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| 18 | Sweden's Going to Grade Movies for Gender Equality... | Blue_Shoes_2 | /r/MensRights | 01/03/14 06:16 PM |
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| 10 | Had an argument with a Friend about feminismYou could try and start with a series of yeses... emphasize that FGM is horrible, that rape is horrible, that domestic abuse is horrible, and she'll be like, Hell yeah. Then ask her why we accept MGM without question, why the systemic rape of men in prison is a comedic punch line, and why half of the victims of domestic violence aren't taken seriously. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/18 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Had an argument with a Friend about feminismIt seems to be widely accepted that our gay friends are at an elevated risk of suicide. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suicide_among_LGBT_youth | /r/MensRights | 01/02/18 03:49 AM |
| 1 | bad sex is not a crimeI bloody well wouldn't have dated her too... Ansari met her when she was at a party, having been brought there on a date by a different guy. So basically, she cheated (or, at the very least, showed a shocking and humiliating lack of loyalty) so why in the Hell would any guy want to date her? I think his mistake was having sex with her in the first place, however, it's a free country and that means that there must be no legal ramifications for having consensual sex. As for the public outcry, he w… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/18 12:17 AM |
| 21 | The UK is fucked"If you aren't going to sleep with me, why am I buying you anything?" | /r/MGTOW | 22/01/18 09:44 PM |
| 48 | Feminist writer tries to start a fight with a guy in a bar for no reasonthe gaze of one eye landing on my forehead, the other on the windowsill to my left Ah, so he was ugly, that's why she got upset. Now I got it. | /r/MGTOW | 16/01/18 08:23 PM |
| 25 | The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari. Allegations against the comedian are proof that women are angry, temporarily powerful—and very, very dangerous.In case anyone isn't aware, Aziz Ansari is 5'6", which is taller than the average American woman but only by two inches... and judging by his appearance, I think we can safely agree that he is not a profound physical threat to most people. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/18 03:33 AM |
| 13 | The Future is HereIt actually makes perfect sense... they want women to not be judged for being sexual, and they want women to have the power to torpedo men with whom they don't have the sexual/romantic relationship that they desire. It's a rather thinly veiled power grab. | /r/MGTOW | 15/01/18 08:23 PM |
| 36 | The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari. Allegations against the comedian are proof that women are angry, temporarily powerful—and very, very dangerous.To be honest, what Louis did was pretty gross, and I can understand why a young person might be like, "lol, sure" if someone they looked up to asked if they could jack off... the man was a comedian and they probably thought it was a joke at first. At the same time, there really wasn't an element of coercion, let alone a threat of physical force. He didn't say, watch me jack off or I'll torpedo your career, or, watch me jack off or I'll kill you. He simply asked if he could jack off and they agre… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/18 08:17 PM |
| 14 | The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari. Allegations against the comedian are proof that women are angry, temporarily powerful—and very, very dangerous.I'm with you man, and it's pretty sad... girls and young women can learn a lot from men (just as boys and young men can learn from women) and to totally end that possibility of mentorship because of a not unjustified fear of accusations... it's really unfortunate. It's also kind of funny. We live in an era of unprecedented peace and safety, with murder orders of magnitude less common than it was in yesteryear, when women can go around alone at night, even buzzed, without a significant fear of be… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/18 08:14 PM |
| 43 | The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari. Allegations against the comedian are proof that women are angry, temporarily powerful—and very, very dangerous.The answer is that the majority, even the vast majority of women are decent people. However, the social tides are turning and we are quickly getting to a point where every awkward/subideal sexual experience ever may be reviewed with a fine toothed comb, months/years later, by the public writ large, with only one side of the story being told. And all it takes is one accusation... even unsubstantiated, such an event can seriously fuck your life up. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/18 08:10 PM |
