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DebateBoobear3/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 05:04 PM
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They might be attractive but a lot of them have ugly vaginas which is part of why they subject themselves to being used and abused by multiple men on camera. Beautiful women with nice vaginas can simply date and marry rich, why would they subject themselves to abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:16 AM
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I mean I do know about it, I’ve watched a ton of documentaries and stuff, read articles, exposes.. plus you can just look up expensive call girls in Vegas and see what the deal is, some have even written books bc they had famous clients. I saw a documentary type show about street walkers who sometimes do ads on Craigslist and the range is like 50-100 dollars and the women showed up were NOT good looking at all, unless you have a fetish for disheveled crack whores. You can also see sometimes on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:57 AM
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This has happened long before onlyfans. You should take some responsibility for the environment that your gender has created. If men never objectified women in the first place then this wouldn’t even be happening
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:42 AM
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Well maybe you yourself should take control of your life instead of whining. Work hard, become rich and good looking (if you’re not already) you will have a lot more choice over the type of women you date. If you’re rich your gf won’t even need to do porn or onlyfans anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:41 AM
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I mean a MTF transsexual is a biological man, and even if they “pass” physically you can still hear it when they speak. Why would a straight man pay thousands of dollars for that if he could get a real woman? Maybe a really small amount of trans sex workers make bank.. but I’d say it’s pretty rare. Straight men are the main demographic of people who hire sex workers, they are looking for real women. Most straight men don’t have transsexual fetishes, so a bio woman def gets paid more/more in-dema…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:26 AM
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Not everyone has Facebook lmao. You are not very bright. As long as a girl just uses a different email and a fake name on onlyfans then it won’t be tied back to her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:20 AM
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Tell men to stop objectifying women then. It happens even in pg-13 movies, for fucks sake. It’s everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:19 AM
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I still don’t understand why you’re so bothered by it when this has been happening already in porn for years?? Why, because you think the onlyfans girls are average looking but porn stars are better? That’s like objectively not true. The girls making a ton of money on onlyfans (plenty of them don’t even make that much) are objectively above average looking women who could be in-demand porn stars, so you’re just wrong. Maybe your main problem is you don’t even know what the average woman looks li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:08 AM
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Yes. I think a good way to “test” a man would be to gauge his reactions to onlyfans girls vs. seeing women objectified in movies/shows. If he’s perfectly fine with female nudity and sex happening in porn, movies, tv.. but gets mad or has a strong reaction to some random girl’s onlyfans.. it probably indicates more of the type of person he is. You can’t just have selective outrage over objectification.. that isn’t normal. They’re mostly just bothered that these girls are making a lot of money whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 11:59 PM
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Lol the men complaining about onlyfans aren’t doctors or soldiers, doctors and soldiers are too busy to worry about onlyfans. The ones complaining are just average joes on social media who barely make any money. That’s why it bothers them so much, the girls they’re mad at are making all this money while the guys can’t even go out for a steak dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 11:43 PM
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Ok..then it’s a combo of looks and being savvy to what men want. Most women who have sex for a living are good at sex though, so I’m not sure how relevant your point is. Still there is a undeniably correlation between sexual attractiveness and how much a sex worker gets paid. Their smv and hygiene matters a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 11:36 PM
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A lot of top earning women on onlyfans are just more beautiful/hotter than hardcore pornstars. You even see it in softcore porn where the women are just masturbating or doing “normal” gentler sex- they’re just better looking, usually prettier faces and don’t have “roasties” or big vag.. while the hardcore pornstars usually have wrecked vaginas/ uglier overall. Just how it is, it’s sex work so your smv matters, the more beautiful women get treated better and now bc of onlyfans- they earn more The…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:31 AM
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That’s because the men who make the porn/own the porn sites don’t adequately pay the porn stars for their work. Duh. Blame the ppl producing the porn, they’re usually men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:28 AM
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Lol. You realize free porn sites and the women still make money? There’s ads all over them for a reason. Someone is always going to make money off of objectifying women so getting rid of onlyfans wouldn’t suddenly stop it. The op doesn’t even make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:27 AM
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Most street hookers (at least in the US.. not sure about other countries) are black or trans- two groups that are categorically very low in smv to straight men. So.. yeah. That’s why they’re selling themselves on the street and not selling nudes from the comfort of their homes. It’s not bc they’re somehow superior or harder workers.. lol. They’re just low smv, it’s sex work so obviously your smv matters a lot. If street walkers could make bank on onlyfans instead of the streets, they would, I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:46 AM
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Because the top earners on onlyfans are making a lot more money than most men. It rly fires up the male ego, their fragile little min. wage egos.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:42 AM
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Men are the ones who created female objectification in the first place. Blaming women for this is pretty funny to me when historically men have always objectified women (even profited off it) every chance they got. Now women are starting to profit off it and it’s angering men. The tables have turned
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:37 AM
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Men: I hate whores so much -5 min later- logs onto porn hub Uh huh. Hate whores but look at them and get pleasure to them on a daily basis. Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:33 AM
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Exactly. And if they’re making a ton of money off it, it is even more ideal. Either way, even if onlyfans was shut down, women would still be objectified everywhere else still, so I don’t see why ppl bother blaming onlyfans for women being objectified. Women will always be objectified bc men like to look at nude women. Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:32 AM
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So onlyfans hurts the female gender but objectification in music videos, movies, and other porn doesn’t hurt them. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:25 AM
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Nah. There’s an enormous excess of nude content online, it’s unlikely to ever get back to them unless their real name is attached
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:22 AM
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They don’t lose anything. Men just don’t like onlyfans bc a lot of these women are making more money just with their own bodies than the men do at their shitty minimum wage jobs. The same men who are so outraged and angered over onlyfans think watching free porn is perfectly fine. It’s not about them being mad at female objectification, it’s that women are earning more money than them.. it hurts their ego. I’d respect them a lot more if they’d just admit this but they never will Eta: ha I see I …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:17 AM
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Why is this mainly targeted at onlyfans? How is it any worse than porn, nudity in movies, tv, modeling? Onlyfans could close down but women would still be objectified everywhere else It is just very telling that so many men are so outraged and mad over this onlyfans stuff, meanwhile other porn doesn’t bother them, probably bc they know it’s made and produced by men. They don’t like knowing that onlyfans gives women the option of earning a lot of money independently without some men abusing her /…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:12 AM
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All women lie so good luck with that rule
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:28 PM
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Well yeah but some are pretty severe and can certainly affect your sex life. Someone with really severe body image issues isn’t likely to enjoy or want sex, so their n count will usually be quite low. Someone with mild body image issues (most women) is more likely to actually want and enjoy sex, have an average or bit high of an n count, and not end up giving her husband a dead bedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:42 AM
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But you have to actually be horny, want sex, and not think it’s gross in order to really get good at it. Some women stay virgins bc they just don’t want sex or think it’s gross or bad, or they’re really ashamed of their bodies/genitals for whatever reason. That’s pretty unlikely to change just bc you marry her. Unless she really works in accepting it or is willing to get help, you will likely end up a dead bedroom. I would not assume most female virgins stayed abstinent bc “they were waiting for…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:32 AM
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Yeah, these women are stuck in a foreign country with no family close by so they’re totally reliant on the man, and to make matters worse their family often pressures them to stay married, and expect her to send some money back to them every year bc they need it to live. It’s pretty sad stuff when you look into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:35 AM
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I’ve gleaned from different studies and stats that late 20’s to anytime in the 30’s is ideal and has the best chance of long term success. I think it gets higher in 40 and 50’s bc those ppl have usually already had multiple marriages end, they’re likely just the “divorcing type”, for lack of a better term- they just marry too easily
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:29 AM
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or the free prostitutes have shitty self esteem since they open their legs for any man who gives them a shred of attention at clubs, bars and on tinder. Some women are virgins in their 20’s literally bc they’re fat.. but ok sure. All virgins have very high self esteem /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:25 AM
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Yeah, basically these guys who want a virgin go across seas to third world countries. They pick up a woman who doesn’t know English and has to rely on them. The woman often grows to resent the man for various reasons but can’t divorce him bc she’s financially dependent and also wants to keep her life in a more developed country. This stuff just makes me sad honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:19 AM
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There’s studies (actually based on science and not some religious crap) showing that ppl who marry in early 20’s have much higher rates of divorce. I’d assume some or most of these couples had low n counts if they married that young.. hmmm..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:16 AM
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It’s a bs religious study. I’ve literally seen more scientifically based studies showing that people who marry in their early 20’s have much higher chance of divorce. “High” N count really is not a huge divorce factor (unless the person has an insanely high, like 100’s) but these nerds will continue to think it is. Op implies with this study that anything over 0-1 is promiscuous.. that about sums up the delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:12 AM
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Promiscuous women to the op is literally anything over 0-1. The average n count is legit like 7 in your 20’s. I don’t think some dudes even know what’s normal bc they’re so sexually inexperienced and abnormal for their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:08 AM
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Yeah, it’s pretty unlikely that they never took a break and “saw other people” in that 10+ year time period. Most women do have a “hoe phase”, get over it already
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:55 PM
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I’m seeing a lot of “legals” on this list. Stop trying to bend the truth just to suit your point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:47 PM
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Do you live in France? Why is this even relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:45 PM
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Lol. You’re giving way too much credit to them, and you clearly don’t understand women, which isn’t your fault but still must be said. The majority of women have body insecurities, and some are pretty damn severe to the point where they just can’t enjoy sex and become basically asexual. Clothing gives these women a way to hide said insecurities. Women with serious body issues or who have fear/severe discomfort surrounding sex aren’t just going to air that out to men. They will tell their female …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:44 PM
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You obviously don’t watch reality tv.. There’s an actual real couple where the man has a really high n count, documented and validated by ppl he knows.. the dudes been with hundreds of women. He has herpes, and he recently got married and still cheats on her. Great life for the woman- not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:13 PM
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Then don’t be sloppy about it. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:08 PM
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Yeah and they will cheat on their spouses and possibly give them std’s. Gross. Just have a normal n count, don’t sleep with 0 women but don’t slept with 100’s. It’s not that hard, unless you’re incel or a manwhore- equally unattractive. Just be normal and have sex moderately, mostly in relationships, why is this so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:05 PM
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Yeah I knew this girl who got herpes from a high n count man. She’d only slept with like 2 other men before him, she was like 25 at the time she got the herpes. No thanks, no way i am committing to a guy who’s slept with 100’s of women, he’s way more likely to cheat or give std’s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:03 PM
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Forever until the ‘cels die alone bc their standards are too unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:01 PM
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It has a population of 237 million ppl. Pretty large populated country, unlike Spain or France
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:59 PM
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Wow, two exceptions. Great, good argument. Where I live (USA) they are perfectly legal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:55 PM
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You don’t need fo “ask” for a paternity test lmao, you just need dna from the child and your own. It can be done easily and discretely if you’re that worried you’re not the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:46 PM
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Yeah I mean a guy is with a woman and she’s going out all the time and acts shady about it, won’t call or text to check up, stays out late all the time.. or would rather a lot spend time with her friends than you.. imo this is way more of an indicator of potential cheating than an arbitrary number.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:46 PM
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If you’re that worried about it you can easily just do a discrete paternity test, they’re incredibly easy. You just need hair or saliva of the child and your own then send it to a lab. If you don’t trust a certified lab then you likely have some mental problems you need to sort out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:42 PM
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Good lucking finding a woman aged 30-34 with an n count of 0-1, who is decent looking and will suddenly just become sexual and have frequent sex with only you? Delusional. It’s not 1940, and life is not some fantasy land tailored to your exact wants. Sorry but ppl have sex with different ppl in their 20’s, it’s really not that weird or bad, it doesn’t mean you can’t “pair bond”, most adults are perfectly capable of moving on and finding love after they’ve been with others. This study is just som…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:27 PM
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You know, most men don’t understand this.. but some women who are really anti-sex in their 20’s aren’t that way because they’re “religious/ pure/waiting for right guy”, they are actually just ashamed of their naked bodies or think sex is gross/bad. It will be funny when some of these ‘virgins only” type dudes finally find a woman like this. I’m sure he will expect her to be sexual with him (when previously she was not at all sexual, even in relationships?), only for him to end up bitter because …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:09 PM
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One word.. Mgtow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 12:33 PM
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Lol, so one country? It’s legal in the majority of places
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 02:54 AM
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That guy is an old weird looking loser. Imagine taking relationship advice from a dude like that https://i.ytimg.com/vi/DtcxV0Zs2QM/maxresdefault.jpg Looks like a freakin p*do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 02:50 AM
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Yep. A secure man might not “like” a woman’s past, but he will move on and not obsess over it the way some of these guys do. Men who obsess over women having been with other men are losers, and that’s that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 02:49 AM
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Yeah.. I legit read a story of a sugar daddy thing turned relationship. The girl was like 22 and the guy was described as well into middle age, with grey hair and wrinkles. She said sex with him was weird and she needed a drink and the lights off.. yikes. They went to a concert and he took her outside and yelled at her just bc some younger guy came up and talked to her. LOL. More proof that single/divorced middle aged losers with anger issues are the ones going after these too-young-for-them wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:26 AM
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Depends. If she did it when young and confused, she could easily change and mature, and make a good long term partner. It’s different if she’s doing it well into her 30’s and then into middle age- then that would clearly be a sign she’s not fit for long term anything. Men with rly high N counts are the ones a lot more unlikely to change- bc it’s not as easy for men to get sex. If a man is that attractive or has that much “game” that he gets all these women, its a rarity meaning he feels he “won …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:10 AM
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Well the catch of that is if an average woman is having that much sex with attractive men she’s likely initiating it, considering the average woman is now 30 lbs overweight.. Look it up. You’re delusional if you think hot men routinely hit on fat women and pursue them into bed. Can only see it happening in rly shitty poor areas, anywhere that’s middle class and up there are hotter women around to have sex with, a lot of “sluts” are above average looking, you want to think they’re “plain” go ahea…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:03 AM
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There are young looking 30 year olds, dumbass. What about that do you not get?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 06:31 AM
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I don’t think her face is perfect but doesn’t rly matter. She still doesn’t have the ideal body type that straight men go crazy over. Some 30 year olds do, though Wonder if you’re even halfway attractive as margot’s current boyfriend. Laughing at this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 06:25 AM
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If you’re 20 then no wonder you’re so naive. Prob never even fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 06:23 AM
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Lol what surgery has Gal even had? Whatever. That’s bc Gal Gadot is overrated, she doesn’t have boobs and her face rly isn’t all that striking. The og Wonder Woman was bustier and hotter. Change it to Scarjo or Margot Robbie and then you’ll see the deal.. or some other blue eyed 30 yo blonde with big tits or a round ass
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 06:20 AM
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I’m talking about fertility. A man’s sperm degrades just as fast as women’s eggs do- sometimes even faster depending if he has a shit lifestyle while she has a healthier one. Drinking, smoking, drug use can all fuck up a man’s sperm and make defects more likely
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 06:14 AM
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Lol yeah right, prove it then. Show a pic of what you think is a beautiful 30 y/o vs. an average 22 year old pic. I bet you couldn’t even tell the difference between a young looking 30 y/o and a 22 year old. Men are horrible at guessing age
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 06:10 AM
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So you plan to impregnate a 20 year old woman who isn’t ready to have kids? Lol. Good luck with that. Most 20 year olds aren’t ready at all to be mothers these days
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 06:07 AM
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Lol the man’s sperm degrades too. Look it up. Also if a man has an unhealthy lifestyle, it can fuck up his sperm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 05:57 AM
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Holy shit lol.. so accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 05:52 AM
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LOL, right?? Maybe some are just.. not straight.. and in deep denial. Would explain their insane anger at “women who fucked chad”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:06 PM
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Yeah, what great catches those types of guys are. Want an innocent looking gf (who they’re not even that sexually attracted to) while they jerk off to hotter women in the bathroom or while she is asleep. Such great catches, those men /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:56 PM
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Lol, pls. A lot of non sluts are that way bc they’re ugly or fat and don’t get any male attention from decent looking guys . I know a girl who claims to have never had sex, she’s like 23, and she’s ugly with weird body proportions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:53 PM
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I don’t dress particularly slutty, but I have the classic hourglass body type and I briefly dated a man “below my league”, and that’s when I noticed guys came up and aggressively hit on me. When I dated a more attractive man, no men came up to us. It was like they just respected him more. I think this flirty aggression happens a lot more when women are with men who are below their league. More reason why women shouldn’t be dating down in looks. I saw a study that couples are happier when they da…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 06:28 PM
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I think Elizabeth Hurley is around 50 and looks pretty much just as good as Keanu reeves. They’re pretty equally attractive, and very rare for that age. If you compare the average 50 year old man to woman, there’s prob plenty cases where the woman does look better honestly. A lot of middle aged men just look bad and put in no effort
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 06:09 PM
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They also get spray tans and treatments for hair loss. Wonder what they’d look like if they stopped whatever male beauty regimen they’re on lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:52 PM
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Yeah and I won’t be looking to date ppl half my age like you, I will be going 5-10 years tops in either direction
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:45 PM
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Well yeah, that’s probably what you’d have to do. Women don’t have much reason to be dating older men other than money or career advancement. They have a lot more in common with guys their age and they usually look better and can fuck more often without taking stupid pills too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:36 PM
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What if she doesn’t want you, then what
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:27 PM
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They all looked better younger. If men looked so amazing in their older age, there wouldn’t be a need for new younger “heartthrobs” to keep being churned out in Hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 04:53 PM
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Lol young women fuck older men bc they’re receiving gifts or money for it. Anything else is a very rare exception
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 04:50 PM
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Why are you so intent on ppl acknowledging the visual appeal of teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 04:49 PM
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Lol at the joe rogan vid.. two “over the hill” men want to think baldness, grey hair and wrinkles are more attractive to women than a young guy with a lush head of hair and wrinkle free skin. Shocking. Joe rogan was much better looking when he was young with hair, look it up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 04:11 PM
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No one here has a hard time admitting the truth to themselves, most ppl find young-ish ppl the most sexually attractive.. for women too, hence the whole cougar thing. I think it just gets into weird territory when ppl are specifically targeting the “barely legal” crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 03:52 PM
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Trust me, it does represent the views of all girls that age
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 03:44 PM
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Any age gap couples I’ve heard of (never known irl) there was an ulterior motive. Like this couple on a reality show, he was a producer and she was an actress. So there was the motive of her wanting more fame and his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 03:40 PM
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Yeah bc there is. Why would a man rather date someone fresh out of high school than someone his age who is slightly less attractive but more in common with? There is something wrong with him if he goes for the youngest possible woman at all costs and doesn’t take body type, facial structure, common interests, personality into account over a number! If very young age is your first priority then something is up. It doesn’t happen much irl, but when it does, a smart person can usually spot what led…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 03:28 PM
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Yeah the most my friends ever went was like 1 year older lol. Young women dating old men isn’t even on most women’s radar IRL bc it so rarely happens. I think some older women just get weird when older men lust after young women openly, bc it comes off socially creepy and you can tell the young girl is usually weirded out but trying to be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 03:23 PM
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Just bc a man can do something doesn’t mean he will do it. Maybe he thinks age gaps are weird, maybe he’s met younger women but connects more with women his age. Maybe he doesn’t find younger women that much more attractive than women his age. If a guy is only in his 30’s, I could easily see this being the case
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 03:15 PM
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No. I’ve dated and have brothers. I’ve never heard a halfway masculine man say the term “pretty boy”. To each their own I guess. I’ve only heard gay men and women say it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 03:07 PM
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And I bet good money that at least 10% of that 20% are men aged 22-30. lol. These are relatively young men who are attractive to most women. They’re not “older men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:56 PM
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I mean yeah incels have become a lot more prevalent in the past like.. idk 5 years? Maybe little more. But I think that’s mostly due to the Internet isolating ppl so much and not rly women’s faults. It used to be that incel guys would just have friends they hung out with, so they weren’t so lonely if they couldn’t get a gf. Now incel guys have no friends OR gf, mostly internet isolating them.. it’s not good
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:50 PM
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Uh. Girl is a lot less likely to reject an average guy her age than an average guy 15+ years older. Age does make a difference for men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:40 PM
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Hair does matter a lot, if you’re an average looking man, you prob look better with hair, and younger men tend to have more of it. Being a half bald and weathered guy is almost scary to a lot of younger girls. They don’t want to be mean so they won’t tell the truth but many do think like this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:35 PM
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I think it comes from older rich men having money/certain lifestyle and younger women wanting access to it. Men mistake that for these younger women being more physically attracted to older men and thinking “hmm she must find him very hot”. LOL. Funny shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:31 PM
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Srsly. Any 22 year old woman (who is not totally fucked up, or ONLY out for money and that’s it) is going to be more into guys her own age or very close to her age. This whole thing “women like older men” LOL yeah when they look like George Clooney. Even then, George was hotter in his 20’s, go look at him on Roseanne and try to argue he wasn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:28 PM
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It actually can be an age thing. Some men lose their hair in their 30’s and just look worse than they did at 22. So if they continue to hit on 22 year olds as a 35 year old crusty bald moron, they usually just look pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:24 PM
12

If you are a man who compares yourself to women, then you’re a loser. The men who constantly whine about “women having it easier” are always pieces of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:15 PM
7

Even the most toxic woman, the man next to her still takes the cake. The majority of murderers and rapists are men. Most animal abusers are men. Men do a lot of fucked up things. Try to argue it, I don’t care. It’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:11 PM
-3

It is an insult if you’re a straight man, stop saying stuff that makes you sound gay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:10 PM
2

He didn’t say pretty boys, he said “3 guy friends in her circle”. Stop twisting ppl’s words. Also you sound gay calling men “pretty” just a heads up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:55 PM
3

Your strategy lol, like it’s a game? Dating and love isn’t like that. It’s not always so logical like “do X and get X” maybe you’ll learn one day and will release the idea that you have total control
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:44 PM
4

I don’t think men are all toxic fuckbois, I do think many are insecure losers who project their own problems onto women though, and blame women for their own faults bc it’s easier
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:35 PM
8

I don’t think this is as true as you think. Some women just get along better with men for a simple reason like they grew up with brothers or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:31 PM
19

Disagree. There are plenty abusive guys who aren’t Chads. Not everything is about chad cheating on someone, lmao. Think you’ve been spending too much time on red pill blogs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:28 PM
123

Honestly I think it is also just about body type and sexual attractiveness too. Women with more sexual, lusty body types like the classic hourglass usually get accused of being sluts mainly bc more men desire and drool over them so ppl project the slut thing onto them. A woman with “sexy” body could wear a turtleneck and jeans and she will just look “sluttier” than a less attractive woman in the same outfit. Only highly confident men should bother dating these highly attractive women, bc an inse…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 12:52 PM
11

These guys are truly delusional if they think it’s normal for example, a 28 year old guy to only date 18 year olds and not want to date any older than that. Usually the guy is fucked in the head, or at worst a pedo- and would go younger if it was legal. You can tell a pedo bc they only go for a specific body type and won’t date any women with boobs, or above 5’1 and 90 lbs- no I don’t mean fat women, I mean they don’t like curvy full breasted women like scarjo or something.. they only like Arian…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 12:11 PM
9

Lol. Men in their late 20’s who can’t date a young looking hot woman close to their age.. are losers. If you only go for women 10+ years younger when you’re still relatively young yourself, something is up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 12:05 PM
1

Yeah that does sound gay, maybe onto something there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:22 AM
2

I don’t even think it matters anyway, these type of guys who care so much about n count just won’t be happy unless the answer is 0. They want to feel like they have complete control over the woman and her past to make sure he is the best (only) she’s ever had. You win by default when there’s no past competition. It’s ego, control, insecurity- but they will never admit this. They claim all these women end up alone, lol.. it’s just projection, these men are far more likely to end up alone if they …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:10 AM
2

Yeah bc you’re insecure. Why else would 5 ppl be a “high” number to you? It’s rly not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:40 AM
1

You could spin it in a positive light and think maybe she likes the way she looks naked more than clothed and wants to show it off. Some women look worse naked or have ugly vaginas. What if a woman is a virgin or only slept with one guy cus she looks bad nude and is just afraid to show ppl her nude body? Not many women would admit that is the reason why they’re “chaste” but it could certainly be a reason. That or they’re just very uncomfortable with sex and will make constant excuses to not put …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 11:17 PM
1

A man freaking out bc a woman’s had sex with 7 men by 30 is a red flag. Total moron with delusional desires in a mate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:56 PM
1

No, men freak out over far less than 60. If a man’s had 4 women by 30, and she’s had 7 men, he will still freak out if he’s insecure. It’s inevitable, if a woman’s slept with more men, insecure men just can’t handle it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:50 PM
1

It doesn’t even matter, men love to call women sluts just bc they’re more attractive than women they’ve been with. It’s just a cope for why they can’t date these hotter women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:35 PM
2

This is just cope for why no women want you. “Oh she’s not that into me, she was a slut anyway”. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:33 PM
1

You sure you didn’t just edit that in? If not, maybe learn how to sum up your thoughts more succinctly then and not ramble so much
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:30 PM
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No. There are men who get mad at childless, tattoo free women with average n counts just bc they’re insecure she’s had some more sex than him. You think none of this comes down to insecurity then you’re kidding yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:28 PM
3

Their looks, their income, their sexual ability. Typical things men are insecure about. Some are more insecure than others due to their life situation or their genes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:26 PM
4

You mean your interpretation of her decision making skills, which can be pretty biased interpretation if you’re insecure with yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:17 PM
1

Yeah, like men don’t disgust women. Any time a man calls another woman “hot” or talks about porn, or gets caught watching porn- it disgusts most women endlessly. Even the most valuable men have something disgusting or piggish about them. They’re human men, they’re not angels, neither are women. Stop putting men on a pedestal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:10 PM
4

