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Yeah exactly, I think she used my lack of extra affection to construct a hole, and then I went and dug that imaginary hole a little deeper by being like an idiot and trying to use words to throw dirt back on it. I don't know what's gayer. Your text to her. Your hamstering about her constructing some proverbial hole. The fact that you ended your pussy ass text with a SMILEY FACE I had some hope for you, until I go to this part...
/r/askMRP11/08/17 02:45 PM
2

And how'd that go afterwards?
/r/askMRP11/08/17 02:33 PM
1

Doubtful.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 07:43 PM
1

+1 Rizzuto
/r/askMRP08/08/17 07:00 PM
2

I think she is the best I can do at the moment Then you're a pussy who is scared to put in the work. Scared to make himself better. A better what? A better man. A better father. Better lover. That's entirely up to you. You're simply scared and instead want to hang onto something that is comforting. Congrats, your ex is your lil blankey. Guess what doesn't make pussy dripping wet? Guy's who are scared and can't do better. Get back with your ex and I bet she'll smell that fear lingering on you so …
/r/askMRP08/08/17 06:59 PM
3

6 months and you think she fucked ONLY ONE DUDE? Excuse me
/r/askMRP08/08/17 06:49 PM
4

Or, I could calm down, apologize, and through some witchcraft amnesia completely forget what I just said and act submissive and want you to fuck me later...which is good. Reinforce that behavior, and fuck me later. Dude, I think I just filled the cup
/r/askMRP08/08/17 02:30 PM
1

BobbyP's answer - You are basically saying that you were already looking at it because you are a guy who handles shit… Judges? Perfect. - It conveys, I already saw the problem, it's on my radar, and I AM PLANNING ON HANDLING IT (in my own time frame) Your answer - Yeah or just tell her that I noticed, but it was not a priority? Judges? No... - This says, I already saw there was a problem and felt zero urge to do anything about it or fix it. Ergo, I'm not a man who handles his shit, at all.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 02:26 PM
1

Don't hold your breath.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 02:20 PM
1

Riddle me this... each day, how much time do you waste on Snapchat, or Facebook or whatever gay social thing is in now? If the answer is more than 5-10 minutes, you're WASTING YOUR LIFE.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 02:18 PM
1

I've been side baring but I'm still missing something. It's called basic common sense, critical thinking and reading comprehension. Oh, and effort.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 02:15 PM
1

If you do try the harness, let me know if it makes a difference.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 02:12 PM
1

Much appreciated. Do you wish you got the surgery earlier?
/r/askMRP08/08/17 02:11 PM
1

Much appreciated, Scurve.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 05:24 PM
1

How long have you had it? Clearly it isn't severe enough to need surgery. Do you lift heavy and as normal as you would without it? Or do you tailor your workouts in order to not aggravate it? First time dealing with it and I don't want to do anything to exacerbate the problem.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 04:57 PM
2

Stop deluding yourself. This is not simply an emotional affair situation. She fucked AT LEAST one other guy when SHE LEFT her husband and two children. She brought some other guy into her house and around her children? Oh yeah, she definitely fucked that dude too. Also, she's CLEARLY trying to get you to end it. She made sure the kids would see him, in their own house, so the information would get back to you. She was looking for a way to tell you without saying it to your face. Worked like a ch…
/r/askMRP07/08/17 04:54 PM
1

Since the thread is about lifting and injuries... Has anyone here ever dealt with an inguinal hernia?
/r/askMRP07/08/17 04:41 PM
2

We've got a confirmation
/r/askMRP07/08/17 04:35 PM
1

If you next her... then why would you accept her back? Error - DNC
/r/askMRP07/08/17 04:29 PM
1

Just trying to get a grasp of the current lay of the land... When you arrive home from work, does your wife greet you at the door each day? Does she cook for you daily, readily having whatever meal you want on the the table? Does she clean the house spotless and do all your laundry? Does she suck you and fuck you to the extent that you want????
/r/askMRP07/08/17 03:54 PM
1

Fuck short cuts.
/r/askMRP07/08/17 03:47 PM
7

Projection, thy name is woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 07:19 PM
2

Yes. They are listed in the sidebar..... you want the knowledge? You can go get it.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 06:24 PM
3

Yes. There's no need to dwell, stress or overly concern yourself with them at all. But it's foolish to think you never have to watch out for them.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 03:11 PM
1

I understand, however, I have to admit illness is a massive weak spot for me Translation I asked for advice, to which u/youscum answered perfectly. However, I will DEER, hamster and justify my feelz and continue being a bitch.
/r/askMRP02/08/17 07:20 PM
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No one should have to tell you to call your wife (or not).... Q: If you can't make such a simple decision for yourself, how the fuck will you make bigger decisions on your own?? A: You won't.
/r/askMRP02/08/17 07:16 PM
1

There's only one way to be sure. Bend over, generic, and grab them ankles.
/r/askMRP02/08/17 07:14 PM
1

i felt the need to buy/give her a gift every month What in the actual fuck? Every time you feel guilty, look at that rock on her finger and remind yourself that she already got her gift. YOU.
/r/askMRP01/08/17 08:41 PM
1

Your death bed will be a pretty pathetic place to be if you remember some one night stand (or several). By contrast, if your death bed gives you a chance to reminisce on that night that you passed on a one night stand and decided to be the man you knew you could be -- and then spent the next years becoming -- and never let up on becoming until you couldn't move any longer.. well that's a death bed to look forward to. Hear, fucking hear!
/r/askMRP31/07/17 02:27 PM
2

u/Jimbocaan2 this should be you
/r/askMRP31/07/17 02:22 PM
1

It's a simple formula, tbh. Imagine yourself, then add balls to it, and you'll have an idea of the basement level of the SMV spectrum.
/r/askMRP28/07/17 02:24 PM
2