| 52 | The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari. Allegations against the comedian are proof that women are angry, temporarily powerful—and very, very dangerous.Yeah, it sounds like an overall bad sexual experience, and while it does seem like Ansari may have been pushy or awkward/creepy, the lady doesn't seem blameless herself... she never said no or otherwise made it clear that she wasn't interested, and she gave him oral sex which is an act that requires active effort... so even though it was an awkward/bad sexual situation, it doesn't necessarily mean that he harassed or assaulted her, or used a position of power to coerce her into sex. He may well … | /r/MensRights | 15/01/18 08:09 PM |
| 13 | The thirst is real.You know, politically, I think that people should be allowed to do what they want with their own possessions and bodies. As such, I think that prostitution should be legal with minimal restrictions to counter human trafficking and sexual slavery. With that said, there are few things which are likely to be worse for an advanced society than widespread prostitution. It encourages/enables men to spend lots of money sleeping with extremely attractive women who will never give them the time of day, a… | /r/MGTOW | 15/01/18 04:05 PM |
| 7 | Supreme Court to Rule Whether a Man Has a Constitutional Right Not to ProcreateYeah, this particular line caught my eye: Mandy counters that “no one has the right to tell me I have to kill my offspring.” And what of the embryos’ rights? You cannot be pro-choice or support hardly any abortion rights at all if you follow this logic. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/18 03:31 AM |
| 10 | Woman are superior, because patriarchyThat's the game these assholes play, they evade responsibility by saying it wasn't totally serious... Richard Spencer played off the Sieg Heiling he encouraged by saying it was "ironic" and it's hard to tell, because of his smug smarter-than-thou attitude, when he's just trying to get a rise out of you and when he's being utterly disgusting. He is both a troll and a racist, so I would say that the author of this genius work is both a troll and a sexist, who gets her kicks by annoying decent peop… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/18 01:52 AM |
| 0 | Correct me if I'm wrong but is this not sexual assault?I'm plenty of fun when I'm not being sexually assaulted. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/18 01:45 AM |
| 5 | How EXACTLY is this sexual assault? Her story is that he asked her to give him a blowjob, she said yes and gave him a blowjob. Isn't that like the definition of consent?Yeah. To me it seems like he was very creepy, inappropriate and wrong... but at the same time, we don't know if there was sexual tension between them beforehand, or if they were kissing, or what. The accuser said that she began to fellate him because she thought it would make him love her... so there is a chance that there were romantic/sexual feelings between them beforehand. It was inappropriate for someone in a position of power and authority to do that. But at the same time, he was only twen… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/18 12:12 AM |
| -1 | Correct me if I'm wrong but is this not sexual assault?If a random girl grabbed my ass, I'd slug her. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/18 11:37 PM |
| 266 | Foreskin Is The Active Ingredient In Oprah's Favorite Skin CreamThat's not the worst quote in this genius article. Yes, we are probably performing a totally unnecessary procedure – but we aren’t doing it because we think they are whores by nature who cannot be trusted with their libidos. Are you f*cking kidding me though? The idea that men are dogs who can't go for a few seconds without thinking about having every kind of sex with every woman everywhere at every time is rampant in modern Western society in Europe and the US, and circumcision indeed affects m… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/18 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Delusional Feminist gets hit on at gas stationOr, /r/thatHappened | /r/MensRights | 12/01/18 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Delusional Feminist gets hit on at gas stationYou can say the same exact thing about MGTOW, though. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/18 04:40 AM |
| 5 | The interviewer laughed at Deray speaking about being rapedBut don't you think it's kind of a coping mechanism? Joke about something horrible instead of letting it get you down? | /r/MensRights | 28/12/17 05:01 AM |
| -3 | Marilyn Manson to #MeToo movement: ‘Say it to police, not to the press’Or to a world that doesn't give a shit. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/17 02:39 AM |
| 1 | LEFTIST Professor Claims Eating Meat Promotes Toxic MasculinityWhat about women who eat meat? Also known as, most women on this planet, most of whom are also traditionally feminine... | /r/MensRights | 18/12/17 11:46 PM |
| 6 | Cosmopolitan: 8 reasons why cheating isn't that badLet me address points 7 and 8... If you are in a non-monogamous relationship, whether it's open on one end or both, whether it's polyamorous, whether it's partners on the side, whether it's only randos, whether only long term partners on the side are allowed or not... it's not fucking cheating. What makes cheating so taboo is not the sexual aspect in and of itself, it's the deceit, dishonesty, and disloyalty. TL;DR: be non-monogamous if you want and don't be ashamed of it. If you are going to be… | /r/MensRights | 17/12/17 05:20 AM |
