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Which hobbies were your favorite? I like movies and taking care of my dog. I'd like to try volunteering once COVID is over. And I think I need to focus more on God, so maybe praying more or reading something to help me with that.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 09:39 PM
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Well my goals are still to get married and have kids one day. I love families and I'm very nurturing and gentle naturally. Usually I put all that "motherly" energy into dogs haha. I love dogs. But I made the post bc I think overly-focusing too much on my goals isn't healthy since they aren't the point of life.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 09:36 PM
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just read some of it...that sub is pretty funny lol. thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 09:34 PM
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Yeah this is a good idea and the thought has popped up in my mind before. I'd like to volunteer with the kids at my church once the COVID restrictions aren't as problematic. I can definitely see how it allows you to fulfill that nurturing need. Thanks for the idea :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 09:29 PM
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Yes I think this comment explains it well. The girl shouldn’t always be the initiator. In general, the men should pursue, and the women should respond encouragingly if they are interested, to let the man know we want them to continue pursuing.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 02:53 PM
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My bro told me that most of your mouth-stink comes from the bacteria on the tongue. He uses a tongue scraper but I just use my electric toothbrush to scrub it. I think he’s right
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 03:12 PM
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You're both really busy. Just hire some help!
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 02:38 AM
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sorry you're feeling so crappy. I really feel for you, and wish I could help. When I hurt or feel stressed I take Valerian root capsules and Passionflower capsules from the grocery store in the supplement section. They are light sedatives and help you feel calmer, like a light sleeping pill.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/20 03:21 AM
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I am also very close with my little bro. When he went thru a breakup, all I could do was ask him if he wanted to talk about it to let him know I was there for him. Maybe just check in with him to let him know you love him and are thinking of him. Maybe after a bit of time you could encourage him to try online dating so that he’ll meet someone new. Sweet of you to care for him ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 08:27 PM
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maybe watch their internet usage?
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/20 04:19 AM
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That’s awesome you go girl!! ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/20 01:23 PM
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Thank you so much for all the details!! I’m going to look into them. I am also fair skinned with dark hair so may be similar results as you
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 09:03 PM
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I don’t have kids but have always had the plan to make them do chores as soon as they able lol! I honestly wish my mom had asked us kids for help more often. I didn’t know how to do laundry until....I’m too embarrassed to say the age.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 06:26 PM
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Just read the first article - I liked it! do you think that being feminine includes having a calm and quiet spirit? One of the things she mentioned was not talking too much. But occasionally I am with a quiet man, and I feel the need to be "the chatty one" to prevent awkward silences. What do you think?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 11:31 PM
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Good point! I guess I was just thinking from the perspective of my culture in the US.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/20 02:06 PM
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I guess that’s a personal choice, since I would choose not to live with/sleep with a boyfriend, but others would disagree. Just thinking logically though, I would say this is the best strategy for the average woman to get what she wants (commitment). Why give up your side of the bargain before he gives up his side?
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 01:10 PM
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I live in the south (US) where it’s the norm to smile at strangers. It’s been weird wearing a mask and not being able to smile at each other. Usually it’s a small, somewhat fake smile. But I know what you mean - there was a girl at my school who always gave the biggest genuine smile when making eye contact. It was so contagious. We weren’t even very close. I think about her sometimes :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/20 02:45 PM
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I meant I don’t think it’s a proven fact that women look down on their men for making $5,000 less. Source: am woman & have woman friends in similar boat But I can’t speak for all women, after all there’s billions of us
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 05:59 PM
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I don't think this is a proven fact, so I'll agree to disagree.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 05:14 PM
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I've grown up Christian. Just my thoughts - The theory and values of "Red Pill Women" subreddit seems already inherent with Christian beliefs and husband/wife roles, so to me, it almost seems like a sub for RP Christian Women SHOULD be synonymous with Christian Women. But I've never checked it out so I wouldn't be totally surprised if a Christian Women sub is too large to be able to narrow down similar values.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 06:38 PM
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I don't really have advice but was actually just wondering what types of dresses y'all like to wear for just casual days? In my mind, dresses are only for church/events/celebration, so....pretty rare for me. Do y'all wear dresses just hanging out with friends or running errands?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 01:56 AM
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I’m not married so I don’t know how most couples do this, and was just curious. Is it a good/common idea to combine the majority of finances, but each partner to have their own “personal” account on top of that, like a smaller amount just for your own fun/personal things you want to buy on your own? I imagine it could be budgeted according to how much each partner makes or willing to add each month.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 04:30 PM
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ohhh ok I gotchu, I guess I was using the word attractive in a different definition - like relative to personal chemistry. In that case, sure there are tons of men that are physically attractive! And I'm not sure, but I'd guess your tastes in the opposite gender do change a bit over time. Like when I was in middle school, I would crush on the other boys. But now they look like children to me lol. That would probably be similar to when I'm an old granny and view the young wippershnappers as kids.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:56 PM
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Fat manlet? Quite the term lol. Yes, he was dominant. But not in a mean-spirited way. Arrogant? I don't know, he was quick to make fun of himself as much as others. And he did care for others, volunteered with disabled children. The handsome guy I tried dating - he was tall. That's probably why female attraction is so confusing. Here was this guy that was perfectly nice, had a great job, objectively handsome/tall, yet I felt nothing. And maybe if we had met in person where I could slowly get to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:24 PM
