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So it took you five months to find a study that confirms your bias? Is that correct?
/r/BlackPillScience14/11/23 04:21 PM
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Involuntarily fertile childless woman? I said the article was about involuntarily childless women. There are women who would like to get pregnant and cannot- that's what this article is about. Likely women with fertility issues who'd otherwise choose to have a child. Please don't use articles as your citation or "proof" if you don't even understand what they are about. Hot damn, some of the men in this sub have big huge feelings about shit they angrily made up to cope with their own failure to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:39 AM
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Facts don't line up with your opinion, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:26 PM
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So you agree women deserve equal pay? Great! I think so too! Older women needing antidepressants has literally nothing to do with fertility. It's a non sequitur. pro tip: work on reading comprehension instead of bias-confirming headlines. It'll help your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:21 PM
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Keep it up with your revenge fantasy while women enjoy their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:10 PM
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That is about INVOLUNTARILY childless. Of course half of INVOLUNTARILY childless women wanted to have children. Maybe more than half. I am talking about women CHOOSING to be childless. See the difference? Don't distort facts to confirm your bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:53 PM
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"The wall" is a revenge fantasy. Women in their 30's are NOT desperate to be impregnated. The fact is that fewer women are choosing pregnancy. It's a choice. I guarantee if women in their 30's were running around like their ass was on fire, screaming "SOMEONE PLEASE IMPREGNATE ME," men would line up. It's a bullshit male-extremist/Andrew Tate fantasy that women are dying to start families these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:14 PM
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Nothing you said made any sense. You incorrectly defined feminism and seem to be unsure what the patriarchy is too. You're forming irrelevant and illogical conclusions following your list of grievances that in no way whatsoever is a problem feminists are not at all obligated to cater to. I read your comment(s) to my husband and his exact phrase was "I haven't had enough to drink to be able to follow this lunacy." Sometimes "no" is all someone can muster when being faced with an argument as bad a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:09 AM
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well thats what google and chatgpt says, so looks like youre not a feminist , youre a womens rights advocate I never claimed to be anything, but no. if all the expectations are placed on men, and men are the leaders of dating, relationships, they will lead companies and the world we live in, its all connected Also no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:25 AM
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isnt Feminism also about helping men by challenging tough gender norms, so everyone can express themselves freely and equally? -NO. regardless though, if they dont address these mens issues, everything will remain, men will still run and won everything and the patriarchy will prevail -How? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:09 AM
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Feminism isn't a cause to support men. It's like complaining that BLM fails white people. Get it together, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:02 AM
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Me too!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:01 AM
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Why is feminism supposed to address the issues of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:54 AM
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What strategy did you use to decide the percentage has gone up from 33% to 40-50% now? This " scientific study" didn't use representative samples and says they can't tell if it's accurate for women. It also says it could be perpetrated by all genders. Additionally, it states that people who engaged without seeing it as socially unacceptable also scored higher on dark triad tests. It should be no surprise that narcissists (of any gender) engage in this behavior. Your text translates to a lot of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:57 AM
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I've never done that for a boyfriend. I'm married now and usually do the shopping for my husband. He's SUPER not picky anyway, but I've known him long enough that I know what his style is like, what colors he prefers, and what he needs. He chooses what to wear, and asks my opinion sometimes (usually only when dressing up) but other than that, it's all him. As far as controlling- if she never lets him pick out his own stuff, corrects him when he gets dressed into something unapproved, doesn't let…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:58 AM
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I don’t like your comparison, but wanted to say men CAN control themselves. Plenty of men control themselves. Many just make the choice not to, and ruin it for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:03 AM
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I think that's a really great answer, and that it's very reasonable and how things should be anyway. Just wanted to add a couple thoughts. A lot of men ask for a reason when the women say no, instead of accepting it, and it places pressure on the woman to have one that is "valid" in the eyes of her partner. I've seen a post a woman made where her husband kept a SPREADSHEET of all the times he's initiated sex, whether she said yes or no, and then cited on the spreadsheet the reason she said no. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:25 PM
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My husband's ex is in a relationship where she acts that way- and her husband puts up with her shit, we assume because she's like 22 years younger (not very attractive, but way younger than him). No surprise, after using him to support her lifestyle for 14 years, she's moving on and leaving him in her dust. Can't tell you how many people tried to warn him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:51 PM
