Bonkzzilla Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
71	Teeth-grinding example from Second Life documentary	Rant/Venting	Bonkzzilla	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/13 07:24 PM
16	Dealing with husband's need for support		Bonkzzilla	/r/RedPillWomen	12/09/13 09:03 PM

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1	Q4All, What fictional character do you think represents the traits of an Alpha or Beta the most and why? James West and Artemis Gordon. They're like a classroom textbook example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/16 07:05 PM
18	What's your opinion on The Safe Campus Act? If the case won't hold up in a real court of law, it should not be prosecuted. What is even the controversy on this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 07:20 AM
2	What does pair bonding look like? I'm "Disney Villain-Approved"! :D	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/15 08:43 PM
3	What does pair bonding look like? I agree. My wife and I pair-bonded not because the sex was great (it was, but not earthshakingly better than everyone else ever) but because she was someone I genuinely liked being around. A lot of prior girlfriends, I wanted them gone after the date was over. They were fun to go out with but not to live with or be around long term, they'd get on my nerves. The near immediate difference I noticed with my wife was that I had no "time limit" with her, which was actually really startling - that I c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/15 11:12 PM
1	It seems to me that if TRP is right, then feminism is right too I don't entirely follow - on how men do what? Find women? If I told you how I met my wife, you'd think I was either crazy or totally making it up :D I was talking about this with my wife over dinner tonight, and I'm not sure I have any useful advice to give. Ultimately, when it comes to choosing to marry early or not, it sounds corny as hell to say it but if you meet the right person, and are able to realize it, the two of you will make things work out. People tend to immediately come back with,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/15 01:54 AM
2	It seems to me that if TRP is right, then feminism is right too It's funny, PUAs are like, "You gotta hit the bars and learn to game the hot women in the miniskirts", and I'm more, "I don't want those women, I want the quiet girl in the library." The ideal would be to find a guy who is inline with your career ambitions. This, as much as anything, is one of the huge advantages of marrying younger - Both parties are still really flexible and able to relocate, etc. By the time you're 35 and sunk into a career track, that's a lot harder to do, which limits your …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/15 07:29 PM
2	It seems to me that if TRP is right, then feminism is right too Nobody ever said this was going to be easy... ;) I would say that the flaw I see in your outlook is that you are looking at it all as "A bunch of stuff to accomplish first and THEN I get to enjoy life." My personal opinion is that that's a bad way to look at it- the main thing is to enjoy whatever's happening right now. It's kind of like the common (and self-destructive) view of marriage that a lot of women have, that "getting married" will be the end of all their problems and everything after t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/15 06:14 PM
3	It seems to me that if TRP is right, then feminism is right too Found the pedant ;) But yeah, you're right. The thing about stats, to me, is that quite often they don't seem to bear any relationship to the reality I've experienced. Someone can say, "Stats show 65% of marriages end because of someone cheating", but then I look around and think, of the dozen or so longterm married couples we're friends with, exactly one marriage ended because of cheating. Another guy divorced his wife because she became an insecure, psycho shrew. Everyone else has been married…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/15 12:07 AM
7	It seems to me that if TRP is right, then feminism is right too I certainly can, and did :D I shared my own personal experience, which is more valid to me than most of the "stats" I see tossed around. Any time spent googling at all will turn up "stats" to support any position under the sun, including diametrically-opposed ones. And I never said my experience would apply to everyone. Readers are free to discount my posts just as easily as anything else. It's no skin off my nose either way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/15 11:39 PM
