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7	The importance of “STFU” and how hard it truly is (even for me) It’s important to note that strategies listed here are not the end all be all of successful relationships for all men. YMMV is accurate but do note that a lot here has worked well for many men. Yes, it’s often advised to not engage too much in text message flirting or keeping “tabs” on your wife throughout the day but you’ve got to look at the context of that advice. It’s usually directed at guys who are partly flirting (in lame ass ways mind you) with their wives through texts and partly bitchi…	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/08/19 12:46 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 27, 2019 OYS #2 Stats: Age: 34; 5'7 165 lbs; BF: ~22% (not totally sure); Wife: 35 (married 10 years); Children: 2 (6 year old son and 13 month old daughter) Readings WISNIFG; NMMNG This Week I made my first OYS post late last week, so there's not a whole lot to update except for some things I've learned since then. I'm realizing I do not have a mission, and I need one. While I am focusing on my fitness and health (although I have stumbled these past few days), I need something more than just the bare ba…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/08/19 11:59 PM
10	Frame....Frame.....Frame Forget the kids and iPads right now and focus on the bigger issue: your wife does not operate in your frame and she has no idea what she’s doing with her children. First step is to admit this is YOUR problem. She might have hardware problems but I’m thinking there’s more to your story than “I have decent lift numbers and a fun relationship with my kids but my wife sucks.” You might be a good example for how to handle those small organizational things but women go along with leadership. Read the …	/r/askMRP	27/08/19 02:43 AM
1	I lost frame last night. She hit me at my weakest spot. We can't all be some tv sitcom character replying to every annoying comment with a witty remark. I have days when I'm low and vulnerable. I'm only human. You're right that most of the comments here are those perfect comebacks you think of in the shower. It's why STFU is the first advisable response instead of grandmaster level shit test passer. When you're low and vulnerable and she inevitably calls you out on it, STFU and go do something else. Honestly, I'd rather my wife be tough and give me a…	/r/askMRP	27/08/19 01:39 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 20, 2019 You're actually touching on some ideas I've had for a few years. I'm kind of excited right now and will research this further.	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/08/19 01:36 AM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 20, 2019 OYS #1 Stats: Age: 34; 5'7 165 lbs; BF: ~22% (not totally sure); Wife: 35 (married 10 years); Children: 2 (6 year old son and 13 month old daughter) Readings NMMNG (x2); Various Rollo interviews; Reddit Red Pill Posts Intro I'm going to keep this short because I can get long winded: being beta has tarnished a rather privileged and good life. I shouldn't have much to complain about. I have lucked out with my wife who has not gone crazy from my lack of frame and my disgustingly weak leadership. Th…	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/08/19 01:24 AM

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