying your company and want to continue…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 03:21 PM
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Why not just send me links that describe it? Honestly everyone give different definitions to it at this point. please, educate me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 03:12 PM
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Continuing to escalate to the goal of sex until the woman physically removes herself from the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 03:06 PM
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A hard no is accompanied by breaking rapport, closed body language leaning back, moving away, a certain tone of voice, proposing other activities, etc or a combination of several of the above. The difference is unmistakable. What if a girl just wants to make out? or is really enjoying your company and wants to keep the date going but doesn't want to do anything sexual that night? Does coming to your place, even when clearly stating no, mean she definitely wants to have sex? Where did you get tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 03:02 PM
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Since you are a blue piller you probably have an image in your head of a guy just grabbing the girl and fucking her by main force despite her protests. That is completely wrong (it's also rape). I didnt say that at all So how do you know the difference between a hard no and the "no for now?" Because to me that doesnt sound like LMR, it sounds like she was saying all night that she didnt want to sleep with you, not just in the "last minute."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 02:45 PM
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Okay, is it okay to push through the LMR if girl is saying no because of the ASD?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 02:16 PM
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I'm not denying that there are women who worry about how they might be perceived if they sleep with someone, especially if they are younger such as in HS. However, that is still not a valid reason to "push through" their resistance. Everyone is allowed to turn down sex for whatever reason they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 02:06 PM
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True, but it's more or less I don't desire a man who isn't as competent as me. I don't really care for a man who in all facets of life can't figure out how to get from A-Z without me telling him. That's not my partner, that's my son. This is exactly what I meant really. The co-dependence I was referring to could be financial, emotional, and social dependence. Whereas women don't mind a relationship where the woman depends on him majorly /across the board. Many men prefer it. I don't doubt that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 01:58 PM
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LMR and the Anti-Slut-Defence is probably the scariest thing that I have ever read about on TRP. I disagree with it because at of all the women that I know, both platonically and romantically, have ever talked about doing anything close to the sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 01:23 PM
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In today's day and age it doesn't even make sense, and yet I have no desire to date a man who isn't meeting me at my level of ambition or interests or competency. I mean it completely make sense, you dont want to be in a relationship that is completely co-dependent or one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 01:18 PM
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Well, I didnt call him a racist I just think his statement has to do more with race than it does with "hip hop" Especially considering he's talking specifically about "Young Caucasian males" and includes the lines taking on the persona of inner-city black gang-members.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 07:51 PM
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Reading through his twitter, I assume he just means "black people music"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 02:15 PM
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honestly cant tell if this is a troll or not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 06:11 PM
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I do know, I've never looked into the statistics of it so my opinion on it would be baseless. You asked my opinion of the articles and they didnt provide any convincing statistics to prove their points.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 08:42 PM
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Both these articles seem anecdotal, offering little to no statistics to support their arguments. I don't doubt that their or women who lose attraction for their stay at home husbands just as their are men who lose attraction for their stay at home wifes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 07:52 PM
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Well, as many stated Feminism isnt a movement for men. However, I do think there are some positive things it has done for me. For example, since women can now provide for themselves or even the entire family, you can see men in non-traditional roles. 50 years ago being a stay at home dad wasnt a thing, now it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 05:58 PM
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If red pill wasn't at least a little bit accurate, you'd be empathizing with the person's entirely valid insecurities - but instead you attack them. Where did I attack anyone in my post? I can sympathize with a person's emotions while still condemning the actions they take to deal with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 04:03 PM
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I think she has her funny moments. I loved the 12 angry men parody that she did on her show.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 01:39 PM
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Considering how "Chad" is described so differently by RPers I view him as an embodiment of a persons insecurities. You're 5'6, Chad is 6'5 You're not in good shape, Chad is fucking ripped You have no tattoos, Chad is covered in them You feel like you arent getting enough sex, Chad gets all the sex he wants
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 01:20 PM
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Its called a smile, people usually do it when they feel joy. Have you heard of joy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 05:30 PM
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I know dozens of girls into funny chubby guys. Simply being heavyset does not brand you an incel neckbeard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 04:36 PM
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TRP is the equivalent of "Tumblr Feminism" in my mind. By that I mean they are both online groups committed to a cause that have more intense views than their mainstream movement. Although in my opinion TRP is definitely worse morally because they actively promote manipulation and how the power to do so. They are the extremist you would expect from all being in an echo chamber for so long. These two groups really should't represent all women or all men, they are the extreme fringes of groups. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 02:55 PM
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Being introverted isnt bad. You can be a fit, confident, successful introvert and be just as attractive as a fit, confident, successful extrovert. Being extroverted probably means youll go out an meet more people than an introverted person though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 10:27 PM
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Because taking responsibility for your life and actions was something most people learn to do around age 15, not some ground breaking idea that will change your entire life. sitting at home and blaming the world is the domain of women and beta faggots. oh wait never mind, poster is clearly 15
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 02:27 PM
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My life experiences say otherwise, I'm going to assume yours confirm your belief. Maybe branch out in your social circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 05:08 PM
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Wouldnt matter to me as long as I was satisfying her currently. I mean I've been with women with giant tits and really enjoyed it but that doesn't mean I only date women over a certain bra size now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 04:52 PM
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TIL 90% of the guys I know were in the top 20% because they have standards and an active sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 04:49 PM
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Nice selective quoting there, leaving out the part about rioting. Real honest of you. I mean probably just as easy to take the actions of about 100 people and attribute them to all protesters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 05:18 PM
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I support Free Speech and the first Amendment! No but not having your events being disrupted and shut down by screeching idiot protesters /logic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 04:08 PM
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poor straight guys everywhere. They need a hero who can say faggot to lead them in a march or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 01:17 PM
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your right milos only ever talked about free speech this past month since the riots. my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 04:10 AM
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Never condoned riots. I just think its hypocritical that when conservatives voice their concerns about him speaking at their event its cool, but when liberals do want them speaking at their colleges they're labeled children and crybabies who are blocking "free speech".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 03:58 AM
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spicy memes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 03:49 AM
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cool
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 03:38 AM
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freedom of speech The government wasn't trying to jail mile for what he said so his freedom of speech was never in question. Just like Conservatives dont want him at CPAC now that they know he thinks boys getting diddled is cool, liberals didnt want him speaking at their college because hes homophobic, misogynistic, and antisemitic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 03:36 AM
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Cool, try not to have an armed militia take over a federal building and well call it even.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 03:11 AM
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yea, all those gosh dern liberals calling gay people faggots all the time and getting away with it. Is that why literally all gay people are so conservative?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 03:04 AM
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ooh wow, one dud wrote a letter. looks serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 02:55 AM
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This makes absolutely no sense to me. I think if he didn't have his audience and didn't reveal his political views than he would get away with any of the statements he has made. First of all, of course if he wasn't a public political figure no one would care about his views. He lost an editorial job and book deal as a result of his actions, things he wouldn't have to begin with if he wasnt in the public eye so much. He's not getting arrested because of what he said so its not a matter of free-sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 08:40 PM
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The point is that a bunch of people could all say the same exact statement, but the reaction people have is based on who that person is rather than the statement itself. But Milo's whole shtick that he could say awful things and not be considered Anti-Gay/Anti-Jewish because he was a Gay Jew. Isnt that advocating that you should base your reaction on who said the statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 07:48 PM
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free speech without resistance from liberals ohhhhh, you wanna say anything you want without being considered an asshole. cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 07:15 PM
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The same thing as what? Calling specific people faggots?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 07:10 PM
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A tier of free speech above Free Speach doesn't come in tiers. Straight white guys arent being taken to jail by the government for saying things gay people get away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 07:05 PM
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Pretty sure that a lot of "straight white males" have used the word without backlash. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wS2THqZemoc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 07:04 PM
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gay privilege and what is that exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 06:07 PM
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Like how Milo has had his gay status revoked several times. pretty sure he's still gay. You're thinking of his book deal and job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:56 PM
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Since TRP considers anything not in their view point to be "Blue Pill" so I went along with it. I've had a happy and healthy dating and sex life following advice that was in stark contrast to everything TRP preaches. Being a liberal edgelord is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 03:31 PM
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The fight against "gender roles" isnt that feminine things are bad. There are girls out there who enjoy putting on a full face of make up every day and thats fine. There are girls who dont want to touch the stuff, that should be fine too. Its not that traditionally feminine or masculine things are wrong, its that they want the option to try them even if it doesnt follow their gender role. I know this sub is swarming with tumblrinas who like to single out their experiences and elevating them to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 06:13 PM
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Don't ever change to be more like the attractive extroverts who are drowning in female attention. Yea no one every says being extroverted is a bad thing. Ever heard someone say "You need to put yourself out there" when it comes to dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 06:06 PM
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maybe you can learn something from this exchange. Doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 05:57 PM
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I know, its a hard pill to sallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 05:42 PM
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Attractive Extroverted men will have more options when it comes to dating. Thats about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 05:24 PM
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If a girl said she wasn't a feminist or didn't hold similar views on gender than me I would probably be less interested in her. I wouldn't look down at her as a person but I my attraction to her would be less. People usually like to date those who hold similar beliefs than them so I really dont think this is that odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 07:27 PM
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I think you're close to something but need to refine it. Feminist theory defines patriarchy as an unjust social system that enforces gender roles and is oppressive to both men and women. You yourself used the term "Real Man" who I assume you mean as someone who embodies we consider "male" characteristics; Competitive, strong, dominant, ect. Men who don't live up to this standard are often looked down at. However, they still do benefit in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 08:47 PM
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The absolutely most valuable thing a guy can tell you is that all his exes are crazy, because it tells you so, so, much about him. I definitely agree, you can learn a lot about a potential partner this way. I do enjoy getting this info before I start getting serious with someone, but this is definitely not first date talk if you ask me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 02:44 PM
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No its not the same, you are right. But it does prove the red pill men have a history of lying about mistreatment to make themselves look like the victim. Im not saying every single last one of them, but enough that everyone should keep on eye on it. Thats what I always say ARPALK (All RPers Are Like That).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 07:40 PM
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Texting allows you to take as long as you need to think up a response, in person interations make you think on your feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 05:55 PM
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BECAUSE IF THE AVERAGE MAN HAS A HEALTHY SEX LIFE AND I DONT HAVE THAT THAN I WOULD HAVE TO ADMIT TO MYSELF THAT I AM BELOW AVERAGE AND THAT MAKES ME MMMMAAAAAADDDDD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 03:44 PM
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I honestly wasnt implying that you specifically beg your wife for sex lol. I though "starfish" implied that you the man wanting the sex had to beg for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 09:07 PM
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yea I guess having awkward porn sex would be better than begging your wife for sex that she doesnt want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 08:47 PM
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First off, "the sex you want, when you want, how you want." sounds more like something a fast food place would use as a slogan that it does a standard for how good your sex life is. I don't think most men are "doing fine", I.E. getting all the sex they want, when they want it, the way they want it, like the top men. I also find it strange that you think "fine" is what the "top" men are getting. Its a little absurd to take the most attractive and desirable men and say any sex life that doesnt add…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 08:38 PM
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dont know what you are trying to say but yea most sex is better when you dont have to nag your wife/gf for it like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 08:20 PM
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Im really sorry to hear that. I understand you feeling of not being good enough. I had similar feeling with people I've date and many other have as well. Those feels will never go away with sleeping with more people. That time is much better spent accepting who you are and opening yourself up to changing. If you and the boy really loved each other I would suggest trying to contact him. It is much better to sleep with someone who knows and understand your situation than some random person just tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:58 PM
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Okay, well what about the low partner count bothers you? As for the inexperience, you said that you were worried about one guy specifically. Have you told this person that you are a virgin? how did they take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:45 PM
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Will screwing around and having ONS for experience help get over my insecurity? First off, no. This will not help you get over your insecurity. It sounds more like you have a fear of "not being good enough" for your partners instead of having a low number of sexual partners. to use a metaphor, You just started playing guitar and Eric Clapton asks you to come jam with him and now you are worried because you dont want look like an amateur who doesn't know what their doing in front of someone more …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:33 PM
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Its sex as visual performance, not as sensual experience. Thats a really great point too! Everything in porn is done for the "pleasure" of the camera not the people involved. People end up basing their sexual fantasies on what looks hot not what ultimately feels the best for both parties involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 09:19 PM
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I agree in a lot of ways. Watching porn to learn about sex is like watching Law and Order to learn how to be a cop. Those things aren't instructional videos, they're entertainment. Unfortunately people are now watching porn at younger ages and probably don't realize it's entertainment. I think that it's easy to start seeing porn at the "norm". For example, if you base all sex off porn you could assume all sex ends with cumming on a girls face. That isn't to say no girl will ever enjoy that, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 06:14 PM
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I honestly not see how what you said was and insult to me? Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 11:52 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 10:38 PM
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I am personally too busy flying south for the winter to worry about guarding my mates
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 10:36 PM
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What's harder to swallow, that irony or trp?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 10:31 PM
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are you saying you crushed up a red pill and put it in my food?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 10:20 PM
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Not needed any more? This is ppd, my snarky comments are definitely needed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 08:37 PM
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I have always found dating and relationships extremely easy and enjoyable so we clearly have had different life experiences lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 07:36 PM
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Oh was your point that being in a relationship always leads to boring hand-jobs being the only form of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 07:31 PM
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I've met Ron too and he was awesome to hang out with. He's like everyone's little old dirty grandpa lol. I would not mind being Eskimo brothers with him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 07:24 PM
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I dont know, marriage is a big commitment and I would probably need to know someone for more than a few hours to consider it. But honestly if I got to a point in my life were I was thinking about marrying a porn star her n-count definitely wouldnt bother me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 05:53 PM
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I met Asa once. She was pretty well spoken and seemed like a nice lady. I wouldn't mind going out with her sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 09:48 PM
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Why do you feel people being supportive and positive is infantile? Was the last time someone was positive to you when you were an infant? Do you need a hug?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:12 PM
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thats one way to look at it, or they could laugh at some triggered dudes on the internet and live a normal life. But well never have the stats on that so I guess well never know =)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 07:22 PM
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You know a lot of eunuchs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 05:24 PM
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Im glad you're okay with it because there is just as many people who see our mocking post and realize trp is complete and total bullshit and then help mock it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 04:00 PM
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let me ask a more pointed question: if you think the Red Pill is a misogynistic hate sub that should be banned from reddit, wouldn't you be better off ignoring it and letting it remain a small corner of the internet that most people will never find in their lives? But mocking the things I find stupid is my favorite past time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 03:42 PM
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I'm just curious as to if you've seen the effect on women that a simple day of no contact dread can do. How can one saying not texting her for a day is abusive? Yes I have not texted my significant other / person I am trying to date for a day. Of course I dont think its abusive, I also think its incredibly childish to consider one day apart from your SO to be "no contact dread." In fact if I were seeing someone who got upset or "dreaded" not getting a text from me all day I would see that as a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 04:34 PM
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I have had more than 20 sexual partners so if a women told me she had more than 20 sexual partners who am I to judge?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 03:03 PM
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No Im sorry I think you misunderstood what I was trying to get at. A man who marries a woman who has the same earning potential in their career has less of a chance of being "divorce raped." If you and your wife are both making 100k a year at the time of your divorce you will split up your assets and there wont be any alimony. Having more women in higher levels of education and thus the work force would allow more men to be able to meet women who are at his earning potential. This wouldnt "incen…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 11:27 PM
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As for your point about educated women, that likely is more correlative than causative. Higher caste women get educated. Higher caste women get married and stay married. I totally agree with your point here. The article listed simply shows a correlative like, not causation. However, I think it could be argued that higher education for women would decrease the risk in marriage for men. I feel like one of the biggest complains trp has with marriage is the abilities to "divorce rape" the man throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 08:35 PM
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And plenty of guys on TRP think there are good ideas floating about, and don't bother anyone about it either. The entire sub is devote to dating/sexual advice so at one point or another you will interact with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 05:09 AM
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No that's definitely a "nurture" trait
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 11:11 PM
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I can point to myself. How on earth were you born into the red pill? It's a question on nature versus nurture; right? No its not when it comes to this because you can't be born redpill. Fat people are not born fat; People can have a genetic disposition to be "fat" by today's standards. Still, even if you were not born fat, you are not advocating for the harming of others simply by being fat. and I already explained to you, I mock idea's not identities. TRP is a collection of stupid idea that I e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 10:28 PM
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Okay, well then give me an example of someone being born "redpill". Like what does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 09:44 PM
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why aren't people born TRP really? when you were born was reddit a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 09:33 PM
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alright you want me to seriously explain to you why each of those things is different than mocking the redpill? blacks This is a race of people. They did not chose to be born black nor do they advocate anything hurtful to others simply by nature of being black. If you showed me a subreddit full of black people talking about how white people are "mentally children" and worthy of abuse then I would mock them too. fatties Many people do not "chose" to be fat because genetic and dietary habbits are …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 09:23 PM
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its fun trololololololol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 09:00 PM
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So basically you're a woman when it comes to sex But Im not, I am a man. If Op came here and said "a lot of sxually experienced people are looking for deeper relationships and non-experienced people are usually looking to explore their sexuality." than I would agree with him. However, he painted all men as "inexperienced and not looking for a real relationship" and all women as the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 07:55 PM
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After a year of online dating, it has become evident to me that the low match-to-swipe ratio that men face while using online dating apps is a manifestation of romantically experienced women's unwillingness to risk unpleasant (or fruitless, relationship-wise) encounters with generally less romantically experienced men. No, it means that a lot of women on tinder dont like you. You are taking your situation and applying it to all men. want a relationship for the more meaningful aspects beyond sex,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 07:44 PM
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Because I am a bigot who likes writing on hate subs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 02:49 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 02:29 PM
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Seriously. Every single person I know who worked to be more outgoing and work out more ends up having a more successful dating life. Its not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 10:11 PM
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I honestly don't have the red pill at all, I just think they are whinny losers who are fun to mock.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 04:10 PM
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Every vagina I have ever felt has felt different. Most times I've slept with the same girl has felt different depending on how into it she was at the time. Smaller framed girls have generally felt tighter but not to any extreme. Number of sexual partners has never seemed to have any correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 05:13 PM
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Legions really good though!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 05:23 PM
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Can I join your guild?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 04:24 PM
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dude you keep running around with the sharp edge you gunna take your eye out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 04:23 PM
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No you are not "obligated to save her." I'm pretty sure you are not "obligated" to help anyone on the street no matter what the crime is or their gender. Most people help eachother because of this thing called "empathy." But who needs that when you got that sick edge. bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 02:43 PM
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Why would they marry >99% of these types of women? They seem to bring little to no value with high risk. I dont know any successful dudes who marry "used good types." Most good looking, financially stable, interesting men I know are in relationships with inshape, successful, interesting, beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 02:30 PM
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Time is Money, Friend and Im honestly surprised to find a RPer using WoW references but then again im not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 02:14 PM
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And a pro-feminist view on trp wouldnt get you banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 07:28 PM
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Beta men OH NOOOOO YOU THINK A BETAAAAAAAAAAA
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 02:42 PM
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I would say that RP'ers have a realistic approach to what a "chad" is. Its more MGTOW and Incels who take it to the extremes you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 03:48 AM
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Okay so you are not against women being hypergamous. And you think that women's most valuable trait is their attractiveness. You also think that the best thing a woman can do to find a husband is use her attractiveness to fulfill her hypergamous needs and find the best man she can. I think we are on the same page now, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 08:06 PM
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Because if she maximizes her physical attractiveness, she has more options to attract the best men she can, so she can choose from among those men to date, and then choose one of those men to commit to. So its important for a women to be attractive so that she can express her hypergamy? Its not hard to understand I just thought the red pill was against women being hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 08:01 PM
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You're really doing a masterful job of missing the point. Well done. Im honestly trying to see your point and cant make heads or tails of your statements. What is relevant is that she decides to commit or not at some point. Yes, I woman needs to decide she wants a relationship to be in a relationship. Good point. Still dont understand how this relates to her attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 07:57 PM
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But according to TRP its men who are the gatekeepers of commitment? SO WOMEN ARE THE GATEKEEPERS OF SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS NOW?!?!?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 07:48 PM
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So the most important trait you ask yourself when looking to commit to a girl is "how hot is she?" We've made it back to my original point of Shallowness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 07:45 PM
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ohhhhh so you are literally narrowing it down to the moments when a guy looks at the woman to the time he walks up to say hello. yes in that extremely small time frame i guess its the most important trait......
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 07:41 PM
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So you are saying the traits that attract you to someone and the traits you think would make a good wife are two different things? Dont you see how that could be a recipe for disaster?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 07:28 PM
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No, for about the fifteenth time, her most valuable asset is her body and physical appearance for the attraction of attractive men for dating, sex and relationships. oh so her most important trait is her ability to express her hypergamy. I see now. You wouldnt want to be with a woman who's only option is you? AN important thing. ONE of the things a woman should do. We werent talking about ONE important thing. We were talking about THE MOST important thing and you said it was attractiveness. Im r…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 07:25 PM
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No, the most important thing to do before you get married is to be able to attract a lot of men so you can pick the best man for yourself. So you think a woman's most important trait is her Hypergamy? Dont let your little redpill buddies know that you think that. ONE important thing for a woman to do in a marriage is to continue to be physically attractive for your husband so as to keep him sexually satisfied, happy, and with you. So if you had a wife who contributed absolutely nothing to the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 07:01 PM
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-- she won't be able to attract men in the first place if she doesn't have some physical attractiveness; --she will have a wider array of men to choose from the more physically attractive she is. Yes, the most important thing to do in a marriage is the ability to attract a lot of people, thats what makes a good wife.......