WHAT?!?! It's YOUR house. Mark that territory.
/r/askMRP28/07/17 02:21 PM
5

Hey dunce, re-read your own post. I am not motivated to improve things with my wife as I have relatively little to gain from it. You say you're a successful business guy, okay, sure. What would you do with an employee, or a product that you had "relatively little to gain from it" You're a 50+ guy looking for rando internet guys to validate your feelings and hold your hand. Trust me, this aint the community for that. It's fucking simple. WHAT DO YOU DESIRE? Want to stay and make it work with your…
/r/askMRP28/07/17 02:16 PM
2

She's a 40+ HB9..... and is lower value than you?? HAHAHA. Thanks, I needed that this morning.
/r/askMRP28/07/17 02:13 PM
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Keep dropping knowledge Rollo! Thank you for all you've done for the community, and a thank you to the mods that keep this circus in check!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 06:56 PM
2

"Do you think my wife would like it if I turned her over, or would she think that is too beta of a position?? HELP!!"
/r/askMRP26/07/17 04:04 PM
1

Wait, you were serious about that deadline ?
/r/askMRP26/07/17 04:03 PM
3

Do you want her to wear a skirt and tank top? Or would you rather her wear a sultry dress? Be decisive. Don't waver. Tell her what you want out of her.
/r/askMRP26/07/17 03:58 PM
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Why is this good? because this is a strategy i can employ across a shorter time period. It's not. Don't fucking cheat yourself. Put in the damn work. Or stop wasting our time. You lost me at cutting corners.
/r/askMRP26/07/17 02:44 PM
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Hey big red... You better bring a lotta pen and paper, because Scurve is dishing gems here.
/r/askMRP26/07/17 02:41 PM
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fools rush in where angels fear to tread. Pure fuckin gold.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 03:39 PM
1

Ouch..... what your saying is pure truth... but ouch...
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 03:38 PM
4

There was some talk about traditional roles and she looked him in the face and told him "your dad has the final say, because he's the head of our family" Never once had those words come from my mouth to her. Submission is a gift that has to be earned. Proud dad moment
/r/askMRP25/07/17 03:27 PM
1

My lady wears this.
/r/askMRP25/07/17 01:56 PM
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Even though there are many good things in the relationship, I too often don't want to be around her. Wait till that ring gets on the finger, then you'll really see her true colors. Most men go their entire lives without coming to that realization. Many men realize it "way too late". You have answered your own question and you aren't even tied down to this woman. Marriage is 24/7 "for life".... Why lock yourself down with someone you admittedly don't want to be around?
/r/askMRP24/07/17 06:12 PM
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FWIW: In my experience, the more "religious or proper" a girl was raised, the nastier and wilder they would end up in the bedroom. Some of the downright dirtiest things I've ever done was with a preachers daughter.
/r/askMRP24/07/17 04:20 PM
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Yup. Name checks out.
/r/askMRP22/07/17 03:38 AM
0

This has to be a euphemism of some sort... Right?!?
/r/askMRP22/07/17 03:37 AM
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Why is he going then? Oh right, he is a controlling insecure asshole... who inserts himself into a girls trip to keep an eye on her. That's assuming what she said was the truth. She might have known he'd be there all along. Devil's advocate and all.
/r/askMRP19/07/17 08:55 PM
1

Proverbs 21:9 It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife. Proverbs 21:19 It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and fretful woman.
/r/askMRP18/07/17 03:38 PM
1

Great minds.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 02:13 PM
1

Unless of course, someone comes up with 18 days to a new you, then you're in trouble huh? Step into my office, you're fuckin fired
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 02:12 PM
2

You're focusing on the wrong part of Blargs post... Would I confront about the messages? Not in the way some are saying. When you have the frame and balls, after you find yourself giving her a few instructions on unrelated stuff: "Need you to get that laundry put away and take the kids to X today" let this line drop: "Oh yeah, and stop your flirting with (lover boy's name)...that shit doesn't fly with me." Serious face. Walk away. When her hamster is trickle truth-ing later, don't turn it into a…
/r/askMRP11/07/17 08:59 PM
1

What's wrong with power pointing? Ohhhh.... you meant...
/r/askMRP11/07/17 05:25 PM
2

True, but, that's assuming that he is or will put in the work. What's that old saying again?
/r/askMRP10/07/17 09:34 PM
2

How does that fix anything? He's the problem not her. Say he drops her, it'll be rinse and repeat for the next LTR and the next and the next. That is until OP fixes his own shit, stops living in her frame, decides what he wants and then does the work to go get exactly that.
/r/askMRP07/07/17 12:38 PM
1

Or, she's just a cooking nazi and is going to die on this hill. Figure out if it's worth it. My wife can't cook for shit. Wanna know why? Her mom WOULD NOT cook for her dad(s). She never saw it growing up, never learned what a good meal was and assumed that was the norm. Inevitably, it was made clear that I would appreciate some home cooked meals. Guess who wants to be martha stewart and looks up new recipes every day? BONUS: she's having our little girl help so that she doesn't set a bad exampl…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 02:00 PM
1

Yeah, I'd curb that shit ASAP. Unless, as Alphabeta49 said, you're redecorating for YOU. Which I highly doubt.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 01:55 PM
1

Don't expect anything from anyone and you'll never be disappointed.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 01:54 PM
1

