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And even then, LV fathers and brothers can still feel entitled to you and gaslight the hell out of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:13 PM
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She said that preemptively in preparation for the flooding of “it’s not like that for every porn actress!” and “I consume ethical porn!” (as if there is such a thing). Im trying to remember that. I do appreciate how she basically says “you do you, but know you’re jerking your peen to rape. So own that shit, you get aroused by the abuse of women.” though. Like own your perversion you fucking pathetic entitled lacking of empathy creeps. Fuck y’all. You’re disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 11:17 PM
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In theory, I’d love to free my nipples. Just like any man can. However, until we reach equality in other ways, I can’t get behind it. We’re so hyper-sexualized as is, men would ruin it. It’s not safe for women to do this for as long as we are victimized disproportionately and are viewed as sex objects. Places like Finland where everyone gets naked with everyone else in public saunas every single day from birth…they’re closer to it than we are. Bodies are just bodies, and there’s no mystery there…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:50 PM
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Well you gotta tell us so we can roast the man, come on now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:34 PM
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I do this too. I keep a jar of coconut oil in my shower just for this purpose. Swish it while I shampoo/conditioner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:02 PM
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Ugh the car one is so true, but I never made the connection between that and the lack of escape. Now that you’ve mentioned it, I can’t stop thinking of examples.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 02:28 PM
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I’ll take “My Worst Nightmare of All Time” for 1,000. Good lord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 11:10 PM
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I love this, holy hell what a pathetic asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:06 AM
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I say it’s always always worth it. I uplift my sisters and meet them where they’re at regardless of their pick me ways. I just keep my voice consistent that they deserve more and better, and a way to do that is building yourself up and setting standards. But I try not to judge or dismiss them entirely, because that shit ain’t gonna help. We all learned through mistakes and failures. I don’t think there’s a single lady on this sub that doesn’t have a pick me cringe story in their past. I also bel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:31 AM
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Um hi, I love this. I love that our FDS ladies decide whether or not their voice will be heard, but will be getting paid either way. Y’all are geniuses. Plenty will say no hater in their right mind would pay for this, but we all know they will. Just perfect. Love you all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:13 PM
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Lol if my SO did this I would immediate call him in like “uh, wtf is this? Are you an idiot? I ain’t gonna build a life with you if you can’t even build bedsheets bruh tf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:25 PM
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My current partner travels pretty regularly, and it works well for us because I do as well. One thing that’s nice is whenever he does travel, I always have an open invite with paid expenses. So a lot of the times I do join him! But I do have my own things going on so if it interferes we just spend a few days apart. Same goes for my trips. For example, the employment study I’ve been running for the last several years just ended so I booked a month for myself in a warm state. Told him he’s welcome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:05 PM
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Please listen to everyone telling you to leave. It’ll be hard, but you gotta do what you gotta do. I just wanted to say it’s almost funny how condescending he is to you, when he’s the middle aged man RENTING A ROOM with several other young professionals. Like if he’s your dad’s age doing that, he ain’t shit. It’s pathetic, he knows it, and you wanting nothing to do with him makes him feel even more pathetic so he’s just gonna be angry pufferfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 02:52 PM
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I was gonna say something similar haha… we all see how delusional this guy is, but let’s not forget how women are socialized. He might not even be as delusional as we think with all the women out there ready to welcome this kind of shit show with open arms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:57 PM
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It’s in TX too.. like they really made abortions illegal and punishable in civil court ffs. Why on earth would anyone feel empowered doing sex work in a state that legally utterly violates their civil rights? These people don’t even see you ladies as fucking human beings, stop giving them even more of yourselves or there will be nothing left for them to take. Breaks my heart really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:18 AM
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Selling the idea of sex work as empowerment is probably one of the most effective moves the patriarchy has ever made in this space. At the end of the day, it’s a select few executive dudes making millions on the backs of exploiting women. No one cums on their faces, or rips open their asshole open for pleasure. These women are sold the lie that it’s empowering and they can be these independent boss bitches. It’s some of the most genius level insidious notions ever really. It’s EXACTLY what the m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:16 AM
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So freaking telling. I vacation alone and with friends all the time, so I know it can be fun. But Oy, the LVM of my past have turned some into nightmares. Most recent one was after about 3 month of dating (he was pretty good during that time) and it was such a shit show I actually dumped him mid trip. He’d gotten black out drunk, accused me of nonsense, called me names, etc. Complete 180. It was funny though because we were staying at my vacation home, driving my Camaro rental lol. So I had a gr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:23 PM