| 11 | i'm beyond sure i'm not the first one to bring this up, but why is it only us guys that have to do this?I think you're on to something. At the moment, it seems that war is becoming a less and less popular manner of resolving problems, very fortunately. However, in the past, when war was just something human beings did, you have to wonder if it would have been scrapped earlier if women were victimized as much. Look at what happened in war crimes when women were targetted as much as or more than men: rapes in the Yugoslav breakup, for example. Everyone was shocked and the eyes of the world were on t… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/14 12:42 PM |
| 10 | Because beating up a man is funny...He's probably not quite old enough to really understand it one way or the other. It's almost like he's being conditioned to suffer and then "take it like a man". | /r/MensRights | 20/03/14 07:23 AM |
| 2 | More Than 900 Workers Have Already Died Building Qatar’s World Cup Facilities | The International Trade Union Confederation says that if conditions don’t improve, at least 4,000 migrants will die before kick-offSouth Asian laborers in the Middle East often have very, very difficult lives. In some cases they leave situations of unimaginable discrimination and poverty and manage to help themselves and their families. In other cases, they're out of the frying pan and into the fire. It would be good if India, Pakistan, Nepal, Sri Lanka, and others got together and started to demand that their citizens in the Middle East be given certain entitlements like possession of their passports, timely payment of wag… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Girl VS Guy Pickpocket Experiment!It would also be neat to see how much help a fat ugly guy would get in such a situation. Or, a fat, ugly black or brown guy. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/14 08:34 PM |
| 18 | My sister just shared this on Facebook. . . Pretty disappointedI have much more physiologically in common with a man of a different race than a woman of the same. So what? The fact that rape is a crime related to sexual reproduction makes it a much different crime from, say, theft. I don't think that rape's relation to sexual reproduction makes it its own class of crime. I'll give you that it's rather worse than theft, so you can replace "theft" with "murder" in my example. After all, black people murder far more than white people, and I'm sure that no reas… | /r/MensRights | 12/03/14 04:36 PM |
| 12 | Sorry, Men's Rights Activists, You Don't Have Abortion 'Rights'MRAs suggest that men are powerless with regard to impregnating women. No, we're only powerless to push for some better birth control. Yes there are condoms, no they're not 100% guaranteed to work. The annoying thing about this issue is that women can split having sex and being a parent. They can close their legs, use birth control, get abortions, get their children adopted, or take advantage of safe-haven laws. Men can close their legs or use birth control. Put another way, if a woman is pregna… | /r/MensRights | 12/03/14 04:25 PM |
| 24 | My sister just shared this on Facebook. . . Pretty disappointedIn our society, it's not necessarily clear that it's offensive to point out that generally (excluding prison rape) rapists are men and "rape-ees" are women. But just replace "rape" with "theft", "man" with "black man" and "woman" with "white man" and you'll quickly see why, regardless of what statistics have to say about the matter, it should be taken as highly offensive and hurtful to say something like what OP's sister did. After all, who on Earth would say, "Don't tell white people not to buy… | /r/MensRights | 12/03/14 04:11 PM |
| 2 | What should I say to this?That's how it should be, but some people seem to think of it as harassing when they're approached in a bar for the first time by someone. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/14 03:32 AM |
| 0 | What should I say to this?I think I have posted this question before: how are you supposed to know, beforehand, if a sexual advance is welcome or not, beforehand? Suppose you see a girl in a bar and you decide to approach her. You might not say anything sexual or even look at anything but her face, but I think we can all agree that this is a sexual or romantic advance. How are you supposed to know if it's welcome or not? If she makes eye contact with you as you approach, and smiles, you might assume that it's welcome. Bu… | /r/MensRights | 04/03/14 09:57 PM |
| 4 | WWI recruitment posters direct women to send their husbands, boyfriends off to war.The Libertarian Republic has posted this story on Facebook. Be sure to share it, it adds a couple of chilling anecdotes about the power feminists had to shame men into fighting in one of the most pointless wars in recent times. http://thelibertarianrepublic.com/feminists-sent-men-die/#axzz2uv4cGe5U EDIT: I actually think this is one of the best reasons there are to be skeptical of feminism. It wasn't just a bunch of radical, isolated weirdos who did this to Britain's male population. This was a … | /r/MensRights | 03/03/14 08:05 PM |