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 06:54 PM
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You keep yelling "strawman" and then stating the argument that people were arguing against. I'll give you that being the most traditionally attractive will get you the farthest if you are looking for strictly casual sex, but its not the most important for dating and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 06:45 PM
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Exactly, looks are important but to say they are "the most important trait a person can have" is extremely short-sighted. Yes there are people who value "attractiveness" as the most important trait and we have a word for that : Shallow. Saying ALL MEN are shallow is just as stupid as saying ALL WOMEN are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 06:18 PM
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There is no "most important trait" in the dating market. Everyone defines certain traits as more or less important based on what they are looking for in a partner. "good looks" are the most universally wanted trait but also the most subjective. Everyone wants to be with someone they find attractive but what they find attractive is unique to them. For example, I like tall girls and find girls who are 5'10+ to be extremely attractive. This is probably because I'm tall myself and a guy who is 5'6 m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 06:13 PM
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Wow, how long did you spend in MSpaint to make those graphs? I bet you'll win the RP science fair with that much work. First thing first, a woman's body/appearance is her most valued asset. First thing first, no it isnt. That's what you have placed as the most important value she has. Many people out there do not agree with you. Second, you are not the end all be all in decision in who is attractive. Just because you think someone is a 3 doesnt mean someone else can't think they are a 10. Third,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 05:14 PM
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I agree that doubling the work force definitely had some effect on income growth and possibly inequality. Not only are you doubling the work force but you are shifting from the idea that you need to pay a man enough support his whole family to more two income households. Personally I think this is a good shift because ultimately it gives individuals more freedom, we just need to work through this transition period. When it comes to the dating scene, I think you are greatly over-representing the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 04:55 PM
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Red hair Pale skin with a lot of tattoos Tall, like 5'10 + Dresses like a 90's punker Older than me by a few years (28-32) Loud and out going Calls me on my shit and appreciates me doing the same to her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 02:49 PM
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Okay, but you're using anecdotal evidence to support your claim. I've had the exact opposite experience where I haven't flirted with a girl only to find out she has a crush on me a couple of run ins later. Does that mean that women like it when you don't flirt and play the long game in every situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 02:41 AM
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Okay? So you didn't flirt with a girl and then it turns out she wasn't interested in you? Idk what that means besides this girl wasn't interested in you. If you can only get girls to sleep with you if they don't know a lot about you then chances are this is something with you personally. There is no hidden code that says women will not be attracted to you after X amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 10:23 PM
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The more you get to know someone the more they get to know you. My guess would be you have an awful personality and it takes people a little while to notice. The longer you wait the lower a success rate because they realize you suck. But I'm really just spitballing here because I've really never had this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 04:22 PM
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"A Christmas Carol" - First published December 19th 1843 "Say Anything" - Released April 14, 1989 "The Sure Thing" - Released March 1, 1985 Very modern examples of blue pill conditioning you got there. Also hasn't John Cusack become the joke idea of what romance is suppose to be? I dont think anyone thinks holding a boom box outside a window is anything but cheesy these days....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 03:28 PM
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Yea I completely agree with you about men being intimidated by powerful women. Men are really bombarded with the idea that they need to be the strong controlling in the interactions. It is odd when you get the entire script flipped on you. As for the alcohol, I think that's just certain people. If you found someone who doesn't drink as well you probably wont run into as many problems. Not to say all men who dont drink are confident, but they wont be thrown by the fact that you dont drink / ask t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 07:48 PM
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Get her a tutor for school. If you are going to college you're grades are the most important thing you can focus on. If her grades dont come up by the end of the semester then she can spend the next year at community college to get them up. If she were in a sorority she should strive to hold a higher level position in that structure. Most if not all of my best workforce skills I learned from my time holding positions in my fraternity and it can really help prepare you for life. Make sure she is …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 03:20 PM
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Yea no TRUE Scotsman would do that. Body shaming is wrong. There are many feminists against body shaming, I would probably say the majority. Because one or even some are acting hypocritically does not mean that ALL feminists are like this thus "validating TRP theory about status" in the same way that some men rape doesnt mean that "all men rape women." Again, if someone made fun of your penis size thats immature. If you spent the last couple of days messaging them upset about it and insulting th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 09:13 PM
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okay, but if what this other user is writing about you is true as well you are both acting immature. Doesnt matter who started it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 09:06 PM
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Reading through the exchanging going on. It seems like you are being extremely immature as well though. So, you know grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 09:02 PM
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Wow, really taking the high road huh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 08:56 PM
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No, it just means you were debating a very immature person. A lot of feminists will agree that "virgin" and "small dick" shaming is hurtful. The problem is that most people would consider having sex with a lot of women and having a big penis to be a "Masculine" traits. This was not always the case in society. The Greeks and Roman's believed that big penis's were brutish and for the stupid people. Most of history did not put great importance on how many women a man has slept with, he was just sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 08:14 PM
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TRP reminds me of a quote from Thomas Edison. The story goes that "Thomas Edison failed more than 1,000 times when trying to create the light bulb". (The story is often told as 5,000 or 10,000 times depending on the version.) When asked about it, Edison allegedly said, "I have not failed 1,000 times. I have successfully discovered 1,000 ways to NOT make a light bulb." TRP has taught me 1,000 ways NOT to be a good romantic partner which is very helpful when you are trying to find out how to be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 07:46 PM
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Depends on the tattoos tbh. But for the most part I do like girls with a lot of tattoos. I may be a little biased because I have a lot of big tattoos as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 09:59 PM
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I'm a male feminist, every girl I ever dated considered themselves a feminist? Being a "good feminist" isnt an attractive quality, its a quality that makes you tolerable women who have those same views. No one is swooning over a guy who understands how rape culture effects women. You still need to have attractive qualities beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/16 09:45 PM
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Personally, this wouldnt bother me at all but I can see why it would be a deal breaker for a lot of people. I've had girls ask and get turned off because of my sexual history so I sort of understand both sides of the argument. I think the thing to remember is that the other person isnt "bad" or "immoral" for having different standards or expectations when it comes to dating and sleeping with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 06:30 PM
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tall athletes are not generally enjoying the dating game more than anyone else Attractive people get more attention in the dating market. There are extremely few people who would argue against that. And how do I reconcile the reality that some of the most sour, unpleasant, woman-hating men I know are stereotypically handsome and date lots. in all honesty getting dates usually has more to do with your looks and small-talk than it does with being a good person. You can be a total misogynistic pric…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 06:23 PM
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Fall Out Boy: The most Masculine music on earth. But seriously, Its not about being "Masculine" its about being confident in who you are. If you are stoked on yourself when you are 250 pounds of muscle in a tank top than do that. If you are most confident in skinny jeans and a band T-shirt than that will help you attract more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/16 01:59 PM
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yeah I agree, I just like hittin um where it hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 08:55 PM
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so being friends with any girl, even if you treat her as an equal, makes you an orbiter?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 06:03 PM
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but will you be more attracted to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 05:21 PM
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So, in your eyes, if you see an ugly girl walking with a hot guy she will become more attractive to you. You will admire her ability to get commitment but not sex out of a man an her SMV will go up?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 05:16 PM
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Why don't guys get social proof from being friends with attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 04:48 PM
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If you can find "love" anywhere why settle for just compatibility and stability? Why not shoot for all 3?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 04:45 PM
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I corrected his delusional idea that he was friendzoning women. So a man not being attracted to his friend because she is less attractive isnt friendzoning because she gets to be friends with a hot guy. But a woman not being attracted to her friend because he is less attractive is friendzoning??? Doesnt the man get the same "social proof" by hanging out with a hot girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 04:27 PM
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My parents understand attraction considering they are divorced and both have dated multiple people since splitting up. My original post was that parents arent responsible for teaching you how to attract people so I really have no interest in looking for that. Grow the fuck up and learn how to talk to girls on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 04:19 PM
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I'd make a guess that most don't A guess?!!? oh Im sorry, I shouldnt have even questioned your scientific research of guessing. They sure as fuck aren't going to talk to their kids about it. ding ding ding! Its almost like most parents want to make sure their children because productive members of society more than they want to make sure they get their peepee touched enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 04:05 PM
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No parent ever has understood how attraction works? No one before our generation had to date or had casual sex? Geez
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:59 PM
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So did you not have a single friend until you started drinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:57 PM
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While I do agree that you shouldn't be friends with someone if you are secretly trying to get them to fall in love with you, the rest of this is pretty much bullshit. I have turned down girls who later became really good friends. I have been turned down by women who have later became really good friends. You can be friends with people you find attractive, its called not being a selfish baby and crying when feelings arent reciprocated. Seriously, the worst case scenario is that you are friends wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:56 PM
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If she isn't hot enough for you to bang, you get no social proof from hanging out with her. Ah I see your problem, you only value women for their appearance. You know there are some crazy people out there who can enjoy friendships with people without wondering out it affects their social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:53 PM
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I'm not saying that you need to be in love with every person you sleep with, but I wouldnt consider fucking someone a way to get to know them better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:46 PM
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Marriage and long term relationships are about more than what is logistically good for you. Your parents can find someone for you who is perfect on paper but you can still not be in love with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:44 PM
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You are assuming those guys literally only have that going for them. You know you can be intelligent, have a good job, and still have tattoos and play in a band?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:42 PM
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Why is it your parents job to teach you how to date? No one I know has ever been sat down by their parents and told "here is how to attract members of the opposite sex." The ones that did have their parents involved in their dating life (as in taking input on who they "should" date) are dating people their parents like, not the people they want to date. Very few parents would ever be helpful in telling you what is a good way to be attractive. All the people complaining about being told "Girls lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 02:57 PM
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I dont consider saying someone is insecure is a "knockout" punch, but its kinda clear you do. I'm insecure about a lot of things in my life. Theres nothing wrong with being insecure. I think the problem is that most men are not taught how to properly deal with their insecurities. They are told that their insecurities make them weak and unattractive. So, being told they are insecure about anything is an insult to them. On the other hand, women are taught to deal with insecurities a lot better tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 01:33 PM
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Yea its really not a big deal. Just dont kiss or share drinks with anyone who's having an outbreak and your'e fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 01:22 PM
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I think you got that a little backwards, buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 01:17 PM
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Idk the point of this thread but I usually dont want to cuddle with people I dont know. Also it probably sounds weird to ask a girl to come over for a "Cuddle Date"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 07:38 PM
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Legs - Mildly important Armpit - not important Crotch - Pretty Important These are just personal preferences though. Girls can do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 04:48 PM
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Only complaint I got it that she lists what her ideal partner makes but doesnt list what she makes. If she makes around the same I dont think hes asking for too much considering she is looking for an equal. I do think it is rude to list how much you make / how much you want your partner to make. Otherwise, no she isnt being over the top in what she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 05:03 PM
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How much should she make: Doesnt matter as long as we can support herself How much Housework: Enough that everything gets done with my help
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 02:40 PM
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I wouldnt say the put it on a pedestal. They put them selves on the pedestal, pussy is now the step to get on top. As in, they consider sleeping with women the only real measure of accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 02:39 PM
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I think the problem is that unless the rejection is stern men wont take it as a real rejection. The guys keep pushing and the girl gets to a place where she has to give a very stern, often misconstrued as mean or insulting, rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 06:19 PM
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I would rather believe in free-will and be proven wrong, knowing I made what I thought were the best decisions. If I were to not believe in it and be proven wrong than I wasted my life thinking some master plan was suppose to happen that never came through.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 03:01 PM
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yea I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 02:32 PM
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If I found free will wasnt real than I wouldnt have a choice in my "pill preference"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 02:27 PM
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I dont agree, I think that HV men can care about it, but only low value guys will put a low number cap on what they think is acceptable. A lot of guys will say that "if she had sex with a lot of people what makes him so special" or worry that women will be "alpha widowed" and then cheat on them later on because of it. I think that is extremely insecure. Its the equivalent of being 30 and only playing tee-ball with 5th graders because you are afraid someone with more experience might be better th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 09:51 PM
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I think "Dominance" is something that is earned and worked for while "Domineering" is something that you force on others. This really made me think of my past and current boss as an example. My current boss I would describe as "Dominant." He is extremely knowledgeable about the business we are in and has built up his section of the company from nothing. When he talks everyone listens because they know what he says is valuable. He isnt someone who is "always right" and takes input from his employ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 09:39 PM
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No lying. Believe me or not it really doesnt make any difference to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 04:06 PM
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Do you want/expect your partner to take your last name? I honestly dont care either way In what circumstances would you be okay with that not occurring? Again, dont care Would you want your children to have your last name? Still doesnt matter one bit to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 03:53 PM
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I had a porn star grab my crotch once without asking. I told her that it was not okay to do and she apologized. I did not enjoy it at all because she touched me without my permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 03:06 PM
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If anger by itself was hot, Incels would be the most attractive people on earth
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:05 PM
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how far can a person go to help somebody (who you had feelings for) and is now in a relationship. As far as you want. If you care about a person you can be there for them emotionally to any extent that they feel comfortable. "she just uses you and you should tell her to fuck off" (other words: be alpha) This isnt being "alpha" this is just telling someone to fuck off. What is she "using you" for exactly? If this isnt really a trauma and she is just acting out for attention, then yea tell her to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 02:50 PM
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Sooo... I actually asked them to discuss trump's comments in light of 50 shades of Grey. Trump was talking about groping women and admitted that he believed "they let you do anything." Fifty Shades of Grey is a book, not a factual one at that, about a consensual BDSM relationship. Comparing what Trump said to a work of fiction is just plain stupid. Yes there are some women who would be okay with Trump touching them like that, but to brag that all women let you do it is ridiculous. Also, many peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 01:25 PM
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Yea turns out you can lift weights and not be a giant misogynist. WHO KNEW!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 11:14 PM
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Once again, denying the fact that you can improve does nothing to help you. Haircuts help because it can betting from your face. I look got awful with long / shaggy hair. I recognized this and found a wonderful barber who helps me keep my hair the way I like it. Posture can help your face a ton. Before I started working on mine I had an bad problem with having a double chin. Not because I was overweight, but because I was holding my head up and was constantly slouching. You also look overall mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 07:49 PM
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Alright fair. Dont be bitter about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 07:12 PM
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Naturally, no. Getting in shape, a better hair cut, and improving my posture helped me get to where I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 07:12 PM
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Growing up, no I wasnt. I consider myself attractive now. Thats because I realized I wanted to look better and worked hard to get to goals I set. I dropped 20 pounds after leaving highschool. I forced myself to meet people and work on my relationships. I pushed to create the best version of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 07:02 PM
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positive reinforcement and a good home life Growing up my homelife sucked, My father was abusive and not supportive in any way. I was a social outcast through most of my school years too. Its still not an excuse. I worked on my social skills and confidence my entire life. Yea some people have it harder than others and its not fair. Doesnt mean you can just give up. I saw the way others treated me when I was younger as wrong, so why would I want to perpetuate that treatment onto others?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 06:06 PM
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I ain't afraid of no terrorist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 09:32 PM
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I'm not America ohhhh so you're jealous of our freedom. I get it, it must suck not living in the greatest nation ever. My condolences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 08:47 PM
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Doesnt matter, shes going to be president. Deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 08:35 PM
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Hillary Clinton didnt break the law. The FBI investigated her and found her guilty of no crimes. Your'e going to look real silly come november when she's elected.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 07:33 PM
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Is Quinton Tarantino the head of a major party's presidential ticket?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 05:35 PM
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yep, men abusing their position of power to intimidate someone is definitely women's fault. Solid argument. You should be a trump surrogate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 04:38 PM
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Yes but you said he explicitly stated the were okay with it. He did not say that, you're assuming that they were okay with it just as the left is assuming they weren't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 03:17 PM
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He explicitly states that women are OKAY with it when you're a high-value man. He never said they were okay with it. He said that "You can do anything."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 03:08 PM
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What Trump said made it look like he was entitled to women's bodies. I just start kissing them. It's like a magnet. Just kiss. I don't even wait. And when you're a star they let you do it. You can do anything. "Grab them by the pussy. You can do anything." These are his exact words from the video. What he doesnt say is "women throw themselves at me," he said you can do whatever you want to them. He said he just starts kissing women and doesnt even wait. He suggested just grabbing them by the pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 03:07 PM
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Just look at her car, it doesnt even have a top! Clearly she should have known better to be driving around like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 09:13 PM
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But if you met Kobe Bryant or Michael Jordan and they asked to play ball with you, you would definitely play. I know I wouldnt. I dont even know how basketball works tbh. Also basketball =/= a intimate physical activity. My question is, if you are not a women and are incel, what experiences are you basing this opinion on? Why do you believe you know a women's sexuality better than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 07:11 PM
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Most people understand that people want to be with attractive people. Saying you didn't know reflects more on you than women and society
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 09:00 PM
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Poor analogy, poor explaination. Most rapes aren't done in a back alley by a stranger. You got no clue what you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 08:58 PM
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Slut walks are about rape. The idea is that they should be able to wear anything they want and they are still not asking to be raped. Theres a difference between entitlement and having sexual desire. If you hear a women say "you arent entitled to sex" its probably because you are having a hissy fit over her not sleeping with you. Yes what a crazy idea that people should only be sexually touched by people they want doing that. What a crazy world we live in. Theres a difference between saying NEVE…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 07:50 PM
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tips fedora
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 07:32 PM
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No Im getting the point, you're just letting feels take over. Not very alpha if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 06:49 PM
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"All you need is to treat women with respect and be nice to them, and you'll find the one!" All I dont agree that people are told ALL you need to do is be nice. Being nice and treating people with respect is how you get a healthy relationship but it isnt the only thing you need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 06:49 PM
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as a red pill man, why are you letting your feels take over, I thought that was for women? Im sorry my harsh language upsets you but that just how guys talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 06:42 PM
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awww, is the nice guy upset? People make fun of entitled people. There are NiceGuy and NiceGirls. When people shame them, they are making fun of their entitlement, not the situation they are in. If I guy complains that he is nice and cant understand attraction thats one thing and its completely fine. When a guy goes "GOD DAMN WOMEN DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT IN LIFE! THEY KEEP PASSING ON A NICEGUY LIKE ME! FUCKING SLUTS!" well then you're an entitled asshole who deserves to be made fun of. Same go…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 06:09 PM
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If we were in a monogamous relationship, still no. Because I would voice my opposition and if they still slept with the person it would be going against what I want in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 01:27 PM
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I would consider it exactly the same. The problem I have with cheating isnt so much that my partner is sleeping with someone else, but going behind my back and lying to me to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 01:12 PM
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Why do women need to be more vocal? Literally just Look at people and society and it will be fucking clear that's the case
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 12:23 PM
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You are completely missing my point. Just because a girl responds to you and is willing to meet up does not meeting you will 100% without a doubt have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 09:54 PM
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meeting someone in person =/= having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 09:44 PM
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do those guys get laid within hours of meeting? Sometimes, doesnt mean they sleep with every girl that walks up to them though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 09:43 PM
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Some girls are gross and creepy, others aren't. The girl im currently seeing came up to me when we first met.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 09:42 PM
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Im not a woman? and I never said looks dont matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 09:40 PM
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My frat house Concerts Local bars Friends houses Most days I just stay in and play video games though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 05:36 PM
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No saying that. But acting like an emotionally blind weirdo on tinder and still getting a response is not the same as women throwing themselves at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 04:58 PM
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weed, but I really dont think thats important.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 04:40 PM
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women will actively approach him so all it takes to be a chad is women approaching you? If thats the case 90% of the people I know are chad's.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 01:41 PM
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So these experiments proved the guy can get laid? because all I saw is you can be a jackass on tinder and still get a girls number if you are hot. a girl responding =/= having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 01:22 PM
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not an attack, just general confusion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 01:19 PM
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confirmation bias on my end I don't really talk to anyone there. I assume they're all taken. you know what they say about assuming....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 01:00 PM
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I honestly dont understand the point of these experiments or what they prove? A hotter person will get a way with saying dumber things on tinder? Was that really that groundbreaking to anyone besides incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 12:57 PM
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Yea probably, the same way guys still lie about it as well. People will always try to present the best versions of themselves to new people or people they are just getting to know. Are there people who are unabashed by their sexual history? Sure Are there people who feel the need to fudge the truth, in either direction? Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 04:24 PM
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I grew up the only boy in a large extended family of all girls. I've had a female best friend since I was 3 years old. I'm often invited to "Girls night" events with my female friends. I've seen first hand how vulgar girls are. Yall go into detailed I never have heard my guy friends go into. Whenever I talk to guys about sex the focus on the good stuff, girls go through the good, the bad, and the ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 02:17 PM
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what can nice guys do to improve their lives? Simple, take responsibility for their situation. If you cant get a relationship and think "all girls are the same, they like jerks" than you are absolving yourself of responsibility in the situation. "Its not me thats unattractive, its that women are attracted to the wrong thing!" is probably the dumbest line of thinking ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 06:31 PM
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As a male victim of sexual assault, yes it is very traumatizing, although I dont want to be in a pissing contest of is it "more or less" traumatizing for women. I do agree with the linked women's sentiment. I can imagine being penetrated to cause a lot more trauma than what happened to me. I would not consider it "on a different level" than rape though. People already have a hard enough time agreeing that men can be raped by a woman, classifying it as something else because he wasn't penetrated …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 02:00 PM
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No, they made a ghostbusters with a female cast, how is that "hateful rhetoric of feminists"? Also you just proved my point, MRA is more about terming feminism down than it is building men up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 04:49 PM
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I dont think there is anything wrong with advocating for the rights of men. There are definitely things that we need fight for legaly for men. But most "MRA"s dont do it to further the rights of men, they do it to shut up women. Thats why if you go to /r/mensrights youll find the top post making fun of how the original ghost busters did better than the new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 06:15 PM
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I really dont feel like arguing with random people on the internet. So ill leave you with this. You are an awful human being. Your mother is probably ashamed of you.
