BobbyMcFrayson Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why do so many men have “male feminist” vibes? Hi OP. I am not someone who says "the future is female" but I can empathize with someone who would say it. I might cringe a bit depending on how they say it, etc., but I would empathize. I'll share my thought on the topic as someone who actively supports the well-being of men - i work in a helping profession as a male advocate with a specialization in men's issues - as well as a man who self-identifies as a feminist. I would absolutely love to label as a Men's Rights Activist. I have in the past…	/r/MensRights	13/03/25 03:20 PM
5	Conservative commentator Charlie Kirk says men should come last when it comes to finances. I think the right hates men too. Imo even more than the ledt. It's just easier to excuse because it's more familiar. Doesn't change that it's just a way for the right to make men weak by stifling their individuality.	/r/MensRights	23/12/24 06:49 PM
2	As a feminist I might be over looking the men's issue. So tell me what are they? Thanks for the link. Correlations and confounding variables on this topic are very interesting.	/r/MensRights	26/11/24 02:02 AM
-2	Feminism Subreddit Really Doesn’t Even Bother Anymore I'd very much like to see this source.	/r/MensRights	15/11/24 02:03 PM
1	US Election - Ending Identity Politics?? The identity politics is on both sides of the fence. Very, very, very much on both sides of the fence.	/r/MensRights	06/11/24 10:51 PM
4	What are some of the stances and beliefs held by most of the sub that you personally disagree with? Also I’ll believe the lie that GOP care when they actually pass pro-male policies… Preach lol	/r/MensRights	31/10/24 08:01 PM
10	What are some of the stances and beliefs held by most of the sub that you personally disagree with? Yeah it's so common to see infiltrators in this space who clearly are only here to push a far right wing agenda where men are in this tiny little bubble of being good enough, which is just anti-man but "cooler" looking because it fits in with old stereotypes. It's incredibly egregious and promotes further hostility between and about men. Well spoken.	/r/MensRights	31/10/24 03:35 PM
0	What are some of the stances and beliefs held by most of the sub that you personally disagree with? but statistically it is simply very real, and assuming it’s 100% due to sexist socialisation is nonsense and feminist wishful thinking. Source?	/r/MensRights	31/10/24 03:13 PM
-2	Which candidate will be the best for men's rights? whoosh	/r/MensRights	27/10/24 07:08 PM
-4	Which candidate will be the best for men's rights? This says far, far more about your echo chamber than it does about reality.	/r/MensRights	27/10/24 04:29 PM
3	What’s the real truth about gamergate? Interesting, thanks for sharing. I was always under the impression the movements were far more closely linked. Any idea why that narrative is alive elsewhere on the internet?	/r/MensRights	26/10/24 04:25 PM
1	What’s the real truth about gamergate? How do you see the connection between this movement and the MRA space in general?	/r/MensRights	26/10/24 01:55 PM
-31	This is what conscription looks like This is always so conveniently forgotten. We'll spoken	/r/MensRights	13/10/24 10:57 PM
1	African woman here, why do men stay silent in the west? I think that's where my mind went. I feel really sad about that. I wish men could be valued for more than these "values" they take on in conflict. I think the implication that it's good these things are valued say more about the infantilization of men and the belief they are incapable of more than about how people should respect that infantilization.	/r/MensRights	07/07/24 10:20 PM
3	African woman here, why do men stay silent in the west? I'm confused. Are you saying that if men are at risk to die in battle, they will be respected? Like if we aren't afraid to die, and men don't die instead, then men... I don't understand exactly the implications here.	/r/MensRights	06/07/24 08:39 PM
1	Aside from that first comment it’s very telling to see which statements are upvoted and which are downvoted I'm looking for an explanation of how it is irrational for women to fear men. I still have not heard such a thing. What you seem to be doing is looking for a checkbox in the risk column (“can men be violent?” = “y”) rather than evaluating relative risks (“are men violent enough as a group to justify being constantly wary of all men?”). I appreciate your logic here, and i think you would be right on the money for some other people in this kind of discussion. I am personally not looking to argue t…	/r/MensRights	17/06/24 10:11 PM
2	Aside from that first comment it’s very telling to see which statements are upvoted and which are downvoted You share your points well, and I appreciate it. However, These are reasons to not fear men, not reasons why fearing men is irrational.	/r/MensRights	17/06/24 09:05 PM
2	Aside from that first comment it’s very telling to see which statements are upvoted and which are downvoted Is there not a confounding variable of risk mitigation? I disagree with the outcome being the entirety of the situation, and still don't really see an argument being made that women don't have a rational reason to fear men. I see you and others making arguments about reasons to not fear some men. Why is women fearing men irrational? EDIT: Also, wouldn't the argument here just be, "be afraid of men in your personal sphere, then!" Leading to a behavioral sequence where men are going to be feared r…	/r/MensRights	17/06/24 09:03 PM
1	Aside from that first comment it’s very telling to see which statements are upvoted and which are downvoted I think your use of % of risk is interesting, however I do not find it compelling due to the fact that there are a variety of factors not taken into account with it, such as daily experiences some women may have with men that reinforce the greater fear. It's similar to arguing that you shouldn't worry about losing a pencil because you're so likely to see one per square mile that you'll always have one near you.	/r/MensRights	17/06/24 05:52 PM
-3	Aside from that first comment it’s very telling to see which statements are upvoted and which are downvoted My fear of men is directly proportional to their expression of their attitudes and expectations around me. I am a man and understand the intricacies. much stronger than the actual threat calls for. What tells you this? Is there a specific measure or objective study somewhere that says women are more scared of men than they should be? I am genuinely curious if you have seen evidence of this or if this is a feeling that you have projected onto (many, not all) women. very rarely do people obsessive…	/r/MensRights	17/06/24 04:50 PM
-2	Aside from that first comment it’s very telling to see which statements are upvoted and which are downvoted So the irrationality is that... men are also irrationally fearful and some men have done good things? I don't see how that makes fear of men irrational for women. I'm guessing I'm misunderstanding something because I don't understand.	/r/MensRights	17/06/24 02:54 PM
-13	Aside from that first comment it’s very telling to see which statements are upvoted and which are downvoted Why is it irrational?	/r/MensRights	17/06/24 12:19 PM
1	What exactly did I do wrong here, I'm not wrong am I? Also, brainwashed? If you want to argue this is true in the last 3-5ish years is say you're not wrong specifically, but it is important to make that distinction. It's always been worse for women until very recently with media. Now I would say it has flipped. It was always treated as a joke for men to be raped 🙄.I think we are just seeing the same number of men being raped jokes and a big decrease in women being raped in media. Idk that's just my experience.	/r/MensRights	15/06/24 01:16 AM
3	Why does the mensrights subreddit get such a negative reputation? Yeah people here can complain all they want about others not taking men's rights seriously, cause there are people who don't. Mostly they are ultra-masculine men who are right or far right leaning who think men belong in boxes that put them at the top or rad fems who hate men on principle. But this subreddit is absolutely filled with rampant hatred towards women. I've seen so many posts implying they want women to die, especially recently with the whole bear thing. This breeding shit you're talk…	/r/MensRights	08/05/24 01:47 PM
0	Would you rather be stuck with a man or a bear? Yeah. It really is. And it's really sad. This group tends to be focused far more on what women have than what men need, which naturally leads to bashing and anger instead of growth and advocacy. Or maybe it's the other way around and the bashing and anger draws a lot of men. I kinda think it's both. If you are interested in an alternative sub, lmk, I can PM you. I'm pretty sure I would get banned if I posted it here lol	/r/MensRights	01/05/24 01:54 PM
0	Would you rather be stuck with a man or a bear? Yeah it's really depressing when that stuff becomes the biggest diving force for people who care about men's issues. It's why I tend not toward left leaning men's spaces and only try to come here sparingly	/r/MensRights	01/05/24 01:48 PM
2	Would you rather be stuck with a man or a bear? Everyone deserves compassion. You deserve it. And the opposite of compassion is definitely not wishing someone was dead.	/r/MensRights	11/04/24 10:33 PM
