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| 11 | This kind of thinking does need to stop.holy fucking shit YESSSS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 05:07 PM |
| 13 | Don't Forget - It's Okay. You Learned.needed this today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 10:04 PM |
| 5 | Cry me a riverAnd even with all those insecurities they still manage to run the world. "Lord give me confidence of a mediocre man" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 09:02 PM |
| 7 | Don’t follow your Heart or Lady Parts 😂 they get you in trouble every time (Sidenote: she’s hilarious)AMAZING | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 08:50 PM |
| 3 | For the Men in Black fans <3 Except instead of sugar water he be asking for nudes 💀omg bahaha!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 02:45 AM |
| 1 | How to escape the Pickme Mentalityabsolutely .. 100% this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 09:13 PM |
| 4 | How to escape the Pickme Mentalityabsolutely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 03:29 PM |
| 18 | How to escape the Pickme Mentality"Dick is abundant and low value" Sure - gross dick i'm not attracted to at all is abundant. But what about clean, attractive, interesting dick? That's who we get hung up on. That's where the mind set is hard to change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 01:17 PM |
| 1 | When you have to motivate your husband into talking care of his OWN kids and his OWN house. Couple goals🥰http://www.acouplesplace.com/Mobile_-_Gottmans_Four_Horsemen_are_Divorce_Predictors.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 05:48 AM |
| 25 | He should always make you FEEL like you are the most beautiful woman to him.honesty without tact is just cruelty. "brutal honesty" is literally no better than "no offense but..." or "it was just a joke! Can't you take a joke?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:11 PM |
| 9 | Home alone with my hair on fleek like...doing make up is so relaxing and meditative | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 02:37 PM |
| 17 | This is horrible!!! let's try to help her!yep.... this was what got me the most... he fucking hit and pinched the incision site to the point it reopened. I wanted to vomit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 01:19 PM |
| 16 | Something else to watch out for regarding LVMsending you so many hugs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 10:06 PM |
| 5 | Why dont you like video games?I just find video games super boring. | /r/askFDS | 19/03/20 01:24 PM |
| 268 | Don’t explain why you’re leaving. Just leave. He doesn’t care and it gasses him up to know he upset you. Literally ghost him from your life for maximum damage potential and move the fuck on.A woman recently posted here that she went to her bf's house with food and a video game. When she showed up she found him in bed with his ex-girlfriend. She didn't wake him up she went downstairs to her car she changed her phone number she deleted all of her social media and she instructed all of her family and friends to delete him from their social media. She never ever contacted him and he still to this day doesn't know why she left or her what happened to her. Talk about maximum damage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 01:23 PM |
| 16 | Husband cheats on wife after she spends 10+ years taking care of him and paying off his debts. Stay away from LVMIt's so fucked up it almost seems fake. But i know it's not and that's the worst part. Truth is grosser and more disturbing than fiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 12:54 PM |
| 37 | If you think men are shallow, try being a female wheelchair user like me. Let me tell you!This is queen shit right here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 02:16 PM |
| 5 | Woke up this morning wanting to tell my ex about my most recent exciting news, thought I would tell yall instead!Yes!!!! Sending you so much luck and internet hugs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 02:52 PM |
| 2 | I’m sorryOmg... honestly... she is the definition of a strong woman. Jay Leno made his fucking career on Monica Lewinsky jokes. It's so disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:08 PM |
| 6 | I’m sorryMonica Lewinsky's TedTalk about the internet's currency of shame and humilation is profound. https://www.ted.com/talks/monica_lewinsky_the_price_of_shame/up-next?language=en Post video of something humiliating = viral likes. I'm so over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 01:21 AM |
| 1 | The Power of Hot and Coldlink? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 02:55 PM |
| 99 | Preach 🙌🏽or... he's not giving the illusion of being busy; he actually just couldn't give a shit about you. He's indifferent to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 03:17 AM |
| 9 | Healthy dating and marriage should not be this exhaustinggentle, peaceful and calm. Legit the words I've used in therapy dozens of times to describe how I need my marriage to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 03:08 AM |
| 4 | Healthy dating and marriage should not be this exhaustingCan you give us some John Gottman coles notes/highlights? Which pieces of his work do you like best? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Meeting HVM IRL: What settings to avoid or tryWhat about a language class? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 12:13 PM |
| 4 | I took out some piercings yesterday.yes! This was my 'aha' moment from this sub: https://youtu.be/bEKNFX7LWRk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:09 PM |
| 26 | Advice to get rid of PUA types! Out weird them! Make them want to avoid you!omg... you are fucking hilarious... i'll be belly laughing into next week from this! "moms carcinoma photos" bahaha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 09:44 PM |
| 17 | "I couldn't get laid, so I just wanted to kill for some reason,” incel told police after randomly trying to murder a woman and her 8-month old baby outside a crafting supplies store in Northern OntarioI hope prison gen pop finds out he tried to murder an EIGHT MONTH OLD FUCKING INFANT. Might not want to drop the soap. Or be alone anywhere in prison. Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 11:33 AM |
| 3 | ..... so you want a girlfriend but you don’t want to be in a relationship okIs it too much to ask that ppl know the difference between "to", "too" and "two"???????????? "to busy with work" 🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 11:18 AM |
| 8 | Just deleted all my social mediaDeleted FB about a year and a half ago. I was super addicted to it. Just started dabbling recently but I can already feel the old feelings of anxiety / getting way too emotional about other ppl's shit coming up. IG was never compelling or interesting for me. Reddit does have some of those similar feelings as FB. I mostly lurk. FB is definitely my poison so it's the one i'm the most careful about now. I think deleting social media is an excellent strategy to focus on yourself and your morals/valu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 11:05 AM |
| 7 | Girl Dateslove this idea!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 03:05 AM |