8	It seems to me that if TRP is right, then feminism is right too Yeah, pretty much. My problem with TRP, in a nutshell, is that it's a worldview built on, and by, the emotional/relationship outlooks of early 20's men. The guys who look at a beautiful 35 year old woman and go, "Ewww, she's OLLLLLLLDD..." It's very myopic in regard to the age ranges at which it views people as being "most valuable", because it tends to always be the age range of most of the people who join the club. I want totally different things in a woman now. I still think my wife is damned…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/15 11:33 PM
5	It seems to me that if TRP is right, then feminism is right too Ha! My wife would probably tell you different :D But thank you, anyway. It IS a crapshoot, to an extent. However, I will say that one of the areas where I actually do agree with TRP is in their advice to marry in your 20's, just because you will never again in your life be so surrounded by high quality available potential partners. Over the years, I've observed firsthand that the "All of the good ones are taken" rule is very much a real thing - the best picks get grabbed up, and over time, the r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/15 11:18 PM
14	It seems to me that if TRP is right, then feminism is right too "Wife goggles" is a silly name for it, but the concept is true. My wife and I married young, and just celebrated our 25th anniversary last year. She's still gorgeous to me, at near 50. Objectively, I realize that neither of us are the hardbodies we were when we married at 23, but the combination of shared life experience, loyalty, support, and the extent to which we have both emotionally matured as people make her just as attractive to me now, if not more so. The honest truth is that I look back…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/15 06:29 PM
2	Do you think women have it better in the dating market? Exactly. Well, to be blunt (and this is just my own opinion, obviously), I think it's because a lot of TRPers are still early-20's guys. They see "Grow up and settle down" as "OMG the WALL beta provider!" when in reality, a lot of people just fucking grow out of that shit. But they haven't matured enough yet to understand it, so instead they paint it as a bad thing. Girls get tired of the toxic, narcissistic "bad boys" and grow up, and begin to want more mature males instead. I think a good chun…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/14 07:48 PM
2	Do you think women have it better in the dating market? Err, no, that was NOT what I meant, to put it mildly. I meant that after I grew up a bit, I learned to appreciate an entirely different sort of girl than high school-me was attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/14 06:56 AM
3	Do you think women have it better in the dating market? My wife was quiet and bookish in school. When I out of college, that was precisely what attracted me to her, that she was (to put it bluntly, and I know this not not PC) more demure than so many of the loud, brassy girls I'd dated in school. We just celebrated our 25th anniversary. You just might be the sort of girl that guys want when they're serious, not when they're still screwing around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/14 12:22 AM
6	Red or reddish pillers, in what way do you dislike r/theredpill? Blue or blueish pillers, in what ways do you like it? Re: the "weak" comment. Yeah, one of the big things on TRP that makes me roll my eyes is the macho posturing. In a nutshell, "real" men don't posture, real men just do. Reading some of the threads in there where you've clearly got a couple of 20-something guys with little life accomplishment trying to out-macho each other is just cringe-inducing. IMO, what they get right is the focus on self improvement and living a life that makes you desirable, and also they're one of the few places that still…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/14 11:23 PM
15	My GF fell in love with me as a 'bad boy'.. and obviously wants me to go 'good' now.. I would personally rephrase that guy's post as "Don't grovel. No woman wants a groveling man." There's nothing "unmanly" about realizing that you fucked up and making a sincere apology and restitution. What I would not do is follow her around pleading for forgiveness, wheedling for everything to please be OK, and begging her to be nice to me again. These, IMO, are the classic ways to make a woman's respect for you bottom out right through the floor, not simply apologizing. And if she wants you t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/14 06:17 PM
2	A Red Pill truth in a comic strip Just copy/paste. Glad it was useful to you!	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 08:32 PM
2	Extinguish the flame before it becomes a fire ^ This. The simplest suggestion I can give is to not grant attention unless she approaches you in a mature and reasonable manner. There's always going to be issues you two have to talk or argue through, but never, EVER give in to hissy fits or foot stamping behavior. Just don't. "We'll talk about this later" is perfectly acceptable. Whatever you do, don't get into a situation where you're upset and yelling back at her because it will only get worse from there.	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/13 12:33 AM