That it is
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 01:50 PM
1

Fugg me. That's pre-req stuff before even taking the 101 level courses. Do some reading!
/r/askMRP01/07/17 01:31 PM
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what are you?
/r/askMRP01/07/17 01:24 PM
1

"You don't know the shit that I have to mentally list and organize!"
/r/askMRP29/06/17 07:58 PM
1

This seems to have become the norm around here. Quick, X just happend, how to procced? What do I say? Please write me a script! Help, wife/so just did Y, what to do? Can I get an ear piece and have you feed me lines? Help me askMRP, you're my only hope. Majority of those that come here don't want to put in the work, or think for themselves. They want their hand held. & since mommy or wifey is getting tired of it, they're looking here to fill that void.
/r/askMRP29/06/17 07:52 PM
1

Da fuq?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/17 06:55 PM
2

Chin up
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/17 06:51 PM
1

And... remember to praise the effort not the outcome with those kiddos Simply echoing this gem.
/r/askMRP29/06/17 03:52 PM
1

Much appreciated, brother.
/r/askMRP28/06/17 07:19 PM
10

My only problem is that I have no gold to give.
/r/askMRP28/06/17 07:12 PM
1

Always Be Checking
/r/askMRP28/06/17 04:22 PM
2

K.
/r/askMRP28/06/17 04:18 PM
16

Take her advice. Bring a friend home for the evening. See how she feels about it then.
/r/askMRP27/06/17 08:11 PM
3

Preach. IF you change for the better, she WILL try and reconnect. DON'T DIG THROUGH THE TRASH.
/r/askMRP27/06/17 08:03 PM
1

Let her hamster wtf is going on Seriously, because clearly OP is the one doing all the hamstering here.
/r/askMRP27/06/17 07:50 PM
1

Pro tip - It aint just men
/r/askMRP27/06/17 07:15 PM
1

does your woman inspect your scrotum that closely? Depends on your definition of inspecting.... How long till the stitches are removed?
/r/askMRP27/06/17 07:14 PM
1

RedMtn - I'm admittedly uniformed in this department. Any problems with low T post snip? And what if you're 100% you don't want kids, for now?
/r/askMRP27/06/17 07:13 PM
1

Kudos
/r/askMRP27/06/17 07:04 PM
1

Fuck everything else. I want to know more about this ^
/r/askMRP27/06/17 07:02 PM
1

Everyone, get out your pens and paper.
/r/askMRP22/06/17 07:57 PM
1

getting more attention then I have ever past teen years. You're going to let that get in the way of continued progress. Don't allow minimal gains to cloud the bigger picture. You've got A LONG way to go. So... GO.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 07:36 PM
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I won't be having sex with her Way to set a boundar.... ( just rough quickies) Ahhh fugg'n hell...
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 07:35 PM
5

but it's too win her back. Then, no, you're not on the road to becoming Chad.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 07:32 PM
1

Feels like I've heard this same song before ?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 07:20 PM
1

Just curious, how many kiddos have you sired?
/r/askMRP21/06/17 09:12 PM
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You've been here barely a month.... Take your own advice, Jr.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 04:32 PM
1

I guess she is trying to help him, since he is somewhat abused by his family and tries to get a job and a flat. He still lives at his mothers house. So she tries to help him avoid his abusive family by sleeping at said families house? She tries to help him get a flat, yet he's still at his moms? How long has it been since the first time she stayed at his place?
/r/askMRP08/06/17 04:01 PM
2

Wives do not spend the night at some other guy's house, period. END. OF. STORY. Next thread.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 03:56 PM
2

"You know I wouldn't sleep with other men". Said every cheating wife, ever. Don't forget to enjoy the view your head in the sand.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 03:55 PM
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It is that bad. And, no, it's really not funny. You're fooling no one but yourself. You're wasting people's time (+ energy) with this garbage. Justify and hamster all you'd like. I'll let Patrice O'Neal drop some knowledge on ya... "You're a fucking phony. Okay? Listen to me, I can't even mince words here. You're hoping to FRIENDship your way into some pussy.... She's using you. Let me telly you what she's doing. She's using you. I'm going to tell you what women use us for. OUR TIME. You're her …
/r/askMRP01/06/17 07:28 PM
3

And what do we have for our winner?
/r/askMRP01/06/17 05:38 PM
1

Can I get some odds? Asking for a friend....
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 09:07 PM
1

sexting for five years . . . no way in hell his dick has not been inside her. Not trying to kick a man while he's down... but how hasn't this been mentioned ad nauseam?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 09:03 PM
2

If I ever laid in a bed and whacked it while a woman I was living with just continued to read her magazine, I would finish, pack a bag, get in my Cadillac, burn rubber in the drive way, move three states away and never talk to her again and drive straight off a fucking cliff.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 08:07 PM
1

Now, I didn't internalize the MRP ways until recently NEVER. There you go, fixed that little error.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 06:44 PM
1

Without a doubt.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 06:01 PM
2

You guys are going to say NEXT THAT BITCH, but in my opinion AWALT, and any girl would have acted like this in public. All girls do shit like this and shit test their men. No, we're going to say NEXT YOURSELF, because you are that BITCH.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 05:57 PM
1

Just out of curiosity. What, if anything, from that post would indicate the OP is awesome?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 05:46 PM
1

You forgot the last one 8) Post here again after she dumps me, upon realizing that I'm a loser who will take back a cheater."
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 05:42 PM
1

You've clearly decided what to do all by yourself... So what do I want?... But I believe my wife truly makes my life worth living.... Did she make a huge mistake by cheating? She sure did. But the thing is.... Rationalize and justify away, it's your life. Enjoy rummaging through the trash.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 05:40 PM
1

Can't tell if you're serious.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 06:31 PM
1

