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| 16 | How to seduce/attract men?I think this is a common misconception. Yes it's true for a lot of women, especially the ones you're picturing. But what about the women that don't get noticed? Do you really think that a supermajority of women could seduce you? I don't think it's even a quarter for me. For the women that have a more difficult time with men, the advice is actually very similar as the general advice for men here: self improvement. Eat well, hit the gym, clothes, hair, skin care, make up etc. Men are more driven b… | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 02:42 PM |
| 0 | The "2 Block Rule": always pick a place within walking distance of your place for the first dateCries in Canada | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 01:23 AM |
| 6 | Hearing my roommate have sex really upsets meYou say you never had sex so you don't know how to flirt. That is putting the cart before the horse. You learn how to flirt and then you have sex 👍 | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Generaly - when asking a girl, should I ask if she has a boyfriend?If she wants you to know she has a boyfriend, it'll be the first thing out of her mouth. You don't have to ask. | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 11:06 PM |
| 18 | How can I become a smooth talker?Get a job where you spend a lot of time talking, especially in a fun environment. I was never so silver tongued as when I worked at a hot downtown restaurant as a server. | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Decent car for getting girls?It definitely doesn't matter. I drove various shit boxes through my teens and 20s and it was never an issue and absolutely no difference now that I'm in a nicer vehicle. To answer your question directly though it depends where you're from, where I'm from, it's trucks. Not too big, but like a stock F-150. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 05:16 AM |
| 99 | Is sex in club bathrooms a thing or just something in movies?I've fucked in a club exactly one time and it was nowhere near the bathroom. It was in a roped off section that I guess they open up on busier nights. It was up a set of stairs and was just an empty section of club overlooking the dance floor. Good times. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 05:37 AM |
| 1 | can you call girls that aren't your girlfriend dear or babe?Definitely risky. Every attractive girl has had some creepy old man call her those things on numerous occasions. I'd avoid unless very very confident. The exception is if she calls you those things first. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 06:14 PM |
| 68 | So many girls on Tinder say they aren't looking for ONS but is this really true?I'm going to go ahead and guess that with most of these girls, a ONS isn't their goal but is also not necessarily off the table given the right conditions. They just write that in an attempt to filter out some of the guys who are looking for only that. | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 07:15 PM |
| -9 | Is it bad to tell your first date that you're dating other women?If you're after quantity, listen to guys. If you want quality, listen to women. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 06:04 PM |
| 6 | [FR] So I just approached a gorgeous girl sitting down with her PARENTS.Can't belive the negativity here! Fuck! Nice going man, takes some serious balls to do that shit. If she calls you or not, you've got something to be proud of. Well done. | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 01:08 AM |
| 10 | I experienced some great success, now I'm having some serious moral dilemmasCongrats on your success! You may feel guilty because you feel like you're hiding something from these girls and you care about their feelings. Maybe try being honest with them. You don't have to straight up tell them you're sleeping with other girls but you can make sure they aren't expecting monogamy from you. Sure you may lose a couple of them but at least you didn't keep them in the dark. By the sound of it, finding girls who are okay with that kind of situation shouldn't be too difficult fo… | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Do you think having female friends is important?But you're not being friends with a girl just for the rewards you can reap any more than you are in any other relationship. Friendships with women are really no different than any other kind of relationship, it just won't work if you try to force it. I'm not saying you should go out today and approach girls for friendships in the same way you would approach them romantically. You mentioned that you know lots of girls from school. Next time you're chatting with one and a mutual interest comes up … | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 03:03 AM |
| 4 | Do you think having female friends is important?Being around women and being emotionally close to one non-romantically are two completely different things. Women don't open up to coworkers or classmates in the same way they will with their close friends. I'm friends with a lot of women only because I legitimately like them as friends and enjoy their company, but I have also noticed that it has helped me in my romantic life immensely. Can't argue with results :) | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 01:24 AM |
| 0 | Do you think having female friends is important?I think what she's trying to say is having females around in a non sexual way helps you see into their real world. Women act differently around their friends than they do around love interests. Seeing it from the other side can be eye opening. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 10:50 PM |
| 4 | What are your fun first dates?No | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Girl takes hours to reply but whenever she does, she replies in detail and ask questions to keep conversation goingYou're over thinking it man, my girlfriend sometimes takes hours to reply, it's no big deal. Some people don't play on their phone 24 hours a day. It's a good thing. | /r/seduction | 23/01/15 10:16 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Cutie studying at a coffee shopYou do realize that this is in no way a personal attack on you, right? There's no need to get defensive. | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 11:39 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Cutie studying at a coffee shopNo need for hostility. I was just pointing out a pretty glaring error. It doesn't have to be formal to be flawed. | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 05:19 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Cutie studying at a coffee shopWhile it might be fine for your intents and purposes, that is a flawed study. People are generally attracted to the type of person they are used to being around, if you live in a place that is mostly white people, then most girls would say they are more likely to sleep with a white person. That doesn't mean someone of a different culture wouldn't have a chance if he played his cards right. | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 03:52 AM |
| 2 | How pickup is like improv: An improvisers perspective on seduction.He never claimed they were his rules, he said they were the 7 steps of improv. | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 01:28 AM |
| 2 | [IG] Nice Guys Listen UpWe need to stop using the term 'nice guys' to describe these people. These guys are not nice guys, they might be 'nice' to her, but they always have ulterior motives. Ulterior motives are not nice. True nice guys exist, in fact they are everywhere, and they usually do just fine with women. | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Confidence is not "She will like me." Confidence is "I'll be fine whether she likes me or not."This is a cool way to think about it. I like to think of it in terms of time. We all have the same amount of time given to us. Two 25 year olds have been given exactly the same amount of time to spend their attribute points. The kicker is in the fact that we tend to waste our time. Our value in many ways is negatively correlated to the amount of time we have wasted in our lives. Some are habitual time wasters, living out their lives at dead end jobs and in front of the TV. Others, the Richard Br… | /r/seduction | 10/07/14 05:27 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveYou've got a really good point. You want to treat your 'queen' how a king would, not one of her subjects. Big difference. | /r/seduction | 10/07/14 04:53 PM |
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