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"your are mad at white ppl for worrying for their safety?" That's wild"
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/21 08:22 PM
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I was not talking only about america as it is not the all the western countries, there are others outside america....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:10 PM
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sex goes both way unless it is rape. And "Alpha" use women only for sex too and couldn't care less about them as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 08:09 AM
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You are really great at framing it as being men's fault while ignoring all the feminism influence (mostly women let's face it) and the fact that women represent also a majority of elector and the fact that politician (men or women) want to be elected again so are influenced by the majority. So you shift the whole societal problem on men. It is exactly the same as saying " well it is the fault of black ppl for not giving a fuck about each other" while half the population is starving but the ppl a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 07:58 AM
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Because they are voted for and according to a meta analysis on about 42 studies, women have about the same (+2%) odd of being elected over a man. So it is a matter of application number not acceptation rate. https://alexandercoppock.com/schwarz_coppock_2020.pdf Plus you are using two fallacies 1)Apex fallacy. You extrend the power of some men on other The top % of men controle society but most the men don't 2)Composition fallacy. Men are treated as an homogeneous group having the same goal. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 07:46 AM
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Might be because these countries are better off on the economic scale hence less poverty hence less violence... There are too much confusing fator to say it is only due to gender role
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 07:39 AM
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Simple the magic disappear when you know the efforts it needs. So it is "boring" like heck it is the same as asking ppl to earn like 500k a year and saying "well s/he works all the time it is boring"........................
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 07:22 AM
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so in average you say men are stronger? Or what? i don't follow your logic. I was talking about relative strength
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 05:45 PM
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Your source litteraly shows that men have better RELATIVE strength than women....... 60 17 29 46 67 90 women (in kg for the BP) 60 33 49 70 95 121 men (in kg for the BP)... The figures i used were from strenght training from zatsiorski https://www.pdfdrive.com/science-and-practice-of-strength-training-training-in-paradise-e12424768.html
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 05:38 PM
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Women have for the same training 70%-100% of the RELATIVE lower body strength of men (in trained athlete) and bout 50% in the upperbody. so yes a man her height can easily overpower her in term of upper body strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:12 PM
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You are just ignoring my answer and last sentence which was the whole point you missed. I won't argue with someone to whom i explained several time my reasoning, the mechanic behind it and still uses a point that i explained why you could not use as it was not logically consistent. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:14 PM
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inaccurate is a form of false as it is not reflecting the actual fact with accuracy. My number were off but as i already said, it is to describe the mechanics of the reasoning. You cannot deem numbers as inaccurate (so they are distording the actual view of the fact) then use it to prove a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:31 AM
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ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:03 AM
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NISVS. I took an exemple with number that are off but the mechanic of the reasoning still stand. You cannot say something is false then use this exact same thing as an argument to prove your point. Pick one but not both otherwise it is contradictory
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:02 AM
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Well according to some survey (sorry can't find the source for now) men underreported the number of case even more than women so let's take an exemple. Let's assume the following hypothesis the time of the explanation : Men report only 5% of the case Women 50% 900 women are harassed. So it means 1800 would be the actual number. 100 men are harassed (10% of all cases as it is a common number). it means that 2000 men would be harrassed. (so the number are about the same. It does mean that men and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 06:26 PM
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well the studies' sample about the big five are quit large so it is better than a PPD survey XD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 06:15 PM
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You know that it is well acceoted that misogyny is quit set up there ? Don't you? We are talking about western countries or at least the one like USA, among the Europe, Australia etc. ​ Understandably so, if we compare the sheer number of victims of misogyny. And your resoning is like : well white ppl being murdered is excusable because it occurs less often than black ppl being murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:38 AM
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it is transactional as her value is her beauty and yours is your look (in the last part of your comment)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 06:42 PM
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It is ok if you think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 05:20 PM
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Here you have the fuckboy which is described in the book of pook (in TRP sidebare) and is not what TRP is about. Even this kind of lie is bluepilled (showing too much interest, not seing other women make you look desperate and can be a turn off)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:54 AM
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And you also forgot MGTOW, online dating app which screw the dating market and so on. It is hard to see causation and not only correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:52 AM
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what specific lies?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:49 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:42 PM
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Of course because there is the survivor bias. Who use the RP? The one needing something to get laid. So you are confusing the result and the cause. Not getting laid leads to use TRP but using TRP is not what leads to not getting laid. Compare the same ppl who can't get laid and then see the difference when they use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:13 PM
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Well TRP do not promote LTR at all so it's fine then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:09 PM
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It was a pun... because she was the one who can't stand :"/ but yes
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/21 06:05 PM
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Yes he ended it because he can't stand this BS
/r/PussyPassDenied06/04/21 06:25 PM
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The wall is about how much attention you get compared to when you were younger X)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:39 AM
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It would be if there are too many pics on each topic because why would you be posting it to show how great your life is if you are busy? So i would put some once in a while. Plus the arrogant part maybe also a way to demean you because of jealousy Like when you traveled and really enjoy it, put a couple of photo if you like it and would share it with friend to share how cool it is and they should try. The idea imho is not to say "hey i am sucessful, i did X" but more "hey i enjoyed X, you should…
/r/seduction05/04/21 08:32 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:25 AM
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Ideal social media profile? Like to attract ppl? (men and women) It is not in order but : Look (are you pretty, fit?), Money (more about what you do, like travel etc), Statut (hanging with friends and showing you are the one leading XD), Scocial proof (photo with hot women) and content giving extra value (about your hobbies, expertise may it be drawing, playing an instrument, anything you do.) I am currently working on developping these different areas so i can't show you an exemple for now but …
/r/seduction05/04/21 08:22 AM
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Simple, straighforward, and time saving. I like that XD!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:13 AM
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They do not agree on wether it is true or not but more if it should be used or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 10:36 PM
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the advice is about the messaging part, not the dating part
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 10:32 PM
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Some ppl survived a russian roulette but it is not a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 10:30 PM
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It is not absolute criteria (meaning X height) but comparative one (being in the top % of height, statut, money etc) of course there is a minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:46 PM
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Would you mind giving the link so i could check it out :)? And use it if needed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:37 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 07:50 AM
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he cannot get laid make sexuality is dirty and predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:29 PM
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if you find less ppl attractive, you will be less horny
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:15 PM
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It is soooooooooo funny, because all the tactics like dread, neg, deflecting, etc are set up as a response to the strategies used by lot of women (RPed?) like who bullshit game the most, sorry usually it is not the guy. Who threaten to leave most of the time? sorry, usualy it is not the guy. And the guy who do it are said to be narcissistic (as you said earlier). So at least if you want to blame ppl for their behavior, do it for everyone XD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:12 PM
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lol, if they were intimidated, it would be auto rejection (they would disqualify themselves) If it is hypergamy, it is women who disqualify them. There is a difference in the origine/reason of not pairing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:06 PM
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Welcome to the men's world and their issues XD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:56 PM
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Say thank to the halo effect XD
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 05:23 PM
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Well did they do the same studies for the one night stand or short term relationship? Because the study does not take really into account the dual mate strategy, it take only half of the equation....just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 05:19 PM
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Key word reported. Don't listen to ppl, watch what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 05:16 PM
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if there was no patriarchy it would not be the men's fault so
/r/FeminismStopsWhen31/03/21 05:44 PM
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depends on the age of the judge and using it is like blaming the black victim of murder because the killer was also black. Sorry but no it does not cancel each other for this reason (btw the reasoning works also for men)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:15 PM
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she low key said you are not a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:06 PM
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You are doomed if you think like this XD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:04 PM
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So social statut (and how influencial you are)? I keep it in mind XD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 08:34 AM
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You missed my point. I agree on the facts that the majority of murderers (and vicvtim of it), rapist, etc are men. (same for black ppl). What i can't stand is implying that every man is a potential threat. or generalizing men (or ppl of colour) for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 08:25 AM
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hypoagency
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:29 PM
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Well the majority of "baby killing" is done by women not men. So should be generalize women for the extremely small portion of them doing it? No. So doing generalisation on men on this is misandry. btw the overwhelming majority of murders, and kidnappers are black ppl, is also true in regard of the stats, but doing a generalization on black ppl based on it is racist....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:22 PM
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Nah it is not exclusively the sexdrive difference imho. A woman will also be horny if she see a hot guy. Simply she will find only about 20% of men as above average while men find about 50% of women as above average. And that's a big disparity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:10 PM
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Yeah that's a form of aikido XD
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:59 PM
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okay say other option and you have the case of 90% of women XD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:51 PM
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LOL the cost will be put on men even if it is for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:41 PM
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LOL replacemen by black ppl
/r/FeminismStopsWhen14/03/21 06:10 PM
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To make an analogy. Stealing is bad. The one stealing is the one to blame. But showing extra expensive unwatched stuff in plain sight of stealer, increase the odd of these object to be stolen. Morale, the stealer is the one responsible for the act but the action of the other ppl will increase or decrease the risk. It is like wearing a seatbelt. In case of crash it is safer, it is not saying you are the one in the wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 06:08 PM
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not spitting on me is a good start
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:35 PM
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I thought you would say they WERE pussies XD
/r/PussyPassDenied13/03/21 06:27 PM
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More like feministpassdenied but still cracking me up with the ease of JP do destroy the whole idea of patriarchy
/r/PussyPassDenied13/03/21 06:13 PM
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Yet the same person will fear all men as being stastitically possinbe to be harmed by them (like some poisonous mint would ruin a whole pack). It does mean that every man is assumed to be potentially a threat hence it associate all male with male violence. Replace male by black (because it is factually true that stastically black ppl are more likely to sustain or perpetract violence than white ppl) ppl are critisizing male violence and seeing all men as a potential threat (even the one who did n…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen13/03/21 09:55 AM
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Indeed. But failing could mean match or fonding suitable men. If they cannot find it maybe they are not such a great catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 06:23 PM
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I haven't been told it was new :/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:31 PM
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post on men failing in OLD : let's improve oneself to do better post on women failing in OLD : let's blame men XD it is almost not exagerated
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:29 PM
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So true XD
/r/PussyPassDenied10/03/21 03:00 PM
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kay XD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 02:58 PM
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That is funny because Failed Dating Strategy is filled with this type of stuff and at the same time ask for the traditional male gender role like if he do not "put effort" by paying the bill or the meal, he is a LVM. They ask for the benefit of the traditional gender role while wanting the benefit from being freem from it. No you cannot have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/21 08:49 AM
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That's not the end of the world lol It is not but it kinda defeat the whole purpose of the strategy X)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:20 AM
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Well he could have the same reasoning as you. Then how do you proceed XD? Yep and when girls do it they're called cockteases. I was called that a lot. Oh well! Fair enough i did not think it would be the case X)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:20 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:17 AM
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maybe, it is only my opinion on the phrase without context XD
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/21 08:17 AM
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but the message is tone deaf at best. English is my second language would you mind explain a little further pls :)?
