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| 5 | Do you guys make a distinction between fault and responsibility?If you're an adult, you are responsible for your actions period. If a girl has daddy issues or something, yea I don't fault them for it, circumstances in their life most likely lead to them being the way they are. The thing is though, I'm just going to acknowledge that we aren't compatible. I don't hate them, I'm not going to change them, I'm just going to accept that it wouldn't work out and that's that. If a person has issues and is actively working on them and progress has been shown, then th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Women's soccer didn't win the lawsuit they settled out of court and sold female athletes up the river. Why is the media acting like they won the case?They also signed a contract outlining base salary vs bonuses for wins. They took a higher base salary with lower win incentives vs opting for a lower salary with a higher win incentive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 12:47 PM |
| 2 | What part of the dating discussion has this subreddit helped in changing your mind?People would rather just make excuses and cherry pick studies as to why they have no luck in dating than actually going out there and bettering themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 05:01 PM |
| 8 | So I saw this comment on birds and wanted to ask what you thinkThe biggest thing is security and resources. Women have always sought out safety and security as well as the ability to secure resources for offspring in potential mates. What has changed is the nature of security and resources. In our ancestral days, women would always go for physical men as strength was a good indicator of security and the ability of a man to protect his family. Strength also coincided with resource gathering. If a man was strong, he would be one of the hunters to go out and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 03:47 PM |
| 4 | I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't.When the man find out that the baby is not his And how do you find that out? By requesting a paternity test? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:50 PM |
| 23 | I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't.Lol so let's get the government involved to avoid having to deal with conflict? How soft do you have to be to want to get the government involved with your life so that you don't have to argue with your spouse. "I don't like arguing with my wife, please daddy government save me!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:42 PM |
| 3 | I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't.Yea let's end paternity fraud by getting the government involved. That worked so well with the war on drugs right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:35 PM |
| 9 | I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't.The government having access to all of our DNA should scare you WAY more than the chances of paternity fraud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:25 PM |
| 24 | I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't.I personally like it where things are now and don't think it needs to change. You can request paternity test if you so choose. We really don't need the government involved with our lives anymore than what they are already. I understand where you're coming from, but if it's a requirement, that means it's going to have to be governed somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:04 PM |
| – | Why are men shunned for playing video games if the dating market is so bad?Video games are fine so long as they don't control your life and prevent you from doing what you need to do. Oh and if a woman shames you for playing video games. Ask what she does every night from 6-11. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Modern women are choosing the lesser of two evilsQuestion: Do you think more women sleep around now because of the benefits or because it's just more socially acceptable now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Modern women are choosing the lesser of two evilsI agree with you that weight is a prevalent issue not even limited to gender. However I do blame Americans for being overweight. We really are lazy. Yes the food overall could be better and it is cheaper to eat shitty foods. But that doesn't make it impossible. Gyms are readily available and can easily offset the American foods that are shitty. I mean hell, I love pizza and burgers. Are they good for me? Fuck no. But I'll also workout 5-6 days a week and stay active. What you eat is extremely im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Modern women are choosing the lesser of two evilsHope their man will never stray ever 2. Be financially indepdent so if he does stray she can leave/protect herself 3. Marry wealthy so even if he does trade up, she's still taken care of You act as if these things are 100% unavoidable. Men don't cheat if they are getting their needs met at home. The majority of Men cheat because of a lack of sex at home. That's literally it. All the dudes here saying I WOULD NEVER CHEAT will have a hard time saying that when they're 40 and the 20 year old secret… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:38 PM |
| 5 | How does TRP view men they perceive as unattractive who date successfully or have a lasting relationship?A couple ways. They could have a lot of money or the girl very much could have numerous insecurities and not know her own "value." Also, TRP is about attitude as well. I know a lot of tall, buff, traditional Chad types that deep down are absolute pussies but also know some scrawny looking dudes that have the mindset of a fucking apex predator. Looks 100% matter, but your true personality will surface at some point in any relationship. While yes these women could leave the scrawny dude, they most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 01:16 PM |
