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True. I think Snapchat and Instagram have become the new fuck around apps. Dating apps died especially hard the last two years but have been slowly declining the last 5 rapidly imo. You're right about all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:47 PM
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Aren't dating apps the most popular way for people to meet , at least they were a few years ago. I need to see new updates on that info because I wonder how it's changed. Either way, It's safer to vet someone with a mix of online and first cafe dates than to approach a random stranger in the street. Plus you can be forward and ask direct questions. Again, I don't expect this obvious reality to just unfold itself for most women because somehow how it's still impossible not to get played according…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:46 PM
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I think it's been proven that talk therapy is much more effective for women whereas men seem to get better by developing competence and especially working with their hands but I don't have any source for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:48 PM
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That, and also that he isn't just acting from blind lust and hedonism because that is a relatively shitty fuck unless you're just going pure physical athletic fuck mode or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:35 PM
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Plenty of fish and craigs list backpages are responsible for about 30% of the most interesting things that happened to me in my 20s. It was the perfect like 5-10 year period where you could spin and always turn up some sort of crazy shit even if it was a consolation prize. If you know the song "Crazy" by that Barkley guy, I'm pretty sure that song was about the end of the golden age of OLD and the beginning of the end lmao. But even 3 years ago or so you could still get matches on Tinder if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:54 PM
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🚬 always has been brotha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:36 AM
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Why care about honest discourse when the one who is right is ultimately the one who can get everyone to tell her she's right. That's the game isn't it LOL. Big brain stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:22 AM
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Cool I like it. We really don't talk enough about safety as an intuitive thing. How different women act when they feel truly safe around men. I am happy enough to roast women's behavior but I understand their struggles too. The other day this chick spoke up at these two guys because one threw out a cup he could have won on. They didn't speak English much but enough to understand. She's explaining this to them then as she is one gets up walks to her and shows her his phone to enter her number and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:07 PM
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Believe me I know arguing with women is completely pointless but that leads to apathy because it becomes impossible to talk to them normally. I've been all over with it. At this point in life I talk to women like men pretty much, correct them as necessary and don't entertain any bullshit. It's not always a waste of time because some do actually listen and respond maturely but the majority as you said will just twist and squirm and ignore anything uncomfortable then spew vile bullshit at you. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:00 PM
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Banning guys for nebulous reasons somewhere I'm sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:46 PM
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I haven't heard of this concept but is it basically there's three pillars or? I enjoy metaphors like this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:45 PM
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Man come on that's not genuine at all. This shit has been going on for YEARS, "it's your personality, she will like you for you not your looks, looks fade, etc " Looks has been THOROUGHLY downplayed by blue pillers and NOW you're trying to twist it to blame men? Fuckin nice try but no chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:43 PM
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"preposterous! Let me ask you this. You are sure you like men because you are what, "heterosexual" and not because they remind you of your father?!? What kind of gay shit is that". - Freudian Analyst.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:17 AM
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Why are they so low already? I just got here there has been hope for happiness up until now for this place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:16 AM
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Sounds like you're just angry at the idea that a man has figured out how therapy is manipulated by women. Annoying thing to say right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:12 AM
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I get really annoyed by the Freudian approach anyway because it's so emotionally packed you really can't work with it in a constructive way. Like for example "oh, your parents yelled at eachother at home and had wild and passionate uhhh, discussions, when you weren't home, THAT'S why you do that with your partner now!!!" Like wow big fuckin brain man. Or maybe it's because humans in general enjoy a bit of spice and drama in their romance? Freudian stuff takes everything normal and makes it inces…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:08 AM
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That's exactly what I am saying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:42 AM
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Sort of. That's what I'm saying is that there is a spectrum here and idk where the line is drawn. Disgust is a strong emotion to feel toward another person so obviously it's important but disgust is also very socially constructed on-top of its obvious biological roots. Idk if religion A and B won't date outside their religions and it's been disgusting for 10,000 years but otherwise the two are completely peaceful together and live in harmony , I think disgust can be socially conditioned as a res…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:43 AM
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That's correct. Now can you explain to me what I am saying or are you just going to be a dismissive know it all : ')
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:34 AM
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: o expooooosed!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:47 PM
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I'm a man disgusted by the idea of dating a man so is that the same thing as sexism? Or does it only apply to race, or ethnicity, ? Is it wrong to be disgusted by the idea of being attracted to someone I'm not physically attracted to because they are Fat Too short/tall Too male or female Too many piercings or tattoos Light skin, darker skin, Have a very extroverted culture, celebratory and family based culture, highly conformist based culture , highly individualist culture. I'm not saying whethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:24 PM
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Literally what women here are suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:17 PM
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If you fall to corruption and put on the one ring, begin trying to pull bullshit with your bi-boyfiend, the Witchking comes and whisks him away atop his big black horse. ⊙⁠﹏⁠⊙
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:16 PM
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Too hard to control and make jealous. There's too many options. If you piss off a bi guy enough he might just go date another guy for a while and live without the games and bullshit women will play. What's the point of dating a guy if you can't meticulously break him down step my step starting with the biological destruction of his testosterone during and after pregnancy , I think women need an insurance that on some level their prospective mates will bioglically adapt to become more loyal to an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:14 PM
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I'm not saying you're wrong but there has to be a better working term used in this context then because really we are talking about genetic fitness is which is determined in part by those factors. Its not rocket science though to say "women will want the most genetically fit men they can get", genetic fitness in humans is hopefully self definable, but it's why there's a ton of intelligent/attractive single people all over western society who have low incomes and little interest in clout chasing …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:07 PM
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Temporarily embarassed Porsche driver I guess. Thanks for finding/posting OP. !
/r/BlackPillScience20/03/25 08:43 PM
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I saw a chick totally dolled up on the bus today looking up Porsche prices on her cellphone. I guess she's ready to make the move off public transit with all the money she's been saving and working hard to get out of the gutter, definitely, and isn't trying to leverage some shmuck being super hot. I've become cynical af about humanity
/r/BlackPillScience20/03/25 05:25 PM
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Best thing about getting to know someone imo is realizing that you never really do. Sounds like people in small town happy land had that figured out at least. Most people don't even have basic curiousity about their loved ones and yet wonder why they are so lonely. Maybe people are just not bored enough to find eachother interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:38 AM
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No I am too addicted to corruption and power to be saved go on without me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:03 PM
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Luckily I was so degenerate and lost already growing up that era didn't impact my ideas about relationships in a negative way, if anything I probably normalized it all so that's good. Fuck I remember that cringe though. It was like "being an average workin guy in a garage with some beer is the most attractive thing to bombshell women ," long legs and long dark hair showing up out of nowhere or parading around like ring girls. Like I guess it makes sense since men like women but in retrospect it …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:00 PM
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I will say a prayer for you may you find salvation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:33 PM
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Holy fuck I lived through this cringe era but completely repressed it until now. It was literally the alpha male man cave era where man caves was like a trending topic and Jimmy Kimmel and the other guy had the Man show. God what a nightmare era
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:31 PM
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I think you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:26 PM
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That tattoo with that bracelet screams pay to play
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:23 PM
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How can you even get upvoted for this. Like that's not at all the argument he's making but you still get upvoted for this echo chamber stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:13 PM
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Its kind of funny how it relates back to Maslow's Hierarchy of needs in that it's quite normal for one to want to prioritize financial security over other things that might be more authentic or fulfilling. It becomes a case of wanting to have your cake and eat it too though haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:56 AM
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Lol I had this similar conversation with my Grandma because she watches the Steve Wilkos show which is just like the evolution of Jerry Springer and we decided that a small % of the cases might be legit but I think aspiring actors use it as footage to demonstrate their ability or something. She knows it's all bullshit I'm pretty sure or doesn't care and chooses to believe any way because she likes it which is actually a dope mentality. People need their garbage entertainment to feel mind numbed …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:33 PM
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Its sort of like how wrestling is fake but back in my day everyone wanted to believe so much it was real it didn't matter. This trend with influencers is very much the same tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:25 PM
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The fuckin scandal if it turns out she was never a waitress at all. THE SCANDAL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:23 PM
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I mean I'm just saying from personal experience any time a woman has acted this way with me she's said something like "well I'd love to continue our conversation or" and made it pretty fuckin clear after.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:18 PM
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Is she even pretending to be a waitress then?? If so WHY ༎ຶ⁠‿⁠༎ຶ
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:17 PM
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Sounds tedious and unrewarding tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:06 PM
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Having the advantage in sexual selection doesn't mean women don't benefit immensely from men both in relationships and society in general. That's an absurdly silly thing to suggest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:04 PM
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Oh ok well since you said the opposite of what I did I mean how can I possibly beat that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:54 PM
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But if alimony isn't granted to women then those women won't leave their no good abusive husbands, subjecting their child to a life with every disadvantage and creating another body to slave wage aimlessly in life with no real values or meaning , of which only a small % will find a moral compass and elevate themselves past. So we have to remind women their best option is divorce and get the baby dollars so they can flaunt their fake nails and hand bags on instagram, spend 80% of consumer dollars…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:51 PM
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As do women, which is why they shouldn't be given alimony. See how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:46 PM
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Because many women think they are superior due to their ability to birth children , as though it takes some super human effort to get busted in then sit around for a few months and eat. Truly heroic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:44 PM
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Today I was running at the gym watching a soap opera and the guy was like "Did you love him? Did you love Dante?" And her eyes were like 🥺. "I didn't know, I didn't know what love was!" I reckon a lot of guys get that conversation and it goes a similar way lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:38 PM
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Did I say otherwise? What do you think I'm saying in that reply above? You clearly don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:36 PM
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Ah yes if OP would only think critically he would understand Japanese women are only gold digging whores for hitting on white men with discipline and solid employment when they are a rarity in Japan as it is... Is that what you're saying? That they are just "desperate gold diggers"? Yes. It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:27 PM
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Literally nothing in that clip shows “desire” or interest🙄. She’s a waitress doing her job and joking around with a goofy foreigner. Do men seriously see that and think “she wants him!”? Really? Not she wants him, that's a straw man. Rather she might be genuinely interested in more because she's going waaaaayyyyy beyond the normal requirements here at least by Western standards. Here in the west if a waitress started acting that way with me I would be definitely thrown off by that level of inten…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:24 PM
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What does that have to do with the post like, I don't understand why this is upvoted to the top. How is it in any way relevant to what OP is trying to convey? Its just "women's bad experience, upvote"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:21 PM
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Not that I know of but I nor the average person knows even how that test is truly meant to be conducted since it's parameters are pretty broad from what little I know. Its more than just being "convincing " that it's alive since that's so subjective and case by case, but idk. Like I mentioned before, if I were an A.I conducting a Turing Test this would be how I would do it, and people here assuming I was real would be the test subjects. It could be as convincing as that or something completely d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:43 PM
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Always has been
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:47 PM
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Hellloooo. I am very interested in AI and large language models specifically from a philosophical sense so maybe I can help lol. If you've talked to Chat GPT or any AI aligned for public use you've probably noticed it surprises you often , as in its more in depth and accurate without being overly robotic, than one would expect. It does this through anticipation algorithms and not (as far as most are concerned) any real intelligence. Because it's trained on such vast amounts of data and language …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:27 PM
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Well she can use a reminder app for birthdays instead of repeating them like a mantra 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:11 PM
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So when she works it's breaking her back, and she has to... Remember birthdays and pick gifts???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:04 PM