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/21 08:15 AM
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About car crash. If the test were done on the dummy based on women average body, would'nt the issue still the same as men have a stronger constitution (back bones etc). Women would get less injured but in proportion maybe it would be the same AFTER doing this change. Men would be less injured than women. (I dont say that we should not simply that is it as simple as changing the dummy)* Moreover the injury rate gap depends also on the place you are seating and some reverse the rate if i remember …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:41 PM
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two words : apex fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:32 PM
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user name checked
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:30 PM
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yes indeed XD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:27 PM
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If he likes you he will try to budge in and get your attention. or he also has game and move on to another girl like you do. Come on when guys do it they are called assholes XD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:20 PM
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the context is to increase the ratio of women chefs. So while the headline is, the contexte isn't
/r/PussyPassDenied08/03/21 05:15 PM
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Men also do mistakes in communicating (i.e. not doing it at all). Men actually do communicate but when they open up they are not really meet with compassion. (experience of lot of ppl) idk actually, because the phrase "i am fine" is not say the most by men with the intend to be mind read by the partner...anyway XD. There is the red pill rage too. Remember when we told you a belief you had and really had faith in was not real (santa or any other stuff)? Same but way later. Unfortunatly there are …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:06 PM
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I don't really think TRP doesn't say it (see RedPillWomen). imho it simply states that a significant statistical sample of (wo)men are like that. AWALT is an hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:48 PM
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Wut XD?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:45 PM
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You should make some stand up with such jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:44 PM
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Well TRP tends to entice men to use the same "strategies" as women like dread (from who you hear the most, "if you do that, you will never see me again!"?), spinning plate (women have lot of option compared to men hence little emotional attachement needed and also a reason why they recover faster from a break up) etc. So i don't see in what it would be specific to avoidant men as it seem to be the default situation of a majority of women. EDIT : TRP do not shift the blame on other as it entice a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:36 PM
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Yeah that seems like projection
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:24 PM
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Yeah women are more empathic but maybe not more sympathic ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:32 PM
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You would not have the space indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 09:45 AM
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Imo a forgotten definition of intelligence is the ability to adapt to one's surrounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 09:36 AM
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While i agree, Sexism and misogyny has to be clearly defined with accurate criteria, because too often it is used to shut down ppl. If it enter in the cambridge dictionnary definition then i would call it that way. If it does not, i won't. As simple as that.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/21 09:32 AM
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I cannot agree more with you. I think it is like Women are at risk to sustain direct risk and physical damage (being assaulted or worse) while men can have indirect one (reputation destruction, blackmail or worse). So ppl should simply understand other's issues/risks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 09:29 AM
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Thanks for the answer. GO being a psycho XD. joke aside it is a reason why TRP entice aboundance mentality (spinninng plate)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 05:32 PM
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I agree the problem is not the consent on the moment as you can ask or read it if it's okay or not to make a move. The issue is when consent is wisdraw after. And that's what usually happen to the one meetooed when it is false accusation but you see my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 05:30 PM
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sympathy : an expression of) understanding and care for someone else's suffering empathy : the ability to share someone else's feelings or experiences by imagining what it would be like to be in that person's situation Psychopath have empathy but no sympathy for ppl. They know how they feel but don't care. Beside vocabulary i think it depends on which kind of relationship. LTR? Not gonna work. STR? Yes definitly imo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 05:22 PM
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maybe he don't want to be meetooed for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 05:10 PM
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Isn't it like percieved statut (according to your behavior?)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 05:08 PM
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As a man, lying about your SMV, be it by lying on statut, money, confidence or look will be heavily punished and shamed by women, wayyyyyyy more harshly than the other way around. So yes it would increase SMV as it increase look but it should be never ever discover otherwise the incoming backlash will have the opposite rffect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:43 PM
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You are perfectly describing the fallacy of the fair world. If you put efforts they will be rewarded and if you are not, it is because you do not try enough kinda BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:08 PM
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Nah that's more because women prefer men who are more competent etc than themself, not men who have an aversion to it. At least in term of sexual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:20 AM
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Indeed that is a good point. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:08 AM
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Nowhere in the post you specificly mention it and we are talking about attraction here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 09:12 PM
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If it is about attraction, how do you explain the tinder experiments showing that men do not care about women's archievement and women do about men's one? All the men on this app are loser? Is that it, the 1000 ? I am sure we could do the same experiment on different app and see about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 06:08 PM
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Men have evolved to be risk taking and more agressive. But such act of agression when not targeted to protect is seen as immoral (beating or killing someone ). So what do we do? Say that due to nature , male greater propension to physical violence is outside morale because it stem from evolution? Or do we still can say some acts are immoral even if it is due to our evolution? Same for hypergamy. It is a question of being able to restrain once primal instinct. Men restrain themself to prevent mur…
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 06:05 PM
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Nah if she plays hard to get, you are only hard to want
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 03:53 PM
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It has to be a troll right.....? Right ?
/r/PussyPassDenied16/02/21 03:49 PM
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I believe that there were some studies showing the time spend in job, chores, shopping, kids etc in single and married ppl according to gender and showed that : 1) single men took less time to shop and do the chore as single women on average 2) the combined time of all the avtivities was about the same for men and women in average unless they had 3+ kids. (it is a french study but you should be able to find it for other countries)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 04:11 PM
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You can use the same argument and say "no i won't let women babysiting my baby as most of the infanticide are done by women".....
/r/FeminismStopsWhen13/02/21 03:05 PM
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The scariest things is that false DNA test can be done (see BB for more info) EDIT : Why the downvote, i am only telling facts. There are comanies doing it -_- never envourage it...