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Demand what I and every woman around me deserves, always. Full stop, no compromises. This world has been built around seeing women as less than human. So I don’t fucking let them. EVER. If I see it happening outside of myself, I do what I can too. I am relentless about it. Any opportunity I can to lift up my sisters I take. Any opportunity to throw oppressive efforts back in the face of men, I do. You know what happens when you do this? You end up with an incredible circle of loving, empathetic,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:28 PM
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Tbh if you’re thinking this hard about it, and making yourself nuts about what they’re thinking and their intentions…I’d just say cut your losses. The right man for you isn’t going to make you wonder, he’s not going to be avoidant, and he’ll be clear about his own intentions and expectations. What you’re describing sounds a bit bread crumby, and honestly you’ll absolutely know when a guy is really into you. He’d make it obvious through his words, actions, and lack of excuses. You wouldn’t have q…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:33 PM
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I sent a man home mid hook-up for not liking my dog lol. My dog is the shit: gorgeous, well behaved, friendly, goofy, playful, so clearly worships the ground I walk on, sleeps with me every night, just the freaking best. Literally impossible not to like. Poor pup was sitting at his feet tail wagging looking for some pets and the dud was like “ew get away from me” So I was like “ew, get away from me” and kicked him outta my house 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:20 PM
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She’s not alone, she has crumb, and crumb isn’t an insecure controlling psycho :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:15 PM
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Omfg imagine being so insecure, you’re threatened by your partner being affectionate to their fucking cat 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:14 PM
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Wow I was so pissed reading this, but holy hell did she handle this like a freaking boss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:39 PM
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You got this sis. It’ll take some time, but my friend- you are NOT broken. There’s a lot of really great advice here, you should certainly take some. The only way we can re-wire our brains from trauma is by creating new, non-traumatic pathways through healthy, safe, and respectful experiences. The brain is an incredible organ, and thanks to our neroplacity, it can always be changed. I’m really sorry you’re going through this, but I’m really happy you’re on the path to self love. You deserve it, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:20 PM
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I couldn’t even get through it tbh. Giving the writer wayyyy too much unearned validation…it was so gross. Like why you trying to help the selfish asshole who’s using someone just for sex under false pretenses?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:26 PM
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It’s taken a lot of fails, but I managed to get there very easily with my current partner. I am extremely independent, accomplished, and widely loved so it was very clear from the get go I know what I deserve. Like “here’s who I am and what I expect, if that sounds good to you, great! If not, you ain’t the one for me and I’ll find who is.” When it came to sex I said straight up I’ll only be intimate when there’s love and exclusivity. Safety reasons aside, I’m at a point in life where I’m only ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 05:16 PM
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This new generation of women y’all, I am here for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:46 PM
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That last message legit chilled me to the bone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:37 PM
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I would throw Angela in there too. Very successful, free spirited, knows what she wants. I think her relationship was a bit more healthy than Booth and Brennan too. She made him work for it and did it on her terms-plus he adores her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:08 PM
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Just no asshole period. His ideal woman is just a torso with titties and a prepubescent vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:01 PM
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Essentially she’s saying we can get caught up in what we think is “potential” in a man we like when in reality we’re fantasizing. If we build a dude up in our minds, we’ll overlook red flags and other behaviors that show this fantasy isn’t true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:42 PM
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Yeah I’m doubting those were false accusations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:40 PM
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I was just thinking about how so much of the comment content is based around our shared shitty experience dating LVM. Oftentimes with multiple different men too. But random scotes call us lady Incels… like we have PLENTY experience dating! Finding a willing dick is LEAST difficult part! Couldn’t be further from incels lmfao. Quality dick is just hard to come by, sometimes trash dick even dresses like quality dick so what’s a girl to do? Vet.Vet.Vet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:28 PM
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Shit if I wasn’t 5’1” and swore of OLD already I would totally do this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:13 PM
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Ugh. I am so heart broken and pissed off. If there was a job where I could just get these women and children out by the bus load I would. Anyone else feeling so hopeless about this? I just wish there was something more I could do. Other than just donating to Afghani non-profit groups that support women I can’t think of much else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:35 PM
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Ugh. I am so heart broken and pissed off. If there was a job where I could just get these women and children out by the bus load I would. Anyone else feeling so hopeless about this? I just wish there was something more I could do. Other than just donating to Afghani non-profit groups that support women I can’t think of much else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:35 PM