8	OkCupid's new service: pay a fee to filter out fatties A woman who could be on "Sex and the City".	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/13 10:59 PM
19	Daily Mail "Femail" Columnist Shocked and Appalled that OKCupid Allows Users to Filter by Attractiveness Except that the women there rate 80% of men as "Below average", so perfectly decent guys would be getting 3/10s from the women... Who would then be unhappy that there were no "decent men" available when they set their own profiles to filter every guy below a 9.	/r/TheRedPill	02/10/13 10:53 PM
1	Prostitutes > Nightclubs LOL! Yeah, I feel the same a lot of the time. The good stuff is the self improvement stuff, ie "Make yourself more attractive by improving your life first". We expanded our schtick eventually into haunted houses. There were a few deserted spooky houses in the area and a supposedly haunted rail bridge so we started inviting girls on guided tours of these "haunted" spots (This was 20 years before ghost hunting shows became popular, too). Lots of fun hiking through the woods to see the haunted brid…	/r/TheRedPill	29/09/13 03:29 PM
11	Prostitutes > Nightclubs I can give you my solution from days past. In the 80's when I was in college, my buddies and I had the same problem - We wanted to meet girls but didn't want to spend tons of cash we didn't have just to scream into some girl's face in a loud nightclub. After thinking about it a little, we dragged a folding table out onto a popular street corner on our college campus and made a big sign saying, "Fortunes told here!" We put on some silly magician outfits and got a deck of tarot cards and some rand…	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/13 08:12 PM
16	Why haven't they made a Wonder Woman film!? It's like they completely forget that there was a hugely successful Wonder Woman TV series in the 70's that bled into all of pop culture for a couple of years. That was over 30 years ago and we had side-by-side female action heroes in Wonder Woman and the Bionic Woman, and this was in the time that many people would tell you the Patriarchy ruled the land. The real problem is in character - Lynda Carter pulled it off so perfectly. She was positive, upbeat, cheerful, and not an angry bitch (unlike…	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/13 09:30 PM
13	American-Indian women in New York trying to live the 'Sex and the City' lifestyle Her dad really does sound like a nice guy. The amount of work he must be putting in for her sake is astounding, if all that I've read about these online dating sites is true (regarding the volume of messages and inquiries that women get). The bad thing is, she's going to reject every decent guy her dad finds for her because they're not "bad boy" enough, then wonder in her 40's where all the good men have gone.	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/13 05:34 PM
2	Western Women Goes To Live in Japan, Complains She Can’t Get A Relationship But Attacks “Nerdy Men” Who Are Getting Laid - Someone’s Bitter! It did make for an interesting comparison for me, though, because a good (male) friend of mine moved to Japan for work for a number of years, and he did great with the local women. Never had any of this writer's problems or complaints, and ended up marrying a Japanese woman and bringing her back to the states with him, where they were a happy couple till he died. Edit - And these are the cases that make one wonder... What was it in this innocuous paragraph that made someone downvote it?	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/13 07:05 PM
16	You really can't make this shit up ^ What he said. Most of what is described of her is so horribly unattractive that I wouldn't want to have anything to do with her, but for Jebus' sake, save your texts and cover your bases, because this sounds like a terrible opportunity for a false rape claim after she convinces herself that the sex was all your fault and starts regretting her decision to come over and hop in bed with you. If the boyfriend finds out, expect her to claim you are practically the Hannibal Lector of seducer/rapists…	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/13 06:43 PM
16	Western Women Goes To Live in Japan, Complains She Can’t Get A Relationship But Attacks “Nerdy Men” Who Are Getting Laid - Someone’s Bitter! "Too intimidating" always cracks me up. It seems to be the favorite go-to excuse for pushy obnoxious women.. "I can't get dates because men are intimidated by my intelligence and personality." Pun-lease. I would be intimidated if I had to wrestle Mr. T. I would be intimidated if I had to take down a grizzly bear with a wooden spear. I've never met a woman who was intimidating. I've met a good number who were crazy psychos and best avoided, but that's different. I think a lot of bitchy, pushy wom…	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/13 06:21 PM