There are only two things in this world: nothing and semantics.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 06:25 PM
1

You thought correct.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 03:40 PM
1

Even a super PRO-woman marriage counselor would never back her on ths. You underestimate thine enemy.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 03:16 PM
1

Preach!
/r/askMRP12/05/17 02:47 PM
1

but she's probably wants to fuck him again too late...
/r/askMRP12/05/17 02:40 PM
1

Seriously, what in the actual fuck does this gibberish even mean?
/r/askMRP12/05/17 02:37 PM
3

Everything is perspective. Just make sure you're focusing on the only one that matters.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 06:04 PM
5

But not as fun.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 04:04 PM
12

Also, from a practical standpoint, calling your MIL a gold digger and threatening to hit your FIL is not a way to get invited to future family gatherings. A smarter approach would have been to play it cool Unless the goal is not to be invited to these shitty events...
/r/askMRP11/05/17 04:01 PM
1

She's treating you how she perceives you. Like a child.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 03:37 PM
1

This and this alone. The Freudian slip is strong with this one.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 03:16 PM
1

If she truly thought you had a high (or higher than her) SMV then she wouldn't have walked out and fucked some other dude for a couple of weeks. The fact that after he pumped and dumped her, she thought it was okay to come back to you, says everything you need to know about her perception of your SMV.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 03:13 PM
1

There's a big difference between reading and comprehending.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 03:11 PM
1

I really need to lose some weight... so I've stopped drinking Coca-Cola and have switched over to Diet Coke. And you know what? I think it's working. Cheers!
/r/askMRP05/05/17 04:12 PM
2

This is SportsCenter
/r/askMRP05/05/17 03:50 PM
1

After reading all of your posts, I feel as if I truly know your wife. Now how about you, care to introduce yourself to the group?
/r/askMRP03/05/17 04:57 PM
2

From this... So yeah I'm still not attractive enough To this....? I'm in great shape been lifting heavy 2 years and Competing at a high amateur level in ju jitsu. Strong nose Stoney.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 04:44 PM
1

STFU and realize it's not always about you That's good advice. Better advice for the OP would be, it's not always about you... unless you're the one who fugged up and mishandled the situation.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 07:13 PM
2

But.. but... the hockey game was on and I needed to get AT LEAST another 12 wings and 6 pack in me, STAT.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 07:11 PM
1

We get it, you don't like to be disrespected (by wife or anyone). No need to be a broken record. Not many people like to be disrespected and it's a very good practice to not allow others to treat you that way. The problem is, you brought the disrespect upon yourself by being a huge sperg. You made your bed and then flipped when you had to sleep in it. OWN YOUR SHIT.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 07:10 PM
1

That's gold, Jerry! GOLD!
/r/askMRP01/05/17 07:05 PM
4

I don't know what's on the other side. A better, healthier and safer life for your kids?
/r/askMRP28/04/17 04:54 PM
4

This, right here, is a great fucking post. I've seen some wallowing lately about too much victim puke, comfort or shit test, and I'm 2 weeks in/never read/never lift/hold my hand shit and I'd have to agree. But this here is gold. The OP admittedly fucked up. Then he followed it up with honest, introspective and tough observations. He OWNED HIS SHIT. He didn't need anyone to do it for him, he didn't need mommy to hold his hand. I know I'm not adding anything to further the OP's discussion. I just…
/r/askMRP27/04/17 03:13 PM
1

Crabs in a bucket try to drag all the other crabs down. Bang biscuit.
/r/askMRP27/04/17 02:41 PM
2

u/RPJMRP is pretty much spot on. She was being positive and you shot it down. Next time she goes to compliment you, she'll think of that moment. Though I'd keep it simpler in the reply. Her: "I don't know what you're doing, but I like it." You: SMILE with an air of I don't know what you're talking about
/r/askMRP27/04/17 02:35 PM
5

"You don't think I need sex?" Literally the opposite of OI and DGAF
/r/askMRP27/04/17 02:30 PM
1

DING DING DING!
/r/askMRP27/04/17 02:26 PM
2

You keep justifying and making up excuses. Whatever gets you off. Simple facts = He was cooking, for her party, for her family. They already had buns. Those buns weren't good enough for wife. Wife stated it's so simple to just run and get newer buns. Wife doesn't do simple thing and flips on husband about it. Anything else is moot. Again, you keep doing you though.
/r/askMRP26/04/17 04:55 PM
2

Thomas, work on reading comprehension. He wasn't sitting around twiddling his thumbs. He was busy cooking the most important portion of the entire BBQ. He was cooking the food, that his wife asked him to cook, for her family that SHE invited over. You're here acting like she asked him to reach 2 feet to the left and grab a tissue, to which he proceeded to say no then kick her wuddle kitty kat to further drive the point home.
/r/askMRP26/04/17 04:33 PM
1

There's a GIANT difference between you being asked to put up a door while you're sitting around relaxing, doing nothing, after a long day, and being asked to leave the house to go get something that you already have, while you're busy cooking the main course of the entire feast. Not all situations are the same.
/r/askMRP26/04/17 04:29 PM
2

This. I can't fathom how this isn't being easily digested???
/r/askMRP26/04/17 04:24 PM
2

Thomas, you're lost here. He didn't say no "just because". He was grilling the meat (aka cooking the most important of food for all guests). There were seedless buns available to be used at the house. You tell me. What's more important, seeds on a bun or feeding your guests raw meat and chicken? She forgot something that in her words, "is such a simple task". So what does she do? She expected OP to sprint out the door and get her some seeded buns like he was running for a gold medal. If it was s…
/r/askMRP26/04/17 04:19 PM
5

