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get help
/r/seduction29/09/22 08:45 AM
2

Things that didn't happen more than a few times is now "I have sex between 50-100x a year"
/r/seduction29/09/22 08:45 AM
2

This 100%. Nice to see non hot takes for a change.
/r/seduction13/08/22 07:56 PM
1

You’re still using “alpha” as a compliment.
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:18 AM
1

What happened with those? The apps were useful in their infancy but have since mostly morphed into a dopamine rigging scam run by shitty algorithms coded by brogrammers and most of the sites owned by one corp - IAC.
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:28 AM
2

That’s too bad. I would become a radical joiner of all groups with any appeal to you, from: book clubs, climbing, hiking, yoga, volunteering etc.
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:23 AM
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Museums
/r/seduction01/08/22 03:50 AM
2

Worst idea. Anything to do with dating apps - which are mostly owned by one company - is a terrible idea.
/r/seduction01/08/22 03:50 AM
4

Your attitude needs fixing, you sound very sorry for yourself
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:30 PM
1

Sad little man you are
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:24 PM
2

I think it’s ok to start calling them political enemies now.
/r/seduction03/07/22 01:47 AM
2

You deleted her number after 24 hrs, that’s silly
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:41 PM
10

Also works for non Gentiles.
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:05 PM
20

No sympathy
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:55 AM
1

Ask a stupid question
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:04 AM
7

It’s interesting because I have seen countless comments from women who do not feel the same way. You do you, but I just don’t think women are as honest with each other as they are to themselves.
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:40 AM
4

Such an important point that every male of every generation but the last generation learned the hard way.
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:37 AM
3

This is how it’s been done for millennia. And it worked out ok for generations upon generations upon generations. And yes, we have progressed as a society and that’s good. But it doesn’t mean the entire ineffable history and logistics of romance get re-written in a generation. And before the consent-tards start freaking out, read the signals and DON’T do this if you think you have it wrong. But even if you do get it wrong, you’ll be shut down real quick and take the L as a lesson and accept grac…
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:29 AM
-1

Let me blow a few minds - The friendzone is BULLSHIT, a handy get out for inept guys to excuse their lackluster abilities.
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:52 AM
1

Exactly this. Yoga was just a suggestion. Like most things it needs to be consistent to succeed and that requires a level of genuine interest/dedication/commitment that is hard to fake.
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:30 AM
1

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being the only guy in a yoga class doing yoga. Looking and leering are not the same. If you’re “leering” you’re doing it wrong.
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:28 AM
1

This 👆you need to actually do the thing, not just fake it.
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:24 AM
2

You’re not supposed to go to the yoga studio with the rainbow flag if you want to meet girls.
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:20 AM
150

Take yoga classes. 9/1 ratio
/r/seduction05/06/22 06:36 AM
0

Please. You must be young. Texting is just one form of communication and a poor one for the task at that.
/r/seduction30/05/22 04:22 PM
1

You’re not an outlier. Most people are busy or distracted. OP’s advice is presented as fact when it’s borderline. He also unironically uses the word “simping”, which is always cause for concern.
/r/seduction30/05/22 04:18 PM
2

I think you’ll find going to bars on the weekends is for amateurs
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:20 PM
2

It’s generally well intentioned but kind of meaningless advice and sometimes detrimental. Which self
/r/seduction17/07/21 12:15 PM
1

And women still don’t understand how men can get mixed signals.
/r/seduction17/07/21 12:12 PM
3

This was not smooth. Kudos for going for it but you need a better plan than this.
/r/seduction11/07/21 08:23 AM
4

Kudos on #7. So many guys don’t get this. Kudos on one of the better posts here in a while.
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:05 AM
2

Read the room
/r/seduction21/06/21 05:24 AM
2

You are a terrific writer. Good luck on your journey, somehow I have faith you have soaked up the right lessons.
/r/seduction09/06/21 04:54 PM
1

It saddens me this even needs to be said.
/r/seduction30/05/21 11:56 PM
1

If you’re good looking it can. If not you have more to do
/r/seduction28/05/21 01:00 PM
2

Well said. I didn’t see anywhere how these OLD apps have been designed are designed to be addictive
/r/seduction23/05/21 03:01 PM
1