I understand not wanting a woman who has done all that. But insecure men seem to think almost any number is “too high”. Basically they want a beautiful virgin (doesn’t rly exist, very rarely it does but she’s religious and married off by like 20 to a fellow virgin, so off the market to you) and get irrationally mad when they can’t get it. A lot of these men are just insecure and irrational
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:42 PM
3

Honestly yeah, I think it is like an insecure obsession and low value. Having a few casual hookups doesn’t mean someone will cheat on you. A lot of men who ask the n count don’t even believe the women anyway and will find some way to disprove it in their mind and confirm their own fears
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:40 PM
2

Exactly. Like 90% of the sex I’ve had was in a long term relationship. And my vagina still looks the same and it is very tight. This whole myth that sex changes the look or tightness of the vagina cracks me up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:33 PM
1

What is fds. I don’t think it’s 30 percent, prob more like 15. Most women who have sex a ton are doing it with their partner or even a long term hookup , not tons of different “hot” men. Many women are still somewhat monogamous even when not committed to anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:27 PM
1

Ok, like what is an example? I still think it is very uncommon for women to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:25 PM
1

I don’t think rare exceptions count as “some”. I have never known any woman who just sleeps with any man they want. It’s very uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:22 PM
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I’ve had plenty of sex, still have an “innie” and don’t have any of that roast beef look. I’ve seen porn and what a “roastie” is so I am not naive to the variety of looks. Some women just have outies or just thicker/loose skin, I’m pretty sure it’s mostly genetic.. I saw my mom’s once by accident (lol) and she had an innie
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:16 PM
3

100’s? Insecure men think anything above 1 or 2 is a slut. There is no right answer for an insecure man. Any number will have him throw a fit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:07 PM
1

What woman sleeps with whoever she wants all the time? This isn’t a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:06 PM
3

What woman do you think is not a hoe? Genuine question. Men like you just think all women are hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:04 PM
3

Insecure men assume all women are lying and get mad no matter what the number is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:02 PM
1

Well what is high? I understand not wanting to date a woman with like 50+, you know the type that goes out every weekend, has slept with women’s boyfriends, gets wasted constantly... but some men think a relatively small number is high and I think that is mostly insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 08:00 PM
1

There are still men being raised by two loving parents. You must be from a shitty area where single moms are very common. Trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 07:58 PM
1

Nah. most of the men who can actually deal with a relationship with a woman and find a woman to be happy with (and not let it “ruin” him, as RP likes to say) are legit just real, strong men who were raised well. They usually had strong family upbringing where their father instilled strength in them and their mother loved them. The weak beta boys who never had good fathers and grow up insecure and unsure become the adult incel (or close to incel) men who retreat into the internet and red pill bc …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 10:57 AM
1

“Personal experience” so you went through it yourself? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 10:25 PM
1

I didn’t say you were single, I was just giving an example that you can be vengeful while being a parent. It’s not like you have kids then suddenly you’re some angelic being with no bitterness towards anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 10:18 PM
1

Stop with this BS. You said they “refuse men at 20”. These women who “settle for beta men at 30” weren’t the same women who refused men at 20- those women WERE dating beta men at 20 as well!! It’s not like some drop in quality. You don’t get what I’m saying clearly..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 10:14 PM
1

You can still be delusional and vengeful with kids. Plenty fat, working single moms are this way..look at Facebook
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 10:12 PM
1

Again proving your delusion. Average looking women can’t get an alpha to commit at ANY age. Alpha men don’t date average looking women. You rly don’t know much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 10:10 PM
1

There are plenty medium attractive men in their 30’s or 40’s who have a mix of alpha and beta qualities and make decent money. Hot 30 year old women are not closed off to these men just cus they’re not 20. Part of being “hot” in your 30’s, as a woman, is looking younger than your age, if a hot woman is like 32 and ppl think she’s 25, it’s not like “oh now I have to date some ugly man with money now” lol. It’s funny these red pill men who claim “age matters” so much prob couldn’t tell a young loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 10:05 PM
0

This is bullshit but ok. Think what you want. It’s simply not true. Hot women with no children under 40, with decent personalities, don’t have trouble getting commitment from good men, I know this may be hard for you to stomach(with your little nerdy revenge fantasies) but it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 09:56 PM
0

“If you marry someone you’d refuse at 20” this is delusional talk right here. If a woman is so attractive/outgoing that she’s refusing all kinds of beta men when she’s 20, it won’t be much different at 30 unless she takes awful care of her looks. She may have to date a little older, like 5-10 years, but she will still be able to attract “alphas”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 09:53 PM
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That fact that you think women age that much in 10 years (to where they wouldn’t be able to attract similar quality men) shows your stupidity. Unless you’re a hard drug addict or take bad care of yourself, you won’t look much less attractive at 30 than 20. A lot of women just weren’t that naturally attractive to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 09:49 PM
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It’s funny bc unattractive women are not all out having all this sex with “hot” men all the time, it’s BS. Hot ppl usually fuck hot ppl, if you ask the most unattractive woman a hot man had ever had sex with, they will usually say 6/10 which is still slightly above average. If a guy is routinely banging “ugly” women, he’s probably not very attractive himself, but “red pill” men like to overrate other men and act like some 5/10 man is a 6 or 7/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 09:40 PM
2

You sound like a stupid meme
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:43 AM
1

Yep. Also I’ve seen some on twitter that make a good amount. They get hated on constantly too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:40 AM
2

But.. plenty of women are private and don’t want pics like that on the internet?? Or they were raised to think that’s bad. Just bc a woman is attractive doesn’t mean she want to sell nude photos and have random men jerk off to them. Even the idea of that makes me feel gross and exposed. I wouldn’t want to do it and I have a nice body, no joke
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:32 AM
1

Even the rich don’t, if you have serious mental problems (therapy and drugs don’t always work that well for everyone) or even just a sort of offbeat personality so it’s hard to find people who get you..it’s not all that easy. Plenty rich ppl are quite lonely but their lives seem nice from the outside bc they have nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:26 AM
1

Right? men ENJOY THE REAL THING! A real woman’s love and affection. No porn or other BS will replace that. Only loser/unattractive/shit men genuinely prefer porn, strip clubs etc., bc well, they’re shit, and sometimes (if they’re unattractive, unhygienic etc) then the quality of woman they can keep around.. is not that great.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:24 AM
1

Nah. The men who would be rly hyped over sex robots aren’t the same ones who are all “you look beautiful” validation types, they are often the bitter ones who end up being rly rude to women (negs and insults), or they only hit on women far out of their league and won’t settle for anything less. Most women would be glad they’re not around as much anymore to bug them. I think normal attractive people (who are able to have sex with other normal attractive people) wouldn’t be very tempted by them. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:17 AM
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Women will have their own robots made to go down on them and do whatever else . If they’re actually made to be that good, you rly think it’s only men who will benefit ? Keep dreaming
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:11 AM
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Yeah and you’re a child yourself so you can’t handle it. A real man easily can handle a woman and her “daily problems”. Dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:07 AM
1

I have to agree, with the LMC there are more aesthetic choices (that UMC tend to find “trashy”) and verbal mannerisms that can be a turn off to UMC men. I’d say most UMC men are drawn to MC or UMC bc they have a lot more in common. Also, I think even the beauty standards are a little different across the classes too. Types of LMC female beauty tends to appeal to male members of the LMC, but not really other classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 06:15 PM
1

There is a study about people who marry before 25 and how they divorce at a much higher rate than people who marry in their late 20’s or 30’s. Many people who marry before 25 don’t have many partners..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 06:05 PM
3

Some religious men are raging narcissists, might be why, like a control thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 04:36 AM
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I think it is men who want to think they’re high value (but aren’t high value) who ask the most. They think it’s “what alphas do” or something, but it’s more of an insecure wimpy beta move.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 04:01 AM
2

You’ll talk about a porn addiction but not your own mother. You rly are screwed up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 11:47 PM
1

Why do you have a complicated relationship? Sounds like typical mommy issues to me. It’s probably not all porn that caused your issues with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 11:39 PM
1

Makes it too awkward. I’ve never gravitated towards having close friendships with men anyway though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 11:39 PM
1

Why would a female need to agree a woman is stunning for a man to be into her? That makes no sense. Women and men don’t always find the same women “very attractive”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 11:35 PM
0

Let me guess, you don’t like your mother either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 11:32 PM
0

Plenty of men are raised by cool, loving moms who love their dads/step dads - and those dudes are the good ones.. the ones women want to date and love. You don’t have to be Chad if you’re a self confident guy who is successful and from a good family. You are fucked bc your family sucks ass, and you prob have shitty genes to boot. Broken, backwards families like yours often result from broken, stupid people. Congrats, you’re a genetic failure. Now improve or off yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:47 AM
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And they’re jealous of the women who get to fuck Chad. Lol. Pretty funny but sad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:21 AM
1

Repressed gayness and mommy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:21 AM
1

I don’t think it’s all about men being taught they can be loved without trying although that may be part of it, I think it’s mostly that men don’t derive much value from looking good. Women just derive more of their self esteem and confidence from being pretty/presenting themselves well. Men derive their confidence from feeling like they’ve accomplished something or from working, producing, reaching goals . This is why being unemployed hits men a lot harder than women- they’ve done studies on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 10:13 PM
0

Ok? I don’t. Either way that’s not the same as dating him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:42 PM
1

That was an okcupid study. A lot of the men on okcupid are not attractive. Attractive men use the swiping apps like tinder or bumble
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:41 PM
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Well a 6 or 7 is “average” to some men who are 5’s, so there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:48 PM
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Nah. A lot of average looking men just want a woman who is better looking than them and it screws things up. Maybe not a 10, but most 5 men want at least a 7, etc. On dating apps like okcupid where anyone can msg anyone, you’ll see almost all men msging the “hot” women and spending more time than they should on women who don’t want them. It takes a lot of men a long while to figure out those women can do better than them. Unless an average looking guy has money, he’s prob kidding himself by thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 12:46 PM
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The majority of them just seem like incels (or very close to incel). They claim most of them are “men who’ve been screwed over by the divorce/child support system”, but I doubt most of them have ever been married w/ kids. They’re just angry at women bc they’ve been unsuccessful in their dating/sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 12:22 PM
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You only have to worry if you’re famous or in a very prestigious career where you’re well known. No ones going to metoo some anon average Joe who works in an office or at Best Buy. Even if you are a well known man, the majority still haven’t been metoo’d.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 12:20 PM
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If you have your own money and place, you do need to be cautious of men who will take advantage of you. Have to agree with that other person. Some guys will pretend to like you to get access to your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 12:16 PM
0

A lot of men have low T levels now, so that might be part of it. Women aren’t going to be attracted to men if they remind them of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 11:58 AM
1

This is stupid to care about because it’s so easy for women to lie. Unless she fucked one of your friends, is the town hoe, or has a kid, don’t even bother. There’s no way of knowing the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 11:55 PM
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I think many guys say this but then they go on a few dates with a girl that tall and find they don’t like it and move on. Most guys want short women, it makes them feel masculine and like they’re protecting them, it is a psychological thing. I mean if this wasn’t true, why do you see these massive height differences in couples where the guy is really tall? Look up shack’s height and his wife, she’s like 5’5 at best. There are many other examples of very tall men with much shorter women, like to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:19 AM
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I thought from your op he was 5’, well never mind but if he was 5’5, then it comes down to build and face. 5’5 could be tricky but it’s not a dealbreaker, I said this before but your build and face matters at almost any height. A stocky 5’5 guy with a nice face will do fine. I think it is when guys have a petite frame is the real dealbreaker. Then charm and humor matter, personality etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:13 AM
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You’re thinking of above average looking tall women though, like models or ones with big boobs or something. There are tall women that are kind of masculine looking or flat chested, those types will have trouble dating and I’ve even seen it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:08 AM
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I mean yeah, the guy was 5 feet tall. The average female height is 5’4 and average male is 5’9, so 5 foot is exceptionally small for a man. This guy is going to have to lower his physical standards quite a bit if he wants a girlfriend, that’s all there is to it. He lost the genetic lotto.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:21 AM
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Or lower his physical standards. I knew a guy who was legit 5’2, had a decent face but he was just so small and petite, smaller than most petite girls even. I think he was having trouble dating because he was overshooting his league, he would always hit on girls who were pretty, in decent shape, so these girls could date taller or bigger guys. I think his close friend even tried to tell him this but he kept trying anyway, he eventually caught on by the time he was like 28 after years of dating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:19 AM
1

I said “or be alone”, many choose this option. It doesn’t matter if they have low standards or not, unless you have a “model” face, you’re pretty much screwed being that tall as a woman. Whether you want to admit it or not, it’s similar to a very short man and the limited options he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:13 AM
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If a guy is 5’, he is going to need to lower his physical standards quite a bit or be alone. That’s really all there is to it. Unless he’s wealthy, he will have to be open to dating women who are ugly in the face, fat or both. It’s similar to a woman being 6’4, the average male height is 5’9, so a lot of men aren’t going to want to date a woman that tall, they might have sex with her but the majority won’t commit. it’s just a cold reality that the further you stray from norms of attractiveness, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:08 AM
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It could be more simple, they’re afraid of getting hurt or heart broken. They’re not afraid of “getting stuck” and not knowing how to break up, they’re afraid of her leaving, so this deters men from getting to close to a woman/committing to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 11:05 PM
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You’ve known ugly mean dudes who got laid a lot? Lmao. K. This research is frankly stupid because how do you not take attractiveness into account when discussing what women prefer in men? It’s a well known thing that attractive guys can get away with bad/creepy/mean behavior a lot more than ugly guys. For fucks sake, I mean some women will say ugly men are creepy or predatory just for looking at them too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 08:10 PM
1

I think old men need to stop hitting on young girls. It’s creepy more often than not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 07:22 AM
3

I think the idea that men get more attractive as they age is mostly perpetuated by men. Then when women talk about a handsome older man it’s a celebrity or some really rare case, but realistically the average middle aged man is going to be even uglier than the average younger guy and that’s going to be very.. not good, especially to some college age girl who is comparing them to guys her age. I think some sugar daddies are delusional and convince themselves that the girl is actually attracted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:53 PM
2

That’s not my point. He said “I expected them to both leave angrily” I’m saying they didn’t get angry because they didn’t have feelings for him. He’s a bit dull to not have picked up on that. Also, just in general this isn’t specific to him, It’s very rare for a girl to be into a guy and also not be jealous at all over other girls. Guys get a non jealous girl and think like a simp “wow she’s so cool and different she never gets upset” like no dude, she’s probably just not that into you lmao. Som…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:05 AM
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Dude. If neither of them got mad that the other girl showed up, they probably just didn’t give a shit about you and just wanted sex. If a girl has feelings for you, she would have gotten upset by that, most likely
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 10:31 PM
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I hate to be all cliche but doesn’t attractiveness matter more? An attractive nice guy seems like he’d win a lot more favor than the ugly or average looking bully. Looking back all of the average/ugly dudes were really nice and warm to girls and did well cause they made girls feel good and safe around them. I really can’t remember any ugly or even average looking mean dudes who got laid a ton..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 10:20 PM
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I have lurked on a sugar daddy forum, most of the sugar daddies treat it as a business exchange, it is an interesting to read about although I wouldn’t do it myself. I think it’s morally wrong too because many are married. Some have admitted they developed feelings for the sugar baby but it is often not mutual. Like I said in my previous comment, it’s rare for an age gap relationship to exist with no money or goods exchanged. I do find it humorous when young guys are naive and assume when they r…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 05:48 PM
1