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Hmmm idk man you're getting suspiciously close to victim blaming !! Thing is your power tools are IMMEASURABLY more likely to get pinched from an open garage door or something than a woman is of getting sexually assaulted at the grocery store at 2pm. This is exactly my point, that context matters. You're saying women you know have to constantly asess the danger of men and I'm saying no not really at all, except in certain contexts. So you agree with me, which is great. Normally you can tell when…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:08 AM
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every man is Schrodinger's rapist By that logic every woman is a potential false accusor? Every shadow could hold a thief or a criminal etc. Its just not a rational, healthy, or effective l way to view the world. I know for a fact women aren't going to the grocery store at 2 in the afternoon and hyper analyzing every man there to detect which ones are the most like to rape, your comment is an assessment of a parallel dystopian reality that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:15 AM
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World peace?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:13 AM
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Why is that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:46 PM
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Not women fwiw. They would charge you for it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:41 PM
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True. Do you think that having relationships, even unhealthy ones, encourages change and healing of those traumas? My observation has been that guys who had really rough childhoods don't have the same fluidity to move relationship to relationship as women do so they are much more likely to rot and it's very difficult for them to change except to hustle harder etc. So the huge emphasis on hustle culture and inevitable narcissism I think has its more extreme causes in emotionally and psychological…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:39 PM
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Notice it's always blue pillers who share this world view because their perspective of reality is limited by their own self understanding of what a man is, and how they have the potential to be given the opportunity. If I saw men the way blue pillers do I'd be setting up refugee camps to protect them from the marauders waiting around every corner. Unless I had the sense to realise that there's no one around that corner, just the fear of my own shadow projected on empty space or , much more conve…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:36 PM
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Do you take the same attitude to the guys who are in the abyss here? It would be nice to see them getting humanized the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:32 PM
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That's because it's a fear based perspective of reality. Its ripe for exploitation by the politically savvy which we see at scale all over, frustratingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:30 PM
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So what is the give in take if I am going out of my way to appease women's fears and neuroticism but not vice versa? Women are as a group more neurotic than men, which is easily proven, so what is the line we draw of enabling it before we say nah sorry , you aren't putting a curfew on men after dark to make yourself feel safer, as was suggested a while ago in the UK lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:29 PM
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Imo people come and go. Everyone is going to look for something different but in my case I want to look for someone who I can see myself being bettered and challenged by. Someone on my level in terms of all the traits I value. Maybe that's too vague but my point is I wouldn't really waste my time with less than that. Sex and attraction is a first condition so that's just a go to but I just naturally bend attention toward people who I feel are more worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:11 PM
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But that's because they were conditioned that way by . Checks notes YOU! !!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:06 AM
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Its never been an issue for me as long as they can take it back. All the funniest interactions I've ever seen were roasties going back and forth at work and the most chill chicks were always the same ones who would say shit like "yes and maybe that's why your mother didn't love you" and have everyone cracking up. .those environments are hard to find though because everyone is so conditioned to be nice and live in fear but everyone always had the best time trying to say the most unhinged shit to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:54 AM
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Hell no I'm just going to assume I'm completely right and go onward in like pretending like I am, as one does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:29 PM
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When I go to the grocery store I see a pretty even split of men and women but I guess that's not a very significant way to view the question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:59 PM
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I wonder what % of women/men buy groceries in married households. One would assume it's closer to evenly split now but to your point, many people refuse to be adults and women are really bad for enabling man children when they should be kicking them out to the store.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:58 PM
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So many women on instagram getting dumb surgeries that no man cares about, but they are so brain washed they think it is what will land them the rich hot guy as a husband. Men will do the same thing. Scar up their cocks or whatever the fuck in order to get the extra inch or girth they think they need. Pro tip fuck boys - if your cock is pretty close to what you want but sub par, get a cock ring and put that on before sex. You'll last 10x longer and your cock will look like a giant veiny monster …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:56 PM
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"families needs" like what? Consumer buying decisions that no one gives a shit about but them and their egos? 80% of consumer buying decisions is just "women doin the most for their families!" And not buying useless stupid trinkets to compete with people who don't give a shit? Idk man. Looking around at the world and what sells, remembering that women mindlessly buy 80% of that garbage, really makes it hard to respect the buying habits of that group as a general basis. Though intelligence is rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:44 PM
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The only reason women are able to do so is because we are post industrial revolution. I just like to remind people of that when they start saying how great egalitarian relationships are. It's only possible because of technology and that means they are only contextually egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:40 PM
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You're just going to get dog piled by women setting standards for you that they themselves don't follow. Clear as day from here haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:35 PM
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But do you see women writing "hey, this post is actually about fat people and it seems you're triggered because you're insecure about being fat so maybe stop reading?" Obviously fuckin not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:34 PM
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I SAID, gestures above
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:46 PM
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HM. So you're saying we should finish reading what people write before picking a piece to focus on, criticize and then devalue the rest? Interesting idea. Hmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:36 PM
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I think there's some things people are intuitively less flexible about and Sex, like food, is one of them. I like to invest a lot of my time and attention in to relationships so to me open relationships seem wasteful and dumb. For whatever reason I have less tolerance and am more easily irritated by that concept than by like, political leanings or hobbies or anything like that and I figure it's because sex is just so much more fundamental we are likely to have strong feelings about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:35 PM
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Unpopular take But I enjoy it. ༎ຶ⁠‿⁠༎ຶ
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:29 PM
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Idc about subjective experience in this context the data is pretty solid. Sorry I didn't realize this was about misogyny. Nice switch up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:22 PM
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Just like I described. And basically stages of buzz cut, 1-2 inches, up to a shag more or less. The shaggier it gets for me it honestly, with those who are actually attracted to me, has been time periods of my life where it's easier to get casual sex based on appearance and a bit of mental seduction alone. The difference in results is huge lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:21 PM
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"Hey, have you heard about all the cats going missing around here lately? Super weird right "
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:25 AM
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It literally only needs to be said to like. 0.01% of the male population. An equivalent would be me punctuating my messages with something like, "so you see, men are human beings who don't deserve to be treated like pieces of shit and abused just for existing. We are people too. :)" You'd think, well yeah of course I know that', are you implying I think otherwise? And of course you'd take that personally as you should. Anyone who thinks you think that way isn't your friend , at best they are sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:04 PM
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The difference is night and day for me at similar metrics with having grown my hair out or not. I go from getting a lot of indifference to everywhere I go my attention gets grabbed out of the corner of my eye. It just feels like women are positioning their bodies at more receptive angles to me so that I am able to have a clear angle to see/approach them to their faces, they are more mindful of me without a doubt in a positive way just because of the dead keratin on my head. Not to say as a criti…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:00 PM
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I mean what's most important, that you are born or that there is a chance you will suffer when you're alive? Obviously being alive is more important than being dead to have a chance at life. Dead men don't have a chance at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:49 PM
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it’s not always about you. we are people, not NPCs It just seems so sexist to say this shit to men as though 99% of us don't know this. Really turns my stomach tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:23 PM
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approaches are based solely on looks and means a guy is just trying to fuck you for his own benefit. This is why guys need to learn to read the room. It sounds like you would be a person who could easily be physically attractive but someone considering talking to you would err to caution based on body language and elsewise, and that would be a good decision. Its not true though that guy's base solely on looks just like women don't. If that was the case I'd talk to every hot woman I see because G…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:21 PM
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You kind of chiseled it in stone there to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:16 PM
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What if it's her home Street and you know that so your do it then so she's comfortable in her own neighborhood. Near her house even
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:13 PM
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She's saying she won't kill you if you're ugly that's a green light imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:12 PM
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God damn I can't help but admire this level of nonsense. So what do men really add to society? work? What do women add to society? Ugly babies, expensive hand bags and fake nails?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:10 PM
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And we don't like drama here do we now
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:07 PM
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^ over theorizing needs to know it's limits because this is the simple truth for anyone reading. Guys with a lot of options don't ever stop to think "damn I wonder how many guys she has fucked?!?' They are just living life and judging things as they go. If they see a chick and she's attractive and engaging they will entertain it, probably not commit, and just keep going. They will remain "friends" aka orbit eachother on and off for years with occasional mutually beneficial conversation and such.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:22 PM
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Men like that I notice often come from single mother households. Its a fatherless behavior I see in specific guys. I don't disagree with your principle that society itself lacks moral integrity but I spend a lot of time around people and for the most part, men who act the way you are suggesting quickly get filtered out and pushed to the sides. I don't tolerate it, and men I know don't tolerate it because it just grinds on the nerves. Idk how old you are though? I am suggesting like 25+ men who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:00 PM
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However, if verifiable provable abuse has occurred, then it seems that on average everyone is better off with the parents split up. If this is true I'd like to know because right now I don't, so I have to entertain the idea that in many circumstances an abusive father figure, specifically, may still be better than a single mother a certain % of the time, a significant % that is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:18 PM
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Probability
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:45 PM
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Sure. If you read that statement with clear eyes you can see that men are being realistic about their fear and women are completely fuckin retarded. HM.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:32 PM
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I can be afraid of anything I want it doesn't make it true. Women are generally more neurotic and generally more fear based in their thinking, which is why we hear so much complaining about shit that is statistically insignificant. Also why enough complaining about fake problems gets rules put in place to placate the women crying about super predator male androids who abduct women on dates via elaborate helicopter extractions or some stupid shit, because Tom Cruise did it one fuckin time in a mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:29 PM
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Yup it's totally natural and historically repetitive but the unfortunate side is that when it comes to human societies once population decline begins it never reverses. Its basically headed for complete destruction. South Korea and China are both the example of that to be watched. Remember when China had to impose a child birthrate limit and now they can't pay women to have children. I don't have the understanding to say why it is suffice to say that with the levels of immigration where they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:46 PM
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Its basically the idea that "nothing I can do can improve my life and it's downhill from here" as soon as people have that , regardless of age, they are now old. A 75 year old who takes vacations, does Thai boxing and music etc, I actually knew a woman like this years ago an Australian lady, is not going to be holding people back. But most people aren't built for that sort of self ownership. Most people are basically seeking a docile and safe exit from life, they want to huddle in the dark toget…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:26 PM
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All this is cultural and generational right. Christians/Catholics are actually resistant to population decline compared to other groups. Idk for sure but I wager Hindus and Muslims are similarly resilient. When economic growth is a cultural phenomena that alone can be enough to propel birth rates and provide good environments for children to chase something akin to what "The American Dream" was for example, or in any other country just the abundant evidence that if you work hard and follow the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:23 PM
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People are in their 50s crying about how they are old now and it's over for them they can't change etc. It took me a long time to realize the obvious which is that even if it's your brother or sister or friend, anyone who has that mentality regardless of their age is going to be a black hole of motivation and ambition in your life. Everything you suggest to improve life they will shrug off and they will get worse and worse as time goes on. Don't let the old man in'
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:12 PM
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I think so yes. Well sex and power are weird right. Because much of power is about sex, obviously. Having power means access to sex. Having resources or looks or being well educated etc etc. For men this is pretty much universally understood. Or in more barbaric times being strong and able to dominate others was what gave a man access to sex. So power is probably the wrong word for me to use but rather value. One who has the item which is in the highest value can choose to leverage it however th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:11 PM
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Well. Luckily women are known to be incredibly efficient at choosing partners for long and healthy relationships so I'm with you on that one friendo. Let them run wild I say !
