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You have to practice having a real conversation. Do your best but don’t be surprised if you crash and burn. If you don’t crash & burn, then you’ll be fine.
/r/seduction22/08/25 10:48 PM
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Thanks for writing my comment for me haha
/r/seduction21/08/25 10:39 AM
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Sometimes, you can’t. You just need to be patient and not a horndog. But if it’s possible to influence the timeline, then your best bet is to turn her on as much as possible. Tease her. For example, while making out, be the first one to pull away. She’s more likely to initiate the next kiss on some “get over here” energy. She also has to feel understood, safe, comfortable, protected, and trust that you’ll respect her boundaries. A lot of guys are so worried about getting laid that they don’t emp…
/r/seduction20/08/25 10:20 AM
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It’s better to leave her wanting more because you did slightly less, than risk making her regret something because you moved a bit too fast for her liking. Seems like she was only comfortable with kissing. She was turned on and let the boob grabs slide in the moment. But after she calmed down and had a chance to reflect, she probably felt embarrassed at how slutty or easy that made her feel. There is no real way for you to read her mind. To cover your own ass, a good rule of thumb is to keep mak…
/r/seduction20/08/25 10:09 AM
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I’ve done it without saying any words before. Eye contact, go up to her, take her by the hand, and lead her to the spot where it was about to go down. Never did it with a complete stranger. It was usually a woman I had been building tension with for a while and we just hadn’t crossed that threshold yet.
/r/seduction13/08/25 12:24 AM
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Then I wish you the best of luck. Women find it funny because they know I’m not being serious. I’ll keep being “rude.” Your fear of offending others will be an obstacle on this journey. You need an element of IDGAF. That’s part of why women are attracted to “bad boys.” Think of how many wild things a standup comics says. That’s part of what makes them funny. I’m not out here offending women. What you see as “rude” is what they interpret as humor. How you say it matters. Anyway, I’m not afraid to…
/r/seduction10/08/25 09:33 PM
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In this context, being nice & respectable is boring if that’s all you have to offer. You can be kind & respectable with your actions while still being playful with your words. It stimulates a woman’s mind because she appreciates the wit & humor. It makes the most mundane parts of the day more exciting. You just can’t take the teasing too far to where you’re making her insecure by flat-out being a bully. That’s just mean. And don’t flirt with every single sentence you speak. Stay out of the extre…
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:57 AM
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Heavy flirting is basically dirty talk. Direct. Way more likely to be NSFW. You can’t talk like that to just anybody. You have to earn your way to that type of banter. Light flirting is more subtle, therefore SFW. Lightly flirting in front of a group of people is fun and cute. Most people see it as teasing or sarcastic humor. Heavy flirting would be inappropriate in most settings.
/r/seduction10/08/25 12:18 AM
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Flirt light, then eventually flirt heavy over time. Gradual.
/r/seduction09/08/25 04:16 PM
9

A lot of guys don’t even know what masculine truly means. They’re caught up in all their machismo.
/r/seduction28/07/25 07:08 PM
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I understand repetition is important for practice but don’t lose sight of quality over quantity. The whole point of this is to make a connection.
/r/seduction15/07/25 12:48 PM
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Don’t cry over spilled milk. No reaction necessary. On to the next one. Women who are interested will leave zero room for interpretation. I’ve received photos, videos and paragraphs from women who needed to cancel and reschedule. I don’t ask for it. They volunteer every little detail to show they are still invested in our connection. The whole point is to let you know it’s not just an excuse, it’s the actual truth. And they are super awesome about keeping me in the loop and letting me know anoth…
/r/seduction29/06/25 02:56 AM
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Forget the ghosting, as that has already been addressed in other comments. What do you mean that the 2nd date is happening in 2 weeks? Why are you waiting so long to go out again?
/r/seduction20/06/25 04:04 AM
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I went to school for journalism so em dashes are normal for me. But even then, I only use it in professional communications.
/r/seduction17/06/25 03:08 PM
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Your first isn’t always meant to be your last
/r/seduction13/06/25 08:05 AM
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Lol that sounds hilarious, almost like those chain emails from back in the day
/r/seduction12/06/25 09:52 PM
42

The message is good though. Don’t take your wife’s loyalty for granted and take care of her emotional needs. I think OP did a good job of making that point.
/r/seduction11/06/25 05:41 AM
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Reddit has me facepalming every day. People live in so much fear and possess such fragile egos that they can’t communicate or take a basic risk. OP is overthinking way too much. Invite him to Netflix & Chill and suck his dick. The end.
/r/seduction18/05/25 08:42 AM
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Keep your dates public until you’re ready to throw it back on him.