2	Would you rather be stuck with a man or a bear? Men do too, doesn't mean that we shouldn't show compassion. That's what leads to people developing prejudices like wanting women to be killed by bears, as evidenced in this thread.	/r/MensRights	11/04/24 08:22 PM
1	Would you rather be stuck with a man or a bear? You think that people just saying, "I have been hurt and other people didn't believe me," is bad? If so, you hate men.	/r/MensRights	11/04/24 07:02 PM
-1	Would you rather be stuck with a man or a bear? It is very clear to me that your disbelief of this situation is a much better indicator of your hypocrisy and disregard for your fellow human and belief that your hatred is justified than anything to do with other people.	/r/MensRights	11/04/24 06:48 PM
2	Would you rather be stuck with a man or a bear? I wouldn't have a single problem with gynocentric pieces of shit like them actually being left in a cage with a bear to be honest, they better not desperately yell for a man to come rescue them while they're at it though. Comments like this are just all over this thread. I cannot imagine you see this kind of comment and do not see that they are saying they would like these women to die.	/r/MensRights	11/04/24 06:30 PM
-12	Would you rather be stuck with a man or a bear? The way these specific women are talking it is very clearly indicated that these specific women have not been believed about being abused.	/r/MensRights	11/04/24 03:03 PM
-19	Would you rather be stuck with a man or a bear? ITT: wishing women would die because these women are saying they have been around abusive men and that those abusive men got away with it because others didn't believe these women.	/r/MensRights	11/04/24 02:34 PM
2	Isn't all of this true though? we've always been seen as the more aggressive sex This has only been the case for the last couple hundred years.	/r/MensRights	16/03/24 01:24 AM
2	All roads lead to "Patriarchy" I am going to look at the links you have shared, thanks. I will get back to you.	/r/MensRights	16/01/24 02:49 AM
2	All roads lead to "Patriarchy" I have read a lot of feminist theory and find it really interesting. I see what you're pointing out and I think that a big issue is that there is an understanding that it's not all men (or even close to all men), it's just something that pisses them off so much it comes out really angry when they speak to one another in a non-theoretical conversation. I think something can happen for MRAs, too, but i often feel it is more ingrained in our movement. I wouldn't argue against someone saying that th…	/r/MensRights	15/01/24 07:27 PM
1	All roads lead to "Patriarchy" I don't personally see your argument against patriarchy as making sense. It hurts men and women while putting some men on the top. That's pretty much the same argument for feminists and MRAs. I wish there would be more aisle crossing, cause outside of extremists, there isn't the pearl clutching for the men's movement to exist in the feminist movement people here act like.	/r/MensRights	15/01/24 05:15 PM
-10	Why do women need male spaces so badly? Transphobia is fucked up. EDIT: Clearly there is some real hatred of men and men's spaces if this comment is in the negatives, implying you deny men being in our space when all I said is, 'transphobia is fucked up.' This isn't /r/malesrights.	/r/MensRights	12/01/24 03:11 PM
0	Some celebrities make statements that are outright ignorant, yet people take it as facts, only because of their influence. Example Taylor Swift Bye buddy don't fuck up your grandkids as much as you fuck up your kids.	/r/MensRights	02/01/24 06:48 AM
0	Some celebrities make statements that are outright ignorant, yet people take it as facts, only because of their influence. Example Taylor Swift You do not understand the point even a little bit if you think that's important. Failing to allow boys and men to be who they are because hating women is more important is disgusting and embarrassing. If either of us is "white Knighting" it's you trying to get weak men to think you're cool by putting down others. That's the opposite of helping men. What you are doing right now is hurting you, your children, and anyone that comes after you because you are more focused on virtue signaling hate tha…	/r/MensRights	01/01/24 07:58 PM
1	Some celebrities make statements that are outright ignorant, yet people take it as facts, only because of their influence. Example Taylor Swift So you're saying the way women are put down / are put into compliment boxes feeling as bad as what men experience in an alternative situatuon is deranged? Don't men and women both deserve to be treated respectfully and be given proper validation and regard? It sounds like both of these expectations blow, just I'm very different ways.	/r/MensRights	01/01/24 04:05 PM
-2	Some celebrities make statements that are outright ignorant, yet people take it as facts, only because of their influence. Example Taylor Swift Good job putting all men in a box by saying that if they stand up for other people they "white knight."	/r/MensRights	01/01/24 03:58 PM
-3	Some celebrities make statements that are outright ignorant, yet people take it as facts, only because of their influence. Example Taylor Swift You sound insufferable. Stay away from your future grandchildren please. Especially if they are men, you clearly think little of them with how much you're focusing your hatred, in a place about men about women. Fuck off and start helping men instead of trash talking women. It's embarrassing.	/r/MensRights	01/01/24 08:01 AM
0	Some celebrities make statements that are outright ignorant, yet people take it as facts, only because of their influence. Example Taylor Swift Compliments and being regarded are two different things. Can you explain the connection you're making here?	/r/MensRights	01/01/24 07:59 AM
2	Please be carefull. Subs general direction Believe it or not, compared to ten years ago its far, far better. I haven't been paying attention so strictly in the last two or three years, so I couldn't speak to that. Sounds like you've noticed something really important and the way you put it is really important, which I appreciate greatly.	/r/MensRights	30/12/23 10:21 PM
-1	X (formally Twitter) has turned into a great manosphere thanks to Musk You're even bigger of a fucking moron if you think that this argument has anything to do with feminism. You hate men because you fail to trust them with their own skills in a changing world. Fuck you and fuck off.	/r/MensRights	08/12/23 02:07 AM
0	X (formally Twitter) has turned into a great manosphere thanks to Musk You believe men are incapable of success and joy in a world where people are equal. You think men are so weak they need to control others in order to be successful. You hate men if you see life that way and think they are incapable of being more than toddlers. Your hate isn't clever. It's disgusting and cruel to all.	/r/MensRights	07/12/23 04:30 AM
0	X (formally Twitter) has turned into a great manosphere thanks to Musk Your hate for men is disgusting.	/r/MensRights	07/12/23 02:18 AM
6	X (formally Twitter) has turned into a great manosphere thanks to Musk I cannot imagine being this fucking stupid and immoral The only type of relationship you will ever have will be trash because of who you are as a person. Congrats on that, kid. Edit: not to mention the blatant misandry of infantilizing men to the point of believing they are unable to succeed in a world where men and women are equal.	/r/MensRights	06/12/23 07:21 AM
-1	Detention for all School Boys, Barred from Recess and Left Alone Inside, as to Celebrate International Women's Day, Where Freedom is for the Girls Exclusively Anyone know where this is from? Like where it was used?	/r/MensRights	03/11/23 04:09 PM
1	An 18-Year-Old Had Consensual Sex With a 16-Year-Old. He Went to Jail for 6 Years. Ah I missed it in the quote part. I definitely skimmed that. I do think the title is misleading based on what I read, which is unfortunate, cause the fact that the situation happened in the first place is already so clearly messed up that it just makes it frustrating. Anyways, thanks.	/r/MensRights	19/10/23 12:56 PM
0	An 18-Year-Old Had Consensual Sex With a 16-Year-Old. He Went to Jail for 6 Years. Maybe I'm missing something, but I don't see anything with 6 years in this article in reference to jail? I see 7 years probation/ being on a registry, which the effects of are really messed up and this whole thing is bullshit. I just don't see the jail part.	/r/MensRights	19/10/23 06:51 AM
1	What the actual F I think that makes a lot of sense. I also think that it's grey and that it's not as simple as it is with oxygen masks, but I definitely vibe with the idea - I just think it should be both.	/r/MensRights	10/08/23 01:05 AM
1	What the actual F I think that feminist started from the same place, though. It's up to us to make the first step.	/r/MensRights	10/08/23 01:04 AM
4	What the actual F I agree with you in principal, however happiness for self may come from bringing happiness to others. And I think anyone trying to improve someone else's chance at happiness must be respected for their intentions.	/r/MensRights	08/08/23 09:11 PM
4	What the actual F Better yet, why not start emotional support groups for men? Why deny instead of create?	/r/MensRights	08/08/23 09:09 PM
1	Taylor Swift thinks its okay to stigmatise half the human population. Yes, sexism is always wrong. Could you please highlight the statements she made that you're responding to with #2 and #3?	/r/MensRights	06/08/23 03:17 PM