| 7 | This is why we need TRPDudes not getting laid because he doesn't know how to turn his girlfriend on. This is it plain and simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Unironically claiming to be an “alpha male” is patheticThis is the way it is. Self-proclaimed "Alphas" are usually trying to compensate for shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | How many people here were the cause of their relationship ending?I did try to be good at first, but as my options grew, her effort diminished so I said "fuck it." I did what was in my best interest. Can you elaborate more on this story? I'm curious as to what happened. Did she not want to put in the effort to rise to the same level as you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 02:11 PM |
| 7 | How many ppl gone to scorched earth?RP is mainly mental improvement. We preach physical improvements because it help your mental health in ways a lot of people don't understand. But yea, why stay mad at a situation that's not meant to be? I don't even think that it's RP/dating specific but more general life advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:49 PM |
| 18 | How many ppl gone to scorched earth?I don't think it is anywhere near 97%. I'm not close with my exes but I don't loathe them to the point where I can't talk to them or dread being in the same room as them. Why even hang on to that anger and rage? There's no point to it. You need to let go and acknowledge something wasn't meant to be. Why even get mad over someone you don't want to be with anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:22 PM |
| 13 | CMV: Guys being rejected/dismissed for not having a social media presence is a BS, hypocritical thing for women to judge men onGlad to hear women base dating decisions on a reality TV show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as too much communication?Yes. In addition, I think a lot of people (mainly Men) fall into the habit of thinking that they have to stop attracting their gf, wife, etc. You have to continuously do things to reengage that initial spark when you first started dating. It isn't easy always. Sometimes work/life really does just take up a lot of our mind, but it's something to keep in mind. I really like your approach though because it's a much more positive solution compared to "why am I not getting laid honey?" which comes of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | There are 3 types of “Nice Guys”:3) isn't a "nice guy" and is more of a "Good Man." Dont be a nice guy, be a good man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 03:59 PM |
| 0 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?I've literally just asked what your thoughts were. If you think that's "hostile" then you're just soft. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 11:15 PM |
| 0 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?“I dont like what you said and dont want to go into detail because i have no argument” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:13 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?You do realize that some women willingly assume these roles right? There are women out there that enjoy staying home and taking care of the household and kids? You're assuming I'm coming from a POV of forced roles. You can do whatever you want with your family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:13 PM |
| 0 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?Then how about saying what you disagree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:09 PM |
| -1 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?Try biology and evolution dating back to our ancestors. Men were always hunter/gatherers while women in the tribe stayed back and nurtured offspring. This was when we were apes and prior to any formal government. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:08 PM |
| 0 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?Traditional roles were most beneficial for the children. Which again, is a big part of LTR's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:02 PM |
| 3 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?Men aren’t men anymore and women aren’t women. Both sexes are trying to be more like the other and are getting disappointed when they dont get the results they want. Boys are being taught from a young age to be more emotional and to be more like girls than embracing boyhood/manhood. Women are being more dissuaded now from the traditional “stay at home” roles and to pursue careers as thats what guys look for most. Now before I get downvoted to oblivion, there is nothing wrong with pursuing a care… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 08:54 PM |
| 0 | Do you think "sexbots" will change anything if they actually become mass produced, close to realistic and cheap enough for anyone to afford? (hypothetically speaking, this is still science fiction at this point)No it wont change things or it will further induce mass depression. Humans, both guys and girls, need intimate physical contact with other humans. You can make the robot as realistic as possible, but you'll deep down still know that it is a robot. Shit you may be able to have kinky AI robot sex, but IMO it wont change the need for that human connection. This is for both guys and girls as well. Because people will be essentially masturbating their lives away with sexbots, there is going to be an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:53 PM |
| 28 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?Youre way overthinking it. Mistreatment is shit like beating your dog or cat. Or anything of the like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:47 PM |