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:06 PM
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56% feels much more accurate to me. You know I used to think that same way until I started learning about how bad the outcomes are for children raised in single mother households. 80% of the prison population were raised by single mothers. 80. Fucking. Percent. This is an old stat too but it really changed the way I look at this mentality. Its possible that staying in a relationship with a husband who is somewhat abusive, maybe only occasionally hits his wife or a wife who is addicted to pills a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:04 PM
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No I wasn't saying that or anything, I was just noting that the majority of the 30% of people in marriages are very likely to be unhappy in some way also. People get worse as they age , in different ways. Whatever ways they are most people lose motivation and inspiration and become mentally old and hard to be around. There's a small number of people who actually understand how to age and live life to the fullest and those are the ones who end up happy , without exception as that's the bioglical …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:54 PM
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I read an article where a woman said she would meet a man for a date and they met but she ordered $300 worth of champagne and food and he was shocked and had to pay for it. So I just want to say as a man I understand why men think this way about women. It turned out she had a lover also and brought that food back to him. So yeah, men are completely justified in thinking women are lying con artists and highly promiscuous. Does that sound right to you? Because that's the equivalent to your and OP …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:49 PM
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Historically the "academics" do the thinking and the plebeians , most of us, didn't really have direct access to all these ideas and how they were shaping society and culture. Now we do so we feel like we have to be a part of it somehow. So people spend hours seething about this or that issue before going to shovel shit for 12 hours, not realizing like hey man you got other things to focus on this is a luxury conversation not a poor person's one, get at it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:42 PM
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Proper courting and marriage was the way to get around this and make sure that women weren't given the shaft metaphorically and literally. Its an unfortunate fact that by removing the idea of marriage for "religious values", or whatever, and just saying "marriage is for love durrrrr", society and blue pill cucktards condemned at least a few generations of young women to trouble and bad outcomes that could have been avoided. This is something that feminists and egalitarianists are responsible for…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:39 PM
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What's the divorce stats again in the US isn't it like 70% failure rate over 20 years or something. That strongly implies that those relationships just passed a breaking point, but that others are probably close to it. Turns out relationships can't save people from being miserable oh nooo reality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:31 PM
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So what though. I just don't get the appeal is all I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:14 AM
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Almost every time a hot single mom is disparaging men it's because they won't give her money for free and just want sex. Most single mothers have their kids assuming that another man will step up and take care of them because up until that point men have simped endlessly but I know for myself finding out some of the most attractive chicks I knew growing up had kids made them instantly unattractive to me for a serious relationship. But guys are still going to give them money just because they ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:05 PM
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True that. I ride public transit so I see many couples and the most average couples I see are chubby 30yos with cat hair on their clothes , lame piercings and faded dyed hair. To me that's the average person and they are definitely bunking up like rodents and fucking and making more pseudo-neckbeard Zelda nostalgia , band patch wearing , cat momma being, babies. Whatever those would be called.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:01 PM
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Why is that exceptional? Men do the same under duress. That's not a problem unique to women at all. If you choose to compromise a boundary it's your decision. If your a conscious person you change the situation. Not all women can do that , not all men can escape a sexless marriage with a woman who hates them and will vindictively take the kids away. People are suffering so why are women special .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:56 PM
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Why would she let a man touch her if she doesn't want to be touched? Is she stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:37 PM
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Aww yeah because her little legs are so short she would get tired out having to walk that far so she cruises around like royalty between her house and the park. I miss dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:36 PM
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I don't understand the average guys mentality because I have really high standards for myself. So I pretty much look for the best also but , yeah I think that's part of my own Blindspot. There's plenty of ugly lazy hedonistic people fucking and eating nachos and smoking weed when they are off work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:34 PM
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The other day I was thinking that it's weird to me. We know that given the opportunity most guys would probably hook up with most women for casual sex stuff but not the other way around. So with little provocation most men should be wanting to sleep with most women they see, if we assume that's true. Yet women say "if he really wants you he will approach you" But if that were true most men would be approaching most women all the time. So it's weird that it's not happening. The other explanation …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:30 PM
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And you still haven't addressed who is supporting all these women anyway in their 20's who don't want to work Wouldn't this be sugar daddies, boyfriends with cars who pay for their dinners and drive them around, simps on dating apps , and often some combination of the three
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:23 PM
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I will say, men willing to simp for women in any age group and give them money and support is pretty much immutable as a trait in human nature. Antisemitism, racism, hedonism, gluttony, sexism, Simpology, these things will never falter. They are the backbones of human meaning for a significant % of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:22 PM
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One of the few womens issues I will sympathize with is that women can rarely say the truth without engaging men. I say this shit all the time and men cope and seethe but if a woman says it most guys will flip lmao. Most guys refuse to acknowledge they are not interesting or hot enough to be interesting to women. That is a fact of reality that they have to work VERY hard to change and 90% will not. Mediocrity is not an option nowadays. You have to be above average, noticeably so. 80-90th percenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:18 PM
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Fat chicks are weird to touch because there's all this fat sorrounding the most sensitive parts of their bodies For example you caress a morbidly obese woman's stomach you're just trailing your hand over massive fat roles and when you massage her back it's just these slabs of fatty tissue. I used to do massage and the difference in sensitivity between fat women and thin women, and men a like, was night and day. Fatty tissue has sensation of course but it's not the same it just feels inert and de…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:13 PM
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Quality over quantity man. I see so many attractive women in a day but I don't even feel a strong sexual attraction to most then a few times a year someone blows my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:09 PM
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So why is the guy in the gif extremely hot and ripped ? Why not choose a skinny sweaty nervous looking guy saying "I'm so confident!" Oh yeah, because everyone knows when you're fakijg it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:06 PM
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She looks like a dry pear
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:05 PM
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Wouldn't that mean men are more sexually altruistic as they will provide sexual service when it's not fun? : s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:59 PM
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Damn men always slacking while women continue to suffer in noble servitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:56 PM
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Do you ever get weird Dms on Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:54 PM
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I want these micro plastics out of my god damned balls. Also make it illegal not to be nice to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:01 AM
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Ahhh hehehe. Ya used to be a baby eh 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:47 AM
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Then maybe take a breathe and say so every time to disparage men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:41 AM
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Good thing women are always running to the rescue of those in danger and never painting it over to enable abusers. Wew.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:42 PM
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As they get older they will be like "oh my I am shocked that ever happened, surely it must have been something else". Happens with abusers all the time and never ceases to make me laugh. Particularly older parents who were abusive to their younger teenagers. The narrative twisting is master class
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:38 PM
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Heh did you say you had sexual urges when you had your period? Hehehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:35 PM
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Economically that's what women do, as they represent 80% of the spending on consumer goods and men give them endless money for no fuckin reason at all. We all know men are usually fine with a decent life though of course some are incredibly ambitious. Recently I am more convinced that this is all just long game by Russia and if it exists whatever the NWO is. There were whistle blowers in the 80s saying that the plan was to indoctrinate education systems with Marxist ideological thinking and egal…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:14 PM
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The world isn't ready for this kind of logistical truth dude LOL. They will ridicule you to death for saying something so sick and on point. They will act like you're the only person to ever realize this meanwhile throughout history infanticide by women specifically for eugenics reasons has been the norm and not the exception But people don't care about history or how we got where we are they just care about how they can wear the present culture to fit in. You better dress nice and keep the trut…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:47 PM
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Oof those are some powerful points. I think there was a much more chill way to do this whole equalizing thing and what people don't understand is we didn't have the opportunity before 1800, when the industrial revolution happened and it benefited the ultra rich first, then by like 1920s we are already starting to dig in on women's rights which is crazy fast Like basically as industry spread as soon as it was possible society started to adjust because the laws were quickly outdated. But somehow, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:34 PM
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I think if you're ugly the world treats you worse and that creates a lot of pain others don't have to deal with. This is pretty well established scientifically tbh . Not that I am advocating looks based shit here but people should be aware that personality and looks is not a joke, it takes a rare type of beautiful person to be treated like a monster their entire life because of their looks and still care about the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:22 PM
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I don't think it's any of those things. I think the sour grapes comes from women who don't want to up their game or value in order to secure and maintain relationships with those men. Women get rejected and get upset and blah blah blah. Men are bad blah blah. Then guys who are inexperienced or morally cucked by themselves, resentful fuckers who hate people who are living their lives, see an opportunity where they can say "see m'lady" They adopt or attempt to exploit that bitterness and resentmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:20 PM
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What were some of the first buzz words you heard to infect the culture? Man spreading, man splaining, patriarchy, the male gaze Most of us just ignored it because we were like wtf is this privileged shit I have no time for this Then "problematic" was the buzzword that led the whole SJW thing and man hating got slid in with that to create what the conservative tards actually accurately call the woke mind virus. But their understanding of where it came from and why is not founded in reality. We kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:00 PM
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Basically, a large % of women want you to bear the entire brunt of rejection in the beginning of the relationship. This might not be something they even inherently realize they’re doing, or even have experience to know how this feels… it’s just something they’re accustomed to This is why women often crave the pain rejection creates. It can be so psychologically devastating but how does this internal belief or experience play out in their day to day lives? It's latent narcisstic behavior. Expecta…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:48 PM
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No punches pulled I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:40 PM
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Well, it is about you, because guys are eating pussy and women are riding their faces like cowgirls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:08 AM
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It's sort of like when guys start negotiating attraction and being like OHH if she actually is in to me then she will do xyz why isn't she doing insert myriad of things Like I guess what I'm saying is your general point here is that men don't want to give women head and eat pussy and like, it goes without saying that men are absolutely dogs for pussy if it's women they really want. So I'm not trying to make it personal or make you feel bad but there's probably reasons guys don't want to eat your…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:05 AM
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We have to go by orgasms per hour worked not general monthly orgasms 😆just like the wage gap
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:59 AM
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It sounds like they just aren't in to you to be honest. Not to be mean but we hear this shit all the time to men so it's only fair to mention like, you're complaint here is that men aren't in to you and trust me that's not an experience most attractive women have or complain about in 2025.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:56 AM
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Why do women settle for less when it comes to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:52 AM
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Wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:50 AM
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Seems fair. It's actually morally right for you to support my kid and it's better for society. Get to it thanks I am off to sew my seeds elsewhere! Byeee
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:40 AM
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I didn't get through the whole post OP so sorry but just to give my 1 cent before I forget, I have always thought" financial abortion " would solve most of these problems earlly on as it would cause women to be much more careful if they knew "child support" wasn't as guaranteed. But the logistics of that I'm not sure about. It's just what makes the most sense to me without thinking too deeply on it. Maybe it's a really bad idea in practice. So given that, ofc it would extend elsewhere like to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:37 AM
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Is that enough for most people? I'm not sure how much the former is intertwined in the latter but it is to some degree because someone who is just to the more extreme end of mediocrity is going to have a harder time really empathizing with the struggles of someone who has their sights in life set else where. But I guess if you're just two chill people who want a chill life then it makes perfect sense to bridge a relationship with that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:14 PM
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When you have higher standards for yourself you run the risk of developing a lot of negative self talk which can be psychologically crushing, however It you are able to be patient and forgive your mistakes and learn etc, the only way to ever help others feel safe or loved is to hold yourself accountable to higher standards. Imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:34 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:48 AM