1	"Barbie" movie is becoming a new litmus test for dating men You're bad at dog whistles. May as well throw up 1488 while you're at it.	/r/MensRights	01/08/23 09:13 PM
2	The Victim has Responsibilities that's nice to hear, and I appreciate you saying it. sometimes I get very confused in this sub when I ask people to share examples of this stuff and I get downvoted so much.	/r/MensRights	22/07/23 02:30 AM
2	The Victim has Responsibilities Sure, that makes sense. I just haven't seen this particular claim made and really want to see it being made yknow.	/r/MensRights	21/07/23 03:40 AM
-2	The Victim has Responsibilities I'm not interested in trying to 'prove' anything here. Poster above me made a claim and I am really interested in seeing what they're talking about, because I have never seen this and want to if what they're saying is as factual as they are presenting.	/r/MensRights	19/07/23 04:52 PM
-1	The Victim has Responsibilities I think you must never have talked to a feminist if you think this doesn't exist. I know reasonable MRAs, although one may also describe this as "a sisyphean task." If you can't find a reasonable feminist you are focusing purely on the extremists and would benefit greatly from good-faith interaction with mainstream feminists.	/r/MensRights	19/07/23 04:51 PM
-1	The Victim has Responsibilities I'm not arguing against what you're saying here, but that's not what the person above here said. They said something very different.	/r/MensRights	19/07/23 04:50 PM
-2	The Victim has Responsibilities I'm not interested in doing that. The poster above me claimed this was something that was a fact. I was hoping for information about it being a fact because I really want to know if it's true.	/r/MensRights	19/07/23 04:49 PM
-24	The Victim has Responsibilities Do you have any examples of an average feminist having this opinion, or is this purely speculation? If you can find general conversation amongst reasonable feminists agreeing with this point I really want to see it.	/r/MensRights	19/07/23 04:57 AM
1	It’s men’s fault that kids growing up with single fathers do better than kids with single mothers: lack of good male role models in their life This is simply untrue as a general statement. I imagine if this is how you feel you must have had to deal with some awful experiences with women in your life and I'm sorry.	/r/MensRights	16/07/23 11:02 PM
3	It’s men’s fault that kids growing up with single fathers do better than kids with single mothers: lack of good male role models in their life I think that the conclusions put the rest of the article into context in a good way. I hope people who read the post will also read the whole article. Yeah the author is kinda cooky and makes odd statements, but comes to a strong conclusion that I think makes some good points.	/r/MensRights	16/07/23 11:01 PM
1	Opinions (Washington Post) "Why can’t we hate men?" - By Suzanna Danuta Walters I think your skepticism makes complete sense and I think I understand where you are coming from. I wouldn't support a movement I haven't seen do good things for me, either. I hope you find your own way of reaching across to talk about these issues:) that's what I want most of all personally. Inter-rights dialogue is so important.	/r/MensRights	15/07/23 04:29 AM
1	Opinions (Washington Post) "Why can’t we hate men?" - By Suzanna Danuta Walters I read all of this, and I don't think either of us benefit from going into further and further detail on all of this stuff. I think the main thing I get is that there's a ton of frustration and anger about the response men get in some feminist circles. If I have anything to suggest here, it's to try to enter some feminist spaces with good faith. I think you'll find yourself surprised if you try to support other people and along the way advocate for support for you and other men. If not, then I g…	/r/MensRights	15/07/23 01:59 AM
-1	Opinions (Washington Post) "Why can’t we hate men?" - By Suzanna Danuta Walters It is so clearly you are trying to be difficult I will ask you a single question with the same level of care you put into your question. You're inverting the burden of proof. You don't prove a negative. If women are men's equals, then they can obtain what men got the same way men did: fight for it. If they cannot achieve the same results as men through the same means, then it must be because women are not men's equals. So which is it? If women are equal to men then they don't need men's help. Li…	/r/MensRights	13/07/23 04:11 AM
-1	Opinions (Washington Post) "Why can’t we hate men?" - By Suzanna Danuta Walters Its not about "feeling" that I am being blamed for things I have never done.. its about the fact that I am 100% being painted with the same brush used to tar / feather actual men who have raped women / harmed women. You're not, though. Unless you want to be, then, yeah, you are. But you're obviously not being grouped with these people if you're not someone who supports this stuff. That's very simple. Collective guilt is absolutely something pushed / peddled by feminism / feminists. Even worse th…	/r/MensRights	12/07/23 09:34 PM
1	Opinions (Washington Post) "Why can’t we hate men?" - By Suzanna Danuta Walters What feminism has become, hell no. It's not at all about equal rights or opportunities. It's now transitioned to female supremacy (while playing the victim) and male suppression (while casting men as the only perpetrators). Why would I support that? I continue to be confused about where this men's rights narrative all men are evil comes from. I have never seen nor felt this way in all my time in feminist spaces as a pro-male feminist. Both too simple and wrong. I'm not angry, I'm tired of an inc…	/r/MensRights	12/07/23 07:45 PM
0	Opinions (Washington Post) "Why can’t we hate men?" - By Suzanna Danuta Walters I think you are trying to justify not caring, which is fine i think. I'm sure it could go the other way around. I'm not sure exactly where the justification is in those paragraphs if you want to help me understand. Is it too simple to say that you're angry that they aren't taking you into account the way you like, you feel you are being blamed, so instead of working together, you'd rather be aligned against them?	/r/MensRights	12/07/23 05:49 PM
1	Opinions (Washington Post) "Why can’t we hate men?" - By Suzanna Danuta Walters I guess the key idea is why wouldn't you care and also ask for women to also care about the way men have been treated?	/r/MensRights	12/07/23 02:42 PM
-1	Kotaku put out an article bashing the Men's Rights movement, equating it to Male Supremacy. Being the first to attack and then pretend you are some sort of victim in this convo is a hell of an irony. And I can tell you you're not welcome around men or boys. You can go on and live with all the hate in your heart you would like. Karen Straughn is such a boring example of how bad the logic behind anti feminist MRAs work. Anyway peace I'm bored of this.	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 05:10 AM
-1	Kotaku put out an article bashing the Men's Rights movement, equating it to Male Supremacy. I would like to assume this argument is in good faith, but I have a hard time with how often you seem to say something in the most negative possible way without including any possible benefits. It's not a reasonable take to hate feminism to this extent. I'm certain you are either one of these individuals who is purposefully intellectually dishonest or you are someone who is trying to say whatever you possibly can in order to pit men against women and reverse the incredible changes feminism has b…	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 01:13 AM
-4	Kotaku put out an article bashing the Men's Rights movement, equating it to Male Supremacy. Well you made the claim so you need to prove. I am sure you recognize how ridiculous it is to request something like this in this context, so I am going to assume your goal here is to disparage my character. I am not a liar. I am a huge advocate for men and boys and their rights. It's a major part of my occupation. I take great pride in my work and helping men and boys being the best they can be in a world that hates them. You can genuinely fuck right off if you think that's untrue because I don…	/r/MensRights	27/01/23 11:16 PM
-3	Kotaku put out an article bashing the Men's Rights movement, equating it to Male Supremacy. So the name, feminism, is all-inclusive which is why they picked a name like that, to show how inclusive they are. Are you purposefully attempting to just... ignore the roots of first-wave feminism? I don't understand the point here. Similarly, patriarchy was named because it's something that affect everyone and is a society-caused concern. Well, it was coined in 2nd-wave feminism when it was even more obvious, but, yes. It still has nothing to do with you or other men as individuals. No need to…	/r/MensRights	27/01/23 10:26 PM
-2	Kotaku put out an article bashing the Men's Rights movement, equating it to Male Supremacy. Show you proof? What? First off, what would you even accept? Should I provide a log of all my conversations I have ever had in person with feminists? Second, why would I even care about "proving it" to you? Like, I don't really care about proving anything to you with how you talk, even if I could. EDIT: I have no clue how these organizations fit in with what you are saying. Being feminist isn't inherently a bad thing - they must do or say things you disagree with specifically? Otherwise you're j…	/r/MensRights	27/01/23 10:17 PM