| 24 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?If you have to ask then they are mistreating them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Why do some people see a decline in SOI with ageTBH there really shouldn't be any decline at that age. That is when you should be most active. A decline is probably due to poor diet, lack of sleep, and lack of exercise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people see a decline in SOI with ageComfortability. You have to do less to attract your SO because you're already with them. The initial spark and fire is there but it is much dimmer. Also factor in decreasing testosterone levels as well as job stress and it is very common for there to be less sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do people here think men dont reject women for their height?5'6" is too tall? Where are we getting this information? The majority of men just want someone who is shorter than them, period. Whereas women predominantly want taller men as more of a status symbol. Listening to my mom talk to her friends about a date she had and the conversation revolved around how tall he was. Not whether he was attractive or what career he had. It's insane how obsessive women are about height. Seriously I don't know where this topic came from because men do not nearly rejec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 12:57 PM |
| 2 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Because genetics means nothing if youre a giant pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?The hypothetical is if they don't settle what would happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:20 PM |
| 2 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?You don't get how studies work do you... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:16 PM |
| 5 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?There are literally studies that show fatherlessness affecting crime rate in kids and adults lol http://www.rochesterareafatherhoodnetwork.org/statistics https://www.ojp.gov/ncjrs/virtual-library/abstracts/single-parent-families-cause-juvenile-crime-juvenile-crime-opposing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?No because those kids would be raised by a mom alone which would cause weakness still. Sure the kids would have the build of a D1 athlete, but he'd be an emotional trainwreck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:06 PM |
| 3 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?The absence of fathers leads to an increase in crime rate, poor scholastic performance, and a less overall income. But yes, let's compare the united states to the poverty capital of the world to justify our arguments. Boys that grow up without fathers have lower self-esteem (weak men), act out with negative behavior (get in trouble with the law), have difficulty bonding, and are emotionally distressed (get stressed over the simplest shit). It also negatively affects women as they are more likely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:02 PM |
| 3 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?It's going to turn to shit because there is going to be a mad dash for women in their 30's to have children and if they "never settle" they're going to get knocked up by some Chad that doesn't stick around. This is going to lead to a whole generation of boys raised by single moms which is going to create a living hell in 20 years time. The absence of father figures really will kill society. It's crazy because a lot of women will/always have settled, so the idea of not settling anymore is terrify… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnybody here do martial arts? There's something extremely satisfying about learning to hit and learning to get hit that lifting weights doesn't provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Why "just be yourself" is the best dating adviceAdvice like what OP wrote infuriates me. It's almost shaming Men wanting to better themselves. "Oh you don't like lifting weights or working out so why do you do it if it's not truly YOU?" Because it gets fucking results and leads to a healthier, longer life. Most "Alphas" that we see pulling ladies and living a good life on tv have done something at some point to better themselves so it's fucking stupid to think otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Why "just be yourself" is the best dating advicethe only men who disagree with this advice are the ones who don't believe that who they are is sufficient to be an attractive mate. The men who disagreed with this advice made changes to themselves and started getting better results. Humans are an adaptive species, especially males. If we're doing something that isn't working, we change it up until we find something that works. If you keep doing the same thing expecting different results, then you're delusional. Certain traits and qualities are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?I think there is a difference between "I want to fuck your brains out" and "Can we have sex now?" lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 03:15 PM |
| 2 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?It was very sexy. Didn't date him very long. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 03:14 PM |
| 2 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?It's a lot less forward and awkward Girls want forwardness and don't want somebody awkward. Just express what you want and she'll tell you no if she doesn't. "Don't be forward" is terrible advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 03:12 PM |
| 2 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?Like most advice from women on here, you say one thing yet will practice another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 03:02 PM |
| 3 | CMV: I believe SOME redpill claims are negatively impacting the mental/emotional well-being of most people today.OP is just projecting his own insecurities about manhood. It's textbook "nice guy" behavior. "All men around me are assholes, I'm the good guy that never gets laid." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 01:39 PM |
| 2 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?men take sounds gross and rapey. In life, Men go after the things they want. Whether it be jobs, hobbies, or women. If a women is into you, she wants you to be dominant. It shows your strength and confidence and reaffirms to her that shes making a good decision. Also the difference between "gross and rapey" and "Hot and sexy" is if she is into you. It's only wrong if you don't read her signals when shes not into you and you keep pressing it. Also just because you have a gf, doesn't make somethin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 01:30 PM |