/r/MGTOW28/09/16 07:59 PM
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did they force her to get intoxicated or did she get intoxicated under her own will? No they didnt, but they did bring her back to their place to feed her more alcohol. a drunk driver gets wasted and crashes a car and kills a person, is that drunk driver still responsible? Why is a woman not responsible for getting herself drunk and making stupid decisions? Because a drunk driver chooses to get behind the wheel. A girl does not choose to get raped. where do you draw the line? Say a girl gets her…
/r/MGTOW28/09/16 07:06 PM
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Male, Agnostic / Atheist Were you brought up in a religious household? No, although my mother taught at a catholic school for over ten years and I went to Bible school one day a week until I got confirmed Have you turned from religious to non-religious, or vice versa? Never was religious. Even at a young age I found it hard to believe in. Also, how do you think your beliefs affect your relationships and how you treat people? I do not believe that my lack of religion has affected any of my relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:24 PM
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If such a man shows sexual interest in a woman, he'll get branded as a creep. No, if he acts like a creep people will think hes a creep. That or incels are so self-conscience they assume every woman thinks they are a creep. If he admits that he has sexual desires for any woman, other men will look at him funny for admitting that he has sexual desires like any other man. Once again, very few men would belittle another guy for saying he has sexul urges. Most of us have them. It seems like incels a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:14 PM
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Even if the woman is all over you and is dry humping you and takes off your pants and fucks you, and regrets it the next day, it's still your fault and you're considered a rapist in the court of law. That situation is nothing like the PUA RSD Alex situation. The article clearly states that the men picked up a girl who was so intoxicated she doesnt even remember meeting them. When they got to their place one man distracted the sober friend while three men raped the drunk girl while she vomited on…
/r/MGTOW28/09/16 02:16 PM
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Do A, B and C. Be like this cool guy. Do this, that and other thing that women like. I would never describe my masculinity in terms of what women like because women are a diverse group who like different things. I feel a lot of people on TRP feel like people are attacking masculinity itself when they say that TRP is toxic. Its actually the awful treatment of women that people find toxic. If growing a big beard and long hair make you feel masculine and happy, go for it. If being clean shaven and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 02:53 PM
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Idk I didn't read his manifesto....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 07:51 PM
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I would assume an un-diagnosed pychological disorder let to it, although I'm no doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 07:50 PM
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Yea I've been dominated a few times. Mostly just being tied up and choked. I thought it was a lot of fun. Definitely needs to be with the right girl who knows how to dominate though, but you could say that for any sexual act lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 07:09 PM
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Because he had a server mental break down
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 06:54 PM
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Because he was on a murderous rampage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 06:33 PM
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Pretty sure he died from a gun shot wound, not lack of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 10:41 PM
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Seriously man I wish you the best and hope you get help
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:53 PM
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I really wasn't trying to be passive aggressive in any way. I do hope you seek out help. Considering you are posting on /r/depression about wanting to kill yourself you definitely need it. I've delt with depression a lot of my life so i understand where you are coming from to an extent. Taking that first step to get help is always the hardest From my point of view, people like you are completely immoral and without values. Thats fine, you are allowed to have your opinion of me, even though its b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 04:45 PM
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Is the world better with this subhuman shitstain gone? Absolutely. So you think its a good thing that this woman committed suicide?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:57 PM
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subconscious bias ummm no, I dont think people who cant get laid are bad people. I think people who read and contribute to TRP/MGTOW/Incels are bad people. Not everyone, but most.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:54 PM
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So she deserved the harassment and eventual death for cheating? I understand she wasnt a good person but do you honestly think she deserve everything she got?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:46 PM
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You don't think some men are more capable, dominant, assertive, compelling, charismatic, and attractive than other men? kinda You don't think women prefer these men? Whats compelling to one woman might be boring to another. Whats attractive to one woman might be ugly to another. Whats charismatic to one woman might be overbearing to another. Everything you listed is subjective but yes, women want be be with men they view as more of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:44 PM
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Why do BP have such a hard time with this concept? I have no problem with this concept. Anyone is allowed to think anything is un-attractive. I have a problem when they say a women has no value because she was promiscuous. Or even worse, deserves to be harrased / die because she was promiscuous Why can't they just accept that its one of many features, like a big ugly nose I know a lot of people who like big noses fatness There is a ton of bbw porn out there. Why can RPer's accept that just becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:37 PM
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Well I do kind agree with this, but I dont think the coke would be healthy. A lot of people who abuse drugs are self-medicating for already existing problems. I feel a lot of incels struggle with depression and yes coke would help them feel "LIKE THE FUCKING INVINCIBLE KING OF THE WORLD" but thats only a short term solution. It would probably be better to actually talk to a therapist and get real medication to help with their depression. As for the escorts, I say go for it. As long as no one is …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:29 PM
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What is YOUR PERSONAL definition of "slut" and "high N"? I really dont have a definition of "slut" because I feel its a usless word. Its been used so much by men to insult women that its really lost meaning. If I plan on insulting a woman I'd rather be more specific to the situation and to just use the blanket term of "Slut" I would probably consider a high N count to be around 50+? a high count really doesnt change my opinion of them though. What's your PERSONAL cutoff beyond which a woman's N …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:20 PM
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Also, as a man, would you be a RP male's friend? No, chances are if I met someone who fully believed the shit TRP spews I would not get along with them. We would have completely different goals and beliefs. I don't think we would have anything in common. What if one of your BP friends turned RP? How would you deal with him? I would actively try to have them seek therapy or some sort of counseling. If something had happened to them that they suddenly think all women need to be treated like childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 03:03 PM
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oh man, is this going to be on the shit test at the end of the semester? Can I copy your notes after class?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 01:06 AM
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I mean if they assumed that I didnt want to be touched without asking they probably wouldnt have done it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 08:43 PM
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I dont care how "feminie" a girl is. Its the invasion of personal space and being aggressive. Its them not taking my feelings about being touched into account before they do it. Its just rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 08:18 PM
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I do not enjoy being objectified in any way. Although what I consider sexual objectification may differ than what women experience, this is my experiences with it and how I define it for myself personally. I have a lot of tattoos and piercings. I also go out to parties a lot. I would say about half the times I go out I get some drunk girl pulling on my arm to look at my tattoos. Sometimes they're worse and start pulling on the neckline of my shirt to take a look at the ones on my chest. Now, usu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 07:54 PM
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Relationships are not on Economy. Men's value to women is more than a relationship. Women's value to men is more than just sex. Your ideas on the subject are extremely close minded and seem to put both men and women into little boxes of ideas. Yes, I refuse to see sex as a transaction because it is not. If what you said was true there would be no women who enjoy causal sex and no men who value a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 07:02 PM
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Yes, its stupid macho bullshit with nothing to back it up besides your feelings on the subject. You then think you are so important that everyone should hold others to your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 06:49 PM
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Yep, probably right considering "liking" something is always associated with emotions (joy or disgust).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 06:40 PM
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I have the power to deem anyone any way I see fit. Yes, you have the power to think whatever you want about whoever you want. You dont have the power to make the rest of the world agree with you Why don't you like my measurement system anyway? Because its stupid macho bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 06:33 PM
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Imagine if it was a timid opinion? Nobody listens to a gentle reactionary. So your goal is to get others to share your views on women and men's values? again, what power do you have to deem someone valuable or not-valuable to the entire world?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 06:28 PM
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I must have fallen asleep in algebra because those equations arent in my notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 06:23 PM
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I didn't lose it until I was 18. Thats a pretty average age for men to first have sex. Obviously, there's no empirical data or we wouldn't be here arguing it. So a better statement would be "I dont want to date people who do such-and-such." There would be nothing wrong with saying that. But what power do you have to deem someone valuable or not-valuable to the entire world?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 06:17 PM
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I think this is a completely fair statement to make. People usually date others who share similar values. I could say the same for a woman who puts too much meaning into sex (ie. waiting for marriage or something). A girl like that might be "low value" to in terms of dating. But that is a personal opinion to me. Stating that any woman who has had a threesome is low value or any man who has had one is high value to everyone across the board is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 06:12 PM
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hahaha well thanks, mod! I'm sure RPers would be surprised to learn a little sex-positivity goes a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 06:02 PM
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So if a man doesnt lose his virginity until adulthood he will always be low value? Even if he goes on to have a healthy sex life after? There is no way to come back from that? And if a man ever buys something for a woman he doesnt know he will always be low value for the rest of his life? There is no way to come back from that? The last one I dont understand at all. Who goes around raising other peoples children without dating the parent? Also, what empirical data do you have that deems someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 05:56 PM
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So what other sex acts will, even if done once, make a woman low value for the rest of her life? Is there any sex act that a man can do once to make him low value for the rest of his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 03:25 PM
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I wouldnt consider her "low value" and I definitely wouldn't consider myself "high value." We were literally just two people who were open and comfortable with what we wanted sexually. I dont see how a single sex act can determine a persons "value" for the rest of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 03:10 PM
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You linked something about woman "giving it up for free" The word threesome is no where in that post. So yeah Im a little confused. may take the time to write out what you mean instead of linking to past comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 02:49 PM
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I dont understand how what you linked related to this, nor do I see how the two are different. No it ended because she had to move across the country for work and neither of us wanted a long-distance relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 02:42 PM
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I have been in a relationship with a woman who had a threesome with two men. I've had a threesome with two women so who am I to judge?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 02:33 PM
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before she winds up in trouble. What trouble exactly? Why cant you stop being so naive to think that a woman accepting a drink is first base?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 02:20 PM
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furious aggressively Calmly saying thank you for a compliment is aggressive? How is jokingly standing up for your friends white knighting? If you are with a group of dudes and someone should something rude to one of them do you not stick up for them? how is this different or do you just let people insult your friends on the street or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 10:01 PM
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I always get mad at my dog for shitting in the house. My dog doesnt shit in the house because he knows he will have to sleep outside that night if he does. My dog understand that his actions have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 08:32 PM
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Yea all the time at parties. I usually mock them with others while they fume. Also, cat - calling is misogyny and my personal favorite to deal with. If Im walking with a girl or group of girls who get cat called I answer the cat call. So if some guy screams "Nice ass" ill act as if he was talking to me and thank him and tell him I've been going to the gym a lot. Usually the cat callers get extremely offended and homophobic. Girls always think its hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 06:47 PM
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I have bought a round while with female friends that I dont want to sleep with and they dont want to sleep with me. Should they decline those drinks too? I do think that it isnt right for girls to "play" guys for free drinks. However, I've literally seen it maybe once or twice in my life. Accepting a first drink isnt the same as first base. Accepting the second isnt an invitation to make a move. It probably means she is enjoying his company and thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 06:42 PM
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BIOTRUFFS BIOTRUFFS BIOTRUFFS you dont give a shit about genes. Stop with the high and mighty "Men take responsibility of securing quality of genes" shit and just admit you're shallow. Its fine to be shallow, a lot of men and women are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 04:31 PM
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So literally your type is a hot girl who is pleasant and has a job? Wow you really set the bar high there buddy. No wonder you think this stupid bullshit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 08:09 PM
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Couple of questions... What gene / hormone makes women hypergamous? What pill will reduce this? Personally, I think we should just force medication down the throats of those incels / undersexed betas! Maybe a pill that completely wipes out their sexdrive! I think this is a great alternative to sexbots or virtual sex because the resources that would be devoted to developing those things can be used on things like curing cancer. In fact, completely removing incels and beta sex drives will be more …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 07:12 PM
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"youre wearing the same dress as that girl, don't worry, you wear it a bit better" This is not teasing though. This is just rude. You are literally just saying "Hey, you're prettier than that girl." How is that better than "I think you're pretty." At least the latter doesn't put someone else down.... it was okay because you know he was kidding So your defense would be "its a joke" and the girl is not actually prettier than the other one? Hows is it a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/16 06:20 PM
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No way TBP is as cool as nice guys. That shit is gold
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 01:00 AM
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You know CPR because im choking in the irony over here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 12:58 AM
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AHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA deep breath AHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA Okay, so if women dont like sex at all why do so many ride the CC according to TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 07:20 PM
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Its satire... TRP is a dancing monkey that most of us on TBP like to laugh at. So either start dancing or get off the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 01:22 PM
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loaded questions? is that like loaded potatoes? Like questions with melted cheese and bacon because that sounds delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 10:06 PM
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and the only way to get attention is through negative attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 07:17 PM
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So the language serves no purpose to the content, it just gets you more attention and you like the attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 06:40 PM
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wow, bet your mom made you a big plate of tendies as a reward too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 06:17 PM
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ohhhhh so edge. what purpose do the offensive language serve exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 06:14 PM
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ohhhh very stem. What science research did you do to come to this idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 06:13 PM
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You really.... really missed the point of american beauty....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 05:16 PM
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if AMALT is bigotry than why isnt AWALT bigotry?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 05:14 PM
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Yeah! And if fruits and vegetables were so healthy why don't more people eat them!!! STEM!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 03:34 AM
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I was raised by my mother mostly and it only helped me in life, as far as I can tell. I also got a lot of help from my older female cousins. My mother was a teacher and drilled good study habits into my head. She helped me get honor roll in high school and that continued into college. I now work a great job that I love. As for dating, being around so many females helped me understand women a lot better than other guys my age. Seeing guys pull horrible bad "game" on my cousins showed me how not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 08:12 PM
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I really dont know or care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 07:13 PM
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Consensual non-consent is a perfectly acceptable fantasy to have, man or woman. Whats the difference? Consent is the difference. Women who have rape fantasies dont go out at night looking to be assaulted by a stranger. They find someone who would act out the fantasy with them. Men who want to "rape" someone should find a girl who would act out the fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 03:14 PM
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I've come to the conclusion that people who play the jester and try to take the piss out of a serious discussion do it out of fear. No, I do it because arguing with people on the internet is useless. I doubt anyone will change their opinion because some random person told them they are wrong. Its much more rewarding to mock and ridicule TRP. If I ever met a RPer in real life I'm sure I could do more to dissuade them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 05:28 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA No I'm sure she married him for his charming personality and he married her because of her brilliant mind. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 04:24 AM
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I agree. But just because you can date the awkward girls doesnt mean you'll one day be able to date a HB10 because of it. The only thing dating people on you're level does is help you understand how to socialize in relationships. Theres no "stepping stone" system to women. Yes, your 5th relationship is going to (hopefully) be easier than your first, but it doesnt mean itll be with a "higher value" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:58 PM
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Girls don't have to know anything, and he's not required to advise her of what he wants/expects. Yea thats a healthy and honest way to look at relationships. I'm sure nothing bad could come of that /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:54 PM
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Basically, guy who has weak game should get some basic "practice" experience with fatties and uglies before setting his sights on cute and attractive girls who will require sharper game. Dating women isnt a video game. Just because you dated a HB4 doesnt mean youll be able to date a HB5 after you break up with her... Yet if a guy actually does actively approach low-SMV women with the intention of later "upgrading" to hot women, I'm sure BPers would rip him to shreds for being a lying, abusive as…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:34 PM
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if you aren't an egoistic cunt you are suddenly called Uncle Tom because you don't believe your group is being oppressed. Milo isnt egotistical? Really? Really? He's not an uncle tom because he doesn't fight for gay rights, hes an uncle tom because he actively fights against gay rights. Any many who is openly gay and publicly states that lesbians dont exist is a hypocritical asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 04:13 PM
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No, I would probably continue to think its horse-shit for men who want to blame their failures on anyone but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 12:39 PM
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I find it very odd that 3 days after the fact you come and comment 5 times on my thread. Let things go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 08:19 PM
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Threatening his family and work to get his career tanked, and wife freaked out Yes I know what Doxxing is, my point remains the same. If you would not like your family, friends, or employers knowing your views on something dont post it to a public space.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 06:08 PM
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I've never seen a thread on TBP that promoted Doxing. I personally think doxing is wrong and would never do it to anyone. Are there people in the world who want to Dox RP'ers? Sure, there a people in the world who will dox others for any number of reasons. Is it a core concept of TBP that we could be considered a "dox factory", no. An important thing to remember: there is no such thing as privacy when you post on a public website. Just because your name isnt directly attached to the account does…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 02:46 PM
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men are still more likely to be highly intelligent Well if you honestly believe that you should be dating women. In your own words you should be with someone you see as inferior Kepler's laws Scientific Laws and research are different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 09:23 PM
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From your own link, "average sex differences have been generally small and stable over time." That's why almost all scientists, mathematicians, philosophers and engineers throughout history have been men. Really? You know that for most of history women forced into the position of mother and housekeeper right? Also, this study is from 20 years ago now. You got a problem when the more proof you find the farther you have to go back in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 08:25 PM
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men should not be cuckolds because it ruins relationships. You are looking at averages here. The average woman would be attracted to dominant masculinity. But to say there are not outliers would be ridiculous. There are tons of men and women who enjoy cuckolding for fun and it doesnt ruin their relationship. just go over to /r/cuckold if you want proof. http://www.livescience.com/7154-men-smarter-women-scientist-claims.html Wow a 10 year old study that literally ends with, "I wouldn't say it's t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 08:08 PM
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well first of all thats a lot of words that didnt answer most of my questions. I dont care about physical attractiveness in this argument. You provided no proff that the majority of women are submissive besides that men like wide hips? as for my question about being inferior, For example, studies have shown that men are more likely to be highly intelligent which studies? Overall you wrote a lot of nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:52 PM
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because there are men who enjoy watching their wives sleep with other people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 04:05 PM
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Cucks aren't a threat to men. So then why is cuck an insult? Why call men who are BP cucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:53 PM
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Getting cucked is viewed firstly as an insult and second as a symptom of how fucked up the normal interplay has become. So there are certain aspects of male sexuality that are shameful, just not the ones TRP expresses. got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:52 PM
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Even when the man is the one who brings it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:51 PM
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Yes but that was an example of female agression. a man slapping someone is an example of female aggression? How so? Instead they tell them to be themselves, listen to women and respect their feelings and boundaries, and yadda yadda. This has never been a response to unsolicited advances. You're taking this way to seriously. You made the ridiculously stupid claim, so please elaborate. If a man who doesn't lift doesn't have a masculine identity how much lifting does it take to get one?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:51 PM
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If a fat mangina trotters up to someone and delivers a limp-wristed slap, you wouldn't call that male agression, would you? Someone walking up and assaulting someone is an act of aggression. Also, you did not answer my question. Why does TRP rail against women who shame men for unsuccessfully approaching them when you said its completely fine to shame "fat manginas" for anything. He doesn't have a masculine identity, he doesn't even lift. So what weight / rep combination do you have to lift in o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:24 PM
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Yep, its almost like TRP attracts horrible hypocritical people or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:20 PM
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man consider it normal I'm not saying you have to make it the norm, I'm saying you shame men just as much as the "evil feminists." You just shame for different reasons. This is in no way promoting the acceptance of all forms of male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:18 PM
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The point is, we are going to shame them and there is nothing they can do about it. Okay, so trp is not the champion for "male sexuality" as they like to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:05 PM
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So when "fat manginas" are shamed for approaching women unsuccessfully they are being shamed for lack of sexuality? I thought that approaching attractive women was part of normal healthy male sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:59 PM
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But typically that must be balanced with things showing them you still see their personality and see them with respect. But if you do take their personality into account than you arent objectifying them. There is a difference between finding someone attractive and looking at someone as a sexual object. Anyway, thats not the point of this thread, if you would like to make your own thread go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:56 PM
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Liking younger girls makes sense from an evo psych standpoint. Letting another guy cum in your wife does not. Anal Sex does not "make sense" from evo psych standpoint. Oral sex does not "make sense" from evo psych standpoint. These things are not ridiculed at all in TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:43 PM
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However, they also want their personality to be seen, and they way they feel to be understood, and this makes them feel like they the human is being seen and not just their body. Sexual objectification is defined as "the act of treating a person as an instrument of sexual pleasure. Objectification more broadly means treating a person as a commodity or an object without regard to their personality or dignity." link So you really just proved yourself wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:40 PM
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In addition, almost all women are sexually submissive Do you have any statistics to prove that? Because of this, sexual relationships where the female is sexually dominant and the man is sexually submissive are generally rare and short-lived. Why would a relationship between a naturally dominant woman and an naturally submissive man not work? It seems like they would enjoy being around eachother. Do you think people should be in relationships with people who regard them as inferior? Does TRP not…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:36 PM
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So shaming male sexuality is only wrong when women do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:18 PM
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People who are abused will continue to be abused as no one is looking out for their interests. And so those people deserved to be shamed for their abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:18 PM
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It's ok to shame a fat mangina for anything. Almost your civil duty in fact. So when women shame fat mangina's for approaching them unsuccessfully they are just performing a civic duty? So then why does trp fight to end this shaming? Is it because they believe they are wrongly being labeled fat manginas?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:13 PM
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Terpers can easily use the same excuse for using the word "cuck" They could, but from the consensus here it seems that they do believe cuck's are worthy of shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:07 PM
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Thanks, I actually have a video of TRP right now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:44 PM
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I do, only people that have are inclined that they are being fucked over can be affected by shaming. One more time in English please?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:41 PM
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Are you implying that all cuckolding is abuse? Even if the man consents and enjoys it? So its the victims fault if he gets abused by women, and thats why cuck is an insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:33 PM
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If he's a fat mangina who shames men for using good sexual strategy like TRP, then yes Okay, but you didnt answer my question. Is it alright for a women to shame a "fat mangina" for the size of his penis or his inability to make her orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:32 PM
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No I dont, but being a pedophile and enjoying your wife sleeping around are two different things. Animals and Children cannot consent to sex, there go it is wrong to have sex with them. Men and women can consent to a cuckold relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:29 PM
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Tell Les Dennis who was destroyed by Amanda Holden cheating on him. Tell Robin Williams who was driven to suicide. Tell guys coming back from military service to find his wife dumping him for Jody. Yes, being cheated on is awful, no one is arguing against that. But if you are saying getting cheated on is shameful these examples are horrible. You say these men are worthy of shame and then talk about how awful it is for them to deal with the shame. And autistic guys - the most vulnerable of all - …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:27 PM
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Thats not the argument. The argument is if you believe men should not be shamed for their sexuality, why would you consider a certain section of men with a specific kink worthy of shame?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:16 PM
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I'm not asking for you to enjoy it. I'm saying that there are men out there who do and TRP shames their sexual expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:14 PM
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Maybe not - but it has HISTORICALLY been a source of shame. So TRP is fine with shaming male sexuality as long as people have been doing it for a while?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:08 PM
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Cuckoldry is not a sexual fetish, it is a form of psychological abuse. Even if the man enjoys and encourages it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:06 PM
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that women who love 50 shades of grey want that shit in real life is equally true. So no woman in the world enjoys BDSM in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:05 PM
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Women want to be objectified for starters. This is an extremely broad statement that is not true. Yes, some women enjoy being objectified, but saying all women want to is ridiculous. This would be akin to me stating that all men want to be cuckolded just because a certain portion of the population wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:04 PM
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Okay, so you believe their are aspects of male sexuality that deserve shame, Just not the aspects that you embody?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:03 PM
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Im not, Im asking why a forum who regular fights against women they believe are shaming men's sexuality uses an insult directly related to a male's sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:02 PM
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Do you know the typical excuse feminists and bluepillers give when called out on shaming male sexuality, virginity and the like? I do not, can you please tell me what it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:01 PM
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they mean a man who is so weak and unattractive that he gives his wife no option to get sexual satisfaction with him So its alright to shame men for failing sexually. Is it also alright for women to belittle a man for the size of his penis? or his inability to make her orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:00 PM
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A man who is cheated on mercilessly - and forced to fund another man's child. Okay, and this should bring a man shame? Being misled and manipulated is an awful thing but it isnt the man's fault it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 12:57 PM
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So men who objectify women are being disrespectful to wome and should be shamed for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:52 AM
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I'm honestly asking for his option. I don't see why shaming men for liking younger girls is different than shaming men for being bad at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:50 AM
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The copious amounts of cuckold porn being made says differently
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 03:47 AM
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It is not a "certain kink". It is cuckoldry, a feminist dream come true. So no man ever has liked cuckoldry?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:31 AM
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I agree, an insult is an insult. I just find it hypocritical to say you are a champion for male sexual while going around using a male expression of sexuality as an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:30 AM
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No, having sex with children and animals is illegal because they are morally wrong because an animal and a child cannot consent to sex. A man and women can consent to a cockolding relationship if they want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:25 AM
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Getting off to being humiliated by being cucked is not normal at all. why? people both men and women get off on humiliation in many different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:16 AM