-1	Kotaku put out an article bashing the Men's Rights movement, equating it to Male Supremacy. I do call them out. What giant feminist organizations are you talking about?	/r/MensRights	27/01/23 08:15 PM
-5	Kotaku put out an article bashing the Men's Rights movement, equating it to Male Supremacy. I do follow both sides. And I don't see feminism as a road block to men's rights. I see small communities of assholes being held up as beacons of all feminists. I've worked with so many feminists irl and only very few actually had the type of belief that people here seem to think all feminists have. Some people are going to call anything MRM whining because they're dicks. Lots of people don't, they're just put off by all the blatant misandry and anti-feminism. Let go of this belief that feminism…	/r/MensRights	27/01/23 06:49 PM
-18	Kotaku put out an article bashing the Men's Rights movement, equating it to Male Supremacy. Mostly because it pits itself against feminism and there are no "real" movements as a result of it. Parroting talking points without an actual movement (that doesn't demonize women and the feminist movement (which largely actually has the same views as the MRM (this subreddit looovveeesss to hyper-focus on the most absurd stuff associated with feminism))) means it hasn't taken off. Even the university professors who give a shit aren't actually respected by this movement despite the fact they are…	/r/MensRights	27/01/23 04:05 PM
-2	Double standards Rockthrower is a nazi. Get this trash out of here.	/r/MensRights	17/05/22 06:57 AM
2	Melbourne’s Darebin council BANS MEN from applying for street sweeper job in bid to recruit ‘women, non-binary and gender non-conforming people’ Would you care to explain why?	/r/MensRights	10/09/21 01:55 PM
0	Melbourne’s Darebin council BANS MEN from applying for street sweeper job in bid to recruit ‘women, non-binary and gender non-conforming people’ Just because a question seems simple doesn't mean it doesn't deserve to be understood more clearly. I could imagine reasons why but I am particularly curious about a deeper understanding of the idea beyond "discrimination against men bad." Like... yeah in a vacuum duh. But the world is incredibly complex and some people make arguments that are completely against equality between genders. I'm asking people who care about this topic to help me understand better.	/r/MensRights	10/09/21 05:08 AM
0	Melbourne’s Darebin council BANS MEN from applying for street sweeper job in bid to recruit ‘women, non-binary and gender non-conforming people’ Not quite. Aren't people of different identities in different positions in their lives due to a myriad of circumstances, some of which are circumstantially and sometimes contextually related to their position? Is it a waste of money to cater to the very few people in a wheelchair by putting in wheelchair accessible ways to enter buildings?	/r/MensRights	10/09/21 05:06 AM
-6	Melbourne’s Darebin council BANS MEN from applying for street sweeper job in bid to recruit ‘women, non-binary and gender non-conforming people’ Can someone do me a favor and lay out why this is a big deal? I'm having a hard time understanding.	/r/MensRights	09/09/21 10:18 PM
1	CDC not only acknowledges the fact that men are the majority of child abuse victims, but also acknowledges the fact most child abusers are women, instead of lying. No shit you didn't say it. It's incredibly easy and obvious to infer based on your comments. I'm pro men. I call out assholes who try to make things even harder on us by pushing away allies.	/r/MensRights	13/08/21 11:23 PM
1	CDC not only acknowledges the fact that men are the majority of child abuse victims, but also acknowledges the fact most child abusers are women, instead of lying. Hating women isn't an observation. It's determined bigotry.	/r/MensRights	13/08/21 01:22 PM
1	CDC not only acknowledges the fact that men are the majority of child abuse victims, but also acknowledges the fact most child abusers are women, instead of lying. I cannot overemphasize how much I disagree with the 2nd half of your statement. That is simply bigotry.	/r/MensRights	12/08/21 10:13 PM
-5	CDC not only acknowledges the fact that men are the majority of child abuse victims, but also acknowledges the fact most child abusers are women, instead of lying. Ik this is a joke, but still I hope you realize what you are saying?	/r/MensRights	12/08/21 05:21 PM
-14	CDC not only acknowledges the fact that men are the majority of child abuse victims, but also acknowledges the fact most child abusers are women, instead of lying. Do you not notice this same trend here?	/r/MensRights	12/08/21 03:19 PM
-2	The ability to see all of women’s inner thoughts on TwoX really taught me a lot. Seeing seemingly normal ladies say awful things casually has completely eroded my trust in them. Last word	/r/MensRights	28/07/21 12:25 PM
-4	The ability to see all of women’s inner thoughts on TwoX really taught me a lot. Seeing seemingly normal ladies say awful things casually has completely eroded my trust in them. Sounds like someone has to take their medications.	/r/MensRights	27/07/21 11:55 PM
-23	The ability to see all of women’s inner thoughts on TwoX really taught me a lot. Seeing seemingly normal ladies say awful things casually has completely eroded my trust in them. You're a piece of shit lmfao	/r/MensRights	27/07/21 01:51 PM
-1	Fucking disgusting. It was posted on the feminism subreddit. Thoughts? then that’s not a patriarchy problem If you believe that, then you do not understand the term. patriarchal” society is only based on perception I mean everything is based on perception. no one is objective or capable of objectivity. to claim otherwise betrays an intense naivete. Throughout history men were given more respect in terms of their opinions then women were. But at the same time men were expected to fight in wars and die on sinking ships Agreed Women’s lives were inherently valued by s…	/r/MensRights	11/05/21 06:11 PM
-11	Fucking disgusting. It was posted on the feminism subreddit. Thoughts? You aren't being called a primary antagonist by feminists yet you choose to claim you are anyway through jumping to conclusions? Maybe it's not because you're an enemy or "less than human" but because you're more likely to also suffer from patriarchy. Just a thought.	/r/MensRights	11/05/21 12:55 PM
-3	Men are constantly told by society that they are disposable, not needed anymore and women can do it all. Oh it definitely is. I was an anti feminist men's rights guy only about 5 years ago. This sub was my home for a long time and the reason I joined reddit. After continuing to learn I realized better, and yall deserve better than to live in this bubble, just like I deserved better. Plus I give a shit about men and their plight. They face some serious shit. But hating feminism isn't an answer, it is just proving a lack of knowledge.	/r/MensRights	01/05/21 04:43 PM
-34	Men are constantly told by society that they are disposable, not needed anymore and women can do it all. Sounds like you've been indoctrinated. Take everything you said about feminism, which let's be honest has nothing to do with your initial post, and replace it with "men's rights." All hogwash. Your complaints make sense but I strongly recommend reconsidering what you personally believe the reasons for it happening are. Don't blame feminism when you clearly don't understand it.	/r/MensRights	01/05/21 07:20 AM
0	Feminists instantly become pro-police when you bring up the fact that 96% of police killing victims are men. 1) that there are feminists that believe this 2) that this argument is at all representative of an actual feminist argument with how stupid it is.	/r/MensRights	28/09/20 05:20 PM
-3	Feminists instantly become pro-police when you bring up the fact that 96% of police killing victims are men. Weak strawman against a weak argument. Bravo. Clap yourselves on the back for this one. Super impressive "logical donination."	/r/MensRights	27/09/20 08:53 PM
-12	Equality is not equality is you only care about half of the population The answer provided is so stupid in response though. It is not addressing anything of what the original poster in the screen shot is saying. And pretending otherwise is the weakest strawman. Feminists care about that stuff. And it is easy to talk to them about it when you aren't trying to WHATABOUT them and instead you work with them.	/r/MensRights	11/09/20 01:14 PM
1	Instagram feminism takes support on men sexual assault Oof. Lol okay my friend. False equivalency is still... the main... thing. It's not hypocritical because its values account for the distinction and if you truly understood feminism you could easily see that.	/r/MensRights	22/05/20 12:15 AM
1	Instagram feminism takes support on men sexual assault I understand you feel that way. I also will reiterate that I do not see that as the case here at all. Surface level hypocrisy is not truly hypocrisy.	/r/MensRights	21/05/20 09:03 PM
1	Instagram feminism takes support on men sexual assault What??? And while I see why the person who wrote this piece believes in what they are writing, it is a false equivalency. I get why you and they would think it's not, but it really is not. If you'd like, I can provide an example of why.	/r/MensRights	21/05/20 06:28 PM
