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Not really. Initial attraction is mostly looks for me (often based on things which he can't simply acquire at the gym), so if he's not attractive all the red pill won't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 04:48 AM
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I agree on the anonymity aspect lots of trolls and angry misogynist and crazy guys/gals are encouraged because of the anonymity aspect. Rarely any consequences and as you said that's not how humans operated for...well, ever except the last 20 or so years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 04:27 AM
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Feminism seem to be thorn on this issue. Lots of internal conflict. There are those who are in favor of women's sexual agency and those people using feminist rhetoric to advance their own goals (like those shaming women who would not date or fuck a transwoman). Personally, I respect transpeople but no one has the right to date or have sex with someone else if that person is not interested. That goes for everyone And of course you have the guys of the manosphere; MRA incels losers and the like. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 04:11 AM
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Pent-up anger! Projection! Oh my! Dude, stop being so angry and maybe some woman would give you a chance but as it is they can probably sense all your pent up anger. If nothing else it's not good for your health you'll give yourself arrhythmia or something. Thinking that people and women's preference/sexual discrimination is somehow hate or Jew hatred which you wrote: What would you call a person who was distasteful and aversive towards blacks or Jews? Can't be healthy for you ;( It's not person…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 03:38 AM
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Real answer. Women don't really need to go for some male prostitute/gigolo, she can just get to the local bar for that. No need to travel to Thailand or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 03:18 AM
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Men who can't help but think of women who don't want them as somehow evil. Yeah, it seem more often than not it's incel guys (though there are a few women who does that too, it's mostly men). It's so silly though. People don't choose their preferences, women don't choose their preferences. Attributing or comparing it to hate or some form of evil is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 03:12 AM
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Because their beliefs are not inline with reality. End of story. Agree. Some refuses to live in reality unfortunately. I mean, how would you call someone who basically equates preferences with nazism? Mr_Smoogs wrote: What would you call a person who was distasteful and aversive towards blacks or Jews?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 03:01 AM
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Nut job gonna nut job. Heck, some people even compare sexual repulsion to antisemitism and racism: What would you call a person who was distasteful and aversive towards blacks or Jews? That's a thing Smoog wrote btw. As for me (and most bloopers I think) I'm 100% fine with any sexual criterias people have. We all have them , we don't choose them. A lot of women don't like unattractive men for example. Lots of men don't like/are not attracted to fat and or old women for example. 100% fine in both…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 02:57 AM
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You've been an active member of this community long enough that you should have known the bloop position before asking it. Guess he preferred ruminating on this for 2 whole days because he couldn't accept his attempt at controlling people's sexual preferences was wrong. Of course blues here understand that everyone has different sexual preferences. Yep. 100% right. I agree needless to say. Some people just cannot accept others' preferences unfortunately due to their bitterness/lack of success or…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 02:48 AM
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The whole OP is a dishonest attempt to misrepresent what I said. What I said: "Hey we're all sexually attracted/repulsed by some (and that's okay). OP: "That's hate": At any rate, distaste and aversion is synonymous with hate. What would you call a person who was distasteful and aversive towards blacks or Jews? He even compared it to antisemitism ffs. I'm honestly surprised this kind of shitposting/trolling is allowed on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 02:41 AM
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It’s synonymous with hate for you. Are you a troll or is your anger finally affected your perception of reality? This is what YOU said: At any rate, distaste and aversion is synonymous with hate. You even had the gale to compare it with racism and antisemitism: What would you call a person who was distasteful and aversive towards blacks or Jews? You're like those bitter loser dude on r/ short who constantly try to make women preferences into "heightism" or those incels who talk about "lookism"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 02:36 AM
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some people on the left find sexual prejudice to be an injustice Yeah, losers usually consider it an injustice and try to shame others and compare it to hate..lol It seem you're projecting a lot You should seek help for your bottled up anger issues lol. Can't be good for you like I said. Being so resentful of women and their preference and trying to shame them is not the way dude. Like you said and I agree sexual preferences/discrimination is fine we all do it you, me and everyone on earth apply…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 02:23 AM
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100% agree. People like OP who try to shame others (women in this case) for their not being attracted to them/unattractive men OP wrote It seems ridiculous to hold hateful views of people for the crime of being unattractive. are just plain bitter and resentful/hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 02:19 AM