Why are you asking people online if you’re so adamant about this? I’m just saying the odds are against you if you want a lasting relationship. They are likely to leave you for someone closer to their age or you will find not much in common with them due to age gap. Statistically speaking, it just doesn’t have a good outlook. You can go 5-10 years younger, but beyond that you’re bound to run into problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:30 AM
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What is the average age in this sub? I think if you take a 22 year old guy and ask him “in 20 years, would you want to date someone half their age” he would say yes of course, but once you get to that age, you may think differently and not want to go that young. If you want a lasting relationship, most marriages and LTRs are age appropriate couples, so the odds are not in your favor if you’re a middle aged guy wanting a committed lasting relationship and only chasing 20 year olds. Also most age …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:31 AM
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It’s just men trying to distract from the awful Epstein stuff, like “look! Women do it too”. Bitch please, men commit sex crimes way more and always will. You’re not fooling anyone. For example, whenever a child below 14 is raped, 9/10 times the perp is a male. Women have never and will never commit rape as often as men. Men really need to get over this and stop trying to cherry pick to prove their point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:19 AM
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This is a shoddy attempt at trying to distract everyone from the ring of male pedos that have sex trafficked thousands of teen girls over the years, don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:52 AM
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I think the same could be said about female students sleeping with male teachers. Teen girls are more mature than teen boys and less likely to brag to all of their friends about the conquest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:38 AM
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And there’s the incel I was talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 07:52 AM
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Some pageant girls and models are not really 10’s, more like 8’s and some 9’s.. they wear a shitload makeup and fake hair and a lot of them don’t even have that great of tits or ass but yeah i see what you’re saying. Pageants and modeling is more about looking good in clothing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:58 AM
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There’s theory that hot women are actually the most insecure, because a hot woman‘s looks is often discussed and complimented a lot, so this can cause her to worry and focus even more on her appearance than if her looks were never brought up at all. I remember reading this in some study or article and I think it’s true in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:49 AM
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True. The Chad is often weaponized against women which isn’t fair. you can tell a guy is an incel type if he uses chad against a woman lol. “Oh he left you or cheated? That means he was out of your league!” Many “Chads” are just serial cheaters and usually has little to do with the girlfriend’s hotness but incels and neck beards always blame the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:31 AM
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Being tall isn’t much of a benefit to women though. For men in order of importance, it’s their height and face, and height and face can be tied in importance, depends. For women it’s face and body as most important. pretty and fit with a decent chest or ass, that’s a Stacy. For a guy it’s tall and handsome face, as long as he’s not obese most women will think that’s a Chad, he doesn’t need a six pack or huge muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:25 AM
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Nah. If you take a 5 and have him work hard and make money more women will want to date and fuck him than if he sits around all day playing video games. Working hard is attractive in men. Also put a 5 in a nice suit vs. a T-shirt and jeans, he will look sexier
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 01:15 AM
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I think you almost answered your own question. The type of guys who are fun and exciting to be around tend to be players. Those guys tend to bounce around from job to job or don’t really hold stable employment but they still get laid a lot because they’re good looking /exciting. The stable guys with jobs and money tend to be kind of boring and not very exciting but women will commit to them because they’re usually more loyal and can provide them a more comfortable lifestyle. Obviously there are …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 02:15 AM
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But men enjoy working and providing for their family. It gives them self esteem and sense of purpose. just modern men are brainwashed by feminism and now raised to think women who want a traditional marriage are “gold diggers”. But men were happier back then with a wife at home that they provided for. Think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 12:42 AM
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Women aren’t as visual as men, a hard worker can be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 08:49 PM
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There used to be a lot less angry incel types when men were taught to work hard and be men. The average porn addicted video gamer guy is both socially isolated and also not attractive to women at all. Men in general need and want sex. Average men used to be more fuckable because they worked hard which is attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 03:17 AM
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Men also need to be taught to not be losers. There are so many shitty men who see beautiful women on social media and think they’re entitled to that then get angry when they can’t have it. Men just aren’t growing up anymore and aren’t taught to see things for what they are. It’s like young men live in this weird alternate reality of porn, media, video games, and then the media tells kids they’re special and unique and deserve happiness without working at it, so of course they’re going to lash ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 10:19 PM
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Eh not really. Most attractive women know they’re attractive, they just don’t broadcast it. Some of them want to change their look but that doesn’t mean they are unhappy with their current smv. There was even a study showing women accurately guess their smv while men overestimate their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 08:12 PM
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The average woman is now overweight so it’s not really surprising, the sub is about self improvement and smv, so of course it’s going to attract women who need to improve their smv. Not sure why this such a controversial thing to say about that sub
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 09:17 PM
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Cope for what? There are tons of fat women there and men who post on alt accounts pretending to be women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 08:32 PM
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Not really. Go look at the self improvement thread. A lot of them are fat women. There’s also been talk that there are men from red pill pretending to be women on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 06:05 PM
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Their kids will still have a screwed up sense of trust. It affects more than just the marriage itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 03:41 PM
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I don’t know about that. A man being unfaithful to his wife can certainly affect the whole family unit if they all find out, which they usually do. I was talking in the sense of leading a family. You can’t be a liar or have a secret life and make a good leader. Those men meet their ruin eventually and it screws up their family unit, then their children can easily grow up to become distrustful people who can’t form healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 02:37 PM
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Most women would rather settle with an unattractive men than get a sperm donor. Unattractive men aren’t as repulsive to women as unattractive women are to men. As long as a beta man has some self awareness and recognizes his weaknesses, he can make a decent husband. The problem comes when beta men have some delusion that they’re amazing at everything then they end up fucking things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 02:32 PM
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Just because men gravitate towards leadership doesn’t mean they’re good at it. They fuck up all the time. A slightly masculine woman could be better at leading than some weak incompetent guy. Men are given leadership positions by other men usually through nepotism. Doesn’t mean they’re good at their position
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 02:24 PM
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Rpw is mostly mentally unstable men pretending to be women or unattractive women who are trying to “improve” so they have better dating options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 02:21 PM
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There are tons of stupid men who lead their families into financial ruin, cheat on their wives, have secret lives. “Women have boobs” well do most women have great boobs? Nope. Much like most men don’t make great leaders. They are either incompetent or lack the proper morals to be great at leading a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 02:11 PM
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There are plenty of incompetent men that don’t make good decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 02:04 PM
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When your husband is a moron
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 02:01 PM
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I feel like it’s a deal breaker for a lot of women I think, but it’s not very common for a man to have a super nasally or high voice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 03:22 PM
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I don’t know, not really. As long as you’re nice to women and can find something to talk about. Your voice matters as well. Guys with nasally voices for example, most women are put off by that. I don’t know there are other factors too. Some women really like dark features on men while others don’t, so maybe they wouldn’t be that into Jonas brother because of that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:33 PM
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Someone like Joe Jonas could easily get casual sex even if he wasn’t famous, as long as he had a charming personality and wasn’t boring as a rock
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:30 PM
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Yes a lot of women like those men, and if they like their personality then it adds to the physical attraction more than just some “hot” model guy who is boring
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:28 PM
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I still don’t know want exactly you’re picturing. But I think most women actually prefer men who look like that. A lot of male models look kind of girly which is a turn off. Unless you’re into very “pretty” and manicured men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:25 PM
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What’s an example of a regular cute good looking guy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:22 PM
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But some tiny man with a weird face won’t be sexually attractive to a woman even if he has money. You need to have at least some sex appeal even if you’re a wealthy man. If you have no sex appeal then you will end up having to be a full on sugar daddy if you want a hot chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:19 PM
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Women like tallish guys with handsome faces and broad shoulders. They don’t care so much about 6 packs and giant steroid muscles. Many women also like veins and some hair on chest, arms face etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:16 PM
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Her husband is legit ugly though?? When women say they like tall guys, they don’t mean tall guys with ugly faces.. they mean tall with nice face. Ugly tall guys aren’t on their radar A short Indian dude is like a 4 at best, so if he gets a 6 then yeah that counts as getting a woman hotter than him. There are guys like that who aren’t famous. Keep in mind this is all relative. I’m not saying short Indian guy will get an 8+, i am just saying he will be able to get hotter than himself..if he’s funn…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:24 PM
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I think you’re still underestimating how much personality can influence a woman’s attraction. A funny guy who looks like Aziz Ansari, a short Indian guy, could get women hotter than him if he wants. You don’t need be tall and white, you just need to have a presence. A goofy looking short white guy can also get women hotter than him by being funny as well. They’re kind of outliers, sure but the average looking funny guy with the hotter girl is still a valid coupling. It’s hard to find an example …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:31 PM
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Woman can become attracted to average looking men if they’re really funny though, you’ve never seen this? they may not be initially attracted but when they get to know him they may become romantically interested cause his personality makes him more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:24 PM
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No I’ve known of a non wealthy average guy who got a hotter girl cause he was really funny. If a guy is talented or has something outstanding about his personality he can get women hotter. Most guys are just normal and not very funny or interesting.. that’s why funny/interesting guys stand out. Women like men who make them feel good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:57 PM
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Average guys can get girls hotter than them to be in a relationship though.. if they have a good personality or have money. they can get frequent sex from women hotter than them by simply committing and giving their time and loyalty. If an average guy has a shitty personality or he’s poor then he’s pretty much useless to anyone other than ugly women, so I can’t really feel bad for him that that’s the only type of woman he can fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:44 PM
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Yeah but you said attractive guys fuck ugly women. Why would they do that when they can easily fuck an average or hot woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:38 PM
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average, yes.. ugly, nah. Most guys would rather just watch porn than hook up with an ugly woman. There are also plenty of average looking guys who get laid if they have decent personalities or they have money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:23 PM
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Yeah but there are a good amount of weird “quirky” type girls online who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:11 PM
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Guys hook up with women who’re in their league all the time. It’s just hook up culture. Good looking guys aren’t all out there only banging fat ugly women. A lot of them can get casual sex from good looking women, they usually lie and lead these women on which is why they come back for more and they convince themselves that the guy likes them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:14 PM
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The women who think beta orbiter attention is positive have never had special attention from a guy they’re actually into and attracted to. Most actual attractive women don’t get their self esteem from ugly/weird men thirsting after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:11 PM
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How is this even relevant to what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:39 PM
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Most women want to be desired and chased by men, they enjoy it, so approaching men goes against this natural desire. A lot of men don’t approach anymore (at least cold approach) because of metoo and dating apps though, so I think this is causing some women to be more inclined to approach a man, also feminism emboldening women to be more sexually aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:53 PM
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Those women may not be supermodels but they’re attractive “for their age”, suggests wealthy men still do care about looks a certain amount
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:49 PM
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I do think men are more visually stimulated in general but they still need a good amount of physical stimulation to get off (unless they have premature ejac) so this suggests they also enjoy physical touch a good amount, even without looking at anything. Also while men are getting massages and have their head downs they often get boners which suggests they’re stimulated by touch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:40 PM
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If you didn’t hook up then how were you used for your body though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 08:17 PM
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Guys who catcall will catcall anyone though lol, I mean big butts are more visible but skinny girls complain of catcalling too. I don’t think eating less will help you not get used, if you don’t want to get used you basically just have to hold out on hooking up for a while until you get to know the person and see if they like you enough. When guys hook up without knowing the girl well, there’s a higher chance he will ghost or not commit cause he doesn’t have much time or emotion invested. In gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 08:09 PM
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I mean most women experience that at some point, I don’t think it’s a body type thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 07:49 PM
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Plenty of men don’t care about faces that much though, they will date them as long as their face isn’t below average or “ugly” to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 07:31 PM
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I mean men don’t like skinny women unless they have beautiful faces though. Men refer to women as butterfaces typically when she is fit and a little curvy with big breasts, and her face is bad. I think you’re overestimating how much men are into skinniness. Men don’t grow up looking at fashion models as the ideal like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:53 PM
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I said close to his age.. My mom had kids in her 30’s tons of women, tons of women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:51 PM
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What is it then? A lot of men who want “virginal” women are pedos in disguise. Obviously most men aren’t going to admit to being a pedo, so it’s just hard to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:50 PM
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I’ve actually seen that Reddit and seen like fit women in it but most didn’t look that thin?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:48 PM
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Any man who cares most about a woman’s “innocence” in bed seriously sounds like a pedo, like why would that be something to turn a man on sexually “oooh you’re so innocent wow” might be something wrong with you if that’s what gets you off most about sex with a woman, for most normal men Im pretty sure they want a pretty woman with nice tits and ass, getting into the sex and listening to her moaning etc also a lot of men love a woman who is a little aggressive in bed and takes charge, they like w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 04:22 AM
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It seems like something men would want but when they actually experience dating a woman much younger they realize it is a pain in the ass, you don’t have much in common and she expects you to spend more money on her than a guy her age would. The type of men who continue those sugar daddy relationships long term are usually pretty sleazy and don’t be fooled.. most of them are sugar daddy relationships, I think a lot of men just lie and pretend it’s a normal relationship cause it’s essentially lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 04:05 AM
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The majority of girls dating older guys do tend to be a sugar daddy relationship though, it’s usually not love it’s very transactional. Most people will have their longest and most loving relationships with people close to their age and most people marry people close to their age as you naturally have more in common which makes it easier to fall in love, there’s studies showing people who are most similar have more fulfilling relationships and someone 20 yrs older probably isn’t going to be very…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:26 AM
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If a 40 yr old man is a decent catch he can just get a hot woman close in age, who takes care of herself and looks younger than her age and they’ll be in a similar place in life. That seems like a much better deal than dating someone who’s too young. The bigger the age gap gets, the more likely that the girl expects him to buy her gifts for her time, like a sugar daddy. the older guy/ young girl relationships don’t seem to last long, of the girls I’ve known who’ve dated an older man they usually…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:15 AM
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What types of pictures are these? I’ve read the most attractive BMI to most men is around 21, or lower end of average but that’s not underweight. It can vary though because some women have better or worse fat distribution, usually a woman who has “curves in the right places” can get away with a bit higher body fat. Also you say men hit on them more at 17 BMI but I wonder is it possible those women just felt more confident when they reached that BMI so they dressed in tighter clothing or showed m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 02:37 AM
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This was my experience well, I was on tinder for a few weeks and found it tiresome and lame.. I didn’t feel validated from it, was more annoying than anything at the amount of guys who don’t try to continue a basic convo and I didn’t have sex with anyone off it. Also lol the girlfriend came home.. there was some study that came out saying 50% (?) of men on the apps are in relationships.. I forgot the exact percent but it was alarming at first to read but ultimately not surprising, and explains w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 12:50 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 10:45 PM
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Very true. Men clearly don’t understand the female psyche if they can’t grasp this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 09:10 PM
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I’ve seen men compare women to models and porn stars so I beg to differ. A lot of them don’t look the same irl too, so it’s all a mess and not really fair to the random woman you’re comparing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 08:47 PM
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Women aren’t as visual as men though, this has been studied multiple times and shown that men care more about looks and sexual value hence why you see fat bald men with a fit woman more Often than the other way around. Women in general are more forgiving of physical faults. Haven’t you seen threads where men complain their partner got Fat? They’re not uncommon. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman complain of it, if he gets fat it can be like “ugh” but not a dealbreaker, whereas for men they str…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 08:45 PM
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A lot of men watch porn a lot more than women use tinder, dude. Even if a guy doesn’t watch much porn, he still usually consumes typical media where you see professional photos of celebs wearing freakin ball gowns with their tits pushed up after spending a few hours in a makeup chair. They don’t look as hot if you just saw them in fluorescent lighting at the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 08:39 PM
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Yea and a lot of porn women look hotter in the porn especially if the porn has decent production value. A lot of porn use wide angle lens to make their boob and ass look bigger and they use body makeup and lighting to blur out their flaws, it’s not like women just show up to the porn set and get going, it’s very much like a movie where you have makeup artists, lighting setup, multiple takes to get the best shot etc even amateur porn is produced and a lot of those pop up ads you see on porn sites…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 08:34 PM
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A lot of women in porn look better than they do irl do to body makeup, angles, lighting, wide angle lens makes tits/ass look bigger.. so it ends up raising your standard for women’s looks, you start to think these women are much hotter and better looking than attractive women you meet irl. It can make you think some random woman you see at the store is only a 6 or 7 when she’s actually more like a 8 etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 08:32 PM
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I actually saw a study saying that porn can affect the mind and give men the erroneous idea that they have a lot of sexual options when they don’t. It also can raise your physical standards because women in porn typically look better than they would irl due to lighting, makeup and angles, so it Makes attractive women irl seem not so good looking, the same can be said of men who look at professional photos of celebrities and models often, these people don’t look like that 24/7 and the image is us…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 08:22 PM
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A lot of men don’t do it right and end just being mean and pushing women away
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 08:17 PM
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They usually get the hint pretty fast when most “hot” men ignore them or won’t commit.. women can read social cues much easier than men. I think there are actually a lot more men doing what you say... average dudes going after hot chicks and they don’t just “take the hint” that the girl can do better and think “if I just keep trying she’ll see I’m a good guy” when in reality if a guy is like a 5 going after an 8, the girl isn’t going to want him unless he’s high status and “different” from other…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 08:06 PM
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I know there are women who think they deserve those men but I don’t think it’s as common as you think. Most women will find hot guys attractive, it doesn’t mean she thinks she deserves him simply for swiping on the guy on tinder. You act like women are stupid, most women know those guys are out of their league.. I really don’t know many women who are as delusional as you think. Maybe when they’re young, like 18-20 but they usually figure it out pretty fast those guys aren’t for them when they ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 07:57 PM
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Life isn’t fair. More at 10!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 07:49 PM
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But they know other girls get the same amount and that they’re not special and most of the matches won’t commit and will barely speak two words to them. I still don’t get why you think it’s so validating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:58 PM
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10% is a very small amount, that means most people aren’t so idk what you’re even on about at this point. And using tinder doesn’t mean women are looking for casual sex, many women use it as a way just to get out and meet people and get dates, A date doesn’t mean you had sex and I know people who’ve met their partner on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:49 PM
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I saw in your other comment that you’re not from America, that might be partly why. Tinder and dating apps in America is really common, most people have been on them at some point, doesn’t mean you’re socially retarded necessarily or that something is wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:45 PM
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The majority of men have to compensate, that’s just reality.. if you’re so uncomfortable with the fact that you gotta try in a relationship, then idk what to tell you. There will always be a select group of people that things are just always easier for like the upper whatever Chad guys.. comparing yourself to them will only make you miserable, they have it easier in all aspects of life not just relationships, highly attractive, social people in general have easier lives, not just dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:43 PM
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Alright I didn’t know you had an ltr lol chill out.. May I ask where did you meet your gf then? How do you know she never used tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:39 PM
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I think many girls prefer relationships with guys they’re not as attracted to, most women want commitment.. the caveat is that guy needs to treat them well and put effort in for the girl to want to stay with him. A lot of guys are selfish nowadays and don’t want to put work to a relationship. Someone else sorta mentioned this, dudes are in relationships playing video games watching porn and thinking mostly of themselves, you can’t do that shit all the time when you’re in a relationship you need …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:31 PM
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You think your future gf is having some kind of long term FWB with chad? lmao don’t flatter yourself. He has his gf for that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:17 PM
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Ok so then he goes and bangs some girls, then what, he doesn’t commit to any of them. So how is that some kind of prize for these girls? Most women want commitment so it’s not like they’re getting what they want. They’re not winning. If anything they’re just getting their feelings hurt and self esteem weakened when the dude ghosts them. So why are you butthurt over it, acting like these girls get something valuable? And anyway, a lot of girls don’t even get to the banging stage, they talk to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:00 PM
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Ok let’s just say maybe this is true, so what? most women want commitment. The attention you’re talking about is temporary and sexual, It’s not like they are getting high quality men wanting to buy them gifts or saying they want to buy them a home and marry them. Most women want a good man to commit to them, so a bunch of men saying sexual things is just like annoying noise, much like a mosquito buzzing in your ear. The only women genuinely flattered by that are extremely stupid and most women r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 05:52 PM
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Why do we need to quantify it? The point is they don’t get that much attention, period. It’s just delusional to think the average woman is getting constant male attention every day. It doesn’t align with reality at all. Some women also lie about how much male attention they get.. it’s pretty obvious. Idk why guys can’t see through it, some girl who is like a 6 at best is like “omg I have guys FALLING over me when i leave the house” and guys believe it?? Give me a break, y’all need to get a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 05:47 PM
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I still think you’re overestimating how much attention the average girl gets. I think you are talking about above average women. Also what about girls who live in rural areas or suburbs? There’s a lot less attention then.. unless she’s a cam whore or has a huge online following, the average girl outside of cities will not get much attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 05:44 PM
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Most guys with “game changing looks” get tons of matches, then the majority of their matches get a “hi” then he bounces.. it’s not like the guy is heavily flirting and complimenting all of his matches and making these girls think he’s going to commit to them.. you have a really skewed view of what actually happens on these apps. A guy like that won’t be just sitting on tinder spending hours gassing up every one of his tinder matches
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 05:36 PM
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1000 a day? For an average woman? You people are truly delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 05:31 PM
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“I’m insecure and weaselly and women don’t like it but I don’t want to work to improve myself so I’m going to blame my dating struggles on women getting too attention from other men” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 05:08 PM
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“Some of you might call it insecurity” LOL yes because it is just that. Have you considered the problem is your confidence levels, and not a digital app? I mean you’re obviously insecure, so logic tells me that women pick up on that and they DONT like it.. just a thought. You said if a woman is a 7+, well guess what Attractive women have and always will get attention from random men whether or not tinder exists, so it’s a really a silly thing to even take into consideration. My guess is these wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 05:05 PM
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It’s weird because he’s being disingenuous. He would date these girls if he could. This post is just a way for him to grapple with the fact that he will never be with the girls he’s most attracted to, lol. Pretty pathetic, but whatever. Ive seen this shit irl too, it is really transparent that these guys are just upset they can’t be with these women so they make up some bullshit reason of why they’re “ruined” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 04:57 PM
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Pretty low chance that an 8+ girl would even consider this guy as a potential option anyway lol. Guys always do this, they call girls out of their league “attention whores” and “sluts” mostly to make themselves feel better that these girls don’t want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 04:51 PM
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I read that most lesbians apparently have higher testosterone than straight women. So I think many of them do have some experience with masculinity themselves, simply by having higher amounts of male hormones and thus not relating to typical femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 02:17 AM
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I have a story about this. So this guy said this exact phrase to me before I met up with him for a date. I go on the date with him and he tweeted something mean about me while on the date, unbeknownst to me. I saw it after and got upset and he said “this is why I don’t have a girlfriend, girls are crazy”. Like no, don’t get it twisted, you don’t have a girlfriend cause you are the type of person that thinks it’s acceptable to say mean things behind people’s backs while you’re with them. Who want…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 01:33 AM
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I’m female and never even had acne even when I was young. I always thought acne is a lot more common with men cause they have thicker skin which tends to be oilier. Also women are generally less hairy than men so I’m not sure how being hairy is a sign of fertility either. I suppose public hair to indicate fertility? Some men do like some pubic hair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:56 AM
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None of the mra’s in the doc were above a 5. Very troubling. At least get some good looking men so they look less pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 10:43 PM
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Ok.. no, it is not simple. The willpower to do that isn’t simple, that’s why fat people are a thing. motivating themselves to work out 5 days a week and eat healthy when they are tired, have work, kids, responsibilities, depression, possible health issue.. not that Simple. A lot of people pay for fitness class or personal trainers for this very reason, caus they cannot motivate themselves. Again if it was simple for the fat people they wouldn’t be fat. Speaking of porn addiction, food addiction …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 10:27 PM
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This is actually a little disturbing that you think anyone who isn’t THIS thin is fat. Probably why you’re incel nsfw You definitely have a thing for abnormally thin women, if so. Even many women who work out and diet aren’t that thin. Or maybe you just need to stop looking at women’s fashion magazines, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 08:21 PM
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Meh. He has swagger, humor, a masculine energy, deep voice, and height.. combined all those things and that counts more than just a perfectly attractive male face.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 07:12 PM
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This is not a woman with “good” curves https://i.pinimg.com/originals/c6/b3/e6/c6b3e6646e2f7ea839e0d2423c981ed5.jpg This is https://k61.kn3.net/taringa/6/9/2/1/6/4/papyto28/79E.jpg It’s clear that the bigger hip/ass will have more appeal to actual straight men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:50 PM
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Facially yes. Body.. no not really. That wouldn’t be most guys ideal, it would be a curvier woman.. bigger tits and ass. I knew a girl with her exact body type and guys didn’t even think she was hot. She was also kinda awkward and gangly like most tall women are, being that tall as a woman is abnormal therefore has cons like gawkiness. No way she could be a stripper or dancer.. which are professions which require sexuality and femininity to pull off. Most straight men will readily tell you they …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:37 PM
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Nurse is steady work, but it costs you in other ways. If you work in a hospital, it’s long hours with not much reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:13 PM
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I looked up the first one to see who she was and saw a nsfw thing with fake tits and thought it was her.. nvm. I’m not sure why a straight man would like her that much since she looks similar to a lot of shemales bodies. I can see the appeal of the other 3 though, for straight men.. since they’re all shorter and have more feminine looking lower bodies. But srsly that first girl is literally what so many skinny tall trannies and drag queens look like.. yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:01 PM
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You’re literally proving what I just said. Classic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:31 PM
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Most people who are bored aren’t going to admit it cause it makes them look bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:57 PM
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Whatever. I’m sure you won’t believe it but I have close to his caliber in looks in my relationship. The more unattractive you are, the more likely you will dislike your sad reality and resort to porn. you’ll never have a hot person commit to you and give you continual real sex. Not my prob
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:36 PM
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You aren’t too bright. Get better reading comprehension. Just realized the reason you think the way you do is because you probably have different experiences from growing up in the projects or something
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:32 PM
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Ok. Also be aware that Ryan gosling has qualities you’ll never have. Even if you had his Chad looks, he will have more money, fame and charisma than you. But I’m a realistic person and I’m not going to waste my time “jerking off” to him all day, and the life I could have with him, when I could be having real sex with someone who I like, who is attractive but isn’t quite as wealthy or famous. It’s called being realistic and not living in some fantasy world just because you’re too pussy to deal wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:25 PM
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Maybe you should, I don’t know, research reasons why women suffer from lower libido after having children. Hormones, post partum, post-baby body insecurity.. loose skin.. some places to start. It isn’t all about you.. shocking, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:07 PM
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I don’t get bored with people easily sexually, so I have no need for porn. I also don’t want to brainwash myself into preferring some pumped up version of a man, it isn’t realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:59 PM
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Ok but that is irrelevant to the convo you’re replying to. They said they were using it during foreplay to get in the mood, like for sex. Using porn to just laugh at is completely different thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:42 PM
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Im not talking about random people having sex. I’m talking about in a committed relationship or marriage if the guy prefers a big butt, what if she doesn’t have one. Then he will be more likely to seek it out online
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:35 PM
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So you’re basically getting wet/boners for other people. Sounds like a huge turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:31 PM
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Ya ok. Clearly many people find it hard, or else there wouldn’t be so many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:26 PM
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Task? Which task? Changing her look or lingerie? I think it helps women feel better and more sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 12:21 PM
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Or he could stop being lazy, saddle up and think about some other bullshit during sex. Don’t we all do that sometimes anyway. Id rather that than have a porn addict for a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 12:17 PM
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But if he has to just lay there during sex, wouldn’t masturbating be more work than that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 12:13 PM
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Eh. I would rather work on my own attractiveness, like change my look, or put some lingerie or something. If I’m going to have sex, I want to have sex, I don’t want to watch other people doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 12:05 PM
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Hmm. Maybe it’s your fault for training yourself into only being highly attracted to girls with fake tits
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 11:57 AM
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“You mean I have to worry about another human being’s happiness and comfort? Nah” I hope you were able to find better than that, so lame
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 11:45 AM
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Maybe it’s because he puts in effort to deserve that type of partner, not because he is just lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 11:40 AM
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Or you’re just bored with each other and need to look at other people to get turned on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 11:37 AM
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He is just making excuses bc he prefers porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 11:35 AM
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What? There is so much wrong with the first sentence, I don’t even know where to start. Sounds like total bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 11:19 AM
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It is a big deal because it doesn’t work most of the time. If it was just simple for fat people to lose weight then no one would be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 11:15 AM
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No one actually watches porn to get ideas to try with their partner. If someone told you that, they are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 11:10 AM
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True, though I don’t think he had arranged to pay her..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:09 AM
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Still loads better than trying to date as an ugly poor dude, female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 08:37 PM
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Ok, so what if the majority of n count happened when she was younger and not even an adult yet? People change in their 20’s you’re not the same person at 14 as you are at 24. Judging someone on things they did as an undeveloped human is pointless. Unless you’re talking about someone’s n count that is extremely evenly spaced from her teens and consistent throughout her whole life, it doesn’t say that much about her as a person besides that she liked sex or wanted to please guys when she was young…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 08:28 PM
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Wtf does constant mean? It is a relative word. Stop being so vague and provide more details
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 08:25 PM
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Ok.. Plenty of people labeled sluts have sex with people they know, not strangers. People on this sub act like any sex outside a relationship is slutty when nearly every girl with a normal social life does it. It’s like this black and white thing “she wasn’t dating him.. must have been a ONS” . Um no, it wasn’t necessarily with a stranger just because she wasn’t dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 08:02 PM
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Sorry to break it to you bud but every girl needs validation. It is not a red flag it’s literally what women crave. Attention is more important to most women than orgasms. You’re not very perceptive if you think only sluts need validation and attention. It’s literally a universal women thing some straight women just pretend to be “feminists” who don’t need men’s attention but they secretly want and crave it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:54 PM
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Uh.. what. A lot of guys are insecure about their penis. You must be joking. I knew a guy whose gf told him he had a small dick and he was really mad about it. Another guy who had a big dick but he was insecure cause he saw bigger ones in porn. Not making this up. plenty guys are insecure with their bodies that they’re not muscular or big enough and concerned with being better at sex than the last guy. It’s a competitive thing. If she has no one else to compare him to, or only like 1 guy who is …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:45 PM
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Unless someone has std’s and cheats on all their partners, who cares. Doesn’t matter. It is a dumb thing to place as a priority. Of course a lot of people in this sub are completely removed from reality so this is pointless to argue about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:40 PM
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I don’t know many attractive men who care about looking “different”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:28 PM
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There’s a definitely a correlation between undesirable men and obsession over a woman’s n count. For instance, a lot of men on here obsess over a woman’s n count, and they’re mostly incels or insecure weirdos with lack of experience. This is why I stopped coming to this sub for months. It’s like a cluster of people who are out of touch with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:22 PM
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I suggest going back in time and not putting giant holes in your ears
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:19 PM
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You have spiral earrings. Looks like you’re a beggar not a chooser
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:04 PM
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Ok, question is.. are you deserving of that new home? Are you 8 or above, wealthy, and charming? Doubt it. Not to mention hardly any ATTRACTIVE women stay virgins past like 18. This is just a recipe for disappointment for you. You’re not going to find a gorgeous young virgin who is mentally sane who will commit to you All you virgin men, always with the completely unrealistic and delusional expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 06:57 PM
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Most of the people that have below average IQ’s are actually men. Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 06:53 PM
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Uh. People are obviously going to think a party girl who wears short skirts, tank tops showing cleavage is sluttier and higher n than a girl who covers up her chest and has no crazy party pics. It’s about the way you portray yourself more than the number itself. The girl who covers her chest and has no party pics could easily lie and no one would question it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 06:45 PM
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Lol.. Do they have an open marriage? They’ve been married for over 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 06:14 PM
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Unless a girl has hundreds of pics online with her hanging all over every guy, or dresses slutty, no one is going to be able to figure out her real n count. She can easily lie and many girls do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 06:08 PM
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The problem is people with relationship experience are generally going to be turned off by someone who has literally none. If you’re a busy person of value, who actually has responsibilities and a life, you are not going to want to baby someone and coach them how to be intimate and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 05:57 PM
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Ya, but I thought we were talking about the other way around? Women who pull dread game on a man.. They’re basically saying “look, I can get this guy, he has something you don’t have, so you better improve”. I think it is basically a tactic used to get the guy to improve, when all else failed. It’s almost like another form of nagging when women do dread game. When guys do it to women, I don’t know if it’s about lack of respect towards the woman. I think it’s actually used to gain respect from he…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 05:47 PM
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Hmm.. but how do we know the wife’s n-count? A lot of women lie about it.. there’s a common idea that women lower their number or even cut it in half, which I think many women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 05:39 PM
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I do paint them with the same brush. I can’t imagine any truly confident, secure man caring about some bullshit that happened before him. It’s really neurotic and weird to me. If a guy is truly high value, he will know his worth and know that he can top whatever she had in the past. It’s insecure whiny men who get hung up on stuff that happened beyond their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 05:27 PM
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I still fail to see how it’s just a woman thing though. all people have an attachment to whoever they saw as the highest value from their past. Even incels have one and they haven’t even fucked the person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 05:11 PM
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That’s true, but I’m talking about the way people on this sub seem to define a slut. They seem to think 10 is slut, but the true undatable, bad reputation slut is more like 50-100. Those women usually have some type of mentally issue and cheat on every guy they’re with.. this is why most men avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 05:01 PM
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The thing with the restraint idea is that showing restraint can translate as showing opposition, so basically the opposite of submissive and feminine. If a woman is being hit on by an attractive man and she says “NO, not today buddy” she’s showing that she is a dominant, aggressive woman. I’m pretty sure a feminine women would actually be more likely to submit to an attractive man, not show restraint and opposition. So by wanting a woman who has restraint, you’re basically saying you want a domi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 04:44 PM
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I think they do dread game mostly when they don’t respect the man they’re with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 04:31 PM
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He is unattractive, small stature, and sounds like a child. Who in their right mind would willingly have casual sex with him? shudders he is a man who got famous for sounding like a child and talking on a stage!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 04:08 PM
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Eh. I think almost every person has someone from their past that they still think about. It is not just a woman thing, men have the exact same issue of still thinking of women from the past. Even incels do this, they will be attached to the idea of some girl they had a crush on from years ago, think Elliot Rodger
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:59 PM
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Most girls who had 10 will just lie and say 5, women aren’t exactly known to be brutally honest about their sexual past. I don’t get why guys bother worrying about this, I don’t see a point. To me, it does read as kind of unmanly or immature to care that much about a relatively lowish number, like some guys do on here. I think it’s a sign that a man can’t handle any competition from her past or something. I understand they might care because they’re worried about being cheated on, but most women…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:42 PM
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I’ve only had one guy who asked me about it, and he was honestly a very unconfident man. He also claimed I was the most attractive girl he dated, with means I was probably out of his league. I only dated him a month. I am seriously convinced that guys who ask this are very insecure and neurotic types.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:34 PM
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Eh. 100 is a lot. I think I’ve only known like one girl who did that, and she had severe BPD and slept with nearly 20 guys in a short time period, while dating someone. But I mean, she was seriously mentally ill. She was also a cutter and into drugs. I’ve just seen it commonly said, on here.. that 10 is too much. But I think a lot people on here are extremely sheltered or socially weird and never had normal social lives, so they think 10 is some highly provocative number. If 10 is a slut then mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:20 PM
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Women have reactive libido. If a man is masculine looking and shows interest, she will respond just fine. If he’s homely looking and unconfident, suddenly she has no libido for him- Shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:13 PM
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Where does this idea come from that high SMV men won’t see them as marriage material? Because I know plenty good looking girls from my hometown who were “sluts” who are now married to pretty attractive (and well-off) men. I honestly do not think a lot of high SMV men even ask the n count thing, unless they’re deeply religious or something. I think asking about n count tends to come from insecure and neurotic types of men, who are concerned that their current partner has had ‘better’ than them- t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 02:43 PM
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It actually doesn’t. High smv, or high quality men don’t ask because they’re too busy working, making money, and having fun to care about someone’s past. Neurotic men who care about some guys that a girl slept with a few years ago is a turn off.. It screams “insecure”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 02:25 PM
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An attractive virgin in her late 20’s or 30’s is rare. Was she locked up in a cafe for her whole 20’s? Did she live in isolation? The only women I’ve known that were virgins until late 20s or 30 were pretty overweight and shy shrugs. I have also heard of child sexual abuse victims becoming afraid of sex, though I’m not sure how common that is. I’m pretty sure any attractive woman in her 30’s who leads a normal life will have a good amount of partners unless she marries at 18 or has a few LTR’s (…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 02:12 PM
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She's not a terrible person, but you've called her a shrew and a nag? Doesn't compute. Sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 04:35 PM
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Or she could just try harder to find friends that don't act like this woman.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 04:27 PM
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In other posts, people comment pointing out of the op is being mean or negative. That's all I'm doing.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 04:26 PM
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If my friend wrote a post like this about me, I would certainly think she hates me. You come off very hateful and negative here.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 08:55 AM
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Uh. Is it really that hard to find women who aren't in a toxic relationship? Because that's what op's friend's issue is.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 08:53 AM