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You go girl, I hate him too. 2021 is the year or dumping losers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:40 PM
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Women ruining spidey senses 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:08 PM
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Hi! Tiny defenseless lady who often loves to travel solo to remote locations here: -I always share my location with family members -Share my travel itinerary (flights, rental cars, hotels, campsites, etc) with family. -When casually chatting with rando’s, I ALWAYS make it seem like I’m traveling with friends or a partner. Even with hotel staff, waitstaff, airline staff, etc. If I get food delivered to my room, I always get two beverages, that sort of thing. -I spread my money and cards around to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:05 PM
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Pssh take a screenshot that he logged into it and file a police report online. Doubtful they’ll do anything, but accessing unauthorized accounts is generally illegal. Or use it as a means to get a no contact/harassment prevention order. Next time he does something like that it’d be criminal. Or do both! That’s what I’d do. Fuck him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:52 PM
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Sis, you just made me spit tea all over my expense reports 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:25 PM
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When I saw that thread I immediately thought about how women’s dating gone wrong stories are far more sinister than the “she laughed at me in front of her friends when I was 12:(“ stories in that thread. Men’s greatest fear is to be humiliated by women, while women fear being murdered by men. I think their pathetic stories and the grudges they’ve held onto due to being embarrassed by women shows this theme well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:50 AM
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I’m currently trying to do some of these things now, particularly after reading women who love too much. So far I distanced myself from my partner and we’ve been apart for a few weeks now. Mainly I’m trying to put the energy I’ve spent on the relationship on myself. I’m going to therapy, eating healthy, meditating daily, affirmations daily, going back to school, doing more at work, buying myself gifts, walking outside everyday, reading and journaling daily, etc. I feel pretty good so far. Like I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:17 PM
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It’s actually more about the unending argument cycle. Where victim and prosecutor roles are just switched back and forth with no resolve. “I’m mad bc you did xyz!” “Yeah? Well what about when you did abc?” On and on. So the advice is just not to participate. If he says some shit just be like “oh” and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:06 PM
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I just want to pipe in and remind you that you do not have to take on his burdens anymore. Do what you need to do to take care of yourself and nothing else. Don’t remind him about his car insurance or other bills. Let him figure it out. Don’t box up his shit, have someone haul it to a dumpster or dump it in his parents driveway. When he inevitably asks you for help as he tries to put his life together, ignore him. Try not to let you inability to change him bring you this much stress and anxiety.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:15 PM
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This is hilarious. Most of my creepy DM’s come in late, I just assume it’s because they’re feeling lonely and desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:13 PM
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Ugh I just want this girl to realize how proud she should be of herself. She’s going to level up so hard, and these losers are just going to watch it happen from the dumpster. What a kind driven young woman. She has nothing to feel bad about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:11 PM
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Ugh I hear this so much. I’m 25, blonde and barely 100lbs. Could easily be mistaken for underage. I’ve had dudes say all kinds of things like that and I literally hate it. If a guy I don’t know says anything positive about my appearance (ESPECIALLY saying it’s better than other women) I’m immediately turned off and hate the dude. Like I don’t exist for you to be attracted to, your observation means fucking nothing to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:28 PM
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How am I supposed to “have fun” without an orgasm??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:59 AM
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Also like, men design all these female characters to have skimpy clothing and sex appeal. So unless a girl is going to dress up as a man’s character, she gonna look sexy af. Which seems to be this guy’s problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:26 PM
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The audacity blows my mind every time. You’ll have incredible women inside and out that NEVER give themselves a break. Always looking to improve, are highly critical of themselves, etc. Then you got this guy, walking around like he’s God’s gift to the vagina. Fucking insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:56 PM
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This was legit my partner’s family yesterday. All 7 women were inside cooking, while all the men were outside drinking beer and having shop talk littered with misogynistic, homophobic, and racial comments. It was a beautiful day and I wanted to be outside too, but at first I felt like I was crashing the “man time”. Then I was like, fuck that- so I just sat outside all day too. My partner served my food, washed our plates, kept my drink full, talked me up with his fam, and gave me a piggy back ri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:28 PM
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We got men incapacitated when they sit on their fucking balls funny, dude soccer players throwing themselves to the ground in agony when they stub their freaking toes, and dudes acting like they’re hospice patients every time they get a cold...and they’re the ones writing off our pain? Here you are casually dying of sepsis while getting told you have a UTI. Shit ain’t right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:36 PM