| 5 | WWI recruitment posters direct women to send their husbands, boyfriends off to war.You have a point. Sometimes, when I think about pro-war nutters like Ann Coulter, I sort of wish the military did let women into all combat positions (without lowering standards of course) so that they could put their money where their mouths are. IIRC, there was once a proposed constitutional amendment that would have everyone who votes in favor of war to volunteer for military service. This is a great idea in my opinion. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/14 06:04 PM |
| 9 | And Women suffer more in War then Men Hilary?You know, I started to wonder about the story behind those eight women... but then I realized that there are thousands and thousands and thousands of men whose stories about Vietnam will never be told! | /r/MensRights | 03/03/14 03:24 AM |
| 3 | And Women suffer more in War then Men Hilary?There's also the matter that men go through periods of emotional instability due to cyclic hormonal changes. We just don't happen to bleed out of an orifice at the same frequency of these times. But the science and the history is clear: men and women can both be irrational and unstable, and it's the very rare man or woman who I would trust to lead the largest military force in the history of the world. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/14 03:23 AM |
| 11 | Margaret Wente - "I used to think the war on men was an exaggeration. I don't anymore."That part struck me as really absurd. How dare these people try to tell us how to and how not to have sex. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/14 05:19 PM |
| 10 | Just learned that males commit suicide at a rate of 4-1 vs females, then I found this. Page 4 is scary as hell.Kind of makes the wage gap seem like not such a big deal, right? | /r/MensRights | 01/03/14 04:41 AM |
| 6 | "My Brother's Keeper" initiative from White House.Please debate in comments.You have made a number of assumptions about me again, and I am not going to give them credence by responding to them. Except for one: I am not of Native American heritage. My parents are from India. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/14 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Revenge-porn ruling fuels calls for ban on sending explicit photos without consentWell, if it's repeated, it could be considered harassment or grounds for a restraining order. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/14 01:08 AM |
| 7 | "My Brother's Keeper" initiative from White House.Please debate in comments.The left is the only safe space for minorities for better or worse and if they had to choose between feminism and what the right is offering then damn the rest, they'd take feminism. Better to be aligned with people who might harm men to help women than to join up with those who view your entire race as a threat to their power. I am an Indian-American atheist, and I am insulted that you would presume to speak for me. The Left is most certainly not a safe place for me, and part of the reason is t… | /r/MensRights | 01/03/14 12:46 AM |
| 110 | College claims that heavy breathing in the presence of a woman is "psychological rape"In my opinion, labeling certain acts (many of which are barely noticeable, let alone annoying) as "psychological rape" trivializes true rape and insults rape victims. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/14 08:05 PM |
| 6 | Woman slaps man on Live TV for asking her to let him answer[Youtube]That's the famous "how can she slap" video. Slightly off topic: I once got into an argument with an Indian-American feminist about Bollywood's portrayal of women, in which she claimed that women in Bollywood films were constantly being abused and even being raped. She then referred to this one movie (can't remember which), but when I looked it up, it turns out the female lead was going to be raped by the antagonist and some of his friends, but the male lead protected her and helped her escape. S… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/14 09:59 PM |
| 54 | Saw this on Facebook - This is the type of thing that really annoys me.Yeah, and if you did... wouldn't that be a shitty way to start a relationship? I'm no expert, but I wouldn't consider marrying someone unless there's a big element of synergy there. It can't be as simple as "I'm doing her a favor" or "she's doing me a favor". | /r/MensRights | 21/02/14 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Husband was falsely accused. Justice system works backwards. Lessons learned.I'm a guy in my young twenties, and there's no way I'd get anywhere near an underage teen girl except for in social, public situations. I'll be friendly, wave, and smile, no problem. But we're not going behind closed doors together and I'm not going to give her any rides, not unless I trust her with the future of my career and my life. All it takes is for her to say the wrong word to the wrong person and everything I'm working so hard for can be destroyed. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/14 06:10 PM |