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He got massively triggered because basically someone (me) said that they wouldn't fuck unattractive guys. It's obvious it massively triggered him (not my fault if you're not attractive OP) and started to literally compare it to hate: Do you share the same animosity towards fat, unattractive women and their addiction to social media sites like tumblr and services like Netflix? It seems ridiculous to hold hateful views of people for the crime of being unattractive. So OP being bitter and having ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 02:14 AM
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He argued that it is hate: At any rate, distaste and aversion is synonymous with hate. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/7t4zf5/rise_in_antisocial_behavior_among_men/dtci4ur/?context=3 Anyway Mr_Smoogs, I'd worry more about your repressed anger issue if you spend all that time thinking and rethinking about that silly argument. Can't be good for your heart or blood pressure and/or stress level lol This has become a common theme on PPD lately. People will make a title that relates…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 01:59 AM
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You sound triggered lol I never said sexual preferences are not ok. I said there's a difference between hate and sexual preferences (which are ok).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 01:55 AM
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Wow, I touched a nerve it seemed. Lol you spent the last 48 hours ruminating about some reddit argument on PPD :P Anyway, the OP is factually incorrect. Weird that he keep misrepresenting his own poorly thought out argument. I have zero problem with anyone applying any sexual preferences whatsoever. OP is literally making shit up and misrepresenting what I said (I wish this was against the rules btw) I said the opposite of sexual attraction is sexual repulsion, he said sexual repulsion was hate.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 01:46 AM
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Between someone they're don't find attractive and a guy who is attractive but who she paid most would choose neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 01:40 AM
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This fundamentally misunderstands the nature of female sexual desire. Women are aroused by being desired by attractive men. Precisely this. The idea is just viscerally repulsive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 01:37 AM
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Guaranteed good sex with their perfect guy (tall, lean, muscular, blue eyes ..whatever). Why don't women see the value in this? ...and why do you think guys like that would even be entertain the thought of becoming gigolos? The few males prostitute who seem to service women (generally older and/or unattractive ) looks to be short, unattractive, scrawny guys from third world countries. And like madscientistlove said, what fundamentally arouses us is to desired be attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 01:32 AM
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No, the movement is aimed at sexual predators anyway. If you think you're not one of those men and that scare you away then really ask yourself why.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 05:10 AM
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Yeah, I loled. Guessing maybe they were a short themselves (5'8" and less) and said that because they only notices the few white taller girls and concluded that's all there is. selective memory and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 11:21 PM
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Well, I do tend toward purple a little (hence the username) but I didn't want to make a "mostly blue but sometimes purple" flair so I just say blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 08:22 AM
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Not really. Blue pills afaik never said women don't go for looks and that men are not more naturally more promiscuous. Though something having natural influences is not an excuse for that behavior. Blue pills are just opposed to red pill misogyny and incels blaming everything on "teh evil wommenz".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 04:11 AM
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Again, the coward is the violent creep whose fragility makes him incapable of accepting rejection because he might feel inadequate and those who victim blame. As for your other point, there's a difference between a rare natural event and a deliberate act of murder. We understand that. Normal people understand that. Society recognizes that. Our laws recognizes that. so I'm not even going to further comment on that. https://babe.net/2017/04/17/rejecting-men-has-deadly-consequences-so-its-really-no…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 02:32 AM
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The cowards are the violent creeps who take it out on someone weaker for rejecting them or finding excuses for such behavior (or comparing them to natural events like lighting or earthquakes) because of their fragility. http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:Ivm2ub1frUYJ:afropunk.com/2017/12/toxic-masculinity-deadly-brooklyn-teen-killed-rejecting-mans-advance/+&cd=2&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=ca
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 02:21 AM
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Again, that's just women being terrified of saying why they are actually rejecting the guy. Correct. And rightly so: http://montrealgazette.com/news/local-news/one-hour-too-much-maxi-employee-stabbed-while-doing-overtime-jury-hears Being honest can have dire consequences for women, heck even being indirect (though the risks are minimized) can. Better to lie than tell an ugly guy the truth. Avoids a lot of drama, though the risk is obviously never zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 01:54 AM
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Nice guy. By far. You could argue Chad is a jerk as he is more likely to be a pump and dumper but he's just following his instinct that are telling him to be with the highest number of consenting females as possible, jerky as that is. Nice guy is a man who is a deliberately manipulative creep who's only trying to mimic his superior rival (and generally failing at it).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 01:33 AM
