BlueberryObvious Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	As a woman, I've noticed some things. Why do (some) men do this? Most likely he thinks that what you want so does it to continue the sex. Whereas he doesn’t really want a relationship just sex. I’m a man so I know	/r/seduction	05/10/22 11:10 AM
2	I'm using my dog to hook up with girls Hmm I think also you probably work out a lot hence the shirtless picture and this helps massively much more than most men realise. Is it not a massive effort how do you work and leave the dog at home on it’s own??	/r/seduction	28/09/22 03:16 PM
-3	My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learned Didn’t read this but I’m assuming you’ve cut her off and will make yourself incredibly attractive so that she regrets her decision for life.	/r/seduction	11/09/22 08:20 PM
2	How important are lingerie and sexy clothes 38m here, yes I’m turned on by thongs and a nice bra. Definitely	/r/seduction	16/08/22 09:52 AM
17	Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general? Lack of proper education on the opposite sex.	/r/seduction	22/07/22 10:28 PM
6	Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman? I guess you’re selling something. But yeah we could always do with direct advice with women. Problem is you’re never direct with us, always indirect and cryptic	/r/seduction	18/07/22 03:23 PM
-4	is having 'style' as a man considered by some as gay? I think you have to make it clear that you’re not gay. I get what you’re saying to not take it seriously but you don’t want them to think you’re gay if you’re not.	/r/seduction	08/07/22 10:36 PM
-1	is having 'style' as a man considered by some as gay? Haha yeah someone once thought I was gay. I got mildly offended and put them straight (literally). You might have to think about how you came across beyond having style. You might need more masculine eye contact and smirking but without knowing you it’s hard to comment.	/r/seduction	08/07/22 10:34 PM
-7	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested It’s actually very clever and similar to something I’ve seen before.	/r/seduction	07/07/22 06:43 PM
15	What to say when a girl says she likes your hair? Thanks, you can touch it if you like,	/r/seduction	05/07/22 02:39 PM
22	Why do girls do this? Women are physically weaker than men so they just give their number with no intention of replying. They would rather that than say no to your face and potentially threaten their own safety. That’s the way it is. Move on.	/r/seduction	01/07/22 12:45 PM
2	What's a good idea for a first date? A drink somewhere you can talk	/r/seduction	21/06/22 11:48 AM
58	What does a woman mean when she say's she just doesn't feel the connection? Yep this is correct. So to rectify this OP you have to look at her like you’re attracted to her. Don’t overdo it though. Also you have to initiate some touch. A light touch of the hand or do what I do and comment on their bracelet then take their hand to look at it 😉	/r/seduction	21/06/22 11:15 AM
1	What does a woman mean when she say's she just doesn't feel the connection? It means you’re too available.	/r/seduction	21/06/22 11:13 AM
4	Movies that show seduction properly crocodile Dundee. He has banter and is a masculine man. He’s also willing to walk away. He also protects her. It’s a great film.	/r/seduction	19/06/22 09:26 AM
1	No idea how to flirt. Get the F formula	/r/seduction	17/06/22 07:40 AM
50	Are we as men working too hard to get women? You don’t chase any woman. Period.	/r/seduction	15/06/22 03:17 PM
83	Are we as men working too hard to get women? Other than sex what does she offer you. Does she treat you right. Does she make an equal or greater effort.	/r/seduction	15/06/22 03:17 PM
6	I tried too hard to kiss her, will that turn her off completely? Tough one. Ok so the mistake was trying again because she’d already said no. What you should have done was said “ok”. And then not tried again until the NEXT date. The reason that would have worked is because it would have respected her boundaries. She would have felt more safe with you and probably would have kissed you the next time. So that being said learn from that and apply that in the future. I’m not sure what you should do now. I think maybe you could say sorry for not respecting her bou…	/r/seduction	12/06/22 06:59 PM
1	Help. Guy I like just called me “girly” as in “hey girly” I would still say that. I’d probably say it when I was confident that she liked me. Or just generally confident.	/r/seduction	12/06/22 01:22 PM
2	Help. Guy I like just called me “girly” as in “hey girly” Man here. I wouldn’t worry about this or read too much into it. We are very simple we just want sex with an attractive female.	/r/seduction	12/06/22 01:20 PM
9	Kissed my date last night mid sentence. Shut up dude	/r/seduction	09/06/22 12:18 AM
1	How do I be less desperate/eager? Ok so you need to warm them up with eye contact. Give them glances and smirks. This gets them thinking about you. When it comes to conversation you can focus on your surroundings. So it’s like a slow build up. She wonders if you like her or not. The more time she’s thinking about you the more she convinces herself she must like you. Also you gotta be in decent shape and try to take some care of your face and hair. This goes a long way. Try to remember that even though she’s really hot what else …	/r/seduction	08/06/22 11:37 AM
4	Where the hell can I meet girls? 😂😂	/r/seduction	05/06/22 12:58 PM
3	Should I text her back? Set up a date. If she doesn’t show then you have your answer.	/r/seduction	27/05/22 07:32 PM
4	How do I flirt with a coworker? It’s mostly friendly eye contact, keeping some conversation going by being interested in their life (but not so much that you come across as too obvious), you could try a light touch on the arm this definitely signals attraction but don’t do this too much leave them wanting more. Then when the time is right find a way to see them outside of work. But be careful if it doesn’t work out you’ll have to see them all the time.	/r/seduction	27/05/22 12:33 PM
6	How to get her out of my head? You need to distance yourself. She’s not available	/r/seduction	24/05/22 09:54 PM
3	How to get more dates from dating apps? 5/6 pics is fine. Face shot, full body shot, pic of you doing an activity etc. If you have muscle definition it’ll help. Bio short, make it funny if you can. Messages should be short and simple. No life story until you’ve had sex. Usually about 5-6 messages	/r/seduction	24/05/22 09:26 PM
0	My experience as a 20m y/o college student with over 60 partners in less than 3 years. Are you the guy doing the deadlifts? If so I’m not surprised they want sex	/r/seduction	24/05/22 01:02 PM
6	Attempting to be charismatic often feels forced and cringey. But not forcing myself to be outgoing results in me being quiet and boring. What do I do? You do what entertains you. Authenticity is great.	/r/seduction	10/05/22 12:02 PM
8	How do you make dating and approaching women fun or at least less painful? If it’s a cold approach you can just say “I think you look great and just wanted to say hi, I’m ... what’s your name?” If she’s not receptive then just say ok have a nice day and walk off. If she is receptive then say that’s a nice name, what do you like to do for fun, then invite her to do that. Then ask for her number.	/r/seduction	29/03/21 07:05 PM
2	First cold-approach Good luck	/r/seduction	29/03/21 06:52 PM
3	Advice on approaching college classmates in/after class? You can just talk about the work and how she’s getting on. She knows why you’re talking to her, or at least has a good idea. Make sure to smile and be warm.	/r/seduction	29/03/21 06:21 PM
1	How can I stop obsessing? You have to ask her out. It’ll hurt but it’ll make you a stronger person.	/r/seduction	11/09/20 12:04 AM
19	𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝 Pressured big chances? What do you mean	/r/seduction	10/09/20 11:22 PM