Read the room.
/r/seduction22/05/21 04:35 AM
9

This is a lot of words to defend a concept that doesn’t exist. The “friendzone” is a fiction that guys write for themselves. Be more interesting, assertive, informed, and observant and you will realize the friendzone is just an excuse.
/r/seduction07/05/21 07:07 AM
0

What world are you living in shaking hands? Makes an otherwise wholesome post just disturbing
/r/seduction29/01/21 07:19 PM
2

I don’t think that’s necessarily so either. One of the overlooked aspects of the ‘seduction community’ is its pretty much gospel that self improvement is at its core. Becoming a better more perceptive and empathetic person are key to the process. So observation, open listening and understanding. These are essential traits of an effective seducer. Even if they are only ‘tactics’ they can improve the life of both seducer and seducee who generally enjoy a higher level of connection than people not …
/r/seduction20/01/21 03:34 PM
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I think it’s unfair to judge a seduction forum for discussing in detail seduction techniques and experiences. I think if you were in r/relationships you might have a point
/r/seduction18/01/21 06:26 PM
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New Zealand
/r/seduction17/01/21 07:48 PM
11

“Shocked, shocked I tell you, to learn of seduction techniques in r/seduction”
/r/seduction17/01/21 07:48 PM
1

Lol it’s amusing to watch you flail. You’re defending adults talking like children like it’s some sort of virtue.
/r/seduction26/12/20 07:30 PM
1

“Meme word” is not a thing. But you just confirmed yourself as a deeply insecure, confused, virgin. And you tell other people to grow up. Off you fuck child.
/r/seduction26/12/20 05:02 PM
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If you use language like: simps, cuck, beta/alpha, npc - odds are that person is struggling with those things.
/r/seduction23/12/20 05:15 PM
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Well you’re in luck r/frugalmalefashion should have the answers. Be aware of the groupthink around certain classic staples like OCBD’s, etc. Use the guides to get the basics down. Very helpful are color matching guides - what color top works with what color pants, etc. Also dig into galleries on certain celebs or figures whose style you admire for concentrated inspiration you can get pointers from. Start being a sponge generally and looking at the details of what makes someone “stylish”. Lastly,…
/r/seduction21/12/20 03:44 PM
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This is a small post but one of the more useful and practical posts
/r/seduction19/12/20 01:15 AM
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Another wall of comments and upvotes repeating the bromide ‘don’t shit where you eat’ or variations thereof. If you’re not her direct report, supervisor or a regular co-worker, go for it. I lived to regret the times I did not pull the trigger on a willing co-worker. I never regretted the times I did and had a total blast as did they. Sometimes conventional wisdom is wrong, sometimes it’s right. Don’t get involved with co-workers, sure that makes sense, but it’s all about context and the individu…
/r/seduction26/11/20 06:01 AM
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Why in the hell? Single mums are great and up for it. What is the issue?
/r/seduction26/11/20 02:13 AM
1

Absolutely yes. What are you even doing on the internet? Go now. Do it as soon as possible. Also, work relationships are fine. Ignore the knee jerk “don’t shit where you eat” crowd. Sure it can be more complicate but as long as she is not a direct report or vice versa you should be fine. Just make sure to be open about it with HR if it does develop.
/r/seduction08/11/20 11:59 PM
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“Toxic liberalism” lol, nice try
/r/seduction23/10/20 10:27 AM
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r/confidentlyincorrect
/r/seduction23/10/20 10:16 AM
2

Good for you mate. Small victories add up. Consistency works. Be interested, read. You got this man.
/r/seduction19/10/20 06:58 PM
3

improve yourself and change the way you think and talk about yourself and your life will change. Continue to call yourself dumb and ugly and nothing will change.
/r/seduction19/10/20 06:16 PM
2

Par for the course dude. Don’t beat yourself up. Take it in stride, move on. Their loss. Next time tho don’t have a big planned conversation, you’re bound to lose it the moment things go off plan. Rather have an opener and then just observe and react carefully. As others have said if they’re turned away from you, giving monosyllabic answers, pull the rip cord and eject. Do it politely tho. But pat yourself on the back for going for it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
/r/seduction19/10/20 10:12 AM
1