One instance of kissing. Once? Sure. But glad to hear that you got a wake up call nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 06:31 PM
4

I second that. Great write up McGill.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 02:53 PM
2

Thanks for the response. Now, I'm not the one who consulted a lawyer, so I'll instead pose you this question. Is there any possibility for her to change her mind before the 1 year is up and then fight you to hell and back? My point in asking is, is there a chance that while you wait for this amicable resolution, what would happen if she were to draw her weapons and go for the throat? What then? Or is that not an option? Either way, nothing but the best to you and the kids. Stay strong and keep f…
/r/askMRP21/04/17 09:22 PM
1

I don't see where anyone mentioned that adding a password would fix everything? My only point and focus was simple. She crossed the line, and he didn't handle it. Fuck mystery, fuck secrecy, none of that matters. She went through his personal shit and is making him suffer for it. That's unacceptable and he needs (needed) to let her know that. Everything else is just white noise.
/r/askMRP21/04/17 09:16 PM
1

Work on comprehension, never did I mention breaking up or divorce. While on the topic of enabling, what would you call allowing her to read your personal stuff and not punishing her for it?
/r/askMRP21/04/17 09:10 PM
2

Women and children lie, snoop, and mope. Its what they do. It's silly to get mad about things that are in their nature. Hypothetical. Your child CLEARLY misbehaves, who cares, it's what kids do, right? Do you punish them, or let them get away with it? Whichever the answer, it doesn't have to equate to getting mad about it, rather the focus is on reinforcing that any bad behavior is unacceptable. You don't lose frame by not addressing something. You lose frame by letting their feelings or actions…
/r/askMRP21/04/17 09:05 PM
2

Okay, so we've determined that your personal journal is a boundary and she crossed it. As for the tools to enforce... Do you have a mouth? Do you have balls? When you can check both of those off the list, then you have the proper tools to combat this. Just not sure what I can do other then tell her I'm not going to discuss it further. You're missing the point 46. It has nothing to do with how you should go about her bitching... saying I'm not going to discuss it further isn't the right answer be…
/r/askMRP21/04/17 08:36 PM
2

I live in an at-fault state, meaning that I can divorce for adultery immediately, but she has to wait 1 year to divorce otherwise Yeah, maybe I missed your answer to this somewhere above, but why wait a year for her to file? You have the texts, you have the video, what is the benefit of waiting a year? Are you keeping the door open in hopes of the possibility of giving it another go?
/r/askMRP21/04/17 08:16 PM
2

Fuckin A, Blarg. I've always enjoyed reading your shit, but this one may take the cake.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 09:23 PM
1

Get your nose checked homie.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 09:18 PM
1

STFU is absolutely not your best friend right now (SPECIFICALLY IN THIS INSTANCE) If you continue to STFU, you're just digging a bigger hole and showing her that it's okay to cross your personal boundaries because you won't do anything about it.... and the kicker? Now she's allowed to get pissed and bitch at you AFTER SHE crosses said boundaries
/r/askMRP20/04/17 09:17 PM
1

Great reply, InCharge. Not more I can add other than something you could care less about, the opinion of someone else - applause
/r/askMRP20/04/17 09:14 PM
3

Done. But you gave her your phone, relinquished control. It's always laying around, FB is open on the computer, she could sneak this deletion in any time, but she wanted to do it then because she was bored at ballgame, because they are boring, and wanted snoop on her, then make some drama, and knew you would go looking, and you would fall into the trap. I would have handed over my phone too, because I don't give a shit, don't even have a password. So you did, and when you got it back, you could …
/r/askMRP20/04/17 09:10 PM
3

This, to the moon and back... Also don't leave out that if your personal boundaries ARE crossed, DO NOT STFU and let it go unchecked. You're only reinforcing the negative behavior.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 08:55 PM
5

/Thread. It's impossible to simplify it any better while still hitting the bulls eye.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 08:46 PM
2

If she acts like a bitch or silent treatment, yeah, address that but address it as if she is behaving poorly. Frame is important here and if he steps into hers by explaining shit that's not going to help anything. She shouldn't have a single reason to act like a bitch or be silent, she snooped. So this point doesn't matter in the least bit. Your words - "Frame is important here" - Yes it is. But you're still off the mark. It's not about him explaining anything. The longer he lets the major bound…
/r/askMRP20/04/17 08:44 PM
2

Yes. Obviously, he should have had his OPSEC in better order. That doesn't take away from the fact that she crossed a MAJOR boundary. I stole my neighbors car? Fuck him, should have locked his door. I broke into my neighbors house? Not my problem, should have locked his door. Get real bro. Your wife/ltr, whatever, should be someone that you can trust (within reason). If you can't trust your wife with your most personal of things, then who can you trust and why the fuck would you even be with tha…
/r/askMRP20/04/17 08:38 PM
3

You're COMPLETELY missing the main point here. It's not about "secrets" or "being an "open book". You've established that you try not to hide anything from your wife, okay. To each their own. What I want to know, do you tell your wife every single train of thought or feeling that you experience? FFS man, is nothing sacred anymore? I don't physically journal, but there is a sort of mental journaling that I engage in each and every day. Do I tell my wife every thought I have? NO. What's in my mind…
/r/askMRP20/04/17 08:33 PM
1

Wife cheated in the past. We have not used swingers website in (1+) years. Wife randomly jumps on swinger site.... clearly she must think I'M cheating
/r/askMRP18/04/17 07:51 PM
2

His hampster is clearly running at full capacity. He came and asked for advice.... Miraculously, he somehow knew what you were going to say, though I can't fathom why.... Gets advice that literally everyone else is clearly seeing and says nahhhh, that can't be it
/r/askMRP18/04/17 07:48 PM
1