| 27 | Why do so many women still insist on men paying for meals on a date? Because they are self centered.Don’t complain if a woman makes you pay the bill when you go out. It may just mean that she likes you. Oh, so I get to spend money because a woman may like me. Gosh, what an honor. </sarcasm> I think women who expect to have stuff paid for need to get off of their high horses. They overvalue their affection and their attention. At least, that's what I would say if there weren't legions of guys begging them for the slightest indication of acknowledgement. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/14 06:03 PM |
| 1 | This is a bit better: Mother who claimed she was raped by an ex-boyfriend to cover up drunken threesome is jailed for three yearsUnless she gets out on probation early. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/14 12:29 AM |
| 8 | I was just falsely and anonymously accused of rape online, what do I doWho's he going to sue? The accusation was anonymous. Which probably goes to show how much water it holds... if there was something to it, the girl would have, and should have, brought it to the police. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/14 06:38 PM |
| 6 | Male privilege at it's finest: two men stop to help injured woman, give first aid and call 911. Police beat up and imprison them.That process is a practical Rube Goldberg machine. There has to be a better system in place for dealing with problematic cops and rogue police departments, because they are not freak occurrences. Even decent cops very rarely stand up to their "brothers in blue". | /r/MensRights | 18/02/14 04:08 PM |
| 16 | Male privilege at it's finest: two men stop to help injured woman, give first aid and call 911. Police beat up and imprison them.The UK has its own set of problems with law enforcement, but in the US, we have those same problems, amplified by overfunded, overequipped cops with power complexes and the legal authority to do pretty much whatever the fuck they want with you. Even if they kill you for essentially no reason, your family can't sue them personally due to to sovereign immunity. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/14 03:58 PM |
| 11 | Male privilege at it's finest: two men stop to help injured woman, give first aid and call 911. Police beat up and imprison them.What can the internet do? At the end of the day, we still pay our taxes like good slaves, so why should the cops care if we're angry at them when we do so? They still get paid, they still have the same powers, and they're still untouchable by the law. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/14 03:57 PM |
| 27 | Male privilege at it's finest: two men stop to help injured woman, give first aid and call 911. Police beat up and imprison them.Most people, including myself, would say that it's one's civic responsibility to help injured people stabilize themselves and call the cops. Now, I'm not so sure... | /r/MensRights | 18/02/14 03:56 PM |
| 5 | As divorce leaves more and more women unable to afford a home of their own...The lovelorn mid-lifers forced to live with strangers- try living in the back of your minivan!"leaving Lizette with only her own income to survive on" This part just made me shake my head and say "boo hoo". It's one thing if she put her career on hold to raise the kids. If that's so, I think her ex should pay her some alimony for a brief amount of time, so that she can get her career back on track or whatever. But seriously? People are upset that people have to live within their means? Fuck me, the lady's life isn't even that bad. She has a room and a bathroom of her own, all of her phys… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/14 05:41 AM |
| 3 | Wow, just wow. This blew my mind the other day when I went to the strip clubI think you're onto something here, though let me provide a slight counterpoint. A lot of girls seem to get upset that they're approached by guys when they're not interested in being approached, or they're not interested in the guy. (How you're supposed to know if you're the right guy at the right time, I don't know.) What they don't understand is that to be approached as a guy is inconceivable. We don't even realize it very often, and when we do, the idea of having someone come up to us because… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/14 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Apparently wanting to go dutch on a first date makes you a horrible person worthy of public ridicule and shaming.You're very right about splitting chores and housework. There are too many guys out there who expect their working SOs to also fulfill traditional roles while they do nothing. There are also too many ladies out there who don't work, or don't work as much as their SOs, who expect chores to be split 50/50. Some way or another, things have to be relatively fair and equal or else, axiomatically, it's an unfair, unequal relationship. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/14 05:04 AM |