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I actually have a hospital rule that determines when/if I take a relationship to the level of being intimate. Basically, if I got in an accident and was hospitalized, would I 1: even want that person by my side? And 2: would they drop everything to be by my side? Until you’re that person for me, you don’t get to be inside me. If you don’t actually care enough about me to visit, then I don’t care about you enough to fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:38 PM
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I want a poster of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:15 PM
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I still think what you said is a great call out. You looked depravity right in the face, responded with straight up class, and just the right amount of condescension it probably deflated the ego a bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:58 PM
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I was actually going to go in and say this lol. There’s no way he’d improve it anytime soon. He doesn’t even see the problem with it. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:13 PM
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That’s totally what I was thinking. I kept saying to myself like “all relationship horror stories start this way...” and I just knew I needed to do something before then. Strength found, I broke it off a few hours after posting. Thank you for being a part of bringing more clarity to my situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:08 PM
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Totally love bombing, it’s just the actions didn’t match up after a while. Definitely can see right through his emotionally manipulative stuff and have made it a point not to carry around the weight of HIS issues. Thankfully I only started seeing him like less than 3 months ago so it’s been a few weeks of red flaggy behavior. Gut feeling was there, I just kinda waited to see if there would be improvement in his behavior if I spoke up, but it didn’t and the gut feeling never left. I ended up brea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:04 PM
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This feels like a good way to do things. Pick something brief and true and just stick to it- no matter what he comes back with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:55 PM
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That’s kind of how I’ve been the last few days- kinda cool that there’s a concept for it. For me though I think it’s definitely just how I’m really feeling about it. I’m probably not going to do it in person either. Mainly because I don’t want to have to deal with the inevitable meltdown and feel guilty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:50 PM
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Yes that’s exactly what I don’t want to do. I’m so tired of that break up recipe and I just don’t even get it. Like if someone said they didn’t want to be with me I’d find it embarrassing to try to chase and change their mind. I just shouldn’t even allow it to be an option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:42 PM
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You’re totally right. I think it would be better over the phone as well. Also good lord no! We do not live together haha. I’m not gonna live with a man without at least a ring on my finger again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:37 PM
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This is kinda what I’m thinking. My hope is to place the blame on our compatibility rather than any person. I just know I’m gonna get hit with the “you’re perfect for me, so you must just not like me then” and ugh. It’s true, but I just know it’ll hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:47 PM
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I kicked out my man child just before covid and I still relive that glorious experience. Fucking see ya later alligator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:50 PM
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Weird, I never had a guy have to explain to me what I could do to make him cum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:47 PM
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This has been a tool in my belt for so long. Just yesterday some guy asked for my IG handle within the first 10 minutes of messaging with me. He requested to follow and after less than 15 minutes of waiting he goes “Icing me on the follow request I see”. Like bruh it’s the middle of the workday, we just met, and you’re gonna act this important and insecure? Anyways, I just said “Icing?”. So he then had to explain that how he didn’t like waiting more than a few minutes to see my insta. I just sai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:21 AM
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There’s not a whole lot that can be done about it. I hope to see changes in the future, especially with the strides that have been made with human trafficking, objectification of women, etc but we have a long way to go and I doubt we’ll ever get there. As far as sexually repressed men, I find it interesting that porn is seen as the only solution to this. Relationships where I’ve been emotionally fulfilled, supported, listened to, etc frequency and quality of sex was never an issue. Like I’m down…
/r/askFDS10/05/20 02:01 PM
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I know! If a dude addresses men about the pain of accidentally sitting on their balls, I wouldn’t pipe in and say it’s not that bad. I do not have testicles so I cannot make that claim lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:25 PM
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Right? Like a fat old guy in a speedo strutting around is way more offensive to me than seeing nipples through a women’s shirt lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:36 PM
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Thankfully I always block. They’re so dead to me I wouldn’t even notice if this happened lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:00 AM
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Yeah you have no idea what their relationship could be like. I mean, didn’t your own media with him reflect the same stuff? No body posts the bad shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:00 PM
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Yeah at the end of the day the little guy gets the short end of the stick. His absence is going to severely damage the well-being of a human he created. Even if he didn’t want a kid, you’ve got to see how harmful his actions are. It’s not a mistake from “back then”, it’s a mistake that he continues to make each day he chooses not to be a parent to his child. If I fell in love with an absentee parent I’d be horrified. Sounds like the kinda guy that would leave you after a mastectomy because he di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:54 PM
