| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2884 | What power shift?? Lies men tell XD Women get BETTER with age | LIES MEN TELL | Boondersnoontch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 03:13 PM |
| 883 | LVM Moocher!! Thank GOODNESS she got some solid advice in the comments to DROP! THAT! SCROOOOTE! | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | Boondersnoontch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 02:34 AM |
| 625 | Violent Sexual Lingo… | TRIGGER WARNING | Boondersnoontch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:33 PM |
| 284 | LVM Are Unable to Have Sympathy For Women. | REDDIT HATES WOMEN | Boondersnoontch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:10 PM |
| 195 | Visions From PickMe Past | MINDSET SHIFT | Boondersnoontch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 10:21 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Some scrotes actually think like this--can you even imagine the privilege to complain about this???please tell me he got downvotes and people telling him he’s a fucking DA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:06 AM |
| 8 | Who else has heard “wear pretty underwear in case you get hit by a bus/car”? So, even when severely injured/dying, women must ensure they’re sexually arousing and visually pleasing the patriarchy. This is not cuteTW: SA:::: A guy pulled my pants and subsequently my underwear down when I was in the fifth grade. Of course I was not doing Brazilian as a 10 yr old. But news spread around the school… thankfully he got in some huge trouble to the tune of sexual harassment and actually ended up changing schools before the end of the year. For years afterwards I had to subconsciously prepare for being pantsed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 02:16 PM |
| 8 | As a woman all you can do is create the oppurtunity for the guy to make his move.facts facts facts love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 12:55 AM |
| 107 | As a woman all you can do is create the oppurtunity for the guy to make his move.This is EXACTLY what I came here to read. Just got back on OLD (I know🥺) And 4 messages in, he’s already responded with a “Yeah that’s true” that killed the conversation and leaves me digging for new material to keep it going. No. If he was a HVM / genuinely interested, he wouldn’t have allowed that to happen when it was clearly his to turn to keep the conversation going. Bye 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 07:08 PM |
| 19 | never stop focusing on youBOBRA THE BUILDER | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 11:15 PM |
| 26 | LVM Moocher!! Thank GOODNESS she got some solid advice in the comments to DROP! THAT! SCROOOOTE!LOLLL A SCHOLARSHIP 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 07:32 AM |
| 71 | LVM Moocher!! Thank GOODNESS she got some solid advice in the comments to DROP! THAT! SCROOOOTE!A SCRUB IS A GUY THAT CANT GET NO LOVE FROM ME | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 05:11 AM |
| 275 | LVM Moocher!! Thank GOODNESS she got some solid advice in the comments to DROP! THAT! SCROOOOTE!for sure. Also I bet you he would decides he doesn’t wanna go on a second date afterward so he never ends up having to reciprocate and instead moves on to the next PickMe. Also, broke men should not be dating. They should get their finances together first. And I wish OP had the self respect to see his brokeness as a turn off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 02:52 AM |
| 28 | Liberal feminism will be the death of womenif he has roofies that readily then he’s absolutely done it to other people. and the fact that she could have thrown up and died on her own terrifies me. dont waste a moment on an LVM. See the signs, LEAVE before it costs you your life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 10:07 PM |
| 49 | One of the BEST feelings in the world is another human being anticipating your needs. I would even argue that someone else’s desire and ability to anticipate your needs is a hallmark of someone who deeply cares about you. And no, it is not the same as “mindreading”.when an ex of mine bought me ear plugs before our trip just in case I forgot to bring them cuz he remembered I can’t sleep at night without them… i still remember how warm that made me feel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 02:28 AM |
| 17 | Angry scrote literally admits that only 25% of men are dateable and women aren’t settling. Proceeds to get roasted by one of our queens 😂DREW IS AMAZING omg her tiktok is the reason why I’m still on that app XD I love her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 02:22 AM |
| 33 | Normalize breaking up because you’re unsatisfied; you don’t have to wait until everything’s burningAny sign of emotional immaturity FOLLOWED BY an unwillingness to understand why what he said was wrong/hurtful is grounds for a break-up from me. Nobody gets it all right but if he’s gonna gaslight / manipulate / shame me instead of owning his mistake, bye. BYE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 09:15 PM |