| 7 | Apparently wanting to go dutch on a first date makes you a horrible person worthy of public ridicule and shaming.Well, I think it's time for all guys to give stuck-up girls a wake-up call. I'll be friends with anyone, and I try to be pleasant and polite to everyone, but I will not worship the ground someone walks on because of what they've got between their legs. Even if I'm interested in starting a relationship with someone, I will maintain my dignity and I won't beg for anything. People are right when they say that a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle. Well, as a bicycle, I can live without a … | /r/MensRights | 17/02/14 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Apparently wanting to go dutch on a first date makes you a horrible person worthy of public ridicule and shaming.As far as "manning up" goes, they're just words. You can tell me to "man up" and be "honorable" as much as you want, but I'm going to look at what I put into things and what I get out of them. This principle applies to business dealings, lifestyle choices, and personal relationships as well. I'll be ethical, and courteous, and polite, and kind, but I'm also going to keep in mind the costs and benefits of every major interaction I'm involved in. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/14 06:24 PM |
| 9 | Apparently wanting to go dutch on a first date makes you a horrible person worthy of public ridicule and shaming.It just doesn't make sense from a cost-benefits perspective. Not unless the woman in question has really, really high value to the man, or the man really needs her. I think a lot of the women who want men to pay for them, they have too much pride in their appearance and value on the dating market, and not enough dignity. I pay my own way when I'm out with friends, or I get them back later. It's true that things are a little different on business outings (but those are on the company card anyway,… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/14 04:01 PM |
| 35 | Apparently wanting to go dutch on a first date makes you a horrible person worthy of public ridicule and shaming.So ladies, be aware. A man who expects you to financially cut everything down the middle will not be prone to understanding that you have morning sickness, your feet hurt because they’re swollen, you might need bed rest, or that your child needs to breast feed every three hours. Nope. Said man will expect you to work up until five minutes before you deliver the child and then go half on the wet nurse because you need to take your ass back to work. What a laugh. In my opinion, relationships need … | /r/MensRights | 17/02/14 02:36 PM |
| 4 | This guy got really lucky.Well, she also assaulted a cop... | /r/MensRights | 16/02/14 03:59 PM |
| 9 | Feminists at University of Maryland post men's names as potential rapists.http://articles.baltimoresun.com/1993-05-08/news/1993128032_1_potential-rapists-campus-feminist-art | /r/MensRights | 15/02/14 04:11 PM |
| 2 | I saw this at my university today. Obviously only men can be sexual predators.Well, with respect, I do intend to dismiss the idea that I have to be a proactive defender of the honor of women because I'm a man. I am a human being with my own life, and I do not exist to serve other people. I'm not saying that people who are raped, or murdered, or assaulted deserve what they get, just that I may decide to prioritize my own safety over theirs. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/14 07:08 PM |
| 4 | I saw this at my university today. Obviously only men can be sexual predators.No, you don't. But, no matter how irresponsible other people act, I am not a bodyguard and I am not a hero. It's not my responsibility to be "proactive" by putting my own skin on the line for a stranger's sake. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/14 04:18 PM |
| 77 | I saw this at my university today. Obviously only men can be sexual predators."Men are proactive by... acting to prevent potentially dangerous situations." So what, we're supposed to firmly but fairly tell women not to go to bars or clubs, not to drink, and not to dress in a sexually enticing manner? Apart from that, I ain't trained to be a bodyguard, and I ain't paid to be a bodyguard. I try to help people when I can, but I'm sorry, I'm not likely to risk my personal safety for someone who doesn't want to be "protected" and won't appreciate being "protected". | /r/MensRights | 04/02/14 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Friend is getting pushed into an arranged marriage.Well, I'm an Indian-American ex Hindu, now atheist, and though my parents have no interest in getting an arranged marriage for me, my grandmother is interested in setting me up with some Indian girls. My situation is probably a lot different from his, but if you need me to, I'm willing to write you a PM for him about how he shouldn't be afraid of standing up for himself. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/14 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Friend is getting pushed into an arranged marriage.Unless he's being threatened with violence... if he doesn't want to get married, why can't he just say no? It might take a lot of strength and guts to say that, but if he's not willing to say no when he's not facing a threat of violence, then there's not much that can be done to help him. You have to remember, she and her family are free to pressure him as much as they want, but they don't cross the line unless they threaten or use violence. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/14 06:16 PM |