| 4 | In a world where everyone stopped aging at 25, what would the dating market look like?Resources would be the driving factor in things. Dudes younger than 23 would have 0 prospects unless they made a shitload of money. Gyms would be full, and men would be a lot more competitive with each other in the SMP. There would be no wingmen trying to help your bro get laid, it really would be a competitive market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 01:22 PM |
| 7 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?Because it shows a lack of confidence. Women want someone who knows what they want and go and take it. If she's into you, she'll fucking love it if you pull her close and kiss her. If she doesn't like you, she'll say no and back away. The issue today is a lot of men are taught that without explicit consent there is no consent at all. So you have guys asking straight up "can I kiss you?" and it just kills the mood. Men take, boys ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesAs a women loving red piller, have you found peace in it all? I'm curious what your journey was like as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesThen they havent really accepted the red pill if they are still vindictive. You have to accept that things are the way they are and find peace in it. If someone is still vindictive it means they still wish things werent the way they were hence they havent truly accepted the red pill. Just my thoughts. Like I was angry about everything at first, went MGTOW route for a while, then RP, and after a while you just accept that things are the way they are. There really does come a certain peace in that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesIt is a framework, but too many people try to treat every situation as an absolute. Many guys have no luck with women, go to TRP, get better with women and then hold on to the same vindictive attitude and treat women like shit and think relationships are BP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm fit and muscular and workout a lot. I told my GF that I like girls with muscle on them. She was shocked at first as many women feel that men don't like muscular women. She's fit and thin now but wants to put on a little more muscle and I'm strongly encouraging it/helping her do it. For me personally though, a girl needs to be fit and active. I don't like the "naturally skinny but dont do anything" vibe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 01:39 PM |
| 6 | Weren't things in the past as repressive for men as well ?More Men were MEN back then. IMO the 80/20 rule wasn't in full effect yet. You know why? Men literally couldn't afford to not be Men back in the day. If they weren't the traditional masculine, stoic male, they wouldn't fit in with their work group, they wouldn't make money, and they sure as hell wouldn't reproduce. The advancement of society and technology has allowed for placated men to still live a relatively normal life, minus the woman aspect. Work from home, gaming, entertainment, etc. has … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 01:27 PM |
| 6 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesI should have clarified that it is different with women who put out quickly for others but not for you. But if she only has had sex in a relationship, and has a low n-count, i feel there should be some wiggle room. I agree that if she hooks up quickly with other guys but not you, fuck that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Getting into a relationship with a woman who is slim and college educated is hard, period.Hit the gym and become "not slim" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:55 PM |
| 10 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesI never understood the putting out on a first date belief of TRP. For a hookup, yea it comes down to wasting your time, but if you want that girl for a LTR, she should be selective. I think the belief that women should put out on a first date boils down to sexual frustration and a personal insecurity more than anything. Like "she wont have sex with me on the first date. That must mean im not an ALPHA CHAD, fuck!!" It's a toxic outlook on life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:21 PM |
| 129 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesAn issue with TRP is that there is often no middle ground with things. They refuse to believe you can be in a relationship AND have sex lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:05 PM |
| 6 | Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom?seriously. This is the keyword. Lot's of people go to the gym to maintain fitness level, destress, etc. and that's great! But if you want a jacked/shredded body, you have to be religious about it. You have to go so often that it's just part of the daily routine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Triggered by a confident woman.My favorite date right now How many people are you actively dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 03:36 PM |
| -3 | RedPilled men: What qualities in a woman would it take for you to agree in good faith to an exclusive relationship with a girl.The good wife aspect is tough nowadays. A lot of girls will not take that submissive role as society tells women that it's oppressive to women. But in reality some of the longest lasting, happy relationships are the traditional, man lead, woman follow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Triggered by a confident woman.You might not be, but the "I know my worth" talk really does not sit well with a lot of guys. It truly does come off as arrogant/boss girl. Maybe look inward at the perfectionist thing though. I too was a perfectionist and it made things with relationships difficult. You're constantly searching for "The best" while not appreciating things you currently have. That's not to say you can't have standards, but try to recognize something good and focus on building a good relationship from it. For your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 03:29 PM |