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It also begs the question of why you are friends with a woman who you clearly cannot stand. Why are you friends with this woman if you clearly hate her? Keeping around a friend you hate is not exactly mature and doesn't promote happiness or growth. You are "hamstering" into thinking that keeping her as a friend is somehow a good thing.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 12:15 AM
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laws dissuade men from being physical with women, so the "smart" abusive men have responded by becoming more emotionally abusive towards women since they can't be jailed for emotional abuse - now more than ever. (Not that women arent emotionally abusive).
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 12:08 AM
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So, he stashes things away, then gets mad at you when he can't find these things? I see no logic there. I think this is a time where you may have to put your foot down and just be blunt. He sounds immature. No, you're not overly sensitive. He needs to learn to find his things on his own.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/17 08:46 PM
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Some guys are shy and rarely/never approach unless they have absolute proof they won't get rejected. If you truly are more attractive than him, then he is probably afraid of this rejection. You will have to give him obvious signs you're into him, or take matters into your own hands.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/17 08:36 PM
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I'm curious, what exactly were you saying or doing for him to assess you like this ? I'm curious if this guy was just having a bad day and wanted to be rude, or if he really did see something negative about you. If he was just being rude for no reason, then you can take this as a learning experience of not taking random acquaintance's criticisms to heart.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/17 10:55 AM
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Maybe read your original post again and tell me where exactly I pulled anything out of nowhere and how exactly I'm wrong. Thanks. Simply stating "that's not what I had in mind" isn't a proper response to my comment. Your original post is borderline offensive and if you can't see why then maybe you are too far gone.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/17 10:41 AM
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He's saying men command respect from women by doing noble things, while they put up with all kinds of shit from women, AND while still unconditionally loving women. basically it's a humble brag for men, of sorts. I don't think it belongs here, but oh well.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 12:42 PM
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Pregnancy does change your body a lot, often permanently. Some people think you have the baby, then you just diet and work out and you are back to your normal pre-pregnancy body. Not so. It changes your body permanently. Some changes are very common, like loose skin on stomach, stretch marks, vaginal looseness etc but others are a bit more rare, like nerve damage and genital issues. Loose skin is so common that many wealthy women get tummy tucks (plastic surgery procedure) after pregnancy. Some …
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 08:39 PM
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I think you need to ask yourself why you think it would be a good idea to not tell him. Do you not trust him? Are you afraid of his reaction? Are you unsure of the relationship? You should be able to talk to him about this. He is 28, not 18.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 08:32 PM
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I actually think she looks better without the red lip and 50's style. nsfw ish in a bra..cause she rarely ever goes without red lip. She has beautiful eyes and I feel like the red lip and heavy cat eye distracts from that!
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/17 08:18 PM
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Has she read about the downsides of egg donation? Does she just not care ? This is weird to me.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 02:42 AM
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I am a feeler and a healer, forgot what letters they are
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/17 12:12 AM
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It's really popular among younger people.. You can change your face, I don't know How else to describe it lol
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 03:05 AM
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Apparently a lot of people edit their selfies with airbrushing apps and Facetune. I would know cause I've used an airbrushing app, lol, haven't used Facetune though. This photo editing business really messes with real life expectations.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 01:37 PM
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If you're going to bother having a flair then just keep it updated so you don't have to constantly write "flair is wrong " any time you reference your age or relationship LMAO. judgment may be a little off..
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 06:54 AM
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So it wasn't until you were 19 that you figured dating out? Lol. Sorry but something isn't adding up here.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 05:55 AM
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Attractive men don't date women they're not attracted to because they don't need to.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 05:51 AM
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My god.. Sure they settle, but not to the extent of dating an OBESE woman for an entire year. settling would be more like average cute girl next door type who isn't overweight. He obviously didn't date models if he committed to an obese woman for a year .. I don't know why you think he's being honest when saying that. Maybe you are a bit slow here
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 05:41 AM
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The problem with point 2 is that some men specifically aim for women 5 or more years younger because these women are not yet established, more naive, and more likely to not want or be ready for commitment. Because of all these things, older men figure out that they're much easier to plate. Younger women are also usually in college or schooling, go out with groups of friends, and generally exposed to a ton of different men who are interested in them. So an older man will be competing with all of …
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 01:36 AM
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Idk what I would be projecting about. lol I think you're making things up. I don't know any men who are good looking enough to date thin models with boobs who would waste a year on an obese woman. It simply makes no sense. The fact that that makes sense to you is troubling.. You also blatantly lied about the length of your ltr in this same thread, so not sure I should listen to anything you say.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/17 10:46 PM
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That's nice that it works for you but I really think u/thelaughingRhino is mostly correct. I think a good lot of women prefer to have a man concentrated on her and making her feel special and to keep the discussion of other women to a minimum, unless it's talking about them in a friendly/platonic way. Some women will distance themselves from a man or pick fights if they feel like he cares too much about other women. But every couple is different, if that works for you and her and you're both hap…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 10:15 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6r0p54/keep_her_in_dread_without_even_trying/?st=J5VOSUF3&sh=72d72b75 Op pls read this thread ^ It's pretty obvious that he is employing dread. It's a manipulation. This isn't sustainable behavior for a healthy LTR. In fact, dread is supposed to be used mainly for plates aka short term or casual flings. This is worrying behavior for a man that is looking to be committed long term.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 10:03 PM
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This man dated an obese woman for a year. There is a good chance he is lying and never dated model tier women with big boobs. I don't know how people are missing this simple fact that he's most likely lying or exaggerating to make her feel insecure. Im not saying he doesn't find her attractive, I am saying that lying and exaggerating about the women he attracted in the past is not ok.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 09:57 PM
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Yes, knowing a lot of details can make people feel insecure. And Lol! This just happened in another thread on here, the op's boyfriend apparently has dated models with big boobs , and the op was short with small boobs. This same guy also dated an obese woman for a year. it's highly doubtful that a man who dated an obese woman for a year also has dated a bunch of tall thin models with big breasts. That's why I mentioned to you in a previous comment about exes, that who knows if you're getting the…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 06:27 AM
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I understand what you mean. Even if an ex was crazy, he shouldn't feel the need to insult them or talk down on them. He should be able to mature and acknowledge that sometimes people act up and it is what is. I've also found that men who complain about crazy exes, more often than not, may have done something to spur the crazy, but are not self aware or mature enough to admit it. Men who complain about crazy women in general seem to have sticks up their you know what. Come to think of it, I have …
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 06:08 AM
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so you're thinking of just asking what his previous relationships were like? Well that's fine, I guess, if you want to go down that rabbit hole. Im nearly a decade older than you and I've learned that exes just don't matter that much, unless they have a child together or something permanent. It is also very easy to lie about exes, because generally they're not really present in their life, so who knows if you're even getting the truth. Honestly, I think a better thing would be to ask about his r…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 05:07 AM
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I have a different approach about the exes. I think not talking about exes or rarely mentioning them is usually a good sign that he's a mature person / is able to live in the present and commit to you. Men who go into detail about exes are usually depressed, not over their exes, not mature enough for relationship, or all the above. Some even bring them up as a power play to threaten/intimidate their current gf (ie. My ex was a model ya dad yada yad ) don't buy into it and just next him, men who …
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 04:54 AM
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Well I kinda have my own opinion on charisma that you may not agree with then lol. I think some people just kind of have it or they don't. I don't think it's something that can always be developed. And some people just click better relationship-wise, so that's another thing. I mean I've known pretty girls who had charisma and it wasn't just pure looks, they're just fun to be around . I think it's definitely easy for men to distinguish between a boring pretty girl and a fun one. More often than n…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 04:30 AM
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I think it can be mainly charisma tbh. There is a certain quality that some women have that just makes a man feel alive and excited to be around her. And it can sometimes be hard for a man to put into words exactly why he likes this type of woman. "Makes me feel alive" sounds corny but I think that's what it boils down to. Some men don't really have this need though, and only crave comfort and stability in a woman. Depends.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 04:14 AM
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There is no point being with someone you feel constantly inadequate with. Even if you lose weight, if you're short with small boobs, you'll still feel inadequate knowing he prefers the opposite of you. Don't waste your time.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 08:05 PM
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He sounds like a wannabe alpha. I'm really sick of seeing these types of posts here, insecure guy telling his girlfriend he's been with supermodels just to make her feel inadequate, and she just blindly believes him. Yeah sure you've been with supermodels, guy. and I dated Brad Pitt for a year /s the delusion is strong. Ive noticed guys will go out and take photos with very attractive women just to look higher value, some even lie and claim they've "dated" these women. If you've ever been on OLD…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 07:49 PM
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I think Rmv can be a little subjective. there are some people who you click with more than others, and those people will naturally think your Rmv is higher than people who you don't click with and just don't "get" you. I talked to this guy online for a bit and he told me I was funny and a catch. But there are other men who don't really value humor in a woman and would think I'm weird or annoying, and they place higher importance on other qualities that I might not be great at. I think this is wh…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 07:30 PM
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I don't know if bp = more advantages for women. Rp emphasizes vetting a man to make sure you can be in a relationship with him without having to whine and nag. Not having to whine and nag at a man to pull his weight is every woman's dream. You look for a gentleman, a smart, deep man who sees past exteriors and doesn't get so hung up on youth and beauty. All men appreciate beauty, sure, but some men are downright sleazy about it. So many women think "he's just being a guy" when their partner rave…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 10:44 PM
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Meh. There is a "wall" for men too, this wall happens when younger women start to approach older men in hopes of getting a sugar daddy. At this point in time, your guy is still relatively young and so women are probably approaching him based on pure sexual attraction, but by the time he's 50, it's more than likely he wont look so hot and young anymore and young women won't be interested in him purely for his looks. I don't know any younger women that try to have sex with older men simply for the…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 10:29 PM
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Oh that's good. I thought in your op you were advising women just should not lift weights at all lol. I agree with you then that women should stick to lower body if they want to look feminine. As for the women you were complaining about, I think you have to also take into account that they may be naturally masculine leaning. Some may even be gay.. I've noticed a lot of gay women are into beefing up their upper bodies. So telling them that their workouts are repelling men might be kind of rude si…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 04:38 PM
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You have to take into account that a lot of women who go overboard and do too much UPPER body lifting were never very feminine or pretty to begin with. Their angry reaction "I don't care what men think" is to (partly) protect their own ego because they never got noticed by men so why would they care what men thought of their new body ? I saw a thread there once where women posted selfies and well.. yeah. Not many of them were lookers and I don't mean their bodies. Anyway, you seem to have precon…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 03:03 PM
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Any woman that's single past 22 and has a job is a die-hard feminist /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 01:21 AM
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people would be nicer to average men if they smiled more and actually looked friendly. A lot of women just smile automatically regardless if they're happy or not.. Men should try it out, maybe they would be treated differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 01:19 AM
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A lot of women are good at faking smiles and laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 01:15 AM
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Marilyn Monroe and Anna Nicole smith also had this fun and flirt quality about them! They both died of drug overdoses. Hmm. Makes ya think..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 01:14 AM
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gay men probably have more fun than straight women overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 01:13 AM
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Uh.. ok. That doesn't address my main point- that many fat women in their 30's are miserable, regardless if they're married or not. Aging already sucks, but you throw in poor diet and lack of exercise, combined with the pressure of having a family and a fat husband inches away from a heart attack, it just sucks even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 12:41 AM
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Conversely, many fat married women in their 30's are miserable too. Why? They're mostly married to fat men who they're not even attracted to, which tends to cause poor sex life and intimacy, which leads to a dissatisfying marriage. Generally being fat causes misery for both genders, it has serious psychological and physical effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 12:33 AM
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I agree, it is inappropriate. In fact some people might even go as far to say it's emotional abuse. That might be dramatic, but when you think about, it's pretty messed up to tell your partner to stop doing something that makes them look and feel better. Maybe you can tell him something like that it helps a woman's self esteem and enhances her beauty and that it's not only for attention. Yes some women do this for attention but that's more like dramatic makeup like giant eyelashes and such. Wear…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/17 05:27 PM
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I went to a big college.. a lot of the girls who got hit on the most were the hotter ones. Therefore the hotter ones had way more opportunities to rack up the N. the ones that aren't attractive can rack up their N, by they usually have to hit on the men themselves. And not all unattractive women have the balls to do that. I let my SO look at my phone, because I'm not a cheater. It is really that simple. This "privacy" thing is a cop out. every cheater always whines about how their privacy was in…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 09:01 PM
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It is much easier for attractive men to just go on tinder or meet girls when they're drunk, rather than do a sober cold approach, which could be awkward. If you notice a guy looking at you, try giving really obvious signals that you're interested.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 08:54 PM
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Let's cut the b.s. Most women aren't chaste in these modern times. like 90% of hot millennials ride the carousel in some way. It's just that some ride it a lot harder than others- those are the real sluts that a guy has to look out for. the type of woman who will screw her boyfriend's roommate while he's not home. And that type of girl will usually be pretty apparent without even asking her N. And I disagree. cheating is a lot harder to lie about than n count. You can literally just pick up some…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 08:19 PM
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Why would he be making good money in a year or two ? he sounds like an ineffectual loser. He is so insecure that he calls his own girlfriend an "attention whore" for wearing makeup. "You're going to regret this break up, I may be working at Home Depot at 25 right now, but trust me next year you bet I'll be jacked and successful and rich as F" -every lame guy trying to guilt his hot gf into staying with him , lol.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 07:45 PM
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"Being accused of abuse by his insane ex". although his ex may very well be insane, how do you know he wasn't abusive to her? How do you so quickly write that off as a lie? Alcoholics aren't known for being soft, gentle creatures. And they're not known for their honesty, either. Many drunks abuse people, and then they give the convenient excuse "I was drunk". And also his desire for an "open" relationship? I am getting a very bad feeling about this. Maybe you are just young and inexperienced wit…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 07:38 PM
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Sounds like he doesn't like your makeup because you're a lot hotter than him when you wear it, and it makes him uncomfortable. Do you really want to be like an unpolished slob the rest of your life, just to make him feel comfortable? I think you need to find someone who is more confident in himself so he doesn't neg you any time you put some makeup on. Also, be careful about who you talk to about being abused. It can attract abusive type of men who will take advantage of your past. I think you s…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 10:11 AM
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I don't see anything automatically wrong with her outfit. That type of "street style" has been in fashion for a while. Would I wear it on a date, maybe not. But if he took her to a more casual type of restaurant, then I don't think he should be complaining about her dressing casual. The lack of thanks at the end of the date is not good. But I have a feeling he may have given off "annoyed" vibes about her outfit the whole time.. sometimes when people pick up on vibes like that, they get in a bad …
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 09:55 AM
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I think you're watching too many sit coms or something. You can approach young women as long as you're young and attractive. Women literally only bitch about ugly men approaching them. This whole feminist "attractive men can be creepy" is mainly false. You shouldn't go up to a girl and be overtly sexual and expect her to not be creeped out though. Giving her a normal compliment is fine and you're not going to get in trouble or arrested, honestly that's silly to even assume.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 06:22 PM
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Oh, I can agree with that. seems like more men are unwilling to commit or put in effort. I suppose it is part of access to technology, single men can flirt with women online and have online relationships and feel emotionally satisfied this way so theres less of a need to actually go out and meet women, or watch realistic porn and fool themselves into thinking they have had real contact with women lol. I mean women do this too so I'm not trying to say men are the only issue. But to be fair, men a…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 10:33 PM
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No offense but what does this have to do with what op said ? She never said she behaves in a manner which is known to drive men away.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 10:08 PM
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Maybe I should have been more specific in wording.. I meant when there are attractive women (you know, like nice faces and fit, who put effort into their looks, like a 7 or 8) who date below their league, due to pressures like "don't be so superficial, date insert name he really likes you!! ya he's overweight and lazy but he's a good guy!" A lot of these types of relationships are frankly pointless and just a waste of time for the more attractive one bc she can do better, but she is being told b…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 05:16 PM
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Agree with 95% of this, good comment! but.. that last sentence- I think most men who worry about "hypergamous women" are men who are trying to date women out of their league. A simple fix to that worry, is to date a woman who respects you and cannot do better than you. Then she will feel calm and content, and won't be tempted to "upgrade". A man might think he is getting a great deal by dating a woman who is better looking/more talented/wealthier than him, but this is exactly the type of situati…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 04:22 PM
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I agree. I dont think people realize how the obesity epidemic affects fertility. Extra weight can certainly wreck havoc on your hormones. A 30-some woman who is well overweight may have trouble conceiving and may attribute it to her age, when really, it is because she is inactive and unhealthy. It is not just diet, but also that obesity creates health issues that can affect fertility. Also, the opposite issue of obesity (anorexia or bulimia) can affect fertility. Even women with moderate anorexi…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 02:52 PM
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I bond very well (maybe too well, lol) to men that I date. I am very loyal to men that I am committed to. I hardly even speak or hang out with other men while in a serious relationship. And I have what some may consider a "high N' (although compared to a lot of people I knew when young, it really isn't that high). When you are young and around peers where hooking up is normal, well, that is just what happens, unless you are deeply religious or something and "saving yourself for marriage". I see …
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 11:16 AM
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I agree with this. I think this whole "After 30, a woman is a useless infertile hag" is silly. There are plenty of energetic, youthful women in their 30's who have children fairly easily. My mother, for one. She had 3 children who grew up to be healthy, active, and college educated. She did not have to go through IVF or any other costly thing. Women can also take supplements such as Vitamin D and Fish oil (to name a few) that can greatly help fertility. Honestly, I think a lot of women who strug…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 10:56 AM
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I agree. I don't think most women release much oxytocin during sex with a random man, especially if she doesn't orgasm. If she orgasms often with a casual partner, I guess it's different then.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 11:38 AM
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It seems like a lot of men who sleep with tons of women for years on end have commitment issues. I mean, there are men well into their 30's who have no plans to commit, or he needs the "perfect woman" (doesn't exist) for him to commit. There are also some men who are fat or unattractive who can't get the caliber of woman they want, so they never commit to anyone, but I guess that's a different story.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 05:36 AM
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From what I've seen, N count isn't as important as attractiveness. For normal men, seems like priorities rank like - 1. Appearance 2. Personality 3. Loyalty 4. N count A hot woman with a higher N than an ugly one will still get commitment a lot more easily (unless she wears horrible slutty clothing style/ has extremely high N and incurable std's like Paris Hilton supposedly has). Anyone who says the ugly girl with the lower N will get commitment more easily is fooling themselves. I'm sure there …
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 09:14 AM
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Whether they are feminists or not, they are adult women that are older and more established in their personalities. Being older and "wiser", they are obviously not going to relate to a 19 year old girl who follows around her boyfriend. I think you should try to find common ground with them, even if it's some superficial topic. Don't talk about your "relationship dynamics" unless needed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 05:55 AM
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Everyone, man or woman, needs to have a certain level of caring and love for their partner. This includes affection and undivided attention towards your partner. From what you described, it isn't there. It also sounds like you're not really doing much wrong. Wanting your partner to cuddle sometimes without looking at an electronic is reasonable and healthy. You also said he doesn't really have any patience for mistakes. As they say, patience is a virtue. A virtuous, good man has a certain level …
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 06:28 AM
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women that are high maintenance and put the most time and effort (and money) into their looks are usually the "hotter" women. I don't think most people realize how much effort a lot of these women put into their look. A lot of them are very fashionable and don't wear cheap crap from Walmart. They wear moderately priced clothing from trendy stores and boutiques like Zara and Top shop. Being a fashionable woman isn't cheap. And the "hottest" ones usually get their hair professionally colored/style…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 12:18 PM
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In your previous comment you say you're not looking for anything serious so I guess my comments aren't really aimed at you..But it's just something women assume, that a man is not serious if he won't pay at least sometimes (especially for a moderately priced dinner). Women in this thread said it, even you have said it in your original comment. So it makes sense that men who are looking for something serious should pay.. I'm not sure about the details like how often he should pay or what, but I j…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/17 05:14 AM
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I don't know. I don't feel like a woman wants a man for his money just because she prefers him to pay in initial stages. It's more about a feeling of "being taken care of", it is just a type of subconscious dynamic that the man sets that he can be a provider and that he is into a woman and cares to impress her. It doesn't mean she will be some gold digger who constantly demands designer handbags and jewelry. If a woman is that type of gold digger, it will probably be pretty obvious from her styl…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/17 03:25 AM
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120? No way. but somewhere reasonably priced should be fine, if the guy is well off. I just get the feeling that the men who protest to paying for a moderately priced dinner are broke.. and I'm probably right.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/17 10:51 AM
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She is probably single because she sounds like a man and has weird lispy mouth thing.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/17 10:39 AM
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What about the men who want a serious relationship but refuse to pay? What's your opinion on that?
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/17 12:36 AM
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Lol. I think you're just in outright denial of the fact that any woman of value is going to want the guy to pay the bill. it angers and troubles you that you would have to invest any of your money, even a small amount, in a woman. If paying for a date really troubles you this much, I suggest not dating. It would be much easier for you. You don't want to believe that the way you're operating is pushing away women and will only attract Tom boys and unattractive women. Good luck. I have no trouble …
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/17 12:19 AM
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If you want to attract Tom boys, lazy women, and just downright unattractive ones..then sure, don't pay. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 02:21 PM
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Yes but there are a few men (and women?) in this thread claiming that a man should never have to pay, even in early stages? That is strange to me because a man who is unwilling to pay in the early stages of dating can be a big turn off to many women, whether men like it or not. Whether a woman says it or not, it is still something that most women will secretly hope for. I also mentioned this key factor in another comment.. If a woman spends money and time on her looks, she's going to want to dat…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 12:07 PM
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My last comment is literally part of the premise of this sub.. the captain/first mate dynamic.. read the sub info.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 03:28 AM
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Yeah, when you're in a relationship, with a man who is a captain who takes care of you. The rule certainly does not apply when speaking to random mgtows online.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 02:18 AM
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Lol. If a bunch of mgtow disguised as red pill are going to constantly invade these types of threads then I don't care if I get kicked out.. this is frankly lame and makes this sub negative. Men who think they're red pill while claiming they'll never pay for their woman ? What?? Why do you even bother coming here, if you don't care about treating women like women and rather just treat them like a man friend?
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 02:01 AM
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Everything equal? How is this red pill? Explain please, exactly how it is red pill to treat a woman on a date, the same way you would treat a man. You don't set up a red pill dynamic by approaching dating this way.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 02:00 AM
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You're just in this thread to complain. Your initial comment complaint about all the women in this thread? says a lot. Wouldn't be surprised if you're just another mgtow disguised as a red pill guy.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 01:56 AM
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What is the "red pill way" ... if what I described isn't correct ? What do you think this sub is about if what I'm saying is completely wrong? You don't really seem to have an argument, you are just using this thread as an excuse to complain about women, it seems.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 01:46 AM
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Women see just as many entitled men, like fat ugly men who go after hot women and think they deserve a hot woman simply because they're born with a penis. Yet they put hardly any effort into their looks and think "oh this hot woman who kills herself at the gym and spends all kinds of money on her looks will surely be into me! Women aren't superficial!" You think men are not entitled as well? Your argument is not any more valid than mine, here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 01:34 AM
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You can look at my other comments, I know this conversation will just go in circles about you not understanding why a man would want to invest any of his money in a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 01:32 AM
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That's called leading. A lot of men aren't cut out for it, so not surprising that a lot of men protest to the idea of it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 01:00 AM
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If you're so worried about a woman using you for a free meal then talk to her before the date and see if she's willing to invest time in talking to you beforehand. It's a good screening process to filter out women are traditional and want a man to lead vs. women who are just meal hopping. Most women who are serious about getting to know someone will take a phone call before a date or invest some time talking to the man, but you have to initiate. Quite simple. Men who are not cut out for leading,…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 12:52 AM
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Uh? It can be a pretty important thing to bring to the table, if you have put effort in your body. A big difference between a woman who puts no time/effort into her body vs. one who does
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 12:47 AM
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A traditional red pill relationship or marriage is where the man leads and pays. Why is this news to you. The people who are saying "go equal" are feminists that don't know they're feminists. Some people are feminists out of necessity (like poor men who refuse to pay for a woman).
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 12:33 AM
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It is actually strange to me that you would think there aren't men who will do this for a hot woman. If a man is wealthy, he will have no problem paying for the first some dates.. Sorry for reality. Tons of men do this, and they don't have an issue with it. Whether or not that makes the woman a "princess", ok.. and? The guy paid for her, are you going to whine about her being a princess because she found a well-off man willing to pay the bill? Go ahead, no one cares. In a trad relationship, the …
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 12:27 AM
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On the topic of paying, I think men should pay because it is tradition. I also feel like it is fair because women spend considerably more time and money on their looks (I mean, think of all the stuff women buy to prepare for a date and how long it takes the woman to get ready vs. a man) if the man pays, it evens it out a bit and the woman doesn't feel like she's spending all the time and money for nothing, and that the man appreciates her feminine efforts. The thing is, well, men need to lead wh…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/17 09:57 AM
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Funny, caring, intelligent, and earns more than me lol 😂
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 03:13 AM
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I mean you probably won't believe this, but some men are into women who are blunt and honest. Your friend was probably turned off by that woman's pessimism and brutal honesty, but some men find it "cute". I know, weird.. but they're out there. Not everyone is into the "I love my job I Love my life!!!" Constantly smiling Type of women. Just giving a different perspective. Some people like that brooding dark energy and are actually more comfortable with it. It's just that more people are into the …
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 12:19 AM
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A lot of women completely lose this quality as they get older (or maybe never had it) and I think it's a reason men lose interest. A lot of men like women who can goof off with them and just have fun.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 12:16 AM
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Oh come on. This one is easy.. Women who marry men 20+ years older aren't looking for a partner, they are looking for a daddy.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 12:12 AM
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Yes but you can still be generally content with life while going on dates? If you have a good career that you enjoy, friends, and a nice home.. isn't that usually a nice life? I mean, it isn't easy for women these days. It's not easy to "have it all"- the marriage, the career, the kids, the beautiful home.. it doesn't all work out perfectly for everyone, that's just reality. And even for the people who appear perfect, there can still be holes. And the cost of living has gotten so high in recent …
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 12:06 AM
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I see what you're saying.. A woman is better off being hot and fun than being an unattractive career woman (when it comes to relationships). A good career isn't going to make a man desire or want you to commit and spend time with you, unless he is looking for a sugar mama. Being a career woman has its upsides though. You appear more put together and learn valuable life skills. Unfortunately a lot of women are fooled into thinking their career itself is a lot more valuable to men than it really i…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/17 11:50 PM
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It can be hard for a relationship to work when the woman is pitching in more provider qualities than the man. The woman may feel used and the man may feel like he's failing.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/17 07:54 AM
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What types of things have you blown up at him about?
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/17 06:52 AM
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Nope. it's based on traditional gender roles. Classic hamstering on your end
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 03:59 AM
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Not feminism. I'm advocating for a true traditional marriage which means the woman is a housewife and man works outside the home. You clearly don't know what a traditional marriage means.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 12:55 AM
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Ok, except for the fact that women initiate divorce most of the time, so who do you think is having the resentment? There have also been studies that even when both man and woman work, the majority of childhood duties fall on the woman. It's not hard to see why this would cause resentment in women.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 11:37 PM
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I'm just saying, in a marriage where the woman is responsible for the majority of chores and also working a full time job.. that is the exact type of arrangement which leads to resentment and unhappiness on the woman's end. A man might think he has a good deal from this type of arrangement, (because he gets to share in his wife's income along with having a live-in maid and chef) meanwhile his wife's bitterness and resentment is brewing within her because her husband is pushing her to do too much…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 09:05 PM
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You didn't specify that it was anyone other than your fiancé. Should have been more specific if someone (who isn't your partner) is cleaning and cooking in your home on a daily basis..
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 06:45 PM
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Does he financially benefit from you working? That might be why he's resistant..
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 06:29 PM
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Ok I reread, my bad I guess it's the bathroom and not the entire home, but still, for a woman to both have a Full time time career and have the duty of cleaning and cooking a meal every day (you did say this) is a lot to ask of one person. This will most likely lead for resentment on her end and not end well.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 06:25 PM
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So basically you have a woman who works outside the home but also cleans your whole house and cooks you meals on a daily basis? And she has no issues with this? What is her career, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 05:22 PM
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You're not going to get hot guys that are actually NORMAL if you're a fat woman posting on Craigslist, you'll get weirdo shitty criminal hot guys, at best. fat women don't get any of the hot men that women actually want to date.. you are obviously not understanding this even though it's pretty obvious. Look at any rich hot guy, chances are he doesn't have a fat woman on his arm
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 01:53 PM
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It's not bullshit. There are plenty fat women who style their hair and put makeup on and are into fashion. Fat men? Not so much. There are simply more unhygienic men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 01:48 PM
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That's because, overall, there are more women than men who take care of their looks. Hygiene, makeup, hair care, working out, dieting, picking out outfits. The average woman is better looking than the average man because she tries harder. So obviously if a woman puts hours of work into her appearance every week, she's going to think she deserves a man who does the same
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 12:55 PM
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That isn't true though. Some fat women will date fat guys. fat women struggle too.. a lot of fat men would rather waste their time hitting on women better looking than them in hopes one of them has terrible enough self esteem to date a fat guy. And fat orbiters think they can break down a hot girl's self esteem and get her to date/screw him. But you didn't really address one of the things I said, if you hate them so much then you should take responsibility for yourself and get in shape then you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 12:47 PM
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Actually there are, it's called chubby chasers. Practical suggestion: if you want to stop trying to date fat women, then get in shape. A woman who isn't fat has no incentive to date a fat guy lest he's rich. Not to mention the health issues that can accompany a fat person as they age
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 12:05 PM
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Lolol @ at this guy, the ultimate advocate for orbiters 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 11:03 AM
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Hollywood actors who pay for sex are usually sex addicts, so of course they'll end up sleeping with ugly women at some point if they are addicted and have constant urges to have sex with someone. Even then, how often are they sleeping with truly ugly women? If you're rich and attractive, there's not much of a need to pick butt ugly prostitutes off Craigslist or ones walking the street. Being sex addicted is also different than most normal non-sex addicted attractive guys and how they operate. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 10:50 AM
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That's not what I meant.. I meant, within the entire group of fat people, there are ones who are better looking than others.. also having a really good personality while being fat is definitely important. If a fat person is boring and not that fun to be around, they're going to struggle big time in attracting anyone at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 10:31 AM
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Lol.. I said decent mainly because if I say "attractive" I feel like some one will create another butt hurt argument like "no you don't have to be attractive to have orbiters, Janine from physics is a 5!! " and I didn't feel like dealing with it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 08:25 AM
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Idk, I think some girls are just peppy/happy a lot, so they seem like airheads but they're actually more like average intelligence and some are even pretty smart. Just because a girl is happy smiling and laughing doesn't mean she's a retard. I might fall into that category at first but I'm pretty smart when people get to know me..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 05:03 PM
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Hmm. Is it possible they don't want to fuck you and you're butt hurt about it, so you insult her and call her stupid (in your head)? From my experience, a lot of attractive people aren't nearly as dumb as people claim they are. seems to be a bit of sour grapes when people who are mainly average and below talk about how stupid some hot person is. I have never met this supposed "extremely attractive yet extremely dumb" person that everyone seems to claim exists. I don't know, maybe I just grew up …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 04:55 PM
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A minority of men isn't going to have such a profound affect on that, give me a break
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 04:50 PM
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There is supposed to be some phenomena that the more you see someone, the more attractive you find them. Then again, if someone becomes a lot more attractive to you after you've known them a long time, it's quite possible they have literally gotten more physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 04:43 PM
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If you don't want to fuck them then maybe they're conventionally attractive but just not your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 04:40 PM
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Ya mods here seem pretty unfair tbh, saw a while ago they banned this girl just cause she was annoying, as if no other people on here are annoying. Probably going to get blocked now, oh well hopefully free speech wins
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 04:32 PM
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No idea
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 04:30 PM
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Why would they not be? Women are emotional and the dude is her friend and has a dick. She could fuck him easily one drunken night, in a moment of weakness. Like, her dog died, her boyfriend dumped her, etc.. then she has this guy friend who's always been there and she fucks him because she's sad and lonely. Pity fucking exists, watch forest Gump. In rare cases, it even leads to relationships. A lot of women just don't talk about it out of shame and embarrassment because beta orbiters tend to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 04:27 PM
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Decent looking.. as in, what? Men who have weird ass faces but who work out a lot? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 04:23 PM
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"Fat girls fuck for validation. All women do" Oh.. ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 04:08 PM
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blame autism. It affects males at far higher rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 04:07 PM
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Exactly. It's 2017. Some people haven't gotten the memo about how attractive young guys operate. The more attractive he is, the more pressure on the girl to put out, or someone else gladly will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 04:05 PM
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I mean, there is such a thing as a fat woman with a nice face. Do you have a nice one?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 03:52 PM
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But how many of these men that are pursuing unattractive women.. are unattractive themselves? I bet you'll find that a guy who says "ill fuck anything" isn't attractive himself. Another issue is a lot of men who are like really fat / ugly seem to think of themselves as "average" or slightly handsome.. but I guess that's another story
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 03:28 PM
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It's not about her just feeling horny one night and deciding "hey I'm going to hop on tinder and find some guy to fuck". It's when her beta orbiter breaks her down and shames her for friendzoning her and on one lonely night she feels emotionally ruined and he might see him somewhere or he might call or text or some shit, so she just fucks him because he's always been there for her, but she's not attracted to him at all and regrets it after. I can guarantee you this happens, a lot of girls won't …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 03:24 PM
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Decent looking women will sometimes fuck ugly men out of pity. not kidding. It happens.. pity fucks are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 03:13 PM
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Can you possibly elaborate more on your first sentence? from what I've gathered from real life and such, seems like the red pill idea that Chads will try to fuck anything can be true, but only if the uggo girl pursues him first and shows clear sexual interest in him. More often than not, a Chad isn't going to need to fuck many ugly girls in his life, unless they pursue him and show clear sexual interest and he's just like "alright why not".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 03:00 PM
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I think an (attractive) guy will have sex with a girl if she shows clear sexual interest in him or pursues him. I wonder, is that what your SO did? Did the girls hit on him first? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 02:53 PM
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Unfortunately there is a category of chads who are bad kissers, have very tiny dicks/very bad at sex. Faux Chads! They live among us, beware. They're awful. I actually have a theory that these "faux Chads" cheat more often than the real Chads with big dicks and who are good at sex (tiny dick and being bad at sex makes a guy insecure, and insecure guys are more likely to cheat to try to improve their shitty self esteem ) this theory makes perfect sense to me and actually explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 02:45 PM
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Maybe your style is the issue. Could come off a bit old timey or matronly. Try dressing more casual and modest. And ditch the corset
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 01:24 PM
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Also all the women on the show are fat, old or have bad haircuts.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 02:30 PM
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Any man who is a virgin past 30 is usually low value in some way. The only virgin man I knew who was over 30 was fat and very socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 08:05 AM
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Hard to gauge whether people are hot when you're just looking at them from far away. They could look good from far away but not look that good as you get up close to them. I actually think this is the case for a good amount of couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:14 AM
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Marriages between an older guy and younger woman don't usually work out very well. They tend to devolve into daddy/daughter type relationship. Cheating is even higher risk on the woman's end when there are age gaps. This is because younger women will always have more in common with men their age, rather than men 10+ years older than her. I even know of a semi famous woman who married a man that was 50 when she was about 30 and she was caught cheating with a man her age while the husband was havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:01 AM
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In southern U.S. or lower class, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:55 AM
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They still need to put effort in. Sex can be taxing on a woman's emotion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 02:08 PM
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Having a tender touch and soothing the males. Look at the mgtow. Those males are very unsoothed and unhinged. School shooting candidates
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:55 PM
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Good at sex and make good foods
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:50 PM
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You still have to sacrifice your safety to be a sugar baby. And most likely have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 12:16 PM
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The women getting free stuff are most likely sleeping with the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 09:31 AM
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This is the worst thing to figure out. The op sex are psychopaths
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:47 PM
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Because I didn't know I could use my natural big boobs to my advantage. If you have small boobs you can just wear a push up bra
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:44 PM
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Maybe because you were fucking ugly poly people . Most attractive people aren't poly that's a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:29 PM
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You can get away with almost anything if you have big tits and your man likes them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:24 PM
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"They're not angels" disagree. Source: am angel
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:00 PM
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You realize everyone defines those things slightly differently lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 09:57 PM
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Yeah most women aren't crazy ripped so it's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 09:28 PM
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Women who grew up poor are more likely to have bad fashion sense, partly because they couldn't afford nice clothes. Clothing matters a lot. Hair matters too. Skin matters. You need good makeup, a good skincare routine, and healthy diet for your skin to look nice. You can have nice hair if you're poor but wealthy women can afford expensive extensions and other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 09:02 PM
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If my teen boy gave his number to a janitor and then I caught him texting her flirty messages, I would not assume he was raped if sex later happened. I highly suspect that the janitor had his number in the first place because HE gave it to her and was interested in her. It's highly unlikely he gave his number to her and then got mad that she was flirting and then raped him. Like it's not logical. Read article again. It has plenty detail
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:49 PM
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How is wedlock relevant to any of this? Way to tie in a completely irrelevant "issue" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:46 PM
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Yeah for a man. 12% on a woman looks crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:40 PM
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Already said it. It's aimed at women even though men do it too. It's leaving your partner for another who is higher value. Upgrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:38 PM
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An hour of biking won't burn 800 calories lol you have to be like 200 pounds for that much calorie burn per hour
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:35 PM
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Healthy, sure.. but they're still masculine. Women have a naturally higher body fat percentage due to hormones. When you go below a certain percentage it is definitely masculine. You can even lose your period and have other bad shit happen. Loss of period basically means you're infertile. A lot of those women have to get implants to even look feminine at all. Also there have been cases of very muscular female athletes abusing supplements, so not all of them are healthy actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:28 PM
