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Been following trp for a while now and I still catch myself drifting into oneitis with certain women. Glad to see this post. Pulled me out of a funk that was Abt to start tonight. Onward brother!
/r/askTRP06/10/18 02:38 AM
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5'6"
/r/askTRP26/08/18 12:35 PM
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I've been hit with the immediate shit test upon arrival. But I usually respond with, "oh right! Let me go grab the stool out of my trunk" usually gets a laugh and then I change the subject immediately. Im pretty damn short, so like others have said, look at their pictures and find things if universal measurements. If it is still questionable I inevitably ask. When they return the question and I answered, it's a 50/50 she continues to respond
/r/askTRP26/08/18 01:38 AM
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Could you give an example of a said belief? I find myself relating to OP a bit.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 12:20 PM
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I think I am at this point with this one plate. She came at me with some petty drama over social media a few days ago. Ignored her calls and texts for 36 hours. Cut to her calling from her work number yesterday. I briefly explained my disgust and left the conversation with that dry, indifferent tone. She sent a few pictures later that day talking about what she wants to do sunday, but I think I am going to put her on ice for a few more days since she was creepy by calling from work phone. Or may…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 12:51 PM
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I remember hearing on either the Black Phillip Show or Beige Phillip that if you know that is the intent of the meet up, you should never even waste your time going. Tell her to call you. Wish her well and be on with your day.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 03:56 PM
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It's good that you stick to your initial plan and left after the waterworks. You would be setting yourself up for more resistance in the future if you let on that you could be manipulated by those tears. Good work.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 12:05 PM
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It's good that you stick to your initial plan and left after the waterworks. You would be setting yourself up for more resistance in the future if you let on that you could be manipulated by those tears. Good work.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 12:05 PM
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Bro hang in there man. Talk to some other women and she may come around. Happened to me recently. Had to put this chick on ice due to attitude and a week later I get a text saying how much she misses me and wants to know when is the next time we can get together.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 04:37 AM
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Great post man. You made me realize I meh too much. Probably 80% I am teasing her about something. I actually had a woman yesterday, first date, say "you are an asshole, but I like it." I will say that this is an improvement from my BP days but I need to include a little more Pull to counteract the Pushes. They aren't banging down my door like they are yours and part of me wants that from them... an eagerness to please.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 04:34 AM
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Idk. I keep things brief and direct. I told her where I want to go. I blew off her telling me her ex worked there, asking if he was the guy pushing 55 years old. Frame is still in my hands. If I sense bullshit while I'm there I'll just end the date and move on.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 10:07 AM
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I wasn't planning on staying more than 1hr to 90 min. Not a ton of sexual back and forth with texting beforehand so it will be a challenge to see where I can go from pool
/r/askTRP14/01/18 10:05 AM
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It seems to me to be a good test for what I'm getting into. I like yourself cannot deal with past ex drama. I almost got burned unexpectedly by a plates ex trying to ruin my business this past fall. Thought they were divorced. Only separated. And very recent at that. This dude lost his fucking mind. Today may give me a chance to sniff out any bullshit early on and ditch her if necessary.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 10:01 AM
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Yes. I agree. Today could be a shitshow but what's the worst that could happen
/r/askTRP14/01/18 09:57 AM
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Exactly my thoughts. I picked the location. She said pick another place. Without asking why she told me her ex worked there. I'm going through with it. If anything it'll be a learning experience
/r/askTRP14/01/18 09:56 AM
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Ha. I know. Brought that up when she called. She only had to drive 1.5 miles. Took over 45 min
/r/askTRP12/01/18 03:46 AM
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Thanks man. That does make sense. She did seem pretty timid/submissive and her reaching out to potentially get rejected doesn't seem likely.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 09:36 PM
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Yeah. She said she wasn't too familiar with the area, yet it is the most popular cafe in town. I would consider another date but wondering the best approach from here? It left off with her apologizing. I plan on not texting her until she opens again and asks for a second date.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 09:14 PM
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Like patrice always said, it's your responsibility to bring them up. Yeah them how to behave
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:41 PM
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First date. Like I said, I literally stood up to leave and she called. The red pill has taught me well. But she threw a wrench with the "being lost" business. Wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:40 PM
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Haha. Definitely doesn't lead directly to a fuck close, but I need to learn to suss these women out before I dive in. To much drama in the past.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:39 PM
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Haha. I had that same thought as I was driving away. "Maybe she will learn her lesson"
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:37 PM
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The business casual guide hidden somewhere? I just read a post for 10 min on silhouettes
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:11 AM
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I live 50 miles away from a big city so it's not as dense as tinder.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:22 PM
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Yeah. Best plates come from bumble.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:53 AM
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I never said I wanted to get into a relationship. I have a few other plates myself. That's why this text caught me off guard. She already knew this
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:30 AM
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Perfect. I have been only textin logistics and flirting/teasing here and there
/r/askTRP06/04/17 07:32 PM
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It was the farthest thing from my mind.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 07:16 PM
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Good check man. I seen a few posts on the red pill abt how "k" is a good response to when she starts accusing/talking shit to express how u don't give a fuck abt her emotions.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 05:58 PM
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Exactly. As if trying to force me into giving a fuck abt what she does when im not around.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 05:55 PM
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I like this response. As the redditor below stated, k might sound like I'm upset
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:39 PM
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It caught me off guard because that link she sent was abt some event in VT. So I busted her balls abt how she wants to go on a road trip already after only one date. I have no intention of monogamy and believe I never gave off that vibe. But I do like what u mention as it gives me another perspective on this.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:38 PM
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Another side note: when she asked what I'm looking for on second date, I told her non-exclusive dating
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:28 PM
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This is probably your biggest problem. Until I discovered that death grip was a thing I never knew I was doing it to myself. If u have to do it m, go buy a fleshlight
/r/askTRP24/03/17 12:35 PM
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That was what I was thinking. Better to avoid going into her process of how she did it?