14	Teeth-grinding example from Second Life documentary I didn't mention the show's most WTF moment, which involved the dude who played an 11 year old girl in Second Life. He goes to an elementary school for SL "children" and has lots of SL child-friends, and at one point is at some sort of girlie party with a bunch of other "kids" when they begin to realize that nearly all of them are adult males in real life.	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/13 12:47 AM
11	Teeth-grinding example from Second Life documentary The part where they both Skyped to each other in bed and wanted to leave their Skype windows open all night so they could listen to each other breathe, because it's "almost like really sleeping together." God, that was a barf-worthy scene! It was boggling for the sheer extent to which their relationship was built in fantasyland. Watching it just made me really glad that I did all my dating years long before the internet even existed, much less social networking and such. It was pretty weird that…	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/13 11:53 PM
12	Teeth-grinding example from Second Life documentary I think what made me most angry about it was the daughter. The woman made her decisions, her husband is an adult and it sucks for him but he made the decision to marry her and is now able to carry on, and the other guy was also an adult. But the daughter looked about 10-11, had no choice in the matter, and just had her world wrecked by her mom's narcissism. She's the one I'm most angry for.	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/13 09:06 PM
15	Teeth-grinding example from Second Life documentary It was a documentary worth watching, in the end, but I debated about whether to post anything because ultimately it's just a rant of a post, it's not really going to be useful to anyone except as a cautionary tale. OTOH, if it helps someone dodge a similar bullet, maybe it's useful after all. One key bit I was left wondering about - When new guy moves in, the ex-wife packs up all her husband's things but wants to keep his stuff. New guy says, "He should come get this, or else we should just thro…	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/13 08:01 PM
1	Dealing with husband's need for support Heh! Yeah, I feel fairly awkward these days when I have to mention that in conversation, because suddenly being an "introverted INTJ-type" seems to be the New Coolness, and everyone wants to be that. And of course, if I say that I've always tested high on the INTJ spectrum on every MB test since college in the 80's, I just become one of those, "I was this before it was cool" guys, LOL...	/r/RedPillWomen	14/09/13 07:31 PM
2	Dealing with husband's need for support Not me, but then I am not the person who can advise on this. I was an only child, very self-sufficient, and grew up to be a classical INTJ introvert. I normally process my feelings and analyze them myself, instead of looking to others. Hell, way back when I decided to divorce my wife, the first my friends knew about it was when I went over to a big gathering and told them all from out of the blue, after I'd made the decision. (Note - This divorce decision was 15 years ago, and I eventually chang…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/09/13 02:31 AM
1	A Red Pill truth in a comic strip You mean Athol Kay? I've read a bit of his blog and like it, but haven't really spent a lot of time reading there. Mostly, the stuff he says just seems like common sense.	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/13 08:30 PM
8	A Red Pill truth in a comic strip It has been a long and interesting road for me, marriage-wise. I didn't know any of this TRP stuff back then, it didn't exist, although most of what TRP preaches was at the time just considered basic common sense. (As an aside, this remains one of my biggest issues with TRP - It's so damned silly. All of this terminology and rules and dice-based combat system, it's like tabletop D&D geeks descended on the basic rules of dating and built an RPG out of it. But I digress...) It has been a very looo…	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/13 07:03 PM
3	Dealing with husband's need for support I'm glad to know you're getting a handle on the underlying causes of it. It really sucks that it seems to take until our 40's before we even begin to figure some of this crap out.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/13 06:42 PM
3	Dealing with husband's need for support Heh, that's funny, that sounds like the reverse of the usual gender stereotype, where women want to vent and men want to give solutions.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/13 06:41 PM