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I asked myself that same question with the guy who I tried dating, but I couldn't bring myself to force physical affection, when my body was naturally pulling away from him. And he really was a handsome guy, I just felt nothing. And I totally get what you mean about the guy who I said was confident. (he rejected my advances btw) My attraction for him grew over time when I saw how he interacted with others, and how he had no fear in talking to women. I might be wrong but I see a lot of men who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:52 PM
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you made me LOL! I think you're right, the anger is a bit much for me, but I can't help but find the arguments so interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:36 PM
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true, it was pretty low effort on my part. I'll try harder next time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:34 PM
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Yes it is retarded, I hate not being in control of who I'm attracted to. Actually though, it's funny you mentioned height because the last guy I felt attracted to was short and overweight. Because of his weight, I thought, "No, I should go for someone who is healthier." But he was SOO confident and hilarious. and I couldn't help it, I was mega-attracted to him, which is rare for me. Only happens like twice a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:12 PM
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Sorry if I came off as rude, I guess I was having a bit of fun with you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:05 PM
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No, honestly that doesn't really make sense to me. I guess I don't see how that's a power.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:03 PM
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Attractive is relative. It's harder for me as a woman to find a man attractive. It's not my choice, it's biology. It actually really sucks sometimes bc I'll find a great guy, and try to feel attracted to him, but my body just disagrees and feels nothing. I'm being serious it's really annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:56 PM
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I agree with this. I live in a large city and have relatively attractive and educated female friends. None of us are promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:48 PM
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I am a woman in my 20s. This might be weird, but my self-worth seems to increase the more isolated I am. I am living alone and the happiest I've been in a long time. I'm not sexually active by choice, but I also don't get a lot of male attention. It's pretty rare for a guy to ask me out in real life even though I'm thin and decent-looking. I almost feel like there's 2 layers of self-worth. How you feel about yourself as a human when you are alone, and then how confident you are in yourself in so…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:41 PM
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Interesting to learn your different lifestyle! I thought no one knows when he’s coming though?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:47 PM
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Ohh ok gotcha! Is that for your whole life or until marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:32 PM
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Are you an actual monk?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 06:20 PM
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I'm loving all the time alone, but I'm also very introverted so that is probably why. The man hunt is on pause right now since I don't much enjoy texting/calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 06:18 PM
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Who said men are disposable? I just read a post yesterday about women being replaced by robots. Honestly this subreddit...I don't know why I can't stop reading. I guess all the anger fascinates me even though it's all petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:41 PM
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I'm not sure what I'm looking for here either. I guess I was more trying to prove a point to myself, that even though you say men want empathy from women, they don't actually care when they really get it. I didn't mean for it to sound facetious. I guess I let myself get a little heated after reading a bunch of insults against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:37 PM
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ok let's say that's all true - is the point to just complain about it? disabled people don't create reddit groups to complain about how they have it harder in life and insult abled people do they? you see my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:29 PM
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My friends would never be that mean to say a man I'm interested in is ugly. Most of us don't pick men based solely on looks anyways. Personality is the most attractive. But I would definitely take their advice if they saw red flags I was missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:27 AM
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Reading all those angry posts... I am thinking the men don't realize that these social media posts don't represent the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:22 AM
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Well at least you said it shouldn't be taken 100% seriously. Do you believe in all this? It sounds to me like a lot of angry insults with no real and practical goal in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:15 AM
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I don't treat men that way. None of my girlfriends act like that either. Maybe you are only hearing the loud minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:10 AM
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I don't mock or shame men for being virgins. I do have empathy for their pain. Honestly. So...how are you feeling now? I'm guessing you probably don't care that I just told you I care. So now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:46 AM
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unfortunately it's in our biology for women to be more picky than men...can't change biology! don't hate the players hate the game
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:37 AM
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Does this actually happen? People are mean but you have to ignore them. I have a blind friend and people make fun of her too. Like it makes no sense, you have to ignore the cruel people in this world and not let them get to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:23 AM
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Thank you for asking this question because I am new to these topics and truly don't understand. Of course I care about men and their struggles, but what am I expected to do about this particular issue? What's the goal here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:10 AM
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I'm new to these topics (found this post randomly) so please don't be mad but I have a question - what is the core message or goal of the incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:05 AM
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My dad does stuff for his own fun and pleasure all the time. He’s really into tech gadgets. He even likes video games too. My mom gets it and doesn’t mind at all. I thought everyone understood this? We all got hobbies
/r/MGTOW211/04/20 03:54 PM
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We like strong confident men who could protect us if needed. Dangerous to others, not to us. And trust me, if we felt like we were the ones in danger, there would be NO attraction and only fear. Women who hate men for their danger have probably been badly hurt by one and are angry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 07:12 PM
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I like this question, and would also like to know!