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I'm not arguing the mindset of a cuckold. I am saying that if you think shaming male sexuality is wrong, you shouldnt use an expression of male sexuality as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:14 AM
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being a cuck is a deviance from the norm equivalent to fucking children/animals. so enjoying watching your wife having sex with someone else is the same as raping children or animals. TRP: a champion for male sexuality /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:12 AM
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I'm thinking about how men hitting on women is seen as some kind of assault and therefore should not be done. So men are shamed for it. I'm not talking about that issue. I'm saying that if you think shaming male sexuality is wrong (even if it falls under general shaming) shouldnt you also be against using cuck as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:57 AM
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The way it's usually used is to denote the shaming of men for having sexual desire. So having a sexual desire to watch your wife please another man is different? I mean mocking someone to their face is pretty much always unkind but there's nothing wrong with women considering these things to be shameful I never said to their face, and why is that okay for them to consider shameful but liking younger women is not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:54 AM
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the general shaming that occurs in society So it doesnt really care about male sexual shaming. Just what they do getting shamed?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:47 AM
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well TRP doesnt agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:46 AM
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So then why is it wrong to shame men who like younger women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:37 AM
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Definitely. Sexual prowess is a point of pride for many men. So you do think that shaming men for their sexuality is okay. How about if a women does it though? Is it alright for a girl to mock men with small penises? Or those who do not last long in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:35 AM
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No one is saying you personally have to like cuckolding. What I'm saying is for a thread that hates people shaming men's sexuality they sure do a lot of shaming themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:31 AM
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I provided multiple threads in my original post. Taking your ball and going home doesnt mean you win the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:30 AM
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Cuckoldry has insinuations of paternity fraud, and downright malicious levels of manipulation. again, "cuck" insults the man who was wronged, not the woman who wronged him. This man isn't man enough to keep a woman entertained So there are men who deserve to be cheated on for their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:27 AM
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ignores red flags and buries his head in the sand because hes in denial and can't face reality. So a man trusting his wife only to be lied to is shameful for the man? The situation where the guy truly couldn't have known is significantly less shameful but it's still not a position that earns you respect. I never said you should get respect for being cheated on. being unable to satisfy his wife. So being not sexual competent is shameful?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:24 AM
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exactly, think there are some aspects of male sexuality worth of shame. To you, cuck is one of them. right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:11 AM
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I'm not arguing that. It is their position that people shame male sexuality and that is wrong to do so. is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:10 AM
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Like I said, you think there are some aspects of male sexuality worth of shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:08 AM
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So you believe there are certain aspects of male sexuality that should be shamed? Is it that TRP and "Feminazies" disagree on what is shameful?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:06 AM
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5 whole threads? wow, thats some research buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:05 AM
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source to what? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:04 AM
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either doesn't know So you believe men should be ashamed of themselves if they're wife is unknowingly cheating on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:04 AM
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okay, so you think shaming men's sexuality is fine. noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:03 AM
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Being cucked doesn't directly imply slut shaming, it implies being shamed for financing their wive's/SO's sexual adventures with Chads. But why should a man be shamed for this? If he knows about it and enjoys his wife sleeping around, why shame him? He is expressing his sexuality. If he doesnt know about his wife sleeping around how has he done wrong? Well, if you agree with common usage terminology for the fetish, it basically means you dropped your credit card on the ground This is an awful an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 01:02 AM
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Under no circumstances should infidelity and paternity fraud be acceptable, let alone normalized. I'm not saying it should be normalized. I think people cheating on their spouce is wrong. I think paternity fraud is wrong as well. However, I dont think the man should be blamed for either of these thing. Cuckold by definition is "the husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision." Why should the man be shamed for his partners faults?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 12:57 AM
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Im not arguing on what they use it for. Im saying the insult itself. If you call someone a cuck as an insult you are saying being a cuck is bad. Thus, you are shaming a man for his sexual preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 12:41 AM
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A Cuck is a guy who gets off on other men fucking their wives. Okay, so is that something to be ashamed of? and if so, why is it okay to shame a man for liking cuckolding but not okay to shame a man for liking younger women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 12:39 AM
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I agree. However, if they are against people shaming men by referring to them as not "real men" why is their favorite insult one that follows the same idea, that some men are inferior due to their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 12:34 AM
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again though, is being cheated on something to be ashamed of? Yes it sucks, but I wouldn't say men should be ashamed when their spouse is unfaithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 12:30 AM
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So are you saying that if your'e wife cheats on you you are no longer a man? Or are you saying that if you enjoy a certain kink you are no longer a man. Both sound like male sexuality shaming to me....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 12:21 AM
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Would you teach him about consent and sexual assault? Well I would have taught him about that well before he turned 18 so I wont go into it. But honestly I would tell him the exact same things I tell the new members of the Fraternity I run when they cross! *Parties are a privilege, not a right. If you dont keep up your grades you havent earned the privilege to party. College is ultimately for learning, you can drink like an asshole anywhere else and it wont cost you 50 grand a year. *Drugs are f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 04:21 AM
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I think a lot of BP people wanted it to be fake because it shatters their world view. They don't like to think that their wife or future girl they married, had better sex with another man. This doesnt shatter my world view at all and I really dont understand why you believe it would... A person's abilities in bed and how good they are in a relationship are two completely different things. Picking someone who is more emotionally stable and reliable to date is a much more adult decision than datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 04:00 AM
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As in, are they attractive enough, to find a woman willing to have casual sex with them? Physically attractive enough, yes. I believe that there are very few people who absolutely no one will find physically attractive. Personality-attractive enough, no. If you're a slut-shaming asshole I dont think a lot of people are going to want to have sex with you unless your physical attractiveness outweighs that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 03:53 AM
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I feel thats a very insecure way of loking at things
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 12:21 AM
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how difficult the same thing is for men. Honestly its not. Google is a thing, if you really want to learn techniques that work you can find videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 09:14 PM
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Get a bigger dick Last longer Learn to read minds That simple to be good in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 02:38 PM
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I honestly don't agree with you at all. It's extremely easy to be good in bed for a dude. Literally just ask what they like and do it. Know how to eat pussy and know where the clit is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 01:28 PM
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No but there's some pretty big overlaps in what the majority of the population likes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 01:27 PM
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And the only way they have sex more is to hookup more. Or be in a relationship with someone who will teach you.Ya know, like how normal people learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 02:17 AM
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So how is this women not taking responsibility for her sex life? She has found most men to be bad in bed, so she doesn't sleep around as much because of it. She's simply stating that if more men were better in bed she would sleep around more. Its like saying if Prime rib was cheaper I'de eat more of it. It doesnt mean that I have no controll over my finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 05:15 PM
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people who moan about the opposite sex for their own dissatisfaction are fucking idiots. So do you believe TRP to be full of fucking idiots? What about MGTOW? Incels? They all blame women in one way or another for wronging them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 05:05 PM
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Basically every girl I'm friends with has echoed the same sentiment while I rarely hear men complain on bad sex. I had a discussion about this last time I hung out with a group of girls I'm pretty close with. None of them have ever enjoyed a one night stand because most of the time the sex is painful and awkward for them. Aside from guys not knowing what they're doing they complained about a ton more things. Hygiene was a big complaint, mainly unkempt fingernails and gross pubic hair. Also, most…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 04:52 PM
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Will Chad tip his fedora at you after eating you out? No will a nice guy? YOU BET! lol, stupid feeeeeemales
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 04:43 PM
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Looking through your post history, other men aren't the problem. You come off in your writing as extremely angry and desperate. Take a few months to work on yourself. Really come to terms with yourself and your life and then try to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 11:45 AM
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Friends make a poor reflective surface for seeing your own flaws, I've found. very good point. I guess it just comes down to which friends you know will be honest and not do that. I'll vent about little things, but bigger issues require someone a bit more able to hold up the mirror to my flaws. Understandable, again, I guess it comes down to who you trust talking to. I don't doubt that there are people who only feel comfortable talking to a therapist. Theres nothing wrong with that. I just dont …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 07:42 PM
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I'd rather talk to my therapist, Although I agree that a therapist would be a healthier option, its not an option that everyone has. Also, youre friends are the ones who know you best, they will be the ones who will give you honest advice. I want them to like and support my partner. Talking about struggles doesnt always mean friends will hate your partner. I've found that showing your partner can grow and make it through problems will make friends like him/her more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 06:14 PM
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I'm pretty sure it is! But, ill use your logic. Men's anatomy is identical to one another, a penis, some testicles, maybe a butthole. If some men like it, then all men must like it!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 02:09 PM
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I dont understand how any of this is not PC? Most of it is good avice for anyone in a relationship, man or woman. The things I dont like Avoid eye contact with other men. This is fucking dumb, you cant go your entire life without ever looking another man in the eye. If you have a job how does that even work. Delay sex until you have achieved emotional intimacy. Have sex when ever you feel comfortable, that should be the only pre-requisite. Let him know you’re not cackling with your hens about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 01:56 PM
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Not as popular?!? There is only 1 FSOG movie, there are hundreds of thousand cuckold porns! If FSOG was more popular there would be more movies of that!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 01:43 PM
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Also wuthering heights is a horrible book
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 11:29 AM
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Tho really is just here to laugh at the dancing monkey that is trp. Any debating Tbp does is to just get you to keep dancing so we can keep making fun of you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 11:20 AM
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If "men are into different shit" then you wouldn't see Porn movies involving cuckolding be so popular with the masses of men! All men want to be cucked by women, see I proved it. When can I show up to bang your girlfriend now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 11:17 AM
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I think a common blue pill belief is that its dishonest to be friends with a girl you know you would fuck. I think it can work. It can work. Most of the girls I am friends with I do find attractive and I know a bunch find me attractive as well. We dont sleep together for a wide range of reason and I still enjoy their company. Its just not always easy because you constantly feel like they're off fucking other guys when it could be you they're fucking. This is fucking weird. At no point has my fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 01:59 PM
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^ This right here is basically what it all boils down to. Sex for guys is like pizza. Even when its bad, its still pretty good. Out of all the women I've been with only one girl thats been so bad that I just stopped and that was because she physically injured me during the act. The same is not true for women. It can be painful, awkward, and unexciting a lot of the time. Every female friend I have says they would rather have no sex than bad sex. I cant say thats true for all women, but I get that…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 06:55 PM
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She did not believe guys could be raped. She though it was an excuse for cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/16 05:05 PM
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Hello there! Male victim of sexual assault here. My experience was definitely worse than heart break. And, it came with the added benefit of causing my long term relationship to end because my girlfriend decided me getting assaulted was cheating. 5 years later I dont give a shit about the girlfriend, but I still think about someone taking advantage of me when I was blacked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 01:03 AM
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Men are aggressive. Men desire women for sex; do not look at women as sex objects. These two things are bad. Do not be aggressive, do not desire women for sex. No one is saying that you can never be aggressive or to not desire sex with women. You can still do an aggressive sales pitch, you can play an aggressive game of hockey, those are all fine. Its physical aggression that the problem. You can still desire women for sex, every straight feminist still has a sex drive. Women do not want to be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 07:21 PM
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I dont know whats going on in the head of a mass shooter. People of all genders "feel entitled to their rage." I feel inflicting pain on others who have, in their eyes, wronged them is a more "masculine" response. Hurting others is often seen as an act of dominance, and dominance is more associated with masculinity. The shooter "failed as a man sexually" by being gay, so his response was to dominate those who cause him to fail. I would view "male entitlement killings" as when a spouse kills his …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 03:21 PM
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I agree, no one goes from social outcast to life of the party overnight. Be normal > Be a fun guy in your friend group > Be a fun guy to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 01:26 PM
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I thought this was great advice. I was a /b/tard back in the day and had a lot of trouble socializing when I was younger. This is basically what I did to better myself through highschool and mostly in college. It sounds like a lot of work but thats jsut because its all in one place at once. Take this shit step by step and youll be having friends in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 01:25 PM
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In this case I wouldn't say it was male entitlement. I would say it's a mix between his views of religion and maybe masculinity From reports it sounds like this man was gay (or bi) and was having a very hard time coming to terms with it. His fathers statement clearly shows that the shooter would have been ostisized from his family if he were to come out. He also was married so he was atleast trying to keep up an appearance that he was straight. My personal theory is that someone threatened to ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 12:45 PM
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Cite them, please. Tons of blue pillers on here have made that claim yet no one has bothered to support it. None of us want to spend hours looking through old rp bullshit lol Agreed -- it's 100% effective. If I stop at no, I'm not having sex with someone who doesn't want sex. It's simple. I agree but that wasnt the point I was saying. To say "just stopping" will still lead to sex 99% of the time is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 03:58 PM
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If they're not following TRP advice, they aren't relevant. "stop at no" isnt an RP tenant, its a thing that some of them do. I've read posts about just "pushing past" LMR as well and those are dangerous. Again, I have no problem with the "stop at no" idea, but thinking it has a 99% effective rate is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 03:43 PM
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because when you tell guys that 99% of the time a girl saying no actually wants to fuck you it can lead down bad roads. Not every twerpy follows the "stop at no" idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 03:08 PM
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I 100% agree with the "just stop" idea of trp. I just think the times they think this happens is usually way less than they expect. I think its way more than 1% of the time that theyre just trying to not have sex all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/16 08:03 PM
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Legs I knida get cause it feels nice and smooth. Armpits I never understood though. Its not like theyre a sexual area at all. Last time I hooked up with a girl who didnt shave her armpits I didnt even notice til after we had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/16 05:26 PM
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Based on the other accounts on that site: Sometime around 5 o'clock in the morning, I woke up very confused and startled because my pants were unzipped and Jake's arm was wrapped around me, his hands in my underwear and he was rubbing my clit and rimming the edges of my vagina. I tried to shove him off me and wake him up. He's physically much bigger than me, so the shoving didn't work as well as it should have, but nonetheless he rolled over, a bit exageratedly, mumbling as if asleep. In the mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 07:10 PM
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drunkenly consent before passing out. Thats still rape....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 06:52 PM
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Yep, a bunch of times. He was extremely muscular but couldnt hold a conversation to save his life. It was like talking to a brick. He also had a very bad lisp that caused a lot of confusion. Very nice dude but he barely closed with girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 06:55 PM
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This is honestly awful. Body shaming of any type is not okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 10:50 PM
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I wouldnt say being promiscuous would help you. Putting yourself in situations where you feel "disgusted" is never good. You may be Asexual and really not have a sex drive. My suggestion would be to seek out a sex therapist. They would probably be better equipped to help with your specific problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 01:23 AM
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and your avoiding the question and changing the scenario because you know you would prefer to have been asked first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 07:43 PM
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Honestly, If I had to choose between her going for it and me stopping that particular advance, and we keep one f*cking, or her stopping the action because she wants to have a conversation about butt boundaries again, not what I asked. Would you have preferred her to ask and after you said no keep fucking? would that not be the best case scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 06:47 PM
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Do you not wish she had asked first though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 05:06 PM
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What if you didnt see her hand? What if she did get a finger in? Do you not wish she had asked first?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 04:53 PM
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You could point out that I have no real worry of actually getting accused, charged, or prosecuted (if I lived in California or any other jurisdictions where this applies) because I'm confident that she won't see it as rape and that's true, but it's still a problem with the law that it applies to things that really shouldn't count as rape. You have no real worry of actually getting accused, charged, or prosecuted, but for other people it may not be the same. All laws are not written with dakru's …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 04:52 PM
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The original graph should have used the median number instead of the lowest number. That was probably the only good point the imgur link had.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 03:54 PM
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Well first of all people are super bad at reading context clues. Second, it makes people more comfortable with new partners and cuts down on miscommunication. Again, you would want a girl to ask before sticking a finger in your butt, right? Does she not deserve the same respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 03:50 PM
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The vast majority of the time that I have sex with my girlfriend Girlfriends and stuff are different for the most part. Chances are you've spent time learning what eachother like in bed, so theres no reason to ask if the want [sex act] every single time you do it. This is more for people who are just hooking up for the first time or trying new things in bed. someone has to ask before kissing, ask before fingering, ask before oral, and then ask before sex, in addition to whatever asking during ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 03:47 PM
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that part I agree with, the rest not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 03:43 PM
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But that takes romance out of it No one said you cant be romantic or passionate about it. I literally just work it into dirty talk. "How much do want me to [sex act]?" "Would it make you wet if I did [sex act]" Also, when you as "it takes the romance out of it" you mean for you, its going to ruin the romance for your partner if you do something they dont like without asking. I would imagine you would think the "romance" was ruined if all the sudden your partner shoved two fingers in your ass wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 03:37 PM
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First report is posted by "Department of Justice's National Crime Victimization Survey and FBI reports" Second is by some random guy on the internet. I trust a national crime statistic more than some random guy who posts on the internet. Could the graph be misrepresenting data? sure. But in order to prove that you need to do a lot more than the guy on imgur did. You need to look at the actual statics the graph is based on to prove that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 03:27 PM
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How does 'affirmative consent' work? Partner 1 : "Hey do you want to do [sex act]" Partner 2 : "Yes" Couple does [sex act] OR Partner 1 : "Hey do you want to do [sex act]" Partner 2 : "No" Couple doesn't do [sex act] Literally all you are doing is making sure your partner is okay with what you are doing before you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 03:19 PM
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I'm not worthy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 12:54 PM
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Are you still not seeing the picture? Yea but im not seeing the same picture you are. She in fact is still being an asshole on the internet So this women is sticking to her guns and standing up to the harassment she faces by continuing to do her work. The guy who wrote the blog faced the same harassment and criticism and decided to cut and run? Yet the ones actually losing their jobs and having their careers ruined are men. again, boo fucking hoo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 12:50 PM
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the problem was protesting and hysteria women can afford to be assholes on the internet, men cannot Really? So women face no harassment on the internet for voicing their opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 12:43 PM
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sooooooo? did the government come and shut this man down? He used a fake name and got doxed. Chances are he pulled it down himself if that happened. Which means he knew he sounded like an asshole on the internet and didnt want anyone finding out. This girl is still being an asshole on the internet but is using her real name. This mean she cant get doxed because its already all out there. Shes being an asshole on the internet but atleast she's owning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 12:39 PM
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I'm sure the "manosphere" would hate her. "Feminazis" hated the dude. Two sides of the same coin
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 10:47 PM
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still give him points for giving me one of the funniest reads in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 06:11 PM
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Personally, I think both blogs are crap. I didnt get a chance to read the guys blog but it sounds like shit. I did read a couple of the articles this woman has written and it was all shit. Both people sound shallow and boring to me. However, to attribute the actions of these two people to their entire gender would be childish. The take away should be that some people are crazy, not "As a member of TRP, the word I use for Cathy is, "reality." This is how the world works. " Some girls are manipula…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 05:57 PM
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I wouldn't consider any of these flat out assault. My office building has small elevators and people cram into them. Accidental touching happens, just dont be weird about it. If she's uncomfortable than he's just crossing the comfort line. I wouldnt consider it assault. This is probably the closest to assault if anything although if it were me, I wouldnt care unless he repeated did it. Either way the guy is a douche unless the girl was giving him signals she likes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 04:06 PM
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What if it's 90% cash and 10% your pretty eyes? What it's 50% your cash 50% your quirky sense of humor? Would it be better if it was only 10% your cash and 90% the way your forearms look in a rolled up flannel shirt when you're chopping wood? This is so dumb. How do you quantify things like this? Yes, women can like you for being successful without being gold diggers. Do you not like women who have accomplished things in their life? Honestly, if you met a woman and thought she was attractive, wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 08:37 PM
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Yes it is though. My "charming wit" isnt the same as your "charming wit." My physical appearance is not the same as yours. Much like there are men who prefer blondes over brunettes and vice versa, women can look for different things. Also, if a women is just interested in "the number of zeros in my bank account" she isn't interested in you. Shes just a gold digger. The number of women who are strictly gold diggers are a lot less than TRP makes it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 07:58 PM
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I want to be desired for who I am not what I can provide. This is basically what everyone should want, men and women. I still get a kick out of being objectified though. So did I at the beginning. Now its just annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 07:18 PM
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They want to be objectified. I do not want to be objectified! I hate it when girls only like me for my appearance!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 06:46 PM
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Its almost as if different people find different qualities attractive in a potential partner!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 02:38 PM
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Its different depending on what you want. for Relationships I usually look to friends of friends or online dating. Finding out about someones personality first is more important to me when I'm looking for a partner. For hookups, I usually go to house / frat parties. Lots of people having a good time looking to get drunk and hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 01:20 PM
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Yes, Asian women can fetishize whiteness. This doesn't not make it okay though. No one should fetishize anyone to the point they are a sex object
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 09:20 PM
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you can still play hard to get and not hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 09:13 PM
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Alright well if you hate women it's gunna be a lot harder to get girls. I don't understand why people will argue against it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 09:05 PM
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My jock Chad friend from high school actually went celibate for a year because he fucked so many girls the year before he felt women were so lame they could offer nothing but sex. Talking about adult women, not high school girls
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 08:51 PM
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sexual objectification is when someone is see solely as a sex object without a personality or humanizing characteristics. This can be done in person or in media. Ill give examples of both. In media: Women are often used as decorations to a product. Scantily clad women will be hanging all over a car or truck. They'll be put into sexual situations for now reason, like in this ad. This can be done with men to, and we see it happen more these days, heres an example. Now the problems come when the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 05:49 PM
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I know that time is not money, but time is still a form of currency that I had to pay to sleep with them. That and having to use charisma and other BS to get the panties to go off. And there you go. Thats your problem. If you honestly dont enjoy spending time with women they are not going to want to sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 01:19 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 01:34 AM
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I didn't call you racist.... Saying you aren't creepy to some people doesn't mean you'll never be creepy to someone else Just because you haven't done something racist to one person doesn't mean you can't do something racist to someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 01:16 AM
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I consider LMR to be on to term there. As in "I'm gunna say no three times so he doesn't think I'm a slut" I don't think constantly asking for a girl to have sex until she stops resisting is a sex positive way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 01:11 AM
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Not as bad as women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 01:07 AM
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This is the equivalent of "I have a black friend I can't be racist"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 01:07 AM
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I'm not an omega? Where did that come from lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 01:06 AM
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You really don't understand what victim complex means
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 01:04 AM
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Shaming the objectification of women and shaming male sexuality are two very different things. Stop with this victim complex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 11:11 PM
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Chances are if people think you are a creep, pervert, ect you are that thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 11:10 PM
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I know plenty of religious girls who would prefer a virgin. The girls are ugly as fuck but they'll appreciate a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 11:09 PM
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We should teach men not to rape Male rape being a joke is awful and we should be working to help people see it's a serious issue If you make someone feel uncomfortable from a compliment you do deserve a talking to Virgin shaming seems to be perpetuated more by trp than anyone else I'm my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 11:08 PM
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That's on behavior, not the amount of people they sleep with
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 11:06 PM
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I actually believe this. I've also never faced LMR. Being sex positive has only helped my relationships and sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 11:06 PM
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Of course! Men have been sexually liberated for a long time. You never see men labeled as sluts and whores. They haven't felt social shame for their sexuality. Women should not recieve it as well. If the stigma behind sex is less than they will be more willing to sleep with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 09:49 PM
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Yea, those are all better ideas than just throwing money at a date to impress her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 09:38 PM
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I'm not saying "Netflix and chill" works for everyone to get laid, bust spending upwards of $200 on the first date definitely looks desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 09:32 PM
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Oh I'm sorry I forgot I was talking to trp and they base their entire self esteem off of what others think of them. The idea of a person accepting themselves is too strange of a concept for them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 09:27 PM
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"Beauty at any size" is about women accepting their own bodies, not their dating habits "Single moms are superheros" is about recognizing how much work it is to provide for and raise a child on your own., not their dating habits Nice straw man though. Might want to put him out in the field, he'll be more useful there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 09:13 PM
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"Beauty at any size" is about women accepting their own bodies, not their dating habits "Single moms are superheros" is about recognizing how much work it is to provide for and raise a child on your own., not their dating habits Nice straw man though. Might want to put him out in the field, he'll be more useful there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 09:13 PM
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If you think Asian girls are attractive thats fine. If you think a girl is attractive JUST because she is Asian you are a creep. Here is a video of what asian girls put up with in reverse. Imagine a girl hitting on you like this because your white. seems ridiculous, right? This is how some guys hit on Asian girls. If you do this, you are a creep. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SCAQP7OJ9ls If you want to learn about how america has a very awkward history with Asian people and sexuality, watch th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 08:47 PM
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Thats fine, let them think that if they must. you cant control how others think of you. Treat girls just how you would talk to guys.