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With other criminal women. How much you wanna bet that more women in jail or prison have had more sex than women who weren’t criminals?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:23 AM
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So women should know which men are using them, but men have no way to tell when they're being used?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:12 AM
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I was summing up what you said. It's not the man's responsibility and women signed up for it.. followed by women shouldn't do that to men. What you just said about mutual respect was not represented in your examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:11 AM
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Betcha the ladies love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:09 AM
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“Of course, I might eventually buy a woman food, but only after she expressed genuine romantic interest in me” Calm down. It’s a plate of food. Do you see dating relationships as transactional?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:24 PM
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Did I understand you correctly: women are responsible for it if they get mistreated, and women are responsible if men get mistreated?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:18 PM
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Because they don't want to have to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:49 AM
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Thank you! I am aghast by the amount of men in this comment section that are like "women need to do all this for us" as if they're not the most powerful demographic and could just, like, organize and advocate for themselves instead of insisting women do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:27 AM
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Major /r/asablack man vibes. I'm going to bet a woman didn't write this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:49 AM
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Curious where you're getting your stats. Where I live, assets are divided equally between divorcing parties, custody is 50% unless there's a darn good reason for it not to be (parents agreed, or noncustodial is abusive, etc.) and a universal formula dictates how child support is paid and to whom- no gender involved. If you want to buy something that does tricks and follows instructions, get a pet, not another human.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:00 AM
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Debunked study, my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:27 AM
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I guess I'll have to trust "plenty of studies" and your OPINION of the discrepancy between household labor and job labor. If you say it's so, it must be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:22 AM
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Literally everything you wrote here is just an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:07 AM
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What is? Is it possible people believe you hate women because of the way you talk about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:34 PM
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Yeah... I dated a "mama's boy" once and never again. That woman was a third member of our relationship, up my ass constantly, and was actually a huge reason why we split.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:55 PM
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You have a whole lot of big feelings. Hope you're seeing someone to help you work through this. Five seconds into your post history and went "NOPE" and wish I hadn't even responded. Bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:55 AM
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I didn't say the question was why do people have preferences. I'm just saying your argument about short guys being born that way wasn't relevant to the conversation. Throw it in anyway though. We get it, you're the real victim of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:54 AM
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*Convicted crime rate. We all know what happens to female soldiers if they try to report a rape. Come off it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:31 AM
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I dunno, man. What does empathy for a lonely man look like? What does it do? You think lonely men are going to be happy with just a "I see you and understand you're struggling?" It seems like lonely men want more than that. Plus, I don't see many people going out of their way to antagonize them, but holy crap do they go out of their way to complain. Maybe if they changed the tone of their grievances, it would alter the responses they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:20 AM
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Have you actually read any "no short guys" instead of "I prefer tall guys?" Because I haven't. I'm sure it wouldn't get so much pushback if someone said "I prefer slim women" instead of "no fat chicks." One is listing a preference, the other is listing an exclusion. This isn't even much of a man/woman issue. The word "fat" is more derogatory, whereas "short" isn't. I'm sure there would be some objection if someone wrote "No manlets" or something considered negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:13 AM
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And weight isn't always something you can simply lose, several medical conditions exist that make that extremely different. Either way, your argument is irrelevant if we're talking about preferences. "I can't help my height but you can help your weight!" is just another way to perpetuate the self-victimization thing that some short guys have going on, and doesn't touch the topic at hand, which is why people have preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:09 AM
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All my friends expressed an interest in tall men and all but one married a man who's shorter. A preference isn't a requirement. I would make it possibly akin to men saying "no fat chicks."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:21 PM
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Edited flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:09 PM
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And women are the shallow ones?