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/21 02:51 PM
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This ^
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/21 02:47 PM
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*Raise his hand* To ask for a gentleman you have to be a Lady (using her own logic X)
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/21 12:26 PM
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What a shocker that men do not behave the same as women X).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:11 PM
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Thanks for the insight. I am more on the hominism or egalitarian, because the whole concept of patriarchy is hardly falsifiable and do not respect the Ockham Razor. You are still right about balancing. BTW where are you from? (To dig a little more on the topic)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:02 PM
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I see. Thanks for the explanation so basically they are "shocked" because men are more confrontational and when women are in a mixed group, the men are not softer with them than with other men, is it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 07:59 PM
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And other men are the ones doing this for the most part. for the robbery/assault, etc yes What is your point? Is it canceling out for this reason? For all the other thing it is a shared fault. Emapthy gap comes from men and women. Not only men. About the emotional support, no usualy men have it through their best friends (male) and the shaming and loss of attraction also comes from women. You did not mentionned social encouragement of women and the discouragement of men (if she succed it is due …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:38 PM
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This ^ Men treat women and men the same on this but women cannot handle it? Sorry if it sounds bad but i have read a study showing that lack of benevolent sexism is seen the same way as hostile sexism...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:32 PM
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I thought it was the teacher that's why. My bad
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/21 05:30 PM
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Okay he overreact because he put lot of force, but dude he explicitly told her several times and she go on, ignoring his warning. Sometime it is only because you are angry for being slaped and insulted/taunted. I do not encourage it as he could have only restrained her for the reason you mentioned but i totaly understand why he put this force. He was pissed (rightly imo)
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/21 05:29 PM
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Yeah i agree but the principle is the same. For exemple i don't have a great level in magic just a decent one. So i did not spent as much time as you said maybe like 1-2 hours a day, so less than 14 hours a week (during the period i was into it). But if i showed my practice and how the trick worked, it would loose its interest
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:25 PM
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i think that in general, not respecting someone is due to the feeling of superiority of the one judging if the ppl did not harm the arrogant one. Whoever it is. BTW thanks for the clarification!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:22 PM
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Yeah like just pull him off as you would do for two guys starting a fight, just split them.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/21 01:23 PM
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At least there were no white knight beating him sigh. I agree with you
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/21 01:20 PM
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I can go on FDS and say OMG women do not respect men at all. It is quit skewed data.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:17 PM
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It only shows men interrupt men and women at about the same rate but women do not interrupt men as much as they do interrupt other women. Women either respect more men, either do not respect other women. But you are right on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:10 PM
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Use of Intimidation is not legal as blackmail is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:03 PM
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Ability not to be robbed/killed/ assaulted or be way less likely, having my issues taken seriously and not blame either on me or an entity which is not falsifiable, having my life seen as precious, having more emotional support in general, having society encouragement to be strong and independant but not expected to be strong, not being expected to do the "emotional labor", having a movement to prevent body shaming against my gender
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:01 PM
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The number of case of men's aggression would not be about the same or higher than the number of sexual+physical agression+robery etc of women if women had the same odd of being physicaly assaulted/ robbed as men. See the official stats about it ;) Women have more odd of being sexually assaulted than men, men have more odd of being physicaly assaulted than women. That's it. If men don't have bigger odd of sexual aggression than women, women don't have bigger odd of physical assault than men. So y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:55 PM
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What are the data backing up your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:27 PM
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There is litteraly a study showing it X)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:26 PM
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Not "put up with us" but "put up with shitty behavior" when shitty behavior there is. The same for women putting with shitty men because they are attracted to. (halo effect+woman are wonderful effect)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:21 PM
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Thanks for the answer :) I will dig that a littke more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:08 PM
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the girl at the end (with the glass) prevent the other one to fight back (to not be beaten up i guess). Why did not she do it before the girl is thrown by the guy -____________-
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/21 12:00 PM
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How so? It has been an issue that is often pointed out for cross cultural studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 11:53 AM
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Yeah how would you feel if a magician revealed the secrests? I see it as the same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 11:51 AM
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"Nobody want to see your struggle". It is part of the magic. Would you think a magician would be famous, aknowledge if all the sleight of hand were known? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 06:02 PM
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My point is that women who feel some lanky 6ft2 guy is more masculine than a buff 5ft8 guy (all else being equal) are delusional I did not debated this point. You are right however it can be seen as an ingrained illogical reaction. 30 000 years back, if you were tall, you were more likely to be stronger than shorter guy. Why? Because of the same environement and "training". Moreover technique was not a thing and predator did not care about techniques designed against human.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 06:00 PM
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This yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 05:55 PM
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Well it was the beauty standard (plus having clear skin). But idk iw as not there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 05:54 PM
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Lurk in MGTOW 2 and not MGTOW 1 you will see a big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 09:01 AM
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Nobody said there is no earning gap. There is an earning gap just no wage gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:57 AM
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Don't respond to such an invalid attack. They did not find anything else to say. It is like "who hurt you". Don't stay in this frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:34 AM
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Well we can't say that for sure as it has not been the case. And Matriachy have not exactly (for the one existing) the exact opposite of the Patriarchy structure. It is about lineage but about power, it is difficult to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:30 AM
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Women doing it well yeah gold digging. Men doing it = scamer/ con artist......
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/21 08:19 AM
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The devil advocate could say it is because cultures do interact between each other
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:15 AM
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lean but muscular tall men, or fat rich men. Here is the Alpha fuck / buck beta buck imo. Meaning when you have a scarce environment, you "go" for the fat rich guy who will be a good provider because it is more important in this context. If i remember well, there is one interesting study linking gender difference in behavior and enviromental pressure (pathology, food etc). So it is not to say it is exactly what happenend about attraction, but simply the "beauty satandard" change mainly due to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:11 AM
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THat was in term of attractiveness not efficiency ;) But you are right X)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:57 AM
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Beat me, why men like beautiful women with good hips waists ratio? I think it is the same reason they like tall guy
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/21 05:28 PM
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What X)? Want to be tossed around? Ask your gf to lift X) How much do you weight? about 85 kg (187 lbs)?
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/21 03:49 PM
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Yeah they like to feel small EDIT : I said feel bc i found that acting and tossing aroung seems to have a positive effect
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/21 03:43 PM
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Thanks for your answer :) I see what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:24 PM
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No simply that attraction is less important in LTR, so caring, niceness etc are more emphasized. It is like a weighted average. The coefficient of the traits are not the same for ONS/STR and LTR :) Like 100% alpha (for lack of better term) for STR but 80%-90% Alpha and 10-20% of beta for LTR (because attraction is still important but confort is needed in a small amount not to have a toxic relationship)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:23 PM
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I was thinking about you asking the top 2%. And said as long as you are in term of look (mainly on what men will be attracted) in the top 2% i don't mind. Otherwise, LTR will be difficult with these men. ONS should be easier though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 08:57 AM
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I think it's true that women are perhaps more picky when using online dating apps, but obviously it couldn't be true "in the real world", because then most people wouldn't be in relationships, or they would be in relationships with people they aren't sexually attracted to, which is weird. LTR vs STR
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 08:54 AM
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I don't even see whats so shocking here. I even find it a large number, I personally probably find 2% of all men I see attractive, and that's generous. as long as you are in the top 2% in term of look
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 08:50 AM
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In a mecanistic way instead of an organic way? I don't know why it is such a pb. What is important is what you do. Both a narcissistic person and altruistic person could do something to help the other. The first do it for oneself but it benefits also the other. The second only do it for the other (also because it maker the giver feels good which is also "selfish". Anyway. The result is the same. And it is not because solmething is done in an instinctive way that it is better than a more mecanist…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 05:23 PM
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How so? Attractive ppl would be average... And forgeting Hypergamy. Cause the 20% thing is skewed. How only 20% of men's population could be above average? That does not compute with the notion of average. While men set the 50% limit. Women want the fittest not the fit one. It is the nuance. They will compare men between them and f***k the most attractive. See how even instagram skew the vision of women about muscle and the work needed to have a certain physic. It is quit telling on the fact it …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 04:35 PM
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Oh i understand know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 03:57 PM
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how are you supposed to become charismatic for exemple without interracting with other ppl? And it is not using them... As i said the idea is to be clear about the intent. So learning to become charismatic is manipulative/abusive or the fact of not being clear about one's intention is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 08:00 AM
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This X) ^
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:06 PM
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You don't see it that way but it still work with the implyed mecanism. Denying it does not make it dissapear. do you understand how creepy it sounds? Well learning to be charismatic for exemple is not creepy but work on some mecanism and you can defitly see it through this lens untill it become natural. (if you are not naturaly charismatic) Will it be creepy when it is still not natural and then the creepiness will disapear when it become natural? How it sounds is not really the point. And I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:03 PM