1	Dealing with husband's need for support This is none of my business so don't feel you need to answer, but I have to ask if you came from a loud or abusive household. It sounds like the raised voice of a loved one puts you instantly into "fight or flight" mode, which is a problem unto itself. It's possible you're contributing to the situation by having these adrenalin reactions, making him feel like he can't get mad without making you emotional, which would only serve to make him madder. This is the sucky thing about couples therapy, i…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/13 04:16 AM
2	Dealing with husband's need for support Someone over on RPW gave me the perfect analogy - Think of yourself as the airline captain. You may be flying through a storm with lightning all around the wings and massive crosswinds, but you need to be cool on your in-plane announcements. The passengers want to hear, "We're experiencing some turbulence so fasten your belts, but everything will be OK"... and NOT a panicking pilot who sounds like he's putting on his parachute.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/13 04:11 AM
2	Dealing with husband's need for support ^ What she says. My harsh assessment is that either he has anger control issues or else he just needs to grow up a lot. The problem is, if he's like many men, he won't want to hear this from you. From the wife, it's unfortunately going to sound like nagging, and/or "He's not good enough for you." I think I'd suggest trying to work him into something that he'll have a lot of control over, be it gym, sports, hobby, whatever, and then praise him a lot when he does good at it. Essentially, let him s…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/13 01:34 AM
5	Dealing with husband's need for support When I'm upset about something, mainly what I want is compassion, concern, support, and faithfulness - That is to say, it will mean a lot more to me if my wife will give me a kiss and tell me she believes in me and put some extra effort into cleaning/cooking/whatever, than it will if she tries to open up a huge emotional conversation. When a guy brings his troubles to another guy, think about what he gets. "Hey, that really sucks. Have you tried Solution A/Solution B/Solution C? Well, if you nee…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/13 12:18 AM
9	A Red Pill truth in a comic strip Thank you! I wish I could have made it shorter and more concise. I edited down a fair bit, but couldn't get it any smaller.	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/13 11:59 PM
52	A Red Pill truth in a comic strip This sounds remarkably like the early years of my own marriage. Does this sound familiar? Her: "Tell me how you are feeling." Me: "I'm really upset about this situation at work, I don't feel like I'm valued enough and it keeps me up at night worrying." Her: "OH MY GOD We'll have to sell the house! Our lives are over! This is a disaster! Everything is ruined!" (Goes into a complete panic) You want support; you end up trying to calm her down. You need commiseration; you end up expending even more …	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/13 08:45 PM
11	I dumped my (seemingly) perfect boyfriend so I could sleep with other people : ( X-post from self ) An example of hypergamy That's how I read it. Phrases like "I want to keep him as a friend" usually translate to "I want to be able to call him up sobbing at 3am for a 2 hour talk about my terrible life", or "I want to be able to call him to fix my car when it doesn't start." Essentially, she wants to retain the guy for Boyfriend Services even though he is no longer her boyfriend. Fuck that noise.	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/13 07:19 PM
3	Feminist discovers that her degrees won't help her find a job, she is in serious debt and even hotel front desk jobs reject her. Betting pool: how long until she gets married? It is INSANELY complicated. My wife's parents were both college professors, now retired. Listening to them talk about tenure and grants and such makes me shudder. I was mainly being facetious with my remark above, because I know it's not that simple but that's my general "Shrug and grin" answer. One thing I am very heartened by today is the current talk of reranking colleges by their employment success, both because I think that's a smart move in general and also because I think it would start c…	/r/TheRedPill	04/09/13 04:50 AM
2	I had my first experience with a true psycho feminist. I am lucky that all we did was kiss. Afterwards I get accused of 'molesting her face' I pretty much think we've reached the point where anyone who mentions social justice or says they're heavily invested in being a social justice crusader should just be an immediate, "Nope", and move on.	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/13 06:22 PM
