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Building PowerBonjourComeBack/r/TheRedPill27/04/23 11:42 AM
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Building PowerBonjourComeBack/r/TheRedPill20/04/23 10:55 AM
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Well it was one sentence and she was pretty respectful afterward 🤣. And it was not an issue for me since it was litteraly a game for me. I was not enduring anything nor Desperate as you implied i was ;). What i finnd annoying IS if the person double down. If the person insiste here i think it's disrespectful because it's beyond a "joke". Usually it's more Guy (in a group setting) that do it to me. Usually i met them with some roasting and a smile.
/r/seduction13/07/24 01:10 PM
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I had a girl who just trash talk me on my shoes while i did not know her. I just move the "goal post" liké "oh you are into fashion, blabla". Out of the blue her tone changes and she became super agreable. And whenever a girl talk to me Bad AT first (without knowing me) then the tone change when i show it doesn't affect me 🤣🤣. It happened several Time. On my fashion, height (i am 5'7~1m70). And whenever i show i am unbothered the tone change. So the principle of shit test Imo IS relevant. The im…
/r/seduction13/07/24 08:01 AM
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For me negging IS simply teasing and making her qualify but in a light hearted way. No back handed compliment/ bs
/r/seduction12/07/24 03:45 PM
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Charisma IS a mix of : presence : being focused on the person ___ warmth : making the person feeling important, welcome ___ Strength : look like strong, (physical), (psychological) being confident and assertive, socially (statut/money), other (skills etc)
/r/seduction12/07/24 07:36 AM
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Most of the Time it's by women i would find quit attractive and taller than me (i am 5'7) so it might be the Vibe i give without noticing or them assuming i am weak. (In the same manner that i got disrespected mostly by taller dude on the get go, just roast them back jokingly. And every Time they either back down or get silent....)
/r/seduction10/07/24 01:26 PM
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I have been shit tested on my height, my fashion and so on and everytime i just passed it (liké "it doesn't matter when WE are laid, oh you like fashion?" Etc) the convo go on but i was not Faking. And now that i am more confident and authentic, i am still shit tested..... Because you look strong (congruence) doesn't mean you won't be tested. Like a bridge. Unless you seem super strong you will see till be tested.
/r/seduction10/07/24 12:33 PM
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The hard part IS understanding it In the body and not only cognitively ....
/r/TheRedPill08/07/24 11:45 PM
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If you Don't Care a out your job and thé possible consequences, try to flirt and sée what happen because it seems you just want out approval
/r/seduction07/07/24 08:57 PM
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Looks advertises the quality of your genes Indeed that's why there IS a cognitive bias (the halo effect). It helps making a Quick decision. It's a shortcut. A lot of people on this subreddit focus on game, confidence, and personality, which are mostly shaped during childhood by your subconscious. Also true. And there are method to change unconscious mecanism like exposure therapy, meditation, EMDR, self hypnosis (or hypnosis), etc. If you’re not physically attractive, you might get written off e…
/r/seduction07/07/24 01:45 PM
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Ask chat GPT if you are this lazy 🤣
/r/seduction07/07/24 09:28 AM
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Had similar thing AT a bar (it was early maybe 8-9pm so alcohol was not heavily involved). Start to talk with a girl. We Seat next to each other, our leg touch for the whole conversation. Strong eye contact, touching her arm Don't seem to be a Big deal. She laugh... When i go to joint m'y Friend i asked for her number and she said she had a bf (which i learn later was true) Some girls either want the attention or want to reproduce the unavailable caregiver Dynamic. (Hence flirting but the moment…
/r/seduction04/07/24 07:18 AM
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It's the opposite of the halo effect. The hard thing IS when it does a négative feedback loop. You are yourself. You get rejected repeatedly. You become awkward. You get even more rejected. When We have even only 50% of the spontaneity of out younger self we do so much more
/r/seduction04/07/24 07:10 AM
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This plus the horn effect imo
/r/seduction03/07/24 07:21 PM
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The lack of self awareness IS really annoying. It's a good thing that i cut them out
/r/TheRedPill30/06/24 03:42 PM
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Yeah pretty much. That's why Bad boys get laid but are not husband material
/r/seduction30/06/24 03:37 PM
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Lot of Women Say they want a nice Guy but what they Don't Say IS that they want a Masculine man who IS caring and nice. The trait itself does not attract them but IS a plus. It's the same with Guys. For exemple i like girls with whom i Can talk about différent topics liké psychology, sciences etc. But it would not make up for the lack of initial attraction. Imo attraction IS what separate Friends from partner
/r/seduction30/06/24 12:34 PM
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I litteraly heard from an acquitance of mine that his Friends though i was Fake and it was looking liké i was forcing myself to interract with ppl (while i just worked on my fear and lowered my anxiety) while they were not telling this to my face The irony....
/r/TheRedPill29/06/24 04:34 PM
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Charisma IS strength (anything like displaying skills, confidence, even apparence Can help) presence : being in the moment (good listener) warmth : being friendly Find a way to have an Anchor for each emotional state
/r/seduction28/06/24 03:48 PM
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you think approaching women is considered needy behavior. Never said that. You were saying not being okay to go home alone. Not being okay Ity it Comes from neediness and scarcity mindset...... A man goes for what he wants. You see a woman you are interested in, you approach her and shoot your shot. I agree and never said otherwise. So what are you going to do? You actually want women to approach you and shoot her shot to you? No wonder a good chunk of men in the subreddit are obsessed with look…
/r/seduction26/06/24 08:03 PM
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You give him intention You Don't know.him... The advice IS actually asking to be needy in essence and in a scarcity mindset. Read between the line
/r/seduction26/06/24 12:19 PM
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You Can try to Transform it as a game with friends Or Creat Anchor and use it when you cannot approach.
/r/seduction20/06/24 07:33 AM
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Learn the basic principle and make ton of approach/iteration and see how to improve (taking notes etc)
/r/seduction17/06/24 07:00 PM
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Put Some teasing in the convo ;)
/r/seduction14/06/24 01:39 PM
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I see. For me it's not even a shit test IS outright disrespect. Like WTF. Someone does this i just Ask him/her to leave before i end them...
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:25 AM
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Would you mind sharing exemple of the former ?
/r/seduction13/06/24 01:08 PM
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Maybe unstable upbringing meaning you take safety for boredom. Just an hypothesis
/r/seduction13/06/24 08:14 AM
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Thanks for your answer. M'y point was it's Bear impossible or AT least super hard to be TOO BIG.
/r/seduction04/06/24 07:44 PM
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Imo it's hard to be too Big while being natural AND lean
/r/seduction04/06/24 03:43 PM
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I have tried...it doesn't work liké this unless you are super attractive or have a lot of visibility, predelection and social circle
/r/seduction03/06/24 01:22 PM
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Good for you
/r/seduction03/06/24 07:16 AM
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I just talked about choosing tailored solution after acknowledging the issue. But You twisted my words. Your lack of comprehension skill IS strong in you. That's okay to be stupid as you are. You be you and let other people pass you by. Enjoy your next 24h
/r/seduction25/05/24 02:59 PM
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Yeah you are fucked up. You are the proof that women and nature do not select only intelligence trait.
/r/seduction25/05/24 10:50 AM
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So many people cannot have ADHD and Autism statistically. How do you know that ? You know it IS well under reported/diagnosed right? Right ? Because you Don't have issue doesn't mean other Don't. It's like saying to Someone with unsufferable knee pain s/he IS Faking it because you cannot see it. Instead of ableism we could Tailor a solution for ppl have specific struggle. Because i agree on the fact that we should not let things (external AND internal) prevents us from doing things
/r/seduction25/05/24 10:48 AM
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Well it was in a movie about a con artist with Caprio in it 🤣🤣
/r/seduction15/05/24 07:01 PM
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Isn't a reference to the movie ?
/r/seduction15/05/24 06:59 PM
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That's a good thing they want player (man with option).....
/r/seduction15/05/24 05:26 AM
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The beard IS mainly for intrasexual competition if I remember well. (There were a study on this if I remember well) And the only thing i will Say IS that redpill content IS usually Seen as a redfoag so not sure if the therapist will respect that
/r/TheRedPill15/05/24 05:22 AM
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Thanks for your feedback
/r/seduction13/05/24 02:39 PM
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Both are valued in nature. But adaptability prevail Indeed. How Can i work on the latter? Being in different situations, having many skills etc ?
/r/seduction13/05/24 12:21 PM
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That's why i work on being authentic and strong (be it mentaly and physically) so AT least i Don't burn out by masking.
/r/seduction13/05/24 06:48 AM
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I agree. I have found ppl who cared about me for who i am too. It's just that i find hypocritical ppl blaming Someone for being Fake when his/ her honesty was punished. It's like being stuck between a rock and a hard place.... Now i am more authentic though. And Care less about being liked than being honest
/r/seduction12/05/24 07:42 PM
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Location, type of clubs, etc. Remember, some ppl were able to find a fucking flag thanks to the plane trails....
/r/seduction12/05/24 01:02 PM
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Yeah i have been Fake because i have been rejected and punished for who i was....
/r/seduction12/05/24 12:16 PM
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When i am asked such question i go méta. Like : You know that such question assume X and Y while for me it's neither. And if I had said X you would have said X' and if I said Y, you would have said Y'. You know that right? Right? Or i just laugh and deflect it in a jokingly tone
/r/seduction10/05/24 08:42 PM
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Read unlimited power from Anthony Robbins. Use Anchor and find a Friend of your with whom you Can perform a challenge. I am currently doing it ti be more confident while practicing card tricks and street hypnosis
/r/seduction10/05/24 08:43 AM
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Anchoring Can help
/r/seduction08/05/24 02:43 PM
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I have flirted with several girl, both laughing, good Kino etc and when i leave to be with my Friends and Ask for her number she said she had a boyfriend (which turn out to be true) but never mentionned it before...... Some just love the attention
/r/seduction08/05/24 11:21 AM
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It is not directly related to it but "unlimited power" by Anthony robbins Lot of fluff but the stuff are still gold. The Book will help a lot with inner game. Litteraly an exemple was Anchoring confidence with talking to girls. And the effect last long. When you are AT ease like with a Friend of yours, you Can tease and pass "shit test" easily
/r/seduction06/05/24 11:35 AM
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More girls in your life as Say another comment ... And a hectic life so you have more important things to do
/r/seduction04/05/24 09:43 AM
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Fortunatly i start to have a note taking system so i still have the sources 🤣. Here IS a link about questions to answer that will help reveal your Shadow (repressed part) https://www.refinedprose.com/shadow-work-prompts/#How_Do_You_Practice_Shadow_Work After that you could use hypnosis to "talk" to it a'd integrate it