This isnt about her trolling for cock. Taps u/eranwolf on the shoulder Are you sure?
/r/askMRP18/04/17 07:46 PM
1

To each their own.... You enjoy this I prefer that Ultimately, what matters most.... are you satisfied?
/r/askMRP17/04/17 07:59 PM
1

Here's the look! Man, nothing gets me harder and ready to burst than that look of pure indignation. And now I'm all worked up.
/r/askMRP17/04/17 07:55 PM
2

BRAVO!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/17 05:46 PM
3

Ample evidence exists which proves that women show a “greater activation to threat in the limbic system compared to men,” activating more of the area and for a longer period of time – suggesting women register external threat more strongly and persistently than men. Threat, in this case equates to fear, which can lead to anger. It absolutely has worked to get reactions thus far.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/17 05:43 PM
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Notice the last part, she really thinks I didn't hear what she said. No, in this specific line, she's hampstering the possibility that you didn't hear it. "I didn't even say anything so I don't know if u left cause ur mad" TRANSLATING... I know I said something, but now that you've walked out, I don't want you to think that I actually meant what I said.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/17 05:35 PM
1

Go big.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 03:00 PM
1

A voicemail inherently is a recording, so by actively calling someone and then leaving a voicemail, you are giving your consent to be recorded. Because the caller clearly knows they are being recorded and there is no other party to the call, voicemails are always legally recorded and can be used without threat of prosecution. This is true under both state and federal law.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 02:54 PM
1

I'll leave this for u/distrustfulhusband to stumble upon. I swear I won't cheat, again...
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 08:44 PM
1

It was only..... why are you justifying? I have had worse... hence why I said this is normal to you, because, IT IS I'd have no issue if she was just joking around.... SHE IS NOT JOKING AROUND So I told her not acceptable.... hmmmm, then why'd she do it?
/r/askMRP13/04/17 08:40 PM
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Any way to "accidentally" help him to stumble upon it? I agree with what you're saying, but I guess we have a different bro code in my inner circle. I'd be infinitely more pissed at a fellow brother for not cluing me in (especially for that long). By keeping quiet, he's willingly contributing to my ignorance and allowing me to continue playing the fool. As for the lady, simple. AWALT. Next. Et tu, Brute? Not cool.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 06:48 PM
7

SAHM with my 3 kids on the home front. Every day it's "ohhh they're monsters. You wouldn't believe this or that.... They're so exhausting." Every now and then I like to take all 3 and leave momma all alone for the day. Upon the inevitable return, WITHOUT FAIL, I get asked "how was it?" My HONEST response every time.... "a piece of cake. Not a single kid acted up, not a single one fussed. Perfect day." And guess what, that's the truth. I have manned the trenches on my own more than enough times t…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 06:39 PM
4

Ahhhhh. The good old "Ben Franklin effect".
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 06:29 PM
1

Am I the only one that can't get past the fact that she hit this shmuck with a shoe, and to him, it seems to be completely brushed off as normal or no big deal?
/r/askMRP13/04/17 06:06 PM
1

Oh fucking hell. <--- Your thought process Seriously, why are you even here? You've got countless legends here telling you exactly what needs to be said. Hell, even u/dandar4600 literally listed it out for you like he works for fucking Cliff Notes. And you're off talking about... her willingness to make genuine, new vows of fidelity
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 05:42 PM
3

Fuck me. You're not as far along this path as you think you are. No, mate... he's not even on the reservation.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 05:36 PM
3

Hahahahaha! Wait... Let me check with my wife to see if that was funny.
/r/askMRP13/04/17 05:10 PM
1

I know preachers daughters that would do this at the drop of a hat... for the right guy Brazil and Nirmo, you guys need to re-read Stoneys reply directly above. Specifically this.. The issue isnt not enough comfort. In fact, confort is the oppositte of what you want here. Nail, meet head.
/r/askMRP10/04/17 03:43 PM
1

I maybe the black sheep here, but to me, this is on par with wiping after shitting. It goes without saying. How is this not the standard?
/r/askMRP06/04/17 08:21 PM
1

Stay on top of the reading. Keep hammering out the rational male. Year 1, all the way through the latest post. Read them, then re-read. Godspeed.
/r/askMRP06/04/17 08:19 PM
1

What ever do you mean? I guess I'm the only one that was taught FaceTime jerk-off sessions are the epitome of 2nd base.
/r/askMRP06/04/17 08:17 PM
1

Yes, War Brides
/r/askMRP06/04/17 05:26 PM
1

Lord Acton would like to have a few words with you.... Power tends to corrupt and absolute power corrupts absolutely. Great men are almost always bad men, even when they exercise influence and not authority; still more when you superadd the tendency of the certainty of corruption by authority.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 06:40 PM
0

Did we just become brothers?
/r/askMRP05/04/17 05:28 PM
1

SPT, kind? Guys, I think someone hacked into Stoneys account.
/r/askMRP05/04/17 05:19 PM
4

Sound the alarm!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 03:38 PM
1

Want me to hold his fuckin hand too?? Listen, junior. 1- OP prefaced the whole story with "she's pretty slutty". 2- OP had the girl at his place, and all he had to do was CLOSE. 3- OP has the girl openly admit she fucked a rando and his best course of action was to emjoi her a pouty sad face. If that's not lost, then I don't know what is.... if OP had put in the sidebar work, he would have KNOWN better. 1- don't waste your time/energy on a girl who is "pretty slutty" (even if he decides to fuck …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 06:03 PM
3