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Of course I am lol Ah, so just as I suspected you were just projecting. I hope you understand that just because you admit you are discriminatory/have hate in yourself not everyone does? my gf isn’t fat nor ugly Huh, sure? So when you were saying: And I am arguing the incel angle for fun though lol you were just saying http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/i-was-only-pretending-to-be-retarded basically? Anyway, I hope you get rid of the hate and discrimination you have in you one day. Good luck OP! ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 05:34 AM
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Maybe apply your own logic/standard (not mine) and don't be a discriminatory person by refusing to date fat women/transwomen/men/insert group. You're lying to yourself if you think you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 05:07 AM
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And I am arguing the incel angle for fun though lol Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 02:50 AM
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I’m not repulsed by fat women. They don’t cause me intense feelings of distaste and aversion. You're not repulsed by them but you would not have sex with them. You must feel somewhat sexually repulsed then. Nothing wrong with that (and it obviously doesn't mean you hate those women btw). No need for the rationalization. At any rate, distaste and aversion is synonymous with hate. No. Have you ever been sexually repulsed by anyone (men or women)? Does this mean you hated them? Of course not. So st…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 02:08 AM
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It seems ridiculous to hold hateful views of people for the crime of being unattractive. You don't seem to know what hate is or are projecting. Sexual repulsion and hatred are two different things. Nowhere did I mentioned anything about hating unattractive men. Women don't hate ugly men; as long they're not imposing themselves on us we usually don't even think about their existences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 01:17 AM
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Unattractive women never sexually pester me, and usually don't pester good looking men either the way creepy dudes pester/give unwanted attention to women who are not interested in them because they feel entitled to their attention despite not being attractive themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 12:28 AM
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Neither. Not interested in ugly men, not interested in cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 08:31 AM
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Bs. Barely any feminists have any issue with sexbots. If anything if it make some of the sexual pests creep go away most would be in favor if these guys are just doing their own thing alone. You sound triggered OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 08:19 AM
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Most women can be physically overpowered by most males. It's just a reality. Night can offer a cover to a would be assaulter (less visibility, less potential witnesses etc) so that would explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 08:06 AM
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As long as it's the type of men we don't care about, doesn't really matter. It's not really about a set number.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 08:03 AM
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Pretty average guys. Not ugly but wouldn't be interested by any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 07:33 AM
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So low success, unattractive/ugly loser males play more video games/stuff that doesn't rely on being socially popular. Wow, who would have thought? Seem like a consequence of their being losers, instead of playing video games making them antisocial.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 07:29 AM
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Hopefully, yes. Less undesirable men harassing and pestering women, some kind of companionship for those creepy and/or ugly men (prostitution is often an exploitative industry). Those men would now be more free to focus on something else (work etc). So, win for men and women overall. Though I think VR is more likely to fill that niche than sexbots tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 11:33 PM
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No, they aren't considered just part and parcel of feminist discourse. They are considered at best satire/hyperbole. Heck, the first often-cited "example of feminist misandry" is Valerie Solanas's SCUM Manifesto. Itself a work of satire. Don't expect TRPerpers to get that, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 02:12 AM
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Apparently, getting girls to actually want to screw you is an unattainable standard for some it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 02:04 AM
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It IS complicated, because female desire is not explicitly stated, and takes some time to read. It's really not though. It might not always be explicitly, verbally stated but 99% of the time -unless the guy score very highly on autism or something, there's no ambiguity. If a girl wants you or is interested; you'll know for sure (of course that's still does not give the guy the right to bypass any lack of consent). If you have to ask yourself is she is interested or not, again; the vast majority …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 06:45 AM
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I see a few really good looking based on look alone a couple of times per month, so I guess it would be that number.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:44 AM
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You rarely know whether or not they'll be annoyed until You do, actually. Usually, these guys know they'll be unwelcomed but they choose to do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:37 AM
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It's like some things are harassment when they are not desired and not harassment when they ARE desired..! It's all so complicated! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:35 AM
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This. It's not so difficult to not be a little creep like Anzari. If you still creep out women no matter what you do then maybe just avoid interacting with them altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:30 AM
