BobApposite Archive

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1	Examining Patriarchy Theory I have no problem with the concept of "patriarchy" per se (in theory). Men and women are more alike than different, psychologically. Men certainly have conspired with other men to advance their interests at the expense of women's, and history is full of examples. Of course, women do it too. Circumstances have largely favored male conspirators, but there is no inevitability about that. Circumstances might one day favor female conspirators. Not in our lifetimes, perhaps...but it is a forseeable fu…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/06/20 02:18 PM
1	If I can find guy friends who enjoy my company without demanding sex, why cant I expect the same out of a boyfriend? Well, you're not exchanging pheromones & bodily fluids w/ your friends. i.e. There may be biological/chemical forces involved here that you are not aware of. Evolutionary stuff. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_conflict Try having sex with one of those "guy friends" and see how platonic your friendship stays. I'm betting it won't (they'll want more sex). Not only is it 1. possible that having sex with your boyfriend makes him want more sex with you, but it's also 2. possible that having sex …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/20 09:44 PM
2	Women are’t less violent; they're simple weaker Let me add, I think generally you may be wrong, too. But that's a tougher call. I do note your own link says: "Women are more likely to use direct aggression in private, where other people cannot see them, and are more likely to use indirect aggression (such as passive-aggressive behavior) in public.[26] Men are more likely to be the targets of displays of aggression and provocation than women." And that's consistent with my experiences, as a kid. Yes, of course - I know that many more men a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/19 12:43 AM
2	Women are’t less violent; they're simple weaker Yeah, you're wrong. Your own link says: " Of children under age 5 killed by a parent, the rate for biological father conviction was slightly higher than for biological mothers.[50]" So men have a "slightly higher" rate of conviction, which could just mean more sympathy in the criminal justice system for female defendants. The criminal justice system is way harder on men, and there's way more prisons for men, than there are for women. So the odds are stacked against men in that system. And.... …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/19 12:40 AM
1	(Q4W) How much variation is there in what you guys find attractive REALLY? That'd be worth it to some people. (Who value political power). Assuming your group has any, that is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 07:33 PM
1	(Q4W) How much variation is there in what you guys find attractive REALLY? Is the group you're a part of worth "socially mastering"? ; )	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 07:31 PM
1	Woman lies about sexual assault and stalking from a man who stopped to help fix her car. The Narc discard.	/r/PussyPassDenied	26/06/19 11:12 PM
2	Men are not more naturally individualist than women You make a good argument, here. I'd say you're probably right. Which means whatever forces dictate "individualism" versus "collectivism" might have little-or-nothing to do with gender. I think people just tend to gravitate toward gender as an "easy"/"lazy" explanation - because we don't really have any other framework.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/19 08:51 PM
1	Men are not more naturally individualist than women LOL. No it doesn't. Collectives usually ostracize people they don't like and divide the world into "us" and "them". That's the whole point of the collective. People in a collective can do the bad things they are too cowardly to do on their own - "safety in numbers" kind of thing. And they dehumanize people not in the collective. Collectives can be very toxic and often create and reinforce their own lies. Don't forget collectives include Cults, Gangs, Religions, Political Parties. All the worst…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/19 08:41 PM
0	Why do some men believe that women in the service industry are flirting with them for real? I know guys that have hooked up with waitresses, so... clearly some of them are flirting. [Flirting with a customer for a tip is not professional conduct, anyway.]	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/19 08:31 PM
4	CMV: The concept of female attraction is the hardest pill to swallow You can't make broad generalizations. Who knows what's natural, healthy female attraction? Lots of women these days are on meds that reduce their libido. We live in a new age of asexuality and demisexuality and aromantics and who knows what. Most men have had experiences where women approached them or pursued them. So broad claims that "women just don't do that" aren't true. And what's "most women" anyway? Comments like that are usually assumptions based on the speaker, where the speaker assumes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/19 08:19 PM
1	Q4RP: Does Red Pill Value "Thoughtfulness"? Well, that may be true. I must have misunderstood your comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/19 11:04 PM
1	Men refuse to justify the views they know no one would want any part of. This is so vague who can say what you're on about here, but I can say this: Guys tend to ask questions and seek answers. And women don't. I'm not sure what that has to do with "assumptions". In my experience, women have no problem whatsoever in leaping to assumptions about men, and in fact it's a spectator sport in some quarters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/19 09:36 PM
1	Men refuse to justify the views they know no one would want any part of. Eh, women do this all the time, too. Not a gendered phenomenon. In fact, I could be wrong, but I'm pretty sure modern Feminists frequently take the position that they owe no one (no man) any explanation/justification of anything. So what you're complaining of might simply be blowback to Feminist ideology. (Men adopting the same behavior).	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/19 09:26 PM
0	Does Misogyny and Feminism come from Narcissism? Women tend to covert narcissism, which operates slightly differently --- more of a communal superiority (e.g. "not something women tend to do").	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/19 09:11 PM
1	Q4RP: Does Red Pill Value "Thoughtfulness"? I'd say you're wrong on both counts. Not everything men do for women is "to get sex". [Romantic actions are often just expressions of love or appreciation and are often not seeking anything in return. Often guys are just doing things for women that they think will make the women happy.] And your generalization about women is not correct either - some women do reward men with sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/19 08:55 PM
1	"Commitment" and "doing what you say you're going to do" aren't the same thing. Just because you don't like a word doesn't mean it's the wrong word. Monogamy is a need for some. If monogamy is an "obligation", what is the source of obligation? Obligations are usually things you are morally or legally bound-to-do. There's no legal obligation to be monogamous. So you must think there is a moral one. Maybe there is, maybe there isn't. I don't know - moral arguments get very dicey/subjective very fast.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/19 08:44 PM
1	"Commitment" and "doing what you say you're going to do" aren't the same thing. This sounds like some sort of bad sophistry. It doesn't even make any sense. What's the difference between a "commitment" and an "obligation"? I can't see one. Not in modern parlance, anyway. [Obviously, "obligation" has its roots in duties owed a lord by their liege, or in this case, owed a lady by a subject. So "obligation" is a word with shades of a "power" relationship. Whereas commitment is a word indicating a relationship between equals.] But I digress... It's not like people getting into …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/19 08:10 PM