/r/seduction29/04/24 10:22 AM
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And if I became more like that, would I be less attracted to them? Idk but i think you would be less intimidated. What if there’s people, young as they are, are less emotionally available and that makes me feel unsafe? It IS also a possibility Indeed. Dig why it makes you feel unsafe and test. You cannot know without trying.
/r/seduction29/04/24 10:17 AM
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Maybe because you wish you were more like that. Bold and independant Shadow work will help you to express thoses quality and feel liké it's normal and being l'ESS intimidated
/r/seduction28/04/24 10:26 PM
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What ? That's a reason why short ppl are not Taken seriously because they look harmless
/r/TheRedPill23/04/24 11:34 AM
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I have forgotten that we are talking about America where you Can carry a gun with no issue. Well in this case you could Wear a bulletproof vest... Joker aside if yourself you carry a gun it will even out the thing because if the person pull out the gun they also know they Can die too not only you. So they Don't have the psychological edge on you (because you were talking about pressing the right button to intimidate Someone) Someone who's secure about his abilities won't take part in Macho fight…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/24 11:32 AM
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You can be the biggest toughest MF out there, but it just takes someone knowing how to flip the switch to turn you into an intimidated 5 year old. If you know you can't be hurt physically, have no more insecurities (yeah it's possible) and make Peace with your greatest fear, how Someone could flip it to make you fear him?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/24 02:25 PM
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What attract Friends isn't Always the same as what attract the opposite sex in the dating scene
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:11 PM
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Okay i would Say : inner game (it ruissle down on the outer game and help with shit test) teasing and humour push pull shit test (women will test how you react to see if you are confident) escalating (Kino) women are usually attracted to "powerful" men. Statut, Confidence, physical strength, skill, etc There are other stuff but that the fundamental Imo. Focus on one thing at Time.
/r/seduction20/04/24 10:29 AM
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Asking Someone question about how s/he feels forces the person to make some introspection. It changes the level of focus. Which IS basically hypnosis. Hypnosis IS a state WE live everyday. It IS close to meditation In your case you could even play a "game". When asking how the person feels, follow UP with her representation of the emotion. (Shape, color, moise, etc). Then Ask what happen when (any change of color shape etc) This way you Can either decrease or Increase the intensity of the emotio…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/24 11:22 AM
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Yeah unlimited power helped me controling my internal state. Which help taking action
/r/seduction18/04/24 01:39 PM
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It IS funny because you basically weak ppl deserve to he fucked. I Hope you got a reality check and got some good slaps from stranger for no reason
/r/seduction16/04/24 11:57 AM
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It IS basically puting the person in hypnosis by asking question (induction by question) isn't it? Just making sure since i am interested in it
/r/TheRedPill15/04/24 04:10 PM
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You are right you have met only insecure short Guy. You Can compensate and still be secure.....like when you learn how to fight...you are less likely to start a fight cause you feel less threatened (liké taller dude usually Don't for this reason)
/r/seduction08/04/24 10:52 PM
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Napoleon complexe IS currently used to shame short Guy who are fed UP with being pick on for no other reason tyan being short and compensate on other thing....to have the bare minimum respect taller ppl have
/r/seduction08/04/24 10:49 PM
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Okay thanks for the details !
/r/seduction08/04/24 06:14 PM
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So you Don't even have to perform? Just SAYING so 🤣? IS there something similar to this ? Curious about it
/r/seduction08/04/24 04:12 PM
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DJ might be one or the best statut display you could do during a party. I mean it's how i see it
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:26 PM
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DJ might be one or the best statut display you could do during a party. I mean it's how i see it
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:26 PM
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The thing IS making it easy for good habits and hard for Bad one.
/r/seduction05/04/24 11:36 AM
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I have a fucntion on my phone "hiding apps" where you Can hide an app without deleting it. It IS quit helping. One thing that help me IS carrying Books with me. When bored i pick a Book and read a little even if it's 5 min
/r/seduction04/04/24 04:01 PM
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It IS not about ignoring her boundaries but okay.....
/r/seduction01/04/24 06:42 PM
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Or she IS super Shy....
/r/seduction01/04/24 01:50 AM
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Work on your emotional wounds Bonus : screen for redfoag, more easily Seen when you have healed your emotional wound
/r/seduction26/03/24 12:40 PM
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That's seem logical to me. The first thing you see IS the bodyshape. Being bigger attracts more girl as you seem strong But when you are leaner, you attraction fewer (because you seem smaller and weaker) but in the bedroom being ripped IS associates with being strong and fit
/r/seduction21/03/24 02:22 PM
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I transform ppl into another person
/r/seduction06/03/24 05:40 PM
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Body language makes the difference
/r/seduction01/03/24 11:53 AM
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Thanks for sharing i have not see the "short" edit 🤣. I will Take notes. I was simply adding that hypnotherapy Can help a lot. It helps to feel better which IS crucial to Take action. WE act a lot due to émotion then rationalize it. So let's use it to our davantage. An exemple i like to Take IS the following : I sit on the chair in the room to talk with my therapist. The conversation go on and the topic Come UP. I explain in great detail and i Can feel thé weight of the word. The crushing emotio…
/r/seduction01/03/24 11:30 AM
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May sound weird but hypnotherapy helped me tremendously. I still have work to do but the thing i tackled improve. The good thing IS that you need few sessions Thé hard part IS finding a good one
/r/seduction29/02/24 12:09 PM
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I never said i failed one so cool Assumption. Maybe WE are just disagreeing on the définition but ppl will test other ppl to see if they are strong. Even Guy do this. It IS childish and stupid. That's why it IS called shit test Have you ever Seen a child test the limit of the parents? They do this a lot. And i can't creat something i was not awarenes before.....because i though that ppl Saïd what they mean. (That's my autistic side maybe).
/r/seduction29/02/24 09:29 AM
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Just because something IS a fallacy doesn't mean it isn't a shit test ...and you should know about the false dichotomy fallacy. A non sequitur Can be used as a mean to shit test you. The non sequitur IS the thing itself and its use IS the shit test. Exactly how a shit test like "i am sure you are a player" Can be answer "of course i like playing with cards" it IS basically a strawman where you play on the meaning of the word. So it's also a fallacy and it's function IS to answer the shit test...…
/r/seduction28/02/24 03:13 PM
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I just agreed with you so need to be condescending. I was reacting not to your message but to your condescending/angry tone.
/r/seduction28/02/24 01:00 PM
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Nah shit test do exist. I have been Ask why i had ashtrey and the person did not wait my answer and said "it's because you Take home many girls?" It is liké saying rethorical questions dont exist....
/r/seduction28/02/24 12:41 PM
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Sure buddy
/r/seduction28/02/24 11:35 AM
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1) Watching the action helps nexting the liar 2) Sometime they will do the opposite, Aka saying they are not interested while "asking out", being more tactile with you than other etc. In general WE should look AT other ppl action and words to see if it's congruent. And act accordingly
/r/seduction27/02/24 08:42 PM
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Dual mate strategy look it up
/r/seduction27/02/24 02:03 PM
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I stumble upon it by accident. Dig a lot, ready the sidebare but not Really doing. Because excuses and overthinking (which IS steroids for finding excuses). Start implementing FSS this year : FSS= Fucking stupid simple. My workout are simple : squat, and deadlift. 5*5. My action for jobs : find 2-3 task to do for m'y job AT the day Seduction : going to bar and simply chating with everyone. When finding a girl cute, taking to her, teasing and Always pressure flip the accusation (or agréé and ampl…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/24 02:38 AM
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"ahah i understand Why i dont have signals" When the delulu hits AT least i am safe from what you mentionned 🤣
/r/seduction20/02/24 08:26 PM
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Dont put your D in crazy
/r/seduction18/02/24 12:33 PM
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Yeah so why not improving according to what you are looking for?
/r/seduction09/02/24 12:20 PM
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The best is having a suit dans when taking it off, the muscle show 🤣🤣.
/r/seduction09/02/24 12:14 PM
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Bees should not be able to fly according to fluid mechanics but they don't know it so they just do it 🤣
/r/seduction08/02/24 01:17 AM
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I save your comment X). I see. About the dynamic it make me think about psychological inertia. (Ppl will rationalize the fact they help you because....you deserved it after all). On the stuff about drawing, i did it not in purpose with my best friend. I said i draw a little. And during a "party" i was chilling, drink and drawing. He was amazed to say the less and insulted me (in a jokingly way) "How dare you hiding THIS to me. I think being really busy will natural help with being inconsistant w…
/r/seduction07/02/24 05:18 PM
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Yes, but the interruptions should be rare enough that the interruption doesn’t become an expectation. You are right if you try be unpredictable you become it.... This is especially important for keeping LTRs interesting for the long haul. Indeed.. i think it is more important with women with trauma bonding. Since they grew up in unstable environment, a stable and healthy one will feel boring. Thanks for remembering this since i notice it now (after several failed LTR where i was also insecure an…
/r/seduction07/02/24 01:38 AM
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So creat expectation and pattern then interrupt it?
/r/seduction06/02/24 05:04 PM
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Yeah i really believe that we are controled by what we either lack or need.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/24 10:31 AM
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Lol why making Money is so important to ppl. As a person who earn Money super easily i dont understand ? See the analogy?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/24 11:25 PM
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Some girls told me i looked a bad boy. I take it as a compliment since it is the stereotype of what attracts women. If it's a girl saying this, it is likely a test. I dont have a lot of sucess with women yet. A girl litteraly said "why do you have ashtrey? It's because you take home loads of girls?" Just play it of and have fun ;)
/r/seduction31/01/24 12:33 PM
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When i jog i think about Baki. It is an anime but the principle is still here. At the beginning anger push him. On the long run he enjoy training.
/r/seduction29/01/24 06:55 PM
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I have done 4 sessions of hypnotherapy and it help me tremendously because even if knew logicaly that i was not equiped, i still had a lot of anger about it. Now i still have some but way less. I also see that i fear less rejection and abandonment since my session and it really help with my interaction. I have more fun and it seem to improve my "game" (put " " because i don't have any imo X)) Thanks for your answer. I am on the short side (5'7 were the average is 5'11 in my country) so i have to…