Awww that's cute. You're still here? I see you're still having those emotional problems. Isn't one of the local favorites - "ACTA NON VERBA" You keep talking about "doing it". HAHA. Best of luck with that.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 07:23 PM
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At minimum, Patrice O'Neal would call you a Time Ho. "You're her little time boy, you're time ho. You're a space ho, a time hoe, a movie watching hoe... " Also.... "everyone should get drunk and have sex with a stranger, i did last night. I don't even know why i did it." I just replied with 😐. Thank your deity that we aren't boys.... I'd punch you in the face for a response like that. A fucking dejected pouty face? Fuckin hell is wrong with you. With a response like that, I'm not in the least su…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 07:19 PM
3

I could care less. Don't talk about it, let alone to me. Go fucking do it.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 07:10 PM
2

My problem though, is i get pissed/emotional immediately Good. So you just identified your own problem. That's over half the battle. Now go fix it.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 06:28 PM
1

Intriguing.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 09:46 PM
2

HA! On second thoughts..... Maybe you should take the advice from u/alecesne - it will absolutely save yourself any future sessions of bloody tongue biting.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 09:37 PM
1

Listen to Cholo here, OP. You gave her something infinitely more valuable than flowers. Your time & your energy. Clearly, much more of it than she ever deserved. After all that, you still felt like you needed to ice the cake with flowers? FFS, man.
/r/askMRP09/03/17 09:20 PM
1

You think you already learned, You think you know AWALT. And then it hit you again, straight in your face. No. YOU thought you already learned. YOU thought you knew AWALT. YOU took the shot to the face, AGAIN.
/r/askMRP09/03/17 09:18 PM
1

Copy that. I see what you're saying regarding the hand holding, but this instance screams laziness, as you mentioned. That or complete indifference. Either way, I should have clarified my previous comment. a SAHM worth her salt being overwhelmed
/r/askMRP09/03/17 09:07 PM
2

Just wanted to echo the effectiveness of your sentiment. This mindset can be extremely useful in every aspect of ones life. Work, home, anywhere.
/r/askMRP09/03/17 08:58 PM
5

I agree, she's not doing her only job. I can't fathom a SAHM being overwhelmed after having at least 7 hours of quality alone time. Instead of her getting bitchy with OP, the OP should ask himself why wasn't the kitchen cleaned during her brutally tough, yet daily reprieve?
/r/askMRP09/03/17 08:51 PM
3

Your wife was overwhelmed. Ohhhh yes.... because staying at home all day by herself, from 8:30am - 3:30pm is extremely overwhelming. Then you come in and start handling shit. Makes her feel inadequate. She should. She's not holding up her end of the bargain.
/r/askMRP09/03/17 08:48 PM
1

Perfectly stated.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 06:08 PM
2

My only regret is that there's not enough gold in the world to give you.
/r/askMRP08/03/17 06:20 PM
3

Exactly this. Don't drop down BF to 10-12% for her do it for you.
/r/askMRP08/03/17 06:16 PM
1

The other night, I was in the living room, reading, while everyone in the family was asleep. My wife walks into the room and says, I need to talk to you about something. Immediately I'm assuming the worst. I don't say anything, just close the book and listen. Her: "Remember back when you said (blank)...... and that you were (doesn't matter)...... I'm very sorry about how I reacted and how I treated you. I just wanted you to know that." Back when = over 3 years ago!!!!! My jaw is still on the flo…
/r/askMRP07/03/17 09:27 PM
1

So, M-Twizzy, what now? Proceed to fool the OP rather than convince him that he's been fooled?
/r/askMRP06/03/17 06:59 PM
1

Fuck brevity, own that shit. Maybe someone will be able to give you an example or perspective that you never would have otherwise come up with yourself.
/r/askMRP06/03/17 06:48 PM
1

It sounds as if you're the lawrence of fucking arabia of cucks. You know, I can't tell whether you're bloody bad-mannered or just half-witted....
/r/askMRP06/03/17 06:45 PM
2

I, fellow redpillers, am what I like to call a redpill veteran. Back from the days of Shark on Solvemygirlproblems.com. I don't know why I'm prefacing with this, I guess to show that I'm not a noob and have read ALOT of redpill material. What do you do, when you have a wife, a loving, loving, caring wife who respects you, you guys are in your late 20's, but she pulls the bitch factor out at you? You're a vet but are asking a basic/101 question? But since my honest answer does nothing to forward …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 06:06 PM
1

Can you elaborate on what a "shot sleeper" is? New term to me.
/r/askMRP25/02/17 09:29 PM
1

Not pictured below, the other locals
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/17 05:20 PM
28

But the biggest piece of dating advice would be to not let the date end badly. It's far better to cut the date short and leave her with a great memory than to destroy that impression by trying too hard. Take it from a LEGEND. Always leave on a high note
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 04:21 PM
1

Please tell me you didn't have to shit out any Tiffany cuff links.
/r/askMRP22/02/17 03:58 PM
1

Your words... true enough, but you should not exist without emotion. My words... However, the Stoics do not suggest that the perfect agent is effectively inert. Your words... One you can't control. Your physical response, though I'd argue you can lessen them with time and practice. The second you can control. How you respond. My words... Rational effective reactions and dispositions replace emotion. You say tomato, I say tomato?
/r/askMRP21/02/17 04:16 PM
0

Yeah, I don't think you know how Stoicism works. Men feel emotions all the time. Stoicism does not prevent that. Stoicism makes it so that you are not governed by them like women are. According to the Stoics, the ideal agent has no emotions. Stoic theory of the emotions does not aim at moderation or “adequate” emotional responses. Rather, it aims at a life without emotions. However, the Stoics do not suggest that the perfect agent is effectively inert. Rational effective reactions and dispositio…
/r/askMRP21/02/17 02:49 PM
10