| 9 | "Marriage Story" is the classic story of a LVM, told through the male gaze. I kind of hated it. What are your thoughts?spot fucking on analysis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 03:17 PM |
| 2 | 30 First Date Conversation Starters That Will Kick Awkwardness In The Buttgoogle podcasts! | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 07:46 PM |
| 12 | Another reminder on why women need this sub to be reminded that they're not crazy for having basic standardsomg i saw that one... I think that man has had some very, very awful trauma in his life. There is zero other explanation. I hope he gets the help he needs and she sets some serious boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 05:38 PM |
| 70 | 30 First Date Conversation Starters That Will Kick Awkwardness In The ButtI just binged the Happiness Lab (Dr Laurie Santos). Excellent! | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 05:19 PM |
| 7 | Let's talk about the hypocrisy.I think this is my favourite post in the sub to date. BRAVA, BELLA!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:38 PM |
| 19 | Men who dislike animals and especially cats are a red flagSuch an interesting observation. I'm constantly telling my kids how much more special it is when our cats show them affection b/c you have to work for it... and when they do something stupid like yell nearby them or purposely scare them, how they've broken our cats' trust and that why the cats won't go near them anymore. I think it's a great life lesson. If you break someone's trust, you aren't getting it back for a long time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 10:44 PM |
| 33 | can't stand these malesWhat a piece of shit That poor woman. Someone help her. Can 2020 be the year "lowkey" dies? I'm lowkey so over lowkey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 03:08 PM |
| 10 | Leveling up: Are you your worst fuckboy?what does breadcrumbing mean? putting them off? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 03:28 PM |
| 8 | What snapped you out of Pickmeisha mode? Would you have believed a resource like FDS if it had existed, or do you think hitting rock bottom is the only way for many?One thing i'm struggling to understand is the "he pays for everything". I live in a super expensive city where cost of living doesn't often equal pay/pay increases. Rent just reached an average of $2300 for a 1 bedroom. I worry that a hvm who is making an average income (maybe they are just starting out in their field or made a big career change) would just choose not to go out/ not to date if this was the constant expectation. An example of what i mean is this: teen babysitters in my neighborho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 09:54 AM |
| 103 | Ladies, choose wisely and ruthlessly!"I want to take a year off work" Americans, I legit don't understand how so many of you go back to work 6 weeks post-partum. I actually couldn't sit without a hemorrhoid pillow for 3 months after my first baby. I WAS STILL LIMPING, for pete's sake! And don't even get me started on breastfeeding and how much that killed me. I went back to work after 5.5 months with my first and 3 months with my second but I had abundant free childcare (3 sets of grandparents) and i still regret going back at 3 mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 06:20 AM |
| 4 | 🤡 leaving this on read and blocking. Dude’s been super nice, courting me in a normal way, and cool for a week ... then this 🚩I'm so incredibly triggered by men calling women "bitches", "hoes", etc... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 07:23 PM |
| 40 | 🤡 leaving this on read and blocking. Dude’s been super nice, courting me in a normal way, and cool for a week ... then this 🚩i love your example of the words you used to set your hard boundary. Thnx for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 10:10 AM |
| 3 | Is this what hitting the wall is like?thank you! I'll look into this. haha - i laughed at your "already paper white" comment lol... i do know what you mean by the "white cast"... even us pasty-ass white folks know the struggle with the sunscreen white cast! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 08:03 PM |
| 17 | It really do be like that...omg... dying 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 06:10 PM |
| 7 | Is this what hitting the wall is like?Ugh... I'm a red head so need to be wearing sunscreen more than anyone out there... but my skin is so horribly sensitive and super dry, I can't handle much more than a very natural aloe-based moisturizer. In the winter (Canadian!) moisturizer won't even cut it so I do only facial oil (100% rosehip oil or a homemade blend). I recently got a sunscreen that had amazing reviews from friends and online. I had to send it back as it gave me migraines! The sensitive skin struggle is real! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 12:19 PM |
| 6 | STD talk - How do you handle it before sex?Why don't you say something like the above commenter "I'm ready to move things into a more physical place. I value my body. Can you please get an STI test a forward me the pdf results?" or even make it more sexy like "ok... i can't stop thinking about how fucking hot you looked on our last date. I want to take things up a notch. Can you get an STI test and show me the results? Come over for dinner on Saturday and bring an overnight bag ;)" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 11:56 AM |
| 29 | What Are Some Grooming Habits All Grown Ass Men Should Know and Religiously Follow?It's shocking that common sense just goes out the window. Like, wash your fucking hands before you touch my kitty. For me, strong scents like strong deodorant, axe body spray, cologne, after shave, strong-scented laundry detergent/fabric softener are a huge no-no for me. A freshly showered man with some good, natural deodorant who just smells like his own natural scent --- nothing hotter! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 11:41 AM |
| 4 | Does this deserve a response? Never met this guy - from hinge. Am I being sensitive thinking this is too forward?Is CoolGirl a fds personality (like pick-meisha)? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 10:45 AM |
| 19 | How to detect pornsick men? Share you experience.Green flags - *he's never been to a strip club *hobbies with his friends are done inside the home (watching sports, playing boardgames, etc) when we were ready to experiment in the bedroom, he researched how to make sure i was most comfortable then came prepared with items to meet this comfort browser history is clean your know all his passwords and he doesn't care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 12:29 AM |
| 6 | this sub and you beautiful ladies pulled me out of femceldom. thank you.I have SAD, very low vit D and live in Canada so winter is a fucking grind... I got a prescription for (afaik?) the only actual Vitamin D lamp on the market. Check out Sperti Vit D lamps. They are really expensive but my extended health covered two-thirds of it. I notice a HUGE difference when i use it + supplements. Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 12:38 PM |
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