/r/seduction29/01/24 06:53 PM
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Just curious, since you go to gym (username checked X)) what is your weight height and how would you rate your game. Personnaly i struggle with game because of the lack of experience (probably on the spectrum and being bullied really put a pause on social skill improvement which i start to catch up...)
/r/seduction29/01/24 03:21 PM
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There is a saying : you cannot compete against the one who's enjoying himself/herself.
/r/seduction29/01/24 02:17 PM
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A variation of this type of question is doing an assumption to tease her
/r/seduction29/01/24 02:11 PM
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It is fortunate for me then since several friends of me (almost all diagnosed on the spectrum) tell me i most be autistic X) I had to learn the hardway X)
/r/seduction29/01/24 02:10 PM
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I did ;) Good book btw but a lot of obvious stuff. Sometime basics have to be reminded Edit : i am using anchoring to help go get quickly in the states explain in the book charisma myth. I love it because i used "unlimited power" from Anthony Robbins to help with anchoring. And frankly anchoring are a Hack X)
/r/seduction29/01/24 02:02 PM
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I am currently reading "the charisma myth". Focus, strenght and warm are the three component.
/r/seduction29/01/24 11:48 AM
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And what would happen? Good ppl dont need to fear the consequences of their act to be kind, otherwise it is simply hypocriyical....
/r/TheRedPill19/01/24 04:56 PM
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I've seen both sexes face the biggest tests and tragedies that life can give you, and women *ace them You have forgotten something too.... Support system. Women tend to have the support of ppl. Men not so much.... Easier to handle something when you have 10 ppl to share your hardship with than none.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/24 11:20 AM
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I can't get it from myself because I have no idea what self love feels like. I've never been loved in a healthy way. Take some time to imagine what would it look like if you could love yourself. How you feel and think at this moment.
/r/seduction08/01/24 10:37 AM
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Well you maybe good looking (aka the attention) and maybe they can feel that you are insecure and it turn them off....
/r/seduction08/01/24 10:35 AM
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That is called boundaries and standards You should try
/r/seduction18/12/23 05:19 PM
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That's why when you know it you have to exagerate the rumor to make it look stupid or not logical.
/r/seduction18/12/23 05:14 PM
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That's why you dont. It is a bad deal for men. Do men live longer when married? Yes. Do they earn more? Yes Do they live happily longer ? No. Do they benefit more Money from the extra earning? Not really. When you are nagged all the time for minor things you wish you did not X).
/r/seduction18/12/23 05:07 PM
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Honey? I did not know we were this close ;) You are right i should stop being like you
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 01:55 PM
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What brain?
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:50 AM
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Society didn't create anything. Well easy to say. As easy as saying that society didn't put pressure on ppl to archieve some goals, to be a specific way etc. Your worthless parents did. 1) Parents belongs to society, are influenced by it and influence it. It's a dialectic. 2)That's funny how you seem to know my parents. It funny also how confortable ppl are to insult other ppl or parents when a screen separate them. You have such online courage. Keep it like this and no one will give you a reali…
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:48 AM
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Just use sci-hub and put the DOI of the study. If sci hub is banned in your country use a VPN or Tor it works
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 09:46 AM
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There is a sub r/blackpillscience which litteraly this :/
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 09:40 AM
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"The one who are not embraced by their village will burn it down to feel its warm" Society creat monster and seems surprised they bite back
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 09:36 AM
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No it's not. Some people handle lacking it better than others because it's a psychological need, not an immutable, physical one It is not because it is not a physical one that you can do without it. Physical one need to be fulfiled to have your PHYSICAL health on point. Psychological one need to be fulfilled to have your MENTAL health on point. Some ppl can handle better lacking it like some ppl can go with less food indeed or even fasting. But they cannot stay that way. So you are right if you …
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 06:46 AM
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I would almost agree. Human do need connection and intimacy so it's like food. Ask anybody how s/he feel not seeing anyone. Human are social creature and while you can have contacts with different other way, you cannot reproduce intimacy of a partner with friends. It's not the same Breed That's why my point still stands.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 06:01 AM
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Indeed the issue is more like the fact i would complain about the food quality of a fast food while majority of other ppl dont get even any food or in a scarcity.....
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 06:38 PM
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Personal experience is usually more biased so if you want to know something or a trend, stats are better because stats are like....hundreds of anecdotales evidences. But you still should be aware of the protocol (inexisting in personnal anecdote btw) *Edit : they would be wrong to feel more scare than ppl in the hood or ppl in the hood are wrong for feeling safer if you mean FEELINGS should represent reality. But one's pov does not define reality it is really solipsistic*
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 01:53 PM
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Gym will just max out what you can, like you can have a deeper voice by relaxing your muscles etc but you wont have a super deep voice like other unless you have surgery. The question would be what are you willing to risk to improve ?
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 11:36 AM
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He did because....he wasn't using it on us maybe ?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/23 10:44 AM
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When the internet take a lot of space in one's life, online business, social media (insta, linkedin, etc) it is an extension of reality
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 10:39 AM
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Maybe that's the point
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 10:33 AM
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ADHD for Hunter gather i think
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 10:14 AM
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We have to accept that we will be criticized no matter we do. We should let that go if it does not directly interfer
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 10:13 AM
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Being fat as a woman isnt as bad that for men not because they look more attractive but because men have lower standard
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 09:56 AM
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When more than half the men are said below average....something doesn add up
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 09:55 AM
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Maybe because women have 2-3-4 times more candidate compare to the men look match ....
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 09:54 AM
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I dont worry, we are used having our space invaded now as a guy
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 09:28 AM
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Experience and stats are nothing to compare. I feel more at danger than ppl in the "hood" because they have been desensitize to danger. So i FEEL more at danger while BEING statistically less likely to have bad things happening to me. Cognitive bias, selection bias, survivor bias etc are a thing. Stats try to help with that.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 09:23 AM
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I am in the same BOAT. Work in progress. You can socialize, you know, talking about hobbies can be polarizing and that's a good thing. I also ask often what i have to offer and that's what i need to fix. If you see the interaction more like time to have fun with ppl it deload a lot of pressure. And most of the time enthousiasm is contagious, if you are having fun, chance are ppl will have (unless you put them down in the process like taunting them, bellittling etc). What could help to engage is …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/23 09:17 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:39 PM
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HL ? (English isn't my first language so i miss some acronyme like LA (now i know X)))
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:24 AM
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It can be an universal experience indeed. But Have you ever consider that these multiple experience could be due to a fraction of men doing several times a bad thing? Like one guy cat calling lot of women ? It is not representative of the male population yet lot of women experienced it. Hence could be représentative on the women's perpective It is a selection bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:50 PM
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r/murderedbysources Edit : i did know there were an actual sun 😭🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:20 PM
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This one X)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:09 PM
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And the women i said no took it by saying " you dont love me anymore" or giving the cold shoulder....insecure ? Yes. Unfortunatly load of ppl are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:32 PM
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I agree on this part i would ad there are some nuance. The environment can help or not. Before i had litteraly no one complimenting on my physical appearance. Now i had several stranger (girls) ( more in a month than in my previous years) saying i had beatiful eyes. I never changed it. But it was there reaction to it. So i could imagine now that i have "attractive eyes. There is a difference between handsome (8-10) and kinda attractive (7-8). So while i totally agree if you are a 8-10 and would …
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 09:00 AM
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Dude, im so sorry but human brain is not that stupid. And i am sorry the brain can be that stupid otherwise anorexia would not be an eating disorder The brain can be stupid, do you want evidence ? Okay every mental illness all the pyschopathology shows that the brain can do stupid stuff..... schizophrenic brain imagine things that dont exist.... It's not because you think something that it becomes real otherwise it is a sollipistic way to see things and i wont debate on the meta physic here. The…
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 08:39 AM
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I dont understand your saying. Anorexic ppl feel fat when they are clearly underweight. How is that a cope :/ ?
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 06:59 AM
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anorexia enter the chat *
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 08:54 PM
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Same as the one you answered. I was thinking i was ugly for years and now even if i have not changed that much i have more attention from gal......So yeah getting ostrasized and hit by multiple ppl at the same time will not help with you image.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 08:51 PM
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k.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 08:41 PM
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Hopefully you can provide a citation for those claims. If not, you will not get very far with me. okay you can ignore the last sentence about women playing more mindgame as i dont have data as study have not been done. My point is that there are manipulative ppl but the one using those technique have the behavior of narcissist ppl. And they are not a lot Those are creepy behaviors. It's super vague Using terms like "youthful and energetic" Why is it creepy? Define creepy pls. Beside a super gene…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 06:04 PM