32	Feminist discovers that her degrees won't help her find a job, she is in serious debt and even hotel front desk jobs reject her. Betting pool: how long until she gets married? I don't think it's wildly irresponsible - if anything, I think it's just good business sense on their part. Supply and demand. If you have a substantial group of people willing to pay fifty thou for a degree in gender oppression, by all means, take their money and invest it in your campus, and give them their piece of paper.	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/13 06:01 PM
2	The Thrill Is Gone – Modern Men Less Likely To Take Risks Than Their Fathers Were On the one side you have people who complain that Dodgeball is "state sanctioned violence" and on the other side are the people who say, "Yes, that's what makes it fun!"	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/13 09:32 PM
9	The Thrill Is Gone – Modern Men Less Likely To Take Risks Than Their Fathers Were Some of it has to be in how they were raised. Example - A good female friend of mine recently complained to me about her son being reprimanded in school. He was trying to play army wars on the playground and actually got written up for promoting "aggression behavior". At this school, any sort of spy games, hero/villain games, etc are pretty much out - They're viewed as "encouraging male aggression." I told her my opinion, which was that aggression play teaches young boys how to channel and contr…	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/13 07:20 PM
1	Girlfriend of a bluepiller "found a job" in Seattle -- he even encouraged her to "follow her dreams"! He sells his car, quits his job and follows her a few month later. The inevitable happens. It's true, every year that goes by, I can relate more and more to Clint Eastwood's character in "Gran Torino"... :D MY FUTURE.	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/13 12:38 AM
3	Girlfriend of a bluepiller "found a job" in Seattle -- he even encouraged her to "follow her dreams"! He sells his car, quits his job and follows her a few month later. The inevitable happens. I wish I had your cheerful optimism towards people. :D Source - Age 48	/r/TheRedPill	01/09/13 08:36 PM
3	Girlfriend of a bluepiller "found a job" in Seattle -- he even encouraged her to "follow her dreams"! He sells his car, quits his job and follows her a few month later. The inevitable happens. Clearly you have never worked in tech support. Check out r/talesfromtechsupport sometime... I've experienced a ton of those.	/r/TheRedPill	01/09/13 07:52 PM
11	Girlfriend of a bluepiller "found a job" in Seattle -- he even encouraged her to "follow her dreams"! He sells his car, quits his job and follows her a few month later. The inevitable happens. How many times in your life have you seen someone have a hissy fit and throw their laptop at the ground, then scream that it isn't working anymore and blame tech help that it's THEIR responsibility to fix it? Same principle. The ability to deny the urgent reality that's staring one in the face can be stunning. The key point to take from this tale of woe is that she put off until the very LAST possible moment having to tell the truth, and only when there was no other feasible way out of it for he…	/r/TheRedPill	01/09/13 07:25 PM
16	Girlfriend of a bluepiller "found a job" in Seattle -- he even encouraged her to "follow her dreams"! He sells his car, quits his job and follows her a few month later. The inevitable happens. You're thinking logically. From her perspective, she had two choices- She could do something emotionally difficult and be truthful to the guy before he left, or she could tell herself, "He won't really do it" and if she believed that, she was free from having to do the difficult and responsible thing and could just float away peacefully. Of COURSE she picked the option that was easiest and most painless for herself, which was believing something that was wholly untrue. In her mind, he's probably…	/r/TheRedPill	01/09/13 06:28 PM
1	Red Pill role models in movie and television JAMES WEST, guys! Really, he's hard to top. And I'm talking about the original article, not that awful 90's excrescence.	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/13 06:01 PM
2	So, my flat mate informed last night I need to get "educated" and shared this with me today... If you're not reading it already, you would probably get a few laughs out of the /tumblrinaction sub, which is devoted to spotlighting and mocking this sort of social justice warrior nonsense.	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/13 11:39 PM
2	After swallowing the pill years ago, I think I've found somebody worth marrying and I need advice. Pay attention to the guy above's flags and signs. However, you are correct, there are high value girls and they get snapped up fast and early, and waiting till you're forty to look for a serious relationship will put you in the same basket as all the unmarried middle-aged women. FWIW - I got married at near your age, in 1989. My wife and I had only dated for a few months. We are still married today and both of us are happy. Like any marriage, it has had its ups and downs but we've rolled with it…	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/13 12:00 AM