/r/seduction26/05/16 07:52 PM
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Well, first thing is to stop thinking of yourself as "ugly." Everyone has flaws but dont let your flaws define you. A few years ago, I used to be a huge nerd and I just played World of Warcraft all day. Because of that, I've put myself into the fat, ugly video game loser box. Stuff like this is toxic to your confidence. I've played WoW for 11 years. Some of my oldest friends are old guildies. I have 5 days of vacation from work already planned for when Legion comes out. All this and I still get …
/r/seduction26/05/16 07:31 PM
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I dont find any of those things aggressive you just stated them in the most tumblr way possible. Basically every single person I know would agree with these to some extent. White men are evil for fetishizing Asian Women (against yellow fever) White men arent evil, but liking a girl just because she is Asian is rude and creepy as fuck. Any sex without saying yes first is rape. Sex without consent is rape. Why is this "aggressive"? We need world leaders to be 50% women and 50% men. I dont agree wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 06:51 PM
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What? How can I debate your points if I dont understand your view of them? Would you rather I just assume what you believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 06:18 PM
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Now what is the difference between an 18yo and say a 32yo? why would the 18yo be less jaded and more open to satisfying your needs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 06:03 PM
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The relationship will suffer because she doesn't like you Why doesnt she like you? Shes dating you. Why would an 18yo like you more?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 05:42 PM
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ahhh, fear of being inadequate to the men she banged in the past. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 05:38 PM
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attempting to make up for lost time and he cant do this with women his own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 05:21 PM
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It's based on necessity. The have no choice. necessity for what? Whats wrong with women their own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 05:06 PM
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And that is a more noble reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 04:34 PM
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Do 40 year old men not wish they could still sleep with 18 year old girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 03:23 PM
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Wow you expect tabloids to be a reliable source of gender studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 03:22 PM
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any woman who's reasonably young and not overweight can have sex extremely easily. maybe not with the top tier men she craves but still. And any man can find a 5$ hooker and fuck her whenever he wants. Its maybe not the top tier woman he craves but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 03:14 PM
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Not like the narrative for men, "Oh you haven't dated for 6 years? LOWER YOUR STANDARDS." Women are told this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 03:07 PM
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No. Women like attractive and fun people. Just like every guy out there does as well. Women will not flock to you because you ar ea "nice guy with his life in order"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 03:05 PM
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Let me give an example. If a man dates a woman and has sex with her after 5 dates and assuming each date had at least 1 dinner, then already he has spent roughly $500 on dinner alone (assuming the meal cost only $100 for two people). Plus an additional $500 on gifts, movies and other things (Majority of women still expect men to pay on dates). So by the time he gets laid he has easily spent at least $1000 on one woman. So if he has slept with 100 women, that is 100 x 1000 = $ 100,000!!! (OMFG!) …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 02:03 PM
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You do yourself little credit to come back with "[no]" when you get your answer, but don't share anything, yourself. Thats the only way I know how to respond to cockamamie ideas with no base in facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 12:39 PM
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Why do you think I'm a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 11:19 AM
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well that general thought it pretty inaccurate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 11:18 AM
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Yeah I really doubt that. You dont write a 3000 word diatribe about women for the sake of exaggeration.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 08:20 PM
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"Oh by the way I just noticed while you were talking, you actually have sexy legs" Honestly this line sounds really bad. To her, you werent listening to what she said and were checking out her legs. Theres no need to constantly tell a girl you think she is attractive on a date. Let the tension on the date build on its own naturally. Pushing for hugs and physical attention mid-date looks needy. My first date rule: Besides playful touching (hand on the arm on back briefly) you should wait until th…
/r/seduction25/05/16 08:12 PM
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So its only the leaders and prominent "endorsed" members who push that type of bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 08:06 PM
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I'm just posting this here to ask if there was anything I could have done differently. More than one word answers next time, but I'm sure you already knew that. When talking to women I also go through two different routes. First, ask her questions. Its a great way to keep the conversation going with out having to do a lot of talking. You could have asked her what she was trying to grow, or asked if it was because her dog was digging up her garden, ect. Second is a common improv idea called Yes, …
/r/seduction25/05/16 08:03 PM
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Why would a feminist do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 07:47 PM
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You really think this is all exaggeration?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 07:46 PM
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people who fancy themselves intelligent Thats the thing, they only think they are intelegent. They honestly believe they are just coming up with all these "women are shit" ideas on their own. As if they havent been perpetuated throughout history. being dependent on something you can literally only get from someone else for your happiness is a recipe for a frustrated, angry life But to them "Chad gets the sex all he wants. I should be able to as well!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 06:56 PM
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Maybe back in the day it could happen. Maybe if you only stay on it for a few weeks it could happen. But long term exposure under their current state will make you insane. I agree that some guys need to be "shown the light." They need to be told women are people just like you and me who like attracvtive people who are fun to be around. They arent perfect, they wont make your life better simply by being in it, and they wont love you for being a good citizen. However, TRP spews much more than just…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 06:54 PM
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I think deriving a large part of your self-worth from the sex you are or aren't having is bad for you, and I think TRP perpetuates this. Yea this is a problem I've tried arguing with them and they never seem to understand it. From the guys I've talked to about this, it has a lot to do with family and social pressure. One guy told me he felt like a failure because he was around 30 and had only slept with 10 women while his uncle had slept with 100 by that age. I think its really sad because when …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 02:38 PM
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People who make fun of Nice Guys, not nice guys. Theres a differences. a nice guy is just a respectful person. He may be successful with women, he may not be. A Nice Guy is a respectful person until you tell him know. He handles rejection horribly, often taking it as a personal attack. In return, he will attack the girl he was just hitting on for rejecting him. Or, he attacks girls for not wanting to date him all together. He thinks "women only date jerks" which means every other guy besides him…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 01:26 PM
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So since some women lie all women must lie to. I've told girls I'm an ass man. None of them have shamed me or been insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 12:02 PM
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Probably a lot? Like seriously. How man guys do you know who label themselves a tit man or an ass man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 10:44 AM
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Havent read those but if they have anything to do with being "the captain of your family ship" ill assume their crap too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 08:22 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 08:21 PM
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So every woman want to be led, they just wont admit it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 08:21 PM
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Nothing. As long as that feed back doesnt promote violence, deception, or anything that harms anyone. Unfortunately TRP does all of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 08:06 PM
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Yes, I want to see what they had to say and understand their concepts so that I can better mock them. All of the "side bar" information will make you an insecure baby who treats sex as a toy. Anyone who read that crap and thinks its groundbreaking needs to go to a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 07:40 PM
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will admit to things that some can't even admit to themselves. such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 03:58 PM
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and you believe you are representative of all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 03:51 PM
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Thats not healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 03:21 PM
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I have been in relationships like this and they were pretty awsome. Although your first point isn't really realistic. Finding someone who just wants to meet up and bang is a little harder for a guy. I agree with the less intimacy, but meeting up for a drink / dinner first is fine. The fact that there were no petty lies in the relationship was amazing. I've always hated having to lie to my partner about that stuff. Also not worrying about cheating is so refreshing. She did her thing when I wasn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 11:45 AM
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Yea it's definitely about what people are comfortable able. I understand it can be hard to know your SO is talking about your relationship with others. I remember being younger and feeling like everyone would judge me or talk behind my back if they knew my relationship wasn't perfect. As I got older I realized that it's better to try and make your relationship as healthy as possible than to pretend it's healthy. Pretending is easy, actually admitting to and working on your problems is the hard p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 11:29 AM
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No, I'm isolating the variable in my example. Im not disagreeing with what you are saying, but that's not my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 11:23 AM
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Well of course more attractive guys with the same traits get laid more. Not arguing that What I am saying is that an average looking guy can still be successful given he has a good personality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 01:44 AM
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Why are fat girls and hookers moldy bread? I thought sex for men was about satisfying an urge and only women wanted the delicacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 10:23 PM
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I didn't put anyone against anyone else. I stated that there are people with bad personalities who still get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 10:21 PM
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Than why don't the men of TRP bang fat chicks and hookers? They're the easiest "food" around
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 10:16 PM
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I didn't say he was a good guy, I said he had a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 10:14 PM
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Yeah but you cant tell someone why their awful to be around until you actually spend some time around them in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 09:04 PM
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The drive is ultimately rooted in biology though. Yea T makes you hornier. Thats a "bio truff" I wont disagree with. The status comes afterwards. So it is a status thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 09:00 PM
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Shaming swole men I think we could do something like this. ya know, really shame um https://www.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/4f3uma/how_to_screw_with_a_bodybuilder/ /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 08:59 PM
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well, the main part I disagree with is personality doesn't mean much when it comes to getting women to have sex. I've been heavily involved in fraternities for the past 5-6 years. I spend a lot of time with guys who are looking to get laid on the weekends. The ones I know who pull the most girls are the ones with good personalities. Now, before I go on, I dont deny that "ere are some utter disgusting in terms of personality shitlords out of there but they sleep with plenty of girls." I know plen…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 08:57 PM
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not assertive enough I would say confident, not assertive "bad" because it's bad Bad can be 1000 different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 08:45 PM
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it's not a status thing Trp spends 90% of their time arguing about SMV though. The "higher your value" the more women you sleep with. How can you not consider that a status thing. you must be one of those who believe everything is a social construct. Not EVERYTHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 08:44 PM
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I'm pretty sure the second example is a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 08:18 PM
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Is this how you'd have a conversation with a friend? Yea a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 08:17 PM
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Nope, im from the good ol US of A
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 07:31 PM
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your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 07:30 PM
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I don't treat women worse than I did before. From you're other comment Women don't want men to realize women are the cum dumpsters of alpha men So you were also a misogynist it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 06:13 PM
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Yea but no, you're wrong. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 05:56 PM
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they could get a girl much easier. I mean if their personality isnt shit theyll do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 05:51 PM
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Why do men put in so much effort and desperation to get laid when it gives the woman much more pleasure? Exact reasons you stated. They look at it as "status." The more women you sleep with the higher status you are. Women dont think the same way. Men go for quantity. Women go for quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 05:37 PM
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If I tell her my type is everything she's not she's gonna cry. You really think all women are this fragile? http://data.whicdn.com/images/139878708/large.jpg Hey man, if the shoe fits. All I know is BP'ers dont write epics about going on a normal date and getting laid / not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 05:18 PM
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I'm not going to answer 5'8", skinny, long hair Why? Whats wrong with having a preference for a certain type? I have no problem telling women what I find attractive and unattractive. I've never been shamed for that. the blue pill sub is based on the premise of virtue signaling. No its based on the fact that TRP is full of insane, insecure, man-babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 04:30 PM
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From your article, referring to muscles While they certainly look quite nice, they don't sit at the top of the list of important characteristics for your long-term partner to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 04:07 PM
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But whats the point of this shit test? I dont understand why someone would straight up lie to you about what they find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 04:05 PM
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How is it a shit test exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:59 PM
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Now, what percentage of the population would admit to being a misogynist? I know about 153,877 of them who definitely are. Probably wont admit it though so you have a point. but because that's the "right" answe Again, you are are anonymous, why lie. What could you gain by spreading false information.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:59 PM
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A website / magazine devoted to men's fitness suggests women like fit men, no way, there could be no ulterior motive at all. You realize that putting a menheath article as scientific proof would be the same as me putting a Jezebel article right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:48 PM
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natural seething hatred Thats actually pity, not hatred =/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:43 PM
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Wow, you've surely convinced me that women don't like a muscled and toned body. I'm impressed. Not trying to convince you otherwise. I'm sure theyre are a lot of them who do. Women just dont place as much importance on them as men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:41 PM
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Wow women are attracted to good looking people? you've broken the code.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:38 PM
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swole shaming Now this is a real cause I can get behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:28 PM
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this is men filtering themselves out of mate selection Why would women lie? If they like big strong alphas why dont they tell guys to become that? Its literally anonymous on the internet, why still keep up the facade?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:27 PM
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Not every girl is into muscle bound gym nuts. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:25 PM
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Most I know do think that way. Wome are much more open about relationship problems with people. Guys are the ones I usually find freaking out when they're so talks to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 09:40 PM
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Yep, read all of it. Saw nothing of any value there at all. I also haven't had the troubles most guys had over there. So I don't think I'm the target market they're shooting for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 09:38 PM
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If my spouse thinks that talking with close friends about our relationship is an insult to their dignity I clearly married the wrong person. If you have a happy and healthy relationship talking about shouldn't be a problem. If you are ashamed of something going on in your relationship than you have a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 06:04 PM
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I think the concept is counter productive. First of all I don't think seeking relationship advice is "fulfilling emotional needs" Second, if my partner needed to find someone else to fulfill some emotional need that I could than why would I deny them. If you really love your partner you should help them become as happy as they can. I don't want to deny my partner and support she needs even if it means having other people help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 06:01 PM
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I have absolutely zero idea what any of that means? You don't like feminism I suppose?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 03:57 PM
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Hmmm alright, so maybe you aren't the best person to be debating how the social framework of society works
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 03:47 PM
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I have said that in multiple relationship. Maybe not in those exact words but the sentiment was there. This has been about topics from sex to differences in where we go out. Maybe because I have actually platonic friend ships with girls I seriously have 0 interest in sleeping with? One friend I usually talk about relationship stuff with Ive known since 8th grade. I honestly trust her opinion, as she does mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 03:45 PM
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So you realize you have a problem thinking like rain man right? That line of thinking isn't healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 03:39 PM
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I view it mainly as a joke. There are w few guys that go there I would feel sorry for. However, if I present you with information as to why trp is hateful and bullshit and you still think it's a good idea, well then you're a fucking loser lol To me, trp is just a babies sitting around crying because someone else has a nicer toy. They want to have the best sex with the hottest women, "Chad gets to why don't I!!" Overall, trp is a bunch of narsisists enabling each other and bragging about having c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 03:35 PM
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Well yea, having 0 experience in something means that you probably aren't too well versed on the subject. Still, men are not biologically driven to like virgins or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 03:29 PM
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Yea of course I would tell my SO I talked about it with a close friend. I don't think asking for relationship or sexual advice is bad at all. Even if my SO didn't tell me she talked with a "man friend" about things I wouldn't be upset. I don't feel the need to keep tabs on every one of my girlfriends conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 03:23 PM
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Thats fine. A lot of old teaching do line up with what you say. That doesnt give "biological" proof though. Those are just your religious or moral beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 05:50 AM
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Uncertain why you pretended to misunderstand A little hyperbole for the sake of humor? no? alright. Describing specific details about sex life are not a good idea with opposite sex folks. Not with any folks IMO but this is about crossing the line with someone you could be attracted to. Why? Whats wrong with confiding in friends about your partner? Most times I've talked things over with friends it strengthens my relationship with my partner. I also feel getting a point of view from the opposite …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 02:07 AM
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Explict acts As in sexual acts? What is the smalled "explicit" act you would consider cheating? "I would love _________," Whats ________? A cheesburger? A house in france? talking about what your spouse does or does not do in bed. So any discussion of your sexlife is forbidden? any talk at all, praise included?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 01:43 AM
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intimate topics What counts as intimate? divulging sensitive information about the relationship on any regular basis Whats sensitive? Examples would be appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 12:19 AM
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emotional cheating and speaking to other guys. I dont understand this concept. What would you consider emotional cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 09:30 PM
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Although I dont agree with "this is why men are doomed" because seriously thats an over generalization. I do think the idea of "hatefucking" someone is very unhealthy. I know both men and women who have expressed the idea of "hatefucking" someone, although men more than women. That just be because I'm closer with more men though. Its not synonymous with interest in kinky sex, as many women who are into kinky sex require trust with their partners This is what the basis of kinky sex should be base…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 08:15 PM
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The bible and a song are your proof that's its biological? Please take a biologist class
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 04:30 PM
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Yea I only read the two argument posts. Sounds bitter everywhere else. I retract my statements lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 04:29 PM
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Well obviously. No one wants to be the ugly friend of the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 10:11 PM
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biologically driven. no not really
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 10:08 PM
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I've had girlfriends express the same sentiment. I'll agree it is an ego boost when the person your with is hit on. Its nice know some people might be a little jealous of your date. TRP does believe girls ever make the first move though so "they gotta make it happen" which is disrespectful as fuck in a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 08:37 PM
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Wow she aint the one that sounds bitter here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 08:34 PM
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Hey atleast youre honest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 08:13 PM
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I've seen people make similar comments as a shaming tactic. Which of course implies being gay/bi is shameful. This may not have been your intent but I still find it a little insulting that a stranger on the internet who talked to me once thinks they know my sexuality better than I do. I never implied i knew more, thats why I was asking. I just have a hard time understand guys problem with "other guys dicks on her lips." When I was insecure when I was younger I worried not about the physical rami…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 08:12 PM
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Omg that edit. As opposed to you being expressly out to get sex ... which you in fact are. Women have this weird bias against guys who are too obvious about wanting to fuck her, even though its what we all want. you gotta razzle dazzle and distract her and then slip your dick in so she can hamst "it just happened!" This is probably the most asshole and manipulative way to say "You have to be fun and enjoyable to be around for women to want to sleep with you." JFC
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 07:58 PM
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But if it's academic stuff or boring things then no. Yea I would definitely consider academic stuff not a "social circle." Computer Science student association is like the college equivalent of a job setting in my mind. It would be ill advised to sleep with your close coworker so chances are he really should be sleeping he met through tutoring or something. I think things like sports and special interest clubs are more social just because people do it for their own enjoyment, not out of necessit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 07:52 PM
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Exactly, not only that, your friends can give you a heads up about her. I'm mean I've had girls and guys im friends will tell me straight up "yo shes hot but shes crazy, not worth it." I've also had girl or guys set me up with people who knew I would click with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 07:44 PM
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All other things equal. They both have average social skills. Lets say for the argument that only guys and girls their are couples so there is no other competition. The girl has heard a good amount about each guy before meeting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 07:28 PM
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Why only girls though? Would the fact that a lot of men value your friendship and respect you be preselection on female friends and acquaintances of those guys. Atleast if the women like the men they are friends with?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 07:20 PM
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Not denying that attraction also plays a role or even that a "loner" vibe can be attractive. Im more thinking something like this. You have 1 guy whos a 7 in looks but everyone cant stand. He goes to a party and is the friend no one likes, everyone bad mouths him behind his back. Then you have a 5.5 in looks guy. Hes the life of the party and everyone is excited when he shows up. Ask anyone about him and they have something good to say. They both try and talking to a girl at said party, who has …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 07:13 PM
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Would you say that having a larger group of friends is a good indication of SMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 07:04 PM
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You know what you were implying, don't play dumb with me. What do you think I was implying? Because I was going to say if you struggle with think about men's penises a lot of the time you might be gay or eve bi. I dont think being gay is a bad thing at all! I know plenty of guys who struggled with their sexuality before coming out, its nothing to be ashamed of. If you think me suggesting you might need to look at your sexuality is an insult, well that say more about you than it does about me. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 06:58 PM
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how is asking that homophobic? I never implied being gay was wrong! I simply asked if you think about other guys dicks a lot! Like, if you are having sex with a high n-count woman, does the idea of other mens dicks come into your mind then? or is it after?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 06:31 PM
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So do you have trouble not thinking about other guys cocks a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 06:28 PM
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no not really
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 06:24 PM
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So dont obsess over your partners sexual history? I say threatened because most guys who think its disgusting will argue that because she has been with so many guys there "is a greater chance you wont be the best sex she has ever had." This, not me, equates to being threatened by other mens sexual abilities or even the women's sexual pleasure. If you are afraid to play basket ball with the pros you feel threatened by their skill or the fact that you might not be able to keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 06:20 PM
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Why would a man want to pay full price for a woman who gave away her best years/assets to many other men? Lol, women arent cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 06:13 PM
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You consider men who marry women with higher N-counts garbage men? Are they men garbage? or are they the "garbage men" picking up the garbage (the woman)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 03:07 PM
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N-count alone will not determine how well a relationship will last. Things like common values, experiences, and hobbies are way more important than the amount of people the other has slept with. But if all of those things come together and you want to focus on the way an N-count distribution like this could work I see it in a few different ways. Best case: both are secure with their sexual histories and have no problems. The man is threatened by the woman's past and this causes problems. He coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 03:05 PM
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But both you and she are BOTH aware that you are bigger and stronger than her. In your presence, this is a factor at an instinctual level. And it is removed when you game via social media. Oh so it should only be implied. gotcha
/r/askTRP19/05/16 09:08 PM
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Where your size, upper body strength, and aggression aren't even theoretically present? What does this have to do with anything? Are you saying you should threaten her physically?