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>If you think this post was Sherlock level deduction, I have prime timeshares to sell you. i said >While it is not as complexe here the principle still works. You said something while i already tackle the objection (by saying it was not as complexe) and you said after that i though it "was Sherlock level deduction"(***while i never said that and clearly said it was not***)... i will remain civil *sigh*
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 05:42 PM
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Medium use barnum effect and hot reading not cold reading. Cold reading is Sherlock deduction from observation pattern recognition and what is usual. While it is not as complexe here the principle still works.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 05:31 PM
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I am a short guy...so i have X)
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:41 PM
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As i said ealier i agree on part but i think my disagreement comes from the definition. We have different definitions. Using your i agree because you are totally coherent and i see your point. Using mine, the devil is in the detail and i disagree because power was an ability but not having power on someone. (A display of the ability) What i talk about would be pure potential power and you are talking about display of power by creating a need and providing value. I totally understand your point i…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/23 04:40 PM
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buff 21 year old man will always look better than a buff 28 year old man. And so on and so forth. Yeah i agree on that point. I would had that it takes time to be buff for exemple so you almost need time to do so. And not everyone start early. Moreover Money, being secure, condifent competent needs time that the young dont have. And it's attractive. For anecdotal evidence during the covid we had mask. I was confident while performing cardtricks. Lot of women gave me the eye, giggling etc while t…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:31 PM
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You have never been short and given shit for nothing as a short guy so dont talk in our name please X)
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:15 PM
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Men may be hypergamous on the physical aspect but women are hypergamous on the statut, Money, competency etc. There is nothing a guy who is 30 offers a 21 year old woman that a 21 year old guy can’t. —- besides money. Maybe more confidence in themself, more expérience in life so its easier to protect her, more calm in crisis, more competent? Idk, lot of things beside Money actually. Even shape. I am in better shape than lot of guy at 21....i am 28. And i a in better shape than 2-3 years ago... W…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:11 PM
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What do you need to create the needs?? Creating a need is already a display of power because it means you can define other. Maybe i have a definition of power as an ability and you have in term of action. Maybe i should see what you say as a display of power rather than power itself. Like being deadly is having the ability to kill but not killing. Edit : Value is anything that provides a benefit to another And you extract value from Someone if you creat a need....so in itself you need power to m…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/23 03:52 PM
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And the need to live, which is artificially created through force. That was the point If you create a need, it does not come from providing value but being able to substract to ppl through coercion. Coercion at its core is not transactional because you dont benefit in anyway....you are strip from your freedom and safety. Needs don't have to be genuine, they can be artificially based on circumstance. If you creat needs then the power come before because creating the need when it does not exist is…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/23 01:55 PM
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No answer is already an answer
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 12:50 PM
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You are saying cold reading isnt a thing And cherrypicking
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 11:28 AM
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Maybe pattern recognition duh
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 11:27 AM
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Ig a guy was a Virgin before a LTR he would be pointed at in the same way. Its a double standard because its easier for women to have sex since men are less picky
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 11:18 AM
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It's a deal breaker because past behavior are strong indicator of futur behavior...so if someone isn't stable in the past, chance are this person wont in the futur unless the work is done (therapy etc, which ls rare)
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 11:17 AM
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I am really curious about your criteria about preying. At What age do you set the limit? I agree with the fact that some ppl use manipulation technic, love bombing, breadcrumbling, dread. But it's a small part and its usually women (more like girls) who play mindgame. And it's bad anyway. What kind of behavior would you define as creep? Wanting controle, making her feel bad when you are not here? Taking the role of a savior/father? (I agree if you are talking about this kind of stuff). Beside ma…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 11:11 AM
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Power is the ability to : Define yourself (behavior, etc) Define others (labels, norms, coercion, creating a system in which ppl interact, influence/behavior of other, etc) I agree in the sens of influence. Providing value is having power. Because we are bound to what we lack. There are stil exceptions. A counter exemple would be a slave and master relationship. The master have all the power but do not provide value to the slave while the slave provide all the value. The issue is that the slave …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/23 07:37 AM
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I will stop answering your comment as you think you see flaws in my logic when it your interpretation of my point that is wrong and then say my point is wrong. You put assumption in what i say ex : This doesn't make sense by your own logic because then men would be proud at masking right? Because women are just seen as cute according to you. I never said that nor implyed. I just said they were more social punishment and the basic stéréotype "you are too cute to be autistic" was simply even more …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:59 PM
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Yeah and in my surrounding whenever i give this advice it's taken in a good way. That's what i was saying. Moreover if ppl were not fed the "look doesn't matter" BS they would be more prône to exercice to become attractive imo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:45 PM
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Me : Integrity is not breaking rules you set to yourself. You just ignore that and took a exemple that did not fit to the situation. You : If it's to be attractive and you're told it's making you unattractive it'd display a lack of integrity not to change your behaviour. It's exactly what i said. In this case you took an exemple where you break your own rule and then said it's a lack of integrity not to change....like i just said integrity was not breaking the rules you set to yourself.... And n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:06 PM
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That's exactly what the red pill is. That's what r/ selfimprovment is about, even on r/ seduction you will find this advice and reality check. I dont talk about small sub here I think we have both different experience. I had the one i shared to you and you had yours. We both have selection bias and i dont have stats to back up my claim so i
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:00 PM
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Not changing what you think important no matter what is integrity. Heck even with my best friend i decided not to take booze in a party (super hard because i was tempted and he enticed me too), that's integrity. If it's skipping a gym session because he is not feeling well it's also integrity. Because i would not change the priority. Our friendship is the priority. I wont break this rule. Integrity is not breaking rules you set to yourself. Integrity is about not changing things when it's your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:30 AM
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. It had nothing to do with my insecurity, it was his. If a guy is so incredibly inflexible it's usually because he's insecure and terrified of going back to whatever he looked like before and losing the approval of other men. Or maybe before it was a situation of emotional pain and going back to whatever he looked could be a reminder of this....how would you feel seing a scare on your face remembering you every single day a difficult event? The lack of flexibility could be helping. Scheduling d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:20 AM
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men don’t want their partner dressing sexy because it attracts the attention of other men. insecure men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:13 AM
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I will take it badly because i already do it 🤣. Otherwise it could be what we call a reality check. Usually guy are less sensitive to it because we give this to each other when we screw up things. And guy are often told to workout of they want to become more attractive.....so i dont know why you ask that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:11 AM
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Yeah if you have chest muscle usually it's confy if you are lying on your back relaxed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:04 AM
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Because u pass shit test. It is to test your integrity. You show you have one and it is attractive as it's a form of strenght
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:52 AM
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Yeah and simply keeping your discipline also show you have integrity. Even while saying Atletic, i did some concession and loose respect for it.... It's not about the weight, it's about your integrity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:50 AM
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That's basically shit test to see if he will conform or not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:43 AM
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That's not what masking is. They flat out mask better than men. I said they did better because if they were not they were punished harder. If the consequence of a behavior is more harshly punished, you are more likely to change it than when the punishement is lesser. And changing the behavior IS masking..... Yes. But people don't all start at the same place in life Well okay then dont ask someone to have the same performance if this person is in the paralympique. We are okay with that when it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:37 AM
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Of course they place there vallue in it other wise when they cant get girl they are looser :/// At least that's cool you seem more secure than a lot of ppl here. Another point would be the disrespect. Both the girl and the guy do not respect the boyfriend and his boundaries (implied one as he is the bf). Personnaly i would feel hella direspected by both.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 09:04 AM
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Okay I was just taking another exemple simply to use something else as the appeal to nature that all
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 09:00 AM
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Okay thanks for the details
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:08 PM
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That's good at least you found the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:07 PM
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It's really not. That's a very silly thing to say. You missed the point purposefully or it fly over your head i dont know what to say about that. And I get that but it's interesting women with autism are significantly better at masking Yeah because they have even harder social punishment for it so yeah and the "You cant be autistic you are too cute" But additionally there is medication for people with ADHD. It was an exemple but there is no pill for autism...moreover it does not treat the issue.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:05 PM