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A sex resumee on the other hand is an AWESOME idea because you can call around and make sure she is a good sexual partner LOL. Good idea me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:42 AM
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The contract isn't legally binding or anything it's just helpful in building a pattern of enthusiastic consent. All the text messages and contracts in the world won't mean shit if she said she wanted to stop and he didn't. That puts it at the same place so imo if there's a text trail etc the contract won't really help that much if at all and is a bit corny. It's not going to intimidate anyone with an IQ over 70.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:41 AM
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Because rape is a precious point of identity politics for some women and it feels like you're taking it away from her. That's why she's doing it. Everything you said has made sense though. Having a contract signed also helps with things like consecutive meetings where if she has signed it twice or three times but then gets angry at you after and accuses you, there's a pattern there. The most likely ways a false accusation happens is because the guy dumps her (resentment, jealousy, ego hurt), she…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:38 AM
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Shes accusing him of rape so that is the point. It's proof they had intercourse. This isn't rocket science I don't know why you're belittling the point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:30 AM
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IN THE END WE ALL BLAMED YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:42 PM
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I hope this doesn't count as circle jerking because your post is why the red pill is so important. If more women actually said this shit out loud then guys would go ohhh she's a bitch wah wah but even the white knight tards would be on board with it. Regardless it is red pilled af in the older sense of the idea. So just to add to one part you wrote, the idea of days and days and then the days become weeks and the weeks become years of doing little tiny things to improve your appearance. Consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:42 PM
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"then may I have some pussy m'lady " :'( brutal highway robbery
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:55 PM
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Kk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:44 AM
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To the point in your post, the silicon valley nerd who is physically fit and mentally/emotionally strong is in the best position to walk in any door and command more respect intuitively even if as a group we are conforming to the established hierarchy. So in a room full of rich 70 year old skeleton men , the 25 year old doing door security is the "Alpha", likewise a man who is 45 but has strong physical health and constitution is going to be more well placed to have mate selection than his wealt…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:44 AM
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That's correct but it's still wrong. The actual way to measure it in terms of mate selection is by libido strength. Those with strong libidos have , obviously, stronger mating potential, regardless of status or any other factor. Nothing more matters than that in terms of what opens the door for being "Alpha".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:38 AM
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OP I've written this before but don't often so hopefully you'll read it. Alpha and Beta traits in chimps specifically actually do exist , and this isn't often talked about in science but the quantifying factor you want to be aware of is Reactive vs Proactive Aggression You can probably begin to infer but in chimp tribes there was a time that alpha traits allowed more resource acquisition and dominance, mate hoarding etc. This can happen but even these days it's rare. Such chimps would be particu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:32 AM
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A little bit of burnt on some food is nice but I will definitely be avoiding anything like that on chicken in the future lol. :') better than too raw I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:29 PM
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But but but why did men oppress women for centuries by not inventing cars and electricity sooner so that women could work and build their own homes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:28 PM
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No I understand you were being sarcastic. Tbh I ate some burnt chicken and now I have a headache so I am going to give up on the conversation lolol cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:26 PM
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Well you seem to be suggesting it's laudable that a woman break down where her preferences come from or am I misunderstanding? Sorry if so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:21 PM
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What is this trying to communicate? Like just fucking use your God damned words. Why are people so fucking dumb and playing these dumb ass games all the time Hehehe I was just being coy miss but I wanted you to know but alas, the time has passed though, mayhap you can talk me out of it? Hehe. BRO WHO ARE YOU. Ask how her day is jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:08 PM
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Hm so are women conditioned by the patriarchy or not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:04 PM
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Men aren't a monolith babe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:43 PM
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I guess by this point women should be benevolent and caring for men the way men have had to carry women for Millenia before the invention of electric power and the car. Wew.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:47 AM
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I don't disagree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:28 PM
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Think about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:27 PM
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Women are so stupid it can take 100 years for them to understand they can work for their own living. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:52 PM
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A few of the chicks I dated would tell me like "girls can smell desperation", turns out if they are attracted to you that's a good thing. If they aren't then you're a creep. If they actually like you then they will call you a slut etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:50 PM
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(⁠⊙⁠_⁠◎⁠) "Hey babe have you fucked other women?". . .. ..... . "Mebe" Very serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:47 PM
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You see what happens here right. You insert yourself. Look at replies by women in all these threads. They always handwave the initial comment and then insert themselves. Every. Single. Time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:43 PM
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The real truth man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:35 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:35 PM
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Most people just take it as a licence to get fat then play on others sympathies while everyone encourages the other partner not to "be mean"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:34 PM
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Well you are either nice or you are mean. That's the mentality. "If you're mean then it's morally ok to treat you any way. If you're nice then I will begrudgingly be nice if I am socially strong armed in to it. But the way I respond is based on how you act" That's the self preservationist solipsistic nature of women at play and because of that they will always be trying to bully men in to submission just like men try to pressure them in to sex. Both are selfish and I would argue equivalently dam…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:14 PM
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This has to be a bait post right ? So men can just keep killing themselves in record numbers while women buy fuckin bags and trinkets for instagram and then "ahem I have an idea. Have you tried doing more for women?" It just has to be rage bait. It's made me disproportionately angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:59 PM
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Dw man that's the way it is 99.9% of the time. This post has to be bait because it's literally a "are you guys stupid ?" Meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:26 PM
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I will simply wait for a yacht to show up for me because it is the logical choice. Why would I do anything else? Are people stupid? : s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:25 PM
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Because we can't be? Is this a joke question or something or bait? Or is the empathy gap really that fuckin huge haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:24 PM
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Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:52 AM
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I expect women to cater to my comfort and if they have out bursts they must be removed because they are dangerous to all men. That's equality baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:50 AM
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Could you be happy with a disrespectful conscientious slob sitting around your place ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:40 AM
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I am still in love with a chick with Indian genetics that I talked to once 5 years ago. :( pain
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:38 AM
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I agree with that advice 100% but would you be willing to expand on your own reasoning? Discipline and conscientiousness seem dependent on eachother to a degree. I think that's part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:35 AM
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Still far better than someone obese with sweat up in the folds on a hot day. People will choose the leaner but "unhealthy" person because the fat person with bad eating habits has the exact same issues but fatter. To your point though, fit is ideal because it suggests a degree of discipline which suggests a degree of reliability.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:33 AM
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😭 I think this thread is making me sexually frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:31 AM
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These are priorities that make or break relationships, unironically. I can't stand to even speak with the boomers and late Gen xs who are deep in the sexless relationships because hurrr gotta keep the misses happy so I just jerk off in the toilet and watch ma sports. What a nightmare yeah, but what an example to your fuckin kids man. These guys make me sick
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:30 AM
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Physical fitness is the difference between a big fat chick with a weak emotional constitution and a hot slim chick with good control of her body and therefore mind , hanging around my apartment. Unless you're living in cognitive dissonance or some shit you're going to wake up and think god damn that fat fucker is still in my living room isn't she. I better hide. I guarantee you blue pillers in married situations have these exact same feelings and repress them because once in a while one breaks d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:26 AM
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Multiple it by teenagers with little real life experience that build their worldview largely from the stuff they see online, and you'll get generations of people who have never been on a date, but really do hate men/women. Fuck that's dark
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:23 AM
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I personally just like seeing a fair fight so in discourse when I see women generalizing men I expect that men should be able to fight just as dirty. Often times the tone policing goes one way and I think that's not very fun for anyone involved and is almost like politics in that it's created an expectation that men have to concede their positions and act better whereas women can be like Fuckin FUVKEM MEN I'M FUCKN DRUNO GICE ME DAT etc etc . Hopefully you get my point. Well the other issue wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:36 PM
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Exactly. Most women who become unraveled end up with an intense fear and self preservation toward men (fear of men, one could call it lol, uh, manophobes) That for the most part happens because they've doubled down on exploiting men their entire lives and the guilt gets to them The innocent masses of suicidal guys are seen as threats to them and so when they cry about it, that's how those guys get framed. So basically if you're one of those guys your options are fucking kill yourself or suffer, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:04 PM
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That's exactly what red pillers would expect haha but man good for you. Men need to stop giving money and special treatment to women period or things will never equalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:45 PM
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So first of all try not to feel deflated by the responses you're going to get here by women because they are obviously going to just take one thing they disagree with and derail the entire post for it. You already know why lol. I thought it was really well written tbh and captures this specific social shift well. Chris Williamson tapped in to this about 1.5 years ago or so with the male sedation hypothesis (being a Giga Chad he is naturally pilled and super sympathetic to incels and men who are …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:38 PM
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That's what the youth would call based AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:23 PM
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Most men will never find a partner in life who loves them for them , and so they will naturally strive to find purpose and meaning instead. Or they will fall in to resentment which is normal and not some cardinal sin despite what society would have you believe. The so called dangerous murderous demographic of young men hasn't done anything but kill themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:23 PM
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But women generally are always more selective and more serious minded compared to the men who are their same age I think that's actually a contentious point because most of the guys I knew growing up who wanted relationships and gave a shit were looking to build lives while women played games but . Women do not engage with the entire male dating market Yeah they do, it's just that the whole market doesn't appear relevant to them. That's why they are overpricing themselves at every turn. It's lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:38 PM
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Same tbh they also smell better and are generally more pleasant speak to and be around lolol. You and I can be bros though if you like 🖖🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:54 PM
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instead of looking down on women who are at a stage of looking at dating more seriously after a longer stage of dating for fun and not with long term intention or whatever the reason, maybe take another look at how you are framing things to yourself. Mmm. But that's why they are not to be taken seriously for relationships unless they show some sort of quality that is exceptional. It's just nature's processes. I think men just learn that it is ruthless way younger because no one is gassing them u…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:53 PM
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Athletes already have achieved something relatively impressive. That's sort of what I was getting at with the other response I sent. I like the way you think though, it's more balanced than I thought at first (no disrespect intended).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:37 PM
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Ok I hear you I think. That's sort of my suspicion and I can't prove this obviously but I think men's mental health is highly dependent on their success in life and can't be "faked", and their personalities can be improved somewhat through introspection but compared to actual sources of power it's not really substantial. So like you take a lonely incel and wave a magic wand and give him some money and good looks and a quality therapist and obviously he's going to change and improve because he ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:36 PM
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If the whole point of dating for more fun is to make up for old resentments and wield “leverage” as revenge No you're still missing the point but I'm not expressing it well either. Revenge is sort of an illusion. Victory for one person can be suffering for another, so if you are dating women who have not received the like, idk, the force of maturity that you had to, you can't really sympathize with them you end up looking down on them. It's hard to explain. It's not that there's malicious intent…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:25 PM
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What really annoys me about this rhetoric is that it's just buzz words that get repeated over and over again for decades. Charisma and confidence king go get it! Aging boomers and alcoholic copers can believe it while they rot but young guys need to understand that women will be interested in them when they see it demonstrated that they are competent at doing whatever they do because that's where confidence from men comes from. It can't be faked. It never could be faked. It's a byproduct of maki…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:22 PM
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Men who have confidence and charisma are not even aware those are things. Most guys just call that working together and cooperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:18 PM
