Bonnie_Nettles Archive

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1	Secrets To Cold Approaching Women Anywhere! Is this supposed to be an insult? a joke? an insinuation that I don't/ haven't had sex? Good one, bro.	/r/seduction	21/09/22 12:36 PM
1	Approach techniques "Men don't like dating apps because too many men use dating apps." I know that's not what you said, and I'm not arguing with you, or trying to poke fun at you. You're probably right (I don't really feel like looking it up, but it's definitely believable enough), it's just kinda funny if you think about it. Thanks for agreeing with me (and out loud, be careful, someone might call you a simp 😅🙄). Glad someone does.	/r/seduction	21/09/22 12:33 PM
1	Secrets To Cold Approaching Women Anywhere! Source?	/r/seduction	11/08/22 04:55 PM
1	Approach techniques So yes, from that perspective she would have suffered because she would be living a life without a fulfilled relationship with me. LOL So you're girlfriend couldn't have possibly had a happy life if you were never on it? That's hilariously arrogant thinking. You're clearly not getting it, so I'm done trying. It's like trying to argue with a rock.	/r/seduction	10/08/22 07:05 PM
1	Approach techniques It's called consideration. If you know a thing bothers most people, the considerate thing would be to not do it. My bad, I forgot that consideration is only for teenagers. "The woman who like being approached would actually suffer. -How do you know she isnt going to meet her future life partner this way? -You are going deprive these women the opportunity to potentially meet the love of her life. Cruel." That is fucking hilarious. Really? She's going to suffer? You've gotta be trolling me at this…	/r/seduction	10/08/22 12:09 PM
1	Approach techniques Ok now you're just being ridiculous. Are you saying that you don't care if you make 9/10 women feel uncomfortable because the 10th one might actually like your approach? Why continue to do something you know only the minority actually likes/ tolerates? "I am telling you that SOME women DO like it, and you have basically said multiple times that you straight up don't care, yet you can't seem to see how that's disrespectful." Ummmm I never said that I don't care that some women like it. I said tha…	/r/seduction	09/08/22 08:41 PM
1	Approach techniques I don't think you're getting it. There is a thing that happens to women a lot, that most of us don't like, and you're saying too bad for us? "If you retract into your butthole from a compliment/joke that's on you." The thing is, it's just really really annoying. It happens a lot and it gets tiresome. We have been raised under the gaze of men, so random compliments on our physical appearance from unknown men is typically really annoying. Knowing this, and continuing to do it, is disrespectful. "o…	/r/seduction	09/08/22 08:37 PM
2	Approach techniques Honestly, I think I'm just feeling like no matter what I say, you guys are going to keep telling me how wrong I am, or how invalid my points are, and it's really disheartening. You were asking for advise on how to approach women. I said don't approach women in the streets because most women don't like that, and that was answered with nothing but arguments, instead of even considering the possibility that I might know what I'm taking about. That's incredibly frustrating. I came here to help, beca…	/r/seduction	09/08/22 02:24 PM
1	Approach techniques So me telling you, as a woman, who has many friends who are women, who has dated women, and has an entire 33 years of experience living on this planet as a woman, that most women don't like to be approached in the streets contributes nothing to the discussion??? How is telling you "Hey this thing you are asking about in regards to picking up women, is not something most of us like" not contributing to the discussion? Because you don't care if they don't like it?? I have a bunch of men telling me…	/r/seduction	09/08/22 12:57 PM
1	Approach techniques You leave her the fuck alone??? You aren't owed pretty girls. This girl in question you so desperately need to connect with? All you know about her is that you find her attractive. Is is really so important that you meet her, at the risk of her own comfort? How desperate are you? You can go to breweries, or concerts, or a party with friends. There are so many ways to meet people. You can go to social events in your town, like trivia nights or themed events. You can You can put a fucking ad in th…	/r/seduction	09/08/22 12:17 PM
1	Approach techniques Wow. You really aren't getting it. I am telling you that most women feel uncomfortable when approached by a guy in the street. It doesn't matter how you go about it. I am telling you that women don't like it, and you have basically said multiple times that you straight up don't care, yet you can't seem to see how that's disrespectful. k.	/r/seduction	09/08/22 12:14 PM
1	Approach techniques You know what's crazy? You can respect others while also striving for your own personal happiness. You can care about yourself, while still being cognizant of how your actions affect other people. I honestly don't care that you met your girlfriend on the train. Good for you. I'm not trying to get you to undo your past. I'm telling you that most women don't like to be approached that way, and you're saying you don't care because it worked for you once. The fact that you can't see how that's a dis…	/r/seduction	08/08/22 10:43 PM
1	Approach techniques HA! yeah ok. I'm selfish and inconsiderate because I think it's fucked up to have the mindset that it doesn't matter if you make multiple people feel uncomfortable to serve your own needs. Hilarious.	/r/seduction	08/08/22 09:49 PM
1	Approach techniques There are actually a lot of ways to meet people that doesn't involved approaching people on the streets. Bars and dating app are not the only other options. Yes, some women might be fine with that approach, I don't believe them to be the majority.	/r/seduction	08/08/22 09:40 PM