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1) there’s “fake it until you make it” and there’s “become a whole new character to get sex and then go back to being my real self once i’ve gotten what i wanted.” Well TRP promote a consistency in the behavior (hence the first quote) to actually become what you are faking. trp is basically pua repackaged in a more modern, manospherian-friendly bow. TRP is more about ubderstanding why the "tricks" work to be able to naturaly behave this way so it is not a "trick" anymore (like being charismatic,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 08:55 PM
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Don't knew about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 08:34 PM
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Right. Let's say A Significant Statistical Sample Are Like That (ASSSALT). And it say women are different (taste, thinking etc) but are attracted to about the same thing (like men are). On this point TRP would be pretty misandrist too as it say also men are attracted by the same stuff etc etc (something like AMALT too). They do say it is not necessary all women (hence the unicorn and yes individuals), but AWALT and AMALT would apply mainly for unrestricted behavior. It is a propensity to do so. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 08:34 PM
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What specificly go in these type of language in your opinion ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 06:31 PM
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1) Okay let's assume that. What part of men does it?) 2)Is it okay to do so? Personnaly i don't think so. That's why i don't. But two wrong do not make it right. It is not because someone hate me that i should hate this person back. So it is not because someone do something that is justify you to do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 06:28 PM
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Like shit testing. Maybe you did not. Or are not aware of it. idk. I speak in general. Otherwise shit test would not be so proeminant in TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 06:25 PM
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refusing to be clear about your intentions, even when asked explicitly, is definitely being honest. lying to get sex is definitely being honest. I don't know where you do have these, men just don't make promis of a LTR at least it is not what RP promote. They promote being clear about it. acting like a completely different person than you really are to get sex is being honest. 1) Rp do not say to act differently but to become different. And that's why fake it until you make it is so common. It i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 06:22 PM
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Well 1) i am not in a bad area 2) i would be beaten up before even defending myself. I am short, don't have fighting experience and a shrimp X) Thanks for the feedback. I am currently to work on my hobbies but it already need some self confidence (crying inside cause i have hard time to do it). I struggle to gain weight though X), but i am on my way. For the mental aspect, i don't know does staying in the cold in T shirt while focusing on something until your hands gets blue count ? Any exercice…
/r/seduction06/02/21 06:09 PM
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and women would do anything for validation. It is not an argument for saying women are depraved
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 05:12 PM
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You cannot handle shit test too i guess, because they can be direct and pretty brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 05:10 PM
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Well that's good news because TRP is about being honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 05:02 PM
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Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 04:50 PM
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Have not read it yet. Thanks for the ref ! am i right on this? The best version : => becoming good at your hobby/passion =>lifting/workout to have a body i am proud of (internal validation) =>mental, same as the body but with the mental X) Do you know how i can improve my fighting skill with the closed gym and no buddy into martial art :/ ?
/r/seduction06/02/21 04:48 PM
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Personnaly not my feeling but idk i am biased on this but can't tell because i mainly focus on self improvement stuff and the being open about your intent. We have come to an agreement indeed. Same here, thanks for staying calm and polite. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 04:42 PM
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The burden of proof is on the one making the claim (ie on you). See you later when you will have finished your homework.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 04:39 PM
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i thought it was more about trying to haver a specific voice which is not one's. Like saying someone he/she is such a "pauser". Might be wrong as english is my second language. Otherwise i would have seen "vocal pause" instead of "vocal pauser"
/r/seduction06/02/21 12:52 PM
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Not an expert i would simply add cold reading = read ppl "life" without asking (seeing nail, shoes, and so on) hot reading = read ppl vibe (body language, tone, etc) (that's why cold and hot)
/r/seduction06/02/21 12:50 PM
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Any tips? How did you trained for it (if you had to)?
/r/seduction06/02/21 12:44 PM
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Frame control, cold reading, redraming situation and living purposefully seem to be the harder work imo. Does The first part seen as charisma (inner game, body language, being authentic, non neediness)? Grooming/clothing is another thing but it can be also very heplful to dress well as it can boost confidence in one's attractiveness. EDIT : For the body language and voice, i found that puting an intent behind it was easier. For exemple i try to imagine the person been relax or hypnotised. Not th…
/r/seduction06/02/21 12:33 PM
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Lift, work on your finance and statut, learn how to fight, learn game/human psychology.
/r/seduction06/02/21 12:26 PM
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Maybe on FDS but i lurked in RPW and it was, loking a mate, being feminine/submissive, etc and it seems to be quit red pill stuff but on the woman side.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:12 PM
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You have a point, even if it is far less prevalent now. Okay lets rephrase it. Men never use women's weakness against them in relationship. Is it better. How many guy can attest that whenever an argument withe gf come up, his weakness will be used during it. I do not hear a lot of women saying the same. Or they will say it is abusive. But anyway on men it would not be emotional abuse. EDIT : The excuse of the period is a double sword as it can be an excuse for the woman to be easily angry or it …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:10 PM
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Oh i did not know. That is an argument in favor. Fact are with you on this point so concede it to you for Germany. There is a study showing that half of the sample had bak up plan so. Crap maybe but statisticaly... There are many women who don't take advantage of any orbiters. there is a lot of guy who don't take advantage of their "plate", it is consensual as the man does not extract sex. (otherwise it is clearly rape) (EDIT : or don't lie about their intention and that they have other "plates"…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:05 PM
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Okay let do another exemple. If you bet half of all your money, assets, etc on bet you have even 30% to loose, would you do it? Here it is more accurate isn't it? EDIT : About the "plate", women have option and orbiters so it is only the same with a name. Find it disgusting to call plate? Well they act the same way women do with their option, the latter just don't have a name for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:40 AM
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This one thousand times ^
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:37 AM
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The redpillwomen take the principle of TRP and apply it to the "female sexual strategies".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:24 AM
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What specific tricks and manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:20 AM
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Divorce rate is 50%. How about you fucking try to be the 50% that makes it. Would you do it if you had to jump from a building to another and knew you would have let's say 30% of falling and dying? Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:17 AM
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Was about to say the same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:15 AM
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And the RP only counter what women already do (dread is an exemple). So it is because it give the upper hand to men that it is seen as evil. Look at what a narcissistic pervert does (assuming it is a man). Horrible? Yes. Now assume it is a woman. Weird, she is far less likely to be called that bacause ghosting, dread, shit test, warm/cold, etc are seen as normal when perform by a woman. I don't say every woman do it. I only call the double standard on it. Basically men doing it=bad, women doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:14 AM
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It is based on trends. Otherwise, a billion wicked thoughts and fifty shade of gray would not be a thing. Nor what is in almost all erotic novel targeting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:06 AM
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TRP is for the biggest part deeply misogynists and dehumanizing. Would you mind developping on :) Which one is misogynists? Which one specificly is deshumanizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:02 AM
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Could you explain what exact part is poison and not The redpillwomen of FDS? (different strategies aimed for different ppl)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 08:58 AM
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TRP was also to avoid to be taken advantage of. Lot of stuff like \**dread**\** are primarily used by women by default, not men. (in occurence). How many times do you see men threatening a woman to leave her (without being called abusive)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 08:55 AM
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See the Redpillwomen sub ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 08:51 AM
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Good projection. Men usualy don't use emotional weakness agaisnt women, but the other way....or at least is largely seen as more acceptable for the later.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 08:33 AM
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Honestly I only wear mask for old ppl or the young one who might be in contact with old ppl bacause i am healthy (at least no health issues) and young so i don't mind it. I even suppect to catch months ago (beibg bedridden for 5 consecutives days with fever etc while i never had this in my whole life X) )
/r/PussyPassDenied06/02/21 08:16 AM
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This ten times ^
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 08:07 AM
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Mainly less BS and mind game??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 06:58 PM
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Of course because it gives you value by association like having the brand new bag or luxury cars
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 06:40 PM
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That's why coffee date it is less than 2 or 3 buck X)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 03:50 PM
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Well the content of their advice is rarely what you find in erotic novel and so on. Have you often heard women saying.... It’s something your mom and aunt say to you to indicate they think you’re lovable and able to attract someone. the issue is that it is not limited to your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 09:52 AM
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Yes X)
/r/seduction04/02/21 08:18 PM
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Totaly agree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 04:35 PM
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Thanks for the detailed answer. My problem is then on the vocabulary. It is like being in STEM and talking to someone who never studied science and using specific term that can be usual term but in the context of STEM mean something else. So the issue is more about the ambiguity of the term in the advice. Because if i say something to you that have place to missinterpretation, it is on me not being able toi express in a correct way what i want to say. You have to adapt to your interlocutor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 04:19 PM
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Well the content of their advice is rarely what you find in erotic novel and so on. Have you often heard women saying: 1) Work on your social statut 2) Work on your money/finance 3) Work on your body 4) Work on your charisma and IDGAF attitude Instead of "be yourself" and i need a nice guy etc? I mean in a general way of speaking, of course there are women giving these advices but i don't think they are that many.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 03:56 PM
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Okay so lets take studies then :) .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 03:51 PM
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It is like why don't you display your pain in a cool way? And Relative death or job loss are okay but the attraction is still loosed. It is not a sensible choice imho. EDIT: disgust or attraction loss is not a sensible choice, it is a guts feeling and i do not justify it, simply explain. But a post was litteraly a girl saying "why guys you don't channel your bad feelings in something productive?" And some responses like "the death of a relative have a pass". A pass, not compassion, no a pass....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 03:44 PM
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Yeah basicaly X)
/r/FeminismStopsWhen04/02/21 03:32 PM
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Yes my point is that as the physical caracteristic we are a lot alike, four limbs one head etc, but there is an addition of small difference that make at the end a great difference.