1	VERY WISE WORDS from this children's author about these men with "future is female" t-shirts on Oof and some homophobia to top it off. Well done.	/r/MensRights	18/05/20 11:43 AM
1	VERY WISE WORDS from this children's author about these men with "future is female" t-shirts on Lol you're shaming me for the way I am masculine. Pretty fucking mysandrist. Go back to your troll hole, asshole.	/r/MensRights	17/05/20 09:09 PM
1	VERY WISE WORDS from this children's author about these men with "future is female" t-shirts on Ooof you really hurt my feelings there wow. My statement didn't say that, did it? No, it didn't. I simply pointed out that the top comment did the same thing MRAs make fun of feminists for. Because this sub has become (and likely has been over the last 7 years I've been around it) absolute trash filled with /r/conspiracy nerds.	/r/MensRights	17/05/20 08:13 PM
1	VERY WISE WORDS from this children's author about these men with "future is female" t-shirts on What you say has nothing really to do with what I said. I don't disagree with most of what you said... but I don't think you understand how feminism works. You may understand capitalism, but feminism is not capitalism. They are very different forces. If your lens is that they are the same... you would be "right" only in that your lens is convincing you you are right, not as reality represents.	/r/MensRights	17/05/20 05:43 PM
-54	VERY WISE WORDS from this children's author about these men with "future is female" t-shirts on You are literally writing the equivalent insanity of some extreme feminists that there is a secret counsel of women who are... plotting everything?	/r/MensRights	16/05/20 10:23 PM
-64	VERY WISE WORDS from this children's author about these men with "future is female" t-shirts on Please tell me you do not believe what you're saying and this is an incredibly well constructed troll post where you forgot the /s	/r/MensRights	16/05/20 10:11 PM
-5	Screen Shot Of Me Confronting My Fellow Female Atheists On Reddit About False Sexual Assault Allegations In The Atheist Community No, it means "we are bored of your drivel. Bye."	/r/MensRights	12/04/20 05:19 PM
4	Screen Shot Of Me Confronting My Fellow Female Atheists On Reddit About False Sexual Assault Allegations In The Atheist Community Lol how old are you? 11?	/r/MensRights	12/04/20 05:17 PM
-2	Instagram feminism takes support on men sexual assault Nothing about the term suggests it is only men. And if you read even semi-regular feminist beliefs instead of the often absurdly cherry-picked pieces posted here you'd see your decision is very simple, indeed. I recommend venturing into feminist zones to read their actual beliefs and not rely on this highly radicalized sub.	/r/MensRights	12/04/20 02:36 PM
0	Lost my job because I was targeted for being a white male I'd like to say I believe you, and judging by your post history you are who you say you are. Despite that it's hard to believe there isnt more to this story. I find that when people use the "black friend" argument they tend to also minimize their own behavior. That being said, you genuinely appear to be a therapist who knows what they're talking about. My question to you is what models do you use? CBT? Anything else you draw from a lot? My expectation (which could very well be wrong) is that you…	/r/MensRights	12/03/19 11:10 PM
-1	Lost my job because I was targeted for being a white male Sounds like you're using a common "but my black friend said its okay!" Tactic and haven't told us everything.	/r/MensRights	12/03/19 09:09 PM
1	Rotten Tomatoes has reportedly "Removed toxic reviews" for Captain Marvel. And I'm taking your statements and making sure you understand what you are effectively saying. Do try to keep up.	/r/MensRights	27/02/19 04:09 PM
1	Rotten Tomatoes has reportedly "Removed toxic reviews" for Captain Marvel. Fuckin lol. You're being alienated because... one... marvel... superhero... is a woman. That's exactly what you claim you are okay with. Sure.	/r/MensRights	27/02/19 02:11 AM
0	Rotten Tomatoes has reportedly "Removed toxic reviews" for Captain Marvel. Yeah, basically what you're advocating for is to care literally 0% about minorities. Good argument.	/r/MensRights	26/02/19 10:14 PM
-1	Rotten Tomatoes has reportedly "Removed toxic reviews" for Captain Marvel. Lmfao sure. Sure it does and sure you are.	/r/MensRights	26/02/19 10:13 PM
-1	Rotten Tomatoes has reportedly "Removed toxic reviews" for Captain Marvel. Poor baby not having literally every piece of media be about you :(	/r/MensRights	26/02/19 08:57 PM
-1	Rotten Tomatoes has reportedly "Removed toxic reviews" for Captain Marvel. And here's the issue - you think for some reason that you're the only important people. Men love comic books, sure. That's not the only demographic anymore. A LOT of people of different colors and women are interested in and love these movies. The fact you somehow don't know that is just painful. Black Panther is garnered toward a "non-standard" audience and did amazing. This movie will do the same. I'm sorry you think that you're being targeted for not having literally every piece of media made…	/r/MensRights	26/02/19 08:57 PM
1	Men have emotions. Men are humans I think it makes sense you do not sense that this is the case. I believe that yall have that association nonetheless. Good luck distancing yourself from them - truly. I hope that I can one day say that I dont feel like you are associated at all. Men's rights are important.	/r/MensRights	15/02/19 07:46 PM
1	Men have emotions. Men are humans Sarcasm isn't your strongest suit. is it? I said "You may as well call Right wing Nazis". Its a figure of speech. If that's how you want to interpret what you said, you may. I'm not the one typing out sarcastic comments on the internet in a group that is commonly associated with the alt-right, and it is not my job to make sure you feel like I am not assuming you're on their side. Calling right wing literal idiots who give away their rights for the rich is not the textbook definition of Right Win…	/r/MensRights	15/02/19 04:58 PM
0	Men have emotions. Men are humans The Right wing is not neo nazis. Nazis are nazis and they are not humans. People on the right are just fed massive amounts of misninformation and are psychologically conditioned by the rich into giving up their own rights so the rich dont have to work. By trying to somehow claim I am posing a straw man, you yourself made the strawman fallacy. If anything, you could claim I made a gross overgeneralization - which, to an extent, I did - however I made no such fallacy. The right say with their poli…	/r/MensRights	15/02/19 03:24 PM
1	Men have emotions. Men are humans I do understand "righty" opinions. I was a libertarian for about 5 years and could come up with reasons you would likely agree with for almost any political topic on the right. I've learned more over time, though, and can safely say that "caricature" accurately captures reality from my point of view.	/r/MensRights	15/02/19 03:21 PM
1	Men have emotions. Men are humans Human rights are part of the left and the right, it is just that one side believes that rights belong to the rich and the other believes that we should all have rights regardless of our demographics.	/r/MensRights	15/02/19 12:38 PM
1	Men have emotions. Men are humans You literally have an entire subreddit whose only purpose is to complain about women who disagree with you. Do you have no sense of self awareness?	/r/MensRights	14/02/19 11:55 PM
1	Why is it that the only positive traits in a man are the feminine ones? How is being stoic, tough, and strong wrong? The issue is that assholes like you pretend it is not masculine to be emotional. Everyone is and should be emotional - it is natural. The only unnatural thing is pretending they don't exist. You are literally providing a textbook example of toxic masculinity and are pushing young men to commit suicide with this attitude. There is no such thing as natural, biological masculinity. That is shit society tells you is good and invariably ends up making you part of a system meant to shame and degrade y…	/r/MensRights	05/02/19 11:41 AM
0	Pot calling all the kettles black You have an incredibly distorted view of reality.	/r/MensRights	24/01/19 02:22 AM
2	What Facebook considers "hate speech" It's not like these people have the same physical or social power. Men can leave if they want with very little backlash. Women cannot. What's the point of this post? That women leave often because men often do bad things to them? Because that's what the statistics suggest.	/r/MensRights	23/01/19 11:52 AM
-3	So now there’s a petition to remove the right to a fair trial at Michigan university, full of anecdotal lies and fear mongering. I would link to the petition but it doesn’t allow me to actually view the page without signing. Lol sure. Cause rape is never legitimate unless there is somehow evidence. Great idea.	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 07:43 AM
-6	So now there’s a petition to remove the right to a fair trial at Michigan university, full of anecdotal lies and fear mongering. I would link to the petition but it doesn’t allow me to actually view the page without signing. I mean, yeah, you're defending rapists haha.	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 07:42 AM