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...Why is that guy wearing lipstick? What's wrong with him? His face looks messed up...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:44 AM
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People who are into midget sex? Women who are willing to endure gross sex with physically gross men for a bit of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:40 AM
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Aw, cmon..Who WOULDN'T want to hire a miniature creepy little dweeb who's ALSO a feminist ally??? I'm sure tons of women who want to work with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:32 AM
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I never heard of this guy until this whole think. I don't think he's a rapist. Doesn't mean he's not a little creep
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 09:13 PM
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Maybe in the past they would be associated with good looking "bad boys". Now, I've seen complete dweebs get them (and they don't do anything for me if the guy is dweeby) so they kind of lost their "rebel"/outlaw image; they've become too common.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 10:07 AM
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Just because we don't have a perfect, full and 100% complete understanding of certain things (ex: how women selected in the past) doesn't mean we don't know anything on the subject. That's the same kind of ignorant fallacy that creationists use against people in favor of teaching evolution. Females likely did a large amount of the selecting, but, we don't know that. They may have rarely had any choice in the matter. So you agree that they likely did a large amount of the selecting...yet we don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:13 AM
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Very important. I love to touch and feel a guy's rugged jawline (+good jawline +1 day stubble...swoons) while kissing (men have such nice jawlines sometimes)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 01:58 AM
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It seems you view it as an either/or thing (cultural/genetic). While it's true that culture does have an impact on preferences, this doesn't preclude evolutionary influences. You seem unable to understand that actively selecting for desired traits (even if the preference for those traits are cultural in origin and the traits themselves do not confer any ecological advantage whatsoever) is in itself evolutionary advantageous because those individuals possessing those phenotypes will be more selec…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 10:39 PM
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No, totally wrong. Women genuinely have the hots for good looking men. No, see it's totally only to impress our catty girlfriends and make them jealous because we're just superficial like that. We totally not want the good looking guy because the sex would actually be good and that's just not right. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 10:19 PM
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Omg, it's like women are...human?! Why, it's almost like when you remove economic necessities and give women financial autonomy, they'll choose who they actually want based on genetic qualities that will help her offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 10:14 PM
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Maybe you should consider why girls call you creepy instead? Also, it's pretty sad that someone would think about what random semi acquaintance or even complete stranger would say about you. They probably stop even thinking about your existence the moment you left their field of vision.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 04:11 AM
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Seriously this. Fuck is wrong with some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 06:03 AM
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No. They're basically still kids. It's creepy for the older guy to reciprocate however, even the teenage girl was the one initiating things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 05:26 AM
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Women do not make bold moves on men. You've never seen college age girls around really good looking guys, have you? It can get quite direct and forward. The idea that girls never approach except in the most indirect ways is perpetuated by guys who have only provoked luke warm reactions. Though it probably is more common than in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:05 AM
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Because not every men is attractive? What causes this and how can it be fixed? Fix what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 01:17 AM
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Are you one of those incels? Goodness no, lol. Guess I should add a flair. Good looking men will not get laid if they do not know how be dominate and escalate. Very true. Obviously, I don't agree with the incel losers that if you don't look like a model, quote "it's over". I'm simply saying that not everyone (women and men) can or will be sexually attractive and that it doesn't make automatic sense for everyone to be sexually confident if you have no reason to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 01:01 AM
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Or you know, maybe not every man is supposed to be super sexually confident as not every men is sexually attractive but sure, let's go with what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 12:17 AM
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Alright then: "we want hot dudes, we appreciate your kindness but that doesn't make our vaginas tingle". Now, will that stop the TRP complains? Thought not. Besides, anyone not on the spectrum would have figured that around 14, max. Guys who are sexual losers and who complain now would just find something else to complain about if women were more direct (maybe they'd complain about their directness then) anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 12:12 AM
