Bookworm115 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	I wonder why women just lose interest in me It’s not exactly you they lose interest in….its just you aren’t clued in to respond to them emotionally because your fear, insecurities and anxiety are getting in the way. Do you have any strategies for dealing with anxiety? Try the 5,4,3,2 1- sense test where you think of 5 things you can touch, 4 you can taste 3, you can smell e.t.c basically it’s meant to short circuit you from your worries as you realise your senses. Also the 4 sec breathing in and 8 sec breathing out- it’s a breathing exerc…	/r/ExRedPill	23/06/25 09:01 PM
1	Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest? Could the case not be made that the current situation is both a side effect and reflection of the impact of capitalism upon dating and relationships in general due to high costs of living, major wage inequality, rises in mental health issues,lack of housing as well as people not being able to have the time needed to have positive relationships due to a lack of certain skills that were not fully developed due to possibly bad parenting or a lack of empathy and appreciation during childhood?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 12:15 PM
2	How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship? I have been single for a while due to wanting to focus on self improvement and self care (unsuccessful but still trying) I have no idea if I’m Red Pill, Blue Pill or Black Pill as I haven’t ever subscribed to the content or ideologies associated with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 02:29 PM
2	[Q4M] ... more specifically MGTOW. What was the breaking point? Was there a woman that caused it? Is there a woman that got away? Would you change your view for the one who got away? Hi there, You can send me the pdf and I’ll buy it from kindle. Thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 03:09 PM
1	[Q4M] ... more specifically MGTOW. What was the breaking point? Was there a woman that caused it? Is there a woman that got away? Would you change your view for the one who got away? Hi there, You can send me the pdf and I’ll buy it from kindle. Thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 03:09 PM
2	[Q4M] ... more specifically MGTOW. What was the breaking point? Was there a woman that caused it? Is there a woman that got away? Would you change your view for the one who got away? What is the title and author details?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 01:26 PM
1	[Q4M] ... more specifically MGTOW. What was the breaking point? Was there a woman that caused it? Is there a woman that got away? Would you change your view for the one who got away? Let us know when it gets published. I’m sure it will be interesting to read.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/22 03:02 AM
1	[Q4M] ... more specifically MGTOW. What was the breaking point? Was there a woman that caused it? Is there a woman that got away? Would you change your view for the one who got away? Let us know when it gets published. I’m sure it will be interesting to read.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/22 03:02 AM
5	[Q4M] ... more specifically MGTOW. What was the breaking point? Was there a woman that caused it? Is there a woman that got away? Would you change your view for the one who got away? Let us know when it gets published. I’m sure it will be interesting to read	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/22 03:01 AM
0	If women gave genuinely good relatiomship advice to men, then boys raised under single mother households would have the best dating outcomes. Unless those fathers had seriously bad relationships with women due to mental health issues, childhood trauma and other factors which would prevent their children from gaining decent advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/21 08:40 PM
2	Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship? From personal experience, it has happened to me a couple of times. I generally think it’s an individual thing as it entirely depends on background, upbringing and who they are influenced by in terms of friends with similar attitudes or who have experienced similar behaviour from other people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 02:13 PM
1	If the idea of being denied sex in a relationship is wrong, then why is it wrong that women won’t lower their standards to be with men they’re not attracted to, while at the same time risking their own sexual incompatibility? I think I get where you are coming from, but, self improvement for someone else can also backfire if that person emotionally abused or breaks up with you as you might lose all your confidence/motivation plus fall back into negative patterns?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/21 04:17 PM
1	If the idea of being denied sex in a relationship is wrong, then why is it wrong that women won’t lower their standards to be with men they’re not attracted to, while at the same time risking their own sexual incompatibility? Thanks. Hopefully things will improve. All the best to you as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 09:37 AM
2	If the idea of being denied sex in a relationship is wrong, then why is it wrong that women won’t lower their standards to be with men they’re not attracted to, while at the same time risking their own sexual incompatibility? It’s particularly difficult when living on the bread line so to speak. Plus getting back into a full on exercise routine is difficult enough as it is without the depression and gad kicking in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 09:26 AM
3	If the idea of being denied sex in a relationship is wrong, then why is it wrong that women won’t lower their standards to be with men they’re not attracted to, while at the same time risking their own sexual incompatibility? Generally speaking, Long term mental health issues, being in long term low paid roles and, at the moment, a return to unemployment due to employment issues with my former workplace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 09:14 AM
12	If the idea of being denied sex in a relationship is wrong, then why is it wrong that women won’t lower their standards to be with men they’re not attracted to, while at the same time risking their own sexual incompatibility? If we take the Barb/Bob example at face value, then no, Barb shouldn’t accept Bob due to the lack of connection between them after a few dates. I wouldn’t say it is down to Bob being ‘below average’, instead I would simply say that there was no chemistry between them. Then again, I’m probably not one of the males who complains about not being attractive to women as I’m self aware of some of my issues and don’t actively date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 08:57 AM
1	Should a man worry about his GF's exes if they all ended the relationship with her Have you considered the possibility that by thinking about the reasons why she was dumped by these other men, it might poison or influence you to see her in a negative viewpoint? If you have strong feelings for her and value what you have with her then perhaps it would be better to keep her past in the past and don’t be insecure about it. The likelihood is that she was extremely unlucky or made bad choices in terms of previous partners and they dumped her because they weren’t compatible with her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/21 03:40 PM
8	This is the reason why shouldn't date multiple people at the same time and use the other one as an option. Could this not be considered a general reflection of dating culture in general? Don’t misinterpret my viewpoint, I feel this type of situation should never occur as it is degrading, unfair and seriously horrible and I definitely have full empathy for the people (regardless of gender) who experience this type of treatment where they are ‘the second option’. However, what can be done to change it? Educating people as to how avoid this situation would have been useful when I was a teenager but it n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/21 12:09 PM
1	"A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing. A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything." I mean you could be correct in terms of the lack of relationship experience but then again there is no guarantee of finding one loyal partner when young. A lot of single people could have had multiple partners, or many casual flings or simply been incompatible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 12:37 PM
1	"A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing. A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything." Not necessarily. The single person in their 30’s might just be career focused,rather than impacted upon by trauma, being a sociopath or unable to socialise properly due to lack of confidence or a mental health issue. Not everybody follows the standard pattern of marrying young.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 04:23 PM
1	What do men mean when they say they want sympathy for their dating issues? Enjoy the upvote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 09:57 PM
1	Why do so many men lust after the "goth" aesthetic/lifestyle? Personally, it would entirely depend on the person. Some people go for the aesthetic or being unconventional and rebelling against mainstream culture. Some people feel like it is a way of embracing self identity and empowering and celebrating their differences. Some believe goth/alternative individuals are more sexually liberated or ‘easy’ than mainstream people (I haven’t noticed any differences)	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 11:21 AM
1	Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not? Personally I don’t have a problem with casual sex. What I have a problem with is cheating. There have been times when I have turned down women because they wanted to get ‘freaky’ but they were either seriously drunk, had boyfriends, or both. I personally have never engaged in casual sex but I can see how it could be fun if both people are single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 09:24 PM