| 29 | Doctors are performing pelvic exams on anaesthetised women without consent. If you’re going into surgery you need to explicitly state you don’t want one. Stay safe out there.are pelvic exams and pap smears the same thing? ntl, horrifying i think i just started menopause because of this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:27 AM |
| 27 | I’m simply not attracted to noncommittal menLol he wrote you a “let me tell you why your feelings are wrong and you cant stop dating me until I say we’re through” essay? been there done that. they don’t realize how much worse it makes them look and confirms our suspicions that they were no good XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 12:19 AM |
| 31 | looking for examples of hyper-competency and then low-value behaviorI go to (and got my undergrad from) an ivy league university and men will either stop talking to me all together or try and find some reason why I just got lucky and got admitted for any reason other than being smart enough and standing out with my application. They wanna hear me say they could do it to, but I will never let them have that. A lot of “what do you even need a Masters for?” which a HVM would never question the value of higher education in my specific field, its an obvious flow. The… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 02:19 PM |
| 51 | 😕FFS… I— I cant. I just cant. Gonna sit this one out. Just— ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Violent Sexual Lingo…from now on i’m gonna act shocked and say “that sounds painful!” in response to any of those phrases so i can get them questioning themselves and stuttering to justify | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 01:46 PM |
| 130 | Even some men in the comment section were saying that they wouldn't like it if their lady proposed to them but were attacked like anything !as the saying says, i would rather cook rice a grain at a time than propose to a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 05:08 AM |
| 2 | 44 years old with mommy issues🤡 the jokes write themselves atphttps://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ol6d5i/parental_seekers_juveniles_and_baby_boys/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf here’s the link to where Juveniles and Baby Boys were fully explained in this sub! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Violent Sexual Lingo…“workout in that p’ssy aye, i’m getting ripped tonight, RIP that p’ssy” yep. nothing to do with the gym, just rough sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 12:38 PM |
| 67 | A common DM I get from scrotes - “you’ll be forever alone”. Let’s discuss this..do they (men that say that) not have any meaningful friendships? my friends are so awesome that if i were to live near 3/4 of them i would simply forget I was single. The time we spend together is so valuable and meaningful and we are extremely kind to each other. I’m also pretty graysexual so the lack of sex wouldn’t bother me. This threat is as effective as water on a grease fire | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 12:12 AM |
| 8 | Violent Sexual Lingo…ME TOO LOLLL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 05:34 PM |
| 27 | Violent Sexual Lingo…Yep the song Perfect by Cousin Stizz, Miami had a featured rap verse. the rest of the song is equally as questionable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 04:34 PM |
| 150 | Violent Sexual Lingo…WOW mind blown here… so they know it’s a degrading act… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:51 PM |
| 84 | Violent Sexual Lingo…And it’s a shame that lyric is sung by Yung Miami, one of the City Girls that young girls idolize nowadays, so they’re gonna adopt that mentality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:24 PM |
| 10 | You are allowed to eat.This is so crazy and they’ll even do it the other way. I tend to get nervous on first dates which ruins my appetite and makes it really hard for me to eat. I ended up having half my sandwich and didn’t touch the chips. He said “come on you don’t have to eat like a mouse around me”… I ate half! Which proves your point that it’s damned if you do damned if you don’t, they are looking for a way to police your eating habits and make you insecure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:42 PM |
| 362 | 44 years old with mommy issues🤡 the jokes write themselves atpOh my God… Baby Boy ™️ He literally implicated his entire self, “blame my momma”??? Make sure you’ve eaten? At 44? my face might be stuck in this expression of disgust all day because of this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:14 PM |
| 20 | Yet another LV take: “Ryan Reynolds Revealed He ‘Begged’ Blake Lively To Sleep With Him When They First Started Dating And Admitted She’s A ‘Much Better’ Parent Than He Is”this is upsetting i really wanted them to be perfect. was idealizing for sure. great advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 11:18 PM |