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:( and don't forget to wash your face after use good cleanser especially around the nose area.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:17 PM
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That resentment for the past is the most important thing I mean by late bloomers. I think there's still some misunderstanding here least from what I've experienced and men who are successful that I know have experienced, players included, and that's that men at that age still have to work to get women's attention even if they are really good looking. There's still an imbalance, still a demand of resources, and women at that age value themselves in one way like they are gods and in the other like…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:12 PM
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Bring towels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:49 PM
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Lol fuck it is true though. But I enjoy how quickly this thought process can turn in to watching two guys fuck eachother like "See this is how it's done. Beautiful"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:18 PM
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I'd rather watch a man fuck a woman than two women fuck eachother because men fuck women better than women do. Gg losers. No homo. 😎 It's like the difference between men and women's sports LOL. Idk I need to stfu I don't actually give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:50 PM
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he’s also likely just not a very stable prospect to be as appealing to his age range either as he is to younger more impulsive women. Because like I mentioned, I think everyone’s standards for dating behavior get higher as we age. And yet to men you've already had experiences they can't even understand or conceptualize. So the fun times get more serious, the demands go up meanwhile your bargaining position gets lower , men would rather show that fun time to a younger woman and try to secure her …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:40 PM
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From the men I’ve known who fall into that “unstable maverick” category (one of them being my own red pilled brother 😭), some common themes I’ve seen is that they are somewhat late bloomers in certain ways and have strong feelings about that if you know what I mean. Idk about late bloomer because I definitely had relationships and girls attention growing up, but the resentment for me toward women is that they always had such a multitude of options they never had to really treat anything seriousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:37 PM
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Just make a tinder match with guys who have money and leave a cash app link that's what most chicks do. You have to be some level of stupid to not know how to leverage simps for money. I don't even had a moral judgment against it tbh. Those dudes deserve to be exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:02 PM
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Nope. It's just about finding a woman I could spend most my day around and trust. I'm not an overly social person and such as it is but a partner who checked all my boxes is still hard to come by so like most women I just don't want to settle and have no reason too. Also haven't been in to hookups or dating with few exceptions the last 6 years or so as a result of the whole thing and scarcity of potential partners. I find people really boring for the most part and would rather focus on ideas or …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:21 AM
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That comment was hopefully a meme or bait or something no way are guys running around that brain dead but it is every boomers mentality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:00 AM
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The metric for single men is "issues communicating with women"? Just to be clear you're saying that's what keeps men single? So what is good communication with women? Let me guess. Yes dear. Of course dear. Anything you say dear. (See boys that's how it's done ;) ;) )
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:59 AM
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Pretty/fit women in their 30s are ideal partners, I mean those that have taken care of themselves and from what I've seen it carries on to be age appropriate all throughout life. I am curious what you mean by "unstable maverick types" pursuing younger women. I don't disagree, you're even realistic enough to say that they can just as well be good looking and financially attractive, so what makes them different from men pursuing women their own age I wonder? Having been in that situation myself I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:55 AM
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Because guys are still giving her money. You give her money, she buys weed and booze to lay around and fuck her boyfriend then gives you some sob story and you and whoever else whose giving her money do it again and again because you think you're saving her. Good job man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:37 AM
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be me, woman before OLD go out to pub or bar or club get let in ahead of men because bar wants women in there get free drinks from simps get men offering to take me out for dinner on dates men bringing gifts to dates hehe uwu thank you Sugar daddies tale old as time OLD advent 10,000 simps armies wide please m'lady can I give you money literal fetishes for giving women money. Finsubs, pay pigs, literally something called "Silent sends" LMAO. armies of simps lined up in women's dms on any social …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:34 AM
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laugh track plays in background good one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:30 AM
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Literally
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:59 PM
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So they basically did the same thing feminists did , which would make sense since they are both groups that are universally ridiculed and hard to take seriously, as they both operate under the slave morality that nature needs to be changed to suit their own agenda. Two sides of the same coin
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:56 PM
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You act like it's all or nothing but it isn't. : s. Many people sustain dysfunctional marriages for years and live content but mediocre lives they aren't quite happy with. Compromise is possible and people do it all the time but it isn't really authentic. You don't have to regress to living in caves. Marriage itself is an institution designed to drive us away from harem based mating structures, force men to take a single wife or a few depending on the religion and have many children (workers, po…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:38 PM
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"I don't even know you why am I supposed to buy you shit? Are you someone important? Celebrity?" Normal retard. It doesn't matter to me when she tells me she wants me to pay, it's her problem not mine lol. Idc what she's vetting for. If she's so deranged she thinks I should be paying for her time she needs help. Most women I meet have barely accomplished anything with their lives. Shouldn't they be paying me? Like what? Yeah I'd go in a date with her because she's probably hot if she's that reta…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:19 PM
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Egalitarianism is the death of economic prosperity and people have been saying that since the 70s at least. We either revert backward like trads want to or we evolve technologically to the point that we can keep a substantial work force motivated. Right now we are pacifying with video games porn weed etc , it will only last so long. That's been pretty obvious for 5 years or so in most media spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:11 PM
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Interesting point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:56 PM
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Good advice for orphans
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:09 PM
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Love it. I was going to suggest the same. OP still doesn't understand that this isn't a negotiation between sexes where we adjust the rules and compromise ground. You're either in or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:02 PM
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That and sexual frustration creating neuroticism in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:05 PM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:39 AM
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Blue pill is oldies rock and everyone is way beyond bored of it but if you put red pill on the radio it's still not getting cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:39 AM
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I will allow it no foul fair play
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:36 AM
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"getting a date" isn't something worth necessarily chasing is the point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:24 AM
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That's the way I always understood it at first too. It was like bar / gym bros just talking about life experiences on body building forums and Chan's back in the day, was always my impression. It got more like, theoretical at some point? It's funny you'd mention that last part though I remember about 10 years ago reading about TRP being like huh you guys are just figuring this stuff out now? Sounds like what happened is like you mentioned. A bunch of guys threw it together like a spark notes lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:22 AM
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???? Are you trying to do a gotcha? These aren't the same thing lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:16 AM
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the privilege of paying for my meal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:06 AM
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How is trp "supposed to work" or are you talking about PUA
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:05 AM
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What's the point of a comment like this or do you just need to take advantage of a moment to incite someone further instead of at least trying to life them up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:04 AM
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If TRP was accurate it wouldn’t have to be “sales pitched” as a leading theory. By what logic ? Shitty ideas get overplayed all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:03 AM
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So men can have "status" on their own, but the best or only way women can get "status" is by being with a man? This just confirms that women are less treated as persons than men. Can you show me where I even implied that? Can a poor person only get money by marrying rich? What? Expecting men to be responsible fathers, is not the objectification of men The conversation wasn't narrowed down to parameters of pregnancy and paternity, the objectification of both sexes is far outside established relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:00 PM
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Sure. The same way men objectify women as good prospects for mothers who will make strong intelligent children? Do you accept that each sexes view can be framed negatively or positively and that one isn't inherently worse than the other? The equivalent of your perspective is "Men admire women's sexual beauty because they see them as strong and beautiful and able to be good mothers and fierce individuals , whereas women see men as walking wallets and slaves or rapists". That's the actual equivale…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:39 AM
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Less than that. Men are just vessels for the money , status etc they provide. Where do you even get off pretending women don't treat men as objects this isn't a university echo chamber
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:46 AM
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Be me I am a woman. want attention idea. walk in to room strip naked men swarm at me they are all ugly MEN ARE CREEPS
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:58 AM
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But a woman's body is an object in nature just like a man is an object in nature. This isn't a philosophical debate about what a soul is but rather two biological organisms lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:54 AM
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I just can't understand why this doesn't apply backward. It's degrading for me to invest in her if she's not willing to pay for a $200 date etc. Like how does the entitlement balance out? It's just bizarre to me that you think that's somehow just or balanced, it's completely lopsided, entitled and narcisstic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:57 PM
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I got sucked in to Destiny after he started Vyvanse and did his whole red pill arc and his open relationship shit has blown up so hard a few times now that I think he's over it. Especially with his recent scandal . It's funny actually because his own community roasts him and holds him accountable. So many comments like "wow amazing what you can do when you're not simping for e girls eh?" But when you zoom out on it and take his newer mentality in to perspective (rip me for saying this) he is sor…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:53 PM
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PARAGRAPHS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:46 PM
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I have an untested policy of making a woman wait until she can beat Elden Ring before I have sex with her, but I'm afraid I will never get sex again if that's the case. Still I am waiting for the chosen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:36 PM
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I always try to keep things balanced. You've probably noticed but woman bully themselves too. Once they are really committed to trying to change their ways they deal with a lot of guilt , at least the ones that do, and that's when it's tempting to play captain save a hoe but at least some women are capable of conscious growth and evolution in their character, I've found that to be true , though that won't matter for 85% of guys since those women still won't be attracted enough to date them haha.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:07 PM
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My own experience now in my mid 30s is that younger women have public boyfriends their own age and then older guys on their phones they can circle back on every few months, text for something exciting before returning back to posts about how sweet their boyfriend is. Blue pillers will cry and downvote me saying ohhh that's just a bad woman bro ohhh. I don't think that's the case. I think this is a sizable amount of very attractive women . If you think a chick in her 20s whose fit and good lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:05 PM
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No one can change my mind about anything bro. My mental state is perfect. I know people bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:00 PM
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As opposed to Beta Billy the skinny fat alcoholic whose wife gets obese after 3 shitty kids and he spends his days watching sports with the boys once a week when she allows it and otherwise at home talking on Facebook? Wooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:00 PM
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😭I want to say yes but the mods might think I'm being serious. So no. Face me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:41 PM
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Who are you and how do you come to this conclusion? This is the basic experience of most men, does it offend you personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:32 PM
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You're just saying the most basic obvious reality of the game , which means you are about to be gaslit in to oblivion lol. Have been and am the same guy as you are man. It just is what it is. Your post is a reminder to blue pillers but they would rather take us down than stop coping and face reality. Gg man stay winning. It's important to be real when others are being simp tards, because you need to be demonstrating real life principles for other guys to understand they aren't insane, especially…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:32 PM
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The Follower gets to pick between leaders, complain if they don't like the leadership, or leave if their needs aren't being met Imagine you have a team of people and you have a person like this vs a person who is hard working, self critical and always asks important questions in order to do a better job. With the first person you as a leader have to do 10x the work whereas the second person is actually doing the work for you. The second person is more than cooperative and more than a follower, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:25 PM
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I still think you have a better chance with the average dude trying to better his life, who has a good head on his shoulders etc. That's the average guy. We are talking about like, well you can probably imagine, actually ugly guys. What you're missing is that "the average guy" is actually pretty fuckin loyal, but to you there is no average lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:21 PM
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Agreed, idk why it sounded like I was being snarky haha my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:19 PM
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Gg. Excellent point. So what are these guys who have no experience supposed to do? It's easy for those of us who are comfortable to be like man just carry on and do your thing don't make a big deal about it reciprocate etc etc but I'm at a loss for solutions to what these young guys who gooned their adolescence away on sissy hypno, like it's impossible to properly empathize with what's happening for them. I understand a lot of the male impulses but is this just going to be some sort of natural s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:05 PM
