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HumourBlvckSkin/r/MensRights06/01/23 05:09 AM
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No dinner dates for a first date. If she mentioned dinner casually its not necessarily a red flag. If you suggesting something else and she insists on dinner that's definitely a red flag. That being said, coffee or lunch at most. Think of it as a test to be sure she's into you for you and simply wants to spend time with you and nothing else.. These days you run a high risk of being used as a meal ticket. its become the same dynamic as if she let you smash on the first date. You'll get the percep…
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:13 PM
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Depends on the girl and her attraction to you. So in conclusion, it doesn't matter. Just go talk to her and ask questions about her that interest you. Talk about things that interest you. Make the jokes you wanna make, and have fun. You're going up to her cuz you think she might be interesting and worth getting to know and spending time with, so behave as such. Thats how you approach women. You may find out she fucking sucks and is completely boring and uninteresting. Act accordingly. You may fi…
/r/seduction25/10/22 11:46 PM
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Learn the difference between you can and can't control in your life. Focus on what you can control, and the things you can't control you just walk away from them and leave them be.
/r/seduction24/10/22 02:49 PM
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Not when you from the hood lol
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:25 PM
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Good looking loser approach anxiety program. Free and practical. Its essentially a a bunch of drills each with a particular purpose, also comes with the insight of a really successful pua who's very non bullshit
/r/seduction14/10/22 07:34 PM
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This is how you assert dominance with anyone tbh, it's basic self respect. So you definitely should
/r/seduction14/10/22 03:13 PM
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If someone calls you a "bitch", they're calling you out your name
/r/seduction14/10/22 12:46 PM
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Dominance = demanding respect. the ability to say "no, I'm not cool with that" to her Say no when she tries to overstep your boundaries. So have boundaries and standards and enforce them. She calls you out of your name? Tell her no. Don't do that. Thats crossing my boundary. She agrees to meet you at a certain time and shows up late with no excusable reason? Tell her no, thats not cool. Now, when it comes to small oversteps, be playful about it. "Did you just call me out my name? Thats bold for …
/r/seduction14/10/22 02:07 AM
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The real question is, does seem worthy of your engagement?
/r/seduction12/10/22 11:37 PM
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After years of doing pick up and just doing regular dating,, I would change this to "both Men and women fall in lust after what they see, and if there's lust, love can follow from what they hear" The nuances come from how men experience sex differently than women. Sex to men is like feeding a hungry belly, or scratching and itch, and don't get pregnant,, so they'll have sex more liberally, while to women its the same way but they need to feel safe so theres a barrier before having sex, while the…
/r/seduction11/10/22 02:49 PM
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Good luck. I'll recommend you watch this video on talking to girls and subscribe to this channel. https://youtu.be/REXVVPtReuY Tykwondo is a YouTuber with excellent game, he shows a live blind date in this video and he talks about his approach when socializing with women. Really this all applies to talking to men too, so just check out this video and see if there's anything you could improve on in that regard too. You'll be amazed at the different set of results you can get if you get your head …
/r/seduction10/10/22 02:29 AM
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I'll then suggest having confidence in the fact that different women will respond differently to you, and some of those women will be attracted to you right off the bat. It's guaranteed to happen no matter what your game is like, thats simply how it works. There are many different girls out there with many different tastes. You will certainly, especially being 6'2, run across women every once in a while who have a taste for you in particular. Its just a matter of identifying those women when the…
/r/seduction09/10/22 10:43 PM
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So if you've already done a lot of approaching, then I always suggest doing what you said you do. Doing social circle game. The reason why I suggest shotgunning approaches is cuz it gives you that broad perspective of how different women will receive you differently. After you get that perspective its much more efficient to do social circle game. In my experience there are 5 different responses you'll get from a girl when approaching: Get completely ignored. Happened to me maybe twice out of lik…
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:52 PM
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Tl;dr - you probably have gotten signs, just couldnt differentiate them from normal behavior. Take it from an ugly guy thats talked to a lot of girls like me. approach lots of girls to be able to pick up on what signs look like. Signs are behaviors that girls wouldn't normally do around a guy they didn't like. You can escalate if you're unsure that a girl likes you. Escalate one step at a time. Details: Firstly, you can use slight escalation as a way to test for if she's going to give you signs.…
/r/seduction09/10/22 06:11 PM
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2 majors things. 1. Looks. I'm serious with this, looking good will get your far. But, 2. Ability to pick up on signs and escalate (i.e. make the first move) If you're clean cut, got nicely fitting clothes and whatnot, that's usually the bare minimum. Then its about if u can escalate. You'll beat out a chad-looking mf if they don't know how to make the first move, although they'll get a lot more chances to do so than you if you're not chad-looking.