6	Even if she's not totally redpill I love when moxie destroys entitled forty somethings only reason a read her page Add Ally McBeal to that list, she was really the first "carousel rider" that I remember being glorified in pop culture. My wife watched the show and I actually found it enjoyable for everyone else in the show except Ally herself - The other characters were terrific. Ally, however, was what you guys would call a hamster of the highest order, and the whole show revolved around her continually getting into relationships with good guys and self-sabotaging things by being too demanding, picky, neurot…	/r/TheRedPill	26/08/13 08:11 PM
3	Even if she's not totally redpill I love when moxie destroys entitled forty somethings only reason a read her page There are a LOT of women who looked at these harpies as icons to emulate, though. I remember being mystified by it when the show was on HBO, because every once and a while I'd catch an episode and just could not fathom why so many women wanted to be like those characters, when there wasn't one of them that I've give the time of day (OK, except for Miranda, she was the only decent one of the four, but whenever they got together, the other three would always warp her decisions with their fucked-up…	/r/TheRedPill	26/08/13 08:07 PM
22	Even if she's not totally redpill I love when moxie destroys entitled forty somethings only reason a read her page I actually thought the "How the 'Sex and the City' lifestyle ruined my life" article that was linked in the comments was even better than the Moxie article: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2227880/The-lonely-legacy-Sex-And-The-City-lifestyle-Claudia-Connell-gives-painfully-honest-account-came-living-middle-age.html#ixzz2BMlQTscE I think that damn god-awful show has a lot to answer for in regards to the state of many of today's women.	/r/TheRedPill	26/08/13 05:02 AM
3	My wife shamed me yet again for the dropoff in our sex life. I lost composure and let loose about how she got fat. My honest initial thought is, this was doomed from the moment you learned she had a bad relationship with her dad (Source - Happily married since '89 to a woman who has a great relationship with her dad). I know it's going to sound cruel and terribly dismissive of me, but I think that's the sort of issue that you just can't fix... or at least, she has to REALLY, REALLY want to. A lot of what you've posted is you blaming yourself. All I can stress there is to be sure to put a big wall between bla…	/r/TheRedPill	23/08/13 06:58 PM
3	Who here is generally happy with their relationships (present and past) with women? I'll bite - I'm very happy with my relationships with women, past and present. TRP tends to tilt young so my experiences will be different from a lot of yours, but FWIW, I came into this sort of thinking long before it was a "thing" (High school in late 70's, early 80's, college in mid 80's) In high school I had terrible relations with girls. No good memories there. I was the classic "best friend", etc, trying to get close to them and being weighed down by their complaints about the guys they we…	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/13 09:31 PM
4	14 Nice Things Men Do That Are Kinda Creepy At the risk of sounding exhorbitantly snarky, how likely is it that the writers of articles like this understand how modern cars work, beyond, "There's the jack where you plug in your iPhone"?	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/13 06:06 PM
2	Surgeon puts out list of requirements for potential dates, hamstering ensues Same here, we're all streaming TV now. Can't imagine ever going back to paying cable TV for 140 channels of commercials. But we did catch a few eps of that show back in the late 90's when we had cable still. It's pretty freaking horrifying, to the point that ever since then, if I meet a woman who is a big "Sex & the City" fan I just nope my way right out of the conversation because I know what sort of horrors lurk under the surface of THAT mental landscape. The show is about four "bestie friends…	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/13 12:40 AM
4	Surgeon puts out list of requirements for potential dates, hamstering ensues That's pretty much the entire concept of "Sex and the City", you realize...	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/13 06:28 PM
9	Surgeon puts out list of requirements for potential dates, hamstering ensues http://thepaperwall.com/search.php?search=pacific%20rim&&page=2 Paper Wall has the best wallpapers I've found.	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/13 02:22 AM