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You’re child free because you take responsibility for your own birth control. Had he done the same, he’d be child free too. So you aren’t on the same standard. Even if his ex was “nuts”, his choice to over-look that so he could get laid should have been your red flag from the get go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:48 PM
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Seriously. If I ever happen to spend time with someone hiding a relationship when I start dating again, I’m putting the dude on blast and telling the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:42 PM
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Ugh I had an ex when I was younger that did this. He’d have these crazy meltdowns and I just couldn’t take it anymore. He actually threw a chair across the room at me. He was freaking out for hours and I told him I was going to call 911. Guess who magically stopped right away? Fucking dick. I threw his car keys out the window and locked my door when he went to get them. Packed up his shit and blocked him the next day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 11:44 AM
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One can only handle so many “wyd”’s before they move on haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:41 PM
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Of course relationships never start this way. It was good in the beginning. He did a LOT of thoughtful and helpful things. It wasn’t until he started fucking up that all those “helpful things” became swords hanging over my head. I’m a social worker, older sister who stepped in when my parents didn’t, and overall a huge caretaker. I don’t do anything and expect something in return- I couldn’t predict or fathom his actions to be self serving because I would never think to do it myself. Basically I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:51 PM
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He totally did. I wish to exist in the ignorant delusion he wades around life in. It was probably because he missed me or needed an ego boost. Sorry bud, not my job anymore. If you need a pick me up I’m sure your mom will tell your how handsome you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:42 PM
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Right??? Rationally I know I’m a freaking catch but I still doubt myself and strive for more. I’ve learned I can no longer tolerate people with 0 ambition. Your friend is probably willing to give 100% for a few weeks until someone gets attached so he can drop down to that 15% comfortably later lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:39 PM
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Omg this hits home for me. Especially the part about putting in effort when they’ve finally sent you over the edge. I’ve had two partners now where I bring up an issues with THEM, and it turns into a pity party where they’re sad about not being good enough and all the sudden I have to make them feel better. The fragile egos of men is just fucking laborious. I didn’t mention it here, but I actually broke up with him for a few months last year. That mother fucker hit the gym, quit drinking, got a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:35 PM
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Dude. WHAT. WHAT. WHAT. WHAT????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 05:08 PM
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I’m working on it, but these are things I would do for anyone really. Friends, family, etc. I think that’s what makes it hard. I like doing things to help people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:37 PM
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I can think of countless examples. A couple weeks into dating I noticed the guy’s clothes were disorganized. He went to work and I spent like two hours organizing his clothes. Same guy wore underwear with literal holes. Saw some on sale and bought him a pack. Another guy I went on like 3 dates with was moving and didn’t have an AC. I had a few kicking around so I brought him one to install. I’d like to point out, these were all shit men but the point is the same. I didn’t think twice and didn’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:37 AM
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This is cute but maybe I’m a little pessimistic. Like think of all the times you’ve paid attention and got a snack a guy liked. Or bought him something or did something he needed. Or made something for him. Idk. I’ve done the equivalent of this guy on a weekly basis for my previous partners. Granted I like doing thoughtful things, but still. Maybe it’s just me, I just feel bad that something as simple as a box of tampons is being so celebrated. Women do that shit constantly and no one throws a p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:29 AM
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I saw that post. I immediately was like wow my FDS girls would chew up and spit this guy out in a heartbeat. What a fucking loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:19 AM
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Imagine being so fragile that when women react poorly to sexual harassment at work you actually think you’re the victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:20 PM
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Doll face! I love that one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 09:58 PM
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It’s stupid but it makes sense. The FDS ideology pretty much squashes their belief system that HVW won’t go for them based on superficial things out of their control. It screws with their victim mentality. If they could find a decent partner by putting in some effort, treating women right, taking care of themselves, etc- then the only person responsible for their misery is themselves. It’s easier to blame women than it is for them to just admit they’re garbage people and that’s why they’re alone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:33 PM
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Fuck that Camry driving dick head. I wish women would learn not to tolerate this shit. Idk why men’s default is just the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 12:14 AM
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Ugh. NEVER AGAIN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:07 PM
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I really like the way you made this list haha. And they are in what seems to be a conflict free, but seemingly complacent marriage. Like they both kinda go through the motions and that’s it. I waver between understanding if they’re content or just stuck/too lazy to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:20 AM
2