I had a partner like this. It was frustrating AF. It’s like if I read it 3 times I can get the gist of what you’re saying but I’m having to work 3x as hard.
/r/seduction13/10/20 07:08 PM
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I like to think of myself as a highly intelligent fool.
/r/seduction13/10/20 07:03 PM
2

I think Bill Gates said something similar about if you want to solve problems efficiently ask a lazy (smart) person. Then again Bill Gates missed the internet revolution, so...
/r/seduction13/10/20 07:00 PM
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Dude. How can someone with this level of intelligence actually write this poorly.
/r/seduction13/10/20 05:11 AM
2

Context is important. Trump is the most famous person in the world who is a self confessed sexual assuaged. That’s the only reason it’s relevant. Is it a funny joke? Nah not really. About as funny as Trump’s 3min ‘joke’ about injecting bleach. Unfortunately you can’t see it because you’re now a part of the Trump cult. You have bought the lie.
/r/seduction05/10/20 05:46 PM
2

There is one of those bullshit seddit documents with a semi serious sounding title called the something something escalation ladder you can find it online.
/r/seduction05/10/20 09:32 AM
5

Imagine being such a sensitive baby that you can’t take a related joke about someone the world sees as a sexual predator. As in don’t do what he famously claims to do. It’s good advice frankly. Also and related, imagine getting your advice from Jordan Peterson and thinking Libertarianism is anything but a stalking horse for far right corporate oligarchs to rid the world of pesky regulations. Grow up.
/r/seduction05/10/20 09:26 AM
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This is an important point. The notion of consent got extremely fucked up for high school or college age kids in the last decade. Of course you’re not talking about forcing someone against their will, but the asking thing is often just stupid and an effective mood killer. You just need to read the signs and if it’s a go, ie reciprocated, then act. People saying you need verbal consent in advance every time live in fantasy land. The world just doesn’t work that way. However you need to understand…
/r/seduction05/10/20 09:20 AM
1

You have to use deduction and intuition. You rarely know nothing about a person you’re going to meet. Use that as the basis and build on that. Research them if you need to. E.g. If someone’s into tattoos, you are ready know a lot about them. Def dont say ‘you’re into tattoos’ say ‘I see you’re into the Black Dahlia, I too am interested in gruesome unsolved murders from the early days of Tinseltown!” And now just vamp until you find a groove and you’re off to the races. Common thread found and no…
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:35 AM
2

I think it helps to have a lot of interests, they don’t even need to be passions, just things you keep up on. Passions are great tho because you can just wax on until they look at you funny and then blow it off with ‘I’m terribly sorry, I got carried away with myself...yada yada. Please tell me what’s blowing your mind currently...” Critically tho I think it’s digging deep enough o find the common thread. a quality of great communicators is they find that commonality and use it as a bridge to bu…
/r/seduction14/09/20 05:04 AM
5

Issues with conversation, “what do we talk about” posts are surprisingly common. Dudes, just be an interested and interesting person. No other work necessary. You could talk til your last breath if you have enough stuff going on in your life.
/r/seduction11/09/20 07:38 PM
3

By just doing it. Don’t overthink. Good habits build the man. If you want to be a carpenter DO IT. don’t think it to death. Become an apprentice, a handyman, go to trade school. What stopping you?
/r/seduction04/09/20 04:55 AM
2

I have to back you Ms Fem. As a man, I don’t believe secure, confident, sensitive, sensible men are threatened by Feminist women in the broad definition of that word. I think they embrace it as a powerful asset and aspect of their crush/lover/partner being an empowered person. I do agree that the US media/consumer culture and the industrial dating complex has done a real number on society making a lot of people very confused.
/r/seduction31/08/20 09:16 AM
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This feels to me less like a strategy and more like common sense. So it’s always a surprise to see it framed as such a grail revelation. Be the best version of yourself and fuck all that remonstrating and genuflecting over women and women will naturally be drawn and attracted. In essence, it’s the old meme “be attractive” but with a way to achieve that. But it’s always good to be reminded of this.
/r/seduction27/07/20 02:16 PM
1

“Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn” This is great. Heard it before but must never forget. Such positive framing.
/r/seduction21/11/19 06:50 AM
2

I’m gonna agree, so timid and frames your approach as an intrusion. Better to go with Hi/Hello... I just noticed your chihuahua is being eaten by an ocelot.
/r/seduction21/11/19 06:48 AM
1