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You say it's not fucked up because it's natural. Being rejected and hit when different/ugly is normal in an evolutionnary aspect as you defend against potential threat. But in society is it okay? So appeal of nature does not work another argument should be found
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 03:45 PM
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Having sex once or twive in a lifetime isn't really sucess in the scipe of what we were talking about Anyway
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 03:42 PM
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in GENETICS" You think Bezos, Gates or Musk are appearance wise gifted? Psychopathy is a genetic...... As i said in another comment being psychopathic is being neurodivergent BUT in this ULTRA SPECIFIC CASE is beneficial for them as i explained before ..... Or we could say it is a survivor bias as if you take the proportion of hight statut neurodivergent is does not represent their % in the population. We only see for Whom it worked.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:41 PM
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Its like saying ppl poop....but if you need to poop 2kg every day it's an issue. The mask for neurodivergent folk is way heavier because they have to inhibe A LOT more than other ppl because the way of thinking, see, etc is way more different. They shower that ppl with ADHD had like 45% more connections so 45% more though/ stimulation and they we wonder why they tend to be sensory overloaded.... It's like being polite in the work place with ppl you are neutral with and being polite with ppl who …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:33 PM
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That's it.....he is popular when he mask his autism and struggle when the mask slips.... So "just be yourself, authentic" work when you are neurotypical and he is an exemple of it. So the charming aspect is the façade. Ppl like him not for who he truly is but the false image (masking) he is displaying The very face that he has to let out in other contexte is a sign.. .. On the long run i dont know how it will turn out. The false self etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:24 PM
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How did he found out and how is him on the spectrum. Because it's like saying being tall can be handicaping in everyday life (home etc). There is tall 1m95 and there is super tall 2m10. And it's day and night. And was he bullied, rejected by his peers, family etc? Cause it could account also for a lot. Moreover, how common is it on a statistical aspect. Maybe he is the exception that confirm the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:45 AM
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You are still mixing coercion (threat) with influence. It's like mixing hard and soft power. Women have great influence on social norm and lot of social power (soft power) but still complain about not having hard power. (Coercion, social statut etc) So Men can not say no to someone they don't like? Finding that hard to believe. By the way i will leave the condescending tone of yours.... They can but if you are in the Middle of a desert for hours or days you will accept any kind of water and the …
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 11:41 AM
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It does. Dating (trying) and having sex (succeeding) isn't the Same
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 11:20 AM
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It's the same as saying being rejected or hit It’s the logical outcome of human biology Because we have mecanism to preserve ourself from potential external threat
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 11:19 AM
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They are not neurotypical but it serve them well as they can be emotionnaly callous, fearless, Charming whereas ADHD, Autism is not fit to current structure. So it is a false analogy where the main point is that the trait of the person is not suited to the average expérience. More over there is a survivor bias as the one not having jobs or being in prison for violent crime (due to their condition) are not taken into account
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:03 AM
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Are the ppl around also neurodivergent? Cause it would be a reason. Usually we know each other or at leasr we feel like it clicks fast
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:58 AM
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Charisma comes from authenticity...when yiu are normal otherwise you wouldn't see neurodivergent ppl masking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:56 AM
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It's like if your man was stolen (willingly from his part) by another girl. You would be angry at him then questionning your feminity as not being enough
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 10:54 AM
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What's funny is that actually touching grass and having personal experience make you more sensitive to bias like confirmation bias, survivor bias etc, on the opposite side as statistical approach..... Like playing in a casino, you will always see the one winning when you know that all the game have a statistical bias toward the casino..... So even this isn't a counter argument. PS : have a look at this A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the World's Largest Experiment Reveals about Human Desire Grea…
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 10:38 AM
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It depends i have seen redpill women sub where they were okay with men and women "nature" in a far healthier way than FDS sub..... I should have a look at PPD X)
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 10:35 AM
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Thanks for sharing this . I have heard of it but couldn't find the sources
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 10:32 AM
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They have the power in decision You are talking about threat and harassment meaning coercion.... In the context of mutual consent women do have the upper hand. It's like saying wealthy ppl dont have the upper hand because the poor one can threaten them online or IRL which lead to poor climate.....do you think this benefits wealthy ppl? No. Do they still have the upper hand ?
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 10:28 AM
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Yeah i have seen on a large sub (from a woman) "why don't you Chanel your negative emotion to buid?" speaking about men having breakdown...."why don't you man up and and build?" Is the same message. "Why arent you useful when you are depressed, don't be depressed....be useful" Have a look at the omega bias it explain some interesting stuff.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 10:22 AM
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Indeed thanks for this new insight. It has been some time i did not dig again on this part.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 08:06 AM
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Yeah you just pass hard shit test. And here you are talking about LTR too. Not the same dynamic imo
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 10:41 AM
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Maybe the exception in question
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 10:37 AM
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You are talking about long term (couple) the dual mate strategy ("alpha" fu*k/ beta buck) is a thing so yeah height matters and the criteria are differents. See the difference between the guy who are in LTR or for ONS. Day and night.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 10:34 AM
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Plus the halo effect
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 10:30 AM
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They were approaching without showing value. Basically trying too hard to please her. Which is even less attractive. So yes if it was attractive ppl it would not be unpleasant.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 01:26 PM
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This, Usually the guy approaching in a insistant way and becoming angry when turned down are not the one sensitive to "prevention" or advice against this kind of behavior.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 10:27 AM
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Game is more a way to even out the odd because women have the upper hand. Its not love bombing or bread crumbling. Its about understanding the dynamic, shit test etc.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 12:52 PM
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In few words power (monetary, physical, intellectual) isnt it?
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 12:25 PM
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I think personnality matters. However there are things like threeshold or halo/horn effects. So i would say you can't outweight your Ugliness if it's too much. Personnality can be like makeup. Ppl prefer without but can accept a little. Too much cant hide it if you are too ugly
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 07:55 PM
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Hello Not an expert, far from it X). Several things that i find helpful to engage conversation. When i dont know what to say or how to engage i say so in a light hearted manner. It's being vulnerable without being "weak" (not anxious). And follow with a question and/or an assumption (it is not an interview) And one way to start it is : i won't ask you what you do for a living unless it's your passion. What does really light the spark in you? So i find it quit similar (in a more simple way) to wh…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/23 09:41 AM
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Don't tell, show instead. And if ppl are attracted to you they will try to escalate and let you do. I know it because i have experienced it even though it was during some guérilla magic session i was not confortable enough to reciprocate.
/r/seduction28/07/23 11:05 AM
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Well the issue is usually women do not tend to look after they equivalent but higher (the average of look, Money, statut) even is personnality can play a role but there is always a threeshold (and the horn effect etc).
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 04:23 PM
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Good question usually i say theyvare too young for me it would not work out in a playful manner
/r/TheRedPill24/07/23 09:15 AM
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And yet you are shit on if you don't put sept in your argument.... Making it easy to grasp but with phillosophical ref is a thing imo It could have been more concise though
/r/TheRedPill21/07/23 05:02 PM
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We agree then :) The main thing is that i though about the double standard and usually i am annoyed because all the blame is put on men while both case exist. Thanks for being honest about this. By the way, I envoyed spleen and ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:21 AM
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You also have to be worthy to be lead. I see what you say. The issue is simply puting all the blame on men as if women have no agency. So no accountability. It funny these day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:42 AM
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Isn't it the same for men ? It is easier to be in your masculine energy aka leading if the other is following you. So stop deflecting it on men. Men "missbehave" it's their fault Women missbehave it's men's fault ? Where is the agency here We should Stop with the deliberate fake hypo agency
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:23 PM
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Well natural selection did not select for intelligence because i have been bullied by stupid ppl and i was even more stupid to let them.
/r/BlackPillScience18/07/23 06:20 PM
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When your argument are not based on fact it's hard to come up with good one
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 06:18 PM
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What? You have less understanding skill than retards?! Poor you.....
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 05:30 PM
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Improve your comprehention skill please
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 04:22 PM
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He did in his post and that has to be a troll. I mean you cannot think what he has written, right. Right ?
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 12:04 PM
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Do the math and you will have an estimation. It is litteraly written
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 09:07 AM
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More like they want a person who has an exciting life but also has time to listen to her. Someone who is confident but can be "vulnerable" (not weak/not crying but sharing how he is gonna destroy his issues) Someone who is ambitious but has time for her. Someone who has lot of option but choose her (but isn't to attached to her either)
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 07:57 AM
9

