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Open doors for them, and ask a lot of questions about them. Make the date about them more than you. Complement her and make excellent eye contact. Be flirty and playful. If she lets you hold her hand she is normally willing to kiss you at the end of the date.
/r/seduction21/03/18 04:05 PM
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Go to a BDSM or KIK group
/r/seduction21/03/18 04:02 PM
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I am naturally flirty and am good at reading people so I think that is part of it at times. Normally if I kiss them in the bar it is easier to close out with sex. However, at the end of the day it's all a numbers game really. It never hurts for more kino or more verbally flirting. You know if a girl is into you and it is just making them as comfortable as possible. You are welcome and let me know if you ever have questions happy to help.
/r/seduction14/03/18 02:10 AM
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I have worked on my game for years and pulled off this one twice in hundreds of attempts. Convictional is right with his statement. I have been slapped, kicked out of bars, and had drinks tossed in my face. Knowing they want to get down is key and if they are a bit whorey is helps. I am not the best looking guy but definitely am confident and am good at same day closing. Normally I will go back and hang with them sometimes it would work out with sex sometimes not. However, only twice have I falt…
/r/seduction13/03/18 07:50 PM
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Hi I understand where you are coming from and sorry and congratulations on your divorce. I know it sounds weird to say both but I have been in your position and know the feeling you get. It is freeing but scary at the same time. My suggestion is reading anything you can find. I personally like The Game by Neal Strauss as a starter book because it talks about tons of people doing PUA and how they do it and you can get an idea of what style works for you. I use a blended style also I have meet a l…
/r/seduction23/12/16 03:02 PM
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Thank you I appreciate that.
/r/seduction22/12/16 07:45 PM
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Her guard was done because she was on a date normally women are more prone to conversations when this happens also the grass is always greener kinda thing. It is awesome you felt a spark however I never try to get a girl that is on a date or in a relationship. I feel it is against the guy code and we have to look out for each other.
/r/seduction22/12/16 05:49 PM
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Ask her what she likes and to show you what she likes. You will come off as wanting to please her and you do not have to tell her that your still have the v-card.
/r/seduction21/12/16 06:31 PM
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Delete her flat out. There is no question about this and the only reason you are still hung up on her is because you are still following her on social media. Remove her from your life completely so you do not have to see her. Do not creep her profile to see what she is up to and find something else to focus on. Read a book, play a video game, learn an instrument. Better yourself so you feel better about yourself. I really hopes this helps and I feel for you bro I have been there and it sucks the…
/r/seduction21/12/16 06:29 PM
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Do it flat out she wants sex this is basically all she will want. Learn new things try new things found out new things you might like. I will never ever ever turn down a good looking cougar.
/r/seduction20/12/16 09:55 PM
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I dated a girl like this and it sucked the life out of me. I felt repressed and thought I needed to stay around because it was the right thing to do or it is what was expected of me. Shitty sex turns to no sex which turns to beating off like an ape in heat on a desert island alone. Jump off the island and swim to the main land and find some new. I understand she has redeeming qualities which is good but does not sound like you want what you have.
/r/seduction20/12/16 09:36 PM
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For sure dude I have seen a lot of girls gain weight and lose it especially if they are motivated. Good luck!
/r/seduction20/12/16 08:20 PM
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Nope I am decent looking and have the confidence of a Gorilla and am funny on top of it. I hope you get more confidant about yourself and once you do you will be unstoppable.
/r/seduction20/12/16 08:03 PM
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Dump her. Why would you get with her if the sex sucks that bad. I can understand as a booty call but from what you are saying it sounds like she is a dead fish and that is not good. However if you actually care for talk to her tell her what you like and what to do if she does not listen dump her. If you are not happy it will show and just turn the relationship sorry in a hurry.
/r/seduction20/12/16 07:50 PM
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You cannot help what you find attractive I get that but you should still go out with her just do not act physical with her. If you break it off she will ask what changed and at that point you can man up and tell the truth or lie your choice. Me personally I would go out and make a new friend you cannot have to many of those. Who knows maybe she has lost weight you should ask her to Skype so you can see more of her this is a easy way to tell. Finally if she does try and make a move and you shun h…
/r/seduction20/12/16 07:07 PM
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I like bowling it is fun and you can drink there plus if conversation falls off you can go bowl.
