BonanzaCreek Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	Wife's permission for a vasectomy You'll have to get your mom's permission probably.	/r/MensRights	29/07/13 10:39 AM
1	How do you deal with someone like my biological father and still support MGTOW? An interesting idea, but what about schooling? Most parents don't live the same school distict. You can't a have a kid going to a different school every week, month, year, or whatever. It should be up to the parents and eventually the children themselves once they're old enough to solve that issue, not the courts. The courts should only intervene when the agreement is broken. There's a reason a child has two parents and defaulting custody to the mother hurts not only the father but the child as …	/r/MensRights	07/07/13 11:13 AM
0	How do you deal with someone like my biological father and still support MGTOW? Also, I think that non-custodial parents SHOULD have to pay, particularly if their behavior is the reason they were denied access. Divorces where the blame can be put on just one of the spouses are rare. Unless there is a justified reason to give full or partial custody to one of the parents, such as in cases of abuse, custody should be alternating, where the child spends an equal amount of time with each parent. This would essentially nulify the main reason used to justify child support. Unfort…	/r/MensRights	06/07/13 07:00 PM
0	MO. WOMAN CHARGED IN ANTIFREEZE POISONING DEATHS [killed husband,son and daughter] You'd be surprised.	/r/MensRights	24/06/13 07:08 AM
0	MO. WOMAN CHARGED IN ANTIFREEZE POISONING DEATHS [killed husband,son and daughter] They're necessary to show that women are capable of comitting crimes too.	/r/MensRights	23/06/13 10:05 PM
0	Solo Mother Blocks School's Day Of Male Bonding Yes, you're absolutely right. I wasn't arguing that parents couldn't provide certain benefits, just that they aren't a necessity. I'll continue to bold that word, because that was my focus. Well what is necessary? Are heating, clean water, medication and edible food necessary for a human to survive? Certainly no, humans have done well enough without them. Then again, they also died en mass from things that today seem trivial to us. So yes, you're right, parents are not "necessary" for a child to…	/r/MensRights	05/06/13 12:33 PM
0	Solo Mother Blocks School's Day Of Male Bonding The very fact that two lesbian mothers or even a single mother are capable of raising a child to adulthood without a father's assistance beyond his role in conceiving said child is undeniable proof that the father is not a necessity in raising a child after its birth. Using that logic you could also reasonably conclude that parents are also not a necessity; the fact that orphanages are capable of raising children is proof enough of that. Also, using single mothers as an example of fathers not be…	/r/MensRights	04/06/13 01:49 PM
-1	Solo Mother Blocks School's Day Of Male Bonding Fathers are necessary in producing a biological child, but beyond that they are not an absolute necessity, sorry. That's nothing short of misandry. A father's role in raising children is extremely important and the fact that children who lack fathers do worse in life is proof enough of that. The mere fact that children have been raised by lesbian moms is proof that a father is not NEEDED past conception. Using that logic you could also claim that children being raised by single moms is proof eno…	/r/MensRights	03/06/13 03:45 PM
1	Solo Mother Blocks School's Day Of Male Bonding Saying someone doesn't need something does not imply that thing is useless. I don't need an apple right now. Doesn't mean I wouldn't enjoy having one or it wouldn't be beneficial to my health. Fathers are a necessary part of any child's life. I'm not sure how you could equate their contribution to child rearing to eating an apple. The same applies to mothers. I'm actually very glad that MHRM doesn't censor. I'm pro freedom of speech like no other. I was merely cautioning people to look out for t…	/r/MensRights	02/06/13 09:01 PM
1	Solo Mother Blocks School's Day Of Male Bonding The statement "children don't need a father" certainly does not imply inferiority. Of course it does. It implies fathers are useless in a familial context. Saying that a certain role isn't a requirement in raising a child doesn't mean that role or any others are less capable or important, just that they're not absolutely necessary. You're contradicting yourself. How can the role of a father be important if he's not needed? Just as I said, if they're offended, you're turning away potential sympat…	/r/MensRights	02/06/13 02:54 PM