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 02:27 PM
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Right? Dude isn't even ugly. The pushback on the original argument is because it gives alt-right vibes implying women shouldn't have careers.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 01:36 PM
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Right? As if these women impregnated themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:10 PM
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I agree with you, but a lot of these things on this list that a "group of ladies" made are a)ridiculous and b) there are so many things on there a woman LOVES to do on first dates. I doubt that was even made by a woman or group of women. Some guy wrote that list himself, just to piss off men.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 02:35 AM
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“Maybe your case is not a good example, because we are referring to an innocent woman” was NOT judging me as deserving? Somehow I doubt a man in this sub isn’t an incel or at least incel aligned. Y’all share a brain. I don’t need to provide my testimony when all I said was that I’ve seen the bystander effect in action. I’ve seen it happen when I wasn’t the victim too. My point was only that I’ve witnessed it firsthand and no, “dozens” of people don’t help. I have epilepsy- having a seizure at a …
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 12:11 AM
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So... personality matters?
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 06:10 PM
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Unhinged. Your argument was that “dozens” of people would help the woman. I confirmed to someone else that the bystander effect happened to me when I needed help in public, and you immediately imply I deserve it. Your argument was dozens of people would help a woman, not help an “innocent” woman. Shocker- illogic, appeal to emotion, and goalpost moving from an incel.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 03:59 PM
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This was my experience. I was in a similar situation twice. Don't want to share because I don't need 20 donkeys in my inbox telling me how much I deserved it and saying they wish they'd have broken my neck too, but yeah. You can't count on anyone to help if you need it.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 02:56 AM
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What a way to twist a response. Why present something as an honest question and then argue with women who take the time to answer you? At least present in your OP that you plan on arguing the hell out of whatever women share.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:22 PM
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The theatrics and hyperbole from the men in this sub is astounding.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 12:30 AM
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Can't imagine why someone hasn't snagged your arrogant ass up yet.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 11:48 PM
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Ah, yes.. the men in this sub are certainly the foremost experts on women, and extremely experienced when it comes to dating them. You’d know better than anyone what “all women” are like, wouldn’t you. And women are the emotionally reactive ones. 👍🏻
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 11:15 PM
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“Group of ladies.” Which ladies? How many in the “group?” That’s pretty vague. Can I find four asshole men, have them comprise a list of things women shouldn’t wear on dates, and then post it as rage bait for women? I COULD, but that would be a pretty dishonest and deliberate misrepresentation.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 06:39 PM
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Legitimate question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:47 PM
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NOOo iT’s My LoOkS!! I’M a ViCtIm Of SoCiEtY!!!
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 12:45 PM
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Where and when did women demand that men not have a safe space to combat men's issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:31 AM
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If you look at the world and how it's run and the first thing you think of is misandry, you've lived an incredibly entitled life and take exception to other demographics having the same luxuries that have always been afforded to you.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 05:04 AM
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What do you expect to get for paying for a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:35 AM
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This sub is an incel cesspool. Good luck.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 10:16 PM
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Are men gentlemen these days?
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 05:49 PM
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Yup. It's a revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:43 PM
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"Post wall" married woman here! I can tell you exactly why I visit these subs. It's because I have 3 stepsons who are all aged 18-23, and I also have an eight year old son and a four year old daughter. I am in these subs for a couple reasons: I'm a social scientist and the content is fascinating. I also often lurk in places where political extremists gather. Most importantly, I keep up on the lingo, ideologies, ad beliefs of those committed to the incel culture so I can actively parent my kids a…
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 04:34 PM
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/u/wellimout still want to deny this post exists?
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 03:51 PM
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You’re using a logic fallacy called “complex question” and it’s not cute or clever. You know darn well what is said or directly implied in these spaces. Trying to split hairs, break it down into minuscule micro-points in order to dilute the subject may make you and your peers think you’ve gotten a one-up, but literally everyone knows how you talk about women here. Why not own it?
