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| 1 | If you could get away with it guaranteed would you commit paternity fraudI think this question presupposes that women lie way more about sex and paternity than they really do. I think women make decisions about sex and children the same way men do: "Do I like this person? Do I want to share a child with them? If yes, let's go for it." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 10:56 PM |
| 1 | More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyoneNo thanks, nobody's making claims about why the sun rises so no citation needed there. We're discussing how economic conditions affect birth rates across countries right now. Do try to keep up. If you come up with anything useful, I'll look forward to reading it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 02:06 AM |
| 1 | More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyoneSo your source is you. Got it. I'm sure you're right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 07:08 PM |
| 1 | More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyoneCitation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 02:06 PM |
| 1 | More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyonehttps://www.apa.org/monitor/2024/07/fewer-children "Yet some experts say that many of the factors that keep fence-sitters teetering—childhood trauma, financial challenges, political and environmental fears, paltry childcare options and parental leave policies, mental illness, attacks on reproductive freedom, and more" "There are myriad reasons people are having fewer children. For one, traditional markers of adulthood, like moving out of your parents’ house and getting married, are hitting later… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 02:21 AM |
| 2 | More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyoneAre birth rates collapsing because of a disconnect between men and women? I thought it was because having a child has become astronomically expensive and support systems for families are collapsing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 09:39 PM |
| -3 | Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategy"Benevolent sexism" huh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategyWhat drivel exactly? What misinformation are they teaching? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 09:32 PM |
| -3 | Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategyLost me at "women enjoyed a protected and preferential status in most societies" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 07:34 PM |
| 0 | Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare.So are we advocating for state funding for all cosmetic surgery? I don't like my jawline, it bums me out every time I see it in photos, I believe I qualify for this public service. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare."Gender-affirming care" in what way? Because only men have hair? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 01:06 PM |
| 1 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.If women overused the word "creepy" in the 2010s, it's because it had been seriously underused prior to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 04:30 PM |
| – | A lot of young men are leaning conservative simply because leftists/liberals aren’t making it a point to speak directly to men, like they do to other groups, which conservatives take advantage ofIt's true- Conservatives treat everyone the same as they always have. Not the same as in "equal rights", that's for damn sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 02:59 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"Pete Davidson was 100x more attractive before he acquired the money. But being funny and having a huge crank can transcend both, so really, he was born to win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:50 PM |
| 11 | On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental ObligationsEveryone can make a car accident disappear before it happens, simply by not driving a car. If you opt to drive, you derive the benefits and carry the burdens of that decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?Women say bad/misogynistic men are single because they're bad/misogynistic. Not that all single men are bad/misogynistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:24 PM |
| – | What is the definition of a 'low-value man' from a women's POV?That doesn't make them higher- or lower-value people. If you want to be more popular, there are millions of books about that. If you want to be smarter or more interesting or more influential or more attractive, there are millions of books about those too. Nobody can be all of those things. Decide what you want to be, specifically, and figure out how to be that. The men I'm least interested in are the ones who don't know who they are or what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.It. Was. Fucking. Sarcasm. If "🙄🙄🙄" didn't help, I don't know what will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.You sure you don't want her dead, dismembered, and acid washed like every other feminist on Earth? 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Men are lonely because women are changed.Men and women alike need to take responsibility and ownership of their feelings. Lonely? Find out why. Are you putting yourself out there in spaces where you'll meet interesting people? Are you an interesting person yourself? Are you surrounded by people but you're too shy/introverted/depressed to engage with them? Do you need to relocate to another city to find more people like yourself? If you have a certain type of person in mind that you'd like to date, but those types aren't into you, ask y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?Easy there, watch yourself. If people start thinking like that, in ways that make perfect sense and that don't hinge on "all of life is a conspiracy orchestrated by women to make men unhappy for fun and profit", this sub's going to fall apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 05:00 AM |
| -3 | Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely menWeird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely menI think it sure can, but doesn't always. Toxic people get by on their collection of non-toxic behaviors. And you can't identify what you've never experienced so less experienced people are less likely to catch on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:33 PM |
| -3 | Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely menI mean, that's great, but in what Earthly way does that correspond to this post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, have you even not been into someone despite them being good in bed?On one hand, you're right, anything is possible. On the other...people just say things during sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 04:14 AM |
