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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 36 | I want out! | Blueboat2 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/21 05:21 PM |
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| 2 | Should i go home for the holidays?But that straw 5hat broke the camel's back was when you said "I asked our son and he said you broke it". As if intried to hide it and his word was solid, concrete proof. Yeah man. It's funny how we know that certain people are manipulative but we're still surprised every time it happens. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/21 01:33 PM |
| 0 | Should i go home for the holidays?If I cowtow and just work to keep peace for the children's sake, this will register in her mind that she can do this type of behavior with me again in the future to get me to cooperate. Yep. I divorced her because she was manipulative but I could not put my finger on what was occurring (I was yo8ng and dumb). I am not going to submit. I do not negotiate with terrorists. I know how you feel. Unfortunately the terrorist is holding your children hostage. Maybe lose the battle to win the war? Just a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/21 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Should i go home for the holidays?Shitty situation. Seems like she knows she can leverage the kids against you to get you to submit. Manipulative and cruel. Probably part of the reason you divorced in the first place, I imagine. Still, for the kids, I would submit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/21 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Probably an unpopular opinion, but I’m tired seeing the comments section filled with “GET A LAWYER”.I mean this is a divorce subreddit... It's a common mistake and important. Redundant voices can be reassuring. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/21 04:15 PM |
| 3 | I’m done. What now?From what you wrote, I don't think you should give her another chance. If you're uncertain, you can always get a lawyer and just move slowly and watch for reassurances. That has been my approach so far and the reassurances have been coming. First step - find a law firm. Does she still suck? Move to second step. Second step - consult with law firm. Does she still suck? Move to third step. Third step - actually retain lawyer. Does she still suck? Move to fourth step. Fourth step - start conversati… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/21 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Man tries to pick up his son for visitation, wife plays games and her new bf comes out with a rifle and kills him. Be careful out there guys.Jesus that's terrible | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | HELP! see comments!Leave. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/21 04:56 PM |
| 2 | What to do?You have good instincts (now, at least). Keep it up regardless of what happens. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/21 05:53 PM |
| 13 | Turns out is was her all alongSorry for your pain but glad you have found out the truth. Best of luck to you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/21 04:01 PM |
| 2 | I think my wife is a Narcissist, I suffer from childhood abuse from my mom and she definitely is a narcissist. I kinda was feeling like I regretted my marriage with her and now after three years and two kids, I’ve finally am being honest with myself that I really regret marrying her.Your instincts are probably right. They are incredibly good at manipulating you into feeling like you are the problem. I think you likely have a long road ahead, but good news is that you are moving in the right direction. You deserve to be happy and free. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/21 02:22 AM |
| 6 | How do you deal with the feeling of failure?Your relationship failed, not you. You fail only if you do not move on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | No longer wanting to be in this anymore.Oh man, get out ASAP. Eject, eject, eject! | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/21 06:21 PM |
| 9 | Sock Day hit yesterday!Geez, what a nut. Glad you stood up for yourself. You are definitely better off without her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/11/21 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Lost my purposeYou're probably going to feel lonely and broken for awhile. Good news is you get to find yourself, and it sounds like you need it. Also, maybe check in with a doctor/therapist etc. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/21 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Question on when you fileWhat is your credit limit on the cards? Would you be able to comfortably pay that? She can't go above that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/21 05:49 PM |
| 7 | How did you know it was time to go?Sounds like it's time to go to me. You don't have kids. Go be free. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/21 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Things I’ve Done On My OwnHaha this speaks to me. My (soon to be) ex-wife is a hoarder. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/21 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Things I’ve Done On My OwnIsn't freedom grand?! Congratulations on having control over your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/21 05:41 PM |
| 2 | I’m really stressed about when we tell everyoneI'm sorry about your situation, you seem like a nice guy with good intentions. Best of luck navigating these turbulent times and I hope you are able to find yourself in better circumstances down the line. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/21 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Want to Rant. I Fucking Hate This BitchSorry about your situation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/21 01:43 AM |
| 1 | She's posting details on Facebook looking to smear me / garner sympathyStay strong man. You are heading in the right direction. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/21 01:38 AM |
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