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Well yeah. Plenty of women have never been attracted to their partner. More men than women will never have any relationships and/or sex at all. It sucks for a lot of people of both sexes, just in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 03:09 AM
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Guy looks like Chad Thundercock. LOL! Freak looks like some kind of weird inbred version of the blond guy who was in the first Karate Kid. 2/10 Would not thundercunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 10:14 PM
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But what do you want them to say, exactly? "You don't have the genetic to provoke any desire in women" or "You're too short/ugly/old and you'll never have a shot at the girls you seen to be going for and you'll find better success going for girls more look/age/attractiveness matched with you"? We'd rather not risk some guy's tamper tantrum (considering said guy is likely much stronger physically) because of a bruised male ego, so yeah, sometimes a white lie is better. Most of the time though it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 09:16 PM
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Yeah, it's basically an obsession with "Chad" or genetically above average men. Traditionally more women-centric things have become more common in men cultural circles too (ironically; including TRP). What I mean is, basically, we've sold the male equivalent of the female "cock-carousel" to men. But whereas the average woman can partake in said carousel (if she so desire), the average guy can't really engage in ONS and things like that. As you said, most men are sexually active strictly within t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 02:19 AM
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Unattractive/not attracted to, sure. Heck, I don't find 1 out of 5 guys attractive either, likewise for every girl I know, so it's possibly even higher than 80%. Most men are just meh/bland to us so yeah I guess so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 02:03 AM
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If a guy couldn't cut it because he doesn't have what it take then he shouldn't blame others and maybe take a good hard long look at themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 11:02 PM
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I don't buy the "masculinity is not valued/hated in society" argument. Just look at how we value successful men in society and how we reward those men to see that's not true. I think we could make an argument that we don't value vulnerable/low worth/undesirable/ugly loser males the same way society might feel the need to protect vulnerable and/or unsuccessful women. Basically your masculinity is not the issue here. Most likely it's your lack of masculinity that's the problem. Being masculine is,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 09:34 PM
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Sounds like a lot of rationalization of a guy's who's weak irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 08:59 PM
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Yep. We're inherently limited in how many babies we can have so we select for genetic material quality. Men -who are not limited in offspring numbers due to no pregnancies, go for quantity. I think it's good to switch to a female imperative model the higher we are on the planet we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 08:24 PM
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Well I don't find a high number of men attractive. I see sometimes numbers like men find 40..50% or more percent of women attractive. That's insane to me, honestly. But yeah, attraction is important to me. I'm not getting with a guy I don't find good looking. Of course looks - in and out of themselves, even though their crucial, are not sufficient. Not interested in good looking d-bags either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 08:05 PM
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The thing is it doesn't matter what we think. If he goes for women out of his league then he will fail. 100% of the time (because otherwise, if he's able to get with them then they're not out of his league). At that point, it's up to him to realize he should adapt to his realities or end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 07:51 PM
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Correct. Likewise for all the incel whiners; if she can date and/or fuck him she's in his league (SMV or RMV wise).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 07:45 PM
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For one, because a man doesn't really risk being assaulted/raped by a fat unattractive woman he rejects.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 07:33 PM
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Most people on these apps just want to get the hottest mate they can get their horny little hands on. That's life. It's also something that's part of our nature to ensure we mate with the best genetic partner possible. People don't usually fuck a personality for quick flings. tl;dr Most people are with similarly desirable others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 12:59 AM
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Breaking News: Women prefer attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 12:29 AM
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I think many of these are on the autistic spectrum, hence why they'd have trouble figuring out their sexual demographics or where they stand in it because that's something most adjusted guy figure out early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 11:13 PM
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It's not people's job to care because some loser-incel doesn't get any. It's his responsibility to adjust/possibly lower his standards so that he can get some. Society and women don't owe these men sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 10:38 PM
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no. I don't hate them but I pity da Foo'! This is how I see it, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 10:34 PM
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There's a definite difference between a 20-something guy and a guy well into his thirties approaching 40. Believe me we see the difference. Young women definitely see the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 09:21 PM