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 02:34 AM
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So women should have to wear full-body curtains because men can’t control their mouths?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:43 PM
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I see you didn’t quote the part that mentioned studies pointing to the idea that the contributing factors may be 1) the extent to which people view a gender as hostile and 2) a history of childhood sexual abuse. Why haven’t you quoted that? So it’s not that women shouldn’t be in power, as you’re implying. It’s that women (checks notes) view men as hostile, and women are more likely to be sexually assaulted as children. Got it. My interpretation is this is couples, is that incorrect? Because if s…
/r/BlackPillScience15/06/23 05:24 PM
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Yes, straight white men.. the real victims of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:52 AM
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You’ve posted the same Kate Beckinsale shit on like 30 other comments. Woohoo, you found a woman who broke the typical stereotype. What’s your point? No, I can’t find any women who act like DiCaprio because he consistently serial dated women under a certain age and I certainly don’t care that much if you don’t understand why that’s creepy. You’re really only reading to argue if you didn’t see women openly admitting that a couple older women/younger men relationships weren’t cool. Stop cherry-pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:18 PM
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I was responding directly to your comment where you arbitrarily chose one example and decided that some people online (no source) give Al Pacino crap so OP’s entire point still stands while completely neglecting every other example given by commentators. Now it’s MY job to disprove that men “get more shit for dating young women” because other women pointed out the very real distinction between creeps like DiCaprio and the celebrity women who are in a 10-ish year age gap relationship versus men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:07 PM
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OP has gone far past reaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:53 AM
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“OP’s point still stands” because you disagree with one of the SEVERAL examples she gave?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:49 AM
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42, female, married. ALL OF THIS.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:00 AM
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Trust me, as a woman who also lives in the real world outside of Reddit, she’s more than able to find a good man. You come in here asking that question knowing it’s loaded with red pilled creeps, of course you’re going to get skewed answers. All the red pill subs got dispersed so they’re flooding every other sub. The real world answer is that some men won’t want a single mom, but there are more than enough good men to make up for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:41 PM
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So what you’re really asking is how likely your BM is to find another man since you’re still in love with her and want her for yourself? Selfish take, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:58 AM
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You’re definitely a man pretending to be a woman. “Hello, fellow women!” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:55 PM
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Right. Bold of OP to speak on behalf of all women because of two women he knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:51 PM
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This is the most wholesome post and comment section I’ve ever seen in PPD and I’m so here for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:21 AM
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You sound like you’ve never actually met a real woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:25 AM
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Get out of red pill subs and talk to real adult women, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:13 AM
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I would choose the 80% for sure, but I got really lucky and ended up with someone who I’m way more than 80% satisfied with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:03 AM
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Factoring in the subjectiveness of attractiveness, I’ve dated two people that others thought were “ugly” or below me. One was just a small guy with a weird face, but I thought he was cute. The second had an okay face but he was REALLY overweight, balding, and still not in my league even without those factors. I ended up marrying him (now divorced). He’s the one I’ll focus on. We met when he and some friends moved into the house next to my parents. Turns out we graduated from the same school and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:01 AM
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That’s what you drew from the whole post? Mental gymnastics to justify slutting around? Takes a lot of mental gymnastics to come to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:37 AM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:26 AM
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I really think you’re overvaluing height. Also OP said the most “controllable” factor. You can’t control your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:34 PM
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I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:29 PM
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I’m aware of definitions. It’s all in how they’re used. First off nobody uses “retarded” anymore and ESPECIALLY when it’s clearly intended to be derogatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:40 AM
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Where’s a mod? Using autistic and retarded as derogatory adjectives isn’t appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:08 AM
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Ridiculous argument. So if both partners are working full time, putting in the same amount of effort, the burden of all household labor falls on the woman because she earns less? Interesting strategy, let’s see how it plays out. I’ll bet when she divorces him for that attitude and the courts give her half their shit, half their money, and orders him to pay a couple thousand in child support monthly, he will have better appreciated her contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:18 PM
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If you’re going to go take advantage of a woman in a poor country because nobody here wants you, then you get what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:32 AM