Reverse uno
/r/seduction10/07/23 02:16 PM
2

This! As i become less and less shy, my extravert personnality take over and i feel it. We are not used to saying it. I start to share it and finaly say it more often. On the last part i second that. I made the mistake, now i don't make it. Bro before Hoe
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 07:03 AM
7

I wish i had this type of support when i was young.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 04:56 AM
16

I think the only issue we have is keeping those emotions inside with a LTR over all the months and years. I wish there was some sort of way to make sure that we would never slip up besides trying to be conscious of it all the time. That's why male space with healthy masculinity is a must. If you choose wisely you can share the burden with other without judgement with constructiv feedback.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 03:49 AM
1

I can't remember the studies but it's a state close meditation state. The idea is to overload the conscious mind in various ways to be more open to suggestion (what other or you are telling to yourself) An easy and most common is to focus on one sens at a time. Notice five things according to the sens. For exemple you notice without moving you eyes, five details of the background. Then five things you hear. Etc. Do it with The most sens you can. The more the better as it overload the brain. Then…
/r/seduction07/07/23 09:28 AM
1

I still have work to do. However, hypnosis therapy and finding interesting project to do linked to my passion help me. Trying to writte comic strip, essay, reading philosophy and practicing guerilla magiciens, Street hypnosis have been some steps. Finding project so you can play, reconnect with the inner child, his curiosity etc. Meditation and self hypnosis are grea steping stones too. What matter imo is finding a way to set up new belives and new identity. If you want to dig deeper see what th…
/r/seduction07/07/23 04:29 AM
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Sometime you loose who you are because you learn to hide it due to social and physical retaliation for being yourself... Lot of thing to become "better" is usually removing what had been put on ppl. Fear, false belives etc. That's why there are a lot of late bloomer.
/r/seduction06/07/23 05:48 PM
29

You just described my past relationship before my RP "awareness".
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 04:01 PM
1

Nah i like to writte like in the excitment but i know it can be active procrastination
/r/TheRedPill29/06/23 04:23 PM
26

It hits home. Currently working on shifting this Mindset cause it's a blindspot. Even if you act it's like active procrastination.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/23 03:14 PM
1

The best manipulation is framing an action as beneficial for the one doing it and this person being happy to do so
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 08:29 AM
1