/r/askTRP17/03/17 02:00 PM
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"Women have integrity amnesia"
/r/askTRP02/03/17 02:17 AM
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Woodworking. Archery.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 12:24 AM
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Central NY resident here. No insurance. Want to get blood test. I do not have a primary care physician. How should I proceed?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 01:17 PM
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Why hasn't anyone addressed the biggest issue here? You day you r moving in together in one week? DON'T. This is the biggest mistake of this whole story. Fuck the sidebar for now. Get out of this living situation. Only live with your woman if u guys are maaried or plan to get married within the next 6 months
/r/askTRP20/10/16 01:24 PM
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Don't do it man. It may seem nice because you guys are comfortable since you see each other so much. But speaking from experience, fucking a coworker is not a good idea. I was fucking her for a few months after working with her for less than a year. She wanted a LTR, i didn't. End of fucking. Fast forward 4 years later and she is just now not being a cunt. And this is partly due to her just getting married. Why add extra nonsense to the workplace just because you are developing oneitis?
/r/askTRP18/09/16 12:43 PM
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Thank you!
/r/askTRP18/09/16 04:46 AM
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Give the ketogenic diet a try. Been on it since July and I am now the leanest I have ever been while maintaining the same weight as when I started. Strength suffers a bit, but cycle it after a few months and then add in sweet potatoes, legumes and rice for a few months. Check out mark sisson and the primal blueprint.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 12:53 PM
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Ho. Lee. Fuck. That voicemail sounded exactly like my ex. The tone change. The threats. Only thing missing (which you may have gotten) was another VM 10 min later of her screaming with rage, then another one 10 min bawling her eyes out apologizing. Good move man. Hopefully you didn't get her pregnant. That was my biggest fear.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 06:43 PM
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This!
/r/askTRP29/08/16 11:59 PM
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I can only locate the 2005 version pdf. Any hints on how to find the 2015 pdf?
/r/askTRP25/08/16 12:55 PM
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Wow. This is exactly my situation. I'm 28 and just recently had to break it off with this woman (31). I had lost that primal "I'm gonna tear you in half" fuck urge and wasn't craving sex as much as she was. Really strapped down on disciplines for past 6wks. Gone keto (to hopefully raise test lvls). Improved sleep hygiene and getting ~8hrs. Powerlifting. Trying to no fap but giving in once a week. Thought by now my hormones would be raging but i still don't have that solid focus of setting up dat…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 10:58 AM
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This.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 12:41 PM
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Man I balled like a bitch when i made the decision to put our family dog down. No one wanted to be the one to do it, but i couldn't take her suffering in bed anymore. Never cried so hard in my life. Uncontrollable. But looking back I don't feel less of a man for acting that way. Grew up with the dog from 5-20 yrs old. Just let it out man. Go on a drive, walk , bike and just get it out. The pain will lessen eventually.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:29 AM
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Preach my brother
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:22 AM
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I may have talked a little too much, but ultimately I pulled the trigger like you said
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:21 AM
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Ended it tonight. Sat down with her. *lessons learned: -always be up front about what you want from jump. (Since she never reciprocated the question of my intentions of dating, i never told her.) If she doesn't ask you back, you still gotta tell her. -if a woman has been good to you, but you feel you need to break it off, be a human being, show some respect and talk with them. TRP has been good to me but sometimes going dark isn't always the right move. -act on your gut as soon as possible. The …
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:21 AM
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Ended up having the talk tonight. Went exactly as I figured. Confessed she was going to tell me she loved me the next time I saw her. Didn't help the guilt I had for breaking up.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:15 AM
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Boredom yes. Fear of becoming intimate has never been a problem unless I have a gut feeling of not wanting to be tied down in a monogamous relationship. Then I pull back for sure. Emotional fortitude is definitely something I need to work on, but that is for other aspects of dating. Mainly approach anxiety. I'm having a problem with this situation because I feel as though I allowed for this pain that is about to be bestowed upon her
/r/askTRP09/08/16 02:40 PM
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Never got the vibe. First date she dropped that she has been Internet dating for 5+ yrs. Relationships here and there. At the time of our first date, she claimed to not have had sex for over a yr
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:39 PM
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Deficiency? Do explain
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:38 PM
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Purposely prevented all of those because I did not want to get serious. Being semi new to implementing TRP, why is it so difficult to just go dark? Feels full of douchebaggery, especially to a good woman
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:18 PM
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Touche. God damn I have some work to do.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:11 PM
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Exactly. I was religious abt TRP back in feb/mar/apr and tbh I have never felt more alive than ever before. Confidence and understanding started to grow in every aspect of life. Now I feel 20% of that.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:10 PM
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I feel a talk is the right thing to do. Credibility and honesty are what I strive to work on.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:08 PM