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Is English your second language?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:32 AM
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No. No it’s not really that normal. It’s lazy. Once again, you’re taking advantage of women in a bad situation because you’ve got nothing to offer women in a good one. Capitalizing on someone’s needs for personal gain is top tier ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:31 AM
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Talking real talk with dudes who live online and consume nothing but RP content to justify their lack of a life is a really futile exercise, I’m afraid. They’re set in their beliefs and I’d venture a guess their objective in only to be validated by like-minded people, not to actually learn strategies to not be the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:38 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:35 AM
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Actually you’re the clueless one. You’re completely out of touch with reality and obviously consume way too much RP content. Unplug and go out into the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:34 AM
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Because it reeks of “if women won’t be subservient here, I’m going to go to a country where they are.” You’re taking advantage of women in a more vulnerable position. If you’ve got nothing to offer a woman besides “not abusive,” chances are anyone you find overseas will be with you out of necessity. Does that sound fair to you? The point is that average men aren’t needed. So work on yourself and become something positive that a woman wants. If you only want someone who “needs” you, that is a bit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:16 AM
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So your solution is to go to countries where women are still oppressed and choose one there? Do you get how icky that is? What if you just, like, brought something to offer non-oppressed women? You’d rather bore a woman who is limited on choices and stuck, who’s only with you to get out of her situation, than to become a better person so women would actually be interested in you as a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:29 PM
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This is the answer. Women aren’t dating “up,” they’re just living their lives and if a man fits in with her lifestyle, sure. If not, she doesn’t need him. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:23 PM
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Yeah, it’s an incel/red pill claim that’s based purely on “wah, I’m not getting sex, the women are doing something wrong.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:36 PM
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Holy crap, women are NOT “sharing the top men.” Get that incel/red pilled shit out of your head. It’s unhinged insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:14 PM
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If you can’t appreciate her for who she is and what she’s actually interested in, let her go. She sounds independent and you sound like you need a clinger.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:59 AM
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How is this comment helpful and what does the sexuality of the person have to do with what OP experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:55 AM
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My husband and I talk about this sometimes (men hitting back if a woman attacks first). I like his mentality, which is that his hit is going to be a hell of a lot harder than hers because he’s stronger- his MO would be to restrain only. He’s also incredibly strong- last time we went to NY he was mistaken twice for an American Ninja Warrior, and he also has a third degree black belt in taekwondo, so he’s very aware he could accidentally level someone. I can’t say I blame a dude if someone comes s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:51 AM
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I used to and now stay home with my hockey team of children but the curiosity will always be there. I have to say I CERTAINLY hope the men in PPD aren’t a representative sample of the male population in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:30 PM
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Heck yes it would be a dealbreaker. One of the first things I would say was “Oscar was here before you, and statistically will probably be here after you,” and pretty much that they’d better get along or the man was out. My husband made vows to Oscar on our wedding day along with his vows to me. Hard pass on anyone who doesn’t like dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:19 AM
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Came to check it out after I heard about it in another subreddit. I’m a sociology/anthropology/psychology grad and really just like seeing how different minds work. This sub has been pretty shocking to me honestly and now it’s kind of like a train wreck. I just can’t stop looking. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:34 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:21 PM
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What “inherent” issues are you referring to specifically? You keep mentioning the “inherent” issues and maybe you don’t know what that word means.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:17 PM
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No, I can’t get into it if he’s not smart. I could give or take a lot of the qualities you listed (don’t care if he’s tall, dresses well, or handsome, for example) but smart is a drop dead issue for me when it comes to men (before I got married).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:58 AM
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If they were looking for the same things, then absolutely. I had a phenomenal experience with online dating and met some really great people. Ultimately I met my husband and have been happily married for 9 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:02 PM
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Are you seriously using autistic as a derogatory term for people who disagree with you? How do we get an automod on this ableist crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:03 PM
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What do you think you have to offer a young woman that she’d want to give her “best” to a shriveled up, 55 year old man? Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:59 AM
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All “not guilty” means, at least in American law, is that the prosecution didn’t meet it burden of proof. Google it if you need to. It’s a common mistake people not in law make. Not guilty=innocent is a layperson’s understanding of law. A jury or judge has to make their decision based on the facts presented to them, and the standard of proof is very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:43 AM