| -1 | Society is producing good fathers and unfit mothersDisagree. I'd argue it's more society is producing bad fathers than unfit mothers. The fact that a lot of kids today are effeminate and over emotional shows more a lack of a strong father figure than a lack of a good mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Triggered by a confident woman.Confidence is good, but being an "Alpha Woman" will certainly have it's drawbacks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 03:19 PM |
| 27 | RedPilled men: What qualities in a woman would it take for you to agree in good faith to an exclusive relationship with a girl.I love all of this as I feel the same. I made a comment and something to me that really strikes deep is Faithfulness like you said. Faithfulness goes a lot more beyond "Don't sleep with someone else." To me it also means being defending your husband when you aren't with him. At girls night, there's no shit talking me. And I'm not saying there isn't the occasional vent that everyone has, but rather the stuff such as "Boompa is so dumb for believing in this principle." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 03:16 PM |
| 3 | RedPilled men: What qualities in a woman would it take for you to agree in good faith to an exclusive relationship with a girl.They need to essentially possess the qualities of 3 different roles: Good Friend: Can we hang out together and have fun on dates? Do we have similar interests? The conversation needs to flow easily and I need to be able to enjoy their company outside of the bedroom. Good Wife: Could she be good wife material? Sex needs to be good and regular. She needs to be loyal, and I'm not just talking faithfulness. Loyalty includes defending your husband and his principles when you're out with your friends.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 03:07 PM |
| 3 | if your partner did gain a lot of weight and looked significantly more chubby, would that be a deal breaker ?And whats worse is the excuse of “idk what to do at the gym” Like I will literally help you. If youre serious about your goals of getting shredded or fit, i would love to help in that journey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 11:09 PM |
| 26 | if your partner did gain a lot of weight and looked significantly more chubby, would that be a deal breaker ?I dont understand people who workout just to attract others. Like you should be working out for your own health and life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | if your partner did gain a lot of weight and looked significantly more chubby, would that be a deal breaker ?If I can hit the gym consistently, you can too. So much this. Also not a whole lot of effort is involved in maintaining weight and staying healthy. Literally just go to the gym 2-3 times a week and be conscience of what you eat. If youre not a 5-6 times a week person like me, thats fine. But just take care of yourself thats all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | META-ANALYSIS: Many studies show that adult virgins (and late bloomers) are unpopular, bullied, ostracized, socially isolated, have low status, etc.Im saying that sometimes people are virgins because they are fat, unattractive, and anti-social. These are also all reason why people are bullied. Im arguing that someone is more likely to be bullied for these reasons rather than being just a virgin. A fit, attractive virgin wont get bullied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 02:36 PM |
| 120 | META-ANALYSIS: Many studies show that adult virgins (and late bloomers) are unpopular, bullied, ostracized, socially isolated, have low status, etc.Question: Are they bullied because they are virgins? Or are they bullied because of the qualities and characteristics that have lead to them being virgins? I'd argue it's more the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Are LTR's with high levels of attraction even possible anymore?I used to obsess over certain girls and would get those tingly feelings. It's weird because with most of those you know that a relationship would no way ever work out due to differences of character, beliefs, etc. It definitely comes with maturity. Being able to recognize what would and would not be good for you and to look past just physical attraction is a huge part in finding happiness. That's not at all to say looks don't matter, but in 20 years, are you still going to be able to go out to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.Thats all true, lol we just wanted you to elaborate. Also, everyone has a different definition of "good." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.And it's honestly more simple than women think. Have the qualities of a good friend, a good wife, and a good mother. The alpha girl boss attitude doesn't really sell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 05:13 PM |
| 2 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.You still haven't classified what makes them "good" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 05:09 PM |
| 8 | Simply checking boxes isn't what makes a man.Recognize that most depression is temporary and a result of current circumstances. Shit job? Put the work in and get a better one. Are you bored? Go do new hobbies. Unhealthy body? Eat better and workout. I think what OP is getting at is that you need self awareness as to why you are depressed and to take the steps to rectify it. Turn that shit into a motivator. You dont need someone with 3 letters next to their name to prescribe medication to you. Life, liberty, and the PURSUIT of happiness. Ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/21 04:00 PM |
| 2 | I'm perfectly straight but genitalia bothers meBlind biological urges You mean how we're literally meant to be? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/21 02:08 PM |
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