-10	So now there’s a petition to remove the right to a fair trial at Michigan university, full of anecdotal lies and fear mongering. I would link to the petition but it doesn’t allow me to actually view the page without signing. Lol not even close to a comparable example. Good try, though.	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 07:11 AM
-6	So now there’s a petition to remove the right to a fair trial at Michigan university, full of anecdotal lies and fear mongering. I would link to the petition but it doesn’t allow me to actually view the page without signing. Soooo you get kicked out of a school because you raped a woman and then can no longer get a good job? Aw. Nah, you're overblowing it. Good job drinking the kool aid, though. Good luck on your quest to learn. I suggest taking very little this sub says seriously, to start:)	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 07:11 AM
2	So now there’s a petition to remove the right to a fair trial at Michigan university, full of anecdotal lies and fear mongering. I would link to the petition but it doesn’t allow me to actually view the page without signing. What?	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 06:34 AM
-4	So now there’s a petition to remove the right to a fair trial at Michigan university, full of anecdotal lies and fear mongering. I would link to the petition but it doesn’t allow me to actually view the page without signing. Nah, not really. Being jailed and being kicked out of school are very different.	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 06:33 AM
-9	So now there’s a petition to remove the right to a fair trial at Michigan university, full of anecdotal lies and fear mongering. I would link to the petition but it doesn’t allow me to actually view the page without signing. Haha sure. How about public utilities? What do you think about them?	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 05:59 AM
-11	So now there’s a petition to remove the right to a fair trial at Michigan university, full of anecdotal lies and fear mongering. I would link to the petition but it doesn’t allow me to actually view the page without signing. Nice non-response.	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 05:59 AM
-3	So now there’s a petition to remove the right to a fair trial at Michigan university, full of anecdotal lies and fear mongering. I would link to the petition but it doesn’t allow me to actually view the page without signing. Fair enough. I doubt it'll stand if it gets to the SCOTUS, but for now, fine. The 6th court can make all of the shitty decisions it wants.	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 05:33 AM
-8	So now there’s a petition to remove the right to a fair trial at Michigan university, full of anecdotal lies and fear mongering. I would link to the petition but it doesn’t allow me to actually view the page without signing. Why does any corporation or NGO have any authority to do anything to anyone that works for them whatsoever? Because non-governments should be able to do shit when people do evil things.	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 05:05 AM
11	So now there’s a petition to remove the right to a fair trial at Michigan university, full of anecdotal lies and fear mongering. I would link to the petition but it doesn’t allow me to actually view the page without signing. Got a link to that case? Cause I've never heard of such a thing.	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 05:04 AM
-22	So now there’s a petition to remove the right to a fair trial at Michigan university, full of anecdotal lies and fear mongering. I would link to the petition but it doesn’t allow me to actually view the page without signing. Not a courtroom, don't need to follow court standards.	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 05:03 AM
-33	So now there’s a petition to remove the right to a fair trial at Michigan university, full of anecdotal lies and fear mongering. I would link to the petition but it doesn’t allow me to actually view the page without signing. It's unfortunate how mischaracterizing you are of this idea. That is not the reason for it at all. Furthermore, this is not a legal action - it's an action taken by an entity that is separate from the state. You wouldn't require "due process" from a corporation, would you?	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 05:02 AM
-5	So now there’s a petition to remove the right to a fair trial at Michigan university, full of anecdotal lies and fear mongering. I would link to the petition but it doesn’t allow me to actually view the page without signing. Heh I believe also in the Russian Agenda. Bear is great and powerful. Let us push the Russian goals together, comrade. The left is Communists, yes. Make the western pigs misunderstand with me.	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 05:01 AM
-1	So now there’s a petition to remove the right to a fair trial at Michigan university, full of anecdotal lies and fear mongering. I would link to the petition but it doesn’t allow me to actually view the page without signing. Corporations aren't required to do this, either. Do you advocate that we force "facing your accuser" "beyond a reasonable doubt" and whatnot for corporations?	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 04:55 AM
0	"Toxic Masculinity isn't the problem. Lack of Masculinity is." I do, and I do. I just recognize them as they are, not as scared men on the right would like to believe.	/r/MensRights	19/01/19 07:12 PM
-2	"Toxic Masculinity isn't the problem. Lack of Masculinity is." This is sad. You guys pretend you care about men, but if you did, you would want them to be good humans, not care whether or not they fit some "masculine" box. Smh.	/r/MensRights	19/01/19 03:28 AM
0	Pot calling all the kettles black Lol I see. So it is not an attempt at providing real arguments. Goodbye.	/r/MensRights	17/01/19 11:08 PM
-5	Pot calling all the kettles black I dont get how you people think you understand this stuff. Clearly any level of systemic analysis would tell you it is inevitable something like that would happen with progress. Some jobs are okay to be removed. Just like it is (I would strongly argue) not feminist to support legalized prostitution, a job that is coercive and uses women as sex objects for men is not a job feminists should fight for. I dont get where that is such a crazy concept.	/r/MensRights	17/01/19 12:14 PM
-13	Pot calling all the kettles black Remark about how he claims feminists are anti-women somehow? He hasn't proved anything.	/r/MensRights	17/01/19 05:17 AM
-11	Pot calling all the kettles black You're saying I'm a misandrist piece of shit because men shouldn't be shitty when they dont have to be. If that is the case... then I guess you can call me whatever you want cause I don't think it means much to me what you think lul	/r/MensRights	17/01/19 05:16 AM
-28	Pot calling all the kettles black Nah, the part where you claim it is anti feminist.	/r/MensRights	17/01/19 05:15 AM
-19	Pot calling all the kettles black Lol probably took it that way cause you're a piece of shit, but what do I know.	/r/MensRights	17/01/19 04:08 AM
-41	Pot calling all the kettles black Lol you're so full of shit.	/r/MensRights	17/01/19 04:08 AM
-4	The Red Pill has been quarantined - for ideological reasons. So full of shit. This sub has become absolutely garbage. It used to be halfway decent, but now it is so clearly full of fucking pieces of shit. If you genuinely think trp is a good sub, you should seriously reevaluate your moral standing. At least this sub, even if often misguided, has the goal of equalizing rights. Trp is a misogynist hellhole.	/r/MensRights	28/09/18 02:15 PM
-11	The Red Pill has been quarantined - for ideological reasons. You can't be fucking seriously defending a sub that promotes rape? What the fuck. How is this even remotely related to helping men? Even an iota?	/r/MensRights	28/09/18 06:06 AM
1	male feminist actively working to lower his son's sense of self worth Self worth??? Because the only way you can have self worth is by butting in and forcing yourself on to other people's work? Lul.	/r/MensRights	26/07/18 02:54 AM
1	Here is a good flowchart which can be used to determinine if a rape case was handled correctly (taken from lawcomic.net) That is not what I said. Intentions matter, of course.	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 05:45 PM
-9	Here is a good flowchart which can be used to determinine if a rape case was handled correctly (taken from lawcomic.net) Except laws are applied in a gray way anyway - think juries, judges, lawyers, etc. It's not fixed the way something like a video game or a book is. Being aware of this fact does not mean that the system isn't working, it just means that we can account for the fact that it is gray.	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 01:10 PM
-27	Here is a good flowchart which can be used to determinine if a rape case was handled correctly (taken from lawcomic.net) Just because someone is not aware another person hasn't been drinking does not mean sexual assault or rape or criminal sexual conduct hasn't occurred. Laws say that any form of incapacitation still can mean that sexual assault has occurred and people can go to jail for it. This kind of misinformation just spreads the myth that sexual assault is a black and white subject. In truth, there's no Flow chart you can follow to arrive at "not rape." It's gray. This kind of shit is just awful and gives p…	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 12:58 PM