1	Solo Mother Blocks School's Day Of Male Bonding The statement "children need fathers" is what implies inferiority Does the statement "children don't need a father" not also imply inferiority? Most of the studies done on same sex adoption and child rearing are short term, generally inconclusive and often state that more research needs to be done. A father, or a mother for that matter, can't be replaced by a random stranger. I'm not saying same sex adoption should be banned but it should be held off or more strictly regulated until there's at l…	/r/MensRights	02/06/13 08:30 AM
4	Sweden has conscription. It will be going on until 2018. Women don't have to serve. I have an aversion towards fighting and dying for the interests of a political class that is more interested with increasing its power than serving the people who elected them.	/r/MensRights	01/06/13 02:31 PM
1	What Does /r/Mensrights Think about Stay at Home Dads Unfortunately, the majority of heterosexual women still seem to judge men by their profession/income That seems to be mostly an American phenomenon.	/r/MensRights	15/05/13 09:00 PM
0	The labeling and drugging of boys has reached epidemic proportions in the United States of America. - "A Systematic Deconstruction of the "Disordered Boy" Hypothesis" - J.M. Stolzer The "belief" you're referring too is called "Hysteria". It was thought to be caused by a displaced womb and the prescribed treatment was orgasm. It is quite astounding that almost a hundred years after this ailment was found to be full of shit we are diagnosing young boys with disorders similar in makeup to Hysteria. The symptoms that are either vague or were considered normal up until a few years ago. Conduct disorder: distain for authority easily annoyed inability to control one's temper resen…	/r/MensRights	11/04/13 09:39 PM
0	1 in 5 boys are diagnosed with ADHD while only 7% of girls. You know what, it's not my job to corroborate your claims either. You're completely correct. Unfortunately, in your situation, this is not applicable seeing as all I'm doing is responding to your claims. I'm getting tired of this shit. I simple don't want to take the time convincing someone ADHD is real and doing tons of research when they've already decided ADHD isn't real. I never said ADHD isn't real. The fact of the matter is, you're probably not a medically trained professional, let alone a…	/r/MensRights	05/04/13 11:34 AM
0	1 in 5 boys are diagnosed with ADHD while only 7% of girls. Every medication has risks if that's what you mean. Some pose greater risk than others. Does this mean that we should stop using all medication because they might have some risk involved? And yes, it has been shown that ADHD medication pose low risks for both children and adults with ADHD under a doctors care. Where has it been shown? Because unless something changed in 2013 Aderall is still considered a medication with high potential for abuse. I have a book with sources but I can't find it. Bu…	/r/MensRights	05/04/13 10:20 AM
1	1 in 5 boys are diagnosed with ADHD while only 7% of girls. ADHD medication has been shown to be safe No medication is safe. Even your run of the mill ibuprofen is dangerous. Nevermind the fact that ADHD is treated using amphetamines. This has been shown over and over again in multiple studies. What studies? No one wants to "drug" (medicate) their children regardless of sickness but you do it anyway because it's the best for the child. These children are not misbehaved, they have a serious executive disorder. Their brains age slower and they are on avera…	/r/MensRights	03/04/13 09:23 AM
1	1 in 5 boys are diagnosed with ADHD while only 7% of girls. That annoying guy at work who constantly comes late and won't shut up about irrellevant shit who can't control his temper, that guy has ADHD. Or, you know, he might just have a different personality than yours. And bitch please, you really think that not being able to pay attention won't have severe consequences in learning? And if they're rowdy at the same time, then yeah I would be worried about their learning. And the solution, in your opinion, to dealing with misbehaved children are drugs? S…	/r/MensRights	02/04/13 06:54 PM
4	Men, how many of you were beaten as children? My mother used violence quite often to "discipline" me. However, because of equality my father was told, after filing a police report, that it wasn't right to separate a mother from her child and refused to take any action against her, even though besides the beatings she also broke the law by refusing him his visiting rights.	/r/MensRights	11/03/13 11:18 PM