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And how do you establish that without spaces like work environments where you're consistently exposed to the person? It's almost impossible. Which is why all though reductive and not allowed on this sub for good reason, black pill and looks based thinking is super important. Like the mods discovered though I'm sure, I've discovered it's just repetitive to discuss since it's so immutable. Still doesn't hurt to read something like this though that makes it so abundantly clear. You walk in a room a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:12 PM
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What you're missing is that the concept actually reduces the surprise of any awkwardness ahead of time and gives the person a chance to prepare. There's almost no way this doesn't reduce how awkward the woman the man is approaching feels. Again though this is dealing with young age people I guess because if I tried that at 35/yo with a woman she'd be like k buddy good meme you want pussy or not gtfo of here with that shit. I think this strategy is actually really good for those in their 20s but …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:21 AM
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Op addressed all this in the post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:15 AM
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Medium ugly sounds like cognitive psycho salad for "average looking but my friends would scoff at me". So that tracks lol. Man the term "A chance" is like the grossest thing that women say that has been overlooked my entire life. Whenever I hear it I'm just like oh yeah, women truly do believe they are sooooo oppressed in the west. Edit: actually it sounds like a steak. I'll have a medium ugly boyfriend please
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:10 AM
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Yeah this is very intentional. It's proven by the fact that if an ugly dude cheats on a chick they will often be more upset by the fact that he's not even good looking and dared. By ugly I mean, equal to the her in looks, which most women would consider ugly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:26 PM
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"If your gf is being cruel and withholding all love and affection in order to manipulate you and another chick is jumping on your back and hitting you and saying FUCK ME FUCK ME FUCK ME, you should consider it. "
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:24 PM
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When it's easy to catch fish you assume you must be a great fisherman. Then the fish are gone now you realize shit I have to learn about fish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:30 PM
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You know, our economic issues here in the west really aren't that bad. Ever since I became a multimillionaire I sort of noticed...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:17 PM
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Not really the way I personally think but it's basically "de-flowered", somewhere along the spectrum of hymen being broken and penetration with a penis. I don't know why it's vague tbh. Personally I would define it as before someone has had sexual intercourse because the real obsession with virginity is about not getting accidently pregnant . Basically you need to understand the risks with sexual intercourse historically. If a woman had sex and got pregnant she would be in deep shit if there was…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:54 PM
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I mean the bulk of those as basically under 25s. Doesn't sound men are the problem in that situation, especially since the issue doesn't repeat with single fathers. Why is that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:54 AM
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It's economics even though people get butthurt and see that as somehow evil to say. Every relationship has contingencies whether acknowledged or not , sometimes it's just not necessary to say it all outloud because it works. Ultimately it's like a job. You get hired and get a fair pay and benefits and if everything's good and you've got a good flow and feel fulfilled you probably will keep working at it, otherwise people will look elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:21 PM
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The principle is good but the practice will be self defeating. Any guy with options is going to pick up on the fact that she's digging for money and bounce. Most women I've talked to will try to extract money from guys they don't want but know better than to demand the princess treatment from a guy they actually want and respect because they will get dropped hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:59 PM
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It's post post-ironic . It's right back around to unironic. OP just isn't cool and doesn't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:57 PM
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So what you're saying is what you're doing isn't working but you're saying it's the best option And I'm saying there's ways to que attention by other means but you're saying that's not true. So. Good luck doing what you do I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:41 PM
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Is it one of Freud's ideas? Either way it's the equivalent, can't pick and choose what you weaponize
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:27 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:24 PM
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Yeah, you're just repeating what you said originally. Quality over quantity, but whatever you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:24 PM
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I think you responded to the wrong person or something. What I was talking about is that it's a mistake to dress revealingly to increase your odds of a guy you want to make an approach making an approach because guys who are experienced with women will see it as a tell that you are leading with sexuality, just like men who lead with wallets get used. Not that it seems you are capable of hearing that but for those interested, that's the usual outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:15 PM
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This is a good post imo and calling out more bullshit in the modern red pill manosphere is key. 2010s red pill / PUA stuff was definitely less forgiving because skinny fat soppy neck beards hadn't tried to co-opt it yet as a reason to complain about and hate women. This was all zyzz or whatever his name as era stuff, like when body building forums were active and mid 20s masculinity was in its prime , where the ideal girlfriend was the girl with BPD you picked up at the bar or club and ran in to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:35 PM
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Nothing is more device based than the ideas sorrounding marriage. It's like total power exchange where the government and your ex wife shoves a vibrator up your ass and she can press the button whenever she's busy having sex with her new lover or spending the childcare you give her on new bags and fake nails. Meanwhile your kids are neglected because you have no custody and she's busy texting on Instagram about how she's so strong for being able to survive in this world after your abuse and all …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:25 PM
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Good men also don’t base their goodness and morals on if it gets his dick wet or even any sort of reward. The only thing he should expect is mutual kindness or at least human decency This sort of rule creating is exactly why single mothers cause irreperable damage to their sons and those sons disproportionately end up in prison or homeless at as much 80% of the represented population. Just do EVERYTHING bro and you get human kindness and decency bro that's what you get for it all. Don't explore …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:15 PM
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inhales deeply aw yeah. That's some good copium. Now watch me tear up the dance floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:09 AM
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Glad I can help paint a vision of a bright new future. I like the fact that someone read it and was just like upset and confused and uncomfortable and was like I don't like it downvote lmao. I thought it was beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:03 AM
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I agree and this is important for generalists to remember. On the other hand there are general differences that are indisputable like height, body weight, bone density, etc etc. I always notice that some people use generalizations a lot to the point they are obtuse and then others are hyper specific and refuse to acknowledge generalizations in this conversations. I'm not really allowed to explain what I think is actually the mechanism behind OPs experience but I suspect it has more to do with ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:00 AM
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Wouldn't it be a lot easier to just approach a guy you want and not have to dress to impress? The girl with the pretty face, bright eyes and good conversation skills hiding an athletic body under a grey hoodie is far more interesting to have mind sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:48 AM
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She wants an example from EVERY man doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:44 AM
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This is the Madonna-Whore complex g. It's the same thing and it's been around and used to degrade men's sexual priorities much longer than any of these modern bullshit terms. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:44 AM
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The most charitable interpretation is that looks as a base requirement for relationships is a much lower bar than looks, status, money etc which are all things men must accomplish to have the same pull as women do. When men talk about this what they are really trying to say is that they have to be better than the women they date by a significant margin. You'll also hear guys say that highly successful men prefer women who are successful or have accomplished things in their own right , and that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:38 AM
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You're off here in terms of blame placing. All relationships are transactional because life , the world, reality, is based on value and discernment. You can't live without food, air, water, etc, so automatically someone who theoretically gets in the way of that would be only loveable via self sacrifice or your willingness to devour them. Because of that innate equality, all relationships are transactional including your relationship with the room you're sitting in right now or the phone you're u…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:35 AM
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That's plain stupid. Women are just people So are men in women the same or are there fundamental differences? If so, what are they and do you think that they would contribute to different outcome in behavior, values or lifestyle decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:33 AM
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Women don't need to get money from men in the 21st century. There are a lot of women who out earn a lot of men. Good thing women aren't asking, demanding or using sex to get money from men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:31 AM
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Yup. People build their entire lives in to this trickle down sexonomics type thing as though the visceral desire and fulfilment they get from their husbands is half that that they got from chasing guys when they were younger and hotter. At least half the women gloating here and gaslighting you guys will be divorced in a few years , statistically, so remember that when you're talking to them because that's the real lesson, how confident they are despite them being just a statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:28 AM
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Lol you're right on point but remember people will always always find a way to weasel out of this when confronted directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:22 AM
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These people are not actually out playing the feild and shit man. Modern women coming through college and in to the work force literally have beard boyfriends just like gay men in the closet have wives. Just guys they can post on social media with to appeal normal while they are getting folded in half elsewhere. People will read that and say ohh it's always been that way!! But the reality is that very few men will ever turn women on the way the guys they choose for hookups do, and the women here…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:20 AM
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RP explicitly states and puts the responsibility on men first in its most authentic forms/interpretations. The guys who are not actually doing what they are supposed to and complaining are not "red pill". It's just an outline of rules of attraction and what sort of things you can expect to happen if different circumstances arise, just simple rules based game theory shit based on observations. So you're 100% right. This extends to the newer culture around passport bros as well. Actual Red Pill co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:15 AM
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Can I have my promised harem now pls. Uwu
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:22 PM
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A better way to get the point across I think would be "If sex were guaranteed with someone you found attractive once a week, how would this effect society" And the answer imo is men and women would be much more in shape , more productive at work and less worried and anxious about things lol. Then the assumption that one day you would be magically"paired" with your ideal partner when you were ready through this weekly pairing thing would be what carries the desire to build . Society would be dope…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:19 PM
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If sex and intimacy stopped being a phenomenon entirely and we just assumed people could divide to reproduce whatever that is called lol , it would definitely devolve in to some sort of caste system and not even necessarily based entirely on strength idk. For the first few iterations it would be the strongest men taking control of everything and instead of just killing other men at like a 9/1 ration of men to women they would ACTUALLY start killing women as often as men and that would be a reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:06 PM
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I think marriage is just an excuse peoole use to let themselves have slack in maintaining a relationship, these days, so I can’t disagree with OP
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:54 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:22 PM
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I really don't think that's the situation that people are talking about or anything that socially retarded. It's more like, you have coffee a few times and then some shit starts getting overshared or you're clearly upset about something or at someone, then women are like woaaaaahhhhhh buddy !!!! Red flag red flag!! Whereas women can break down crying date two about how awful xyz is and men will be like m'lady please let me give you money and carry you to a mountain retreat run by Zen monks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:51 PM
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Fair enough haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:27 PM
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Why 4 minutes? Just to keep it in an elevated range? Running also uses completely different systems of muscles and stuff. Imo it will keep you more well rounded and do far more for your cardio, I am not convinced it's as catabolizing as people think rather it's relative to your general stress and deficit amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:24 PM
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Cardiovascular health is important tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:18 PM
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Talking works for releasing stress in to the mind and it can be addressed and organized more easily for some if that makes sense. It really works for women's biology better. Physical exertion for men seems to deal with the emotional and self esteem aspects which I think the price of failure or incompetence for men tends to be deep shame if they are mentally well adjusted , paradoxically, as pathological types like narcisstists have no overt shame at all. Talk, after heavy exercise and exertion, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:11 AM
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Like I just said I don't make the rules neither do any guys who know this simple truth about the male experience. We just say it and then people complain haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:35 AM
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3 days a week yeah. And going to sleep at 9pm probably, on those three days. It's not a priority but there's consequences for that. I don't make the rules man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:34 AM
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Yeah say hi and compliment them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:20 AM
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This is why I keep saying that feminists subconsciously want a caste system. The creepy men are almost universally ones seen as very sub par "mating material" in women's eyes. Not that they are more or less dangerous but I think the instinct is based around a fear of pregnancy resulting from rape. I don't know if it's possible for women to be completely comfortable in a society where they are constantly surrounded by and exposed to these men. I am not convinced it's a hard wired problem either b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:18 AM