/r/askTRP19/05/16 08:56 PM
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Only reasons I say that is because its from http://nationalmarriageproject.org If it were just from a university I would agree. But an organization made to promote marriage not providing their raw data just rubs me thew wrong way. But hey, if they provide the data and it all checks out, ill be the first one to say I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 08:35 PM
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both have implored me to wait for marriage and kids. Same. They understand that times have changed and that waiting to find the right person is more important than just "getting married" because its whats expected of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 08:33 PM
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another red-flag to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 08:29 PM
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wat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 08:24 PM
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Almost all feminist arguments Im not asking about feminist arguments. I mentioned nothing about feminism in any of my posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 08:24 PM
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Grandfather is younger than my grandma by a few months I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 08:23 PM
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most evo psych info Most? like more than 50% of all the evo psych info? 50% of every single book and paper out there on the subject? Did you read half of each and every book or 100% of just half the books?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 08:22 PM
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So is anything you disagree with "feminist strawman circular arguments" or just this? trying to gauge how much denial im dealing with here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 08:20 PM
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Ill admit I didnt look too into this paper too much, but there were a lot of red-flags to begin with. The whole paper is set up in a very unorthodox way so its hard to follow. I certainly think that prior partners could have some effect on your marriage, having more experience in anything will lead to different outcomes. You're right, its not a terrible study, but its not a complete one either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 08:14 PM
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The only refutation you have given is "what about the mens", I'm not going to reargue my point just because they went over your head. I said a lot more than "what about the mens." And on that, asking to "account for all the possible variables" in a study is an argument that would be accepted by any scientific journal as a valid rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 07:38 PM
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I've read this a while ago and I realized that I grew up with a father who was exactly like this as well. I experienced a lot of similar situations that you described. The biggest turning point had to be my first summer home from college. My parents were divorced at this point and I was suppose to stay at my Dad's place for half the summer and my Mom's for the other half. I started the summer at my dad's. I was working a summer job and got a phone call during one of my shifts from him in a blind…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 07:36 PM
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peer reviewed by PHDs are "biased" Yes, research can be biased. Just because you have a PhD doesnt mean you cant have bias. despite you offering no real refutation of any of their methods/sources I offered multiple, you chose to ignore them some random internet anecdotal feminist rhetoric is sufficient to discount them What random internet anecdotal feminist rhetoric? I have literally looked at the sources you provided this entire argument!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 07:26 PM
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My argument includes multiple peer reviewed journal articles considering the effects of N count on female divorce patterns. Alright, now Ill go through all your articles because clearly you arent getting it. http://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.589.4575&rep=rep1&type=pdf This article mentions nothing of previous partners as an example. If it does, please show me, because I dont see it listed in any chart. http://nationalmarriageproject.org/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2014/08…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 07:16 PM
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Okay, you didnt link them. The ones you linked are inaccurate and have no sources. If you want to provide a compelling argument provide your sources. You cant just say "they are out there"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 06:43 PM
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you offer a post that negates nothing I have written and attempt to strawman around it lol bravo on that. feminism TRP 101 tactics. Yeah a study on female divorce rates counting N partner counts only including women. Wow that sounds like a good study actually! Not including men's past sexual history leaves out an important variable. If you are looking at how past partners affect relationships you need to look at both sides of the partnership, not just women. Again, you didnt even link a study, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 06:42 PM
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you offer a post that negates nothing I have written and attempt to strawman around it lol bravo on that. feminism TRP 101 tactics. So onto your next article I guess. http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html Wow a blog, what a scientific source. Oh but it has a study linked! Oh again, that study seems to be taken down already, so we have no way to analyze his interpretation of the research. So, what does he say about the research we cant look at? The study was…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 06:30 PM
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Alright, Ill stoop down. I dont feel like reading all your articles so ill focus on this one. http://nationalmarriageproject.org/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/NMP-BeforeIDoReport-Final.pdf And mainly the section about dating before marriage. Okay so these study show little empirical data at all when it comes to women's previous partner. The little data that is does show is not consistent. Page 6 says Data collected in the 1990s on women who married a generation ago (men weren’t included) …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 05:47 PM
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you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 05:18 PM
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From the studies, the lowest N count women are actually the HOT women. So they should be actually ONLY targeting those types of women in their 20s or avoiding marriage entirely. This is some serious hamstering to say why you only like "hot women" Stop worrying about N-count and worry about forming genuine connections to the people you sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 05:15 PM
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I would say much much better for everyone. My grandparents are about to hit their 50th wedding aniversary and both admit to how much better I have it. They got married at age 24, my grandmother was considered a "spinster" by that age. Men and women were both expected to marry early. Men were expected to "take care of and protect" their woman so a man had to provide literally everything for the woman he chose. Dating around was not nearly as common as it was today so you had no idea what else was…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 02:58 PM
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Your shouting "insecure" over and over doesn't make it true I know, this shit TRP shouts makes it true lol Believe only 20% of men get sex makes you insecure. Plain and simple
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 06:24 PM
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Facts are facts Facts are supported with figures. Insecure ramblings dont count as facts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 06:15 PM
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ah, so trp is insecure about every aspect about their life, not just the sexual ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 06:09 PM
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If you aren't ripped and jacked, have little going on in your life and generally are not kicking ass at work and in life, you're a loser, and you get pretty much nothing. Yea, obviously. But do you really believe that only 20% of guys are in moderate shape, have a job, and are fun to be around?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 05:55 PM
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When is trp going to give up that top 20 crap? you know its not true. like not even remotely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 05:44 PM
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2-3 is not that high though....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 05:41 PM
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I think really good looking assholes still attract plenty of women with terrible priorities Oh, I didnt mean a jacked asshole wouldnt get girls. I meant what you meant, he'll find women with shitty priorities. Shallow and mean people attract shallow and mean people. I was thinking in quality of girl, not quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 05:33 PM
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Yeah I know plenty of guys who are the same way! Being a fun and genuine person will get you a lot farther than being a jacked asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 05:29 PM
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claiming a fat obese guy is "average" and a short, 5 foot 5 inch guy is "average". I wouldnt say obese is average. However, I would consider guys who are 5'5 or a bit on the stockier side to be average. The can have other traits to make up for their downfalls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 05:21 PM
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Ah so below average guys have below average sex lives? Groundbreaking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 05:09 PM
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two or three different sex partners per year for a 30 year old man IS uncommon That seems about average for guys I know. Not uncommon at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 04:42 PM
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Because when a woman marries a man she's really really hot for, a man with options, she knows she can't do any better than her, but he could. That's a very, very attractive thing to a woman. This is confusing and doesnt answer my question. Why cant a woman lose attraction to her husband? Why is this impossible? "unhaaaaappy" denotes fake, manufactured discontent. Women who are leaving their marriages for "unhaaaaappiness" are leaving because of lack of attraction So she left for being not satisf…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 03:34 PM
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Most women who start out being really really hot for their husbands don't lose that 20 years later. They still feel the same way they always did. Why? Why are women different from men in this aspect. Why is it possible for a man to loss attraction to his wife because of a dramatic change, but not for a women to do the same with her husband? "I'm not haaaaaappy" divorces But men do this too. They arent "haaaaaappy" with their sex life. They arent "haaaaaappy" with the way their wife is treating t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 03:01 PM
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The fact that you got a woman to fuck you does NOT mean she's sexually attracted to you. It could mean she wants provisioning, marriage or some other thing. What a sad world view. TRP and MRP are full of men who got baited and switched, defrauded into marriages by women who sucked their dicks a few times and misled those men into believing they were sexually attracted to those men. Ever think that these women were sexually attracted to the man but then lost that attraction. If a man can love and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 02:49 PM
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The fact that almost everyone on earth has has sex? http://i.imgur.com/xpWjWEQ.png
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 02:38 PM
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Well yeah lol. I would also say that A skinny intellectually funny guy has the same chances at getting girls than a brain dead jacked guy. atleast when talking to a non-braindead girl. Lacking in one area can be made up for in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 02:37 PM
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All she has to do is walk into a bar, any time of day or night, and say "who in here is DTF right now? How many times have you seen this happen. This exact scenario. Most women are attractive to most men. You name the woman, SOME man out there SOMEWHERE will find her attractive. True, everyone has someone who thinks they are hot, its just a matter if you find them attractive as well. Most men are not attractive to most women. There's a large swath of men out there who are not attractive to ANY w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 02:34 PM
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And of course a brain dead jacked ass-hole can close with a girl. Not saying he cant close with a girl. I'm saying that just because someone is jacked doesnt mean they automatically will be able to get with any girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 02:32 PM
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the most difficult to get past I wouldnt say this at all. Working out, dressing better, ect are all easy things to do. I would tell the same thing to a girl who was having a hard time getting dates. Women are built to be physically attractive. why do you thing this and why men arent?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 02:11 PM
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I suggest you stop "feeling" and start thinking. Wow so deep Physical attractiveness is the most important hurdle. I would say its the most common hurdle. Everyone deals with finding people who they are attracted to and people who are attracted to them. But once you find your type, and a type tht likes you, things get harder. A girl can be attracted to me but if I cant carry a conversation or keep her interested than Im not going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 02:03 PM
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I would say the vast majority of Alpha Males are beefcakes Question: are the majority of "beefcakes" alpha males? In my experience the two arent related. I know just as many jacked guys who cant get girls as I do skinny guys. I feel like trp misses out on the idea that physical attractiveness is just one hurdle in the dating scene. Yes, jacked guys can turn heads, but if your a brain dead moron otherwise you wont be able to close with a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 01:40 PM
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This seems like click-bait advice more than anything else. Some of it I would say is somewhat useful, but with only a sentence to go on its more up to interpretation than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 12:39 PM
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It's about what sex she has with you. Yea, if you are horrible in bed she will have less exciting sex with you. Why is she the only one who has to do new things? why cant you improve your sexual abilities This is all linked to sexual insecurity. If I only demanded to play basketball against people who have never heard of the game you would call me an insecure player. why is sex different
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 06:54 PM
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being settled for Thats an insecurity You are insecure about your sexual abilities so you believe she will leave you for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 06:41 PM
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Avoiding potential undesirable situation Why would that be an undesirable situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 04:23 AM
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less likely to get her sexual best. Yes, this is called insecurity. You are not confident you will be her best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 09:18 PM
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Some men are total bottoms. Some are total tops. Some like to switch. Have you honestly never talked to a guy man before?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 08:55 PM
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The whole point is it doesn't make him insecure or less alpha Yes it does. If you are afraid that your sexual abilities are not up to par with her ex's you are insecure. Alphas are not insecure dealing with an alpha widow If you are an alpha why would you care if she's an alpha widow? Wouldnt she recognize you're an alpha and do anything to stay with you. Wouldnt want to be twice widowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 08:54 PM
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I see the signs now WARNING: FLAMMABLE MATERIALS WARNING: TOXIC CHEMICALS WARNING: SHE TRIED ANAL WITH SOMEONE ELSE yeah those all seem like they are on par with eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 08:27 PM
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What if he puts a foot in her ass then? Only chad gets foot anal (fonal) It's about stimulating a dick for men No men like having things in their butt? I really misunderstood gay men then....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 08:26 PM
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alright, keep using a deranged murder as your point on why women need ot sleep with you. Im sure itlll work out for the best
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 07:41 PM
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Wow, one whole award? Heres a list of trans people killed this year. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_unlawfully_killed_transgender_people#2016 not all trans people are praised for being trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 07:14 PM
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Suicide and murder are two different things though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 07:00 PM
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okay but that doesnt make sense then. You example of stopping a car on the highway means you are putting someone in direct harm. Those are your acctions that put the person in harms way. In the example of not sleeping with someone, you are not putting people in harm's way. If the person you dont sleep with, or change your mind about, decides to get a gun and kill people, that person is putting people in harm's way, not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 06:55 PM
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Feminist care plenty about men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 06:10 PM
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you are an ally. So I'm an ally. whats in a name anyway? Finally, in that link you sent me is a highly voted comment that says the following: Read the articles....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 06:05 PM
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I honestly cant tell if this is serious.... He chose to kill people because he was a deranged little boy. Are you trying to say the women he killed were at fault for not sleeping with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 05:31 PM
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As opposed to... Yes, there are extreme views on the other side. These views are just as bad as radical pro-men's ones. Two wrongs dont make a right. I will criticize radical feminists just as I would radical men's groups. woman complained about all the men in her life I doubt you'd call her a misandrist I wouldnt. I also wouldnt call a man who complains about his bad luck with women a misogynist. I would say a women who thinks all men are pigs who deserve to die one though. Just as much as I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 05:28 PM
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Yea, thats what all those bathroom bills are about right now. Praising them.....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 05:12 PM
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Thats all fine. But you need to understand that not everyone views sex the same. It doesnt make everyone feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 05:11 PM
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By this logic, you shouldn't be allowed to attack RPers for their views because that makes you an asshole. If people's histories don't matter. I argue with TRP because they attack men for not having sex and women for having it. Additionally, by your other logic, abortions should be illegal, because if a woman lets a man put his penis in her, she should take responsibility. Their body, their choice. Women do get an advantage here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 05:10 PM
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If you decide to turn off your car in the middle of the road and simply walk away from it, you will be punished by the law for obstructing traffic. Thats because you are putting other's lives in danger. Blue balls does not count as putting someones life in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 05:03 PM
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I understand that it is inconstant. But that is just the nature of birth. Either it should be banned in all circumstances This doesnt fix the problem of "hold a man to ransom if he has made her pregnant male and female abortions should be allowed I wish this were the case, but you cannot control another persons body. It sucks, but you have to handle the risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 04:02 PM
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Some of us are not so lucky currently. I'll assume you havent had a lot of access to sex from this statement? Sex is not a one stop fix-everything type of therapy. This is especially true when you have easy access to it. Yes, sometimes sex helps with stress. Other times it does not. I find it hard to stay in a sexy mindset when I know I have a lot of work waiting for me. I know others like me as well. I know others who think like you. Both are valid opinions on the subject. Tell me my reasons ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 03:57 PM
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I'm in a relationship, but in theory if I were single and some ONS/Plate said no sex unless you get your tubes snipped, I'd walk and never have contact with her again. Exactly, because its your body! she has no right to tell you what to do with it. Same could be said about her and an abortion. I recognise the right of companies to set their own dress code and if men are unable to accept what women are wearing, provided that's within the dress code they agreed to when signing their contract, then…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 03:52 PM
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Creating safe spaces can never result in equality because it supports weak people. If people just didn't listen to people who attack them, that would build real strength. I like how you left of my last sentence of "If you attack a male virgin for never having sex you are also an asshole." But anyway... no. I'm not advocating "safe spaces." atleast not with this post lol. All I'm saying is shaming people for their sexual history is stupid and serves no purpose. Other peoples sexual experiences th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 03:49 PM
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You are probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 03:39 PM
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''her body, her choice'' trope when ''his wallet, his choice'' is not equally allowed. Yes, this does suck. But how would you like it if a girl you were sleeping with forced you to get a vasectomy to sleep with her? not exactly the same, but im sure you would be upset with the idea. Again, if you want to be having casual sex this is the risk you are going to have to take. I question the level to which these biases exist. A man with an awful T-shirt became the victim of crazy rabid feminists beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 03:38 PM
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Sex and work are two completely different things. need to decide who they want to have sex with, and not back out of it in the middle. People are allowed to back out whenever they want, for whatever reason. What you are suggesting would be a contract for sexual slavery. Being obligated to have sex with someone whever they want is called being a sex slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 03:34 PM
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It's sad to see people waste their lives. This is even more concerning. Those nights were I'm not in the mood to have sex doesnt mean I am wasting my life. I do what makes me the happiest and sometimes thats going to bed early and not having sex. My life has more to offer than an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 03:26 PM
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I dislike fat shaming and other nastiness towards women, but men have a right to act that way, of course I might not wish to be around a man who shows such more culture, but I don't from that feel I should silence him. I'm not trying to advocate for some sort of "thought police." Anyone can think anything they want. However, that doesnt mean saying certain things makes you rude as fuck. I have no problem calling out rude motherfuckers. Women mocking fat men and Men mocking Fat women are both rud…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 03:23 PM
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I always use a condom after I had an girl I was hooking up with lie to me about being on the pill. I don't think the majority of the women in the world would do that, but I now always use a condom for my own peace of mind. My personal favorite is to use the pill, condoms, and pulling out! Lowest chance of anyone getting pregnant. Do I enjoy sex without a condom more? of course! but not as much as I enjoy sex without a crying baby in the next room.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 03:03 PM
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The sex is supposed to take your mind off the negative things. again, it doesnt for me. If i have a million things going on at work that I am worried about I dont want to be fucking anyone. I want to think about my work day and prepare. Like I said, wait 30 minutes. You clearly havent had all you can eat Korean BBQ. Its kind of concerning that you think all my reasons for not having sex are invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 02:57 PM
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I'm not really sure what you are asking in this question, but as a "blue pill feminist" ill share my views on each subject. Body shaming and objectification No one is saying you have to want to bang all women. Not liking, for example, heavier women is fine and those who disagree are dumb. The problems with body shaming is when a heavier women says "Gee gooly I feel sexy today" and people jump at the opportunity to say "FUCK YOU FAT WOMEN ARE DISGUSTING!" People who shame others for not thinking …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 02:53 PM
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Most of those are reasons that you should be having sex But I dont want to. Sex helps with all of those things. Not it you're too distracted by them to enjoy yourself. Does just having ate dinner really count? Yes, because I dont want to have sex after it. Idk about you but I dont really wanna fuck after spending two hours at all you can eat Korean BBQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 02:34 PM
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Horrible Horrible idea. You can resist and refuse sex. the woman cannot report rape or sexual assault for that person while the contract is intact So basically you are having a contract in which a person can rape you until you destroy the contract. Why would anyone sign this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 12:57 PM
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I've turned down sex a lot of times. *Needing to get up for work early the next day *Not feeling well physically *Not feeling well emotionally *Ate too big of a dinner and feeling too full to do that much motion *Feeling too stressed about work *ECT
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 12:53 PM
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Do you think the two situations (#notallmen and NAWALT) are equivalent? No and yes. Most feminists know that not all men are evil. They know not all men rape, and not all men are violent wife beaters ect. However, when talking about the issues having a guy come up and saying #notallmen is a way to make the conversation about himself. The women having the conversation probably already know that, there is no reason to bring that up. However, if a woman were to believe that every man on earth was i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 12:46 PM
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What happens if you liked those sexual acts but she doesn't want to do them? boohoo life isnt about your dick What if you only discovered after a serious commitment she did those things for previous boyfriends? boohoo life isnt about your dick Furthermore, it is rather ironic that TRP spends so much time trying to be more sexually appealing to women yet people call them misogynistic. really? I mean really? Like are you serious? As for your active sex life, perhaps that's why you're not seeing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 12:58 AM
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This is a really odd comment to make regarding sex acts. Your eye for an eye idea is very childish
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/16 02:12 PM
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Everyone needs their healthy outlet for misogyny, i guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 07:16 PM
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But I am so it works for me. so how did you wind up on TRP? I thought it was for guys who couldnt get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 06:20 PM
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So in this scenario, your inability to arouse your partner is 100% her fault because you're amazing. Thats a real great attitude to go through life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 06:03 PM
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So you not being able to turn her on as much as her ex is disrespectful to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 04:38 PM
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Couldnt you work on that? couldnt you find out why she was more arroused by their sex and make changes to what you do with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 04:08 PM
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would you suggest talking to her first? or just breaking it off the second she says no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 03:55 PM
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It's easy to see in the way she reacts to me. So you arent 100% sure? idk man, sounds like you might be getting cucked. Are you talking about the red pill in general or about the specific situation being discussed here. Both, but Ill stick to the matter at hand being upset/insecure is the appropriate response No, the appropriate response would be to talk to your partner about why they feel that way. Throwing a hissy fit will do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 03:42 PM
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I'm not in this situation my GF thinks I'm the sexiest guy in the world. are you sure? have you hooked her up to a polygraph test to ensure she hasnt done any sexual acts with other men that she hasnt done with you? If something upsetting is actually true then just burying your head in the sand and acting like it doesn't matter is actually an incredibly beta thing to do. Not saying that you should never get upset. Im saying trp gets upset over everything and just complains about it on the intern…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 03:24 PM
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If your GF was more turned on by her ex than she is by you then you shouldn't feel secure so you admit that these facts make you insecure. thats not very alpha. so why would trp be perpetuating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 02:56 PM
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evidence that make you insecure. Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 02:48 PM
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Thats probably only chads sperm though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 02:42 PM
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It looks very much like she isn't as attracted to him as she was to other guys in the past and that's a much more reasonable deal breaker. why are all trp's such insecure babies, I thought yall were suppose to be alpha's
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 02:41 PM
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Your strident defense of women in almost every circumstance, along with failing to see the male's viewpoint. Yep. No, i accurately look at the situation. Its not my fault that any stance on women besides "THEYRE ALL WHORES" is considered whire knighting here. Besides, she can just say she wasn't haaaapppy. So how is that different than this guy not being haaaapppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 09:31 PM
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Hahaha I swear you're a woman. Why? Women end marriages for any or no reason. Yes she could. But if she wanted to end the marriage over her husband not going down on her I would consider her just as dumb and childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 09:15 PM
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Getting fucked with a strap on not a natural sexual act for a man. okay, how about if she wants to fist him. same thing as oral sex, just placing a body part in orifice other than a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 09:14 PM
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women don't care about prestige/status/money? They do care about those things? Just not to the extent that TRP makes them out to. Men can marry whoever they want, I wont judge them or say they're bad people. If a women is cool marrying a dude 20 years older than her, more power to her. If a guy can bag a girl 20 years younger, great for him. I dont see every single woman on earth jumping at that opportunity though. I just dont particularly think too many healthy relationships happen because a 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 08:39 PM
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anal, facials, choking, making a girl cry during sex, what is it about these acts that appeal to you personally? I enjoy these acts. No particular reason why, I just think they are hot to do. Are these acts that you prefer to do with ONS's only or do you fully intend to choke out the mother of your children or put it in her butt even after she's had a few kids? I would never do any of these with ONS. These are only acts I do with people I trust and know enjoy them as well. I always ask and make …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 08:24 PM
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Your wife isnt the blowjob restaurant. 0/10 analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 08:12 PM
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He's supposed to live a ho-hum sex life with a woman who he expected better from? thats the fundamental problem with you bloops - you don't give one shit about the man in this situation. I do give a shit about the man in this situation. I believe he is taking the correct actions by having an open communication about his needs and his wife's inability to meet them. Making demands would put him in a worse situation. When you see relationships where the guy has doted on the woman and been very lovi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 08:12 PM
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He never thinks about stop being as nice to her, or to back off of her and give her less attention because of that. In another example, say if a husband never takes his wife to the beach, even though she really wants it, that's grounds for not doing somethings the husband really wants. No its not, these are both childish reactions to things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 08:08 PM
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She's not attracted to him JFC get some self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:57 PM
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She lured him into the relationship under false pretenses, then showed her true colors once she got what she wanted. He still should have had this talk before marrying her if it was this important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:57 PM
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not standing up for what you want, or taking about it. They did talk about it in the edit though! and he agreed to not be as pushy which is the best way to get what you want! Seriously, if a girl asked to fuck you with a strap on and you said no, would you be cool with her bringing it up every other week hoping you'd cave?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:48 PM
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What if he's now uncomfortable and burned out doing it the vanilla way? Then they dont have sex! But he isnt "uncomfortable" with normal sex. He would be having a temper tantrum because hes isnt getting the "toy" he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:42 PM
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3 in the first week Wow sounds like a totally reasonable reason to marry someone. The white knighting here is off the charts. I think the woman is at fault too! she souldnt have told him she "Loves blowjobs." Thats a fault on her part. But if hes got 3 in the first week and then never again he should have had this talk before marrying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:37 PM
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So withhold the totally normal sex he is having to have sex in a way that makes his wife feel uncomfortable? And you wonder why so many MRP's end up in divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:32 PM