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Not true. Take a 101 level law class and one of the first things you’ll learn is that “not guilty” does not mean “innocent.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:11 AM
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Sex is about intimacy. If a woman is sharing photos of herself to strangers, that is a far cry from a man getting intimate with another woman. Your arguments seem to lack a basic understanding of the meaning of sex. So what’s your take on lesbians? If one has an OF and the other doesn’t, does the one without have a free pass to sleep around?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:52 AM
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Hyperbolic much?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:18 PM
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If I go out with friends, literally every time. Same if I just go alone to grab something to eat or a drink. Occasionally when I’m grocery shopping. I can’t quantify it with a number because it’s so heavily reliant on what I’m doing and who I’m with. Alone or with friends, it’s probably going to happen. My husband or my kids, probably won’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:12 PM
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Get therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:04 PM
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Okay since I can’t delete, I may as well finish. I was going to say a huge bouquet of flowers, and list a few other sweet things he did, but you get the idea. My dad did some very good things and really bad things. It did affect me. My boyfriends weren’t really chosen based on any kind of relation to my dad. It wasn’t a factor. My first husband was VERY much like him. Not on purpose, but was it a subconscious thing? I don’t know. A lot of his bad traits came out after we were married. I can’t in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:14 AM
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Didn’t mean to send that yet and it won’t let me delete
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:08 AM
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I have very mixed feelings about my dad. He did some incredible things- survived horrible abuse, got a woman to lie about his age so he could go to Vietnam when he was only 17, did a full tour, came back and got a job with the police department without even having a high school diploma. Ended up working at the sheriff department for 30+ years. With his background, he should’ve really ended up nowhere good. But he had horrible PTSD. And he was abusive. Financially, sexually, verbally, emotionally…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:08 AM
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I could write a dissertation on this but will keep it extremely simple. Yes, morals are very important when choosing a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:32 AM
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My husband’s commitment to fatherhood (3 kids from his previous marriage) and the fact that my dog loved him, plus he was so good to my dog, absolutely melted me. He even made vows to my dog at our wedding. I was attracted to him but it quadrupled because of those things, and I can assure you if he had been a bad/absent father or unkind to animals, he would’ve quickly become unattractive in my eyes. I’ve dated men who I originally found good looking and who I couldn’t stand the sight of later wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:57 AM
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Except unimpressive women don’t do that. Unimpressive men do. You’ve got it backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:12 AM
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Women losing their looks earlier than men isn’t true- it’s subjective and dependent on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:11 AM
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Unhinged take.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:06 AM
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Your whole argument is unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:39 PM
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What is NC? In one paragraph you said OF is legal. In another you said it’s a crime. Which is it? What’s your problem with what two consenting adults do with their time/money?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:23 AM
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But they can’t get divorced if it doesn’t work out or if someone is unfaithful, and can’t remarry if the other dies? That’s just insane. It feels like another control mechanism for red pilled men who want to marry toddlers. With a 20+ year age gap, the men are sure to die first (statistically men die first more anyway) and it just keeps women bound to a dead man for the rest of her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:27 PM
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Actually saying “I’m really flattered, but ________” is usually how I start turning someone down. I feel starting with some sort of compliment softens the blow. She could’ve been upset at the loss of attention because she genuinely liked you, appreciated your friendship, and didn’t want to lose you as a friend. Not knowing what you mean when you say you stopped giving her attention, she may have enjoyed having you around. I’ve grieved the loss of people (both male and female) who stopped talking…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:10 PM
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What would be the point of this? What’s the benefit? The 0.4% tax increase? Bragging rights? I don’t get it. What would be the punishment if the couple didn’t want to remain married after becoming “super married?” What if one partner was unfaithful after 8 years? I’m not being snarky, I really don’t understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:33 AM
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I’ve never enjoyed turning down a man regardless of how attractive he is and have always tried to do it as gently as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:25 AM
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Again, I’m not overweight but I think you’re letting your personal views cloud judgment a little. A lot of men do fetishized bigger women, even obese women, and some men prefer overweight women. I’m not going to speak on behalf of all men and maybe most don’t, but there’s definitely a category of men who like their women big. I’ve been told more than once to put some meat on my bones, and was just a very average size 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:01 AM
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I disagree. I’m not overweight but know several people who have had gastric bypass. It was brutal for them early on and all but one ended up gaining all the weight back anyway. I think losing weight permanently is a lifestyle thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:57 AM
