Bluedemon52 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	How do you guys do it?		Bluedemon52	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 02:35 PM
2	Anyone want to organize a Cruise?		Bluedemon52	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/22 03:43 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Post Divorce ED and dating Get off this thread. You're not helping.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/24 12:20 AM
1	Divorce and security clearance Don't let her do it. Most states dint need a "reason." Go get a lawyer. Now. She is your worst enemy and an absolute snake. Don't let her have am inch. Even if everything seems fine. Your SC is your money. It's what keeps you fed and safe. Don't let her challenge that.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/02/23 05:26 PM
6	Talk some sense in to me. Smokeshow is giving all the signs she's interested... Go to her place. Enjoy life. Why do you have to be lonley and miserable? Hasn't life shit on you enough? Also, if she likes you and is a good honest person, just talk to her. You'll have to do it eventually if you want her to stick around. Therapy can only get you so far, you gotta live life and work through the rest on your own. Long story short: text her you're into her and wanna hang out at her place. If you can have a more serious talk up front, tell her the truth. Don't be a big whiney baby…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/23 08:04 PM
3	ED after Divorce? I am not as horny in general after my divorce. I think it's 100% a mental thing. I recently met someone who I've had the pleasure of being intimate with. I get hard and stay hard long enough for her to climax multiple times, but then need her to "talk?" To me in order for me to climax myself. Sex is a very intimate thing no matter how much anyone wants to pretend it isn't, and your emotions play a part. I can jerk off by myself, but it takes some effort and I can tell my heart isn't in it.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/23 09:41 PM
1	What should I do !! The name of the game when it comes to divorce is clear and concise communication. I've met plenty of people who don't speak English as a first language. You're gonna need to step your game up to survive your separation.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/23 08:52 PM
-1	What should I do !! Dude if you communicate with her the way you wrote this post, I can see where the issues come from. Take your time and work out more detailed thoughts and explanations. I get coming here to ask for advise or share, it's why most of us are here. Your post is hard to read and isn't cohesive at all. Try again.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/23 02:58 PM
2	What makes you remarry? I was really hoping for some more positive comments after reading this. I'm having the same thoughts. Simple no kid no asset Divorce but I'm still paying legal fees. I wouldn't call myself a hopeless romantic but I really do want to have my own children/family one day. I've been seeing a therapist and plan to continue to do so, but I know my part in this was that I didn't set clear boundaries and enforce them. I let her abuse me until she got all the things I could give her out of me. I don't wa…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/08/22 02:35 PM
2	Anyone want to organize a Cruise? Lmao. I mean yeah. But at least for me, the hardest part is finding guys in my area to be friends with and establish a support group that isn't overly religious. I could pretend to like golfing but that's not going to get me far. (I'm stuck in a state my spouse requested and can't leave for at least 2 years. No family or friends near me)	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/22 04:23 PM
1	Any thoughts/Advice? 1st. Welcome to the club. 2nd. If you do anything anyone says please go get a lawyer and only talk to her via email. I know it's hard but you gotta do that. 3rd. You need to invest in yourself buddy. I'm not saying go max out 10000 in credit card debt, but as long as you didn't do anything and make sure your assets are secure, go on a trip. I want to go on a cruise after my ships done. Maybe we should all organize something. 4th. Exercise. I'm going to start back up soon, you should too. It will…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/22 03:39 PM
2	How do you guys do it? The saddest part is, the apartment essentially feels the same without her in it as it did when she was home. I'm taking a lot of the advice you guys are giving me. Imma send all my valuables to my moms except the TV or anything I can fit in my car. That way no matter what I'm safe and protected. I'll have a bag of my clothes in the trunk so if my clothes are gone I can still work and shower at the gym. I've never been good at waiting. Always about the action and getting work done. All of you guy…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 06:18 PM
1	How do you guys do it? Extra paycheck for you to put another set of new locks or replace the other ones though right? Or do you guys have to report to a bunch of courts because of it?	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 05:56 PM
3	How do you guys do it? Everyone on here's been incredibly supportive and I'm glad this is a group. The internet has so many options for women that are supportive. It feels like I'm not allowed to be the one who's just unhappy. Even the circuit clerk website I went to had lines reading in a way that only a woman could be trying to figure out how to file a divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 04:05 PM
4	How do you guys do it? I want to confirm with the attorneys before I request that and get screwed over.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 04:01 PM
2	How do you guys do it? See that's the icing on the cake. We have no shared assets. After all this time she never activated the joint back account I made. She never sent me money for savings. There are 0 joint assets. Only our stuff. Calls the police and wants me to work things out and not sign papers. It's crazy. I just learned what Grey rocking is and that's exactly what happened the entire relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 03:44 PM
2	How do you guys do it? I argued with them a lot over this subject before moving in which is why I'm upset.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 03:36 PM
2	How do you guys do it? It is because the shitbag apartment complex requires it. Which is stupid.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 03:36 PM
1	Sleep… how? I love how honest to go everyone on this post is right. The only true way to fix this is to get swole. Ever since I started the process I knew I had to start working out again to keep myself sane.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 03:24 PM
2	How do you guys do it? I think I have to do the camera. It's way too much work to try and move everything around in my car for months.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 02:59 PM
3	How do you guys do it? I did too. I feel like she Grey rocked me all the fucking time and blamed anxiety.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 02:54 PM
10	How do you guys do it? Yeah... she wanted to go get a second masters. I've come to the realization I need to go my own way because she doesn't value me. Which is ironic because she has so many God damn books on being a strong woman who values herself.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 02:53 PM
8	How do you guys do it? Grey rock? Like I should Google that?	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 02:51 PM
4	How do you guys do it? No kids. The rent is 1200 and she doesn't make enough to pay it. I don't make enough to get a second place. She has family nearby and could tell her boss she wanted to work full time if she wanted to.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 02:48 PM
5	How do you guys do it? I have appointment on August 24th. She has my mail key and house key and refuses to give them back. I have no family in the area. I also don't make a ton of money so the idea of 2 lawyers is scary.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 02:41 PM