/r/seduction20/12/16 02:56 PM
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I have meet people that have open relationships and people that swing and the ones I meet have great relationships. Everyone I knew both parties slept with other people and they were approved by their significant other and sometimes rules and boundaries apply to avoid attachments which can happen. I do not know if everyone that has relationships like this operate that way but I am sure most due. You are right sex is sex and that is what is viewed as. I was in a long term swing with some people I…
/r/seduction16/12/16 08:34 PM
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I am 31 and know what you are saying however you are getting past the honeymoon stage in dating at 6 months in my opinion and start noticing things that you do not like about them. If you really care about the person and love them you should stay however I think someone can fall in love with anyone they are attracted to since love is a chemical reaction. I would go out and party meet new chicks once you get settled down and married or have a kid that stuff stops pretty quick and you still young …
/r/seduction16/12/16 08:15 PM
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Cut your loses she sounds flaky and you do not need that. Do not miss your moment next time because once they go they might never come back. Take an advantage given. Live and learn sorry it did not work out.
/r/seduction16/12/16 03:12 PM
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I did not go to a University but did go to community college when I got out of the Military and it was kinda a different because people were older and tended to stick with people going for the same thing. When I was in High school I had friends but was not the top of the food chain. However it sounds like you are comfortable talking to anyone and do not have a problem approaching people. As long as you stay like that you should do fine. I always suggest reading some of the books out there just t…
/r/seduction15/12/16 01:57 PM
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Okay most of the time people forget even though women are different most things we have in common. I was reading yesterday and I do not remember who said it but he was saying when Men do not add to the conversation it is because they do not think they have anything important to add because they do not have self esteem or confidence. They can Neg and be an asshole but do not think they can contribute to the conversation. This is not true all the time you can run that game. But that is a different…
/r/seduction15/12/16 01:51 PM
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I understand this it takes time some people take more time to find self worth however if is Self Worth because you yourself have to find it. I just let him know what worked for me I never really cared about what people thought of me so I was lucky I guess. You have to find what you like about yourself and accomplishing task does make you feel like you did something.
/r/seduction14/12/16 08:46 PM
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I have never tried getting back with an ex but I know you should be yourself. She feel in love with you right. You had a relationship too. Take things slow and let them work out. Make sure you are able to love yourself because if you cannot you cannot love her like she deserves. If she needs time to sort things out and out where things are at. You not pushing her into another relationship will go along way and show you really care and want to support her even if it affects you negatively.
/r/seduction14/12/16 06:16 PM
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I did not let it change me it sucked but whatever right. One of my favorite qualities is I roll with everything and tend not to let things upset me. I heard most place outside of the US college is free.
/r/seduction14/12/16 04:27 PM
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Totally I was "That Guy" it really sucked because I just got out of an abusive relationship where my ex actually would hit me and cheated on me while pregnant when I was on my second tour in Iraq. I was just making up for lost time and trying to stop the pain which was wrong to treat people like that. I did have a genuine affection for them and let them know my intentions but sometimes people think it is just something you are saying to be edgy when it was all I had intended us to be.
/r/seduction14/12/16 04:17 PM
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It does happen girls and guys both talk. I ruing a community college for myself by sleeping with a lot of different girls withing the first semester and it killed my first year there. Once new people came in I was quick to act on it but yes it can ruin chances with new meetings.
/r/seduction14/12/16 03:50 PM
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I used to list the things I liked about myself in my head and kept building worth for myself. I am very very extroverted to begin with and was always the center of attention when I went place so this was not a problem for me. But I was picked on in school I fought back because that is who I am. But I did not think I was attractive it was not until my senior year did I really start coming into my own. I lost my virginity at 19 because I wanted to I did not do it before that because I did not want…
/r/seduction14/12/16 03:28 PM
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Bro you need to be able to love yourself first and see value in yourself. Hooking up with hot chicks is fun but you still feel empty inside if you have no self love. I could give you ways to hookup with women and get girls but that is not what you need now. I have read a lot of different books talked to tons of people who run game and the general consensus is be confidant in who you are and love yourself. Confidence is key among other things but if you do not love yourself you will continue to s…
/r/seduction14/12/16 02:59 PM
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I love to open by myself to a group or single person. msmiitz is right being friendly to the staff really helps especially if you go their often. You get drinks faster they know you and say hi if they remember your name it is really good because it shows your personable and safe. I will normally say whatever comes to mind however I do like say stupid things often because I know I can and it works. My personal favorite is "2 ton Polar Bear" which everyone will say what "breaks the ice right" most…
/r/seduction14/12/16 02:20 PM
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I really liked The Game by Neal Strauss and Secrets of Speed Seduction Mastery by Ross Jeffries. There is a free PDF online for the second one and it is really interesting to me especially since I like Psychology and things of that nature. The Game is good because it gives a wide spectrum on pickups and different people Neal hung out with. Mystery and Ross Jeffries and other people and describe there way of the pickup. He also had something called "The Cube" which is cool because it helps you se…
/r/seduction14/12/16 02:06 PM
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So true I have good eye contact but I really want to check out that Lazer eye you have been talking about. D'Angelo is awesome I really like that style game and it is typically how I run.