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A man who does his work, who is an upstanding citizen can fall apart if his partner wrecks the relationship. I wasnt talking about how good a citizen you are. No women is turned on because you paid your taxes on time. The guy just discovered he isn't worth that to her His "worth" has nothing to do with it. Sex is about communication and respect, not worth. If he was better in bed, he would probably be getting anal. Now if your wife admitted to giving her exes anal while you got starfish maintena…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:29 PM
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Okay you are literally saying end a marriage over a blow job? I could understand ending a relationship but a marriage is a completely different thing. He married her not getting blowjobs, he knew this going in. Or definitely bring up that possibility Threatening to leave a relationship over a sexual act is childish as fuck. Either do it or dont, hanging it over her head is blackmail.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:23 PM
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I used to be extremely unattractive because I had horrible dental problems. I basically had no teeth from the time I was 10 to 16. Once I got all my dental work done and finished I knew I was a little more attractive but didnt have the confidence. I still thought of myself as a toothless freak. When I went to college though, I realized I was probably a lot more good looking than I thought. I would go out to parties and have girls flirt and hit on me in one way or another. I came from a small hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:21 PM
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Overall, my view is, the whole sex act issue isn't a problem with resources and money, it's an issue with the man being a total doormat, and not being confident or masculine. He allows a woman to control him entirely. So what would you suggest he do instead? demand she blow him or they dont have sex at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:13 PM
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OP's assertion of AF/BB would happen again. This isnt AF/BB unless you consider being a normal respectful adult as being "Alpha." 9/10s of the girls I have had anal with initially said no. My response has always been "Okay, its something I think is really hot and would be willing to take slow if you change your mind." and then I dont nag her about it. Showing you respect boundaries and care more about both of you enjoying the sex is the best way to get her to explore new things. They should call…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 06:03 PM
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it would be "mouth stuff" If this is such a big problem for him he either needs to break up with her or grow the fuck up. If it was a similar situation with the girl and going down on her I would say the same thing. Literally acting like a child is no way to get sex from your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 05:39 PM
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That is a possible outcome. However, I felt that this was something important to me to take that risk. If she felt that I was being too needy then I would have re-evaluated how I viewed our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 04:29 PM
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sorry, that was actually a typo. I agree you cant talk your girl into liking blowjobs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 03:36 PM
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want or desire to engage in X What is X in your mind? In terms of sexual things, I would agree. You cant negotiate your girl liking blowjobs. In terms of non-sexual things not so much. For example, I had a girlfriend who didnt want to come see my band play. We sat down one day and talked about why I felt it was important for her to be there and she explained why she felt awkward going. In the end we came to an agreement that we both were happy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 03:22 PM
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So women enjoying sex with people who are good at sex is AF/BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 03:12 PM
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New parent here, just had a little baby girl two weeks ago and believe me she is already showing signs of AWALT. She cries whenever she wants anything, and I mean anything. She takes no repsoncinilty for her actions at all. And the shit test, oh my god the shit tests come ever day. In fact, almost every morning there is a big heaping shit test in her dipper waiting for me. This bitch is only a few years away from hitting the wall, im trying to show her the errors of her ways now before its too l…
/r/RedPillParenting12/05/16 03:11 PM
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Ill agree with this for the most part. If you feel you're not getting X, the problem lies with you, and you need to change yourself so your partner (or partners) will want to give you X. I wouldnt say "change yourself." I would say you need to be more open in communicating your needs to your partner to provide X
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 03:06 PM
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No, its just rationalizations that aren't logically consistent alright, fine, think whatever you want. All I can say is, as someone who has done a lot of anal, being better in bed is the best way to get a girl comfortable with the idea. Stoping your feet and throwing a hissy fit over not getting it is the perfect way to never get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 03:04 PM
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hamsterization is all thinking hamsterization or just thoughts you dont agree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 02:50 PM
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Why should a man marry or have a LTR with a woman that doesn't want to do the same things sexually with him as an ex? Right now. She isnt doing it with him right now. She clearly is open to the idea. It doesnt say how long it took her to have anal with her ex. Maybe they were together a year before she first did it with him. Maybe once her relationship with her new boyfriend becomes better she will be open to doing it with him. Also, its just butt stuff. It literally feels exactly the same as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 02:07 PM
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There are tons of different reasons on why she might not want anal with her new boyfriend. She could just not feel comfortable with him yet to do it. His dick could be way bigger than her Ex's. Maybe her ex was better in bed and made it more enjoyable than her current one. This was my explanation that you just ignored. The reason why she felt comfortable with one guy and not with the other is up to her. I'm pretty sure it has nothing to do with how much of a "bad boy" he is though. and for the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 01:36 PM
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Is this a serious question? Alright, Ill bite. very willing to do anal with her ex bad boy boyfriend Where does it say her Ex is a bad boy compared to this guy? Where does it say this new boyfriend is just a provider and not a AF? There are tons of different reasons on why she might not want anal with her new boyfriend. She could just not feel comfortable with him yet to do it. His dick could be way bigger than her Ex's. Maybe her ex was better in bed and made it more enjoyable than her current …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 01:11 PM
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learning to deal with it and still be friends Its important because youll discover the difference between romantic attraction and platonic attraction in people. Youll find out why the girl didnt want to date you, youll understand that dating is more than just physical attraction, ect. If the man cant get a girlfriend pushing away every girl that does want to be friends with them seems counter productive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 05:12 PM
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For the greater good? No for the great good of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 04:23 PM
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someone you "love" Be here you even deem it necessary to put quotes around the word love. What they are feeling isnt love, its a crush. Yes its hard but thats what being a grown up is, hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 04:06 PM
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I think cutting ties with someone you know you can't be friends with is the adult thing to do. I dont understand how you can Date someone who cant be friends with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 03:44 PM
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That is impossible. Not impossible. I would say the majority of adult understand how to handle rejection and unrequited feelings. Thats why /r/niceguys exists, because there are men who dont know how to handle rejection. If every guy was like that it would just be called /r/guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 03:43 PM
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That crush becomes an infatuation and then the infatuation becomes a toxic mess of emotions similar to love and constant heartache... Why wouldnt it be better to learn how to be an adult and properly handle these feeling instead of running from them whenever they come up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 03:27 PM
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Yes, it is. Notice that I don't blame the woman anywhere in my comments. Never said you were. I just meant to point out that the girl is being honest with his intentions, while the male is being dishonest with his. This is not good. Yes, but I don't think that this works out for most inexperienced and struggling guys. But this is how they get experience. I remember being in high school struggling with an unrequited crush. Yes it sucked, but eventually I learned how to get over it. Now I realize …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 03:03 PM
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Chances are if he stays in the friendzone he will miss all kinds of opportunities, because he invests a lot of time and energy into her and not seeing other women This is completely on him. My female friends have only helped me find other women to date / sleep with. I mean most of the girls I've hooked up with and dated I have met through my female friends. If he was told "were only friends" and agrees but then spends time still trying to date her hes hurting himself. Woudnt it be better self-im…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 02:25 PM
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But if he does want friendship as well, like in the example you gave, would you still consider it a trap. Yeah, he originally wanted a relationship, but now hes fulfilling his secondary need of friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 02:04 PM
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Why is "the friend zone" a trap? If he is fine with having female friends whats wrong with having a hot friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 01:36 PM
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Ill agree with the idea that everyone should have friends with people of all genders to get different view points on the world. But perhaps she actually found him attractive. But as she was (maybe even desperately) looking for a male friend, he became even more attractive as a friend than as a boyfriend. If she had already had a close male friend, they could have actually come together as a great couple. This though, not so much. Yea I find some of my female friends attractive and I know some fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 12:59 PM
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turned on No Care? also no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 07:07 PM
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you ever hear of jokes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 07:03 PM
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So if I never learned how to stand up, I can still win the olmypics games for non-retards and defective people? 1/10 analogy =(
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 06:57 PM
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There is no such thing as women prefering skinny men Not one women? Ever? like in the history of women? Then why would someone write an article like this? And why would it get shared over 5k times? Stop denying that there are some girls who like skinny guys.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 05:46 PM
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Holy shit listening to this girl talk is like daggers in my ears. Yes, some women like men who are bulkier than they are. Some prefer skinny dudes. This video speaks to this girls preferences, not the entirety of women as a whole. Personally, I think if you are bending over backwards to get a girl like the one in the video you got more problems than needing to lift more weights.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 03:06 PM
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feminist subs The point of those subs arent for men to get dating help. That would make no sense to go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 12:45 PM
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Hey I didnt say i wasnt a narcissist as well.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 12:45 PM
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Maybe the part is Gaston from Beauty and the Beast No way a RP'er would not get that part lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 12:43 PM
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Because abusive narcissists like to hear themselves talk /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 04:45 AM
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No one is saying that it is not okay to feel sad when a girl rejects you. That is a 100% fine reason to feel sad. Its the actions these guys take after "not getting the role" In your example I would feel bad for the guy who didnt get the part. But I would still laugh if he threw a temper tantrum about it. Or started texting the director about how he would be such a better man for the roll if he could only see. Or started doing grand gestures for the director under the guise of friendship. edit: …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 04:43 AM
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Have you really never seen this? I have seen this but I honestly had the reason you gave for it. Most of the time they dont have the confidence to speak up about it. They feel if they do speak up the person will just laugh at them or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 04:35 AM
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Any girl who asks for a relationship There is a big difference between "asking for a relationship" and "feeling entitled to having a relationship".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 03:31 AM
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clearly the most important factor No, I wouldnt say that. I would say it is the most common factor in sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 03:05 AM
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I doubt you will ever find any women who will ever call Channing Tatum unattractive. Ehh, I do know some girls who arent attracted to bulky guys. Not saying they think hes a troll of a man, but he could still not be their type. There are very clear good looking people in the world who will always be successful with the opposite sex. I dont think anyone would argue against that ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 02:48 AM
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But she is a bigger actor than him? Yeah hes famous to an extent but she is still way above his level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 02:46 AM
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I think those girls arent as common? I know maybe 2-3 girls like that but have encountered more guys that I can count. I'm sure there are a lot out there. The subreddit does post some of them like these Either way I would love a /r/nicegirls subreddit. I think that shit is just as funny as nice guys. Entitled people trowing hissy fits is my bread and butter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 02:42 AM
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Looks are important but only for so much. Yes there is what some would call "conventionally attractive" but that doesn't mean women dont have preferences as much as men do. If a girl whos a 5 doesnt think your attractive, that doesnt mean you will never be able to pull a 9. It just means that that 5 doesnt think you are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 02:37 AM
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Correlation doesn't imply causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 02:23 AM
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For example, if you're nice to the point that you can't stand up for yourself. I wouldnt consider not standing up for yourself "being too nice." I would say that you have a problem with letting people walk all over you if that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 01:52 AM
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It is when you act nice to the point where it gets in the way of acting powerfully acting powerfully? no I would agree that you be nice to the point of creepiness. If he thinks that there is the guys at /r/niceguys are really guys being nice then he clearly is having problems understanding social cues and is probably just being creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 01:35 AM
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/r/niceguys calls out guys who are being nice to the point of being creepy. A lot of the nice guys there are only "being nice" to get sex out of girls. There is no such thing as being "too nice" to find a date. "Niceness" is a trait that everyone looks for in a partner, if they don't then chances are they are not a person you want to date. You could be doing things in the name of niceness that creep girls out, but thats something different to handle. It could be a lot of different reasons for wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 01:18 AM
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You know being in a fraternity doesn't grant you sex on demand? It's also a hell of a lot of work running a fraternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 09:57 PM
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Okay but you usually pay by the end of the date. So by then she should know your'e an alpha. If you pay shell change her mind because you acted beta. If she didnt know you were an alpha by the end of the date and you dont pay and she doesnt sleep with you, good riddance, she cant recognize an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 06:54 PM
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just making it up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 06:50 PM
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So the amount of women that want men to decide when /what/where they eat, shop, watch, if you marry/get kids... Probably very very low. I would say 10%. I dont know a single woman who would be happy letting their partner control when they eat....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 06:42 PM
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whats most? like can she decide when to pee on her own or do I have to make that decision for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 06:32 PM
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When men don't pay the women don't take them seriously and it vastly reduces their chance of getting laid. But if paying is beta conditioning, and women like alphas, shouldnt not paying get you laid more?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 06:32 PM
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Idk, what does "lead the relationship" mean to you? It probably means something different to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 06:28 PM
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Yea, I usually base my personal opinions on facts and figures presented to me. But im not you so whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 06:24 PM
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So what your saying is the beta men have shamed you. In other words the beta's have power over your decision making. So what does that make you if betas have more power and authority then you? The point still remains that if you take a hard stance on it, you will drive away a lot of women who think you should play beta bux. isnt that what trp wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 06:18 PM
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so you're just guessing, cool. very informative
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 06:16 PM
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Idk man, can you site your sources on all these numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 06:15 PM
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Most women are unhappy if they have to lead the relationship - 95% All numbers +/- 20% 115% of women? damn, cant argue with those numbers....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 06:08 PM
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Every point I gave you is that an entire generation of men are blue pill beta brainwashed. how? you listed social pressure for basically every point. How is saying not to care about what others think of you being beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 05:47 PM
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Guys will generally waive alimony (and child support) even if there is a technical legal entitlement. Look at Gwen Stefani's ex. So dont waive your right to alimony? The social pressure is still there. Men will spend more on jewelry for their woman than the woman will ever spend on the man. So dont give into social pressure? Sure, I've had exceptions where we have gone dutch or the girls picked up the bill, but they are still exceptions: insist on having the woman pay and good luck getting many …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 05:30 PM
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I don't think you understand how doctrinaire the Left has become on the internet and universities Im currently on the internet and I live so close to a university I can see it from my bedroom window. Its hard to go to a liberal arts school without become liberal lol Ill assume you mean these things. that men are inherently different from women I wouldnt say inherently, a lot of things has more to do with the culture people were raised in. On some levels they are very different, but on most level…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 05:09 PM
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I dont think there is a single feminist who would say that attraction isnt a real thing or that its wrong to try to improve your ability to attract people. I understand how it works and am as left as could be. I spent a good amount of time in my youth figuring out how to be more attractive to women. Today I'm having healthy and fun relationships with women I find attractive. what does "improve with women" mean in your book? What right-wing principles do you believe I am missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 04:59 PM
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feminism is irreconcilable with sexual success for men Im a feminist, I still get laid. I know plenty of men who consider themselves feminists and still get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 04:51 PM
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alimony Alimony is based on the discrepancy of income. If the women makes far more than a man she will have to pay him alimony. cohabitation Theres no laws that say the man has to pay the majority of the bills and living costs. Those are things couples figure out on their own. I know plenty of couples that split everything 50/50 expensive engagement rings You choose to buy the ring. You can buy a cheep one. You can buy flowers instead. Thats all on you. the first date where he has to pay. I've h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 04:48 PM
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Thank you, thats probably a pretty accurate assessment of me. Or atleast I would like to think it is lol. probably because a large group of guys in TRP have said things that that goes against your moral compass and so you decided TRP is angry rednecks or whatever. And yes - those guys are over at TRP spewing toxic shit at times. Youre 100% right about this. A lot of what trp says I agree with when it come to flirting advice. Its a lot of the things I was told when I was younger that helped me be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 02:10 PM
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Therapy is for pussies Seriously man, It would probably help. Its not good to consider yourself a failure for having an average sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 02:20 AM
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Honestly dude, go to therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 12:37 AM
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Thats not healthy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 12:16 AM
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Sounds like you have some serious issues you need to address. Who the hell cares if you have slept with more people than your uncle! Your worth isnt defined by the amount of women you've slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 12:02 AM
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28 years old. Only slept with 10 girls so far. Why the fuck are you complaining then? like thats an average sex life for someone your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 11:51 PM
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Can I ask how old you are? and does Oncle mean you've only slept with one woman? Sex is fun, but just because you have a lot of it doesnt mean you're a winner at life. I know plenty of losers who get laid. Either approach me or go back to your fucking facebook feed/instagram feel good whoring, girls. dude quit complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 11:46 PM
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That guy is a winner No, he sounds like a fucking loser. He was just having sex. Where is he now? Once you've had a lot of sex you come to understand that its really not the most important thing in life. I'm just pissed off that these entitled little shits just stand there and expect me to do all of the work. Sounds like more complaining....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 11:35 PM
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They could have failed graduating from junior high school, but if they are sleeping with women they are already winners This is a really sad sentiment if you honestly believe it. It just pisses me off that all of these chicken-shit girls will check me out, stare at me, but won't approach me and just stand there with this intimidated look on their faces. I'm not brad pitt. I'm not going to reject you, dumbasses. APPROACH ME. sounds like complaining to me....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 11:22 PM
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You know how many times I see girls ditch the dude they are with when he doesnt have ratio? a lot. and its always hilarious. Meh, I guess you could consider this RP. The guys who get left at the door are usually more "RP" than me though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 11:19 PM
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Why do you have an issue with red pillers? Honestly? Yall are a bunch of pussies. You complain womens standards are too high. Then you complain that women only sleep with losers. Then you complain that women dont have sex with you on command when your married. Its always complaining. Man up already
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 11:10 PM
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Do you have an issue with the red pill or something? Yes but you'll have to at least take me out for dinner Only if you pay. I dont pay for first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 10:54 PM
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No, yall dont have to get castrated. You guys could all just bang each other or something. You all are constantly talking about chad and his thundercock anyway so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 10:48 PM
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Maybe it woudl be better if the whole of trp just packed up and gave up on women. Im pretty sure that would be best for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 10:39 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/44na6p/women_are_not_objectified_theyre_objects/ I dont read these things and think theyre good ideas. So yea im morally superior
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 10:37 PM
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no acting I dont consider women objects so I would say on most levels im morally superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 10:26 PM
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I believe women like confident, attractive, fun men. Alpha is a relative term.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 10:25 PM
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and just because one girl was mean to you every girl is eeeevviiillll
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 08:53 PM
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Although the vast majority of these are "boyfriend killed" there are a few where it seems to be an attack based on rejection. I stand by my point, both men and women have the ability to be evil disgusting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 08:27 PM
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i've read plenty of cases of attempted/actual murder Can you provide me with a case where a man was killed after rejecting a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 08:01 PM
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Im not saying that every time a woman rejects a man he kills her. I do think these are rare events, but to completely reject these situations happen (like the posted video does) is plain dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 07:56 PM
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how? Im simply stating that worrying about a man shooting you for rejecting them is a legit concern. will every man do this? no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 07:52 PM
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homophobic insults Are you comparing mean words to murder?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 07:50 PM
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ahhh, good old victim blaming
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 06:04 PM
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bad as in edgy i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 05:42 PM
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The blame isn't on the people who robbed you. Yes it is? You wont get arrested for getting robbed.....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 05:41 PM
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No, they only thing they acknowledge is they are not lifting enough and treating women with too much respect. Everything else, failed relationships, why you got shot down, ect is because AWALT. that take the blame from them failing with women and places it on the women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 04:13 PM
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Yeah, I'm not saying guys should never approach girls. But if she flat out tells you she not interested, doesnt look up from her book, doesnt take out her headphones, doesnt make eye contact. TAKE THE HINT AND LEAVE HER ALONE
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 03:47 PM
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nah, thats just that was just the first example that came to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 03:45 PM
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harmful and painful objects up their vagina WHAT MEN ARE YOU TALKING TO! ARE YOU SAFE?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 03:01 PM
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you seem like the type of guy who would prefer fucking a hairy guy with a vagina over a cute trap (if forced to choose one or the other) Nah, I just think girls who can pull of the androgynous look are hot. I'm not into anyone whos hairy or identifies as male. And You wouldnt have to force me, I've dated and slept with a few trans women before =)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 03:00 PM
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I dont deny that a lot of men want that, but I dont think its the same to compair them to a Bad Boy. But a Bad Boy is someone who usually bad and crazy but will be good just for them. A MPDG is someone who is usually slutty and crazy but will be good just for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:52 PM
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Pinkman? I really never would have made that comparison lol. I mean Pinkman has a goatee....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:49 PM
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Yea, I'm not saying that a MPDG is the exact same thing as a "Bad Boy" I mean the idea of getting someone unobtainable. Someone changing "just for you"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:27 PM
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There is even a video where a feminist is saying men can randomly walk up to you in broad day light and shoot you for not saying hi to them https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=21NWphbQm18 Hey, theres also news articles that back this up! http://www.cbsnews.com/news/janese-jackson-talton-shot-dead-after-rejecting-mans-advances-at-bar-documents-say/ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/wisconsin-man-confesses-to-killing-woman_us_56b64050e4b04f9b57d9d6b4
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:25 PM
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Thats fine. Everyone has a type. I personally cant stand innocent "Disney Princess" girls at all. I wouldnt touch them with a ten foot pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:21 PM
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I would say that the female - equivalent would be the Manic Pixie Dream Girl. Same idea of someone changing "just for them." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manic_Pixie_Dream_Girl The idea of a "bad girl" in media is pretty recent so its no surprise that there arent as many examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:18 PM
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I would date the fuck outta her though....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:15 PM
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They anger me because they are, in my mind, a cult. They appeal to guys are at the lowest point in their lives. Guys who are sad, alone, and desperate for help. They tell these men that every problem is not their fault and that they have been lied to for their entire lives. They provided them with simple dating tools and a support group, which is good, but then they threaten to take it away if they dont support the misogyny that comes with it. (see RPS's newest post about "concern trolling"). Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:08 PM
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A lot of men believe if they are persistent enough they will get the girl. They also feel entitled to the time. Thats why they freak out and curse girls out when they reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 01:51 PM
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I dont know what you're talking about. Bad Girls are definitely my type. Tell me that ruby rose is not hot af http://img2.timeinc.net/people/i/2015/news/150119/ruby-rose-768.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 01:44 PM
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And I'm telling you, guys who we let pay 10 bucks to get in without girl are usually the ones I have to kick out 30 minutes later for grinding on girls who dont want to be grinded on. Its usually the self proclaimed "alphas" that pay tens and get kicked out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:54 AM
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nerds in the computer science or math classes. You understand you can be in a frat and still take science and math classes, right? and once again, the ratios are to keep creeps out. If we wanted to rape girls, as you say we do, why would we let outside dudes in at all? Its not like if we say no dudes it prevents girls from coming. You know how many times I see girls ditch the dude they are with when he doesnt have ratio? a lot. and its always hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:34 AM
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Because there are a lot of frats out there to dont promote good morals? I'm an ex-president and current chapter adviser and dont allow that shit to go on in my chapter. We've had dudes try and join by bragging how they've assaulted girls; we tell them to get lost and they get added to a "Do-not-pledge" list with us and other chapters. I wont even put up with any of the shit trp spews. I'll pledge any red pill bullshit out of you before you even get a chance to be a brother. Also if trp is going …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:08 AM
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As someone who regularly works door at frat parties, thats not why we have ratio. We have ratio because we dont want to have creepy guys at our parties. If you can convince 3 girls to come out with you, we know you arent going to be a creepy rapist who is going to make all the girls uncomfortable. If we wanted the highest ratio of girls, we would only let girls in. And yea, I know guys who will slut shame girls the second the finish sleeping with them....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 12:32 AM
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it's normal for men to force the situation a bit to elicit interest. fortune favours the brave. yea but only to an extent. Walking up to a girl and talking to her is fine. But if she doesnt even look up from her book and clearly isnt interested chances are its going to take a lot more work than its worth to make her interested. Learning to read social cues is going to be way more effective than just forcing ever girl you want to talk to into an awkward situation. Being able to say "oh this girl …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 07:00 PM