/r/seduction28/04/25 04:05 AM
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There has to be a reason for giving your number. Something where she can naturally reach out without overthinking. Best to make plans and then give your number once those plans are set. If she is serious about meeting, she will text you. If she never texts you, she won’t follow through on whatever plans you made.
/r/seduction23/04/25 01:58 AM
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The biggest one I learned from experience is that she lingers when she is enjoying the interaction. There are plenty of opportunities for either party to end the interaction and go about our separate ways but she kind of just hangs around because she doesn’t want the interaction to end.
/r/seduction23/04/25 01:39 AM
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Some will take initiative. Some despise the idea of giving head. Some don’t mind but also won’t go out of their way to do it unless you direct them. It depends on the woman. As a guy, you should assume you are to take the lead. A little direction in the bedroom won’t hurt. If she’s not into giving, you accept it and move on without making a stink about it. The best way to get head is to give head. If you’re not going down, then why should she? However, a woman is more likely to return the favor …
/r/seduction22/04/25 03:14 PM
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You have a lot to learn. A simple yet stimulating conversation works better than what you attempted.
/r/seduction20/04/25 11:24 PM
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Nobody needs to look like The Rock. We just need to look like we don’t binge TV while treating whole pizzas like personal pies on a daily basis. Lots of women like lumberjack types—dudes who are clearly big but also look strong. Women love muscle but they also want guys who have a life outside the gym. Lots of women are intimidated by the shredded physique and assume those guys do nothing but hit the gym. Anyone can hit the gym 3x a week for 45 mins a session. As long as nutrition & sleep are on…
/r/seduction16/04/25 04:29 AM
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As someone who has also fluctuated in & out of shape, I fully co-sign. You feel better when you know for a fact you are in good shape, and that shines through in subtle ways. When I’m “fat,” I still have the confidence to be social. But I’m not as happy with how my clothes fit or how I look with my shirt off. I’m aware that with some women, it is an uphill battle if I’m not as fit as I should be. Some women don’t care as long as you two get along. Some women prefer a bigger guy. I use “fat” in q…
/r/seduction16/04/25 04:27 AM
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Talk to women, enjoy the moment, be open to escalating if the vibe feels right. Don’t treat women like Pokemon. People aren’t collectibles. Women can feel when you’re trying to “get girls” as opposed to genuinely enjoying their company.
/r/seduction08/04/25 10:29 PM
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Exactly. Otherwise dating isn’t as fun and it starts feeling like an obligation.
/r/seduction26/03/25 09:12 PM
1

Exactly. Otherwise dating isn’t as fun and it starts feeling like an obligation.
/r/seduction26/03/25 09:12 PM
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Even if you’re only talking to one woman, we should always be chill about a cancellation. We should have other shit to do anyway. Worst-case scenario, I won’t say no to a chill solo night at home. Sounds peaceful and relaxing. And if I feel like going out, I’ll do whatever the date plan was on my own. I don’t need a woman to enjoy some sushi lol
/r/seduction23/03/25 11:00 PM
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This is why I don’t trust people who say they’re celibate, virgins, or that they’re waiting until whatever benchmark to have sex. You’re participating in oral sex. You’re getting real frisky and naked. You’re teasing and grinding and all in on the foreplay. And then have the nerve to act like they’re not sexually active. People like this are avoiding penetration, I understand that, but are really walking a fine line imo. Always need to respect boundaries but sheesh, having no issue with sucking …
/r/seduction27/02/25 01:26 PM
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This is exactly it. All about the vibe.
/r/seduction01/02/25 04:02 AM
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You’ll miss the relationship if you go back. Don’t fall for this trap where you’re never satisfied. Now you have to choose the grass you want to water, accept the opportunity cost, and build the life that you truly want for yourself.
/r/seduction31/01/25 10:44 PM
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Comparison is the thief of joy. Stop being miserable. You also sound shallow af talking like this. You are also showing a lack of perspective and a lack of understanding the woman’s POV. Do you really think those women are with guys for their looks alone? Think about what a whole relationship entails. Your partner isn’t a trophy to show off to the world. You aren’t entitled to pretty women just because uglier guys date them. Sure, it can be motivation that you can also do it if they are doing it…
/r/seduction17/01/25 11:41 AM
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Took me too long to see this comment
/r/seduction14/01/25 10:41 PM
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You’re missing the mark by focusing too much on Elon’s pockets. It’s his ambition and leadership that attracts women. Whether you hate him or love him, Elon has huge ideas that he is turning into reality. Yes, he’s mega rich. That wealth is proof that he is executing on his ideas. But as you mentioned, the women he has dated are rich enough to spoil themselves. No, they’re not billionaires. But it’s not like Elon is sitting on billions in cash. Most of his wealth is tied up in investments. Anywa…
/r/seduction28/12/24 07:47 AM
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Don’t overthink it. Setup your dates. Your mission is to have fun and enjoy yourself. Good luck.