2	Bad grades for boys despite high test scores. I always hated sitting and listening to lectures drone on, or forced reading from a book. It was incredibly boring, and I couldn't be buggered to give more effort than it took to not fail my classes. That accurately describes my experience as well. I have no idea how anyone could possibly sit still for 50 minutes listening to some pompous monotonous bitch with a superiority complex drone on and on about pointless stuff nobody cared about. As the teacher's pet I still did it though. It wasn't lik…	/r/MensRights	11/02/13 10:22 PM
0	Bad grades for boys despite high test scores. It is the only thing that puts you on the radar. That and sucking up to teachers.	/r/MensRights	11/02/13 10:00 PM
1	Children and the culture of pornography: 'Boys will ask you every day until you say yes' They should cut it, it's obviously the source of all of society's ills.	/r/MensRights	03/02/13 12:10 AM
3	"I'm not acting like it's right in any way, shape, or form, but it is about my kids having a stable home." User moneazy exlains why she hasn't told her husband their second child might not be his. No, but her attitude is an example of the sort of misandrist cultural bullshit the MRM fights against and the more we fight these attitudes the less acceptable they will become.	/r/MensRights	03/02/13 12:04 AM
1	War on Boys Update: Schools push to ‘disarm the minds’ of our children - Washington Times Complete bullshit. You need to rethink your priorities if the best you can do is blame an imaginary political construct for all of men's issues.	/r/MensRights	29/01/13 07:56 PM
1	Smaller Government, That's The Only Answer... How Many Bureaucrats Does It Take? Just because my ideas don't agree with your statist view of the world and your complex and deep philosophy of 'I'm oversimplyfying everything' You claim to be apolitical but your views are clearly those of a libertarian and you continually push for those views to be incorporated into the MRM whilst having the audacity to suggest you want the MRM to remain politically neutral. Hell, this entire discussion can basically be boiled down to you blaming "the left" for everything. Who exactly is part o…	/r/MensRights	23/01/13 03:29 PM
1	Smaller Government, That's The Only Answer... How Many Bureaucrats Does It Take? What do you want me to explain? How you know essentially nothing about politics? How you constantly spout libertarian bullshit at every turn? Honestly, if you have no idea what you're talking about, stop talking.	/r/MensRights	22/01/13 12:34 PM
0	Smaller Government, That's The Only Answer... How Many Bureaucrats Does It Take? Oh my god, you're like soooooooooooo super perceptive! I'm actually the grand wizard of the local KKK franchise here in 'backwater' USA... So I was right. Large government creates this bondoogle. You know, repeating the same statement over and over again won't make it true. Your biases really cast doubt on your political neutrality Buster. It looks as if with every reply you make your comments start sounding more and more like the inane musings of a crazed libertarian. You wouldn't happen to be …	/r/MensRights	19/01/13 11:58 AM
1	Smaller Government, That's The Only Answer... How Many Bureaucrats Does It Take? So you're ignorant to the fact that governments are only concerned with growing there own power? The fact that you simplify politics like that shows you basically have no idea what you're talking about. I'm guessing you're American, against universal healthcare and love your guns more than you love your dog. The political left in western countries. By European standards the American left is actually pretty conservative. In fact, it's common knowledge that the US has no "left". In the US, it is u…	/r/MensRights	18/01/13 12:22 PM
1	Memo to Docs (and Patients): Less Viagra, Please « Maybe your partner is not attractive, maybe she does not touch you the right way, maybe she does not want sex. Maybe your penis is right Those are not reputable sources. Do you have any studies from bias-free institutions that not only prove pornography addiction exists but that it causes erectile disfunction in men?	/r/MensRights	17/01/13 09:20 PM