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Are you on the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:36 AM
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I understand my experience isn’t universal. Why do you feel your experience is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:20 PM
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No, how you come off is a giant, walking red flag of passive aggression and resentment. 🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 I know there aren’t many women in this sub anymore because it’s been taken over by angry, red pilled men, but to any women left: this right here is what you need to stay far, far away from.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:18 PM
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Don’t you dare use me as an example of a woman who wanted a bad boy. I was 100% duped, and what I was guilty of was marrying a man who used violence to offset his self esteem problems and past trauma but waited until AFTER vows were exchanged. I shouldn’t have given him another chance but when you’re married to a cop in a small town, divorce doesn’t always go well for you. Turns out it went well for me, but that’s for reasons that would take up too much time to explain. I wholly resent being use…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:20 AM
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And for the record, I saw the comment you made about me on the other thread. Don’t you dare use me as an example as a woman who wanted a bad boy. I was 100% duped, and what I was guilty of was marrying a man who used violence to offset his self esteem problems and past trauma but waited until AFTER vows were exchanged. I shouldn’t have given him another chance but when you’re married to a cop in a small town, divorce doesn’t always go well for you. Turns out it went well for me, but that’s for r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:19 AM
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And for the record, I saw the comment you made about me on the other thread. Don’t you dare use me as an example as a woman who wanted a bad boy. I was 100% duped, and what I was guilty of was marrying a man who used violence to offset his self esteem problems and past trauma but waited until AFTER vows were exchanged. I shouldn’t have given him another chance but when you’re married to a cop in a small town, divorce doesn’t always go well for you. Turns out it went well for me, but that’s for r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:18 AM
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And for the record, I saw the comment you made about me on the other thread. Don’t you dare use me as an example as a woman who wanted a bad boy. I was 100% duped, and what I was guilty of was marrying a man who used violence to offset his self esteem problems and past trauma but waited until AFTER vows were exchanged. I shouldn’t have given him another chance but when you’re married to a cop in a small town, divorce doesn’t always go well for you. Turns out it went well for me, but that’s for r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:17 AM
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Didn’t seek or choose. He was nothing like that until after we married. At that point I felt I had something to prove. Once I learned his bullshit wasn’t a once-off, I got out. Some women are threatened. Some women have kids to consider. There are a lot of reasons and it’s usually bad form to blame them for who they choose rather than blaming the person responsible for the violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:00 AM
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I am a very conventionally attractive woman. Every male friend I was referring to is someone who asked me out on a date, and after one or two dates, I didn’t think we were compatible. They were happy to be friends with me and I even babysat for one of them while he went on other dates. If you can’t be friends with an attractive female maybe you should work on yourself. Women have more to offer than just dating/sex and if you feel like it’s either all or nothing, it might be why you struggle to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:07 AM
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You need to get out more. I’ve had plenty of single male friends and I’m not an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:01 AM
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No. Just no. I’ve gone on a date or two with plenty of men who were fantastic humans but not right for me specifically. We remained friends and now, a decade later, are still friends. One man had a daughter when we met and I babysat her while he went on dates. Women are very capable of respectfully having a friendship with a man and not preying on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:50 AM
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Thank you. I’m okay now! When I was dating again I was extremely picky about what I was looking for. My philosophy was to look for a man with no “buts” (he’s great, but…) and when I found one, I married him. It’s been a dream come true. :) Even though I didn’t continue dating some men who had a “but,” many of us remained friends and are friends to this day. One of them even had a daughter who I babysat while he went on other dates. Just because someone wasn’t right for me, doesn’t mean he wasn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:45 AM
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I was young and stupid. He promised it wouldn’t happen again. My bad. When it did happen again, that was it. I’m not proud of it but for the benefit of other women who are possibly in a similar situation, I’ll always tell the truth no matter how embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:35 AM
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Don’t you know, as a woman you’re not allowed to speak freely about what women want in this sub. The men here KNOW what we want better than we do. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:33 PM
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So…. Women can’t have male friends unless they’re willing to date them? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:39 AM
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He put me through a closed door and the force took it off its frame, and then when he (a cop) pulled his Glock on me for the second time, I was done.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:14 AM
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I didn’t have many PPD posts coming up in my feed until recently so didn’t see how bad it has gotten. The past week or so I’ve been kind of pushing back and trying to respectfully share my personal take on things and that’s when these men have come at me and talked disparagingly. I’m close to leaving. It’s basically an angry male echo chamber in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:05 AM