/r/seduction13/12/16 08:59 PM
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Then rejection didn't matter. "There's someone else to talk to. Fuck everyone I'm the best there is." You said it perfectly right here I second this.
/r/seduction13/12/16 06:14 PM
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This is one thing that is hard to get over it will take time and a lot of work on your part to see value in yourself personally. What I used to do and still do time from time is in my head state what I like about myself and tell myself I have value. Also once you understand getting shot down is not the end of the world and that there are tons of other people that find what you have to offer this will help too. It sounds you think you are better than the person what they say cannot bother you. I …
/r/seduction13/12/16 05:54 PM
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This is where things get weird everyone runs a different type of game I tend to be really outgoing and funny but this often backfires because I really have to work on staying quite. You do not have to automatically try and touch her after 30 min. Not every time you go out will you pull someone home or have them pull you home. It is really nice when this happens but it is not always guaranteed. I suggest if she is not responding to your advancements play the slow game enjoy her company and keep w…
/r/seduction13/12/16 03:59 PM
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Dude it sounds like you are moving forward with no IOI's and are already in the friend zone. I have had some luck moving of the friend zone but the relationships did not work. I suggest meeting someone new and just working game unless you are in love with the person and are willing to lose them in your life if the relationship goes south.
/r/seduction13/12/16 03:41 PM
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I just say Fuck it and do it. I remind myself that I am awesome even if I do not feel like I am. I keep building myself up to myself by listing what I like about me over and over in my head. It sounds weird but works for me I an Cocky but in a good way if that makes sense.
/r/seduction13/12/16 03:29 PM
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Hey I have meet a lot of people that are good looking that do not do well with woman. I am really glad you came into your own. You are right confidence is key it is like they can smell it on you. I got to where I knew I would hook up so I push boundaries and said stupid stuff more often to see what I could get away with. I will check him out I really want to work on my quite and mystery. I always try and be the center of attention to show me as Alpha.
/r/seduction13/12/16 03:20 PM
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My game is on point I was asking what other people run for their game. I have been running game since 2006 when I first found The Game by Neal Strauss. Right now I am 31 and will be 32 next month 5 11 decant looking and 145 lb so it is really easy to get someone 18-24 right now and older than that even easier because it has gotten to the point they are either crazy or single with a kid. I will still pull a cougar every now and again for variety. I tend to mix styles I run Negs say whatever reall…
/r/seduction13/12/16 01:38 PM
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At one point game stops it really does marriage is a whole new ballpark. I understand sex is a thing and it will not keep someone around I did not even start to breakdown the sub facets to a good marriage because I have never been married. I have been engaged 5 times but stuff did not work out in the long run for various reasons. I will agree with you about needing something to keep someone but it takes both people at that point. My grandma always said marries is equal parts both people have to …
/r/seduction13/12/16 01:31 PM
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Cleavage and glitter all you need to know. I remember there was a girl in high school she was not really good looking kinda like Toucan Sam's little sister but she always wore low cut types 36C tons of cleavage and that glitter makeup stuff on them and this is why still to this day I think of her and got a C in that class. I really hope this helps. Good luck.
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:28 PM
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I am personally all about self-improvement however girls do not really have to work as hard to get a guy as guys have to.
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:25 PM
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I have really learned girls like funny guys it is crazy. Confidence is another thing that helps to a girl can tell when a guy is comfortable with who they are and it makes them comfortable too. I have seen a lot of PUA online and some seem staged or fake. I have struck out more times than I can remember but 10 no's and one yes is still one yes. One of my favorite lines to use is Do you have a boyfriend? and if she says no say "Good me either" it makes it more relaxed when asking that question an…
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:19 PM
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I understand what you are saying. The way I have come to understand it and how I run my game for the most part is I let them do all the work. Once my approach is done and we are talking I let her tell me about her and normally will make little jokes about what she says or contribute to the conversation. I typically wait for 3 IOI's before I show an IOI to her. This is how you can stay aloof and still show interest however do not over do it. Grab her hand and pick it up look at it and set it down…
/r/seduction12/12/16 08:24 PM
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I really need to work on my Text game my in person game is on point but I am 31 so texting and social media is not really my thing.