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Young women lose social standing when they date older men. So there needs to be some compelling reason to make it worthwhile. Like if he's rich, or if he's out of your league. Or if she's so unattractive and socially awkward that she never had any standing to begin with. Yeah, the only time I've seen young college-age girls dating old guys (30s+) there were reasons for it that were pretty apparent and the girl was almost always rather unattractive. Young girls that can be choosy always do so and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 09:46 PM
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Well, it depends. Most guys I think have enough social awareness to try their luck with someone of roughly similar sexual demographics. Some seem to be completely unaware however and make it awkward for everyone involved. They tend to be the type that complain afterward that girls are cold to them and have no idea why.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 02:33 AM
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If they're adult males, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 01:47 AM
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Incel whining is banned and reportable. Seems one of the side effect of the incel purge of reddit is other subs like this one have seen a migration of the embarrassingly pathetic swamp dwellers...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 01:41 AM
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Of course it's societal pressure. The classic old paintings don't lie. Fatter women used to be held up as a standard of attractiveness. It's amazing how ignorant people and dudes who have been conditioned to think skinny = attractive are ignorant, isn't it? If we look at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Venus_of_Willendorf or https://s-i.huffpost.com/gen/2268812/images/o-BIG-IS-BEAUTIFUL-facebook.jpg Being fat, used to be THE indicator of beauty in ancient times.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 01:29 AM
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Wow...sub 5 mins response of a 4-day thread...You honestly have bigger issues, as a shut-in, than girl thinking you're ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 01:13 AM
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You realize that no girl owe you finding you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 01:02 AM
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Women have varied tastes mostly in the sense of style. Some women love tall men with symmetrical, angular faces with piercing blue eyes Omg swoon
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 12:32 AM
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Nope. Am around 173cm. Shortest men I thought were hot were around 5'10". Though about 6'0" is around the "ideal" height to me. Then again I've had a grand total of 2 partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 12:15 AM
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You sometimes have to go out with a guy acquaintance/friend (not your bf) -ideally one who appear relatively tall, strong and is good looking as to discourage lesser/undesirable dudes, otherwise you can get a lot of unwanted attention. Guys tend to leave you alone when they think you've been "claimed" so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 12:07 AM
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Yep. Whenever someone talk about being "Brad Pitt good looking" I'm thinking wth...since I'm picturing old/current Brad Pitt. However he was indeed very gorgeous in his young 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:50 PM
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You can absolutely be attractive in your 30s. In fact, you can be attractive at any age...attractive to your own age-demographic that is. So if you meant: "can people be attractive at age x" the answer is definitely: yes. But if the question was rather: "can men peak in their 30s and be attractive to women in their early 20s then not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:47 PM
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Sure, not all girls will necessarily mind interacting with a strange man they haven't gave IOIs (though some will) but either way, since she isn't interested, the interaction will kinda stall at one point. Seems -from the guy's pov, his efforts would be better spent in trying to interact with girls that have indicated some kind of interest in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 02:43 PM
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http://www.gossipextra.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/IMG_0032a-2-681x600.jpg Dear Lord, just no. Eww. Looks like he has a condition of some sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 12:43 PM
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That's fine and perfectly normal to feel this way about older member of the opposite sex. Just so long as you realize young women feel pretty much the same way about old men. Also, there's a reason we see the age gap widening when people enter their 40s (whereas in their 20s the gap is usually between 1-3 years apart, in their 40s a difference of 7 years is more common). It's as if there's biological reasons to avoid mating with an old man (degradation of reproductive material for one which can …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 05:38 PM
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Oh my, catty! You're projecting hard. As someone in her early 20s, I've told my disgust -as many others have with older men because the subject came up. I'm not the one who's bitter because they were an unattractive dude when they were actually in the same age bracket as young girls but girls still didn't want anything to do with you then and thought you were gross. Of course with age, that only became more true. Incidentally, I think that's the main reason for the creeper old men syndrome: I no…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 04:29 PM
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Good for them! They can go on being attractive to age-appropriate women in their age group but that still won't make them attractive to young 20s women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 01:23 PM
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I think you replied to the wrong comment. Yeah, meant to respond to the comment above yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 12:49 AM
