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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | The value of one on one coaching.Where are you based? | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 11:19 AM |
| 4 | What is the difference between neediness and desire?One requires you to compromise your personal values/boundaries/standards/well-being/etc for the sake of a certain outcome. The other doesn't. I'm sure you know which ones which ;) | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Self-Amusement 101: How To Always Enjoy Yourself & Have Fun Meeting Girls (+INFIELD)Thanks! Glad you enjoyed that. Things definitely do get much easier when you're having a good time. It's something really simple, yet so easy to overlook. | /r/seduction | 29/04/16 05:47 PM |
| 1 | How to Destroy Neediness And Generate Your Own HappinessCorrect, you cannot control whether someone likes/accepts you. You can however control who you associate with. If you were to interact with enough people, you will find some who may absolute hate you, others who think you're okay and others who absolutely love you. Distance yourself from those who don't like/accept you and focus your social interactions with those who love you, and you're good to go! :) | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How to Destroy Neediness And Generate Your Own HappinessGlad you got something out of it! My name is Bobby :) | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 02:26 AM |
| 9 | How to Destroy Neediness And Generate Your Own HappinessThe whole idea is to take responsibility for what you DO have control in. The examples such as going to gym, taking care of your finances (work/career), spending time with friends and family etc are things you CAN control to a certain extent. However, if you're expecting another girl (or girls) to meet all of your needs and make you happy, then you're screwed. Simply because everyone else is trying to live their OWN life, and meet their OWN needs one way or another. So naturally, they're going t… | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Where do you sober fellas head to approach women/ how do you think your game is different from the bar scene folks?When I first started out, I used to smash down a few drinks before I had any confidence to approach girls, and sure it helped me get some results, but it was definitely taking a toll on my health (considering I was doing it so consistently). Not to mention it became a very strong crutch. But then I decided to stop drinking when doing cold-approach, and the most difficult part was the frustration of having to "re-learn" everything, and progress appearing to be almost non-existent initially, and t… | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 03:40 PM |
| 12 | Do you guys even go out?You're definitely not going to learn by reading about it. | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 06:42 AM |
| 3 | How To NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say Ever Again (+INFIELD)Being "mysterious" isn't the only way to generate attraction. In fact, having a strong variety of things to talk about in free-flow will often times leave her thinking, "I wonder what's he gonna say next!?" and have her wanting to explore the greater mystery of who you are as a person. | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 05:14 AM |
| 2 | How To NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say Ever Again (+INFIELD)Yeah, that's a great video. Very powerful content. | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 05:10 AM |
| 11 | How To NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say Ever Again (+INFIELD)Of course, knowing the other person well is a factor. Consider the dynamics of your behaviour when communicating with a well known friend: you assume they're not gonna judge you, so you're not paranoid if what you're saying is 'good enough' you have more positive expectations you have given yourself permission to feel comfortable in their presence you're not trying to "gain" anything from the interaction, and simply talking just to talk So by beginning to adopt these same dynamics, although they… | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 01:53 AM |
| 3 | How To NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say Ever Again (+INFIELD)Yes, silence is fine too if you can be comfortable with it. It's a bit tough for beginners. It comes with experience and time when you end up in enough "awkward silences" and realise they make no difference to the overall interaction, and that they're definitely not gonna kill you. Then you can even start to enjoy those silences and have a more subtle, and deeper level of (sub)communication. | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Find The ‘Right’ Girl To Take Home Tonight: The Art Of Physical Opening (+INFIELD)Great stuff, keep it up :) | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Approaching less attractive women firstRegardless of what advice you get, you're still gonna have to test it for yourself to see what works for YOU. I understand it's much easier to speculate and try to find the "right way" of going about it, but what's right for me may not be right for you. And it's your job to find out what works for you. Anyways, my take on approaching less attractive girls first is something I recommend to my clients who really seem to struggle with their self esteem. This tends to work out because as they initia… | /r/seduction | 04/01/16 05:04 AM |
| 13 | How do you talk to a girl on Facebook/texting without seeming needy and too available?First thing you must realise is that you don't have full control of the outcome, and you never will. You're dealing with another HUMAN BEING with their own set of values, beliefs, interests, habits, etc. You could very well be 100% "non-needy" and the girl still may not be interested due to some other factor completely unknown to you. Sometimes you can be quite needy but the girl still seems to like you because of a particular character trait you have or something. It's not a perfect science, an… | /r/seduction | 21/11/15 02:54 PM |
| 11 | Hey Seddit. Broke up with first love. I am Jack's broken heart. What happens now?What you're feeling now is completely normal. It sucks, I know, but it's the process that you must go through. It's gonna hurt for a while, and that's okay. Since you established a series of habits and rituals that met your emotional and physical needs with another person, cutting off all of those habits and rituals means you're no longer meeting those needs at this point in time. Naturally, your brain freaks the fuck out because the habit cycles are broken, and you're needs aren't being met. An… | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 05:39 PM |
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