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As much as people shit on "Nice Guys" there are just as many "Nice Girls" out there that are annoying as shit. http://imgur.com/vn0rcme
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 05:10 PM
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Freudian explanations I personal think most of TRP has an Oedipus Complex. I've seen "No one women can love you unconditionally like your mom does!" a few times lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 05:08 PM
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If she complained "why are all men jerks who only like sex, they're all dogs who dont know what a real women is" then yea
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 04:41 PM
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How am I a hypocrite exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 11:38 AM
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Key word was randos. Women have a defense for random men. TRP will even say their mom are awalt
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 11:38 AM
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because women will still have sex with you if you do these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 02:19 AM
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This is not advice to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 02:08 AM
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Except I don't ask for anything on account of your sex. but you literally just said this all things for which we should ask women to have have sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 12:40 AM
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maybe date different women. Every feminist I've gone out with has wanted to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 12:38 AM
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No one is asking for you to feel guilty.... Sympathy is more like it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 11:53 PM
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If GayLubeOil is your idea of a level headed dude i dont want to know what crazy looks like to you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 09:28 PM
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TRP's first, last and only priority is "get laid." whats your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 08:52 PM
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women can be mean, manipulative, and bad people. No one denies that. If you dont think women should treat all men like predators, it is completely reasonable to say dont treat all women like manipulative bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 08:52 PM
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Since I got them. zing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 08:15 PM
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me: Obviously not all men are like that You: AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 07:14 PM
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I honestly wont be happy until I have every man's balls in a jar.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 07:12 PM
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yea but no it isnt lol. The fact that the movie called "rape culture" deals with rape inside and outside of prison proves it. and you provided that movie!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 07:11 PM
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So what was the point of this argument? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 06:31 PM
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backwards rationalization. How? you need to get rejected before you can complain like that about it. If you complain like that about it I laugh at you. simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 06:19 PM
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Yea, im sure theyre some.. but i dont see this being a widespread problem. If you run into this a lot you clearly are asking out the wrong kind of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 06:18 PM
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Wow, then the should be mad at the men who are being sexually aggressive, not the women for creating a defense mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 06:06 PM
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You do have me there. Maybe we should all work on creating a more inclusive definition instead of arguing it doesn't exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 05:45 PM
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And I agree this is a problem. We assume that Male boys want the abuse of their older female offenders. We joke about male rape in prisons. We dont usually give time to female on female sexual violence. These are all things we should be talking about. It doesn't erase male on female sexual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 05:37 PM
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I'm a guy standing 5'11" and coming it at about 240, yet I still don't walk down dark alleys at night. Not because I'm afraid of being mugged, but aware of the fact that it could happen, and is more likely to happen in that dark alley. So why is it bad for women to do the same? Some creepy dude one time pulled his dick out in front of her on the train. Next time a creepy dude approaches her its wrong for her to not be aware that a dick might be coming out again?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 05:29 PM
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You are attracted to her. She is attracted to you. Just bang. Because I dont want to bang every single woman I'm attracted to. If you dont have a personality that I like I usually wont sleep with you. Going on dates allows me to get to know what type of person the girl is before I commit to having sex with her. That how i avoid the "manipulative bitches" trp always complains about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 05:27 PM
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Really thank you for sharing this information, and you seem to be right about the term originating in that environment. But I looked up this clip. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RwdVENIVaJY&feature=share&list=PLY4mhBTBu8J45o5hatEMBSLeyRz0gvD11 Its from the film. It clearly shows that the film focused on all rape, not just the raping of men in prison. You see them focusing on how to stop rape both inside and outside of prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 05:24 PM
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women only went out with guys they wanted to eventually sleep with. Wome go out on dates with guys they are considering sleeping with. If she doesnt sleep with him, chance are he did something weird on the date to blow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 05:13 PM
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The difference is if she is interested. If I chat up a girl and she seem interested in the conversation, is asking me questions back, making eye contact, ect, then thats fine. You're good to keep talking to her. If I chat up a girl and she's giving me one word answers, not making eye contact, clearly interested in somethign else, then leave her the fuck alone. You dont need to sit there for another 10 minutes trying to pry information out of her. or worse just talk at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 05:11 PM
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i don't believe in the concept of dating. Do why are you even arguing with people then? Edit: and if you dont believe in dating, why do you think you have enough information to speak on the subject?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 05:08 PM
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Are you also going to expect women to pay half of the dates and to start approaching guys and ask them out I've had women pay for dates and try to ask me out. Just ebcause it doesnt happen to you doesnt mean it doesnt happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 05:03 PM
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Yea, but no? hit the gym, get tattoos Yes, this will get you laid more. Women like attractive men. start treating women more roughly This will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 05:02 PM
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can you provide a link to that original definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 05:00 PM
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No one is saying dont hit on women, They are saying take a fucking hint when they arent interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 04:59 PM
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I was talking about how to create a safer more healthy dating environment. Not "how to get men laid"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 04:57 PM
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Definition of "Rape Culture": a complex set of beliefs that encourage male sexual aggression and supports violence against women. It is a society where violence is seen as sexy and sexuality as violent. In a rape culture, women perceive a continuum of threatened violence that ranges from sexual remarks to sexual touching to rape itself. A rape culture condones physical and emotional terrorism against women as the norm . . . In a rape culture both men and women assume that sexual violence is a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 04:53 PM
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No, hes telling you to take a fucking hint when women arent interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 04:51 PM
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actually being shamed and made fun of I've never had this happen either. Have I gotten shot down? yea. I've never been shamed for trying or had someone laugh at me for it that I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 04:26 PM
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I've never felt "shamed and made fun of" for hitting on a girl so guess I cant help you then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 04:22 PM
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Yea, I see it all over TRP...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 04:14 PM
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he was shamed and made fun of for merely asking a woman out Yea, and you should deal with rejection accordingly. You walked up and asked her out, you run the risk of getting rejected. Dont like it? dont ask women out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 04:11 PM
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Yea well everyone has the potential to be creepy. Guys and girls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 04:09 PM
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Yea I would agree with both of these
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 04:09 PM
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You understand that this is what they are referring to when they say "rape culture"...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 04:08 PM
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Teach them how to be attractive -- how to interact with people in normal ways, how to take care of their bodies, and how to not put up with shit from people who mean them harm. Yes, I do agree men should be taught these things. I dont understand why they also cant be taught the things I listed. You can be taught to respectful and still attract women, the two aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 04:07 PM
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some women of feminist persuasion probably see all men as potentially creepy and annoying. No, they are just more willing to call you on your creepy shit Edit: you can also be creepy without meaning to be creepy. I doubt any guy walks up to a girl with the intention of making her feel uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 03:30 PM
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means women should view all men as predators? Please look at my And I also with laugh at dudes who hear these stories and get offended and say "oh not all men are like that!" No, women should not view all men as predators. Most dont. Those that do, need help. On the same note, men should not view all women as "manipulative bitches" . Most dont. Those that do, need help. You asking "what kind of people do this stuff?!" shows that you are not listening to enough women's dealing with them. Ask any …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 03:29 PM
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Yeah, you basically hit all the major complaints that most women I know have said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 03:02 PM
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If it were that easy it wouldn't be a problem to begin with lol. but here are some things I think would help For men: Teach them from a young age that being sexually aggressive to strangers in public is wrong. I dont think I know a single guy whos been told "yelling at women walking down the street, even if its a compliment, is abrasive and rude." Teach them to listen to the stories and problems of women. Many guys I know will blow off a girls experiences with "Well I've never seen that happen."…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 02:58 PM
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Yea, basically every women I know has at least one "guy tried to get to to have sex with him in public" type of story. And I also with laugh at dudes who hear these stories and get offended and say "oh not all men are like that!" Obviously not all men are like that, but so many are that almost all girls will have a story about one, and thats a problem that needs to be addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 02:44 PM
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Although I do agree that socially awkward men failing with women is a common comedy trope, I dont think as a society we put serious shame on them. What we do shame is entitled men who get angry when women dont appreciate their awkward advances. I'll never laugh at a guy who has trouble approaching women. Its a tough skill to understand and master. I will laugh at a guy who gets turned down and yells "why do women only like jerks and not a nice guy like me!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 02:24 PM
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Mostly through friends, some through my fraternity's parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 12:29 AM
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Bet you're wishing you had bothered to try to find one online now huh? Still no And don't sit here with a straight face and tell me the same exists for guys I've seen girls who are slutty and hook up with gross / not fit dudes all the time. You need to go out more if you havent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 08:29 PM
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So if no one writes a blog to complain about something on the internet it doesn't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 07:01 PM
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In not a librarian, find it yourself. Im tell you I've seen it. to say it doesnt exsist is just plain stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 06:46 PM
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Most female incels do it for reasons. isnt incel short for Involuntary-Celibacy. By definition it means they dont have a choice in the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 06:22 PM
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Ok, but what kinds of standards did these women have? Or more importantly, did they have an innate desire for sex? I never saw what standards they had, I never saw a guy hit on them. Ever. And yes they had a desire for sex. To tell the whole story, these were two sisters of one of my really close friends. For 3 years in college we would all go out once a month at least. They never got hit on, never danced with anyone but themselves, and never got laid. They would constantly complain about how al…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 06:20 PM
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unattractive awkward guys should be content with their lives and never change I never said that!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 06:02 PM
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male 5 Yall need to get some confidence. I know plenty of male 5s that get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 06:01 PM
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Its always gotten me laid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 06:00 PM
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She isn't saying no one has ever found her sexually desirable. Her hangups, or perspectives on sex is what is stopping her here. This is to small of a sample to conribute to every virginal woman. I've met multiple girls that have been so unattractive physically and personality wise that they were still virgins. I have also met guys who had many hang ups and turned down opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 05:03 PM
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So only certain people are allowed to live the Chad-life So you're upset that Attractive Socially-competent men get more women than unattractive awkward guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 04:57 PM
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what are you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 04:11 PM
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why do you believe you deserve coaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 02:44 PM
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Take it slow. Be nice. Be respectful. Don't be forward about sex. Be yourself. This is good advice though....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 01:53 PM
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That everyone should have to learn it on their own? yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 01:52 PM
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think whatever you want lol I understand how a guy can not understand how to get girls, i didnt understand the whole "Weve been lied to" mentality. I honestly know zero men who think that way in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 03:49 AM
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I really dont care about my friends sex life this much... I can say I have sex atleast once a week with a couple of girls I have casual relationships with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 11:52 PM
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The mind is a terrible thing to waste, and hate is nothing but a waste of time and energy. Mad respect
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 10:58 PM
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and no you dont look like a sociopath lol you honestly seem like one of the more moderate RP'ers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 10:46 PM
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I do agree that there is such thing as a healthy amount of rebellion. Just dont teach your boys that women are she-devils though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 10:36 PM
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I understand situations like that, but its you're responsibility to rebel against your parents if you feel the life they planned for you inst what you want. I fought my parents tooth and nail for everything the life have today. But you do bring up a good point that trp men are very literal. It seems most guys were complete doormats before going there. Thats not healthy either, and I do feel like they needed help. But going all the way to a sociopath misogynist isnt healthy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 10:01 PM
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nah man, WoW or nothin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 09:55 PM
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not angry, just like to troll =)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 09:40 PM
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I dont feel I was being lied to. I just found a middle ground. I dont believe all girls are all special, beautiful, and morally-right. I also dont believe they are all sub-human she-devils.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 09:39 PM
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because TRP encourages manipulation and dehumanization on women? I have no problem with the flirting tips, its the misogynistic undertones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 09:35 PM
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I was more or less told the same things growing up. Yet, I still learned, on my own, about attraction, flirting, and ultimately how to have a healthy romantic relationships. Most guys I know were told the same things and also learned what I did. I dont understand why trp community thinks every other man was taught some secret to winning women that they were left out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 08:51 PM
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So only guys with brad pitt looks are getting girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 08:44 PM
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told exactly the wrong things to do and be to attract women Honest question, who do you think told other men how to attract women? I never had anyone in my life sit me down and explain how to get girls....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 08:07 PM
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If a woman isn't approached there's something really wrong with her. Well then if a man is getting constantly rejected then there is probably something really wrong with him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 07:58 PM
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...but you literally just said that people deserve sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 07:56 PM
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Chad doesnt deserve sex. You dont deserve sex. No one deserves sex...... The world doesnt owe you shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 02:06 PM
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When women go without sex it is usually a choice. Its everyone choice to go without sex. Women choose to not have sex with the gross losers that throw themselves at them. Men choose not to have sex with prostitutes or desperate gross women. Anyone CAN have sex at literally any point in time if they are willing to pay or degrade themselves for it, you chose not to. Men are rejected far, far more than women. This is true, but you are only looking at it from a O players view. Yes men get rejected m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 06:09 PM
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because its stupid to constantly be pointing to someone and screaming "WHY CANT I HAVE WHAT HE HAS" when it come to sex....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 06:00 PM
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This is a really well put together post and I would agree with this analogy way more than I do with the fisherman bullshit. TRP probably wont agree because most believe that a girl does nothing to get laid, they simply pick a partner. But Girl game completely exists. This analogy recognizes that Girls know dating from their prospective, and thus have different worries and problems then a man. However, I still think that they hold valuable dating advice. TRP say they ask women for advice, but the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:18 PM
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THAT GOSH DARN CHAD! getting all the sexs without doing any work. Woe is me!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:00 PM
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Yea I would agree with that. I dont think its a wild idea that people find someone who takes care of themselves attractive. But remember this is an average, meaning that not every guy who is muscular is getting more sex than a non-muscular guy. I know plenty of dudes who are jacked as hell but still cant get laid. They simply cant flirt well enough with girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 04:57 PM
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Yea, women with their stupid having control over their body games. When will they grow up!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 04:48 PM
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idk its one of those thing were you just know, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 09:00 PM
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Ill say it again just dont be an asshole about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 08:53 PM
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It's not socially acceptable to chase wealth, social status and as much as pussy as your dick desires Yes it is... just dont be an asshole about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 08:48 PM
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I honestly just rolled my eye so hard I almost fell out of my chair....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 08:47 PM
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TRP yields results that many men are looking for, even if they don't agree with all the muh soggy knees. have BEEN themselves all along, and are seeking guidance as to what they need to do to be successful. You're probably right. If someone goes to trp, sees all the soggy knees, and still think its good idea; They were probably a horrible person to begin with, which is why being themselves didnt work....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 08:37 PM
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The fact that it needs to be interpreted means its bad advice. Why not just say "flirt in a way that represents the person you really are"? Even then what does that even mean? In fact I'm willing to bet that if I asked the subreddit what the phrase "Just Be Yourself" means to them I will get any number of differing and perhaps even conflicting ideas of what it means. You could say that about AWALT from TRP. You could say that about almost every piece of knowledge there is. Then you have no busin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 07:50 PM
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"Just Be Yourself" is the best advice you can give someone though. However, you still need to flirt! When they say be yourself they mean flirt in a way that represents the person you really are. My moves will not work for you, your moves wont work for me. It's no one's fault but their own if they thought that women will just drop into their lap for being a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 07:22 PM
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Then why doesnt TRP support Muslim refugees? They have the same views of women needing to be subservient to men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 06:48 PM
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sometimes places foreign customs over women's rights got any other examples?>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 06:27 PM
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all you get is this lame body of information that helps you get laid and keep women interested and in line. TRP will not help you keep a women. if anything it will drive them away. look how many MRP's get divorced within a year of "unplugging"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 06:19 PM
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Islamic refugees who love few things better than a spot of taharrush at the bahnhof. So feminism is to blame for women getting rape in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 06:12 PM
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No. Sexual strategy is fine. Everyone has moves for dates. I will agree that most "betas" would benefit from learning some techniques with women. TRP often is helpful with first date moves and such. Thats why so many guys get pulled in, they try those small things and they finally get them the results they have been after their whole lives. The thing is any person who has a good dating life could have told them that information without having it attached to ideas like "all women are dumb whores.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 06:03 PM
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Modern feminism is actually destroying civilization This is what you said. If beta's make better societies, how is feminism destroying society by encouraging more betas?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:52 PM
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Modern feminism is actually destroying civilization How? You just said that beta men are good at building and maintaining civilizations. Feminist want more men to be beta, according to trp. Wouldnt feminist making more betas lead to a better civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:45 PM
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Here's a thing for BluePillers to understand, what many guys over at TRP want is to NOT BE A BETA. These guys don't want to be a BB, they want to be the 3:00 am booty-call, they want to be the guy whom a woman wants because he inspires the tingles (AF), not the guy that she just uses for the resources, commitment, and security he provides (BB). We understand this.... all trp cares about is getting laid. We have that they use misogyny and manipulations to get even the tiniest scraps of sex. I hon…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:35 PM
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who says this? Its honestly horse shit. I dont know one person who would advise someone to stay in a relationship they arent happy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 04:28 PM
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what constitutes 'success' with women Being happy with your current situation. That is my only definition of success. If you are a 23 year old guy who has only slept with one women who he is about to marry, and you are happy with this, GREAT! Good for you! Would I want that? No, not in a million years. Would that guy want my life? I dont know and do not care! People want different things in life. People are capable of different things in their life. There is no standard for success.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 03:20 PM
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wouldnt that just mean that the men of TRP would loose even less value? They struggle to be alpha as it is! Imagine how low they would be if they raised the bar...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 12:31 AM
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ohhh noooooooo, I've been outed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 12:29 AM
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none
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 10:55 PM
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my role? who said im beta lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 10:54 PM
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Go by this information! Be bold, but know when you've crossed the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 07:52 PM
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EXACTLY!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 07:44 PM
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and men dont?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 07:41 PM
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haha yea, I could literally just edit to post to say im joking and they still wouldnt get it. I just like making them back track and "hamster" up ideas "Were like this because of natural urges" "oh wait, natures like that? we're above natural urges!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 07:32 PM
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Nah uh!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:58 PM
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aww, thanks for recognizing im a person in power =)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:39 PM
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So that's what fake it until you make it means? sorry to let you know, not everyone makes it....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:31 PM
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Thats a lot of words to say you only care about getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:30 PM
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Nah I dont believe this at all. I just think its funny to poke holes in the entire RP ideology because its all bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:29 PM
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The world doesnt give a fuck if men feel happy and content.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:27 PM
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so you literally on care about getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:18 PM
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"Also if you cant tell that a woman man is wearing makeup actually a beta you deserve to get tricked lol" not the same. Make up on the outside, beta is on the inside
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:16 PM
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starvation or dehydration Those things kill you. You dont need sex to survive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:09 PM
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If they're really that good at pretending to be an alpha then maybe they actually are one. Its clearly stated in TRP that if you need them you arent a true Alpha.... You didn't address my point that alpha is not always good and beta is not always bad. Then why do women leave beta's for alphas?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:02 PM
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The amount of "My dad was a beta so im a beta" posts on TRP tell me otherwise....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:00 PM
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It's not that you can't tell a woman is wearing makeup. If a guy knows shes wearing makeup, why would he consider her higher value. That doesnt make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 06:00 PM
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So shouldnt you do you duty and become and stay a beta? or atleasst not help others become un-beta. It seems you are just trying to make the world into a situation with 50 kings by teaching everyone the red pill secrets
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 05:57 PM
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They still wouldnt be true alpha's. At best they would be interesting beta's Alpha's dont need to be told the information on trp, they know it naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 05:51 PM
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No, they should learn how to handle their celibacy like an adult...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 05:51 PM
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It's true that betas "pretending" to be alphas are circumventing sexual selection in a sense, but the same can be said for a lot of things, including women's make up. They are going way past just sexual selection. If they marry or impregnate any women they could be muddying good alpha genes. Also, make up has been around much longer than TRP. Also if you cant tell that a woman is wearing makeup you deserve to get tricked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 05:50 PM
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200+ years ago. You talked about all men getting a wife, that was a problem. Thats why we have so men beta men today, betas can only make more betas. Best they can become is a fake alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 05:41 PM
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nah, im pretty sure you needed more than that to get a good woman. Also, if you had a shitty wife your kids wouldnt survive. So if a beta gets with a low quality woman than chances are their kids would have died in her care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 05:37 PM
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Social constructs made sure that most men get a wife and manage to reproduce. Not every man had a wife. If you had nothing to offer why would a woman want to be with oyu?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 05:32 PM
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Im not saying kill them, JFC. Im just saying it should be a beta's duty to recognize that he has inferior genes and does not deserve to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 05:32 PM
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okay, maybe not only alpha's, but a much smaller number betas were reproducing than today.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 05:30 PM
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I'm not playing dumb. I just want to know you're explanation for this. You said in your previous post "In short - by simply appearing there, they've already given their consent to become part of the mating dance." when it applied to women getting grinded on without their verbal consent. Why do the same rules not apply to a man getting grinded on?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 11:42 AM
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The reactions were, as was to be expected, varying grades of hostile. As was their right, see above. Why was it expected that they be hostel? Shouldnt those guys have expected to be grinded on in the first place? they've already given their consent to become part of the mating dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 03:01 AM
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idk man, he ugly af to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 04:35 PM
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Me and my friends always say there are two teams of attractiveness for guys. Team Man Love - guys with beards, bulky, ect Team Young Boy Charm - Slender good looking guys Prince was the captain of team young boy charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 02:17 PM
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No, I have a high count so I have told people it was lower to not have them start asking questions. No, I lost my virginity in HS and if I had told people I did shit with a girl they would be ask her if it was true. No, but I have had a girl say she slept with me when we really didnt No, I see no point in bragging about my sexual experiences in the first place so why would I make up fake ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 02:13 PM
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So how is trp different from a conservative/masculine safe space? Also can you give examples of a conservative safe space?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 12:40 AM
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