6	Smaller Government, That's The Only Answer... How Many Bureaucrats Does It Take? Feminism is just a vehicle that government uses to enhance it's power. So you're a conspiracy theorist then? Currently, the left institutes the majority of misandric legislation. Who or what is "the left" and in what context are you talking about "it"? VAWA being a good example. VAWA was struck down because republicans didn't want to extend its provisions to homosexual couples, not because they give a shit about the MRM. If you want to argue which party is better for men's rights in the US I'll …	/r/MensRights	17/01/13 09:16 PM
2	Memo to Docs (and Patients): Less Viagra, Please « Maybe your partner is not attractive, maybe she does not touch you the right way, maybe she does not want sex. Maybe your penis is right If these are your sources then you're either a troll or somone who has no idea what they're talking about.	/r/MensRights	17/01/13 08:56 PM
4	Smaller Government, That's The Only Answer... How Many Bureaucrats Does It Take? I'm getting this really weird vibe that you associate "the left" with feminism. I don't know, maybe it's just me.	/r/MensRights	17/01/13 08:49 PM
1	Well written post about regarding female to male rape. [Showed up on my Facebook feed] We don't have any control over our erections and there are more ways than one to rape a person.	/r/MensRights	13/01/13 01:15 PM
4	Almost four times as many males as females die by suicide. Suicide was the seventh leading cause of death for males. Suicide help lines focus on teens and women. Maybe if men's cries for help were to be listened to it wouldn't get to that.	/r/MensRights	13/01/13 01:05 PM
2	Dear Modern Feminists: So This Is What You’re Saying? Why didn't the author provide a more thought out explanation for the various points she listed there? Simply saying "We are just as smart as men, yet we need affirmative action programs in order to show it." ignores the reason why feminists feel the need to implement such programs,thereby painting the author as someone who has very little knowledge of feminism.	/r/MensRights	07/01/13 02:13 PM
6	17 year old boy gang-raped by 10 knife-wielding women in Papua New Guinea. Why aren't people protesting in the streets? They are happening because this kind of thing is literally ingrained into India's culture as acceptable, and one case was so horrific that the international news happened to take notice. Rape occurs on a daily basis to hundreds of women in India. Oftentimes they can't even report the crime because most authority figures don't care. Funny how international news never take notice when men are raped. You keep talking about how hard it is for women to seek justice when they have been raped whilst ig…	/r/MensRights	07/01/13 04:26 AM
2	Slate Magazine: "Single moms are better" ... "Kids raised by single mothers are sturdier" As a person who has been raised by a single mother and had to deal with numerous abuses inflicted on me by her and the hardships my father had to go through to protect me, fuck you Slate Magazine.	/r/MensRights	04/01/13 05:26 PM
3	Something i think we all should read because i feel this means that our two groups are able able to reach a common ground.(MRAs and Feminists) Xpost to /r/Feminism I don't think bullying someone is something the MRM should be proud of.	/r/MensRights	27/12/12 10:33 PM
2	Something i think we all should read because i feel this means that our two groups are able able to reach a common ground.(MRAs and Feminists) Xpost to /r/Feminism That's AVfM for you.	/r/MensRights	26/12/12 09:52 AM
1	Angry!Feminist sayz "You are fucking sthcuuum!" Bitch.	/r/MensRights	25/12/12 09:50 AM
1	Angry!Feminist sayz "You are fucking sthcuuum!" Less government, less special interest programs, more individual freedom and responsibility. Why would liberals be against individual freedoms and personal responsibility? Do you even know what principles liberalism was founded on? Which is what? I don't know why you are offended. But the facts are feminists are also leftists. Show me a right wing feminist. Yea you can't. "Leftist" is a very broad term. And you know what? These kinds of people are precisely the one's who inconvenience, and infri…	/r/MensRights	24/12/12 04:01 PM
1	Angry!Feminist sayz "You are fucking sthcuuum!" If we lived in a world where every human succeeded or failed by their own volition then I would take you seriously. However, this is not the case and until you acknowledge that fact this conversation ends here.	/r/MensRights	24/12/12 03:42 PM
4	Only Girls can be mutilated Oftentimes, the women is given very little choice in whether or not she gets this surgery, wherein, lies the problem. Can men choose not to have their foreskin removed then?	/r/MensRights	22/12/12 02:12 PM