HAHAHAHA potentially solve a critical thinking problem for her. This is extremely attractive to a woman. Go back to 101 stuff if you are still under the belief women want you to solve their problems.... Remember, it's not about the nail.
/r/askMRP21/02/17 02:35 PM
1

The 50 Sades of Grey movie was released on Valentine's Day, after all... Camped outside of the theater to catch that on opening day... I knew that was you who I waited next to.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 06:55 PM
1

Culturally, all the way down to the individual, it screams to a lack of respect for the self.
/r/askMRP14/02/17 04:51 PM
3

She could... and would.... if the right guy and situation came along. Obligatory - AWALT
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 09:07 PM
1

Anyone who is unaware may want to read up. Search: What is Sub-drop?
/r/askMRP13/02/17 06:01 PM
3

This. Father was a major airline pilot, he demanded that we get dressed up every single time we flew. Every year that passes, the normal attire becomes more "casual" (read:pathetic). Now, when my family travels, we stand out like a sore thumb. And you better fucking believe that everyone notices.
/r/askMRP13/02/17 05:54 PM
1

(Fashion) It's like it's own little language, and even not making a statement with them, makes a statement. AHEM - Everyone! Get out some paper, pens, and take some fucking notes.
/r/askMRP13/02/17 05:51 PM
3

Should go without saying, if your junk is straight skunking and nasty as all hell, then go fuck yourself, because no one else will. With that said..... If your wife, LTR, plate, whoever, was truly attracted to you... then a little sweat wouldn't be a deterrent at all.
/r/askMRP13/02/17 05:39 PM
3

I think the lot of us are missing the main take away...... Be sexy enough that it doesn't matter to her if you cleaned up before or not. I take part in a couple of different team athletic activities. One in particular always ensures the old grundlestilskin gets nice and sweaty. Whad'ya know, the Mrs. absolutely loves to (unsolicited, mind you) hoover after a game or event has ended, Schweddy Balls and all. Before you start to rationalize, no, that wasn't always the case.
/r/askMRP13/02/17 05:34 PM
5

This, ad nauseam .... everything truly began to change for me when I harnessed the power of a two letter word.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 08:34 PM
1

Truly great perspective! (As long as she hasn't hit the point of no return)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 08:07 PM
1

A man has two significant mirrors in his life: one is his work, the other is his wife. - Robert Lewis Are you the immovable mountain or a pesky pebble? What does her water reflect?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 07:54 PM
1

Would you want an LTR (in your case, wife) to be indifferent to marking "your tree"?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 07:39 PM
1

Ata boy mattizie, it's never really as simple as A or B. The ladies know full well how to guise a Shit or Comfort test to keep a fella on their toes.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 07:30 PM
1

I dig the take away + the fact that you took some advice from a recent post and made it work for you. Kudos. My concern lies with the fact that this is what you first think about after waking in the morning... Woke up this morning.... My head is filled with thoughts, thoughts of her ovulation: Is she already ovulating? Do I have a few more days to up my manliness before her ovulation peak? Shit, I was a faggot day before yesterday and I failed a few shit tests...Get frame boy, get frame...ovulat…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 07:23 PM
3

WTF is it with so many people asking for step by step, IRT tips? If in the heat of the moment, you can't figure what it is you want or what you should do then you need to put yourself into time out and get back to the side bar.
/r/askMRP08/02/17 09:28 PM
1

Dave Grohl would like a word with you
/r/askMRP08/02/17 09:25 PM
3

Holy victim puke, Batman! All I see here is a big wall of vomit. Double down on what brother RB said, you're either kidding yourself or trying to kid us. Neither will work.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/17 09:08 PM
1

BAM!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/17 05:05 PM
4

Bravo! Quality work, althart. Many timeless classics are rife with RP tenants. Sadly, most are unable to connect the dots. Remember - "We're all puppets, Laurie. I'm just a puppet who can see the strings."
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 05:14 PM
1

AHEMMM ^ So her and the fellow shrews were admittedly clamoring about how the lucky girl to snag you will get to take complete advantage and "special privileges" ??? Only guilt i'm sensing is that of a woman who is upset upon realizing her special privileges do not outweigh that of a mind blowing O-face.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 09:50 PM
1

Ata boy sh0ck - Simple. Succinct. Stringent. Stew.... bring a lot of pen an paper... you're going to need it. "Then we don't go out." END OF STORY.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 09:42 PM
1

Definitely not in a bad spot, but the end goal is not yet in my grasps. Remember, what you perceive to be the finish line is just the beginning of a whole new race. As for my humble beginnings, it's a little mixture of both. Luckily, I was born and raised RP before the term was even coined. I can blame no one for my stumble, save myself. It wasn't until we expected our first child that I completely forgot about who I am, instead thinking and focusing solely on my family. I let it slide to a poin…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 04:48 PM
2

Thanks WAS. This was my first post, so I'm new to the process of actually contributing. I've been lurking in the on-deck circle for FARRR TOOO LONG. Figured it was time to step up to the plate.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 08:01 PM
3

She fucked up by acting unattractive to you. she can hamster whatever reason she wants, but the fact that you indulged it allowed her to shift blame to you. THIS, times infinity. This just from the other night. It was nearing the end of shark week in BST's household, and I felt the desire to have the mrs service me. I'm reading a book, a muted National Championship on in the background, when she comes to join me on the couch and snuggles up. A couple silent minutes pass, I place the book down an…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 07:38 PM
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