16	Surgeon puts out list of requirements for potential dates, hamstering ensues The simple fact that you are able to sit still through reading anything on Jezebel means you are a god among men. I don't even visit that site anymore because I KNOW that the best possible result will be rolling my eyes and wishing I had that ten minutes back for image-searching Pacific Rim desktop wallpaper.	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/13 01:09 AM
2	The Red Pill message of Groundhog Day I figured if there was any subreddit that would get this reference, it was this one!	/r/TheRedPill	09/08/13 07:15 PM
6	The Red Pill message of Groundhog Day Except for Crom worshippers. They're drinking beer out of the skulls of their fallen enemies.	/r/TheRedPill	09/08/13 01:14 AM
7	The Red Pill message of Groundhog Day On the director's commentary, he laughs about this. He is Jewish. He said that when the movie came out, he was getting calls from literally every major faith - priests, rabbis, etc- who were ALL congratulating him on how well he represented "their religion" in e movie. He said that was the point where he realized he had really touched on some sort of universal theme.	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/13 11:35 PM
5	Lifelong Beta here. Can you be Alpha and still be devoted to your wife? If so, how? A) Account name suggests troll. However, I'll give benefit of the doubt and just offer what I would do. I've been married for 24 years now. It's best to be assertive and honest. If she thinks you're trying to bend over backwards or dissemble to please her, she'll start analyzing everything you say in that, "What does he REALLY mean/want?" way. 1 - The restaurant. What I would say in that situation is, "I'm not in the mood for place A now. I'd much rather go to place B. Do you really want go to p…	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/13 08:00 PM
8	Applying TRP to find LTR with quality women And enjoying it more today than I did then. We both got married in our early 20's. We bounced a lot of immaturity off of each other in the early years but time and shared accomplishments and challenges have stuck us together pretty well. It's been interesting comparing lives with friends who've got married at different ages, or have remained single. For all the dudes on here who tell you never to get married ever, I look at my fellow 50 year old single male friends still struggling with dating a…	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/13 07:13 PM
6	Applying TRP to find LTR with quality women Nah, I've been happily married since 1989.	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/13 05:47 PM
3	A Feminist Takedown of Robin Thicke, And Anyone Who Thinks There's Something "Blurry" About Sexism. Absolutely hysterical. You might want to rethink the inference of that sentence...	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/13 10:58 PM
4	Self deprecating stand-up comedians. Are they funny anymore? What makes you laugh? Bill Burr. He cracks me up and comes off as one of the more genuine comedians I've seen. Also Sam Kinnison, who a lot of Redditors will probably be too young to remember.	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/13 07:21 PM
2	Thank you, TRP contributors. You are extending the length my life and enhancing the quality of same. Ahh, that's too bad, I really enjoy the swimming. It's a nice all-over workout and the time I spend just floating on my back breathing is relaxing as hell. Our Y also has indoor/outdoor walking tracks, basketball courts, and aerobic rooms for martial arts classes and yoga and such. If you're not able to join a gym, try free weights at home. Good luck with it, whatever you do!	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/13 12:56 AM
1	Thank you, TRP contributors. You are extending the length my life and enhancing the quality of same. If you have one nearby, check out your local YMCA. Ours is cheaper and better equipped than any of the local gyms I've checked out, and they don't have that nasty rep that some of the fitness chains do of trying to bill you forever if you quit. I joined our local Y a few months ago and absolutely love it. They've even got a huge heated pool for laps and general splashing around. Feels like I've already lost an inch of waistline and I haven't even gotten "serious" about an exercise routine yet, I…	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/13 10:59 PM
3	Fallout from vindictive plate, how to deal with friends who let you down? It sounds like he's learned a very serious lesson here... Or at least had he chance to learn one. Honestly, it sounds like this is much more about his development and your friendship with him than it is about her. The fact that he admitted to it is a point in his favor. If he can take this lesson and internalize it and learn to be a better man, it will be a good experience for him. However, if I were you, I'd be very, very careful about how I handled this situ. If you just forgive him outright, …	/r/TheRedPill	15/07/13 06:37 PM