/r/seduction12/12/16 06:14 PM
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I can tell you first and foremost own that shit bro girls like bigger guys I get shit because I am skinny a lot from girls and they say you should gain weight. Next is finding what game works for you or what games to use together to work for you. I cannot say it enough but read about what types of games there are and try them out. It will take time for the anxiety to stop but deep breaths help a lot. Finally try online where you can text and message someone this really takes the anxiety out of t…
/r/seduction12/12/16 06:01 PM
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If you have been hurt in the past it is really hard to trust again I have been there. My second deployment in Iraq I come home and find out my ex was seeing someone for over a year. I got very clingy with a few girls and they left. First if you are always the Alpha and can maintain that you should be good. Also Kalolilo is right sometimes talking to other woman makes more confident because you have options and will give you more in the relationship. It is really hard though to get past that weir…
/r/seduction12/12/16 05:45 PM
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Just get to class early and talk to him be bold and up front. Give him your number and tell him to text you or something like that. I am 31 so I do not use a lot of social media but if you and him do have him follow you on there and talk through that if it makes you more comfortable than giving him your number. This is also really easy to approach since mostly everyone your age has one. Walk up to him and introduce your self ask him how he likes the class and what he is going to school for if th…
/r/seduction12/12/16 05:40 PM
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That is really good you can tell when there is chemistry it is undeniable but when there is a date that is in between you really do not know if they see you again they do or they don't. I have said the same cheesy line for ever I had a really good time tonight and I would really enjoy seeing you again. If they say sure hit them with the follow up of does Friday or Saturday work better for you.
/r/seduction12/12/16 05:35 PM
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You can always try and work it where you just like to flirt just never get serious and assuming makes an ass out of you and me. However I think we can get past this together and prove all of them wrong. I can understand why your friends are protective of you, you are very pretty. However if you let everyone tell you how to live your life you never actually live it for yourself. Right there you have complemented her and she for sure knows you are interested you called her friends out which she wi…
/r/seduction12/12/16 05:32 PM
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Take the date on Wednesday if she can go man. I can understand what you mean about one night stands I have kinda grown out of them but still will not turn one down if offered.
/r/seduction12/12/16 05:17 PM
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Being good in bed is a good thing however kalolilo is right you still need to be Alpha and run game. I have a saying you used to be interesting but than we had sex. Having a booty call is great however if you are looking long term with someone wait on the physical because it adds to the mood of the dates. You still have the nervous energy with each other which I love and think is my favorite part. Next time ask what night works better and give her two options and let her pick it gives her the po…
/r/seduction12/12/16 05:08 PM
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I am always that guy and it always works in my favor. I went to the Upper Peninsula in Michigan to see my Cousins mom who I had not seen in years and hang out and drink and try and hook up with random girls in small towns. First night their I close in 30 seconds with the dumbest line and I was drunk to which was nice. Than we go to meet some friends and there was this really attractive 32 year old I knew I had to sleep with so I start talking to her and she is distant. I know how small towns can…
/r/seduction12/12/16 05:02 PM
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The 3 second rule is a good thing however when you have mystery it is like Chum in the water for females. This is what I find hard to do since I am very extroverted when out and had to work really hard on when to stop talking and let them come to me. If this situation should arise again. You can sit back for a moment or two and let the tension build before talking it makes you seem less desperate. I do suggest asking if it is okay to sit down this does break the ice some but still allows for the…
/r/seduction12/12/16 04:22 PM
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I read a lot anything I can find about anything I try and read because it makes your mind keep working. Watch a lot of stand up and look for something that could translate to your situation. Try and find 3 things to use in any situation and you have a good start. Being witty with retorts is hard especially because that is another thing that does not come easy for some people. I would have said It looks really nice however I hope he gets you pants that go with it next time he sees you. This could…
/r/seduction12/12/16 04:12 PM
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Sounds like a setup women are sneaky like that however be honest most of the time I have learned girls will still flirt and banter because they know nothing will happen from it and it is fun to do or they want what they cannot have and are trying to get it. When I am single and run game and started running the game I would always ask at one point "Do you have a boyfriend?" if they said no I would respond "Good me either" which always gets a decent laugh and lightens the mood on what you just ask…
/r/seduction12/12/16 03:50 PM
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You got a date not every time do you get the score. You sound like you were running a good game however I never try and pick up a girl and sometimes I have found that over doing it with the IOI's is a bad thing. Sometimes girls in a comfortable situation will allow it especially if there is a male friend around. All I can say is keep running the game that works for you and you will keep getting better and better. From reading this you sound like you stay relaxed which is key and can be funny whi…
/r/seduction12/12/16 03:39 PM
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I like dressing up and see it helps but I do not like going to the bar like I am going to work (I work at a law firm) I wear skinny jeans they are not tight on me and look like I cannot breath however they are not super baggy. I will wear a dress shit with them or a band tee and I find it works well. A lot of the time when people dress up their confidence goes up especially if they do not dress like that normally. I can personally suggest to any man getting a pair of dark blue straight legged je…
/r/seduction12/12/16 03:32 PM
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I recommend breathing as simple and stupid as it sounds it does help. Also it is one of those things you will get over after time some people just get nervous. I am glad you got the approach down. I can also suggest finding topics you know they will know and learning little facts about it and than let them do most of the talking. Every girl wants to tell you about them so let them you learn what you can use and cannot. Hope this helps.