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Oh well that's cool. What kind of red is it? Like a loud bright red? Or like natural redhead type red? I just suggested blonde bc some article saying people are nicer to blondes and this girl dyed her hair blonde and guys took more interest. Also if you've seen the show millionaire matchmaker, it's a reality show about matchmaking and she said that her male clients never ask for redheads. I was like hm interesting. Idk i like red hair but it's just been my experience blondes get more attention b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:21 PM
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You were originally saying she raped him as if it was fact. So whatever Here's your comment saying this https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/67zvmq/comment/dgv9oet?st=J22A26E2&sh=48d09abe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:14 PM
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You're doing the same exact thing but in the opposite direction.. Jesus . It's innocent until proven guilty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:06 PM
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Or they are just too ashamed of their real sexuality. Bet they're really into anal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:04 PM
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I don't know if I agree, I think when you love someone or really like them that you can come off needy if the person doesn't share the same feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:01 PM
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You don't know the facts yet you're flinging the word abuse and justice around lol. Whatever . Can't even answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:00 PM
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Some people haven't had experience with giving people, so they think those people are needy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 07:46 PM
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Women usually leave their partner for someone better because they don't love their current partner. It doesn't have to do with validation in most cases. And men would do the same shit, it's just that most men don't meet women who reciprocate his interest. I mean haven't you heard of a "starter wife"? Why is this hypergamy bullshit aimed at women when men do it too ? It's annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 07:41 PM
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From the way it was described it's leaning towards that he didn't tell the school that she was texting her inappropriately (probably because he liked it) . Any halfway intelligent person would've told the school if some janitor was doing that. That's why the rape thing looks like bullshit manufactured for money. Also how did she get his number? Can you answer that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 07:38 PM
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If the man is that much better, why would she not be with him? If a guy was dating a girl he didn't like that much and then some girl better than her showed up and wanted to date him, he would do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 07:36 PM
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The article didn't really say anything about the boy complaining to teachers or principals that she was texting him inappropriately though. I mean how did she even have his number? Why? It was a janitor! Hmm let me think, because he gave it to her because they flirted. then he had sex with her and now he's lying and suing the school. Even if she really did rape him what would the school have done to prevent it if he didn't report her to the principal or anything? The only way the school could ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 06:55 PM
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So if your housemaid raped your friend in your home you would be down with getting sued for millions of dollars? K . It's just the principal of it. It has a lot to do with greed. It's not just "justice"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 06:43 PM
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I've noticed this because the only 2 guys who ever called me needy were ones who just wanted to be single. 18-22 is the prime age where they pull this shit lol. Neither of these guys did I really even talk too that much. They just didn't want what I did
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 06:38 PM
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men have a habit of not taking responsibility for their own feelings or actions, so they blame women even when they've done nothing wrong you're needy = you're acting fairly normal but I don't want a girlfriend or dont want to spend much time with you you're crazy = I've wronged you in some way and hurt your feelings, you reacted strongly and now I don't know what to do so I'm just going to blame you This is just in general. Guys that actually want girlfriends and like the girl don't complain ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 06:27 PM
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Justice would be putting her in jail if she's guilty, not suing for crazy amounts of money. Note how they're suing the school, over a fucking janitor. Not even a teacher or principal. A janitor. If it was an educator or like the principal, it would make sense to sue the school because they're supposed to be held to higher standards. But it's a fucking janitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 06:24 PM
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Why don't they just get a man then? Odd. Men can build muscle and lose fat easier because of testosterone that women don't have. Don't a lot of those chicks take hormones to look more manly? Women are literally made to be soft because of estrogen lol. Not like plus size soft but you know, not a 6 pack and giant arms. Eek . Idk I feel like some of them could be gay. I guess we can't really know but like a lot of gym guys seem like the type who would be afraid to come out if they were gay . I also…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 06:18 PM
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probable cause is the same as guilt to most people. Most people automatically assume she is guilty. You're a perfect example of that. And a lot of it probably has to do with that the boys family is wealthier than she is and has more influence in the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 06:10 PM
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They're into boy body with boobs because they're gay and too afraid to come out. It is seriously weird to be a straight man and be super interested in that . It's literally opposite of feminine and woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:58 PM
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No it doesn't. It doesn't mean she's guilty just because she's arrested. You know nothing about how law works lol. She hasn't been proven guilty yet. Jesus . Police arrest innocent people all the time. Maybe the kid's parents are wealthy and well known in the community and they automatically believe him because of that . There's a lot of corrupt shit that Police do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:57 PM
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Yeah so it's only rape if the woman is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:53 PM
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I agree with you. I don't think a teen who was traumatized would marry his "abuser" sounds like bullshit to me. People just want money
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:49 PM
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They only get traumatized if the woman is really unattractive or they're gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:47 PM
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How does a woman even successfully rape a man. She has internal sex organs. It's like taking a limp noodle and trying to put it inside her. How? I would like to hear his detailed retelling of events . And the kid couldn't just push her off him? Plenty of high school boys are strong. And if he didn't want any of it then why were people teasing him and calling the woman his "girlfriend". Sounds like he was bragging about texting the janitor to his friends. It makes no sense. He would've also repor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:25 PM
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That girl is tall though. most girls aren't going to look like that because of the height. I don't think height matters as much for women. I've actually seen that really tall guys actually seem to like short girls. Go figure
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:16 PM
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I would be more concerned about getting him therapy and not exploit the situation. If he was even raped. It sounds like they're making it up for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:13 PM
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If men didn't have porn and instead were encouraged more to be in relationships, wouldn't there be less sexual violence overall though? Men who get laid more are less sexually frustrates than men who jerk off to porn because sex involves real human touch with a loving partner vs. just you touching yourself lol . It doesn't really make men happy long term to jerk off and have no physical contact
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:08 PM
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Hope you don't mind me replying since you two are in a lil convo but I think the incels hit on girls out of their league actually because they are overestimating their own attractiveness to women. I actually knew an incel when I was younger and he would hit on girls like way hotter than him, and one of them he called "very average" lmao. I was like dude if that girl is very average then you're like a negative 2. Lol. I think he thought he was average himself and he was in her league. It was real…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:02 PM
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Yeah, keep in mind too those pics are just approximations. The percentages look different on women of different frames and body shapes. And I really do believe that men that strongly prefer a really low body fat are either secretly gay or just weird and obsessed with fitness. I don't think good hearted, straight men want a woman who is so thin or ripped that she's veiny or bony. Part of being feminine is some softness to the body. Under 20% is also really hard for women to achieve. It's easy for…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:27 PM
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I feel like red hair is more of a niche hair color to guys, like not as many guys are attracted to it. I feel like it's seen as more of a girl next door nerdy color. Im just thinking less guys are into is, is all. always noticed blondes get more attention, even if their face isn't stunning. But if you're super attached to the red then keep it. Just pointing out some stuff. I also saw some article of some girl who dyed her hair and she noticed people seemed more friendly to her overall. Another o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:19 PM
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You said "most people can get above average" then you gave the example of Olympic athletes. Most people don't have the time or energy to train like Olympic athletes. So for the average person, who isn't training like an Olympic athlete, genes matter quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:11 PM
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You're posing a question about sex "are mgtows kissless virgins" my answer is yes, mostly they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 11:41 AM
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They're also Olympic athletes who train like hours a day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 11:37 AM
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Incel
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:35 AM
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"Boys family wants 4.5 million"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:32 AM
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Because men are biologically more sexually violent than women. That's why. Deny it all you want and pull up random rare cases where women rape boys, men still rape at a far higher rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:17 AM
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I'm a girl and not that weak. Speak for yourself toots. Lift some weights or something!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 09:46 AM
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Exercising less also decreases testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 09:25 AM
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Porn has made men weak and lazy. When you don't feel a need to impress women, body will go to shit and you will get lazy and unhygienic. That's why so many men are fat. neckbeards these days. Then these same men complain about how women suck. Ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:52 AM
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Women were designed to temper men's insane egos and power trips. When men don't consult women, society becomes war-torn and destroys itself. Look at all the countries in the Middle East where women don't have any say. Barbaric and disgusting wastelands. Because they don't consult with women. All of the shittiest societies in the world are due to men not consulting with men. Women are gentle nurturers who help men be better at whatever they're doing. "Behind every great man, there's a great woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:49 AM
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More more AIALT, for this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:20 AM
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Getting super buff as a female isn't the same as a man being super buff. At a point it looks too mainly. She's better off dying her hair blonde and getting a tan. Blonde hair has been shown to get more attention from men overall. It's lighter, shinier and more feminine than darker hair. Also dressing well and bright colors helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:18 AM
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This is true. Working out will improve any body type and you're not that much of an apple. I guess I've just seen extreme apples who don't work out or are overweight, and it's not good!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:58 AM
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If you're like fat though and can't or don't want to lose weight, and you "perservere" by hitting on women hotter than you (like most fat men) then it's not going to work. That's the problem. A lot of fat men think only a woman's weight matters. It's odd
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:56 AM
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grab by the collar, run off the train with him, and push him into the nearest bathroom
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:53 AM
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Most guys that haven't been laid by a certain age are really ugly or fat, therefore I'm not interested. I knew this hot kid who barely talked in college and girls hit on him. And he wasn't ripped or anything like guys would think. Just had a nice face. There are plenty of decent men who aren't virgins you don't have to be a psychopath man to lose your virginity. Also hot shy guys get laid plenty if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:48 AM
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He's incel. That explains it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:46 AM
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This works until you get naked with someone, or wake up next to them without makeup lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:43 AM
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Yeah, apple shapes are worst off. They don't have attractive waist-hip ratio even when they're thin. They basically need big boobs or else they won't be hot. They also have no ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:41 AM
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https://athleanx.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Womens-Body-Fat-Infographic.jpg Under 20 looks manly. Don't go that low. You'll attract closet cases. 21-23 with muscle tone looks better to most straight men. Women's body fat isn't the same as men's. We need a little to still look feminine. Also are you white? if you want to look above average as a white chick, dye your hair blonde and get a tan. It works for pretty much any white girl to get more attention. Even "average looking" ones. Blond hai…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:27 AM
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I like guys who have had sexual experience. It makes them better at oral and sex in general. I don't want to have to teach a guy to do basic sexual things. Being an adult man who cant lick a vagina isn't a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:24 AM
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Big boobs and good at blow jobs. Above average IQ. Funny. Educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:19 AM
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Lol. handsome and successful man to be desperately seeking virgin. Maybe if they're psycho or religious. Otherwise not really That's where you're wrong though. Whores are way more interesting. They are more daring and fun. Also describing women as "cute", I can see why you want a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:11 AM
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Well. It starts with a fierce yet gentle look in the eye. And then I'm done for
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:08 AM
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Because he's weak and can't handle challenges. Men that are grown and masculine can handle that. It's not a surprise that ugly men or overweight men or men with no muscles are threatened by the idea of their partner has a sexual past. I think you're acting like it's normal for men to pursue virgins. It really isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:00 AM
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It doesn't affect anyone's pair bonding. That's just an excuse for men who are threatened by competition. People are perfectly capable of having sex with various people and then meeting the love of their life and being happy. It makes no sense at all that having sex with 5 or whatever number would affect someone's personality and bonding that much. Maybe they have higher standards due to having more sexual experience, but that isn't a bad thing necessarily. Men who are actually masculine see a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:53 AM
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Most 14 year olds look nothing like that. Her boobs are really big for her body, they almost look fake. Courtney stodden anyone When women complain about men being attracted to 14 year olds it's usually ones who have like A cup breasts and no hips and very child-like faces. Not porn Star bodies with crazy proportions. A lot of women have the natural maternal instinct to protect young girls, so seeing a grown man lust after a girl who basically looks like a child triggers that. Also it's just soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:18 AM
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Still no sex to be seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:12 AM
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The average married man and his wife isn't good looking these days. No wonder they don't have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:09 AM
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That's why I said "kinda"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 03:52 PM
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So many dickless men walking about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 01:08 PM
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Another sexually frustrated trpy who thinks all women are diehard feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 01:05 PM
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If you wait to do it as an adult it's a lot more expensive and a longer recovery period. If you have it done as a baby you don't even remember it. There are plenty circumsized guys who legit don't care at all . I actually think it's rude to tell a cut guy he is mutilated when he's perfectly fine with his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 08:00 AM
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Most of the men that cry mutilation don't even have circumcised penises. I think part of it is just a backlash at men who have the conventional "porn approved" look to their dicks aka cut. None of the guys I've known that were circumsized ever complained at all or said they felt mutilated. They all got hard and came just fine. I think it's kinda like girls with tiny boobs whining about other small boobed girls getting implants. "Mutilating your chests!" Maybe she just wanted bigger tits, chill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 07:43 AM
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I'm not sure you're so intent on denying that many men like their penises without saggy foreskin on the top and that it has been shown to prevent std spread which is a good thing for everyone. We also live in an era where appearances matter. Pretty much all porn stars are circumcised. It's become the more aesthetically pleasing look, at least in the US. Just like there are men who prefer vaginas without dangly loose labia, many women prefer the penis without the foreskin. It is cheaper to have i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 07:35 AM
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I think you are. you're merely operating based on pure emotion rather than medical research
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 07:34 AM
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It's not damage if it reduces risks of health problems for the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 07:32 AM
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Because a man needs to give respect to get it back. Why do you automatically blame the mother? How do you know the dad didn't do something bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 07:31 AM
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you're arguing against studies made by medical professionals. Ok. conspiracy guy I guess "All men are mutilated! Even the majority of men who like their dicks and don't have issues! They should be ashamed of their mutilated parts! " /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:46 AM
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Wow.. It's medical research. These people aren't sick they're professionals
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:44 AM
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I don't understand why the regulated brothels would be exploitative. Isn't it worse to be a street prostitute than working in a regulated brothel? Safer? Also I would think a lot of impoverished street prostitutes have to deal with pimps that exploit them. You kind of just make the statement that it's bad.. but don't say why, so I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:41 AM
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That's not even a medical website and doesn't cite any studies. Was it even written by a medical doctor ? It's just some woman saying shit and not even providing studies proving it. The link I provided is newer and also has reliable research and studies "Another study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association reviewed more than 500 studies, finding that circumcision reduces risk for HIV transmission in heterosexual men by 60 percent, genital herpes by 30 percent, and cancer-ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:35 AM
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"Clinical research has found circumcision can safeguard an infant from a number of health complications, most notably urinary tract infections. Kidney damage develops in about half of infants who contract a UTI. The adult lifetime risk for a UTI is approximately 1 in 3 for uncircumcised men. Additionally, circumcision has been found to lowers one's risk for contracting HIV and HPV, the human papilloma virus, which can cause genital warts and has been linked to some cancers." Lowering std and can…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:33 AM
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So 98 percent don't have problems? And you think this strengthens your case? Yeah we should cater to a tiny minority of men and raise the risk of std transmissions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:27 AM
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It is still a minority of men who have problems with it. There are forums for all kinds of rare issues. It also lowers rates of std's http://www.cbsnews.com/news/circumcision-rates-declining-health-risks-rising-study-says/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:17 AM
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Chad-like men hardly ever stalk people. It's usually the guys you don't want to talk to that engage in stalking lol. I had a mild stalker who I knew when I was younger. I was friends with him b.c of his cousin, he had my number and I blocked it, then he would text me randomly from emails. He stopped trying after a few years, but still contacts me saying happy birthday like 6 years later, this year he did it. I dont really know why he hasn't taken the hint and just stopped. He also looked up my e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:07 AM
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With any type of surgery or procedure involving cutting skin, there can be complications. Overall there is more success than failure. The circumcised guys I've dated don't think it's an issue. "I don't know one guy who don't think it's an issue" do you live in the US? Many circumcised guys are perfectly fine. You are taking rare cases where there were complications and applying it to all men. None of the circumcised guys I've been with had erectile issues in any sense. It's possible they were wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 05:59 AM
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If a man is that down on luck that he has to resort to prostitution, he might as well move somewhere that it's legal. I think legalizing it everywhere would just lead to catering to lazy men and encourage laziness. The average man doesn't need to be any lazier than he is now, just being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 05:17 AM
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you give an overview of your past and present social life, which doesn't seem to include any sex ? then you ask "are mgtow kissless virgins?" 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 05:15 AM
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How though? If a guy is like stereotypically hot and white-ish, what issues is he going to have? A lot of MRa's are ugly white guys, from seeing their gatherings
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 04:52 AM
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Labia skin? That's not really where most women feel sensation. Its mostly the clit and inside the vagina. So I don't think it would make much of a difference to get excess cut off. I actually read a story on Reddit where some girl had long labia and it would get pinched in her pants and she didn't like the way it looked. It was on that twox sub and sounded genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 04:49 AM
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If you live in the US, being uncut is definitely seen as aesthetically weird. In Europe and stuff, I guess it's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 04:36 AM
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If it's done as a baby you won't remember it and don't have to deal with weeks of the recovery and pain as an adult. Also it is more expensive to do it as an adult. Money and time taken off work too Frankly, knowing how guys feel about extra labia skin, if I could get that cut off my baby if she had it, I would do it. I would imagine it could be emotionally damaging for a girl to get naked with a guy when she's having her first sexual experience, and for the guy to laugh and tell her she has roa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 04:36 AM
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Ok, sure. A lot of girls are ashamed when they have sagged or long labia so why not. Then guys won't complain about vaginas looking ugly anymore. More cunni for all. I know by experience in having a beautiful one, that it gets more "attention"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:38 AM
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It's cutting off excess skin around the genitals. Just like foreskin
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:32 AM
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Look up before/after male circumcision and before/after of labiaplasty, you'll see what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:26 AM
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No. It's natural to want fertile women. Wanting a virgin is seriously weird. It's for weird controlling beta men who can't handle competition And I've never had to "train a man in bed" idk wtf you're talking about. Maybe because I date men who can actually get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:25 AM
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Some women get their labia skin cut off because it's too saggy or long, it's called labiaplasty. so yeah if they have an excess, sure . If it's like tight and taut labia skin then there's no reason to do it. The penis and vaginal area are different anatomies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:21 AM
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The genital mutilations like in Africa isn't the equivalent of what they do to men as babies. The equivalent of cutting off excess foreskin would be like cutting off excess skin around the labia, not cutting off the clit. They also don't do it in a medical environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:18 AM
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It's only valuable to creepy guys who are intimidated by women's sexualities. Give me a really hot man who has a good career and has always had success with women who also cares about virginity. Can almost guarantee 99% of men who care about virginity are total betas or low quality guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:16 AM
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Slanted against inferior guys, you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:14 AM
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Wonder what the dad did to deserve such hatred from his daughter. I never did that to my dad as a child, probably cause he was a high quality man and not a low quality bottom feeder who deserved a child yelling at him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:10 AM
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Chastity isn't interesting. It's a lot easier to close your legs and just sit there than it is hop on hot men's dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:05 AM
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It's like 90% that and 10% hot introverted men who got lost
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 01:59 AM
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All the foreskin-less men I've been with shot out their goo just fine Also if you get it done as a baby you won't even remember the pain. What you don't know can't hurt you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 01:54 AM
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How is that hypocrisy . I've seen it irl. Girls who are like "I've only slept with one guy" are always the most boring girls at the party. There's a link between low n and boring personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 01:47 AM
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A year under.. wow what a hardened awful criminal she is /s who even cares. Getting outraged over this is dumb when the kid committed an even worse crime by showing everyone videos of the woman without her consent , (which is how people even found out in the first place )
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 01:46 AM
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How is it mutilating someone's genitals if they work just fine? It's just some skin cut off around the top. more like modification not mutilation. All of the men in porn videos are thankful they got "mutilated"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 01:41 AM
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Well there are more female teachers, so more hot female teachers than hot men teachers. That's why these cases keep popping up. There are probably plenty of cases where men who aren't teachers sleep with underage girls. The only reason we know of this specific case is because the guy recorded the teacher and showed it to everyone. Underage girls aren't going to film adult men and show it to everyone so the guys in those cases probably won't get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 12:59 AM
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True. I've noticed that the 18 year olds that guys think are hot usually look a little older because of makeup or styling. Also I think that actors in their 20's playing teenagers on tv affects the idea of what an 18 year old looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 12:38 AM
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you can eat fast food and still stay within a calorie allowance. How do you know he doesn't work out in his room at night?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 12:34 AM
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I don't know if looks can go that far in a marriage. I think when you have known someone for some years, their looks don't give them a pass as much. When you have shit to do, you're not going to look at your husbands abs and be like "oh abs.. mmm he doesn't need to do dishes anymore" lol maybe that's more of a thing for men and how they treat their wives idk. Like being entranced at their wives awesome tits or butt and giving them a pass for it because you think they're really hot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:46 PM
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He probably doesn't "eat like shit" and just eats normally and works out more than you realize
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:31 PM
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They wouldn't hit on you so that's not a good question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:29 PM
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Then they would pursue a 50 year old guy with money, not a teacher making a shit salary lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:22 PM
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Ok I guess 90% of men over 30 are cucks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:09 PM
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I got downvoted in short guy thread, news to me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:08 PM
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Except.. if you told her you're going to paint the fence, then paint the damn fence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:03 PM
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Well hopefully the "female" would be mature enough to not spread revenge porn of the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:59 PM
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The husband has huge arms he's not a beta
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:58 PM
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Ok, ran out of things to say I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:57 PM
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Spreading porn of someone without their consent is a lot worse than sleeping with some horny guy who is a year younger than the age of consent. Give me a break. Also plot twist- maybe he told her he just turned 17 which is the age of consent where they live . Horny men lie, who knew
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:54 PM
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Taking out the trash is for men. Hence the term "garbage man" !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:44 PM
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He was only 1 year away from the age of consent in their state. It's really not that "wrong" no matter what the law says. Some laws are pretty stupid, like going to jail for having some weed. He was old enough to decide that he wanted to have sex with her. He wasn't a 10 year old child, he was a horny football player Also, the kid is no angel. He took video of her and showed people. That's revenge porn and there are laws against that. That's actually how people found out.. the "innocent kid" sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:30 PM
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more chad.. or maybe just more horny and interested in her? Hmm. Women respond more to sexual attention than pure looks. If a guy who is a 9 ignores her, while the 8 guy lusts after her like crazy.. who do you think she will be more into?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:24 PM
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Generally, low quality men who are irresponsible or lazy get nagged the most. men do it to their wives as well.. But red pill calls it "constructive criticism" in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:09 PM
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Husband is a Chad... that's why your beta bucks thing isn't valid. The husband would have to be really bad looking to be a beta bucks, also really rich. Where's the evidence he's wealthier than her? This is like .. alpha bucks (questionable bucks) and alpha fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:03 PM
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You're resisting the fact that her husband is muscular and masculine looking just because you hate his haircut! Sometimes chads get bad haircuts ok. They live in the damn south
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:54 PM
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Who said jocks can't like cats or have feelings ? Come on! And I just said his face is dumb looking. I don't know his personality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:46 PM
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It's called humor
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:39 PM
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If it went on for like a year then yeah. why would you not cheat on that situation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:37 PM
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It depends on the situation..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:35 PM
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he is not fat or skinnyfat like the typical beta husband. His biceps are huge. Sure his face looks dumb but he's a total jock. And who knows if the "Mexican teen" is better looking than him honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:32 PM
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He filmed her while she was drunk and sent it to a bunch of people without her consent aka revenge porn, so she probably won't get put in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:29 PM
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The kid could also look like a 30 year old, for all we know. No pics of him released yet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:28 PM
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I gave him a charity hj, don't come at me like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:22 PM
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If my husband was actually hot enough for teenage girls to want him and also wasn't a porn addict, then I wouldn't get fat! No way. DRRAD LEVEL 3000
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:19 PM
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I don't live there, I read an article
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:17 PM
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I just looked it up and that is a terrible photo of him. His face isn't that great but he's muscular and well built http://dailyentertainmentnews.com/wpgo/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/wes-dufresne-1.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:16 PM
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Depends. Were the wives porn addicts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:15 PM
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So if they compliment you after they jerk off or have sex, that means you're hot. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:15 PM
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Ya. Maybe the guy has a different type than her or something Masturbating is also easier because you don't have to worry about pleasing anyone. Good for people with insecurity issues. I think a lot of guys feel insecure these days but don't want to face it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:59 PM
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The age of consent where they live is 17
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:57 PM
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What if she wasn't married.. would it still be the same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:55 PM
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Yeah. It's unfortunate. It can cause a lot of issues in relationships or marriage. I think a lot of it comes from addictive personalities. Also it's just easier to masturbate than to have sex. Less effort. I guess having a porn addition while you have a hot gf could be a sign he's a lazy fuck. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:52 PM
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Well, I looked it up, and it was a Hispanic kid. So yeah, you're right. The kid couldn't have been so attractive that she couldn't refrain herself from him. I would only give her a pass if it was a blue eyed blonde boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:44 PM
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I think we need to see photos of the teen boy and the husband. Do you have them? There's no evidence that husband is bad looking or worse looking than the teen. Also no evidence that he's substantially wealthier than her to be a beta bucks . Her outfit looks like it's from Tj max..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:33 PM
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Well studies say men aren't fully emotionally developed until they're like 40. Not joking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:31 PM
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No it's supporting claims that teenage boys are the horniest fuckers alive!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:29 PM
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What if their husbands are attractive though. What if the husbands just don't show interest in the wives so they looked for attention elsewhere. Then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:27 PM
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I don't know dude. A lot of married men are porn addicts these days who don't compliment their wives. So if some horny boy hits on them, they're done for!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:21 PM
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I didn't really feel like a child in high school. Idk. I'm sure some are more mature than others due to the way they're raised and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:19 PM
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True. But she still could have been a little hotter than you and that's why she felt entitled to sit around while you did the chores. Just giving you an alternate explanation.. idk! I mean I thought guys dating girls a little hotter than them is kinda common cause the average girl is allegedly better looking than the average guy from putting more effort into appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:15 PM
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It fell short of my expectations ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:03 PM
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Men usually overrate themselves And it does matter if she's hotter than you or not, sorry bud. If she is hotter than you, then you need to give her some money incentive to stay with you rather than someone in her league
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:00 PM
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If some horny teen boy hit on me while I was in a sexless marriage who knows what would happen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:59 PM
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I feel like the guys hit on the teachers in most cases. Teenage boys are constantly horny. I wouldn't be surprised if they propositioned the teacher cause of stuff they saw in porn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:58 PM
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Well I'm average height for a woman. An average height man is 4-5 inches taller than me. The short guy was at least 3 inches shorter than me. He was a rare case
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:52 PM
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K.. This is hard to l talk about cause I don't know what you think is curvy and what isn't . People define it differently. I don't define it as plus size, I guess I define it as average weight hourglass
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:43 PM
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No, people put their heights on their profiles
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:38 PM
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Yeah, I'm not doing that. Rather live alone with my cats and bang chad once a week
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:38 PM
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Yeah but to be fair, it's different than pedophilia. Pedophilia is a sexual attraction to children. Children meaning like physical children.. 13 and younger. High school guys can be pretty developed. Some of them look manly if they play sports and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:33 PM
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I think it was more because he lied about his height before meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:30 PM
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I met him online. He said he was 5 foot 5 and he had a nice face. Then I show up and he's shorter than me. Like, 3 inches shorter. I'm 5 foot 4 and was wearing flats.. that's like, a really small guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:29 PM
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They found out that men who isolate themselves and develop porn addiction (rather than pursuing real life women for sex) are physically/mentally inferior men and should be taken out of the dating pool anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:25 PM
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Lol he didn't know any of that. I didn't do anything to him! It's weird to blame me in this situation. He was just insecure from previous encounters.. He said his fiancé cheated on him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:10 PM
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I mean, you could just date girls shorter than you. I'm not even that tall, so to be shorter than me, is pretty short for a guy . I forgot to mention I talked to this guy online said he was 5 foot 5, I am 5 foot 4, so I was like ok fine. Then I meet him and he's like 3 inches shorter than me. It was offputting but I wasn't rude to him at all. I think he was just insecure that he lied about his height and knew I would find out. I was also kinda being facetious when I said the charitable thing . I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:08 PM
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I guess so. But I didn't do anything to him to make him feel like that. He was unnecessarily rude to me, really. I am very polite to people irl when I first meet them..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:03 PM
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I am pretty sure he was the insecure one. He thought I had friends hiding in the car when I met up with him.. paranoid and insecure dude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:02 PM
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There are underage boys who look like they're 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:01 PM
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I don't know what that means but ok? And who is "we" wtf lmao. Who are you speaking for? You think men don't like big asses? What's with all the big booty porn and instagram accounts with millions of followers? Hmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:00 PM
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Probably porn addicted husband who doesn't give her any sexual attention
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:59 PM
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? I don't know you so I can't say if you are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:58 PM
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So she was hotter than you then. K
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:53 PM
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also a difference between skinny and fit. Have a tiny flat ass with no muscle tone isn't attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:51 PM
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No. I thought i would be charitable once and went on a date with a guy shorter than me and he was legit biggest a-hole I've ever met. Short men got issues
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:50 PM
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They are wrong. They want tradition and "masculine power", yet they criticize women as "freeloaders" if they are SAHM who do all the home chores. Doesn't make sense really
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:48 PM
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Fast? lol you mean fat. I have a big ass and people like it so idk. women do work outs specifically aimed at getting bigger asses or pay thousands of dollars in surgery to fix flat asses so I'm not sure why it's a negative unless the guy is a pedo or something and wants a tiny flat girl ass
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:39 PM
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Were you really making most of the money. Not sure. And was she hotter than you. You can't just date a woman hotter than you and not pay for it in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:29 PM
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Well that sucks? wealthy men can get a hot girlfriend to cook dinner then bang them after! A steak and a bang!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 11:57 AM
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No it's because most men are useless and boring these days . No inspiration. No creativity. No humor. No muscles 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 11:56 AM
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The way we live now is far different from the 1800's. I don't see how it's relevant really. Average life expectancy was like 40, for one. So it appears they were so stressed that they died early.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 11:53 AM
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If household chores aren't stressful then why didn't you just do all of them for your girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 11:49 AM
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Good way to deflect the real issue.. Bring up shit that happened 200 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 11:41 AM
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https://www.bls.gov/tus/charts/household.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 11:36 AM
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If they make similar amounts of money then how do women have less to lose. You can just ask for near equal custody of the kids. As long as he's not a child beater or Chester he should be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 11:31 AM
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It is over hyped. I think it is mainly a thing they use as an excuse to feel better about either being single or not marrying their Ltr. weird that people complain about divorce rape when no one is even forcing them to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 11:09 AM
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It's not a ridiculous statement. Rp has said that stuff before. Blaming chad b.c "old single women can just bang chad and don't need marriage"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 10:47 AM
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There is usually a better reason than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 10:46 AM
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this is why I'm not getting married unless the guy makes more than me. I'm not going to be someone's maid for free. What a shit life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 10:42 AM
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If you're going to call someone ridiculous, then I think you should explain why and give a counterpoint. It is not productive conversation to just say "you're ridiculous" and not bother to elaborate, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 10:35 AM
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She does have or appears to have.. big boobs. with that haircut, she would look masculine if she was flat chested. If a woman is flat chested and thin, I think she is better off with long hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:30 AM
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I also noticed in your original comment you said they're less jaded and not ran through by bros. hate to say it but college girl's n counts are getting even higher as time goes on. There have been articles and stuff. Hook up culture is even worse now because it's becoming more of a norm than when I was in college. Tinder wasn't around when I was in college or if it was no one used it! So I don't know, I actually think younger girls are growing up even faster these days
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:07 AM
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Celebs are not a good example because they have more dramatic and hectic lives than normal people. Isn't Kidman a smoker?? I think she was or is for a while. That will make anyone age badly. my neighbors daughter is 36 now. She threw a party with some of her friends that are her age and the men looked worse than the women. A lot of guys don't do anti-aging skincare, don't take care of their skin or hair, and have receding hairlines and some are graying. The women didnt look 20, but they still ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:00 AM
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Men age worse than women, imo. If you look at a hot 40 year old woman, vs a "hot" 40 year old man.. the man has like a receding hairline and more wrinkles, I swear. The woman usually still has nice hair and skin if she takes care of it. The guys who say "women age worse" are looking at like Clooney and Brad Pitt. Extreme outliers. The main reason women like older men is for their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:50 AM
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This woman with the highest N I've ever heard of was very adventurous and fun though, she doesn't take life that seriously. It's refreshing to see that at any age. Girls that have only slept with one guy are like religious, or stuffy and afraid of everything lol. They can be boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:48 AM
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I think it is because men age worse than women, don't care what anyone else says. Receding hairlines, gray hair, wrinkles.. whereas women still have nice hair and skin (if they take care of it, which many do) in their 30's. straight men don't take care of their skin well enough so they age worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:45 AM
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Yeah. This is a weird reason to like younger guys, imo. I just like them because they generally seem to have more energy/ youthful aura and better skin than older guys. A lot of older men haven't taken care of their skin so they actually have aged worse than women their age (I'm sure Rp would jump all over that but I find it to be true lol). Gay older men look better than straight older men because they take care of their looks better. And I always get told I look younger than I am, so someone a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:39 AM
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It's not that hard to look 23 when you're 28. I don't know why it is so shocking to anyone when a 28 year old looks younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:35 AM
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Ya agreed, I mean if a girl is showing signs of aging at 25, she is probably taking bad care of herself. I mean some 25 year olds have smoked since they were 15. Or are tanning bed addicts. Or drug addicts. But if you live a healthy lifestyle and take care of your skin, most people are going to think you're younger than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:39 AM
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Ya.. the number itself is old to them, but I can almost guarantee they can't tell the difference if they saw a young look 25 year old girl and an 18 year old next to each other. Like the other person who responded to you said.. you really can't tell the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:37 AM
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I've always thought of commitment as telling someone they are your bf/gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:35 AM
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I don't see why aging would be worse for ether gender. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:34 AM
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I think if I remember it properly I was responding to someone who has now deleted their comment.. I forgot who it was
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:32 AM
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I was also arguing that an 18 year old guy couldn't tell the age difference between like an 18 year old girl and a young looking 25 year old girl. He would think the 25 year old is his age. 25 year old Women with babyfaces don't look like "older women" to 18 year old boys, lol.. that's so ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:56 PM
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Oh wow. In a thread abot younger men and this sub discusses age a lot.. weird! The op was asking people why older men aren't as attractive and people answered. How about if you don't like my posts stop randomly replying to them. Find someone else to talk to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:48 PM
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You commit to someone, have sex like a day or week later or whatever, then you think the sex is terrible or you don't like the way they look naked. So you stay in the relationship and endure bad sex? For how long? What do you say to break up with them? It would be a lot easier to just have sex before you commit so you don't have to go through an awkward breakup and get the other person's hopes up. It just seems like something a teenager would do or something. Commit to someone just to have sex. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:36 PM
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Because it's like, what do you do? You just committed to them, then you have sex, then realize they're not for you, so you're like "oh never mind" ? That is really awkward and also makes anyone look like a giant asshole. It's not very responsible to do that to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:28 PM
