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If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't leave him, but I would leave for a while. Like, I'd stay at a friend's or family member's house for a week to show I mean business. But of course, that may not be an option for you.
/r/RedPillWives15/12/17 12:23 AM
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Yeah sorry I agree with you completely -- that's what I meant partly by "lackadaisical attitude" -- like posting and casually laying out facts
/r/RedPillWives11/11/17 12:42 AM
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My opinion is a bit different from the rest... If you truly haven't slept with any other women, and only made out with another woman once during the entire relationship, that is not terrible. If my husband made out with some other woman for five minutes, but was drunk and didn't do anything else with her, I'd forgive him. Like it's not ideal, and sucks, but kissing is really not that intimate of a thing. shrugs BUT... the smoking, the alcohol, the past of being a "fuck boi" -- and in general you…
/r/RedPillWives10/11/17 10:38 PM
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First, you are so brave for posting on here, and your post is not a downer at all but an inspiration! My advice is this -- guys might assume that you physically can't have sex, and see that as a dealbreaker. I don't know how you could gracefully dispel that myth, but I think it's worth doing. For various complicated reasons, most people in college assumed I was a total prude (i.e. was not into sex at all/would not even make out with people/etc.). I think that drove a lot of potential dates away.…
/r/RedPillWives10/11/17 07:23 AM
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I need to do this more. I keep wearing pants but my husband loves skirts.
/r/RedPillWives22/10/17 06:17 AM
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Here I am, exactly the opposite at six feet tall. Haha. But I also sew a bit, and made some long shirts that fit me well. I always wanted to learn more but now I have a baby and no time :|
/r/RedPillWives22/10/17 06:14 AM
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As /u/teenmom86 said, think of the good things he has said and hold on to them. I was in a very similar situation: About 4 months into the relationship with my now-husband, he said something that hurt me a lot: when he first met me, he didn't think I was attractive. I agonized over this comment for months, years really, but I realized from his actions and words it was pretty obvious that he DID find me attractive after. And also, about a year into the relationship I started dressing better, and …
/r/RedPillWives15/10/17 07:41 PM
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I second this. If I were in your shoes I would probably quit school, or make whatever sacrifices I need to about it, and just move in with him.
/r/RedPillWives05/09/17 09:20 PM
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Why are separate beds so awful/talked against in the comments? My husband and I have slept in separate beds our entire marriage (a bit over 1 year so far.) The longest we've gone without a sexual encounter since marriage is about one week. Usually we have sex 2-3 times a week. And we have a four month old son. Sleeping apart is totally unrelated to intimacy, IMO. If we shared a bed we'd never get any sleep.
/r/RedPillWives02/09/17 01:54 AM
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Yay! BabyBumps and BeyondTheBump are so liberal and SJW-y that I don't go there anymore. I think one person even said she was worried about the health of her fetus because she was so stressed out about the aftermath of the 2016 election. eyeroll My tips are: it gets so much easier after your baby is 3 months old, so just try to survive those months, and then you should be fine! Also, accept all the help you can from your and your SO's parents. Also stock up on things you can eat that require <5 …
/r/RedPillWives20/08/17 03:31 AM
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If you limit your search to Christian groups -- like college Christian groups, for example -- you will find what you're looking for. Most men there are looking for a wife, and are willing to wait (and probably are waiting themselves!). Whether my husband and I waited is complicated -- we kind of did, but not really -- but I am confident he would not have left me even if I demanded no sex until marriage. However, don't blurt something like that out until you've been dating a month or so. I think …
/r/RedPillWives16/08/17 10:15 PM
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Thanks for the explanation!
/r/MensRights26/07/17 08:31 PM
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I thought Fisher was in '92 and Smart in '90
/r/MensRights26/07/17 08:02 PM
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I don't understand. Why isn't this a good argument? It's an example of how men are given much worse prison sentences for similar crimes that happened around the same time. Are you saying it's just a bad argument because it's only one instance, instead of data with a large sample size?
/r/MensRights26/07/17 07:08 PM
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I'm going to play devil's advocate for a second. Suppose this non-binary gender thing gets out of control, and 50 years from now we're all nongendered individuals who go by some ridiculous pronouns like xee/xer. (Shudder.) Guess what? It's going to be an accomplishment for even a xeemale to marry. Who wants to put up with someone else leaving dirty dishes in the sink, singing badly in the shower, and getting cranky for a lifetime? Marriage in of itself is an accomplishment, even if you strip gen…
/r/RedPillWives14/07/17 07:43 PM
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This might possibly be the best post I have read on Reddit, ever.
/r/RedPillWives14/07/17 07:18 PM
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Yeah, that's something that always bothered me about the feminist movement. WOMEN ARE NOT A MINORITY. In fact, men are, I believe, since women live longer.
/r/MensRights10/07/17 06:34 AM
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