3	Found this in at my college bathroom today. It is definitely satire. Women have been told how to "avoid rape" for so long that when men are told how to "not rape" they feel like it's ridiculous. Both are stupid and miss the point. Rapists are pieces of complete shit who we should blame. Bystander intervention is now well understood as the best method of preventing sexual assault from occurring	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 12:40 PM
-31	Here is a good flowchart which can be used to determinine if a rape case was handled correctly (taken from lawcomic.net) This is... just wrong. Like legitimately incorrect. How awfully false.	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 12:33 PM
-8	Thought of the day: “Mankind” is discriminatory because it isn’t gender neutral, but “feminism” represents equality for both genders? That would require critical thought on how to fix the issues instead of simply complaining about how things are the way they are.	/r/MensRights	05/02/18 08:53 PM
-4	Mika Brzezinski Warns #MeToo Warriors: ‘I Know Men Who Won’t Hire Women Now’ This line of thinking is the same that justifies women who think all men are rapists- not all are, but you better be aware they all could be!! Second, the only time you legitimately have to worry about this (unless you think all women should be afraid of every man being a rapist) is if you perform actions that are equipped aren't to sexual harassment or sexual assault. If you do that shit, then it's not "false", it's true. And people that do that shit should be ostracized and punished, because t…	/r/MensRights	19/12/17 11:22 PM
-11	Mika Brzezinski Warns #MeToo Warriors: ‘I Know Men Who Won’t Hire Women Now’ So you're saying that we should punish women for saying men are being awful to them because men are being ostracized if they are being awful? What?	/r/MensRights	19/12/17 08:24 PM
1	Toxic masculinity and privilege. That's fair. Perhaps your view will change as you continue to challenge yourself, or maybe mine will as I continue to challenge mine. Good luck in the future.	/r/MensRights	29/08/17 06:23 PM
0	Toxic masculinity and privilege. To be honest, I could take the time to argue. I don't feel like it. This person insulted me no less than two times, the second being extremely aggressive for no good reason. Maybe I shouldn't have responded with anger as well, but I am just a person and I have weaknesses. You know I couldn't convince you, as well. Don't act like I could, even with well constructed arguments. We have different assumptions. We have years of different research. I just suggest you take the time to seek out opinions …	/r/MensRights	29/08/17 05:55 PM
-2	Toxic masculinity and privilege. Holy shit dude please keep going. I am amazed at your comments. They reveal such depth, such intelligence, and such well-thought-out opinions and insight. I hope you take the time to really challenge yourself and your beliefs... but I do hope you also take the time to address yourself and your attitude as well. It could really help you out. People don't like to debate with arrogant and loathing people. Cheers, bud.	/r/MensRights	29/08/17 03:25 AM
-1	Toxic masculinity and privilege. I see you are selectively reading what I write. Very well. Good luck in the future, dude.	/r/MensRights	29/08/17 01:34 AM
-1	Toxic masculinity and privilege. I know the difference. You're negative attitude does nothing to help you.	/r/MensRights	29/08/17 01:34 AM
-4	Toxic masculinity and privilege. To be honest, I don't think I have the ability to convince you, no matter how much I shared. If you would truly like to learn more about the answers to those questions yourself, I suggest you do what I did when I was an MRA- learn as much as possible about feminism from feminists. There's no better way for you to learn yourself if you're right or not. Good luck.	/r/MensRights	28/08/17 05:36 PM
1	Toxic masculinity and privilege. You're right that I made that fallacy. I misspoke. I meant to say "the vast majority." I think that's unfair. Are all trump supporters white nationalists? Are all liberals antifa? You are part of a group that purposely seeks out the worst of feminism. That's not feminists fault.	/r/MensRights	28/08/17 05:17 PM
1	Toxic masculinity and privilege. I never said they would. I know that feminists hate men with a combination of bitter loathing and extreme jealousy. I... gotta say this is far from true in most feminist circles. Of course in some this is true... but in some MRA circles the men simply hate women, such as r/incels. Surely you can see how both groups are far from indicitavice of the larger whole. Of course they are only going to speak negatively of men and all things male. Feminists created a religion and named both their version …	/r/MensRights	28/08/17 04:18 PM
2	Toxic masculinity and privilege. What? I'm not offended? I'm simply saying the argument OP made is a strawman	/r/MensRights	28/08/17 03:11 PM
3	Toxic masculinity and privilege. As far as I can tell, they believe that feminists think that men being physically powerful is always a bad thing until they are sent in for help in natural disasters. In their mind, what they believe is that once women see this type of thing happening, they experience cognitive dissonance - they are being saved by men (and want to be saved specifically by men) - but all of them hate men and toxic masculinity.	/r/MensRights	28/08/17 01:55 PM
-1	Toxic masculinity and privilege. Why else would feminists discuss "masculinity"? Would you mind sharing with me what you believe the definition of toxic masculinity is in the eyes of a feminist?	/r/MensRights	28/08/17 01:53 PM
4	Toxic masculinity and privilege. Correct, I don't think that. This sub takes the worst it can possibly find from the most outrageous examples. As someone who works with feminists on a regular basis, most have very nuanced opinions on males and masculinity. I suggest you attempt to find real feminist outlets, it would be easier to see outside of this sub.	/r/MensRights	28/08/17 01:51 PM
4	Toxic masculinity and privilege. Like I said I don't disagree it's awesome people like this dude exist, but frankly I feel like your understanding of feminism is... unfortunate. You're combating an enemy that is almost non-existent.	/r/MensRights	28/08/17 06:28 AM
60	Toxic masculinity and privilege. I think you're making a misguided equivalency here. Yes, it's awesome people exist to save other people. Yay for this dude. This picture has nothing to do with "toxic masculinity" though. It's attempting to defeat an argument that hasn't been made and wouldn't be made by the vast majority of feminists.	/r/MensRights	28/08/17 06:17 AM
131	Toxic masculinity and privilege. Come on guys... like I get sometimes what y'all try to get across but this screams strawman	/r/MensRights	28/08/17 05:59 AM
1	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster A good start, I think many people begin like this. It does help to contribute though, it tests your understanding and makes you question your beliefs when challenged to explain yourself, expand, go in more detail. True point. I have always listened more often than speak, so maybe it would be a good idea to challenge myself with this more.	/r/MensRights	23/06/16 05:46 AM
1	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster Fair point. And I am still considering my feelings in relations to the MRM. Currently there is another subreddit that I can send you a link to if you'd like (this comment was removed because I linked to it before) that is more of my style than /r/mensrights. If you are interested in a sub that, in my opinion, provides more thoughtful discussion, I would suggest to look there! Also, my general philosophy on these types of subs is to simply read and try to understand why people say the things they…	/r/MensRights	22/06/16 04:54 AM
1	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster Fair point. And I am still considering my feelings in relations to the MRM. Currently there is another subreddit that I can send you a link to if you'd like (this comment was removed because I linked to it before) that is more of my style than /r/mensrights. If you are interested in a sub that, in my opinion, provides more thoughtful discussion, I would suggest to look there! Also, my general philosophy on these types of subs is to simply read and try to understand why people say the things they…	/r/MensRights	22/06/16 04:38 AM
-3	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster Comments like this really support it too. Sometimes I really agree with what's posted here. Sometimes I feel like it's absolutely terrible, like what OP posted about the graph.	/r/MensRights	22/06/16 03:58 AM
-6	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster This is why people say this subreddit is full of redpillers.	/r/MensRights	22/06/16 03:38 AM
2	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 💜💜💜	/r/MensRights	11/12/15 12:55 AM
3	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 I appreciate that you said this. I was trying my best to be calm through the entire conversation but by the end it was just frustrating. Thank you for lifting my spirits, my friend.	/r/MensRights	11/12/15 12:19 AM
2	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 Good lord you are an insufferable tool.	/r/MensRights	08/12/15 05:44 AM