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It doesn't matter what people say online What people say on PPD really doesn't mean shit Somewhat agree, which is why empirical data is more important. But by that same token likewise what you say online and your own personal unverified anecdotes don't really mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 12:30 AM
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So far only you and some other woman here claim it. Hmmm what could it mean... Sour grapes maybe? Since reality is disagrees. 'k
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:56 PM
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Look, again: pretty much every women who commented here -young and older, have said they find it gross. Statistically, women in their 20s date men 1-3 year apart. When men and women are near their 40s, that gap can widen a bit ( about ~7 years) Those are the numbers. Also, it weird that some guys would be so defensive. If they were popular with this demographic you'd think they wouldn't care what others think. But it seems they have a vested interest in entertaining this fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:53 PM
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this is a revenge fantasy of unattractive young guys Yep. The unattractive young guys have turned into unattractive old guys and now suddenly they think (or wish/fantasize) that's it somehow different for them. Well, newsflash if you were undesirable when you were young you're only going to get even more gross to women as you age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:38 PM
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Lol Ikr And they say male solipsism isn't a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:24 PM
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lolwut? Sour grape about being pursued by men we think are gross? What? That comment makes no sense. If anything it seems it's these older men who pursue young women that are defensive the attraction isn't mutual and possibly bitter because those girls didn't cared for them when they were themselves young. Pretty much every time the subject has came up, women have told you this is something we find creepy yet you've dismissed this... alright then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:19 PM
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Older 30+ men focusing on or being more attracted to early 20s women is irrelevant given that the vast majority of women that age are grossed out by men that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 06:42 PM
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Of course. I just doubt that it's 1 in 20 or anywhere even near that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 10:37 PM
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"Chad" is an archetype of the guy who gets laid easily. He's fit and handsome with social skills. Women perceive his DNA to be in the 95th percentile or better and so their instincts scream at them to sleep with Chad. Do you really think men like that don't exist? Do TRPers really believe women wants to jump the bones/rip the clothes off of one out of twenty men out there (if we go by the "top 95th percentile" figure)?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 08:14 PM
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Who the hell said "men shouldn't approach women"? I'm saying men who creep the hell out of women and who make women feel uncomfortable probably shouldn't act in such a way. Radical idea I know. Non creepy incel type/ the rest of men who don't creep out women (and these men are in the vast majority thankfully) still approach women without any issues. Don't worry, society will not go extinct because of a few less creeps (who wouldn't have had success with or without approaching anyway). I mean, do…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 05:23 PM
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What do you prefer, men being labeled creepy by stupid women, but at east they get to learn how to do it, or men getting nothing because they're stuck waiting for IOI? Her not wanting to be bothered trumps his wanting to bother someone who doesn't want anything to do with him. Call it freedom of association if you want. So yeah, the later is much better for society in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:36 PM
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Seeing more masculine men as *gasp * more manly is natural though since they possess more of the stuff that makes their sex what it is. Shockers. People desire good looking mates and want nothing to do with unattractive others from the opposite sex, whenever possible. That also is true when it comes to women. Any guy who's past 20 who hasn't learn that women also select on the basis of physical attractiveness has got bigger issues than just lacking any physical attractiveness/being ugly, honestl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:11 PM
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No, again that doesn't follow. An important part of what makes a woman's face attractive are fertility indicators. Makeup is used to fake those indicators essentially. Basically, other than universal things like proportions etc, the things that makes a man attractive are not exactly the same as the one that makes a woman attractive hence why some things (like makeup) may work for one sex and not the other. I'm not sure what's hard to understand about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 11:59 AM
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Even tho its not. If it was men would be wearing make up. That doesn't follow. What makes a face attractive in a man are indicators of high degrees of exposure to male hormones (deep set eyes, broad jawline etc) during development. Wearing makeup won't make a face look more masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 01:59 AM
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It's not the lack of availability that's attractive: it's just that the same type of men tend to be attractive to most women so of course they can't be everywhere at once so that creates a lack of supply of desirable men. Again, the lack of supply is not what's attractive, it's just a consequence of what's inherently attractive to us. There's nothing we'd like more than for it to exists enough desirable men for every one to go around but, alas... If anything the lack of desirable men is a net ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 06:39 PM