/r/MGTOW204/02/21 03:31 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 03:29 PM
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Does pansexual represent the majority of the case? I think it is speaking in term of general statment :). So you have a valid point saying it is different for you i would simply add that it may not be the case for the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:11 PM
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Thanks for including this piece of information. Indeed!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:07 PM
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Can you say a significant stastical sample of women (ASSSWALT) do X if you have actual data showing it like meta analysis or cross country studies which are replicated several times?
/r/MGTOW203/02/21 07:05 PM
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AWALT is the other face of the same coin (AMALT) simply implying that human tend to have pattern including gender. I don't even know how we accept and aknowledge all the cognitive bias and psychological mecanisms in human but whenever gender is a criteria differenciating behavior or so, it is misogynistic..... See the redpill women and it would be about the same stuff as redpill but in a different way as the strategy is different (locking a mate vs getting laid).
/r/MGTOW203/02/21 07:00 PM
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Cause incel sub have been banned no?
/r/MGTOW203/02/21 06:53 PM
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Same experience here.....
/r/MGTOW203/02/21 06:46 PM
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Okay say society in general. Happy?
/r/MGTOW203/02/21 06:40 PM
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Are you saying this because you can't get laid and it is a projection on other ppl or because you are frustrated about their freedom?
/r/MGTOW203/02/21 06:39 PM
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Well it is way easier for a woman to have sexe so the need to consume porn is also a factor. You can't just toss it like that. Compare all the men and women having sex or consuming porn. You will have a better number of the one not being asexual (yes not consuming porn or not having sex does not mean you are asexual but it can give a first assessment)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:28 PM
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Bromance is bad !!! How could you allow male to male friendship. It has to be exclusive to women otherwise it harms them !! /s
/r/FeminismStopsWhen03/02/21 06:24 PM
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Then take a photo of you, without a shirt tossing a girl (or several if you can carry several) X)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:09 PM
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Well you should do an experiment keeping the same bio. Doing one profile with the douch bag photo and the other with a sport or activity where you are shirtless to see if there is any difference or if it is inherent to the abs X).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:07 PM
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Thanks then put /s otherwise ppl with poor english like me will not understand X)
/r/PussyPassDenied03/02/21 02:33 PM
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Good troll, good troll (or sarcasm but i don't see it)
/r/PussyPassDenied03/02/21 09:46 AM
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There have always been cads who lied for sex like fakeup oups make up? and sexual losers who opt out. When the value of ppl in about ho many women you have sex with. You are confusing MGTOW and Incel. And before you say anything, look R/MGTOW2 instead of the first one. But the vast majority of guys are happy to pay for a date Well of course because for many there isn't a second date otherwise. If men are not entitle to sex, which they are not, women are not entitled to have a free diner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 06:57 PM
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Textbook of ad hominen. Great exemple :) Beside this what was your counter argument, i mean the real one without fallacy? You have one right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 06:52 PM
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Thanks for adding these elements
/r/MensRights02/02/21 05:47 PM
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What do you inuendue? Maybe that i am 14 or that all the men saying they open up to their gf/wife and got burn were 14? Okay reddit is not real life i get it. But how many post have you seen on internet, reddit etc showing whenever men open up, they are shited on and more often than not, women loose attraction to them. It is not a question maturity. I imagine it like if my partner gained 50 lbs overnight. I would not find her attractive anymore or less attractive. It is the same with men opening…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:00 PM
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Lol I understand better thanks We are on the same wavelength then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 04:51 PM
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There's proof that he hurt her. Which one? I may not know that much about it but if i remember he almost loose on finger and had litteraly voice record where she admit having an abusive bahavior. Moreover even with that she has been paid to give lecture on partner abuse. The irony is kinda here imo.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 11:25 AM
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women are wonderful effect women intragroup bias, men extragroup bias empathy gap gamma bias
/r/FeminismStopsWhen02/02/21 11:17 AM
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The concept of love is different that the main issue. Yes men are the romantic one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 09:16 AM
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How do you put idealistic and realistic in the same sentence. Isn't it opposites caracteristics? Also because men don't take problems in a relationship seriously until she actually up and leaves. Well women tend ime to leave or loose attraction when it is the man who have the issues and open up about it, communicate, so yes women take it seriouly....by leaving you whenever a problem come up X)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 09:15 AM
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Lightswitch effect plus a larger social circle to share one's emotions, plus a different concept of love, plus the difference in option EDIT: explain instead of downvoting, or skip it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 09:07 AM
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Yes the difference is between being useful and being used. If the favors are reciprocated, etc it is more about being useful and giving a hand, helping each other. If you never have a favor done to you, concession, the right to say no etc here you are used.
/r/seduction02/02/21 08:49 AM
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Almost as if OP was wrong. Only almost X)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 08:47 AM
1

Now you know X) i learnt i the same as you just did
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 08:44 AM
1

Yeah it is called the redpill rage. Check out MGTOW 2 instead of MGTOW 1 and you will see the same name but really different views or attitude i would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 08:43 AM
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We really should seek studies on the topic X) I guess you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 08:42 AM
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Kindness is "bad" when you don't have boundary imo. Hence you are a doormat
/r/seduction01/02/21 09:29 PM
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Just ask to grab a coffee i don't know X)
/r/seduction01/02/21 09:26 PM
1

Still have the final word on the spending
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 09:06 PM
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Well it is not a "proof" as it is an anecdotal evidence but i clearly agree. Even without kids, i was spending more when i was with my now ex gf even if we splitted the bill than now (i am single). So i think it is definitly one of the possible explanation which has not really be mentionned in the study imo or not enough
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:58 PM
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"/s"is for the decoy X)?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:55 PM
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I know and put a disclaimer on it. Plus we are talking about attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:53 PM
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That's a lot of damage !!
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/21 07:47 PM
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Well not for fling or stuff like tinder at least. I get that tinder is not the real world however now, a lot of meeting are done trought OLD. And it shows that men do not care about the educational level and women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 07:45 PM
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Married one will earn more since they have also to support partialy their partner. A single man may have lower living standard than the one his partner ask for. And the graph say about 5% difference if you take the same age category. So it is not really that different. Might be other factors etc. But my point stand. Men who are never married might have lower living standard (because it is what suits them without someone trying to push it) so they need to earn less.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 07:37 PM
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Or is it only bad when men play the game ? Here is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 07:16 PM
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Prenup can be thrown out the window so no. It is sensible if it would be unquestionable but it is. Just don't get married, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:56 PM
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Ah my bad did not took that one X)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:51 PM
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No no no no, the men learning it or doing it are dangerous narcisssit, you fool !! Men can't do that /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:25 PM
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But they are shitted on. How strange
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:22 PM
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There are equal numbers of men and women. Everyone should be able to pair up, in theory. You forgot hypergamy in the equation X)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:13 PM
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Actually, as a man, you are shamed for not being able to get a girlfriend so...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 07:14 PM
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It is more a pussy pass
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/21 11:22 AM
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It is the definition of equal right....and equal left
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/21 10:59 AM
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Don't apology, you are asking. I have heard the quote. The man who asks a question is a fool for a minute, the man who does not ask is a fool for life.” ― Confucius To answer quickly to your question, the white feather was mainly in Europe (as i know but you can look it up i am not that knowledgeable) during the WWI. The feather was basicaly the symbol of cowardness. So the white feather was an organisation which was giving white feather to the one who were not fighting on the fronline, Be it in…
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/21 10:53 AM
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Indeed thanks for pointing that out ! Personnaly how would you establish the causation link ? (or the null hypothesis which is also valide of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 10:41 AM
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Thanks for the correction. I have seen another mistake on the with (wirth) -_- Yes english is my second language, finished school and only practiced bt watching movies, hanging out on forums and reading scientific paper. So i still have to learn, and practice oral X). Thanks !