2	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 Your analysis is un-scientific and bizarre even. The problem is that 50% of current victims is still way too many Of course. But 50% is less than 100%. You need to be doing everything you can if you are serious about reducing sexual assault. Right, but the problem is that when this type of training is implemented, people often say "Okay, we did everything we could," and that's that. This type of training is a band-aid. Stitches would be much better, but if we put a band-aid on it we act like eve…	/r/MensRights	08/12/15 04:19 AM
0	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 Short novel incoming, I apologize for the length but please stick through to the end. I'm being snarky because you are not really interested in reducing sexual attacks and abuse on women or men. That's false. You are equating my belief that this way of teaching a way of preventing sexual assault is weaker than what we could and should be doing with that of me not caring. I care a lot. I am a survivor of sexual assault myself, and I promise you I care. My evidence is that I have provided you abov…	/r/MensRights	07/12/15 09:31 PM
2	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 I feel like there was a lot of communication errors here. I never meant what I said as an attack. I only meant it as an observation. EDIT: I apologize if I offended you. I really just want actual conversation to happen and would like personal attacks to be kept to a minimum so we can focus on the issues.	/r/MensRights	07/12/15 09:16 PM
0	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 Instead of addressing the point you addressed the presentation, which is a logical fallacy. It may not be an "attack" in your mind, but it was a deliberate attempt to dismiss me by ignoring what I was saying. The second point still stands, as the vast majority of responses I have received from people here have been amazingly circle-jerky	/r/MensRights	07/12/15 08:25 PM
0	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 I'm in classes for a bit now but I will give you a deserved, honest response when I'm back.	/r/MensRights	07/12/15 08:08 PM
1	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 I mean sure. Many of those calls were the upwards of 30-90 minutes long. And most of them could have been pranks that the prankster never once made a hint they could be pranking us. EDIT: reading this back through, this comment is much more snarky than I meant it to be. I just want you to realize what you said. Also, let's say even 95% were prank calls (they weren't). That's more than the 0 schools are reporting.	/r/MensRights	07/12/15 06:56 PM
-1	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 We've discussed this type of prevention before. It's interesting in theory, but this type of training is kind of a band aid on the problem. Interestingly, many victims freeze because of paralysis and can't do anything anyway, no matter how "trained" they are. One of my favorite statistics is that 5/10 black belts will freeze in their first real confrontation if they have never been in an actual fight before. I don't understand what you're getting at exactly. I know you're being snarky but I can'…	/r/MensRights	07/12/15 06:45 PM
1	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 We don't. We're advocates for survivors. EDIT: and even if we did what you thought we did, those people don't put people in jail. They save more people from becoming victims themselves.	/r/MensRights	07/12/15 06:33 PM
-1	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 I mean it is verifiable because we are part of a university but at this point I can't share the name of either the organization or the university since I shared my actual opinions (which as reps of the group we're not aloud to do). Your angry response worries me more.	/r/MensRights	07/12/15 02:57 PM
0	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 Well okay. I can't prove it to you because we're not aloud to put our name out there with opinions as an organization, because the organization itself is affiliated with the university and can't be opinionated. It's sad you can't believe me but if you don't I can't do anything about it. Look up for your local universities (check multiple ones cause peer advocates for sexual aggression are only recently becoming more of a thing) if they have peer advocates and message them asking them for their s…	/r/MensRights	07/12/15 02:45 PM
0	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 Attacking the writer instead of the idea. That's a massive logical fallacy you're using to defend yourself and your fellow subscribers. This sub is full of people who would rather be angry, upset, and frustrated with others than to actually have a discussion.	/r/MensRights	07/12/15 02:35 PM
1	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 Well yes some could have but we don't count those in our numbers with survivors	/r/MensRights	07/12/15 02:25 PM
-7	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 What's up with this crazy aggressive tone? He's razing a point and you're being snarky and rude. That's not how conversations work.	/r/MensRights	07/12/15 12:42 AM
-4	Don't let facts get in the way of the narrative: 91% of colleges reported ZERO incidents of rape in 2014 I work as a student advocate for sexual assault victims at a large midwestern school and we had over 300 people call us last year simply to talk to us, not even to report. About 30 reported. I don't know man, but I sincerely sincerely sincerely believe that there's some shit going on behind the scenes to make this statistic possible.	/r/MensRights	07/12/15 12:29 AM
0	Why I won't "listen and believe", explained through headlines I'm gonna drop a one hour thirty minute seminar down for you from an incredibly respected neurobiologist who is a specialist in the neurobiology of sexual assault trauma. Please watch this if you are even the tiniest bit interested in this subject. If you don't feel like hearing all about how amazing Dr. Campbell is, you can skip to about 7:07 to hear her begin talking.	/r/MensRights	06/12/15 08:39 PM
0	Why I won't "listen and believe", explained through headlines Overall, I agree with you. Surely you must understand that the climate about sexual assault today is so negative and has such a negative stigma, though, that it's incredibly unlikely for even the most well-intentioned person to want to go to the police, or the university, or what have you. Many people do not even recognize what sexual assault is, and will not come to terms with the fact they were sexually assault until weeks, months, or years after these events occurred. In that case, I would sa…	/r/MensRights	06/12/15 08:29 PM
-1	Why I won't "listen and believe", explained through headlines But campuses don't do it. Currently, there are at least 85 schools under investigation for sexual assault. Check out the documentary The Hunting Grounds for more information about how sexual assault is handled on college campuses. If you have any concerns with the film you can talk to me about them, as I have researched into it a good amount. Even a lawyer like Hillary Clinton thinks that rape accusers should be believed until proven not true!!: Let's get into a little bit of a deeper discussion…	/r/MensRights	06/12/15 08:13 PM
-1	Why I won't "listen and believe", explained through headlines If one of your best friends came to you the night they had been robbed at gunpoint, you would tell them to provide you evidence? You wouldn't comfort them and help them and go to the police with them (the people whose job it is to determine whether or not people are telling the truth), you would question them until you're absolutely certain they're telling the truth? Then what? You would take them to the police so they could do the same thing? I don't understand that response. I agree, people sh…	/r/MensRights	06/12/15 08:09 PM
-1	Why I won't "listen and believe", explained through headlines Disclaimer: I do not know the background for this tweet Now I have to say that this tweet seems to be taken woefully out of context. Put yourself in this person's shoes for a second with me. You've just been sexually assaulted and your next step is to try and move forward with your life. You try to tell people, but when you do all they say is "Give me proof or evidence and I will believe you." You are now forced to give proof (How?) for something that occurred to you that no one will believe you…	/r/MensRights	06/12/15 07:55 PM
-6	Why I won't "listen and believe", explained through headlines But "Listen and Believe" doesn't mean that women are always right... it's never meant that (to the vast majority of people). It means that police and the general populace need to take these women seriously. If your friend told you that they were robbed, would you question them if it was really a robbery, or if they wanted to actually get robbed? No, you would say, "That's awful!" and help them report it. The criminal justice system will then follow through until someone is found innocent or guil…	/r/MensRights	06/12/15 06:02 PM
-1	One Word: Feminism. An excellent new video showing what people really think of feminism nowadays. Only 5 min, no shocking or cursing language, surprisingly powerful. As one of the more... I suppose "realistic" members of this sub I have to agree. It's not akin to terrorism, and the video is pretty much pure propaganda.	/r/MensRights	30/06/15 08:18 PM