-2	Approach techniques You are also relying only on anecdotal evidence as a man, so it's from a man's perspective. Also, from the sounds of you're basically saying you don't care if most women don't like it because some do. So it's ok to make a bunch of women feel uncomfortable until one of them doesn't? That's a seriously fucked up and selfish way to go through life.	/r/seduction	08/08/22 09:15 PM
0	Approach techniques I'm not an anomaly. I know plenty of women who would say the same as me. In fact, while I don't doubt their existence, I have yet to meet a woman who has said she likes being approached on the street. If MOST women don't like something, it's not worth continuing to do it to all women, just because SOME women might like it. It's actually pretty fucked up. In general Women are more comfortable telling other women, rather than men, about the things that men do that annoy them because historically, …	/r/seduction	08/08/22 07:47 PM
1	Brought a Girl Home on a First Date But She "Wanted to take things slow" yuuuup. It was definitely made up by a man.	/r/seduction	08/08/22 07:01 PM
1	did everything right imo, yet she does not text back. Unless this is something that happens to you regularly, I wouldn't worry about it. Not everyone you're interested in is going to be interested in you back. That's just an unfortunate fact of life. Sometimes women are very friendly and it seems like they might be interested in a romantic way, when really women have just had the importance of "being polite," forced onto them their entire lives. A woman being nice to you doesn't mean she's romantically or sexually interested. It's hard to come off …	/r/seduction	08/08/22 06:51 PM
1	Approach techniques As a woman (who also has experience dating women) I think I know what women do and don't like, at least more so than a man might. If anyone is going to speak for "all women" it should be a woman. What I'm getting at is that I and many many many other women do not like being approached on the street. Some women are nice and put up with it, and yeah perhaps some women do like it, or don't mind it, but for the most part, we find it really annoying. I'm not trying to pick a fight, but you asked the …	/r/seduction	08/08/22 05:54 PM
5	Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zero Straight guys can't be friends with gay guys?	/r/seduction	08/08/22 05:44 PM
2	did everything right imo, yet she does not text back. Exchanging numbers, hugging, and texting are all things one might do with a platonic friend. Perhaps she thought "this guy seems like a potential new friend", but then got nervous that he wanted more so she ghosted him. I'm not saying that doesn't suck for OP, and that she shouldn't have just expressed he concerns, but your response is just incorrect. You are assuming a lot based on very little, and turning that into an obnoxious generalization about women. As a woman myself, I'm pretty sure I u…	/r/seduction	08/08/22 05:41 PM
-4	Approach techniques It's not "feminist ideology." Women have just never liked this. When we are out by ourselves, we don't want to be approached. It was "tolerated" more back-in-the-day because women weren't as comfortable speaking up about it, but it's never been something women actually like. Just don't.	/r/seduction	08/08/22 05:26 PM
5	did everything right imo, yet she does not text back. No. Sometimes we're just not interested. Crazy concept, I know.	/r/seduction	08/08/22 05:19 PM
1	So I been texting a girl... Might be too late here since it's been 16 hours, but if you can't think of a flirty response, a genuine one works just as well. In fact it's probably better to just be genuine in certain situations.	/r/seduction	08/08/22 05:09 PM
19	Brought a Girl Home on a First Date But She "Wanted to take things slow" I'm with u/Minute_Statement_829. You just need to be patient. You've had one date. The fact that she wasn't comfortable fucking on the first date doesn't mean she's uninterested. She just has boundaries. It's good that you respected those boundaries. Now let's touch on "the friendzone." It's not a thing. Sometimes people just realize they aren't romantically attracted or compatible with another to a person, and that's all there is to it. You can enjoy hanging out with a person without having rom…	/r/seduction	08/08/22 05:03 PM
1	Secrets To Cold Approaching Women Anywhere! The secret to "cold approaching women" is to not do it. We don't fucking like it. Just get a dating app.	/r/seduction	08/08/22 04:37 PM
1	If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair? While I do believe a lot of things we do as humans has to do with how we have adapted and evolved as a species over time, at this point, it's a real shit excuse for sexism. It's like saying "Sorry I'm not ok with women having sex with more than X amount of people, but it's ok for me to because of how things were 200,000 years ago." Not only is that specific rhetoric based on theory only (and there are other theories that say early men did not really care about paternity), but it's just a crappy …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 08:48 PM
1	Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him? Not at all. First of all, if I'm not that interested, I'm not going to spend that much time watching who they interact with. If I AM interested, the people they are surrounded by don't make me any more or less attracted to them. The WAY they interact with those people might make a difference For example if it seems like the guy in question is funny, nice, respectful, etc., that would make me more interested. If he seems like he's being kind of a dick, that would make me less interested, but the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 07:50 PM