| 101 | female athletes deserve better. use this to vet your boyfriend, see if he’s the type to justify this double standard by saying “women’s sports have low viewership & sponsorships so they need to show some skin”. 🤮YOUVE GOTTA BE FUCKING KIDDING ME. IMPROPER CLOTHING???? They’re mad like a bunch of toddlers because they “didn’t get to see some ass”?????? cuz that’s what the fuck that means!!! I don’t think I can look another man in the eye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 11:06 PM |
| 54 | How Media Grooms Women Into Hookup Cultureexcellently well observed and written ✅ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 08:30 PM |
| 23 | How can you deal with celibacy & accept it?they have sucking vibrators 👀👀👀 spencer’s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 08:04 PM |
| 19 | What power shift?? Lies men tell XD Women get BETTER with ageYES! this is queen behavior. always there for our sisters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 08:56 PM |
| 228 | What power shift?? Lies men tell XD Women get BETTER with ageexactly!! they think George Clooney represents them, but Clooney’s character aside, he’s a fucking movie star, rich, famous, and conventionally attractive. I bet you 99% of the men like the guy in the tweet have 0% of those things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 05:07 PM |
| 58 | What power shift?? Lies men tell XD Women get BETTER with age👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 04:56 PM |
| 118 | What power shift?? Lies men tell XD Women get BETTER with agei guess they found out that if they repeated the lie enough people would start to believe it, but we’re here to pop holes in the lie bubble before it gets any bigger 🎈📌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 04:46 PM |
| 3 | "Good Morning" small talk and other irksTHEY’RE COMPATIBLE WITH THEIR CRUSTY SOCKS— SAY IT AGAIN!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 03:59 PM |
| 188 | 🎵If he's married and you know it, just say no,👏👏 if he's married and you know it...or the FDS fairy will put coal in your stocking 🎵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 02:10 AM |
| 1 | LVM Are Unable to Have Sympathy For Women.SEARCH AND DESTROY OMG 🤣🤣 it’s so hilariously horrifyingly true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 09:08 PM |
| 22 | Spotted sneaky red flags in my old messages when I was still learning and analyzing them through FDS lensesThank you so much for posting this and the explanations, I’m over here taking notes!! I’m armed and ready, now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 01:49 PM |
| 11 | LVM Are Unable to Have Sympathy For Women.i’m so sorry that is so rude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 01:33 AM |
| 25 | Return of the city scrotesOOH power move I can’t wait to never say I’m sorry to a man again 😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 10:05 PM |
| 37 | LVM Are Unable to Have Sympathy For Women.oh my goodness I have endometriosis too 🥺🥺 My mouth dropped when I read this, I can’t believe he could be so callous. Ugh. They really don’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 05:09 PM |
| 36 | "How come you are still single?"I was asked this by a men who went on to reveal that he had only JUST divorced his wife 4 months prior and also lost custody of 3 foster children. He was an emotional wreck. Obviously he kept all of that off of his public profile. Men who you are dating who ask this ARE PROJECTING. It’s because they have skeletons in the closet and they assume you must be doing the same. They’re telling on themselves. Run. Like someone else said, HVM don’t ask this because they don’t get intimidated by women or … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:54 PM |
| 5 | Red Flags that indicate he doesn't see you as a fully autonomous personIs he an ex husband? I hate that you have to live like this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 06:46 AM |
| 18 | Vetting Men by their job positionthis is why i as a musician refuse to date another musician; they’re always like this. And they resent women who know more than them and will continue to mansplain even the simplest of music theory just to be an ass and show no respect for their degrees if they themselves are “self taught” and wear it like a badge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 01:19 PM |
| 320 | Wait...what?0% chance that’s him in the picture. The one thing you should know about me is I’m a catfishing, cheating, liar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 06:43 PM |
| 51 | Could there be a more dumpster fire LVM tinder profile? I need to unpack with the FDS ladieswhy don’t they understand these kinds of “requirement” bios turn women off, it doesn’t get us all horned up to try and compete for their fugly asses. eugh. it’s an instant no for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 03:35 AM |
| 142 | Absolutely not. Negging gone wild.this kind of insult is expected from a child. My six year olds (babysitting) talk like this. A grown man?? Should be held fully responsible and accountable. He knew what the fuck he was doing and it was 8000% going to get much worse along the line. So glad she left and ended it there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:32 AM |