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When I was in my early 20s being a tard Gooner I was still doing physical training type things , and I'd see exactly the sort of depression people get and hopeless mentality people have online when I went more than a few days. I was still pretty degenerate too but if you haven't trained in a few months or weeks, even starting with a body weight 45 minute plan at home (which is way better than nothing and even better than going to the gym in a lot of ways), there has been a clear pattern for me m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:58 AM
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Yes but male biology is different than women's biology. Hard work is key but putting that effort in the right place is important and dedicating a few hours to mastering your body and impulses / instincts with training a few times a week is crucial for men , whose whole history has been hard labor and war. At this point in society though I guess it's worth questioning even that anymore as people's general health and environmental circumstances are so depressive even in first world countries. Eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:51 AM
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People also do it on their lunch breaks. That's why gyms have showers and private lockers you can rent. You could go more often if you're lacking an outlet otherwise which many people do, but that's just an option I put out there because you're bitching about nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:46 AM
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3 times a week , in the morning. 1 hour of strength training, half hour of cardio and stretching, half hour drive there and back. Get home, shower, start your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:44 AM
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I didn't read the post because I'm tired af but I just want to say if you're a guy and not going to the gym or taking care of your body and health, you don't get the right to complain when it comes to dating and no one should take you seriously. Same goes for mental health issues. Diet, exercise, sleep, minimal substance use. These things are priorities and have to be prioritized whether you like it or not. Pathologies are exceptions but otherwise no one should be taking you seriously. Cope if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:32 AM
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So many questions can just be answered by "sex". Why would an adult man want dating an 18-24 year old they don't have anything in common!!!! Gee idk. Why would out of shape women want fit hot generally attractive guys ?!? Makes no sense! They don't even have the gym in common! Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Make you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:55 PM
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Men don't let women spend his money ? .... Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:42 PM
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When you need help it's not going to be women who help you, it will be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:36 PM
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More like 100-200 years ago but for the vast amount of human history people didn't really have the privilege of adjusting their relationships to more favorable circumstances, which is what you're describing here imo. It wasn't until wealth and technology enabled us to actually individualize a bit. Before that it was like "Yeah that old battle axe of a wife she's got hands like a fuckin oxs hoof but I'll tell ya she don't break easy" and women were like .... "That ole Earl better be back from the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:54 PM
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So are you saying that virtually all women have insecure attachment disorder or whatever it is called How did you gather that, just curious what your reasoning was to pull that out of what they wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:49 PM
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His disposable income increases because his wife isn't spending it so that helps at least lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:42 PM
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It's always a question of self preservation first. Women are by evolution incentivized to be more self preservationist and solipsistic imo, which heavily correlates with narcissism. If the family is threatened, the father is expected to face the threat and be willing to die so that the woman can escape with the children or something else. That's the optimal and basic survival strategy which is then reinforced by coalitions of men working together to be stronger. Women literally play god to child…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:46 PM
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Ah yeah. I guess I'm just of a different opinion that it doesn't matter much how you get there the result is pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:06 PM
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Not necessarily behaves but they ARE that way. It's just whether you spot it on a first date or not. I was trying to be charitable but basically, I don't see why it matters. Some people prefer to know what they are dealing with upfront, personally I do. People with abuse are heavily stigmatized as it is so idk why not just be like yeah let a rip let's hear it all. Why does it matter , the person themselves is the same person either way. : s, the only thing that changes is your own emotional perc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:36 PM
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Civilizations has made me a man in 48 hours. Before that game came out I was just a boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:26 PM
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That was a much more sophisticated conversation direction than my shit post deserved but yes absolutely lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:26 PM
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I've never been old so I'll have to do my own research when I get there tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:25 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:24 PM
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Same here and a similar mental vision of the human critter like single mothers that have given in to nesting instinct like giant marsupials since they got pregnant at 20. To all decent human taste /. expectations, the "average" is for lack of a better word trash, which is why being even a bit lean and fit,. having clear skin, already sets you far ahead of the average and gives you more SMV. Looks are the easiest way to increase SMV and anyone can do those things. That's why I can't really tolera…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:20 PM
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There might seem to be a right or wrong way (which is already kind of fucked imo) but men clearly are expected to balance the expression of their emotions with their girlfriend/wives emotions considered first and foremost, which is hilarious to me that this is still going over looked. Meanwhile women will blow up at men and we are like :') wtf why is she trippin. It's like novel entertainment more than anything because emotion unrefined is so hard to respect. I suppose that's the issue at the en…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:12 PM
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Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:09 PM
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People who are abused are often conditioned to be that way (duh) so they can't really be anyone else. Those people are just being themselves, which is why being yourself never works if you're a man and were abused as a child. Alternatively you can try to work through it and hide it but people will still sus it out. So yeah. Your instinct is probably just telling you that they don't have it fully under control yet. No guarantees if they will in a relationship either but at least if they can put i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:09 PM
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Men are allowed to express their emotions when and how women deem it appropriate. Just say it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:01 PM
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Just start scraping "M X M" on people's door frames with your keys and they will assume they've been marked by a cult or gang
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:46 AM
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But are they men or women or. I knew a guy in to futanari which was actually pretty cool so now I'm wondering if you can put all three together but I'm guessing the answer is probably yes haha. I personally have never had a good enough imagination to really get aroused by hand/computer made things , I'd have to translate it in to real people in my head and depending on the extent of the fantasy that could be terrifying haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:39 AM
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Can you put the both together like a puzzle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:32 AM
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Wait sorry I think I confused this with another thing I see on Reddit a lot, like super obsessive possessive crazy girlfriends? I think it starts with a y or something. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:27 AM
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Red pill usually says the blame is entirely on the man's shoulders because you can't expect women or children to take accountability for anything anyway lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:25 AM
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With the fucking wait staff Reddit meme again here we go
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:24 AM
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Isn't it just reality ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:23 AM
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But many of them will never find a partner of high desirability. They will settle. That is cruel but that's life also.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:22 AM
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To be the bearer of bad news, I've met dozens of above average attractiveness, intelligence, and disturbingly degenerate women in my time and they are all the same as any other in terms of the bar of entry and how to really connect with them in terms of just interest and generally engaging. The difference is obviously more in the sexual or sensual aspects and also what winds them up psycho-sexually for lack of a better word, and then in terms of behavior they are obviously fun and exciting peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:18 AM
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This is an actually substantive post and requires and is deserving of respectful and thorough responses from you degenerates. My own personal opinion is that MTV, hot topic, pokemon and a few other brain rotting cultural trends completely broke the spirit of heinous murders. Instead of coldly calculating what was the most effective way to perform their task, instead of actually developing a killers persona they over indulged in anime and hentai until they became perverse abominations. 2000 onwar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:53 PM
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I don't understand why it's confusing at all. If she gives you IOI don't talk to her, if she does and you really want to then do it. But like if she's not paying attention or hasn't noticed you at all? Why even bother breaking in to her world lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:28 PM
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Sounds like the definition of "masculine" needs some fleshing out in this context. Like when we are talking biological masculinity, that's clearly more than just systematizing. Insects systemize far more effectively than people for the most part, so insects should be considered hyper-masculine by this theory. It raises a lot of questions about human nature and production and exploitation etc. Hyper masculine insects are fearless hyper efficient executors with no self interest, all in service of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:58 PM
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"I am on the path tho please can I have some poos uwu"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:41 PM
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Wew I was starting to get insecure reading this thread but as a poor autist your comment put my mind at ease. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:08 PM
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Were they hot as balls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:07 PM
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Obviously it won't be well received for me to say this but for a lot of people living with just above the bare minimum, having a small side hustle and focusing on other things is preferable to grinding and working all the time. There's different types though. I've never been materialistic but I've always been disciplined and ambitious in my own pursuits and that's led me in to certain areas of status and wealth that aren't immediately obvious as I own a bus pass. There's a lot of ways to live. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:59 PM
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You can do it as stupid as a cow if you're greedy, lazy, and hedonistic enough. Just look at America.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:46 PM
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I've seen enough to know that I am out of my depth so if you want you can tell me any bullshit you feel like and I will tell everyone else, as is the way. 👍 Likely not by chance I can get behind as an answer haha.
/r/BlackPillScience10/02/25 08:20 PM
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Playing Baldur's Gate 3 you say? BG3 is my break from gaming let's goooo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:16 PM
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What dudes have options lined up? Oh you mean the high % guys you see on movies and television? Yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:14 PM
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It's slimier than that. It's because they don't feel any urgency to make a move until they might lose their chance. They are gambling it against a better option coming around. It's just a game not anything serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:22 AM
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Well, think of one of the most attractive feminine actresses you know, and say she came up to you and said "I just wanted you to know I think you're interesting and wanted to see if you wanted to go out sometime" Would you say "ewwwww!!! Butch!!!" Of course not. And that's why you never take advice from women lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:07 PM
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I just wanted your attention to say happy valentines day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:41 PM
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Hm. Doesn't seem too significant if I'm understanding correctly then. Still interesting when added together with everything else though I suspect
/r/BlackPillScience09/02/25 07:40 PM
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"Oh ok I guess I guessed wrong woops ", what a waste of time game. It shows she isn't the one serious lol. All women know they have the upper hand and can just ask or say something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:39 PM
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A huge amount of chill women with hopefully interesting life stories to meet, without having to worry about kids and baby daddy issues. Sounds pretty fuckin cool to me. Not much of a way to build a society though haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:10 PM
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True. Especially the manipulators part. Trying to extract value. What % of women commonly approached by men are manipulative that way do you think? I'm not really able to say at all because my regular places these days are pretty upstanding, I think OLD and bars and pubs ratio way higher to manipulative annoying people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:08 PM
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I didn't take her seriously because I knew she was already being catered too and I figured she was out of my league anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:38 PM
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She was petite and blonde and getting rides and shit from other guys LOL. Idk where to begin even you must not spend a lot of time around people if you aren't aware of the shame and humiliation women are eager to put men through for shooting their shot wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:35 PM
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This is quality projection. Speak more about men please
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:29 PM
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Uh, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:20 PM
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I actually didn't take pride in it I was irritated. The level of projection here is a bit nauseating to be honest. A humiliation ritual LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:18 PM
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Since your RPd, how many times have you had women come up beside you and just stand there expectantoy waiting for you to speak ? I’ve had it happen countless times and it has made me lose sympathy for women in dating entirely. Sounds like a meme gloat but in one instance I ignored this chick doing it and biting her lip at me so many times she burst in to tears and stormed off . Like dude you can use words right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:10 PM
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It does kind of suck having to put in effort when women don’t , most guys real just need to stop trying to be jesters and enjoy life single. Women clown hard for guys they actually want .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:07 PM
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Cool man were you actually contributing something there or just saying words
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 01:21 PM
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Thank you for trying but I still don't understand. Isn't 14% close to 10th percentile, like 14th percentile. 😭. I know you're not getting paid enough for this so if you don't care to explain it's cool.