8	My wife cheated on me, put me through hell, and the result is that I am being forced to support both her and her lesbian lover in my own home. Never remarry. If possible, don't cohabitate for more than two years. Keep this in mind. Your best bet right now is to apear distraught. If you're hurting about not seeing your kids or what this divorce is putting you through let the judge see it. You should always apear presentable in court by wearing a clean suit, shaving, getting a haircut etc. Don't let the judge stereotype you as a deadbeat dad. Also, never settle. This is an "all or nothing" ordeal. If you lose your only chance to escape c…	/r/MensRights	22/12/12 10:19 AM
1	UPVOTE THIS - Man sits in jail while unable to pay alimony that exceeds his income \| NJ.com Are you a wizard?	/r/MensRights	12/12/12 10:18 PM
1	UPVOTE THIS - Man sits in jail while unable to pay alimony that exceeds his income \| NJ.com How?	/r/MensRights	12/12/12 09:43 AM
1	UPVOTE THIS - Man sits in jail while unable to pay alimony that exceeds his income \| NJ.com At what?	/r/MensRights	11/12/12 02:42 PM
1	UPVOTE THIS - Man sits in jail while unable to pay alimony that exceeds his income \| NJ.com I was pointing out how inane your accusation that I was comitting confirmation bias was.	/r/MensRights	10/12/12 05:43 PM
1	UPVOTE THIS - Man sits in jail while unable to pay alimony that exceeds his income \| NJ.com What question?	/r/MensRights	10/12/12 01:43 PM
1	UPVOTE THIS - Man sits in jail while unable to pay alimony that exceeds his income \| NJ.com Do explain.	/r/MensRights	09/12/12 06:39 PM
1	UPVOTE THIS - Man sits in jail while unable to pay alimony that exceeds his income \| NJ.com What does that have to do with marriage?	/r/MensRights	09/12/12 11:25 AM
2	UPVOTE THIS - Man sits in jail while unable to pay alimony that exceeds his income \| NJ.com Marriage worked for you, therefore it's going to work for everyone else. That's some solid logic.	/r/MensRights	09/12/12 11:08 AM
1	Child abuse in the name of feminism \| A Voice for Men Obvious priviledge? Look, I'm all for reasonable discussion but the issue of equality is more complex than both feminists and MRA's make it out to be.	/r/MensRights	09/12/12 02:31 AM
1	UPVOTE THIS - Man sits in jail while unable to pay alimony that exceeds his income \| NJ.com And I'm glad it worked out for you. For most people, however, it doesn't.	/r/MensRights	09/12/12 02:23 AM
3	Anita Sarkeesian begging for help I was under the impression that she said august. All we can do now is wait and see what happens.	/r/MensRights	09/12/12 12:40 AM
3	UPVOTE THIS - Man sits in jail while unable to pay alimony that exceeds his income \| NJ.com The problem is that couples generally spend two to three years together then marry. This means that neither partner knows the other very well and, because marriage essentially forces the two of them into a closer bond, leads to some very nasty surprises that most people just aren't prepared for. Then there's also that bullshit cohabitation business which essentially treats couples who have cohabitated for an indetermined period of time as married. So no, you can't actually choose your partner be…	/r/MensRights	09/12/12 12:35 AM
19	Anita Sarkeesian begging for help I wonder how the white knights are going to justify this one. If she doesn't release anything after New Year's, and if the video quality isn't up to par with what she was given, then there's no doubt this was nothing but a scam attempt.	/r/MensRights	09/12/12 12:07 AM
1	Why many Redditors have been duped into believing men and women are biologically exactly the same! I haven't implied any of those things.	/r/MensRights	25/11/12 12:42 PM
1	Why many Redditors have been duped into believing men and women are biologically exactly the same! You seem to enjoy implying people who disagree with you are underaged. Do you think doing this gives your arguments more legitimacy? Because it doesn't. In fact, it makes you look like an asshole. I'm glad you remember the world before the advent of the internet. So do I, incidentally, but unlike you I do not go about implying being born before the 90's makes me superior to everyone else. I would gladly read any article written by you provided you come up with more than just a bunch of random ar…	/r/MensRights	24/11/12 03:30 PM