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It's not the woman's job to protect a male's ego nor is it our job to perpetuate systemic toxic male fragility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 06:26 PM
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What is masculine to you ? How to you sense masculin men at first sight ? Decent height, 5'9"-5'10" minimum. Below that you start to go into petite men territory (or in the parlance of TRPers: "manlets"). Facial would be traditional indicators of exposure to testosterone during key developmental milestones. Developed jaw (receded jaw = yuck. Gross) deep set eyes (girls with large, round eyes like Kate Walsh can look beautiful but a guy with similar eyes will just look like an unmasculine, bug ey…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 06:14 PM
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lol wut The face is super important. Give me an average, slightly above average 5'10", 6'0" guy with a chiseled jawline with deep set eyes and deep, blue eyes over some 6'2" ugly creep like Marilyn Manson (even without the makeup) any day. Also the idea that we really care for a guy's clothes...like an ugly guy will be anything but ugly because his shirt is different? Or if a gorgeous, good looking guy won't be noticed because we don't like his clothes? Like, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:45 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:36 PM
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Women find most men physically unattractive (mostly neutral/non-sexual) until she learns his personality. This is very true. Most men are physically unattractive to me (though they don't suddenly become attractive once I get to know his personality, if anything a lot become even more unattractive than they were before)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:30 PM
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Those are not really rape fantasies properly speaking. Rape is unwanted by definition so you can't want to be raped. These are more akin to wanting to be sexually dominated by a gorgeous stranger fantasies that many women have. and they're just that obviously: fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:22 PM
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lol from my experience, it is absolutely the opposite. My experience as someone in her early 20s is the same as OfSpock's. Just, complete revulsion when I get hit on by guys in their 30s or older. Also, I would think women's experiences weight more than yours in this regard. We're telling directly how we felt in those situations. You, otoh, can only assess from outside how she felt during the interaction. It's very possible you didn't judge how she felt correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:12 PM
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yep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:04 PM
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Do people really look worse in their late 20s? As a relatively young women, yes, absolutely. Supposing the guy doesn't have crap genes, all else being equal a 21yo does not look the same as a 29yo. Most girls in my age group find a 6+ year difference gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:03 PM
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Eww. While's it true that most women usually end up with an older man...2 or 3 years her senior maybe. Most women that young would be grossed out by a guy that age hitting on them. Just gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:49 PM
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It's just something older creeps tell themselves to make it through the day. Probably because they were seen as creeps by young women when they were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:45 PM
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Physically, older dudes in their 30s and older are considered gross and/or creepy and or non sexually viable by nearly all girls who are in their early 20s. In terms of career, they probably peak in their 40s maybe? Early 50s? So I guess it depends what the girl prioritize: good sexual intimacy (which require attraction) or good earning prospects from her partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:40 PM
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I agree that approaching someone without having received some indication of interest is just asking to come off as creepy. It should be the bare minimum. Pretty much every girl I talked to feel the same. Just because you never received these indication of interests doesn't mean the same apply to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:31 PM
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I wouldn't think any of the things she listed, honestly in this case I would probably just find the guy a bit creepy and try to remove myself from the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:18 PM
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Unlike TRP, don't try to compensate for any inherent shortcomings (be it in terms of looks, genetics, personality or whatever) that you have. Instead, use the fact that you are superior (provided that you are) to your advantage. Use your good looks to tease/be playful a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 02:18 PM
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Slight sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 09:17 AM
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As a short dude I hear often "I need a tall guy to feel protected and feminine", when saying back "I need a 20 yo beauty to feel attracted and feel manly" I hear "it's not the same". From my pov it's the same : something outside one's control which affect SMV Most couple (particularly those younger who are still in their 20s) are 2-3 years apart. The vast majority of young women find old 35+ old guys hitting on them gross and creepy. So a large gap in age is actually outside the norm while a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 08:40 AM
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I don't really see those guys as attractive tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 09:47 PM
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I don't often see random guys I found attractive, but on the few rare occasions I do, I might do a quick smile and even then I rarely smile at good looking strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 09:36 PM
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