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Now ready to settle down. Still feel that deep urge to explore and experience. Companionship depends on the individual. For the most part I am a loner. Learning to accept it, but also take action when I feel the desire for company
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:05 PM
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Change positions. Start talking dirty in he ear. You will focus on what fucked up thing to say and less about your dick. Also, like a few others have said, after you go for a certain length of time you break through a wall and now you can go until YOU decide when you want to blow.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 02:46 AM
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Listen to the first episode of the Black Phillip Show. Patrice breaks down how he doesn't mind "not fucking" but he does kind "can't fucking." She got what she wanted from you. Charge it to the game and keep her dangling behind but pick up another plate
/r/askTRP10/04/16 05:38 AM
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I was just hit by this by my best plate yhe other night. After sex and pillow talk she was getting dressed and made the comment out of the blue how she doesn't like that she has to share me. The thought that she doesn't know when another woman was in my bed earlier that week constantly bugs her. I looked her straight in the eye and told her that I was up front with her weeks ago about my situation with dating and if she cannot handle it then she doesn't have to come back. The she hit me with a t…
/r/askTRP08/04/16 06:37 PM
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Perfect response. Just sent it now. We will see how this plays out.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 02:43 PM
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Apocalypse opener?
/r/askTRP26/03/16 03:45 PM
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That is perfect. She caught me off guard.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 05:56 PM
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Possible that she wasnt prepared as it was only the second date. God damn Idk how to break it off if the pussy is always that bad. She is like a bunny/deer
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:41 PM
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Gotta prep for that shit
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:38 PM
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Dicarlo escalation ladder id link the reddit thread but i dont know how
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:36 PM
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Stopped the Facebook method after a week. Only pursued 4 women with this technique. Got 2 numbers. But they both ghosted when I tried setting up a date via text.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 12:45 PM
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This is what I'm running into. Trying to generate interest from nothing is too time consuming. I'll give it another few days. Got on tinder today to feel it out for my trip to Columbus for the Arnold. Hoping to pull one hook up for the 5 days I'll be at the event
/r/askTRP29/02/16 10:35 PM
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It's been really slow. I thought about commenting on a post of hers but then thought it displayed too much effort and partially creepy
/r/askTRP29/02/16 09:24 PM
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So much of social media is for their validation. I have just recently realized this but I see it as an opportunity to spit game in free time. I was wondering how to generate interest from nil by contacting over Facebook instead of tinder knowing that she is single. I'll report back
/r/askTRP29/02/16 07:32 PM
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So much of social media is for their validation. I have just recently realized this but I see it as an opportunity to spit game in free time. I was wondering how to generate interest from nil by contacting over Facebook instead of tinder knowing that she is single. I'll report back
/r/askTRP29/02/16 07:32 PM
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Online Dating Profile Question For sites that do not have you fill out details about yourself (tinder) should you add in your height in the tagine area or omit it completely unless asked? I'm 5'6" and working through switching my attention off of my height when it comes to approaching women. I have in the past brought up height in text before date to avoid a shock. Is it smart to throw this out there or does it come off like an insecurity and set myself up to be ghosted?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 01:51 PM
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I believe it is useful based on context. In this situation asking why displays bitchassness. As the late Patrice O'Neal would say, if you find yourself with a bitch that is trying to argue her point or think her feelings are righteous, you always just ask why. Then when they babble and stutter because they never actually rationalized their actions themselves, it gives you a good example to show them that their stance is horseshit.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:56 AM
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Ah A fellow Beige Phillip listener. There needs to be a BP show forum
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 01:14 PM
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Thanks Steve. I find myself reading to many field reports add though I'm living vicariously through them. I am looking for a solid routine and structure to start from. I'll begin with your suggestions
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 05:20 AM
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What do you mean by this? I'm new to TRP. What are the best posts to start reading
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 04:26 AM
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Very inspirational. I have been starting my day reading FR with a cup of coffee. Best motivation there is.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 01:10 PM
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I like simple. Been using "this means we are pretty much boyfriend and girlfriend now" as an opener on tinder as per success stated on these threads. Has worked multiple times but this is so much faster. Question: once you establish the yes and a date/time do you continue convo? Where in this are you grabbing her number, when she agrees? Are you no contact until the date once everything is set?
/r/askTRP
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Keep us updated. I have a feeling I may be in your shoes soon
/r/askTRP
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