/r/seduction12/12/16 03:25 PM
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Like Revente said confidence goes a long way but there is different game for different woman. I have learned personally Humor works 80% of the time. I read comics play video games and read fantasy novels. I have a nerdy side but know how to make it seem fun to a woman and that what helps. Check out Speed Suction and NLP.
/r/seduction12/12/16 02:33 PM
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I really like that revente and I am going to have to check out Models.
/r/seduction12/12/16 02:29 PM
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Item of interest she touches your arm or you touch hers and she doesn't pull away it is basic subtext reading really. It is the first sign you look for before you start running more game and trying to close once you get a kiss there is a 70% chance your in.
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:27 PM
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I feel you dietturds except the good looking thing which I know I am not hot and have had few woman tell me this but I still score. Good luck with being comfortable with yourself I have met a lot of really good looking people that have a hard time hooking up. Remember you are special because you are you no one can take that away Rock that shit.
/r/seduction09/12/16 09:50 PM
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True but I understand what he is saying with no IOI and her just needing a place to stay. She might play interested and not move forward for free place to sleep.
/r/seduction09/12/16 09:43 PM
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When they are saying "be yourself" they mean be confidant being you. It takes practice it does not happen overnight I thought it would and was horrible wrong. I have had drinks thrown in my face been slapped because a Neg went wrong or I was to drunk and seemed like a ass. Their is NLP "Neuro-Linguistic Programming" which I have seen work and if you are in the area where they trust you enough to stay over but separate rooms it might help. There is a free PDF online and I have used it before it d…
/r/seduction09/12/16 09:24 PM
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I like this it is really good. Knowing the local anything makes you look cultured and not like you just sit at home all day. But I try doing the does Monday or Friday thing. I love open ended questions the woman feels like she is in control and normally if both days I give do not work she will tell me when she is free to do something if she is interested.
/r/seduction09/12/16 09:13 PM
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Bowling hands down even if you suck at it you can joke around about it and I still have not had a girl that was super serious about it. There are other people around pitchers or beer, jukebox, and bar food. Most places are smoke free now and it is active enough where there is no weird silence because you can take you turn and there is no time limit if you hit a really good topic.
/r/seduction09/12/16 09:10 PM
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I do not like playing inn keeper and if I get that vibe I do not even bother I have closed without IOI but I think I was a last resort who knows and I did not care at the time. I do want to say if you really like the person building up an emotional relationship before the physical is really nice and make for a long term thing. My dad used to say it is easier to apologize than ask permission and that is what I live by. If I try and kiss and she would pull away I would say am I moving to slow and …
/r/seduction09/12/16 09:02 PM
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DO not ask direct questions at times. Use open ended questions like your place or mine let them decided. It is like sales you lead them the way you want to go but let them make the decisions the whole time.
/r/seduction09/12/16 08:54 PM
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Dude everyone has to run their own game how it works for them. I am an average looking guy nothing special. But I have confidence and am funny. Depending on my situation I will run a Neg or two in there but normally I just joke around. I typically know if I get a girl into my house and are drinking I will get a kiss and 70% of the time if we kiss we are hooking up. You just have to feel out the mood in the air. I normally try and build them up for it before getting back to my place.
/r/seduction09/12/16 08:50 PM
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