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This might blow your mind but lesbians have been shown to have more testosterone than straight women do, so biologically they are more masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:09 PM
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But the bitches, narcs, and whores are where all the fun's at
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:05 PM
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Yeah. Must be why certain men folk make subs online to swap tall tales of heartbreak and deceit with one another
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:04 PM
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It's an 18-20 year old guy. They don't know shit. You're giving them way too much credit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:52 PM
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Well.. If you're older than me, you're not exactly showing it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:52 PM
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Part of RMV is being sexually compatible and good in bed imo. I mean what if you commit then you have sex and find out they've weird looking genitals or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:49 PM
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No way. What if he has erectile issues? Mama needs that sunny D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:47 PM
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This is a thread about men, I'm not answering personal Q's. you'll have to wait to a questionnaire thread since you're obsessed with me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:42 PM
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.. My dad is 60 and he's Mediterranean descent and has wrinkles, so I'm calling b.s. On you. Unless you're willing to provide an HD photo of him. I don't believe you http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2239277/CEO-Randy-Adams-60-shaves-head-wears-Converse-job-youth-obsessed-Silicon-Valley.html Here, googled 60 year old man. WRINKLES also receding hairline and gray hair. Eek
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:33 PM
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You must be young if you think the average 59 year old man has no wrinkles
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:26 PM
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Yeah because all chubby women have giant bellies. More like chubby men. You realize the male body and female body is different in the way weight gain works. Most men gain most of their weight in their stomach and look crazy. You should see all the old men with their pregnant bellies on the golf course round here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:21 PM
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When was the last time you saw him? 20 years ago ? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:19 PM
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You really think an 18-20 year old sees a young looking 25 year old as an "older woman"? You think they can tell a difference? Bless your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:16 PM
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The problem is a lot of guys don't take care of their skin and practice aging prevention. If the 35-40 year old looked young for his age, I guess I would take him over the 20 year old. More in common. 20 year age gap is too much. Sidenote- I don't think I'm being a hypocrite by wanting a guy who looks young for his age, b.c I'm told often that i look younger than I am. I take good care of my skin and do stuff to lessen the signs of aging later. I wish more men would get into skincare, it would s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:06 PM
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I don't know if they're better company or not. Younger men are just hotter. Wrinkles are signs of decay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:45 PM
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it's the way they carry themselves, all bouncy and eager. Old men are like sticks in mud. That is one thing I don't want when I get old. Need to do yoga to keep flexible. Inevitably I will be less beautiful but at least my essence can stay young if I try
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:42 PM
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True. We all know it!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:35 PM
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So what.. better titty-fooking then. Getting chubby means bigger tits and ass for most women. For men, getting chubby just means pot belly. Sun damage is what turns your skin leathery. people who grew up in year-round hot climates look older than people who grew up in cold climates. Anyway this thread isn't supposed to be about women it's supposed to be about young men. No more hijacking pls
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:30 PM
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A lot of men don't take care of their skin as they age, so they hit the wall at 40. Having wrinkles isn't hot on men, no matter how much men wish to believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:21 PM
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Because hot women in their mid 20's usually look young, so guys that are like 18 hit on them thinking they're the same age. Then the woman gets flattered beyond belief and sleeps with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:17 PM
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True. When they turn like 35 they get really hairy, fat, or wrinkled. One or more of those! Only the top 1% stays straight buttah. some strapping 40- 50 year old man is very very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:08 PM
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Because I am v young at heart and look younger than my age. Oh wait I just reread and you said "dramatically" younger. Can't say I'm into that. Half my age would be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:05 PM
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They're just wearing different clothes. Their bodies look extremely similar..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:04 PM
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If I feel dread in a relationship I'm out. My s/o is supposed to make me feel safe and secure, the opposite of dread. I am not into playing petty games with people I love
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 12:56 PM
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This one and the 7 girl literally look the same. Poor assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 12:25 PM
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The thing is a lot of these men weren't battered or raped. If they were, they would be seeing a therapist and not spending their time whining into microphone at meetings and such. At the heart, a lot of them are just angry that they're not good looking and are incel or single. They would rather whine than put the same amount of effort into their appearance that the average woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:27 AM
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Mra is composed of ugly bottom feeding men with poor hygiene. Look at them. High quality men get off their ass, work out, and shave. They don't congregate in public and cry about their shitty lives. they have boundless energy to go out in public and host events but don't have the energy to put time and work into their appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:07 AM
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It is kind of hard to be happy when you don't have basic respect for half of the population and think paranoid thoughts about all of em.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:03 AM
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Interesting. I didn't know people thought Kate upton's face was super pretty. And she's blonde lol. Kate upton and Angelina Jolie have big boobs. I'm not sure if guys would be that into either of them if they were flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:03 AM
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No it hasn't. I want to marry. I like the idea of having a romantic and familial partner. When you marry, you become family.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 12:42 AM
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Ok. Well if Emma Watson is your type then, small boob brunette, then I'd be curious to see someone you think as prettier than her. It seems like guys who are into brunettes with small boobs are really into her. I can't even think of any other celeb brunette with tiny boobs that certain guys go nuts over. The only brunettes I can think of have bigger tits or ass than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 12:24 AM
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That's why house cleaners exist. Why would some woman work for free if she doesn't have to? Cleaning sucks. Women don't have a natural tendency towards that. It's more about personality - type A or type B. Type A is like neurotic orderly people. They're better at cleaning. Type B is fun artistic and laid back. Not so good at cleaning but more fun to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 12:20 AM
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Calling a woman fat is a low blow. If she is fat, she already knows, so there's no need to say it. It's kind of like stating the obvious. And if she isn't fat and you're just trying to hurt her, then it can mess with her head and make her feel uglier than she really is.. Men who are low value do that to women to knock them down. It's different if you're just talking among friends and say it, but if you're calling women fat to their face, you should probably realize it's a low value move. The onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 12:08 AM
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Well I'm not sure where you live but where I live, they put Whole Foods in really nice areas. So generally in nice areas you just don't see hot men with fat women. Idk. Sounds weird to me. I grew up in a nice area and the hot girls are smart, they don't just go for the hot guy with low RMV, they go for the guy with average SMV and high RMV.. that's the best option. They treat women better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 12:01 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 11:45 PM
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This one looks pretty accurate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 11:43 PM
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That's not really taking care of her. most women still have to their own bills and stuff. Paying for dinner and movie sometimes isn't the same as completely paying for someone's life. Most women do generally pay for their own lives. This whole "sugar baby" thing is with like old ugly dudes and hot young girls who are willing to fuck those old farts. Basically, if a girl wants a man to pay for her entire life, she is going to have to give him A LOT in return. She will have to fuck some guy like 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 11:33 PM
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lol that's weird as hell. I never see like any fat women at Whole Foods. Weird. And most hot high quality women want to date someone, so..?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 11:31 PM
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I actually think that's part of the reason men see Emma Watson as average. She has no tits or ass on her. If she gained like 10 pounds, she would be like 20%. She actually might look hotter because her hip waist ratio would be more pronounced and her boobs bigger. Like here http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/05/30/article-0-0C54B1C000000578-523_306x684.jpg I think that's her with a bit of weight on her. Her boobs look bigger and her hip bones aren't sticking out As opposed to this https://media…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 11:15 PM
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I think it's more that she has small boobs and a flat butt. Her body is very girl next door rather than sexy. If she had bigger boobs or a bigger ass, I think men would rate her higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 11:11 PM
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Lol... this is average for Hollywood. Real life average.. no way. Real life average is an overweight woman and man with worse faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 11:05 PM
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She has pretty good proportions for an overweight woman. Some women's boobs don't even get that big when they're overweight and their bellies are bigger than hers. She looks like a plus size porn star
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 11:04 PM
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She's also brunette and has like no boobs. Guys can say "no I like Brunettes" or "boob size doesn't matter" all they want. the blondes with big boobs will get more attention than brunette with tiny boobs even if blond's face isn't that great.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 10:58 PM
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Depends where you walk. if you walk through the town area or an outdoor mall or something, and you have a noticeable butt or boobs you'll definitely get calls especially from young middle class high school guys or college aged guys. Not only low class men do cat calls. It's more about about maturity and age when you're middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 10:30 PM
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I guess so. But if they're polite and have a good family and job, that increases their RMV, so they can attract a better looking woman to date than if they had low RMV. Relationships give you more sex than ONS or FWb's
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 10:22 PM
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"Taken care of" how? Believe it or not, most women have jobs. So financially, they don't really need to be taken care of in the modern age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 10:18 PM
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How would you know that they have a good RMV? You don't know them. Also they're shopping at Walmart, so that should be taken into consideration. There are more poor people at Walmart at any given time than there are wealthy people. Wealthy people like to go to Target or health food grocery stores more than Walmart. Most likely if these guys are dating someone a lot worse looking than them, it means they have a low RMV and their female equivalent won't date them because of this. An average lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 10:08 PM
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Are you referring to the attractive face, not short, not fat? Probably should've mentioned, the guy needs to work out regularly too if he wants to get laid. He can't just be skinny-fat, he needs some muscle to get women's sexual attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 10:01 PM
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No, it's just funnier and more flattering than other annoying things like "smile!" or "say thank you, I gave you a compliment".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 09:58 PM
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Eh. Not always. He could be cheatingn on her or not treating her well. You can't tell loyalty and how well a man treats a woman just from looking at a photo. Most women aren't going to go online and post a smiley couple pic and then say "this guy made out with another girl a few months ago and doesn't treat me that well!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:50 PM
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Well if he's not a chubby chaser, then he probably just has very low RMV. Hot guy who is poor, has a criminal record, bad personality etc. I mean that person I was replying to says he sees these "hot" guys with fat women at walmart. So.. do the math.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:45 PM
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It gives you both the romantic bond and familial bond. When you're just in a relationship, it is only a romantic bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 11:26 AM
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That woman isn't white, she's Hispanic lol her face, skin tone, hair texture. Not sure why you would insist she's white.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 10:47 AM
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More like boobs. Why do you think Kate upton was so popular that with white guys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 10:46 AM
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Yeah imagine her with same body but tan with long blonde hair and blue eyes. She would be surrounded by men like hungry sharks calling her "big ass Barbie"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 10:08 AM
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The only cat calling I would accept is "god bless you mami"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 09:53 AM
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When you own a business you can hire peons to do your dirty work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 09:49 AM
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I don't think makeup will hide any of these horrid ailments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 09:43 AM
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You realize most people put filters on their no makeup photos. In real life, you would see stuff that an instagram filter hides - pores, dark circles, discoloration, acne etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 09:30 AM
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Being hot and wearing makeup is related. It's almost like you can't have one without the other. can almost guarantee you, that pretty much any hot woman you've ever seen had makeup on. Hair styling also matters a ton. Messy screwed up frizzy hair vs. straightened hair... straightened is going to be perceived as hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 09:25 AM
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That's called a chubby chaser. Chubby chasers think obese women are hot. So you look at her and see an ugly fat woman and the guy looks at her and sees a hot woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 09:15 AM
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Most incels aren't good looking. A lot of people just troll in that sub and post photos of hot guys to screw with them. It's kinda sad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 09:10 AM
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Apparently seeing women smiling next to their boyfriends in photos means that life is incredibly easy for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 09:03 AM
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It happens in America too. But location matters. Like the Deep South is like a different world than the west or east coasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:57 AM
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Low value men are the only men who think women have it easier in dating. Note how all this comes from incels and stuff? Yeah, they're low value so they're looking for ways to blame other people for their problems, so saying "women have it easier" is convenient for them. Also I don't know why people think the average attractive men is desperate for poon, as if some guy who is not short, nice body (aka not fat) and an attractive face struggles that hard to find it in this day and age. That kind of…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:48 AM
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I'm too hot to have guy friends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 08:41 AM
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This has to be true. Also when i was walking alone in the city in winter, I was alone and there were men passing by while some bum yelled at me all the way down the street and followed me some way. The men don't even flinch so I imagine they see that shit all the time and just ignore it and glad it isn't happening to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:35 PM
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Um look at the title of the thread and get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:33 PM
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Yeah well plenty of men don't travel for business or go places for extended periods without their wives. And just because a man is attractive doesn't mean he will cheat. Some men have integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:30 PM
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I don't think people like attractive women more than attractive men. The man gets more respect automatically from anyone, for one. And a lot of attractive women get called bitches unless they're extremely sweet and self deprecating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:26 PM
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Yeah I am sensitive, I have the ability to empathize with others who have to go through bullshit. I don't see empathy as a weakness. Calling someone sensitive as an insult is where you went wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:21 PM
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I don't know, I stayed with my friend for a week in the city, she didn't live in the ghetto, she lived in a nice area,and you get a lot of bums hitting on you and bugging you when you're a woman, just trying to go about your day. because the city involves a lot of walking, even close to nice areas of the cities. They don't do it to men, or men walking with women. I was walking alone in the middle of the day in winter to get to my friend's place and they completely ignore men. I would imagine dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:51 PM
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"No man" well yeah, men basically never get cat called. Thats why they don't care about it. It's mainly an issue for women in cities and poor areas. It happens other places as well but not as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:48 PM
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I'm not complaining about it personally, I don't live in a city. I'm saying it does happen often to young women in cities and in poor neighborhoods and that is why there are women who complain. They're not just making it up. I have the ability to empathize with girls who get cat called a lot in cities when they're just going about their life. Getting sexual attention from gross men every day would get annoying. I'm pretty sure if men got cat called everyday by gross women it would start to wear …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:40 PM
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It happens often in cities and poor neighborhoods
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:36 PM
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if they yelled sexual nonsense at you nearly every day of your life, you wouldn't care. Sexual attention from ugly people is gross and annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:06 AM
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Would you like it if ugly fat women hollered at you when you walked down the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:45 AM
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When men get married and have children their testosterone decreases. If a man is a dedicated father, he won't feel the hunting urge as strongly, unless he's a juicehead or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:37 AM
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"Men will go out of their way" eh. Kinda. But a lot of men are lazy these days and aren't into grand gestures. "Attractive women who have gotten free trips" yeah, then they have to pay the guys with sex, even if they aren't attracted to the guy. It is called being a sugar baby. It's usually some old guy who isn't that good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:40 AM
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Women receive more sexual attention across the board. Not social. A man meeting up with a woman for drinks, in hopes he will get lucky later.. is this really social attention? To me, I would classify that as sexual attention, because his end goal is sex, not friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 03:25 AM
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I agree. have plenty of suitors that I'm attracted to, but when it comes to getting along with them and enjoy being around them, it's harder. I will admit I'm very picky when it comes to personality. I want a guy who is an introvert, not a complete moron, and has a good sense of humor. People are too loud and stupid these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 03:17 AM
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Eh. there are plus size models who are overweight and they attract overall good looking men. If they have a nice face and dress well then they could be hot to a certain group of men. I wouldn't automatically peg every overweight woman as "average" when there are genuinely guys out there who are into thicker women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 02:53 AM
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I can't just "take your word for it" when I've seen Rp dudes call Emma Watson "average" and Margot Robbie a 6. They seem to underestimate women's looks. If you could describe what made them average that would be nice? Why are they not "hot"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 02:47 AM
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What exactly made the tinder girls average looking, rather than hot? Seems like rp guys are adamant about claiming women who get a lot of attention are always "average looking" and never hot. Maybe if they are getting a crazy amount of attention, they're actually above average? Maybe your standards are too high
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 02:41 AM
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I mean if you compare an attractive woman to an unattractive man, then obviously the woman will have it easier throughout her life. But what about an attractive woman compared to an attractive man. What advantages does she have over him, other than easier access to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 02:32 AM
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I would rather look at a cute face than just a tall body.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 02:25 AM
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Short man with attractive face and then pray it's a girl. Jk. Men are usually taller than their fathers anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 02:23 AM
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They should have someone else take the picture or do a self timer. Most of them don't know how to take selfies. Most of them like lift their chin and look ridiculous in selfies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 02:22 AM
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A woman with a nice face along with nice body, well dressed, and nice hair will get a lot more attention than a woman who is just thin but has an ugly face, bad clothing, and bad hair. non-fat ugly women will get attention only from low quality men no one wants- fat men, really poor men, bad hygiene etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 02:11 AM
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I think there are also more unattractive men on online dating than attractive men. I think that would mean, for that okcupid study, that women think the average man on Okcupid is worse looking than the average man in real life. So the results really aren't surprising, when you take that into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 01:57 AM
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There will still be overweight men who dress terribly, or men who were cursed with bad DNA, no matter what advice anyone gives them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 05:50 AM
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When men are really unattractive/put hardly any effort into their appearance (working out, grooming, etc) yet think they deserve an attractive partner who does all these things. You can't just be a lazy overweight man and get a woman who works out, has nice face/body proportions, and puts effort into her grooming. It doesn't work like that. And men who are unattractive, fat and lazy are deadset on claiming they're "average" and that women who are better looking then them are also "average". No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 05:29 AM
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Well beggars can't be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 12:44 AM
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Fat women don't get the type of hot guys that women actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 12:44 AM
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A lot of the time male forcing piv is more violent and harder to defend against too. Most women you could just push them off or say "no stop this" and they'll stop. Women are nowhere near as sexually violent overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 12:41 AM
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So you want a steady booty call and you're not willing to ever commit or pay anyone for sex.. k. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:47 PM
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Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:39 PM
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intelligent married men don't fall asleep with random women next to them..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:33 AM
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So I went and read those comments. I find it interesting that each guy makes it a point to say if she was attractive or not. the guys who didn't find the women attractive seemed more violated than the ones who said their "rapist" was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:28 AM
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Not really. It's because most men don't care that much if they get non-violently raped by women. And most women who rape men don't do it in a violent way. Violent rape is a lot more damaging to someone than just waking up to some woman riding you and enjoying herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:23 AM
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Most guys would be a lot more pissed if some ugly chick or fat chick raped them rather than a girl they thought was hot. It's naive to act like appearance doesn't matter to guys who got non-violently raped by a woman. That's why some guy mentioned the girl was hot and another one mentioned the girl wasn't attractive in the askreddit comments. I read them. If appearance didn't matter, why did they even mention how these women looked? Hmm. Seems like it does matter. Notice when women talk about be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:17 AM
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A lot of the time, reporting someone is a huge pain in the ass, waste of time and money and doesn't guarantee the rapist gets convicted. Police have been known to victim blame as well, which can make the victim feel even worse. For those reasons, I think people should only report rapes if they're violent or if the victim contracted an std.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:09 AM
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I don't think anyone on here even knows what feminism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:57 AM
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The guy who sobbed to his wife was probably more upset because he was married and felt like he had betrayed his wife because another woman sucked his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 10:50 AM
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This isn't that important but I'm just curious, do strippers really make that much money? I would think even if they do get wealthy from stripping, that they wouldn't handle their money properly, a lot of them are uneducated and spend unwisely and some are drug addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 07:53 AM
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But smart upper class men usually marry within their social class. Upper middle class men who are older and marry younger strippers, porn stars, amateur "models " from lower classes .. marrying one of those women just for her youth or looks might come back to bite him in the ass. Isn't that where the gold digging/divorce rape stuff comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 06:40 AM
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K.. If you have a counter argument then let's hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 06:30 AM
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I think Middle class men do tend to be harder workers and have more compassion than higher class men, especially if the higher class men were born into wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 06:22 AM
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I think they perceive those girls as "high maintenance" or too picky, that's why they complain about girls like that. Because those girls won't date them. They want girls who wear makeup and put all this effort into their looks but also are very sweet, humble, and aren't picky when selecting men. Doesn't work like that. Most hot women are full of themselves and have high standards. I am not trying to insult those women or anything just making an observation. When I do myself up, I'm also very fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 06:08 AM
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Ok, well I knew ones who didn't. Dating/marrying from upper middle class to middle class isn't that much of a drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 06:02 AM
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Oh thought you were a guy, sorry for assuming that. I don't know, still think girls don't really care at that age. Maybe if he was a famous pro athlete, he could get away with being ugly, but I just don't think college girls would care that some ugly guy is a swimmer and would sleep with him just based on "sup I swim for our college" lol. I doubt he got laid often.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 06:00 AM
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I knew an incel when I was younger. He was like 30 and still in college. I told him bluntly that he needed to lose weight to appeal to more women because he kept whining about it. You know what his response was? "That's so superficial!!" He was a dumb hypocrite.. wanted a hot girl, while having a double chin and being 30+ pounds overweight. Years later, he's still fat. Not sure if he ever got laid because I don't talk to him anymore. But some people are just too lazy to improve no matter what. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 05:50 AM
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That's true. I find it funny that they talk shit about the average woman of today when really the average man of today is way worse off . They're truly fucked in the head
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 04:25 AM
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Idk, I've gone out plenty especially in college and most guys approach girls. It's way more natural for men to be the hunters and select women than the other way around. I went to a college at a party school where the average college boy and girl was like a "hot" person, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 04:21 AM
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Ok who.. you said married, so..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 04:17 AM
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Yes it is. Do you even know any upper middle class women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 04:16 AM
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What does any of this have to do with feminism? Do you think a feminist would admit Serena is an ugly masculine ape woman? Probably not. Feminists would be like "she's beautiful!!" Just because someone disagrees with you doesn't make them some uber feminist dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 04:14 AM
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A lot of men also overestimate their attractiveness these days. I think that's part of why they can't get girlfriends. This has been proven by all these fat men who think they deserve a girl who isn't fat and who shun fat women. there are fat men who completely ignore other fat women and only go for hot girls. Even men with good bodies tend to overestimate how hot they are, facially. They think building pecs abs and biceps will get them like a 9, even if they have an average face. Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 04:10 AM
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That's part of the point though. The older generations went through hardship and this made them into men. These days, the average guy has a relatively easy life... can just go to college and sit on his ass while not working and living off student loans. Also contributes to fat men and men with poor muscle tone. We wonder why mgtow and red pill exist.. it's because most men are now pussies who need to talk shit about women to feel better about their pathetic, boring, weak minded selves. Very sad.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 03:58 AM
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I can't even name a rock star who married a stripper. Maybe dated one but not married
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 03:56 AM
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No I don't think they have a lower percentage. I'm just basing that off observations and growing up in middle class but also knowing people who were upper middle class. There are more middle class people in general than there are upper middle class, so that's why upper middle class dips Lower into the middle class pool for dating and marrying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 03:53 AM
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I obviously have some interest in it that's why I replied in the first place If you really want to get into specifics, i don't think it is 30% of men who go lower than them. Maybe like 15-20%. Admittedly I'm not that great at math though. Women date down too, especially from like upper middle class to middle class. Because there are more options of middle class men than upper middle class men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 03:46 AM
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A lot of guys aren't good at using their imagination. Men tend to be very visual. Using their imagination takes them like 20 minutes rather than 2, lol. And most people are lazy, so shrug what can ya do I don't think cuckholding with porn is the main reason why men are weak. I think it's because they have grown up in a different generation where getting respectable work is harder and more competitive. So this leads to men being whiny and useless, because they're underemployed or unemployed. Boys…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 03:33 AM
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I don't know. I mean, Women of upper middle class date middle class men and vice versa. I don't see that as vastly different classes, though. Women of upper middle class rarely date lower class. And upper middle class men usually don't go that low, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 03:29 AM
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Ok but some men aren't good at controlling their sexual thoughts well enough so that it doesn't seep out into their behavior and words. A lot of guys who are having sexual thoughts in public don't hide it that well. I knew this guy, unattractive, incel.. he once told me (didn't want to know, but alas) he masturbated once every week or so. And he talked about sex and women a lot.. to the point where it creeped out people around him. Guys that don't masturbate enough come off creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 03:25 AM
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They're usually imagining themselves in the man's position lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 03:05 AM
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I don't know..who cares what the exact percentage is? I don't get why pinpointing it matters. Most people just stay in their socioeconomic group.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:59 AM
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No. Most men like to date other women in their class and social circle. Lots of celeb men, for example, would rather date a less attractive celebrity woman than a poor woman who is hotter than her. Think of the reddit guy, he could've gotten way hotter women than Serena aka manly athletic woman. It's probably because he gets more social benefit from dating a manly celeb woman than from a hot poor woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:51 AM
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But most porn focuses like 90% on the woman's body.. haven't you seen mainstream porn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:43 AM
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Average guys can fuck women better looking than them if they have charisma though. Granted, not many average men are hilarious or have some other talent that attracts women. So yeah you're right in that hotter men get laid more. But a lot of them fuck women who are pretty hot or close to their level. They aren't constantly fucking fat women or old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:39 AM
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Women aren't "damaged" just because they don't act according to your high standards. Do you realize how rude that sounds to call someone "damaged"? You say it like it's nothing. very odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:09 AM
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Yet they didn't commit to her and probably just used her for more publicity for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:59 AM
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That guy is probably gay. She's masculine as hell. He looks like a bottom There's no way any famous guy would be into Serena if she wasn't famous and rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:56 AM
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you're probably not fucking much if you're constantly looking at random women and imagining fucking them so you should masturbate just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:55 AM
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" Not much for masturbating" if you're a single man how do you release your urges? Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:54 AM
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looking at a woman and imagining some fake scenario is better than masturbating to porn? I don't think so. Neither of them are more masculine. What's masculine is if you can actually fuck the woman irl. And another reason it's bad is that if he's trying to talk to some woman and he can only imagine her fucking him, that could seep out into his behavior and come off creepy. A lot of men aren't good at hiding that shit. If you never masturbate then you come off thirsty and gross irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:51 AM
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Men generally have no idea how to rate women irl because they're comparing them to airbrushed pictures of women who just spent 3 hours getting their hair and makeup done. Real life isn't like that, so you can't compare women to that. You have to compare women in real life to other women. This is a perfect example http://sarcasmlol.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/dsada.jpg Men have a bad habit of comparing women to shit that isn't even real.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:10 AM
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Yeah, true. but I'm also saying it doesn't make a guy "more masculine" to imagine fucking women in his head. What makes a guy more masculine is taking action and succeeding in life. Anyone can imagine fucking someone in their head, it isn't some accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 01:00 AM
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A lot of young good looking women don't approach men though. You're thinking more of like women over 40, very ugly/fat women, cougars, etc, they're more apt to approach men because none of em get it otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:57 AM
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They're not necessarily getting fucked by "extremely hot" men though.. just because those types of guys get laid more, doesn't mean that average looking guys ( who are outgoing ) never get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:55 AM
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They take better care of their appearance. wish I was a gay man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:52 AM
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A lot of men do leer when they do this though. It's not masculine, it is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:50 AM
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If you're single and every time you go out, you are fucking random women in your head, you need to jerk off more. It's not "masculine" at all to imagine fucking women in your head, masculinity is about action not thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:47 AM
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Lower your standards a little, is all I'm saying. Lose weight. You will do better with women when you do. No one irl is going to be honest with you about your weight. They're all just going to tell you "oh you're handsome, you look fine" because they don't want to hurt your feelings. It's bullshit, if you're overweight, you will look better as a normal weight. Work on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:43 AM
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You have to try harder for sex as you get older. Once you've been with someone a while, it leads to boredom with sex. it's a natural part of a marriage to not fuck like rabbits when you've been married a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:39 AM
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No, it's probably more like "every married guy has something to complain about" because literally no wife is perfect, and no husband is perfect either, no matter how much Rp likes to claim that the husbands do nothing wrong, they probably are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:34 AM
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Dude that noomi girl isn't that hot. I mean she has a pretty face but she has no tits. You're just fan-boying over her. She's seen as "really hot" by a niche group of guys who like her movies or whatever. If you just showed her topless pic to some guy who didn't know who she was, I can almost guarantee guys wouldn't be like "wow she is hot as hell!!" It would be more like "oh she's kinda hot.. small boobs though" A curvier girl with bigger tits and worse looking face might still be out of your l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:19 AM
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The guy from girls wouldn't look good if he was overweight. If you've got random dudes stepping in between you and some girl then sorry but she's probably out of your league. I looked up those girls you mentioned and a "chubbier" (but not overweight) version of them would still be pretty hot, in fact might even be a little hotter cause they don't look like they have much T & A on them. I mean a NSFW photo of that Noomi girl popped up when I googled her and she has really small tits. A thicker ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:42 PM
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There's more nuance to the situation than that. I knew the guy. It wasn't just like I saw it and pointed and laughed. No need to get so offended over something dumbb
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 01:41 PM
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I'll be one for someone who wants that. I'll just cry a little the first time we have sex and then put some blood stains on the bed when he's not looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 01:34 PM
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I wrote one sentence about the situation and you didn't bother to ask anything else about the guy . You just got pissed cause it triggered you back to a time you dated some fat guy even though you didn't want to. Jesus. I think you're just horrified that you fucked a fat dude and you regret it. It's really nothing to be ashamed of that you're not attracted to fat men especially if you yourself aren't fat. It's normal, chill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 01:28 PM
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You don't know any of the context because you weren't even smart enough to ask. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 01:16 PM
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Yeah that's part of your problem. You literally heard "laughed at a fat guy" and went into a rage, without even asking me for the context of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 01:15 PM
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I never treated him like shit. You have serious issues. You hear " I laughed at a fat guy" and fly into a rage. Chill out. This shouldn't warrant such a strong reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:58 PM
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After you hear some fat guy ramble on about how some girl who's hotter than him "isn't his type" and all this bullshit, it gets pretty funny. You don't agree then fine, but seriously get over it. It's not that big of a deal to laugh at someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:56 PM
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No. It's fucked up to not tell the idiot that he needs to either lose weight, or if he's going to stay fat, to lower his standards. Which I did tell him later on. And I said it in a nice way. He still didn't lose weight, but that was his prob. I don't regret laughing at someone who has a problem he is perfectly capable of changing, but is too lazy and unmotivated to do it. I don't laugh at people in the street who have no legs or random problems they can't do anything about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:44 PM
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Are you fat or something? Why are you so pissy about this? It's really weird. I've never seen someone get so mad over some random fat guy they don't even know. It's nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:43 PM
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I don't have empathy for some fat idiot who thinks he deserves someone way out of his league. terrible. Again- he can lose weight if he wants the hot chick. The fact that he's too lazy means he doesn't deserve it and should be laughed at.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:41 PM
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I didn't brag about it, you just have this weird sensitivity towards people laughing at fat incel men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:27 PM
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Some people with chrohn's shit their pants.. so, not so invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:24 PM
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I think you need to go back to the origin of this exchange and see who is the shitty person. You're pretty aggressive and rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:23 PM
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Don't date a guy who repulses you. This is like dating 101. You were better off not dating him so he had motivation to actually change himself and be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:20 PM
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The fact that you came out of nowhere and attacked me and that you care that I thought it was funny that some fat incel idiot hit on a hot chick. But I guess if I had some embarrassing ass disease like you, I would be pretty bitchy towards random strangers. And I wouldn't want to stay over at a rich guy's house either in the first week I met him because I wouldn't want him to see my ugly anal fissures and all the meds I have to take ;(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:13 PM
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If you're a chick, you're a completely insane and aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:00 PM
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You're definitely not a girl and just some guy posing as one. You're way too aggressive. You're pretending you're a girl in an attempt to empathize with other girls on here so they listen to your bullshit more. I'm not falling for it, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:56 AM
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The fat guy was really judgmental, I knew him. It's rally weird hearing a fat guy go on about "well, she's not that hot, I prefer blondes " etc about girls clearly hotter than him. And he was an incel virgin at 30. That's part of why I had no shame laughing at him. He was a complete idiot. You must be fat yourself if you feel this bad for him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:53 AM
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Ok I can see some of what you're saying. Who and where are these ugly girls hitting on guys out of their league though? How do you know this? I have rarely known of or witnessed any women approaching men or clearly hitting on them. It's just not really a woman thing..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:47 AM
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If a fat guy is dumb enough and cocky enough to hit on a hot girl and actually think he has a chance, then yeah it's pretty damn funny. Sorry you don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:42 AM
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You obviously haven't gotten to know many hot women. I grew up with a lot of them and I can tell you most of them are spazzes. Also the fact that all women are emotional than men. It's called hormones. Get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:40 AM
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There are a lot of other things than weight that make someone look bad. body proportion, height, face, bone structure If you're fat then you should know already. If you don't know you're fat then you're dumb. No one should have to tell someone "lose weight" to their face, they should just do it on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:38 AM
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Most hot girls are kinda crazy. You kind of just have to get over it and deal with it if you want to fuck someone hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:35 AM
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Yeah they are lol. I knew a fat guy who exclusively hit on hot girls even after people laughed at him. And on dating sites fat guys will hit on hot girls with no shame
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:34 AM
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It's pretty funny if he looks like a double chinned moron while doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:33 AM
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Yeah number 1 is like nearly all incel and mgtow men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:33 AM
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They rarely do, that's why on the rare case they do, fat women are ecstatic over it, because it's so rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:28 AM
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When a fat guy hits on a fat girl she's just glad a guy is paying attention to her in a romantic way because she doesn't get attention. This whole Rp crap "all women get romantic attention, even fat ugly ones" is such bullshit. Hot guys will only friend zone fat women, they won't give them romantic attention, the kind they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:24 AM
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I don't understand any of that lol . Is there a typo in there or no? And People in the middle, what does that mean..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:20 AM
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It's more sad that a fat guy thinks he has a chance with a hot chick. If he wants a hot chick then he can lose weight. It's pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:17 AM
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Not as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:16 AM
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Eh not really. I'm pretty high quality looks wise. Nice face, big blue eyes, tan, nice skin. C cup, perfect vagina, small waist, big ass. From a wealthy family. Dress well. Introverted. A lot of guys like it who aren't mentally unwell. My last boyfriend owned a house and let me halfway move in pretty quickly. I'm not even making any of this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:14 AM
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Ok, I see what you're saying.. but it's still relevant that men overestimate themselves. So like a guy who is fat and ugly will think he has a chance with a girl who isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:07 AM
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Ok, put up a hot girl and an ugly one on a dating site. Watch the ugly guys completely ignore the ugly girl and hit on the hot one. Haven't you known ugly, fat guys? They hardly ever hit on girls in their league. They would rather be single. This is part of why incel and mgtow exist The guy I mentioned in another comment who hit on a girl better looking than him and got laughed at was an incel. He would never hit on a girl as overweight and double-chinned as him. He was 30..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:02 AM
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Yeah, I'm hot, I know this. I could literally get a boyfriend who isn't hideous within a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:01 AM
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Oh ok 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:59 AM
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It's a fake video. He told her what to say and paid her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:58 AM
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Your attitude is terrible so you're being a bit of a hypocrite. Hot girls get fucked too. You think all guys are only fucking ugly women. Poor you. If you struggle to get laid, lower your standards. Not that hard. If you're ugly then go try to fuck ugly women. Can almost guarantee one will bite
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:54 AM
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It is not that hard to figure out that women want attractive guys though. Like most people learn this in like 6th grade when girls start having crushes on random cute guys in class and not the ugly ones. It really isn't rocket science to just look around and see what the deal is. If a guy is ugly he should blame genetics, not random women who didn't tell hand-feed him the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:49 AM
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He looks like her creepy bald uncle. Like I can almost guarantee if we could see her face, they would look SO creepy together. And him calling her "adorable" is patronizing and cringey as fuck. He probably paid her and had her sign some bullshit giving him permission to put her in a video as long as he blurred out her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:37 AM
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This is such a stupid conversation. You're just pissed off at the truth that you most likely think you're better looking than you are because most men do. Literally take a pic of a hot girl, put it on a dating site, and see all the unattractive men who message her and think they have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:30 AM
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Women aren't wanted in leadership positions. Most people that own companies are men and men are less likely to promote women to higher positions. A lot of them don't want women to be their equal because they prefer the company of men. Of course men will never admit that. But it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:28 AM
1