/r/seduction25/12/24 11:19 PM
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A woman will lie to save face, keep the peace, and protect your feelings. It’s not always done with bad intentions. However, a lot of people find the concept of honesty to be foreign. I hate saying this because I have faith in humanity but some people lie their ass off out here.
/r/seduction18/12/24 12:51 AM
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Approach the guys, too. Be open to making friends with anyone in the gym. Don’t be the guy who ONLY talks to the pretty girl at the gym. Be more social in general and people will anticipate crossing paths with you in the gym because you’re the chill guy who’s easy to talk to. It’s as easy as telling someone “that was impressive, good stuff” followed by a fist bump when they’re done with a set (but actually mean it if you say this). The rest depends on the scenario. Are they between sets? Are the…
/r/seduction10/12/24 03:14 PM
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Did you ever play sports? On to the next play.
/r/seduction04/11/24 01:44 AM
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This is how I feel when I go out with my close friends. I have grown into the kind of person who can go out and mingle with anyone. On the rare occasion we do go out, my friends seem so sketchy hanging out against the wall, people-watching. One time, they were hanging out in a dark corner and it seemed so creepy. Even when people approach them (women included), they are standoffish and don’t seem interested in mingling. There have been times where women are throwing themselves at my brother or o…
/r/seduction20/10/24 08:49 PM
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Same idea in sales. I want to make sure I match someone with the right product or service. I want to make sure I’m not wasting time with people who are not a good match for the product I have to offer. And I certainly don’t want to shove the product I’m selling down someone’s throat.
/r/seduction13/10/24 11:38 PM
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She could simply find it hot that you care to improve yourself
/r/seduction13/10/24 01:29 AM
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It can land better if you’re at a bar. People are more likely to be in that frame of mind in that type of environment. The important context here is that you were practicing while waiting for a date. You didn’t want to let an opportunity slip and had some fun with it. You took action and deserve to feel proud of yourself. Since effort isn’t an issue for you, the rest is easy to iron out.
/r/seduction13/10/24 01:10 AM
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Kudos for approaching. Here are my 2 cents… You can have “boring” conversation and get better results. By results, I don’t mean a new number or a new date. That will come as you gain wisdom. I’m referring to the quality of the interaction. The overall vibes. It sounds like these 2 women had some light-hearted fun at your expense because you subjected yourself to their judgment before you built any rapport. Not the end of the world by any means. But the interaction itself could have been better. …
/r/seduction12/10/24 09:56 AM
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She probably sucked dick within the last 48hrs. You’ll be aight.
/r/seduction11/10/24 10:32 PM
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Priorities. Also, live below your means. Women are cool about your financial situation if you’re honest about it. You’re in grad school so you won’t stay broke for long.
/r/seduction05/10/24 03:55 PM
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My roommate is similar. HEAVY feminine influence in his upbringing. His dad also turned out to be gay. So he comes across as zesty, sassy, and overall has feminine tendencies which includes being too particular about certain things most men don’t care about. Even the words he says are trendy feminine phrases like “it’s giving” and stuff like that. He can be passive aggressive at times. His mannerisms make people wonder if he’s gay even though he’s a straight dude. In black culture, he’s “lightsk…
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:32 PM
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Women are people with lives. Not everyone’s schedule is the same. And dating in general is not that serious. Even a job won’t fire you for being late or skipping a day. What you seem to desire is the recipe for an abusive relationship. You want to be a woman’s entire world, sun and moon. You probably don’t truly want a woman who is that obsessed with you. Then you’ll come back here whining about how clingy and unhinged she is.
/r/seduction03/10/24 03:33 PM
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You do things primarily for you, not primarily for validation. Walk to the beat of your own drum. Yesterday, I booked a couples massage for me and my fwb. Not because I want sex in return. Not to impress her. We’ve had sex plenty of times. I don’t need to do much besides make the bootycall if I’m in the mood. I booked the couples massage because we both had a stressful month, hadn’t seen each other in a while, and I am a slut for massages in general. My fwb just moved, so I know she’s physically…
/r/seduction03/10/24 03:02 PM
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I’m 32M. Women 18-25 are physically attractive but they can be hard to date because of immaturity, indecisiveness, lack of communication, and caring way too much about what her friends think. It makes her susceptible to peer pressure. A 21F might want to go out and get drunk every weekend. I already got that out of my system. I’d rather stay in and go to bed before 11pm than go earn a hangover. Compatibility matters. I’m seeing a woman who is 35F and she moves to the beat of her own drum. Her li…
/r/seduction02/10/24 10:36 AM
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