Bluesiderug Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
40	For all you ladies who think that your guy is an exception...HE IS NOT	LEVEL UP	Bluesiderug	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/19 12:21 AM
25	Some explain the late night “miss you” texts to me	SEEKING ADVICE	Bluesiderug	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/19 09:51 PM
13	Do you use these strategies on friendships?	DISCUSSION	Bluesiderug	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/19 11:42 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Stolen from ig Who is that man on the platform? Seems like a HVM....!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/19 03:17 AM
7	Some explain the late night “miss you” texts to me Hey thanks for taking the time to reply. I feel like such a loooooser ugh. Yes and my feelings are hurt too. Just like you said - thought this dude had respect for me and that we were legitimately friends. WTF. How I did I never know this?!! Leveling up. Thanks sister!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/19 03:11 PM
6	Some explain the late night “miss you” texts to me Omg for real?? This has literally never crossed my mind. Ew I feel so used.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/19 03:10 AM
8	Some explain the late night “miss you” texts to me For real?! I’ve never ever done that before.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/19 10:04 PM
7	Queen Sh*t Megathread I dont have time to train a 39 year old bum on how to be a man Wow, this comment really resonated with me. What a great way to put it. Good for you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/19 02:47 PM
2	Do you use these strategies on friendships? So much of what you said resonated with me. I've also had friends who were a huge drain on my time and emotions. I'm not 100% sure I'd expect male friends to always pay on shared outings, but to always be respectful, absolutely. Ugh, I really need to get rid of some of those emotional vampires from my life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/19 05:34 PM
3	Do you use these strategies on friendships? Thanks for the thoughtful reply. I'm curious about your comment re: being more lenient with your friends. I'm not 100% sure, but I think I lean towards the opposite. Like in my busy life, I only have time for so many friends, so the ones in my inner circle must be super high quality ones. I feel like I'm a little more lenient with my partner because...I have more of a vested interest in him? I'm not really sure how to put it. That's not to say I don't have compassion and get that friendships (an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/19 05:30 PM
2	Do you use these strategies on friendships? Hey thanks for sharing. I 100% agree with everything that you’ve said and I’m exactly the same way. And I’m just coming to realize that women are not men. I think I’ve always sorted treated them the same but thinking about this question....I’m now thinking that they’re not. My male friendships do seem different in some way. That makes me feel I need to me more guarded and not just my loving self. Hm.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/19 05:17 PM
6	Reminder: Texting is False Intimacy. What is it that guys get out of texting? A little bit of external validation? A quick pick me up? Is it really enough emotional intimacy for them (if it isn’t enough for us? Like are their needs lower than ours by so much?)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/19 12:35 AM