| 16 | Ladies, have you even not been into someone despite them being good in bed?Oh, your dad is absolutely wrong. No question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 01:14 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, have you even not been into someone despite them being good in bed?There's no objective "good in bed" ratings scale. There are definitely ways to get so much better that you're still #1 (and yes, that's childish as hell but I'm trying to maintain the theme), but don't count out chemistry. Sometimes you can do everything "right" and the sex still isn't everything she could ask for. It's very possible for a woman to walk away from exceptionally good d* because they're not into the rest of the guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menMaybe I can help: there is no organized effort among women to use sex to specifically punish average men for being average. Believe me, I know that getting rejected is very hurtful. And I know that any subsequent rejections get infinitely more hurtful each time. I just think it's a better use of our energy to focus on who we want to be and how to be that. I'm trying to work toward a place where I'm happy with myself, so that the ugly behavior of others doesn't eat away at me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menNo, and it's strange to claim it because that's not what either of us said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menEverybody does everything to get what they want. You're no different. Men are no different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:38 PM |
| 4 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menWhat pattern? I'm not trying to obscure anything. I'm proposing a worldview where women's sexuality isn't a nefarious conspiracy and I'm proposing that it would be more helpful to consider this: Any woman's choice of when to have sex and with whom, might not be a personal attack against you and your friends. This "you just want us to ignore our observations that women prefer to have sex with other people sooner than they will with me!" victim mentality isn't healthy. I'm not saying that's never … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:37 PM |
| 1 | If the advices and path insisted on by the current neoliberal feminist-leaning postmodernist cultural institution wasn't leading "average" men to misery and isolation, they wouldn't bother seeking out any other philosophies or "pills"Nobody thinks of the American right wing as outsiders or "counterculture" except the American right wing. Your position that Conservatives cannot be among the "cultural elite" says more about you than it does Conservatism. Even if "the left dominates the media!" were true, it obviously wouldn't matter because the right is winning the voters. Again, your reading "a subgroup of boys" as me "belittling and insulting men" says more about you than anything. There IS a subgroup of boys who feel that w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menI'm not here to disprove you, since your point can neither be proven nor disproven. I'm here to point out that there's a more useful way to look at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:21 PM |
| 13 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menIt might help to reframe Point 1 as not "sex is the reward that she withholds until she decides he's earned it" but rather "she's allowed to agree to sex whenever it's an option and also she feels like it". And then to recognize that "people feel like it" at different times based on chemistry and life circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 10:44 AM |
| 0 | If the advices and path insisted on by the current neoliberal feminist-leaning postmodernist cultural institution wasn't leading "average" men to misery and isolation, they wouldn't bother seeking out any other philosophies or "pills"And your argument is that Americans' politics are separate from our culture? And that it matters because those things don't directly relate to one another? Gotcha. That seems likely, that the dominant culture has no bearing on the dominant political climate- more likely than "there's a subgroup of boys who feel powerless because the kinds of girls they like don't like them back. And although unrequited love and superiority complexes have been a running theme throughout all of recorded history, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 10:28 AM |
| 1 | If the advices and path insisted on by the current neoliberal feminist-leaning postmodernist cultural institution wasn't leading "average" men to misery and isolation, they wouldn't bother seeking out any other philosophies or "pills"Read it again. You'll get there eventually, u/[adjective][noun][4-digit number]! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 10:18 AM |
| 1 | If the advices and path insisted on by the current neoliberal feminist-leaning postmodernist cultural institution wasn't leading "average" men to misery and isolation, they wouldn't bother seeking out any other philosophies or "pills""We must protect the children!" seems like a fever dream from years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:37 AM |
| 6 | If the advices and path insisted on by the current neoliberal feminist-leaning postmodernist cultural institution wasn't leading "average" men to misery and isolation, they wouldn't bother seeking out any other philosophies or "pills""The churches are run by feminists" isn't a take I expected to read today. That's probably because I'm not completely dissociated from reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:36 AM |
| 3 | If the advices and path insisted on by the current neoliberal feminist-leaning postmodernist cultural institution wasn't leading "average" men to misery and isolation, they wouldn't bother seeking out any other philosophies or "pills""Drain the swamp" is why they voted for him the first time. The second time it was grocery prices and flagrant racism. Oh, and the USA will do literally anything before they elect a woman, which further supports my original point. The women aren't taking over so they can subjugate the men anytime soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:34 AM |
| 30 | If the advices and path insisted on by the current neoliberal feminist-leaning postmodernist cultural institution wasn't leading "average" men to misery and isolation, they wouldn't bother seeking out any other philosophies or "pills"I can't even get past the assertion that the cultural establishment is feminist-leaning. The US elected a pssy-grabber. Twice. We are not at risk of feminism taking over, fellas. Not in this lifetime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Women use ‘nice guys’ as a dumping ground for their projectionsBingo. If he acts like he inserted a Basic Manners coin into the Vagina Machine, and therefore he expects the machine to dispense some vagina? That's a Nice Guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 08:02 PM |
| 5 | Why do women date men at all?If it were me, I'd be looking for a man who doesn't invent statistics and make sweeping generalizations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.If you're any good in bed, she'll want to have sex with you. If she doesn't, that tells us more about you than her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Way to tell on yourself, Jimbo. If it were me, I'd have left that one in the drafts. But I admire your candor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 02:15 PM |