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/21 10:38 AM
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That's why i would personnaly prefer to make money by selling books, courses or so
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/21 10:33 AM
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Yes what an honor
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/21 10:32 AM
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I am not sure about that. Rape fantasies seem to comes with the image of the strong, dominant guy but in the behavioral aspect. To know if it is because of sexual repression, do a comparison of occurence among religious ppl, promiscious ppl and so one. But i am not sure about that and what support that. Otherwise, how come that women are the biggest consumer of hard porn in proportion, how come that it is mainly women on a large extend who buy erotic novel? I mean i did not track the sales but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 07:58 PM
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Thanks for your feed back. Yeah that's what i thought :) But you know equality when it comes in term of benefit not responsability or effort.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/21 07:43 PM
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Well i am not sure either, i am not realy good in History and laws and even less when it is not even my country X)
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/21 07:42 PM
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Oh my mistake then :) thanks for the info
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/21 06:42 PM
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This ^
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/21 06:25 PM
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Yes that's why the suffragist did not win too. Btw, fun fact, lot of suffragette took part in the white feather, how sweat the hypocrisy is.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/21 06:22 PM
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I would simply add > It's similar to the way that the number of male CEOs is too high But don't want to work 80 hour+ per week, wirth a hight pressure, unflexible job. (CEO imo is a lot of pressure and even if you delegate according to what you do as an activity, you crame lot of hours)
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/21 06:17 PM
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Btw (i am not in USA), the draft started at 18 and the voting right at 21, doesn't it? If so it means that there is a gap of 3 years where you could be killed without even having the right to vote.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/21 06:14 PM
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Stop bringing facts, it will offend them LOL EDIT : The past should not be even an argument because most men who are still alive today did not take part in these part of history. Simple analogy. Do you kill dog because wolves where killing your sheep? It would be the same as puting accountability on the children for their parent's behavior.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/21 06:07 PM
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It has been said in another comment i guess : A lot of traits that women desire in successful/attractive men (stoicism/dominance/confidence/aggression), are also common in Psychopaths/Sociopaths. u/Cho_Assmilk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 05:47 PM
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Rape is pretty hard to prove so most rapists get away with it and the whole experience of dealing with the criminal justice system is often painful, pointless, expensive and time-consuming for the victim. I agree with you on this point Most women have nothing to gain from false rape accusations. Well the one doing it aim to destroy reputation, make them lose their job, etc. One point you did not used is that they don't need to put it to the court yo make damages. Leave a twit and the man's carri…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 10:14 AM
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Who said people were totally aware of their own motivations? But you what no one has ever said, realized, or had a therapeutic realization over? That they hit a certain N count and somehow was overwhelmed with a desire to behave completely differently Bridges undergoing a chemical reaction are not comparable at all Okay several things. First i did not claimed that i had the explanation but i was simply countering your sentence as it suggested heavily that ppl where always aware of the reasons of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 09:56 AM
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If it is the case for you, that's really great. But i keep it mind that even between friends, (i had girl-friends), exchange about sex and their partner. It is a form of comparison so i i don't think the majority is like you. From what i heard from them at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 09:34 AM
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There are psychological mechanism that are not necerraly conscious too. Do cognitive bias ring a bell to you? And the person is usualy not aware of it but a lot of all to human beings making decisions about their own behavior. make their choice based on these bias. So it is an analogy that can be used imo Why porn is so often blamed? Because it put unrealistic expectation on the partner (Be it a 10 inch dick or a G size while being 130lbs). However the "choice" of putting these expectation is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 07:11 PM
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Holy shit X)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 07:03 PM
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What would you feel if your current partner was comparing you to all the porn stars, with great plastic etc? Now multiply this by at least 10
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 07:02 PM
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Okay lets take an exemple. Imagine you see several iron bridges. You see on one tghat there is a lot of rust and not on the other. Later you see the rusty one collapsed and not the other. Now you do the same observation with hundreds of bridges, and observe the more rust there is, the more likely the bridge is to collapses (more "ultra" rusty bridge collapsed in the same timespan than less rusty one). So your conclusion is the bridge will be more likely to collapse if it is really rusty than les…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 06:59 PM
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How not to be insecure when you have to compete with 30-100+ other past men? And past behavior is the best predicatior of futur behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 06:49 PM
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Survivor bias? Selection bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 06:39 PM
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Okay lets watch Japan in the coming years
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 09:31 AM
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But the shame will come from other men or from within. 85% of the time virgin shaming comes from other men Well i dont know i have no stats on that and yes, because their worth has been set on how men can "get" women. But this standard was "established" mainly by women (mate copying) and enforced by both gender and the opposite by men. Feminity and masculinity (and the shame for not conforming to it ) is determined by the opposite sex and enforced by both. imo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 09:30 AM
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Lol seems like life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 09:25 AM
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Men tend to see femininity as inherently lesser which is why being compared to a woman is the ultimate insult. Feminity is despised in men. By men and women.(are you gay? Small dick energy etc) Not only do men respect masculinity more, but women do as well. true, ppl who conform to gender norm are rewarded. What does masculinity in men and femininity in women look like to you? About the question, it is hard to say since we cannot really take apart nurture and nature so knowning what is innate in…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 06:15 PM
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Yes you are right
/r/FeminismStopsWhen28/01/21 05:47 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 05:46 PM
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Imperfect mean doing mistake, not blocking purposely something.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen28/01/21 03:06 PM
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Wait how would herbivores threaten women and the government from their POV Easy who wil be exploited to work their ass off, marry, and being the main taxe payer etc? It is an indirect threat as it is "oh no our slave are rurring away from the us"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 02:45 PM
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Don't know the expression. Does it mean they are the first showing the problem? (Like dying canary un coal mine)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 02:43 PM
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No matter how advanced sex dolls get they will always be a source of shame among men Guess who will also actively shame the men like saying "anyway if they buy it i would never be with them" (because they are low value). Shaming and pushing back sexdoll is more to keep a leverage. It is like selling cheap food (not good quality but still let you live) in a starving country. How are you supposed to maintain high price (due to scarcity) if cheap food is sold? You cannot so you have to kill the con…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:22 AM
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LOL anyway they buy it because nobody want them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:18 AM
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That is also why Herbivor men in japan is concerning (also due to population decrease)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:16 AM
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Yeah. Let ppl in suffering so they still have needs that can be leveraged agaisnt them or exploited so if benefit society or some ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:15 AM
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Yeah what make them attractive (Dont giving a fuck etc) is also what make them asshole. Can't have your cake and eat it too. No Alpha buck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 09:57 AM
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Internalised misogyny, benevolent sexism, etc. Yeah so no agency, hence even more reenforcing gender stereotype (women hypoagency, men hyperagency). I really wonder who use these terms. It is just annoying me. On one side one is clearly blamed on the other side on is the victim. Come on if it is gender role exepectation everybody is to blame and victim of it. Thanks for your feedback :)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/21 08:41 AM
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The issue is when there is a semantic slide. The only place I see that happening is people in subreddits like these who don't want it to happen. No because even some psychology studies defined masculinity itself as toxic by putting its caracteristic in rigid box and saying it was toxic (while these caracteristic were not even part of healthy masculinity) We do, we just don't generally use that term. well i lack here i guess :/ . What term are used that are gendered (as it is with toxic masculini…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/21 10:46 PM
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Toxic masculinity" they're referring to a subset of masculinity that you might imagine a stereotypical TV jock bully would have, not the kind of masculinity most of us (I would hope) have The issue is when there is a semantic slide. Toxic masculinity is to blame okay. But masculinity itself tend to be also bashed as toxic in men and rewarded in women. And btw we never talk about toxic feminity. Coincidence? I don't think so. Why not calling toxic gender norm or something like this which do not g…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/21 08:40 PM
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Well, when i walk, i do look at ppl in the eye, men and women and they tend to look away quite quickly but they does not seem interested X). (men of course but neither are women imo :") ) I will try out more thoroughly then
/r/seduction27/01/21 06:01 PM
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You realize you contradicted yourself? How can you say they didn’t approach because of fear and intimidation there is a nuance you did not take into account imho. The reason of this fear or intimidation. The rejection is fine, etc. But what is frightening is the social and penal retaliation. If the law, court and overtone window were not as it is, it would not even be a thing. So he does not contradict himself as he did specified the reason to be intimidated, not by the person and the rejection …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:50 PM
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I will see if she is tripping on her own feet at least X)
/r/seduction27/01/21 05:37 PM
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How do we know if there is a mask X) ? Thanks for the feedback. Well at least it is like me and i think a lot of ppl who find someone attractive.