| 3 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???LOL at ✨OLD World✨ 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 04:16 PM |
| 81 | Proper posture is sexy!“If a man is too scared to approach you based on your looks, he was never the one sis.” 👏LOU👏DER!!! I used to literally wear less makeup and dress more casually so I would be less “intimidating” to potential suitors (5’9 queen here). Never again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 04:20 AM |
| 26 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???Harry Potter and the Audacity of This Scrote 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 12:55 AM |
| 1 | “What do you bring to the table” is actually a modern question. Don’t fall for it.My mental answer to that question has always been twofold: 1. That’s for you to figure out as we get to know each other / in your own private reflections after the date 2. You should already know, otherwise why did you agree to see me? It’s also just such an aggressive question and instant turn off. I really do think if a man asked me this on a date, I would leave. Would stifle the urge to call him a punk bitch and just leave XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 04:07 AM |
| 60 | Signs you have been benched or 'kept warm' and how to avoid it happening to you“If you feel like you are not a priority to him/he is playing games, it’s because you’re not a priority to him and he’s playing games” TELL IT LIKE IT MF IS!!!! I wish someone had showed this tough love to my pick-me self back in undergrad. I was surrounded by other pick-mes who kept reassuring me, borderline berating me that he was “busy” and I wanted too much… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Just for laughs ladies.THEY HAD ME IN THE FIRST HALF XD Love it XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Unknown signs of abusive and manipulative men that I wish I had known soonerScary stuff. Thanks so so much for these cues. I’m putting myself back out there in August and I feel good knowing I’m armed with this vetting info! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 03:51 AM |
| 26 | The Incels are DeCLaRiNg WaR on Us Again 🙄😒That’s fucking embarrassing. He’s a NVM. Anyways, what y’all want from Wendy’s?… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:46 PM |
| 10 | Your standards are never low enough for a LVMYESSS this energy is gorgeous and life giving! I wanna be surrounded with women like you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 02:51 AM |
| 44 | Your standards are never low enough for a LVMon dates they always come for my hair. i usually have extensions and curl it or style it really nicely whenever I leave my house for something beyond errands. And they complain, “it must costs so much to wear your hair like that, you’re wasting your money, why do you need to do that, meow meow meow. and my question is why are you concerned about what you’re not paying for?? And don’t even get me started on when they neg the makeup. Buddy YOU swiped right. So clearly he thinks I look nice, he jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 02:49 AM |
| 105 | Why are so many men so unhygienic and disgusting?Yep. In my pick-me days I was on a second date and he was coming straight from the lab. Wearing the exact same outfit he was wearing on our first date. (9 days prior) And the soy stain he got on his pants on the first date. was. still. on. his. thigh. messy hair, messier beard. when he hugged me I got a whiff of B.O. And I rationalized that I was special since he wanted to see me so bed he came straight to the date without changing 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 02:42 AM |
| 28 | Learning to Say "No" and Learning to Ask for What you Wantthank you for saying this!!! men always try to terrify us of getting older but this benefit alone makes it SO worth it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 09:32 PM |
| 104 | Learning to Say "No" and Learning to Ask for What you WantTHIS!! When I moved to a new state for grad school this year random men would constantly try the “excuse me mam! excuse me!” and I would always say “ASK A MAN.” I had finally rationalized, why in the world do you need a young woman?? If it’s money, if it’s heavy lifting, if it’s directions, they would naturally rather ask a grown man than a young obviously college age girl. Therefore they must want manipulation / assault. They leave me alone every single time when I say ask a man. One guy lamely… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 02:16 PM |
| 38 | "Porn is just acting! They do enjoy it!"Once again, if it would be considered violent outside of the bed room, why the hell would you want to do it to me in an ~intimate~ setting?? I don’t know how men justify this. It was once called making love for a reason and now it’s… it’s just sad. I’ll never tolerate it. He can leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 02:11 PM |
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