Nice feedback.
/r/seduction21/11/19 06:45 AM
8

You just gave yourself your own answer - “if I have a topic I’m interested in I can talk very easily”. Get interested in a lot of things. What are the girls you like interested in? Is there overlap? Be a well rounded person with lots of interests and you will never be short of conversation. Being interested and interesting is very seductive. That’s the first part. The second part is becoming conversational. And here’s the good news, being a great conversationalist is much more about active liste…
/r/seduction21/11/19 06:44 AM
-1

Wow this is an abominable thread filled with man boy/virgins who have no clue how women work. Def out of here.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/09/19 06:32 PM
-15

The sad thing about this guys comment and others defending this - who are essentially in incel territory as some have pointed out... this girl was attempting to flirt. So in his desire to stand up for his gender rights he denied himself the pussy.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/09/19 04:20 AM
-10

New here but you’re right, that was a slight push, potential flirtation by the girl and way out of proportion overreaction by the guy.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/09/19 04:17 AM
5

You’re probably getting some desirous side eye from the dudes :)
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:30 AM
32

I’m pretty much rolled up sleeves every time I’m in a shirt (ah California). First I heard this was a thing. Guess that explains the 24/7 poontang parade.
/r/seduction01/09/19 06:41 PM
7

Let me just interrupt you, for no good reason, crash and burn, then celebrate what I have not learned.
/r/seduction29/08/19 01:28 PM
1

First step on your journey is to learn the beauty of paragraphs. Otherwise there is good advice in this thread.
/r/seduction26/08/19 05:06 PM
2

Glad i could bring a smile to your shiznit 🤙
/r/seduction19/08/19 08:17 PM
2

Advertisers doing their job! But yea that’s pretty gross. Appreciate the post.
/r/seduction19/08/19 06:07 PM
6

One unrelated comment on Dog food ads. It’s designed to appeal to humans. Humans buy the dog food...
/r/seduction19/08/19 04:30 PM
1

“Solid ancestry” what does that even mean
/r/seduction18/08/19 08:25 PM
1

Pay better attention
/r/seduction04/08/19 05:27 PM
16

Or what you shouldn’t have texted
/r/seduction10/07/19 11:56 AM
1

Jesus dude, it’s so hard to tell if you are trolling us all. Pretty sure you are, And no they don’t... “My next video will sweep her off her feet...” There’s your problem.
/r/seduction26/06/19 11:00 AM
1

I think you may be in too deep. Theory can become overwhelming and paralyzing, which is causing you now to act impulsively (“going with your gut”) Gut is more in the moment. When you are alone you have time to strategize, but again don’t overthink. As a rule you absolutely should not be sending sexual emojis this soon, and the other stuff just made it extra weird and inappropriate. Awesomely weird and entertaining but not effective. You def gave her some laughs, probably months worth of replays,…
/r/seduction25/06/19 05:02 PM
3

Hats off sir. This is the work of a mad genius troll and I salute you. If this is genuine, I suggest you take Costanza Approach and just do the opposite of whatever your instincts tell you henceforth. Good luck!
/r/seduction25/06/19 04:43 PM
2

Joking right? You got me
/r/seduction25/06/19 02:26 PM
20

Stop using Pokémon analogies and you will probably meet more interesting people.
/r/seduction20/06/19 05:50 PM
2

Men do that as well, without getting arrested
/r/seduction26/05/19 04:33 PM
2

Ok dude, forgive the misunderstanding but from the general detail and rigor evident in your post, the point still stands. You appear to be asking for input. That’s my input and it still stands. I think you’re in too deep and need a break. You may benefit from some fresh perspective. Plus one of the rules of life is that shit happens when you least expect it, specially when it comes to women. I think you should try doing the exact opposite of what you’ve been doing - nothing. EDIT: zero results!?…
/r/seduction04/05/19 07:59 PM
3

Dude you are taking this far too seriously. No matter your game, this level and intensity of action, + methodical note taking like some kind of actuary is making you sound a little like a crazy person. I wonder if that isn’t creeping into your interactions which could come off very negatively. In other words your very commitment to the process might be poisoning your experiences. I think you need to take a break and maybe visit that brothel like homeboy says. Don’t abandon what you’ve learned bu…
/r/seduction04/05/19 07:28 PM
0