I had some Luke....sometime 😭🤣 Joke aide, being pretty Athletic, and cardtrick are assets i have up my sleeve
/r/seduction23/06/23 08:58 AM
1

Nah i just make appear a Grenade on their head. Lately they have been totally mind blown But you seem well informed about it....thanks for sharing your experience
/r/seduction22/06/23 02:00 PM
3

Don't worry i have some tricks (litteraly) up my sleeve X)
/r/seduction21/06/23 03:57 PM
36

I am 5'7 😭
/r/seduction21/06/23 03:14 PM
13

Thanks for this post. Great reminder
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 12:42 PM
2

Yes and no. If you want a really simple book on how to reframe things, how to change believes and so on it's not. If you like to go in depth then i recommand it in association with an hypnosis and NLP book to have a better understanding
/r/TheRedPill17/06/23 03:18 PM
2

You are welcome, just came across as i was reading sleight of mouth from Dilts where it he talking extensively on belief change
/r/TheRedPill17/06/23 01:54 PM
3

Yeah i really struggle with that part X). Hope is like your vision of the world it affect other "lower" aspect of your life. Looking at the Dilts pyramide you will understand what i mean.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/23 09:46 AM
3

While i agree on most part, i think that some believes need to be fixed before. If you don't think you deserve something, do you think you will seek it, take the opportunities about it? Honnestly i still struggle with these one and sometime i feel like it's meaningless or halfass it cause i sabotage my effort. I work on it by acting and noticing when i do it but it still feel like Walking in sand. That why environment is a great tool to help to act. Still have a look at Dilts' pyramide and you w…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/23 05:04 PM
8

In asian culture there IS Also the fact that If you are not a high archiever you are a piece of shit so not thé most healthy thing. We should bet on out strenght. Why because it help knowing where to start, take less Time and usually IS something we like. But you Can still improve other area. Simply don't become someone who isn't aligned with your core value. It depends on the circle too. Gift and talent are differents. Gift is what you are born with and talent IS gift+hard work. It's the skill …
/r/seduction04/06/23 08:28 AM
1

Indeed and i simply post to share something and practice my Writing to have feedback. You missed totally my point..... Bé yourself doesn't mean stay the way you are. It's more about betting on your strenghts and be impired by différent ppl to emulate them, take what works, discard what doesn't and creat what's unique to you
/r/TheRedPill15/05/23 12:42 PM
2

Okay i take note then. It's not how things should bé but how things are And i have a terrible handwriting, not Always a linear way of thinking so Indeed i get your point. I don't like the tone you had on you previous comment (or more likely how i felt) but this one explain far better in a more constructive way. So thanks for this feedback
/r/TheRedPill15/05/23 11:57 AM
1

When i was talking about deep relationship i was talking about friendship. So i don't understand your point here. Maybe i was not clear And it's not about saying the same but betting on your strenght
/r/TheRedPill15/05/23 09:22 AM
0

Falsely but there were different quote from different ppl which were about the same Idea. I played along. It's so easy to talk about it while not knowing this. It was more about the message than the person giving it. I still read philosophy and stuff to work on critical thinking etc. I am quit surprised you did such a thinking shortcut, assuming i mainly use mainstream Media etc to have a shallow thought. Edit : I will be more accurate next Time, to show more credibility independantly of the tho…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/23 09:17 AM
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Okay. So would i have put the same sentence without the credit it would have been different ?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/23 08:21 PM
8

Idk know if it's that but i think it's hypnosis where you "regress"/ go back in Time when you were young to treat your trauma etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/23 04:29 PM
3

I almost agree i would had this advice doesn't take into account that opposite attract in term of personnality. I would not date someone as calm as i am because thebenergy would be off. Other than that, i agree on having the same values (what's important for me), thé same effort etc.
/r/seduction01/05/23 08:13 AM
1

You would be surprised by what the body IS Real capable of. Maybe you Can Do 30 push UP in a row but would do the double imho if your target was 100 for exemple and had good emulation because WE were pushing each other. And because you Can't do it doesn't mean it's not archievable. Heck i struggle with one are Chun UP and know ppl wayyy heavier than me are repping it X)
/r/TheRedPill30/04/23 08:13 AM
1

It's more about not caring about being normal or not imho. Maybe i wasn'r clear about it ://
/r/TheRedPill29/04/23 01:14 PM
1

What do you mean in the right direction ?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/23 06:33 AM
1

I see At least being upfront isn't Bad as you know the "contract"
/r/TheRedPill28/04/23 06:31 AM
2

Okay so i should get rid off of the Q&A. Noted. I should tackle the possible objection in another way. Thanks i will Keep that in mind for the next time
/r/TheRedPill27/04/23 03:30 PM
6

Thanks for your feedback. Any suggestion to make it either more interesting? I take note on the lenght for the next Time. I will have to check out redundance
/r/TheRedPill27/04/23 01:55 PM
1

Idk if it's sarcasm or not, english is my second language
/r/TheRedPill21/04/23 10:12 AM
1

Actually the Sky diver was an exemple i used
/r/TheRedPill20/04/23 03:30 PM
1

I have Seen worse in this sub so if it was too long to read it's simply it wasn't interesting enough....
/r/TheRedPill20/04/23 01:35 PM
1

" * New fear unlocked of not meeting their needs *
/r/seduction16/04/23 10:13 AM
1

Being used for her body would mean sex is not a shared thing in the opposite of money where it's a one way street transaction......
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 08:48 AM
2

Even more than a reality check, lifting or working out make you stronger, giving the message to your body that you are less in danger. Let's Say you are 6ft tall, 180 lbs without prior MA training. Would you react the same way if a 5'7 guy, 141 lb was looking for trouble or if a 6f 8, 210 lbs was doing the same ? I think you will see one as more threatening than the other. It maybe Also the case for other situation but you won't think about it conscient way.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/23 08:39 AM
7

An alternative to this imho IS to be dangerous. Like having the habit of sparring with ppl who has 30kg+ to you etc to really have something to black UP and the belief you Can adapt to any situation (without being the best but being adaptable so you don't worry in your abilities to face situation). But that's because i don't like creating a personna and because i am not good at it that why i am biased X)
/r/TheRedPill27/02/23 07:50 PM
1

You Can compromise on things that are not important to you and that's okay. I am referring to core value. For exemple if you value freedom you might not compromise on this while you do on income if it make you reach more freedome. (Ex : working less just to have what you need in term of income but Saving Time) Do we like and enjoy everything we do ? That's a rhetorical question where i have obviously to Say yes because it's so vague. That's why i was more specific to prevent a yes set. Actually …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/23 08:50 AM
12

Imho frame IS integrity. Like what i understood at least. So holding frame IS not compromising what you hold for true/ important. That's still my simple opinion
/r/TheRedPill06/02/23 06:50 PM
5

I should celebrate attempt, failure AND success
/r/TheRedPill08/01/23 12:31 PM
8

Love your comment about building a business. Like the rest too..
/r/TheRedPill08/01/23 12:26 PM
1

....i was talking about how the text was an Inception as it show by exemple the principale of storytelling. Indeed it IS more effective because it is hypnotic. That was simply to sum UP what i understood. It doesn't mean i haven't the nuance.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/23 07:19 PM
2

Indeed nuance is needed but when you have a full paragraph to Say he went to the batroom to think about what's next, you sure Can skip it in the summary. It doesn't mean i skip reading it. Simply that i sulmarize it. His writting is really good as he has a great storytelling helping remembering the story (kinda an Inception of what he wanted to share and even follow the structure he suggest), still the info Could b sum UP in few words
/r/TheRedPill03/01/23 09:18 AM
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So : Be a great storyteller so ppl Can live through your stories. Face your challenges Be confident
/r/TheRedPill02/01/23 04:22 PM
10

Hello, Thanks for the reminder ! I tend to be a nice Guy...now i found a more balanced thing as it IS less to please ppl to be "loved" than what i would like someone treating me. I am still working on it though. I totally understand what you Say by subtilities as i have been oblivious of the power shit test for a long Time. Now i tend to be more aware of it but still let some slip as i notice some ater... Same for the relationship where i was exactly doing what you Said like doing too much conce…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 05:34 PM
3