| 10 | Just read this in my company's ethics document:Here's something I've always wondered about. sexually harass another employee by (a) making unwelcome sexual advances How are you supposed to know if a sexual advance is welcome or unwelcome until after the fact? Sure, there is a back and forth process of gradually increasing flirtation, but it's possible that one party might not welcome taking things to the next level while the other party does and requests it. I'm not saying we should all go around asking people for sex immediately, but this i… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/14 09:59 PM |
| 8 | Female Football club worker 'burst into dressing room 15 times as players showered'. Men complained. Can you imagine the outcry if the genders were reversed.Are you joking? He'd be "escorted" out immediately and fired on the spot if it was anything other than a huge mistake. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/14 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Car insurance rant.Pay for insurance, Hell. If I was an actuary, I wouldn't give her insurance, unless it was for an exorbitant rate. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/14 03:36 AM |
| 7 | Heard this gem yesterday at a college. Stay safe, men!Why? I don't feel guilty about doing that at all. EDIT: Here's Russell Peters' take on the issue. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/14 06:30 PM |
| 2 | In Memory of all the Men that Protected Women from DangerWhat about war heroes, who save their comrades as they fight for their country, but were enlisted in the military due to a draft? What do you feel about those guys? | /r/MensRights | 27/01/14 06:29 PM |
| 1 | 23/F here: I'm conflicted about society's insistance that I be an "independent" woman because I don't think it is attractive.If you live your life the way you want and don't condemn or put down other people with less traditional lifestyles, I don't think MRAs, or any good people, would have a problem with you. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/14 10:37 PM |
| 6 | Thank you for giving me solid facts:This one seems to be the most original one: http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/02/080204212846.htm | /r/MensRights | 21/01/14 05:39 AM |
| 15 | Thank you for giving me solid facts:In fact I did, but the sources I found don't mention anything about women who never become pregnant. Apart from that, it's often considered rude to make a claim and then brush off someone who asks you to substantiate it. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/14 04:50 AM |
| 37 | Thank you for giving me solid facts:Source, please? | /r/MensRights | 21/01/14 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Part of an article in my school newspaper.Agreed. I would never tell someone, "You have no right to talk about war, you're a woman!" even though women are less likely to die in war than men, so I am put off when people tell me that I have no right to talk about rape since I'm a man, even though I'm less likely to be raped than women (unless I get incarcerated). | /r/MensRights | 20/01/14 11:21 PM |
| 2 | I just turned 23, and apparently I am now going to be a father. I'm being manipulated by the mother and I have no idea where to go from here.Yeah, you'd have to pull an Edward Snowden and be prepared to leave and never, ever return. Since we live in the age of communication, you can still keep in touch with friends and family, and if you're a skilled worker or have good job experience, it's definitely possible to move out of the US and find work. It might take a few months, but it beats 18 years of indentured servitude based on a decision that's not yours. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/14 05:55 AM |
| 93 | Part of an article in my school newspaper.If men have no right to discuss rape with women, women have no right to discuss war with men. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/14 04:06 AM |
| 3 | I just turned 23, and apparently I am now going to be a father. I'm being manipulated by the mother and I have no idea where to go from here.But, yeah, if she is pregnant and the baby is yours and she does not choose to place the baby for adoption, you are on the hook for support. No way out of that. Legally, you have no way to discharge responsibility. What about skipping country? Can you can extradited for non-payment of child support? I'm not saying that this is the best option, but on the other hand, it's not that dissimilar from adoption in that you're giving up the responsibility of being a parent. In any case, OP should get a … | /r/MensRights | 20/01/14 04:04 AM |
| 4 | "Why Every Woman Should Get a Prenup" Cosmopolitan (USA Feb 2014 issue)Another problem with alimony laws as they stand is that it's very hard to personally condemn women for doing everything they can to extract maximum alimony. After all, it's their legal right to, and they're only acting in their self-interests by doing it. For example, put yourself in the position of a recently-divorced woman, and imagine trying to explain to your lawyer--or even yourself--that you'd rather have "dignity" and "fairness" than a cool million bucks, plus a hundred thou on top of tha… | /r/MensRights | 19/01/14 06:42 AM |