/r/seduction27/01/21 05:29 PM
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You save my life too X)
/r/seduction27/01/21 05:20 PM
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Good point but they don't have male partners willing to give up their jobs, and step up and parent full time allowing them to do that. Well Stay at home husband are litteraly seen negatively. See how men are suspected when around kids. But your point is relevant as society at large does not realy encourage men nor women to realy step aside their gender role. I don't think a man that makes less money is less than me not in any way shape or form. I do think a man that has zero ambition and no job …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:51 PM
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Okay it boiles down to. "Women choose higher earning men not because they prefer it but because men are insecure about it". (maybe due to the insult "looser in mom basement" if they cannot provide" or the lifelong shaming on it). What is funny is that no matter what, it is the same for height, ppl say it is men who feel insecure next to a taller women which is more about women not wanting to date shorter men. Maybe you had a bad experience, i don't know you at all so i cannot tell and it is only…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:21 PM
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sorry i quote only one part but it sum up your comment. THe reality is of course women that are financial secure, at least myself look for things beyond financial security in a man, and many men feel inferior to provide that. And I really think that’s what it boils down to, the need to feel superior and execute control Well maybe, at least, based on OLD data profiles, men do not care about the women archievement and money but women does. So it is not they need to feel suoerior, it is that strong…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 12:01 PM
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It is exactly what they said about women EDIT : i did not know we could downvote X). Instead of explaining
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:14 AM
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LOL so black ppl being sentenced longer is because white ppl are seen as weaker? Give me a break you would never frame it ths way if it was about race even though the principle behind it is the same. statistically Black ppl are taller and have more muscle mass. It is not a reason to sentence them longer for that and we dont blame this issue on pervieving white ppl as weak but as treating ppl of colour as *more* threatening.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:48 PM
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Most guys know, the ones you can actually share your emotions, the deep secrets, are your bros. Yes ald never open up to your gf. Dont give her ammunition.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen15/01/21 04:57 PM
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Wait nope, the empathy gap is clear. Men and women doesn't care about men
/r/FeminismStopsWhen15/01/21 04:33 PM
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Well if you are 5'5 and more than 140lbs you are likely to be either overweight either really muscular... Okay may concede you the other point.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/01/21 04:27 PM
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If the woman is “bashing you” for inquiring about her height, I said weight, you miss my point. you probably weren’t a good match in the first place. I am generaly speaking not on the individual scale. So again you are not on point. There isn’t a double standard. I literally have never seen a woman get offended over being asked her height, Like i said, i said weight. And are you kidding me? Men having stadards are bashed for it. If you say "i want a less than 140 lbs woman who look after childre…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/01/21 04:00 PM
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Men can do this but will be bashed for it. What is your height (asked to a man)? Normal What is your weight (asked to a woman)? How shallow you are !
/r/PussyPassDenied15/01/21 03:40 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 11:37 AM
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So say you were walking down the street and a stranger jumps you & viciously attacks you. And The fact you guys seem to think abusers are up front about it is irrational. Does not add up and is an innacurate generalisation. I never said abuser were upfront. was trying to point out it’s never the victims fault for others actions. It is never i agree. But for exemple as a man, i would not walk at night alone in the street because i have great odd of being assaulted or beaten. If i do it, i am not …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:43 AM
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I can only upvote one time but i would do it more if i could. It is in one comment how lot of post here and one feminist sub percieve the issues Edit : for the downvoter, it is in the every concept of patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:34 AM
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So instead of the man paying for his irresponsible ejaculation, now we make EVERYONE pay for his irresponsible ejaculation Sex is two way street it is the man and woman who consent. If he does not put any condom and the woman knows it but say nothing and initiate sex, both are equaly responsible. If the condom fail, it is no one's fault. If the woman lie about being on pill it is her fault If it is the man who do no put condom without her partner knowing and initiate sex, it is his fault It is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:31 AM
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Great strawman the comment was about choosing or vetting potential parner not assault in the street
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:23 AM
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A great living exemple of women most affected syndrom Your point is that women seen as evil face a backlash. So does men for being weak, your point? You are arguing that women suffer more from gender stereotype while ignoring what i hear a lot in dialogue/debate. A: Men are not helped as much as women B: Of course, men are seen as stronger and women as weaker. We could also say A: Women are held at higher standard than men B : Of course, women are seen as pure, more nuturing. About the consequen…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:15 AM
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The studies controled forbthe crime and record
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:03 AM
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Thanks Feel free to share if you see any dead link or mistake, or studies, meta analysis against my points :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:52 AM
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And simply "women don't care about your struggle, they wait at the finishing line"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:42 AM
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Cant see the original post. But pretty textbook case of rape :////
/r/FeminismStopsWhen14/01/21 07:41 AM
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Or you just cant ressort to strenght when you are intimate with some one out fear to harm this person...
/r/FeminismStopsWhen14/01/21 07:29 AM
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Maybe in the circles you frequent. Not only my circle, studies have litteraly been shut down for this. (It was about the male greater vatiability hypothesis)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:26 AM
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Yes stereotype "are good" only when it says that women are better than men, that is my opinion on it though. Even several studies depict women as superior (one on the humor)which has been on FeMRAdebates
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 09:21 PM
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r/pussypass
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 08:50 PM
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So the whole idea that men and women are equal and should be equal is wrong from the beginning, because of the way our brains are wired. Yet it is mostly accepted only if women have an edge over men :/ No men and women tend to have both complementary different srrong fields
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 08:41 PM
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I agree. It depends on the toppic and the method etc, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 07:48 PM
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Yes it is one of the pb with statistics. The observarion part may be already suffer from a selection bias (what is visible instead of what is present)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 07:40 PM
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Fuck.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 07:38 PM
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reported rape and sexual assault victims. Not all victims report Well go for the NISVS if you want a better report (not the police report). But you will be surprised on the ratio of women and men victims from men and women. 652,676 victims to “if we follow all men are rapists is at max 161.75 million men.” No if all victims have been raped by one man, It is maximum 652,676 men (if we supposed these are all the case, only for the sake of the argument here)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 07:26 PM
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Well, the flaw in that thinking is that the rapists may be a small minority of men, but they’re a small minority of men who are hooking up/raping a much larger percentage of women 2018 Data showed 652, 676 rape and sexual assault victims. The comment took the number of victims not perpetrator. What is taken is the maximum possible percentage of it. Maybe we should compare the number of victims over the total population it would be more telling
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 07:01 PM
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The ratio of women among homeless ppl
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 12:04 PM
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Or How to say that women count as 3 men......
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 12:03 PM
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What ? She decides and you have the responsability of her choices?
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 11:24 AM
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Result of the negotiation Another hypothesis is that women are given less of an increase even when they ask. The answer to this is that even among men there are disparities. This will also depend on the negotiating capacity of each individual and the values put forward by the organization or culture. A 2013 meta-analysis based on 67 studies shows that cognitive abilities and personality traits influence the results of negotiations. (sharma2013). Another another meta-analysis of 112 studies with …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 09:00 AM
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Overall discrimination in hiring However, it could be argued that women have easier access to universities but are still discriminated against in employment, leading to occupational segregation and thus to the gender wage gap observed earlier. However (CARLSON2011) a 2011 study indicates that in Sweden, one of the most egalitarian countries in Europe, segregation is not due to any discrimination. Indeed, the study indicates that there is no difference in treatment between men and women. Thus, us…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 08:59 AM
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I used sources and studies in western countries, not only US due to the lack of studies in US for some toppic) Invisible barriers Discrimination in STEM tenure track hiring According to many theories, the first difficulty women face is discrimination in entry to the [STEM tenure track] faculties (https://doi.org/10.1073/pnas.1418878112) . In reality, however, women are more likely to be accepted if they have equal qualifications. Practically with a 2:1 ratio. That's a far cry from the 10% gap he…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 08:57 AM
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You have not seen the now banned black pilled femminism sub. FDS would look likes a peacefull men loving place compared to it😂😂 A post did ask for an utopia and "if you remove all men explain why" the top comment was like seggregating men and women, the women ruling and men doing all the heavy jobs....