Oh well if that's you then nevermind
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:22 AM
1

A lot of men are stupid when it comes to women and the type of women they can realistically attract . That's the only bad thing I'm saying about them. Sorry that I don't think men are perfect creatures
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:17 AM
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Even without the study I've seen hideous men irl hit on girls better looking than them and actually think they have a chance. I knew of this fat guy who hit on this girl in a coffee shop and he got laughed at. Lot of men are really dumb when it comes to concepts of leagues Also, another way to test it, go on a dating site and put up a pic of a hot girl. Watch all the fat, ugly, bad looking dudes that hit on her and think they have a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:12 AM
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They had the girls rate the guys, guys rate the girls, then they all rated themselves. The guys all overrated themselves. Men are cocky morons, nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:11 AM
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Probably is fake. What kind of decent girl would talk to some bald 50 year old looking pua freak? She looks like she is attractive. No reason why she would be desperate enough to entertain some bald, middle age freak for that long of a conversation. He probably paid her to say all that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:00 AM
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He would be better off getting a wig and just asking random women if they would fuck him. Bald guys are the worst. They look 50 when they're 25. Thumbnail looks like a creepy uncle touching his niece
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:56 AM
0

The fact that he's some bald loser who is desperate enough to call women "adorable" on the street makes it red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:49 AM
1