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 11:52 PM
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Sorry that happened to you :( I'm curious now though, did you mean that you are choosing to be celibate your whole life? Or waiting until marriage?
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 11:42 PM
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woah for real? who is doing these things to you?
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 11:37 PM
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People are trying to kill you because you're a virgin? Wow, what country are you in? I'm in the US and here no one has ever cared that I'm a virgin...I mean not that I go around telling everyone because it's still a private topic
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 11:29 PM
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Thanks for sharing your experience, since it does at first sound similar. However my case was definitely different than yours, as my friend was not sexually actively. She was objectively more physically attractive and outgoing than I was. I’m sorry your friend was doing that behind your back though, that’s really not cool and I’m glad you realized it later and have moved on
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 01:31 AM
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I struggled with jealousy of my best friend in college. All the guys wanted her, and I was never once asked out. I believed it was because we were always together, thus, always compared. But when I realized my jealousy was hurting our friendship, I had to really work on defeating the jealousy monster. I prayed a lot, and made a conscious effort to not take it personally. I wanted to save our friendship. Somehow I no longer became jealous even though her suitors piled up. Our friendship was more …
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 07:38 PM
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That makes me feel better, thanks! He was fine with waiting so thankfully he seems patient.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/20 09:51 PM
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This is what I was thinking too. Like I guess I assumed the majority of women felt this way, and it didn’t need a word to define it. But the men I’ve been dating are so quick to be physical it made me wonder if I was the weird one here for not feeling anything on the second date
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/20 05:48 PM
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Mrs. Midwest talks a lot about being a homemaker instead of being career-driven. I would love to do that, but what do men think about women being homemakers? Do they see women without careers as lazy?
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 12:36 AM
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40s? I would think 35+ is fine
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 03:22 AM
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My aunt got married in her late thirties, they met on a mission trip. I think she was in her 40s when she had her healthy son. may I ask why you don't want to online date? just curious...I honestly don't know how else to meet lots of men since I don't go to bars.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 03:19 AM
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You're struggling with lust because you keep putting yourself in alluring situations. Take action to change things or you will only continue to feel this way. Channel that resentment towards your ego that likes all the female attention. Also, forget about the other woman. It's never going to happen. It's all in your mind - you want what you can't have. Don't hang out with her and pretend she's your sister.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 03:00 AM
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I feel for you, and reading this makes me think it might be a good idea to spend some time living apart. Learning and teaching yourself to be a homemaker will give you confidence. He will notice the changes. Plus, I would bet that moving in together right now will only add to the strain, not dissolve it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 02:30 AM
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You made a vow to your wife, and you owe her your strongest efforts to keep that vow of faithfulness, no matter what it costs. Your primal desires for other women are painful, like craving yet abstaining from a cake that sits right in front of you. But you've promised to not eat the cake. Your wife is the most important person in your life, just as you are hers. You are a team for life, even when old and grey. Marriage is about selflessness. It sounds like you've decided you want a marriage that…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 01:52 AM
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yours sounds similar to mine! I dress for the situation. The hardest part of modesty for me is finding a cute one-piece swimsuit...I've never felt comfortable in a bikini swimsuit despite wearing one out of feeling obligated.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 01:12 AM
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If she doesn't reach out to you much, I would try to seek the friendship of some of the men if they are nice. That way you don't have to rely on her. Yeah, it's weird for her to act that way as an engaged woman, but I'd try to ignore it. Maybe you've caught on to her being secretly ambivalent about her engagement.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 01:07 AM
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I’m new here and haven’t heard that phrase before, what does it mean and how is it cynical? Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 03:50 PM
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Aww I'm happy for you!
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 01:03 PM
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ok thank you!! That's what I was thinking too but started overthinking it :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 06:20 AM
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That's probably the best advice. I can relate to OP in having a mother who says hurtful things about appearance. Maybe I should try this as well
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 03:14 AM
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Do you live in a well-populated area? At your age, I would try to find someone closer, and also, I agree that his behavior seems strange, it worries me.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 02:38 AM
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I'm in my 20s too but I've read to keep it moisturized daily (consider using SPF) and take good skin supplements like collagen peptides!
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/20 10:24 PM
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women like a strong confident man. I personally wouldn't like a guy who bullies others. I hate bullies.
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