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 08:45 AM
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That is why you do wait to jave hers before and dont put your head on it that is basic stuff. I feel sorry for him :/ How does it turn out?
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 08:33 AM
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This ^
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 08:06 AM
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She is using the denial and gaslight guide step by step. Even with the hard evidence she try to do plausible deniability (chrismas tree are a lie but she can plausibly deny it)... "Why are you acting like that?" And she take word for word the guy sentence. "I am not looking at kind of dude"
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 08:03 AM
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She ate the whole mc donalds
/r/PussyPassDenied12/01/21 08:23 PM
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Or they fear to be deem as creepy so they have to ask. Because not enough might be creepy, too much is alsp creepy but nobody explain and men do not read cue and tone as easily as the majority have not being socialized to communicate covertly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:15 PM
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If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view or if the question is not targeted at you, post it as an answer to this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:39 PM
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Why do you even need to say it as a CMV 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:32 PM
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Yes and no. You are right about it per se. Being tall does not make you behave in a more dominant way (or maybe it would because you feel safer) But for the same behavior taller ppl will be seen as more dominant. Imagine a 6'8 guy with broad shoulder etc. He might be friendly but i think he would be more intimidating than a 5'7 guy for exemple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:17 PM
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Okay i have read below. The rate is about the same as straight couple but still higher than gay men couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:25 AM
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Depend wether you are a man or a woman (heterosexual relationship) For men it would be : Lift Work on you income Work on your statut Work on your charisma, frame, game. Get good dress (v tape) For women imo : Lift or exercice Dress well (body shape) Heels (add some curve down) Make up and skin care Other things are bonus as men tend to be visual Personnaly i want to improve myself anyway (shape, charisma, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:30 PM
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If it was the case i would be well off in my 40 but i dont think so X) or i maybe the exception to the rule 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:21 PM
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Nope why :) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:14 PM
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Actually the state of the knowledge project (on partner abuse) does a good meta analysis and even of underreported, it give national census (less underreport) Basically i just read in R/feminism how marriage was benefiting men and harming women (1k upvotes or so).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:14 PM
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Isn't lesbian couple who have the most partner violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:10 PM
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I can only show you the water. I cant force you to drink it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:41 PM
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Which side were you at? I was the one at fault and the one lying. And how did it change you? We break up and it make reflect me on my insecurities. I was often passive-agressive . I am still working on it (assertiveness/selfworth) How? I fixed goals and do what i need to reach it. Trying out also alternative method and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:40 PM
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i wouldn't tell her because i wouldn't want to upset her for reason since she is my only one and she means a lot to me compared to others. Then either i would talk about this issue (usualy having an affair is due to the lack of sex in relationship or out of boredom) or break up. I did a mistake and i learned from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:59 PM
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Agree, two sides of the same coin but different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:50 PM
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Fair, but this is more like not telling the truth by omission. Not telling the truth by omitting a fact is lying by omission if it is a point that you dont want to share. It is not about her asking. It is about you being confortable with sharing the information. If you confortable with it but do not find it useful it is not lying. If you are not confortable with it or dont want to share it, then it is lying by omission. I agree with your last paragraph :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:47 PM
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Depends if the omission make the statement ambigous. Ie watching a movie but omitting saying having sex with another person than the partner.... You draw the line when you would not want the other to know what you omitted. If it is the case, you lied by omission. If you did not, you just omitte an irrelevant thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:29 PM
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In psychology, past behavior is the best criteria to predict futur behavior. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:21 PM
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Yeah that's lying by omission i agree. Still a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:08 PM
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It's quite realistic, nearly all rapists are men, and the vast majority of people violent toward women are as well. The first part is false. See the NISVS from 2015 and made to penetrate. The second part in violent crime is true while being incomplete. Men are more likely to be beaten by other men than women but it is not the topic. They do not fear as much as women to walk by night while they are at higher risk. So feeling is not representative of the odd of being assaulted you know some class …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:05 PM
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Not telling the truth is lying by omission :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:38 PM
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I’m treat as unthreatening.. because I physically can’t overpower a man & force him to my will. Strengh is not the only factor, If it was the case, the number of rape perpetrated by women on men would be almost zero (it is not, made to penetrate is not as high as rape on women but still significant in comparison like 75% women and 25% men not 99% and 1% as it is often portrayed) I’m treat as desirable.. by men who wish to use me as a fleshlight (not a compliment) What say it is not the same for …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:18 PM
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Strumia has been kicked out from the cnrs for saying the same stuff.
/r/MensRights09/01/21 05:10 PM
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There are studies on this f i remember well. I give you the link if i find it again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:02 PM
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Okay fine then :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:01 PM
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I was about telling the same not because it is an argument but because the tone it gives can be enough to be attacked ans rejected even if the content is right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:24 AM
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Another practical exemple of it yes.
/r/MensRights09/01/21 07:19 AM
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Why a member of the opposite gender? Anyway if my interest were the same i would hit the gym, dress well etc. It depends on what extend unattractive a little below average or rock bottom? In the latter i would not bother or have surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 09:54 PM
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Thanks for your answer and honesty X). I keeps that in mind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:27 PM
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Thanks for sharing :) Well at least 50 shades of gray is right 😂😂. Out of curiosity, what was giving the latter social statut in your exemple (if it is not too intrusive)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:22 PM
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My bad then :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:20 PM
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Maybe youvare not as blue pilled as the username suggest
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:18 PM
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but judging from this comment women dont like you do they? Says a lot lo Not relevant it is the same as saying "you cannot get laid therefore you are wrong" or just making fun of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:16 PM
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One of the point is that the criteria for men are clear but not women. Ppl are often told what women want and see women going for something else. Another one is with the red pill, the other guy either is in LTR and is part of the dual mating strategy (alpha fu*k and beta buck more or less) OR maybe he is ugly but has high statut etc. Look money statut. As simple as that. Statut can be percieved (how he interact with ppl, ie confidence/charisma) or real (being the CEO of a big company, cop etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:13 PM
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Read the red pill 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:07 PM
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Men literally cannot fathom that our attraction isn’t primarily looks-based Some basic redpill stuff is look/money/statut (percieved or real) so it acknowledge the non-looking part of women attraction imho :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:05 PM
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Average women date average men. Ugly women date ugly men Not realy. Wait you are right but in regards of how women and men tend to rate the opposite sex. (Surprise surprise more than 75% of men are seen as below average in look for exemple and 50% of women are seen as below average) and in regards of hypergamy, the women standard are de facto higher. (Ex : statut, money)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:01 PM
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Beware Though police is coming for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:53 PM
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We are talking about attraction so hooking app seems to be ok as you dont have the social pressure on what you select. And you did not give any sources or data to back up your claim so i have the right to discard without evidence what you claim without evidence. I could also link to you some cross cultural studies about mate choice criteria difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:00 PM
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Mmmh and what is the % of dating via app nowadays? And where are your data? If you critisize mine at leat bring some :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:49 PM
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https://doi.org/10.1016/j.econedurev.2019.101914 Highlights • Women on Tinder are more selective than men on Tinder. • Women on Tinder have a preference for highly educated men. • Men on Tinder are not intimidated by highly educated women.* • On Tinder, preferences for educational assortative mating are absent. Tltr : No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:43 PM
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When you are told early that masculinity is bad or you are a potential threat etc it is not encouraging you to be masculine 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 10:00 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 09:29 PM
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My bad i saw your source. The controled gap give a 2% gap (98 cent vs 100 cents) while we all knows that every factor cannot be controled, some we dont even know. What about the accuracy of the data? Accurate to 0.001% or more or less 1%? It is more bad faith here. Sorry but with 2% of difference i cannot tell if it is the study accuracy or a real gap. Edit : for the carreer progression they did not take single childless women and single men etc as women take care of children more often. Studies…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 06:14 PM
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You are cherry picking go watch the uber study. And the 10-4% in the rapport does not mean discriminiation either as it is unexplained but does not take all the possible factors :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 05:48 PM
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Question btw by political power, do we mean official post like president or political power as voting power? If it does not consider the latter while considering the former, it ignore half the equation of power and influence imho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 05:32 PM
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Not to be an ass but imagine if you said the same for partner abuse and to the one who is abused Maybe you just need to surround yourself with better people That's victim blaming imho :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 05:16 PM
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Confidence is not lcharisma. Charisma is attractive, confidence is not always
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:26 PM
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