BonFemmes Archive

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1	Trying to get laid on work conference - worth it? I am a professional woman who attends a lot of conferences. if I go to the bar I will get hit on 100% of the time. I know that when I walk in. It is not inappropriate to ask. In the auditorium you can ask her to the bar. If she says no, let it go. Do not follow her around ever. .	/r/seduction	15/12/25 04:41 PM
3	The Female Manipulation Index: 11 Tactics That Bend Reality, Steal Peace, and Leak Power ... and now we know why there is a male loneliness epidemic.	/r/seduction	09/12/25 04:01 PM
2	Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count? Rule 1: Don't ask. Don't tell.	/r/seduction	29/09/25 09:11 PM
45	How Attraction Works - What Actually Attracts Women Woman here. Its a much shorter list. We are not that picky. Be interesting. Be able to say interesting things. Do interesting things. Assume we bore easily. Be a decent human being. Care about the people around you and show it. Volunteer. Spoil your dog. Help little old ladies. Be able to take care of yourself. Cook. Clean. Exercise, Make more than you spend. prove you can stay sober once in a while.	/r/seduction	01/08/25 09:35 PM
2	"If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be? Never assume you are in a monogamous relationship.	/r/seduction	02/12/24 08:32 PM
-1	How are you able to tell at clubs/bars if girl DTF during a convo or looking to go home with someone BEFORE you open? I usually go to clubs with friends to dance. Sometimes its a date. Sometimes not. Its not where I go to pick up a ONS. Doesn't matter how good you look or how good your game is. Sometimes I see the same guy there and chat on several occasions. He might get a virtual phone number. We might have a date there some time.	/r/seduction	01/10/24 04:41 PM
1	Attraction fundamentals You demonstrate 'value' by having value, you demonstrate 'status' by having status. If you have both you get attraction. If you fake having value and status women will figure it out. At least women with other options will figure it out and you will have wasted every bodies time. Time you could have used to add to your value.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 07:10 PM
1	How to get a girl as a man not interested in getting laid? If a guy does not express his interest by the third date I assume he is not interested. Figuring out what kind of relationship someone wants is really hard. Most people don't know. Are we friends? Friends with benefits? monogamous? Not ready for monogamy yet but maybe some day? There are so many options. By the third date you need to talk about this stuff.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 06:57 PM
1	How to approach a married neighbour? smile, wave, ask him to take off his head phones. ask if he has heard about some neighborhood gossip. Ask him over for coffee some time.	/r/seduction	15/07/24 01:43 PM
1	Why cold approach is mostly useless? There are suitable places to approach and there are unsuitable places. If you approach in an unsuitable place you are a creep. Maybe a dangerous creep. If you approach in a suitable place then if the woman is single and interested you are free to approach. I grant you it can be hard to know if she is single and interested. Learn to live with uncertainty.	/r/seduction	15/07/24 01:39 PM
1	Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as well I saw a 2-th century genetics study in Britain. It said that 60% of the men had fathered 95% of the children. The top half of guys have no trouble getting a girl Its that bottom 40% that get left behind. Its mother natures way of protecting the species,	/r/seduction	17/06/24 02:27 PM
1	Best way to ask out, or give my number, to a shop worker Ask questions. Do you know a good dog park? a good gym? Where I can score some Ex? find some common ground. leave good tips.	/r/seduction	12/06/24 08:37 PM