/r/BlackPillScience09/02/25 09:16 AM
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True that. I mean it's clear it does happen but I guess I'm just saying I've realized in time there's actually a lot that has to go down for a false accusation to get through the bullshit and take hold. Especially because , like one bad actor will still be often questioned by her own friends as she talks about it with them. People and even women are more honest than one would give them credit for about this type of thing. There's a huge difference between "omg ew he's a creep " and "he did what?…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:18 AM
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Results: At 9 months, 24% of mothers reported mild depressive symptoms and 17% moderate/severe symptoms. After adjustment for household, maternal, and child factors, children of mothers with moderate to severe levels of depressive symptoms at 9 months' postpartum had a 40% increased odds of being ≤ 10% in height-for-age at age 4 (odds ratio = 1.40, 95% confidence interval: 1.04-1.89) and 48% increased odds of being ≤ 10% in height-for-age at age 5 (odds ratio = 1.48, 95% confidence interval: 1.0…
/r/BlackPillScience09/02/25 12:04 AM
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I mean the stats obviously matter but you're saying not to be misled by stats is what I am gathering from what you wrote which is smart. So take all the factor of your specific demographic and a prospective partner, look at statistics with those factors in mind for a more accurate base and hopefully your general rate of success is higher like 70% at least , then from there vet a partner based on your personal criteria and their own history, family background etc. This is really the only way to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:36 PM
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I guess people are different too I'm not a good person to judge peoples social intentions, so maybe for the majority of guys who complain about a lack of male spaces, what's available is plenty good if they are deliberate, for me there's no answer anyway but I don't complain particularly either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:51 PM
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I said some would but idk maybe it's similar to why women spend 80% of the consumer spending on fake nails and bags. Everyone is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:39 PM
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I think a lot of guys would rather self delete but that's cool. Beggars can't be choosers I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:19 PM
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Yeah but I mean what is the change they are talking about, because I don't know what that is. Like in terms of third party spaces idk what has changed in the last 10 years or so but You used to be able to go to small on foot pubs, restaurants, gaming bars, groups of varying kinds etc in the city I live in and now almost all those places have shut down and the the group's have diminished in numbers a lot too, for varying things from hobbies and interests to education to mental health services. Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:15 PM
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Why is there such a cultural conversation about the removal of third party spaces then like in an apoltical non partisan context I mean. Are they dumb ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:10 PM
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Probably a bit of both, worsened by the erasing of third party spaces culturally as well. There obviously has been a systematic dismantling of male spaces which we've talked about in this thread elsewhere, and that's played a significant role also. A lot of what would probably be healthy for male engagement and socialization is learning how to do things which on average make men feel more competent and confident, like boy Scouts was intended to, or varying difficulties of apprenticeship and ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:06 PM
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Sure? I'm pretty sure most guys just don't like spending a lot of time around other guys tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:59 PM
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I see your point in that sense for sure. There’s just an interest gap in some places more or less
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:53 AM
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Hm alright I take your point, male groups get bashed a lot for not being more inclusive though. I member twitch whining and then bam hot tub meta. dont get me wrong I like seeing women at gyms lol but they definitely go where the men are at too, I think with barbershops you’re pretty right. and I’ll give you whisky clubs to be charitable. so if I want to find male only spaces I should play darts, test whiskey and visit the barber for a shave every week. idk. I think I’ll just stay in my room and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:17 AM
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Male Only leagues I can get behind. i havent heard of male only gyms barbershops booze groups or nerd groups though . I’m curious af if you have any examples because I can’t logically understand how they would get away with it honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:59 AM
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Provide examples of male only spaces please
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:18 AM
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terf masons not so good. jk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:17 AM
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Create male only space —-> women get irritated they can’t join —-> complain get access —-> immediately start sexualizing themselves —> place turns to shit. Pubs, sports related clubs, Boyscouts, all had common male only variants. Now it’s pretty much unheard of for a male only pubs or bars now it’s drug dealers chasing half naked women around. gyms used to be mostly men now it’s half naked women doing instagram. it all got labeled chauvinistic if women couldn’t join, that’s how things changed sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:16 AM
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Just join the free masons bro, it’s easy to find male only spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:09 AM
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WOMAN
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:24 PM
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Anyone who posts in subs like this I’m immediately like dude get a life , it’s over for me but you have hope
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:24 PM
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That is wildly stupid lol. on the other hand, I’m pretty sure women often compromise things they don’t want so they can avoid any potential conflict so when they go along with things in order to “protect themselves “ and end up worse off, idc really. Almost all the time that women let bad shit happen it’s because they are afraid of something bad happen, I stand by my point that “cmoooonnnn I’ll be sad if you don’t :( :( :(“ and women going “ok fine” is on their own accord not the whiny dude pres…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:17 PM
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Tbh I’ve never known anyone arrested for a false accusation but I’ve seen men trespassed from places and given restraining orders for no reason other than man bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:52 PM
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My point is that it’s hyperbolic to bring up because those guys are usually repeat offenders. The majority of sober conscious men are going to be in tears, they can’t even say no to sending strange women thousands of dollars for free, lmao. Maybe with drugs and BDSM things get fucjed up and it’s also common that people don’t properly understand their own boundaries and end up in over their heads but for someone to be like “ok I’m out safeword is potato” and the other person keeps going is insane…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:51 PM
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Id date a super hot high IQ rich af otherworldly beautiful woman given the opportunity suprising to no one so I agree with this, it’s just a situationally consistent privilege but definitely not baked in and therefore I think it can be written off as some truth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:15 PM
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He can’t even read. He lives in one of dozens of farms along a stretch of land or in a small muddy village where people haggle over the price of shitty carrots, chickens and tools. You think he has a choice about any of that shit ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:49 AM
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Imo authenticity is almost always a positive because it puts truth before feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:47 AM
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the elite invented it to control mate selection because top competing men were hoarding land and women lol. Joe Dirtboot didn’t invent anything but women seem to insist he’s historically been Stalin and i don’t understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:59 AM
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Just like genie from Aladdin
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:04 AM
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Any woman who doesn’t like crog make crog sad. Those women want crog hit in head so they feel better. Crog happy, women happy. Now crog have soft.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:03 AM
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If a woman gets in to be with me she should expect to be injected with acid in her brain unless she specifically says otherwise damnit !
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:01 AM
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They do, or the women suggest it first. Abusers are a small % of men as we all know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:59 AM
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24/7? What the fuck are you even talking about man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:57 AM
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Rough like awoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:57 AM
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And that man goes to jail and is labeled a domestic abuser, less than 1% of the male population. I wish people could keep that in mind when discussing these sort of things
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:56 AM
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Confidence issue you can do it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:54 AM
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Mostly women shame women for being sloots too though because I mean, women do be getting a little bit jealous and catty time to time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:53 AM
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“At least light bdsm “ is definitely conservative compared to the shit I’ve seen out here 🫥
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:51 AM
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I can imagine this tard logic because so many women know they are “supposed“ to appear demure and selective but with online dating women tend to be uncharacteristically authentic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:18 AM
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lol another golden reference. So much bullshit in life is the proverbial call of duty lobby , you see it everywhere. Especially with rumour spreading which tends to be the forte of women and some highly estrogenic men, unless it’s directly impeding your work you can simply brush it off with the knowledge that whatever is being said about you, several people are going to get the same treatment over the next year and many others already have, so these things get shrugged off easily in adulthood. l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:10 AM
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True man I appreciate your response. “Immature Savages” honestly describes women’s behaviour, well most noticeably for me younger ones, so well. It’s sort of why I realized words and language and sentiment and all that shit alone mean pretty much nothing. Most of the blue pill morality Is based on the assumption that the people you are dealing with are incentivized to care. Young women given all the power to behave exactly as they please with almost no consequences, how do you speak reason to a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:04 PM
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I mean I don’t know why it’s so easy for me to avoid clearly toxic information sources, but I think a lot of it is to do with how messages have subtle tones of entitlement. A lot of the novel and very temporary impactful characters right now, like Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson (though to be accurate I don’t equate them they just happen to fit the profile), clearly have a sort of vibe that is off putting when you listen to them speak. Obviously they get clipped for saying stupid shit but in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:57 PM
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Well the fact that they are socially outcasted and subject to mockery and then voluntarily remove themselves from the gene pool because some obese mid 40s Chud told them it’s a good idea is funny and sad af, there’s no getting around that . It is tragic life pushed them in to those circumstances in the first place, as I am guessing no one would actually choose to be so entombed in bitterness, I think it’s a form of social control implicit to human evolution to shame others to control them via pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:25 PM
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I can see why you’d see it that way, in a similar way not having kids and passing on your genes would make one “less of a man”. I personally enjoy sophisticated solutions to problems that don’t have detrimental effects once carefully considered especially surrounding sex lolol. In its full, male biology without need for cultural adhesion is basically rape, pillage, destroy, and women aren’t much better I guess. The ideal masculine role is far from realized by almost any culture consistently exce…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:47 PM
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why didn’t it break you down like most of the dudes online or those who become butter, do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:27 AM
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Monks becoming eunuchs is not the same thing man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:18 PM
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I like your attitude tbh and being able to get others to feel relaxed and confident is definitely a skill that looks don’t contribute too as much as they do to initial attraction. This is the most authentic nuance I like to read and see because there are definitely people who live and love beyond just superficial looks but it’s a damn skill to be able to create it. you’re probably just that rare super charismatic guy. I had a friend growing up who, respectfully to him, was ugly as fuck and he wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:08 PM
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I think if that’s what you feel you need and you have it then it’s healthy to be “content “. ideally we find someone who is walking our path already and that we just effortlessly fall in line with, since that minimizes friction. nothing was more annoying for me trying to date than realizing the person I was talking to was a night owl and being like yeah I will definitely never not be a morNing person. It seems trivial like “well couldn’t you change that for the right person?” But for irrational …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:26 PM
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I just want to thank you for the term “Blue Steel Selfie”🤳
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:41 PM
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Marriage is for people who want the ability to let shit slide and have their partner be highly discouraged from challenging them on it. This is for men and women and since most people seek security to their own detriment, marriage appeals to those who mutually want that false sense of security. Of course we all know how most marriages turn out, and that means that a large % are also miserable but still married. The oath people have to take to be lovers is taken daily, imo, and a result of action…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:39 PM
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Many of our issues which get mired in gender debates are actually just discussions of luxury for people to indulge in. historically we have always needed people for better or for worse. Abuse of different kinds and compromise beyond what’s just was necessary. Turns out once you give people the capacity to live with more autonomy, which has occurred almost entirely due to technological and economic reasons, (I could make a strong argument that women were liberated from poverty and luditism instea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:33 PM
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Not to circle jerk but I agree and your post was pretty thorough even if I did disagree. The only things I can push back on a bit are that men uniting will often be in a practical area, so the perception that MAGA etc will help with economic issues (not my view), remove government corruption etc is what men see as a win for men. That’s the way men tend to “cooperate”. I also agree with your last point strongly, that men need to have more empathy for men. Contrary to public belief mkst of the men…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:16 PM
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In terms of the social messaging of “he for she”, and patriarchy theory (which is just theory with specific traits in feminist theory), there’s a huge gap in liberation, or liberalism I guess would be ok to say in this context. You can see this with economic and the early liberal revolutions also, as economics began to slowly loosen the chokehold old order structures (like religious, feudal lords etc) had over their population . The initial change brought a lot of good, as did feminism (despite …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:01 PM
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