1	Why many Redditors have been duped into believing men and women are biologically exactly the same! You certainly don't come off as a well educated, middle aged family man. In fact, your arrogant behaviour is akin to that of a child but I digress. The reason I engaged you in a conversation in the first place was because I was genuinely interested in hearing what you had to say. However, if you're too tired to research the points you make then maybe you should consider frequenting a different subreddit. After all, we're all here to debate men's rights and debating requires a certain amount of e…	/r/MensRights	23/11/12 10:35 PM
1	Why many Redditors have been duped into believing men and women are biologically exactly the same! I have a hunch you're just another edgy high school kid but I've been wrong before. Don't worry though, you're not the only person in the world to back out of actually having to prove their claims, God forbid.	/r/MensRights	22/11/12 08:30 PM
-1	For those who think feminism is not a bigoted supremacist movement here are just a few of their slogans. Regendered to put them in perspective. That's a quote from Catherine Comins, a radical feminist. I agree that it's not fair to characterise all feminists based on what one person says but seeing as radical feminism is the most known and publicised version it's understandable that they'd do so.	/r/MensRights	22/11/12 04:43 PM
1	Why many Redditors have been duped into believing men and women are biologically exactly the same! Firstly, a summary of a study is not enough. Either provide something that I can read in its entirety or don't bother. Secondly, two studies that argue two completely different points does not prove anything.	/r/MensRights	22/11/12 04:12 PM
1	Why many Redditors have been duped into believing men and women are biologically exactly the same! Feel free to prove me otherwise.	/r/MensRights	22/11/12 01:47 PM
0	Why many Redditors have been duped into believing men and women are biologically exactly the same! Apart from giving birth those are superficial differences. There is no hard data to suggest different "hormone" levels and minor differences in brain anatomy create major differences between men and women in terms of personality, intellect or otherwise.	/r/MensRights	21/11/12 09:40 PM
1	any ideas for how to cope with her forcing an abortion decision on me besides black bush and bud? I was under the impression that you were going to end the relationship. I was also joking seeing as men have to jump through quite a few hoops in order to adopt.	/r/MensRights	21/11/12 09:18 PM
2	any ideas for how to cope with her forcing an abortion decision on me besides black bush and bud? You could always adopt. I forgot the punchline.	/r/MensRights	21/11/12 03:14 PM
10	Wife Threatening Action Against me if I get a Vasectomy Record and make a note of every argument you have. Make arrangements with a lawyer and spend as much time as you can with the kids so she won't be able to play the primary caretaker card when it comes to deciding who gets custody. That way, if she does file for divorce she won't take you by surprise. I know this sounds a bit harsh but considering how biased family courts are you can never be too careful. My dad was taken by surprise and without going into too much detail it didn't end well for h…	/r/MensRights	21/11/12 03:04 PM
4	(x-post from /r/toronto) Protesters disrupt men's issues awareness event at U of T. The far left is communism, not socialism.	/r/MensRights	18/11/12 06:07 PM
1	Are any men here living a happy, long-term family life? There is no way to minimise the risk. Getting married is your choice but once your spouse divorces you don't come back here trying to garner sympathy for yourself. Why would you even want to marry? You can be in a loving relationship without tying a knot around your neck and hoping for the best.	/r/MensRights	18/11/12 05:55 PM
2	Guy refuses drunk-sex with girlfriend because of legal implications. Feminist in thread are outraged that he won't "accept her right to consent" and "clearly doesn't trust her". None of them mention or care that this is a legal problem that needs fixing. (x-post from r/sex) Better safe than sorry. False rape accusations routinely ruin men's lives. I fail to see how the guy was being unreasonable.	/r/MensRights	18/11/12 05:34 PM
4	Can someone please explain to me why circumcision is unjustifiable? The foreskin is the most sensitive part of the penis and cutting it off at such a young age is fucking child abuse.	/r/MensRights	01/11/12 01:55 PM
4	Lack of academic publication on the Men's Rights Movement The MRM is relatively young when compared to feminism for example. Give it fifty years and see what happens.	/r/MensRights	01/11/12 01:50 PM