These are bare necessities lol. I have a lot of other preferences I wouldn’t have time to get into lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:14 AM
5

They have an extremely low maintenance marriage. I wonder sometimes if it’s beautiful how they coast through together or if they’re both just complacent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:32 AM
17

Right?? Maybe just having any expectations is a problem for them. But to be fair, I’m new to this journey. Previously I used to just pick any local musician/mutual friend I got along with lol. Mainly people I saw with potential and tried to take on the fixer-upper role like many of us have fallen into traps with. On the flip side though, I do bring a lot to the table and always have. I’m realizing now if I find someone similar in those ways we could be unstoppable. It’d be much less emotional la…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:55 AM
35

Ha! Unless they get divorced and switch gender preferences, I don’t think they’re into me lmfao. But yes, thank you. Sometimes I feel like this sub is the only place that understands me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:37 AM
55

That’s what I thought!! These are my bare minimum requirements. Not even getting into bonus perks or more individual preferences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:34 AM
7

Lol. She should have had him do this and just left him anyways. Let it serve as a warning for future ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:07 AM
4

YouTube. I can’t even tell you how many home improvement, car repairs, etc I’ve done just by watching YouTube.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:50 PM
3

So true. I made a list of reasons why I made the right decision in case the little moments of doubt seep in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:05 AM
10

Ugh so true. I just pulled the trigger on my exit plan a few days ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:28 PM
165

...and that’s why he’s still casually dating at 46 .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:07 PM
10

For me it’s more about ambition than the actual money. You make an okay living but have no desire to continue learning, growing, advancing, succeeding etc I can’t get down with that. But if you’re at the bottom of a ladder you’re determined to climb and I can see the long days, dedication to growth, and drive I appreciate that. It shows a desire for constant personal growth and I want someone to grow with and share our successes together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 05:47 PM
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