Oh that's it 🤣! I was feeling tied at 3-5 pm when i took m'y coffee right After waking up
/r/TheRedPill29/10/22 07:39 PM
2

Game theory explain it in a way if i'm right
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 09:10 PM
2

That's a pretty stoic things imo ISn't it (leave what's not in your power)
/r/TheRedPill05/05/22 06:15 AM
4

I did LSD and it changed permently my mindset because it was really a healing experience. Like therapy would do the trick but Alone and way cheaper. Now i am far from being what i want to be however i am more determined and disciplined because there are way less internal conflict. So it IS like a catalyst since i could have had these breakthrough but later. And now i don't need it. Thé most important IS not to have to relu on it
/r/TheRedPill01/05/22 06:25 PM
2

Great highlight. It is really telling how being attached IS Seen as trying to corner somebody according to her. The level of projection IS quit hillarous on how she would like to lock Down a mate she would find high value. The "i see you in a différent way" IS like "i Saw you bank account and damn" X). The best as you Said IS to put yourself in your element. And i would add, extend your element until your are Always in it. Like extend competitivness in other fields etc Anyway thanks for the tips…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/22 10:17 AM
7

You sid it all.....alpha fuck beta Buck, it IS thé perfect exemple.....so yeah it IS basic stuff ;)
/r/TheRedPill09/11/21 12:31 PM
-1

What IS the thing that really caugh your eye ?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/21 08:31 PM
2

Yes that can work. But what do you do when she wants to talk after 2 or 3 days of silent treatment? Well just Say it was a prank.... Joke aside, if she want to talk, and blame for the silent treatment, i would Ask back what was this prank that could make me beaten or arrested. And simply giving some rules like if you do it a second Time i could admit it but there won't be a third Time. Even if it IS an "ultimatum" it IS a simple rule that IS easy to follow and not out if the blue. And how funny …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 07:48 PM
8

If my gf did this to me, i would have simply silently (if i can) go somewhere else without letting her know or if she had thé Key, simply locking the home's door with thé Key sobm she cannot open it and lettre ING her wait until she decides to leave. All the above with no contact Showing your disinterest in these type of game IS a good power move imho X)
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 07:00 PM
0

Lol you have an abundance mindset like WTF do you want more X)? Anyway, keep doing what you do (talking to several girls to have options) and hit her like you said, propose her to Come AT your place. She IS m'ad because she IS not your first and only option and it IS a DREAD.
/r/seduction29/08/21 04:42 PM
3

And ? Anyone don not have the discipline to do so....
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:24 PM
1

It IS because height incounsciously displays power. Same with muscle....
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:15 PM
1

Actually performing Card tricks in front of ppl can help you a lot X) : • it trains confidence(i did and it helped me a lot), •it'S a form of social proof(all the more when it IS another group which notice you performing) •it helps to meet a lot of ppl (Guys and girls). Or you Can simply approach a lot of ppl and have trial and error learning. Another way would be to keep in mind : What do you make them FEEL? How are you in term of look, money and statut?
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:05 PM
38

Basically enjoying the moment and DGAF attitude were thé way to go
/r/seduction21/08/21 10:54 AM
10

Your question IS like : "IS it okay for a straight girl to not like sucking cock?" It IS perfectly okay, some ppl enjoy licking pussy, other don't, that's fine. You Can use your hands as well, kissing wherever you want, etc. As long as you both enjoy it, it's fine. You will see the reactions and so on. Don't overthink it ans enjoy the moment.
/r/seduction21/08/21 10:50 AM
6

Don't become another person to please ppl. Charisma Comes from congruence between thought and behavior. Cf no more me nice Guy. It is not "just be yourself", it IS je confident about who you are, your worry ans values, express it as much as you Can. Dont necessarly try to become funny if you realy suck AT it, instead work on your strength and when you are satisfied, then work on your weakness
/r/seduction16/08/21 11:18 PM
10

A woman will be ready and willing if she feels safe, respected and not pressured Of course, the Idea IS to create sexual tension, attraction not pressure. A woman being seductive isn't pressuring a man. The point IS the same here. I fear that trying to “create” anything is a very bad idea. It sounds pretty manipulative, tbh. Same issue here with your advice imho. Seduction isn't manipulative or every man and woman IS even without being aware about it. That IS the principale of seduction ...both …
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:17 AM
2

"How do i attract high value men?" Well become a "high value" woman.
/r/seduction06/08/21 07:38 AM
1

No, not about your weakness X) Beside this feel free tondo whatever u want
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:00 PM
2

Bro i am 26 and am only starting to feel good and have some positive results. Keep going in your self improvement journey and start approaching if it IS not the case. It IS too late when you decide it is
/r/seduction02/08/21 09:45 AM
20

It's really funny as the girl IS overtly feminist
/r/MGTOW202/08/21 08:51 AM
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Lol it IS called being civil. A Guy doing it would have been trashed to death... I am curious of the rections if the gender were reversed in the same sub
/r/MGTOW202/08/21 08:50 AM
2

Bro i am in the same boat as you. Used to simp a lot, quit better now X)
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:27 AM
1

Basically don't simp, je Quick for the number and act like you are in charge :) IS that it?
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:57 PM
2

Did not Say only look matter.... Check this out ;) https://doi.org/10.1101/2020.03.06.980896
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:21 AM
2

Well you are right but majority like an Athletic man
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:30 PM
3

"Should i focused on myself so i let women come to me so i Can choose the one meeting my standards?" Yes
/r/seduction30/07/21 04:07 PM
2

It is too late if you decide it is. I am almost 27 and am really starting only now. But it IS not too late
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:49 AM
2

No X)
/r/seduction27/07/21 05:14 PM
1

Martial arts
/r/seduction27/07/21 05:10 PM
2

Hello, What are your stats (bw, bf etc)? What are your hobbies? How confortable are talking to ppl etc. It is hard to suggest anything when info are lacking. M'y two cents A basic thing would be: Look : lift or work out (bw) Money : maybe hard and not really AT a good place to speak a out this topic Statut : improving your skills in your hobbies IS one way of doing it. May be it by displaying it to étranger may ve it doing so in a club you are practicing Confidence : approach and become used tal…
/r/seduction27/07/21 04:31 PM
3

Look for a club (on your hobbies) you will meet New ppl without thé disconfort of doing it out if the blue for no reason. You may meet other women or other Guy knowing other girl etc...
/r/seduction27/07/21 04:11 PM
1

Indeed look is important because there IS a threhold. But another thing that IS important IS power. The power to do what you want. However statut Imo is still important. For exemple i have been recognised by strangers i did an "street illusion show" even as a non pro magician and mainly girls i was with (as friends or more) were noticing it and did some remark on it in a positive way and the same happend when i was known by a lot of ppl when i was in college . So i think it does matter in a way …
/r/seduction27/07/21 03:08 PM
1

Wrestling X)
/r/seduction22/07/21 10:35 PM
1

Read thé rational mâle and you will know why. Hint : it is because the casino doesn't like when ppl crack the code
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:10 AM
1

If you do not enjoy Booking up, why not working on your purpose and dropping her as thé relationship does not seem healthy? Plus you don't have to listen to her hookup stories.
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:58 PM
3

Hello, Basically doing the same as workout app but with cold approach etc. Mix some theory and then concret exemple; and a way to assess the progress (number of ppl cold approaced etc). The exercices are already here (like in body building) but you add the interactive and measurable aspect.
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:16 PM
2

You are welcome. One more thing. Stay busy. I mean you Can have some talk on msg but being busy IS a good way not overdoing it.
/r/seduction16/07/21 09:39 PM
2

Imho, Confort might be Boring....and ppl don't like to be bored You Can set UP some confort but be carefull not overdoing it. The best answer i could give you IS : Take several number, do the different approach ans see what works best for you.
/r/seduction16/07/21 09:24 PM
3

Imagine her guts, i mean the several meter of guts right in her belly. No matter how attractive she IS, she IS, like everyone else, some Bones, meat and guts put together
/r/seduction16/07/21 05:12 PM
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