This is the on,y correct answer itt
/r/seduction03/05/19 01:01 PM
1

“Hi... you look just like the xenomorph, want coffee?’
/r/seduction01/05/19 10:12 AM
5

This is such a reasonable yet sad question. There’s really only one real answer. Be interesting and interested. Make yourself better, wiser, more well read, erudite, involved, engaged person. Then you will never be at a loss for words.
/r/seduction16/04/19 01:26 AM
4

‘Friendzone’ is a dumb self harming concept. Don’t buy into it. Humans are fluid not static.
/r/seduction17/02/19 09:23 PM
1

I’ve always advocated this unconventional approach. Nice to get a FR from someone else.
/r/seduction30/01/19 09:56 AM
1

From your post i interpreted it as keeping it there as you did not specify time. Which would be overly familiar and potentially threatening.
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:24 PM
1

Do not lean in and put your arm around a girl you have just met. Sorry that is bad advice, don’t care what results you get.
/r/seduction28/01/19 05:48 PM
4

This guy dates. A+ input
/r/seduction21/01/19 12:45 PM
1

Focus is your friend. You can only keep so many plates in the air without smashing some.
/r/seduction25/11/18 06:12 PM
2

Don’t drink, or drink very lightly. You need to keep your wits about you. Plus you have other guests who will take up most of your time. Be strategic. I.e. have something of a plan. You should figure out early on in the evening which girl is the one to focus on. Ironically, this will probably make the other girl more attracted, so be flexible and ready to pivot if you feel the ardor shifting. Make space for some private 1-on-1 time with both candidates. Make it as sexy as possible. If you’re doi…
/r/seduction18/11/18 03:48 PM
1

It’s always a crapshoot but I think you have to go for it. The question is do you invite other girls you like as well?
/r/seduction18/11/18 07:14 AM
2

I think you’re in the right place. Perhaps rephrase and repost the Q to get better answers. My thought on this is that asking girls if they’re DTF which is essentially the question you’re asking, perhaps not that bluntly, is not nearly as effective as every other approach, ie captruing the imagination, active listening, being a compelling person, engaged in your life career, etc. Last thought the average American has 8 sexual partners in their life. If you’re in your twenties and at 30, I’d say …
/r/seduction18/10/18 07:14 PM
2

why so defensive? I understood and answered your question exactly. What you are asking about is a hard thing to do effectively. There are some contexts where it can work - humor for example is one - but imo direct sexual declarations backfire more often than they succeed.
/r/seduction18/10/18 03:48 PM
5

Takes amazing skill, sense of self and social awareness to pull this off without coming off like a human dick pic.
/r/seduction17/10/18 02:45 PM
-1

Just be nice and not creepy ;) Could send flowers to the hospital if you know she’ll get them. As a thank you for helping with your parent. That might get the ball rolling. Or some other direct gesture is much better than FB
/r/seduction25/03/18 10:15 PM
5

Just be interesting and interested. What’s going on in the world they might be interested in? What can you tell from them or about them? Can you guess their names? Their personalities? Play a game, who is the shy one, who is the brat, the nerd, etc? Did anything interesting happen that evening? How was your Uber driver? Literally anything as long as it’s a good story and you tell it well. Recite a poem. Tell a joke. Challenge them with a riddle. If you capture the imagination of one, the others …
/r/seduction18/03/18 01:03 PM
1

I believe this guy was being real yes. Taking this “negative” and turning into a positive was powerful. But I think it’s a big mistake to put so much power over your state of mind in the hands of someone you’ve barely met or may never meet in this case. That’s absurd but obviously homeboy was having a tough week. However I don’t agree that vulnerability is “stupidity” or “weakness”. Strong people are not afraid to show it. There’s a TED talk on the subject of Vulnerability by Brene Brown that sh…
/r/seduction23/01/18 01:03 PM
3

Dude fix your headline man
/r/seduction06/01/18 02:35 PM
1

This is great. Pithy and on point. What’s with the weird vagina mouth creatures though.
/r/seduction06/01/18 12:48 PM
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Confidence is walking into a room and not worrying “will anyone like me” but thinking “will I like anyone?”
/r/seduction03/01/18 10:44 AM
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