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If she seems keen then feel free to talk away dude. No need to play games. However if you're somehow oblivious to signs like some dudes seem to be... don't be messaging her paragraphs if she's replying short answers. And don't reply instantly ALL the time. It's fine to just leave your phone for a few hours here and there. Try and keep it relatively balanced to how often she's replying if you find yourself wanting to reply all the time. Or if you're pretty chill about it just reply whenever you w…
/r/seduction19/10/18 10:41 PM
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If you don't mind me asking, why did you break up? And tbh dude, as someone who years ago kept trying to be friends with an ex for months after breakup... it's never over until you stop talking to them completely. BUT... I know this is the kind of thing you need to realise yourself... so my advice would be if you absolutely must meet her would be to do nothing special. No lines or tactics how to seduce her... Simply work on yourself, all that time you'd spend with her in a week just change that …
/r/seduction19/10/18 05:47 PM
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You guys are split for a reason dude. Cancel the date, start looking for other chicks. And 99% ex's can't be friends, and you 2 certainly don't sound like you're in the 1% that can.
/r/seduction19/10/18 05:12 PM
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You're definitely over thinking dude. And neveeeer say something like what you're wanting to say there... assume she's interested and pick up on the cues if she's not. You can't ask her to tell you if she's not interested... that's well... kinda lame tbh. Just say something like.."Cool, how's Sunday work for you? I know this awesome little coffee(sushi/steak/whatever) place if you're game" Edit: Also... busy this week is usually a soft no. But hey, you may as well give it a shot
/r/seduction10/10/18 12:30 AM
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If you really doubt yourself a lot (everyone does at some point), work on your self esteem bud. A book that reeeeally helped me was Feeling good by Dr Burns. Therapy might have been a better shout tbh... but I was too awkward to even go to that 😅. Best of luck anyway!
/r/seduction22/09/18 12:37 AM
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You got any examples of what they're talking about? As the other poster said it's likely you're sounding like you're tryna come off as smart.
/r/seduction22/09/18 12:26 AM
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Every girl wants to feel they look good. They're not gonna wear shittier or less provocative dresses just cause they're taken. Also some people don't like to be too presumptuous, like if you were in a relationship and a random girl walked up to you to say hi and you go "I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND"... would you feel awkward saying that off the bat? Not knowing what she wants?
/r/seduction20/09/18 12:17 PM
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It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship man. If you're feeling bad more than you feel good with her that's very wrong! Hell even if you feel bad more than 5%-10% of the time that's a bad sign. Of course some there's some exceptions especially if a couple is going through a rough patch or one is depressed or something. But this sounds like neither of that, it sounds like a girl with some issues that doesn't respect you or your relationship. I think you might need some space to think about ho…
/r/seduction15/09/18 11:31 AM
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I mean it's probably not a shit test. And if it is a shit test then it's a really shitty thing to do. Lose/lose scenario imo.
/r/seduction14/09/18 02:01 PM
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Sorry dude, but I'd take her word for it
/r/seduction14/09/18 01:58 PM
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Yeah mate, I don't believe in using mind games with women, or tryna make yourself seem a certain way. Just be confident, show your interest without seeming like the kinda guy who would be bothered by rejection (Aka confidence).
/r/seduction13/09/18 09:11 AM
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The easiest way to get someone interested is to BE interested in them. Ask what you want to know about them, make comments you think you think are amusing, talk about what you like a little! I use to think I was shockingly boring as well, I basically use to only game and gym, didn't watch sports or anything. But I've found out that girls actually really thought I was interesting just cause I was happy to learn about them and listen, and was generally enthuastic and happy about my quiet life. Des…
/r/seduction12/09/18 12:47 AM
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I don't think success or failure matters as much as you think it does. For example I use to be a horrible.. horrible texter when messaging girls. I'd feel awkward and stupid and spend ages trying to think of perfect lines. Even though I was ok outside of tech! After a whoooooole tons of convos and rejections and noticing what worked I started finally getting confidence... knowing I was getting better and THEN I started seeing results. Its the exact same approaching people. You've just got to acc…
/r/seduction02/08/18 12:54 AM
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If you actually like her then keep doing what you're doing and forget all the seduction shit. If you're only wanting sex from her then you need to make that clear. Actually I heard a good one the other day where a dude said he'd get up to the point where they're just about bang.... like in bed grinding and stuff and then he'd mention not wanting a LTR right now while the girl was really turned on. More often than not they'd agree even if they seemed to want something more. Anyway, best of luck O…
/r/seduction23/07/18 03:22 PM
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"To test her interest".... no... wut. If you're interested show it. Otherwise she'll just think you don't give a shit and lose interest herself.
/r/seduction23/07/18 03:10 PM
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Yah, don't do that. It's not helpful for either of you even if you think you want it now. Give it time, try not to look for anything for a while until sex with other people sounds more appealing... Good luck OP! :)
/r/seduction11/07/18 12:51 PM
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This seems like overthinking a bit too much. She likes him, he's not gaming her like a cold approach. A normal reaction from her would be flattery, NOT a robotic "Oh. This man is clearly trying to manipulate the conversation into a sexual talk" I'd say OP should do whatever he wants and have fun with it. Being afraid to say shit like this would be silly and more importantly.. not fun.
/r/seduction03/07/18 01:09 AM
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Yeah she sounds really into you, I seriously doubt she'd have a bad reaction to it!
/r/seduction02/07/18 11:38 PM
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Imo it sounds like it would have been weird to make a move there anyway. I mean you maybe could have asked for her number or something when you's were dressed but... ah well. I wouldn't beat yourself up over that one OP.
/r/seduction02/07/18 11:32 PM
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Personally I'd say go ahead and use it. I use to be socially crippled until I discovered alcohol. Tbh it was a crutch and I did need it for quite a while to be sociable, but i slowly found that I was getting a bit more confident and ok with people without it. I'm still not 100% confident walking up to new people, but I know drinking helped me to an extent. Experience is still experience imo. Good luck OP!
/r/seduction30/06/18 01:26 AM
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I think it's like... if you uncover something you realise is wrong about yourself, it can be an extra thing to beat yourself up over. I've not read this book before but I'm assuming it has at least some things in common with 'feeling good by Dr burns'... basically, you find out where you're going wrong mentally, but you have to be willing to take the next step and challenge that mentality. You can't just find out about it and give up. These books go through very thorough details how to build sel…
/r/seduction23/06/18 11:42 AM
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Honestly dude I was the exact goddamn same when I first thought about dating and going on tinder and all that kind of thing. Hell when I was 17ish people called me raj (from the big bang theory) because I couldn't talk to a girl without blushing or tripping over words... I think the thing is getting more self confident in general. It's a good start you're coming to subs like this, you're noticing a want and desire to improve and if you keep up that pursuit you absolutely will! But it takes time.…
/r/seduction22/06/18 11:11 PM
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Personally I feel like it'd be shooting yourself in the foot if you bring it up. As long as you're straight with it being a casual, not long term thing I don't think you should mention other girls you might be seeing.
/r/seduction20/05/18 11:41 PM
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