/r/seduction09/10/22 03:16 PM
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Of course it is. What she means is you look like a Chad and would fuxk you on the first date. Take advantage of that
/r/seduction04/10/22 09:27 PM
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Good point, I'm behind this strategy
/r/MensRights04/10/22 01:14 PM
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It honestly doesn't matter tbh lol. You're prioritizing women too much thinking about this. Get your career in order, network with people, gain influence, and women will come to you. Replying to a story won't get you girls like you think it might. Being a valuable, charismatic man who's passionate about life and his work will.
/r/seduction03/10/22 10:10 PM
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Imma break this down for you in two simple steps. Friendzoning is going to happen no matter what. When it happens, move on until it doesn't. Be yourself. Meaning, display your values/beliefs, display your humor, and enforce your standards and boundaries by walking away if they're not met. Its as simple as that.
/r/seduction02/10/22 08:55 PM
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Nope
/r/seduction11/09/22 03:06 AM
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Glad this sid something for ya
/r/seduction03/09/22 11:36 AM
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Being alpha doesn't mean not givin a fk about anything and everything to the point where you throw valuable relationships and opportunities away. Being an alpha is about respecting yourself and enforcing your boundaries when others (this includes women) try to overstep them. Thats what not giving a fk means. Being able to risk losing the attention/affection/whatever of another person in order to uphold your boundaries, values, and beliefs. Being able to stand up for yourself by either fighting o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:23 AM
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Focus on urself slim. U bouta be playing a whole bunch of stupid games and win stupid prizes. Focus on a hobby/career path and talk to girls through that medium and go from there. Cuz what about to happen is you about to rack your brain on what to say to this girl for 2 weeks and then be left wondering how you could do better next time and do that over and over a couple hundred times till you finally get sex and then you're gonna realize it wasn't worth it. When you find true companionship in a …
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:02 AM
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A success to me was whatever is better than what I've done before. When I first started, a success was a number. Then it was setting up a date. Then it was a date. Then it was a kiss. Then it was getting a girl to come home with me/go to her house. Then getting her in bed. Then it was sex. After sex you start getting into potential relationship territory. So then it was getting genuine respect and admiration from a girl (by being my confident self, treating myself with respect and having standar…
/r/seduction28/08/22 12:13 AM
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When they're bi curious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:19 AM
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The CC is any sort of casual dating, that is dating with no intention of exclusivity. If theres no intention to build a lasting, life long relationship with the partner, its the CC.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:44 AM
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He's a goat. Tells it like it is
/r/MensRights11/08/22 01:40 AM
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You walk away
/r/seduction02/08/22 08:00 AM
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Oh. That's a foreign idea to me lol
/r/seduction24/02/21 01:28 PM
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Fuck is u talm bout bro lol
/r/seduction24/02/21 01:15 PM
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Switch your focus. I had to do this recently. I'd been experiencing panic attacks for 6 months straight due to my self esteem being attacked by my lack of success with women. I was so focused on women, i swore the only thing that would give me a feeling of accomplishment in my life would be success with women. "Why don't women like me?" was the big question. I couldn't answer it. I was battling with spiraling into a pit of self-pity and depression every day. Not anymore. I completely changed my …
/r/MGTOW219/12/20 08:14 PM
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I feel like you're getting caught up in the, "be more physical" part of my advice. Be more physical doesn't mean try to have sex with a woman on the first date. A light tap on the shoulder or elbow as a gesture while you're laughing or explaining something can be a very natural expression of your enthusiasm and confidence in a given scenario. A big part of it about displaying some charisma and confidence on the first date typically, and then all the intricate details are covered over subsequent …
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 07:58 PM
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What would those better actions be in your opinion then? I'm curious to know what you know that makes my advice seem like such a far cry so much so that you not only took the time to reply to my comment to correct me, but call me a loser in the process.
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 07:28 PM
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She was probably looking for more intimacy to start off, unfortunately. More physical touch. Smile, flirt, and use ur humor next time, and make more physical moves. Likelihood is she wasn't tryina wait until marriage to have sex. If that's not your type then don't even waste time worrying about it and keep doing what you're doing. But always use your humor and smile.
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 10:10 AM
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THANK YOU.
/r/seduction29/04/20 08:57 PM
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