| 1 | why do so many men look down on sex workers (escorts, prostitutes, onlyfans model, sugarbabies etc ) but at the same time also consume their services/content?How many times a day do you normally talk about Discord | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 09:57 PM |
| 13 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.So is the Me Too era over or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 08:10 PM |
| 28 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.There's zero chance of US society ever "believing all women", or even "most women", so it's a moot point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | why do so many men look down on sex workers (escorts, prostitutes, onlyfans model, sugarbabies etc ) but at the same time also consume their services/content?How can I be a groomer when you're obviously a child playing on a grownup's phone, yet I couldn't be less interested in you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 07:57 PM |
| 1 | why do so many men look down on sex workers (escorts, prostitutes, onlyfans model, sugarbabies etc ) but at the same time also consume their services/content?Ohhhh, there she is bringing out the spiciest of the spicy fake accusations. "LISTEN UP: EveRyOnE i dOn'T LikE iS a gRooMeR!" Sit down, darling, you're embarrassing yourself and your family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 05:53 PM |
| – | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.Jesus Christ, this subreddit is exhausting. If people spent the same amount of time in therapy as they spend typing out dogshit like this? Each and every one of them would be a happier, healthier person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 04:04 AM |
| – | why do so many men look down on sex workers (escorts, prostitutes, onlyfans model, sugarbabies etc ) but at the same time also consume their services/content?I said that's enough. Listen to your betters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 03:17 AM |
| – | why do so many men look down on sex workers (escorts, prostitutes, onlyfans model, sugarbabies etc ) but at the same time also consume their services/content?Girl, you have got to go back on your meds. That's enough out of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 12:33 AM |
| 0 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?"Men" don't think or operate as one unit. Individual men want individual things from relationships. Many of them overlap but asserting "what men want" vs "what women want" isn't useful. All we can do is figure out what each of us wants, and try to find a partner that we are compatible with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 06:38 PM |
| 4 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?It's a question with an unquantifiable answer. "Men" don't want any one thing, "women" don't want any one thing. Once people around here sort that out, their lives are going to get a lot simpler. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 04:59 PM |
| 2 | why do so many men look down on sex workers (escorts, prostitutes, onlyfans model, sugarbabies etc ) but at the same time also consume their services/content?Source? "Look anywhere!" Anything that prevalent should be easy to cite to but ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 02:32 AM |
| 4 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.If all you're after is the panties dropping, I'm sure you're right. But this post is about who is the provider, which means having an actual life with someone. If you're looking for a life with someone, I don't know a single woman who, all other things being equal, wouldn't rather settle down with the guy who knows how to cook and who can clean up after himself and who can do laundry and who she trusts will learn how to change a diaper one day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:05 AM |
| 1 | A womans lack of effort is not a sign for you to try harder.Fair. I agree with OP's conclusion but not how they got there. They're overcomplicating the issue. OP opines that men have become pathetic, that "Too many men have pedestalized women to the point that you treat their attention like oxygen" blah blah blah. It's really much simpler: She's Just Not That Into You, and it's fine, and now you need to leave her be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 12:50 PM |
| 1 | A womans lack of effort is not a sign for you to try harder.This post isn't about shame at all, nor is it about women who pretend to be interested. It's about not pursuing women who are openly not interested. And your use of the word "most" is saying more about you than you intended it to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 01:05 PM |
| 51 | A womans lack of effort is not a sign for you to try harder.I couldn’t agree more. If a woman is telling you, through words or actions, to leave her alone, then leave her alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 05:59 PM |
| – | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.I don't know anybody who thinks older men getting with younger women are "losers". People might think they're getting used, but that's not the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Men have been gaslit into believing all jealousy is toxic, and women are reaping the rewardsI disagree. I think it's very odd to describe the pool of one's potential love interests like they’re opponents. There are lots and lots of women in the world. The search for the right one gets easier after one stops doing that. Maybe not "easy", but undoubtedly easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 04:39 AM |
| 6 | Men have been gaslit into believing all jealousy is toxic, and women are reaping the rewards-"It's presumed that most people want a relationship." Sure, but people shouldn't enter into one and then behave as though they're a hostage. -"Most men don't have their pick of the litter." First off, we're not talking about dogs. There is no "pick of the litter". We're talking about the search for a human we love and are compatible with. Secondly: Very few people find their ideal human specimen for looks + personality + family life + income + location + taste in music, etc. We love who we love… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 09:38 PM |
| 7 | Men have been gaslit into believing all jealousy is toxic, and women are reaping the rewardsNobody, man or woman, should stay in a relationship where the behavior under your "rational jealousy" examples is demanded. I feel like your argument is framed as "we are forced to live under these conditions" but I don't see that holding true in my life. "Respect" and "fidelity" are reasonable expectations. Their meanings vary from person to person. Find someone whose definitions match up with your own and don't accept anything less, and you won't have a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassingYou start out with "women not being able to stay in relationships is embarrassing" and end with "They can't keep getting away with this." With what? Your whole premise is, the women are failing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:25 PM |
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