| 9 | Let's talk about sexual shaming of menThat you have never been called gay for wanting to do something more traditionally feminine, or for hugging another man, as if that was somehow a shameful thing. This made me realize something... I have not had any meaningful physical contact with a member of my own gender since I was a young child. These days, it's pretty much restricted to handshakes, and grappling in the course of martial arts practice. On the other hand, ladies often hug one another or engage in other sorts of physical affec… | /r/MensRights | 18/01/14 10:55 AM |
| 1 | 'Girls Need To Stop Crying Rape' says sorority girl Catie WarrenI actually think that if you're incapacitated, you can't consent to sex. But what I mean by incapacitation is unconsciousness. If you're passed out somewhere and someone has sex with your unconscious body, that's rape for sure. If you're buzzed and someone gets it on with you, and you sleep with them when you might not have if you had been sober, that's not rape for sure. As the author said, there are times when we can clearly say, "that's rape" and "that's not rape" but there are plenty of time… | /r/MensRights | 17/01/14 11:04 AM |
| 5 | Man wears tiny speedo during working, is asked to leave gym because it's 'inappropriate'. He states that women work out in smaller and more revealing clothing. The article actually calls out the sexisDude's got a point... bikinis, as he said, show every nook and cranny of their wearers' bodies and leave very little to the imagination, just like his swimsuit. And frankly, it's not that skimpy of a swimsuit. I've seen guys wear them at my school's pool, and it's not a big deal to anyone. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/14 07:04 PM |
| 6 | So you think he's cheating? ( xpost r/shitcosmosays)Does anyone actually take Cosmo seriously, though? | /r/MensRights | 15/01/14 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Neo-con mom who blogged about divorcing her boring husband published rules list for men who want to date her. Rule #1 "tip well." I guess "you pay" is just assumed.How are you supposed to be able to predict any of these rules beforehand? | /r/MensRights | 12/01/14 06:15 PM |
| 12 | New bill in Oklahoma blocks school punishment for children with pretend or toy gunsIt's crazy that this law is needed, isn't it? I sometimes wonder what teachers and administrators think they're doing when they punish kids for having finger guns, when they know that the same kids are going home to massacre each other in Call of Duty, and that we live in an environment with increasingly liberalized concealed carry laws, and better access to firearms than ever before. This is a culture war that the public education system is waging on children to brainwash them into hating and f… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/14 08:02 AM |
| 5 | 20/20 documentary researcher " “my producer wanted me to find a bunch of angry guys who would say crazy things, but so far you all seem very calm and your views are much more well thought-out than I expected.”Well, I'm not a left-winger, but I probably wouldn't associate with someone who is in ideological cahoots with white nationalists. Some of those people are really nasty, terrible people, and I'd prefer them company of most left-wingers over them any day of the week. | /r/MensRights | 10/01/14 08:19 AM |
| 6 | 20/20 documentary researcher " “my producer wanted me to find a bunch of angry guys who would say crazy things, but so far you all seem very calm and your views are much more well thought-out than I expected.”http://www.jack-donovan.com/axis/2011/12/mighty-white/ He seems like one of the very rare few nationalists who isn't a crazy racist or a hatemonger. His views seem to be that he appreciates his heritage and acknowledges that people have a need to feel like they're part of some culture. Given that the US is comprised of 300 million people who are at their throats all the time, he's frankly got a point. With that said, some of his views are just weird and amount to patting his race and his gender … | /r/MensRights | 10/01/14 06:57 AM |
| 4 | “Immigrants are not the problem, men are. Deport all men from Sweden immediately.” - Magda Rasmusson, Swedish politician of the green party. (Translated website)Yeah, I hate that kind of cheap out. Every time I feel like someone is trying to do something like that to me, I simply ask them, "How serious are you being?" and proceed from there. If they're not being serious, I laugh and say that they had me worried for a minute. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/14 07:35 AM |
| 12 | “Immigrants are not the problem, men are. Deport all men from Sweden immediately.” - Magda Rasmusson, Swedish politician of the green party. (Translated website)Isn't this satire? Or is this one of those things when the author will say it's satire when she's confronted, but she's not 100% joking? | /r/MensRights | 04/01/14 07:12 AM |
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