Women don't want the man they're fucking to think they're adorable. Women aren't puppies or babies. Ick. That is so disgusting This is why Chad is so great. He is not just faking confidence like this pua tool, he doesn't call women cute or adorable, he is a MAN about it, says stuff like "sexy" "beauty" "hot" etc. Women like to be treated grown like women and not cute little pets.. shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:44 AM
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What if he's just a sweetheart at heart
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:19 AM
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What about sweetheart Chad not bad boy chad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:14 AM
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Fool you once, shame on me Fool you twice, shame on you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:05 AM
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So... If a guy is ugly, it's some woman's duty to tell him that he is, or else they're lying to him? Lol. Saying to some ugly guy "girls like nice guys" isn't lying. It's just telling the ugly guy to focus on his attitude, because his attitude is much easier to change than his ugly looks. You can't weightlift away a bad face.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:00 AM
1

Who wants to tell someone they're ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:59 AM
2

Yummy.. chad must be bluepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:55 AM
1

I don't think people always end up with their friends, but if someone has a hot friend they're close to for years, it's more likely they'll have sex once or twice over a period of years than if the friend is unattractive. If you drink together or whatever, I don't know stuff just happens sometimes. I've seen it happen with my friend group when I was younger, friend had a boyfriend she dated for a few years and she fooled around with one of our guy friends. She never told her boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:50 AM
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"I'm tall and well built but I have an ugly face, why don't hotter women want me"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:48 AM
0

Um. No. Actually, there was a study of like 100 co-Ed college kids and the men all overrated their looks while the women didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:45 AM
0

Well if you have no hot friends then .. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:35 AM
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They don't have to own it, they can easily lie about it. women aren't stupid. If a guy is asking a girl's number in the first place, the woman usually knows to lower her number quite a bit to avoid negative reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:26 AM
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Not just friend, close friend. Like someone she's known for 10 years and they are attractive. Or people who keep in touch with their ex that is trying to have sex with them. women and men alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:25 AM
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K. This thread isn't about that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:35 AM
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Ok, sure, except no one would know unless she told them. Girls who gave that many blowjobs usually aren't going to admit to it. I think if a guy is really that worried about n-count, honestly he's better off not dating anyone and going mgtow. A lot of girls lie about it, no way to know her real N unless you video surveillance her entire teens and 20's lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:42 AM
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I should probably mention that I hung out one on one with all of them after the breakup so I'm sure that changes things Hanging out in a group would be different, I'm sure. But all of them were introvert types who didn't have big friend groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:19 AM
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I'm not a man if that's what you're thinking. I just know from experience that when my exes tried to be "friends" with me they were really just trying to sleep with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:17 AM
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I just have seen that men seem to handle it differently. A lot of them try to sleep with their exes under the guise of friendship. That's what happened with my exes. So if a guy tells me he's close friends with his ex, I'm always suspicious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:07 AM
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Well date men who are close friends with their exes then. Good luck . Been there done that, didn't turn out well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 04:57 AM
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If they're hot and share intimate conversations then yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 04:51 AM
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N- count is useless. It's more important to see how she acts around other men. Does she have a bunch of close male friends, is she still close friends with an ex, does she touch random guys when she talks to them.. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 04:25 AM
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I don't think either are reliable. Every girl acts differently in each relationship depending on how well she gets along with the guy and her level of attraction towards him, so the minimal fighting thing isn't really relevant, different guys can bring out different behavior in the same girl. One guy could drive her nuts and they could fight constantly, another guy might not push her button as much and they could rarely fight. N count isn't reliable either. It's like what if a girl was a blow jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 04:16 AM
1

I don't understand what you're asking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 04:13 AM
0

But the women that hate on sluts are usually not because of "giving it out freely". It's because they're threatened by the hot ones. This is proven because when a fat or ugly woman is a slut, literally no women give a shit. It's the hot ones who get the hate from other women. It's like about a fat one "oh that Janine, that crazy chick, fucking all over the place" vs. a hot one "ugh kaily is such a fucking skank showing off her big tits everywhere like ugh put them away! " it's obvious why they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 04:04 AM
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I thought it was ok because people post about their weight and stuff on here. My bad
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 02:26 AM
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Are you sure he's 6 foot 5.. that's like very tall lmao. That's like near giant. Average height for men is 5 foot 9..
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 01:52 AM
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Also genuinely curvy women aren't that uncommon. So like a curvy hourglass body type 5 foot 5 woman is very different than a slim body 5 foot 5. Plenty of women have hourglass bodies and can look good at 130-140 or even up to 150 depending on muscle mass.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 01:49 AM
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I feel like adding weight training and building lower body muscle is the easiest way for women to control their weight over time. Higher muscle mass means higher tdee, so easier weight loss. Watching diet is important too, but a higher tdee helps a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 01:41 AM
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I'm curious, Is your boyfriend overweight? What is his height and weight? If you get down to a normal weight and had more confidence, would you leave him for someone who is more active? He should probably get on a diet and exercise as well, if that's the case. When one partner has a dramatic body change, it can destroy a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 01:34 AM
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Some men have this idea that any woman over like 115 is huge. It gets perpetuated through women lying about their weight (lots of women who are average height, athletic, and weigh like 130-140 will say they're 115, and so forth.. ). Women lie because they have been told it's important, even though when you're athletic, curvy or tall, weight isn't that important. It's the same reason men lie about their height. Guys who are like 5 foot 9/10 will say they're 6 foot 2 lol.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 01:22 AM
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Why would you see them on a scale? I've never heard of any boyfriend watching their girlfriend weighing herself. Sounds odd. Did you make her do that? Lmao . Also were they Asian? Asian women tend to have smaller frames.. And I would say most men can't tell when women have breast implants.. breast implants have come a long way. So yeah, same thing probably applies to weight.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 12:54 AM
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It's not healthy especially if you work out and have muscle mass. https://www.reddit.com/r/progresspics/comments/61aaf6/f2156_210lbs_150lbs_60lbs_puberty_did_nothing_for/?st=J1PON89B&sh=56a9622d I guess this "pewp" guy date girls who don't work out and barely eat lol (if he's telling the truth, doubt it)
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 12:44 AM
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A muscular-ish 5 foot 6 girl would look good at 145. https://www.reddit.com/r/progresspics/comments/65z2b5/f2156_180lbs_147lbs_33lbs_9_months/?st=J1POIJVA&sh=612ca6db (The left is her at 147 ) And https://www.reddit.com/r/progresspics/comments/61aaf6/f2156_210lbs_150lbs_60lbs_puberty_did_nothing_for/?st=J1PON89B&sh=56a9622d I imagine the only girls who would look "bad" at 145 have literally no muscle mass.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 12:35 AM
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A lot of men underestimate women's weights. And a lot of women also lie about their weights and shave off like 10-15 lbs. I remember seeing a comment somewhere on Reddit about a girl who was 130 (not sure her height, assuming it was average like 5 foot 4-6) and her male roommate guessed that she was 110.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 12:34 AM
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I feel like this sub has a strange idea of feminism. Someone said every woman who voted or went to college is a feminist. I knew a lot of girls who went to college but didn't know much or care about feminism..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:23 AM
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A lot of hot people don't have deeply philosophical views lol . Not to say they're all stupid, just that they have different priorities. Example- I've noticed girls who were hot like to laugh and have fun more than they like to discuss politics and philosophy and all that junk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:18 AM
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I mean.. They probably wouldn't date him anyway, who are we kidding. Question is more like "would they date him" than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:15 AM
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Even on rare cases where the genes failed and the rich kid came out slightly ugly, he will still be a more attractive mate than a hot guy who grew up poor. Like Scott disik. He grew up rich and is a bit odd looking. But he still would be more desirable than just a hot guy who works in construction and grew up in a shitty area. Rich men dress well and have social skills from growing up in certain circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:35 PM
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Some guy who is a nerd and can't understand social dynamics.. is not someone most women want. Like a man who spends all day in a lab but can't figure out women .. isn't at the top of any woman's list. Most men just don't get confused. I don't know how else to explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:31 PM
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A lot of high N count women lie and lower their number. good luck even figuring out if they are one or not. Guess you have to guesstimate based on how many partying photos they have on their Facebook
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:19 PM
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Men that are smart don't get confused by that lol. That was part of my point. It confuses like.. autistic men and men who are overly logical and annoying, the men that women don't want because they're not fun to be around. There are plenty of women that aren't hyper masculine that have good jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:16 PM
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It tends to be that wealthy men will marry attractive women, so this causes children that are attractive. So over time, this makes wealthy boys better looking than poor ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:10 PM
1

Then don't ask me why you think face matters. It does, a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:06 PM
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Remember to hide your face in all selfies or no one on tinder will swipe. Take far away pics and flex your muscles. Hopefully women won't be disappointed when they meet you and realize your face is disgusting..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:06 PM
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Yet again, men dont get this. Face matters a lot. You need a strong jaw, pretty eyes, good facial symmetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:03 PM
1

You need a good face to be truly alpha, which comes down to genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:58 PM
2

Wtf. You can still be an ugly dude with a nice ass. Why are men so focused on their bodies lmao. This is sad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:55 PM
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How are you out of my league? Because you lift? Sorry I don't like men who have big arms but ugly ass faces. Typical autistic thinking that you work out so that means you're out of every girl's league.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:53 PM
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Yeah. There are a lot more pretty women than men. The only people who deny this are autistic men who think someone like Brock turner is really hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:51 PM
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Dating down" aka actually dating in your own league. Most men overestimate their own attractiveness because they think being tall and muscular makes you like a 9, even though most women prefer faces. Some guy on here thinks Brock turner is really good looking. He's hideous. Being athletic doesn't automatically give you access to hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:48 PM
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You're obviously not that attractive, or not that fun, if you can't find an attractive girl with a decent personality. I feel bad for you. But I guess most guys on here are autistic so it's not surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:44 PM
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https://cdn-webimages.wimages.net/05137475ca1a3d866621c30ac95b2c95d94b26-wm.jpg?v=3 You
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:41 PM
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You obviously have no sense of humor.. weird that you think you have a "personality" lol Jesus. You're probably boring. Probably autistic by the fact that you think all models are extremely hot. Black and white thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:36 PM
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Some models are weird looking. Being a model doesn't automatically equal "really hot to every guy" Jesus. That's probably your problem. The main criteria for modeling is being really tall and thin.. that doesn't always equal a hot woman http://images.complex.com/complex/image/upload/c_limit,w_680/fl_lossy,pg_1,q_auto/jxkvglvkyldxwtixeehz.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/3f/52/af/3f52af7b4679b5cf9f1846480c622df4.jpg This woman is a model This one isn't - https://static.wixstatic.com/…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:30 PM
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Lol pain. Most the "alpha" men I've known have had easy lives. They're born into rich families and grew up attractive. I guess if your poor you would think only poor men can be alpha or something because you've never been around rich kids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:27 PM
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Weird, I disagree. I actually think being attractive gives you more tools to learn good social skills and become cool. More people want to talk to you when you're attractive. And everyone is "forced to read" it's called school. LMAO like wtf. You think all attractive girls are kept in a dungeon their whole lives and never go to school wtf Also ever thought maybe you're just biased and only saw her looks, because you didn't take the time to get to know her personality? Probably. Rich smart men ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:15 PM
1

Why can't I enjoy that women are allowed to vote and go to college but also not take pity on men who are pussies who never take charge in life and don't take accountability for their actions? If a man blames his inability to succeed on women, that's not my problem. Plenty of men still succeed even with the awful feminism monster on the prowl, so that just shows there's no excuse for these dumbasses to blame women. There are high powered businessmen that like to go to dungeons to get tortured by …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:02 PM
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I'm not like an expert in feminism here, never said I was. You have this false belief that all women are 100% feminists, that's not how it is. Stop thinking like that, that's not how the world works. I don't think unmasculine men should be supported. I think they ruin a lot of things, actually. If a woman nags at a respectable man (respectable is the key word here, some men aren't) then the man will replace her. The only reason he wouldn't replace her is if he doesn't mind the nagging (like I sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:43 PM
1

You sound like a mega nerd. Go jerk your dick to anime. No time for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:40 PM
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No. There's a point where it's not attractive, like when the guy is a giant. It becomes weird rather than attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:27 PM
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They don't, for the most part. If a hot woman attracts an abusive guy it's because she's weak minded or has a shit personality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:26 PM
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It doesn't matter if he was a college athlete, he was a swimmer not a baseball or basketball player. An ugly geeky looking swimmer can't just go up to a girl at a party and say "I swim, let's fuck". That's not how it works. His body wasn't that great, have you seen him? He looked awkward. https://cstest.s3.amazonaws.com/profile/Brock2.JPG This is hot to you? He has a pin head. God men have no idea what women find hot. A guy who is chubby with a better face would be way hotter to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:25 PM
1

Rape happens more often in poor areas, so your thoughts here aren't exactly wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:22 PM
1

Except for the fact that there are many men who go through life without any rape accusations..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:21 PM
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The reason she doesn't respect the man is because the man isn't high quality. Men who are confident, mature, and attractive don't get nagged at. If a woman ever tries it, they just replace them, but they usually don't try it because they respect high quality men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:19 PM
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I think ugly men or men who don't like their mothers are more whiny about women than hot men who like their moms. I think being whiny has more of a generic component than socially influenced. Some men are just generically inferior. Don't blame socialization on everything. You think all alphas are made? No, a lot of them are born to be that way. They have good genes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:16 PM
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No, plenty of women don't do that. It's sad that people think everyone does this. unattractive women are actually less likely to have casual sex than attractive ones. Attractive women tend to like their bodies more and more comfortable being naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:14 PM
1

I am a woman I don't date attractive women. I've just known them throughout my life and they all had personalities. I don't have to date them to know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:13 PM
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there are men who don't worry about rape because they are able to pick quality women who wouldn't do that. Not that it even happens that often anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:31 AM
1

You're complaining about things that aren't likely to happen. tiresome
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:49 AM
1

Why do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:40 AM
0

Strong men don't give a shit if some women have power. By strong, I mean both mentally and physically. It's weak men who get their panties in a bunch over women having some power.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:39 AM
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Plenty of women don't hate sluts. And the ones who do hate them, is because they are jealous of their looks or confidence. People don't give sluts enough credit, you have to have a certain social confidence to be one and a lot of sluts like their bodies (in a world where so many women have body confidence issues). Unattractive sluts don't even get hated on by other girls. I knew like 1 or 2 of them, no girls cared. It is the attractive sluts who threaten other girls, mainly because their looks, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:22 AM
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Why would any girl openly admit to getting raped by a hideous man unless it was true? I sure as hell wouldn't want to tell people I got fucked by an ugly guy against my will, unless it REALLY happened. I don't want people to remember me as "the girl who got raped by an ugly guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:05 AM
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That isn't the only thing I'm arguing, oh My god learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:04 AM
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Brock turner was ugly, not sure if he was that used to drunken hookups. He had no jaw and goofy looking, pretty beta if you ask me. Tall athlete does NOT always equal attractive. Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:56 AM
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Word. Men who are inexperienced/sexual failures have a lot of contempt for sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:49 AM
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You learned that they are a liability through our culture. That's not biology. And main reason girls regret having casual sex is because they told some person (who they thought they could trust and wouldn't judge them) and then ended up getting shamed for it. If they're around people who don't care that they have casual sex (which most stable adults don't care about) then they don't regret it.. no reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:43 AM
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It depends on the story. If it's like "we went back to his house and started kissing" then it gets thrown out. If it's "he attacked me and I have bruises" then it should be put on the transcript
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:09 AM
1

Think of it this way, ugly men are more likely to rape people because people don't want to fuck them. So believing accusations against ugly men makes sense. But when an attractive men gets accused, it's more likely that they had consensual sex but she accused him out of anger or revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:52 AM
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At least you have reading comprehension, the other guy is clueless And no it's not fair, but life is unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:45 AM
1

Look at the question in title of this thread, put 2 and 2 together
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:43 AM
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I just did. Scott Eastwood is the only real Chad on there. I'm very disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:42 AM
1

Because attractive people have privilege in society. Why does that need an argument it speaks for itself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:39 AM
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Attractive women don't have "no personality" stop being lazy and take the time to get to know them. Everyone has a personality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:38 AM
1

This is not useful. I can barely see his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:37 AM
1

People are allowed to disagree with you without being a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:35 AM
1

*weak men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:32 AM
1

Chad privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:22 AM
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If they're ugly then yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:14 AM
1

Chad is nice when you first meet him then you get to know him and he is a dick. He is good at sales and marketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:13 AM
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I knew this guy who was like 6 foot 8 or something, he had really weird proportions. Really long legs. And most girls don't want to feel like children when they're looking up at a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:06 AM
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Plenty of straight women think about dicks when having sex or when masturbating. Wtf is that person talking about. Especially if our partner has a big dick ofc we are going to think about it. Maybe if their dick is small then you would focus more on their hands and their breath and shit because they have to be good at other stuff to compensate for having a tiny dick
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:42 AM
1

You don't think the fact that men don't have to sacrifice themselves to create life is relevant? If women are so evil then why do they sacrifice their own bodies to make a possible man?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:40 AM
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Who cares. Neckbeards with acne have high standards too. What matters is if you can achieve those standards. Most people can't, so they lower them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:21 AM
2

Having upper body strength makes you shoulders look broader.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:16 AM
0

Women will date men they don't find that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:15 AM
0

No, rp is about blaming women for everything wrong in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:11 AM
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Correction: whiny men are worthless to me. Whiny is when you complain about stuff that happens to everyone. Read his other comment. The stuff he complained about happens to any person. It is not a guy thing. He needs to socialize with other people and stop living in his pity party bubble. If you don't understand this and think his complaints should be entertained then you probably have autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:07 AM
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