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I used to like it but it’s become a really toxic sub. I think the angry man subs keep getting banned and they’ve got nowhere else to go, so they’re taking their ickiness here. I used to enjoy coming in and learning other positions or ideas, but I certainly don’t like coming in and being told what I like/want and then being argued with when I correct it. I think a lot of women have left because it seems predominantly male here now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:30 AM
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Considering the downvotes I’m assuming men are getting uncomfortable and thinking “women don’t think that way! They think the way we claim they do!” …forever alone. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:42 AM
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Exactly. I’ve also been known to grow more attracted to a man over time if he has a great personality. Conversely, I’ve met men who I’ve thought had potential right up until they opened their mouths and then it’s a big nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:49 PM
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If I weighed 110lb I’d be wearing children’s clothes. I ride horseback and have a denser muscular system. Before I had kids I weighed 140 and could fit into a child’s size 14/16. Now after two kids I’m 150 and still considered small.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:55 PM
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I agree with you, but I’ve found this sub seems to be for men telling women what they think/how they feel rather than taking their own word on it. I don’t like conventionally attractive men. I like a man with interesting, different features. I prefer shorter men, too. When I see a man who is considered conventionally attractive, my first instinct is to stay away because whether it’s true or not, I just assume he’s cocky and arrogant, which is a huge turnoff for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:46 PM
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I didn’t prove your point, I thought your comment was in response to the original post. It was a misunderstanding. You didn’t have to jump at the opportunity to throw in insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:08 PM
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Please don’t speak on behalf of all men. Pretty gross take on things. Curious how men would react to being told that women want newer, stronger models and are bored with your little noodle after two rounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:29 AM
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What? OP asked if there were any women who prefer taller men but ended up with a shorter one. To paraphrase what I said: “I can only speak for myself” but I prefer shorter men. To add more thoughtful content to the question OP posed, I did share that my friends stated a preference for taller men but they all ended up marrying someone shorter. Can you tell me what part of that allows you to make broad generalizations about women, and what part sounded defensive as if I was waiting to pounce on so…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:21 AM
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Do me a favor and give me two examples you gave of how men put in an effort. I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:54 PM
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What examples did you give? Is meeting on a date your idea of an effort? I actually think you’re probing mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:12 PM
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What did I say that was so offensive that it warranted that? I was speaking for myself and my personal experience with my own circle of friends. I didn’t make broad generalizations about all women, like you guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:09 PM
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No, she’s probably not. What I drew from that is that men and women are looking for different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:05 PM
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I’ve never had a height preference, but if anything I prefer shorter men. I like hugging and being able to rest my head on his chest or shoulders. I don’t want to hug a torso/stomach. Height hasn’t ever been a factor when I was choosing a partner. My group of friends happen to mostly be tall women- around 5’10-5’11. They were all wanting a taller man when we were younger, and now every single one of those tall women are happily married to men shorter than they are. I can’t imagine a woman not gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:34 AM
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I think that’s the point bro- women who are newly widowed they’re not immediately looking to “get” a new man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:10 AM
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How do you know we don’t see those things? Those weren’t the variables that were tested. You’re just assuming your opinion is fact based on personal experience and bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:20 AM
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Then instead of explaining why men don’t (or shouldn’t) put in effort, maybe support your claim by explaining ways they do put in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:16 AM
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Your opening statement was that a lot of women complain that men don’t put in an effort and then said “that’s just not true.” Your supporting sentences didn’t demonstrate ways that men put forth an effort. You only explained why men don’t; essentially breaking it down to it’s not worth it since the “only thing you get out of it is a loss of energy.” I feel like your argument isn’t that men do put in an effort, since you didn’t show ways men do. You just explained why they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:12 PM
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Sorry, your experiences and observations aren’t universal, nor are they fact. My experience as a woman, and having a bunch of friends who are also women, contrasts your experience. I still wouldn’t present my experience as fact and it’s pretty short sighted for you to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:45 AM
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I can’t get past this idea so many men here have that women go for the top 20% of men. Where did this originate? Who came up with this stat? Why do men in this sub specifically present it as fact? I’m not even being snarky, it’s just so curious to me. I can only speak for myself but before I met my husband, I was a chronic friend-zoner. It didn’t have much to do with attraction but instead what I know about myself and who I’m compatible with. Some were great men and very attractive too. I genuin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:51 PM
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So your argument isn’t that men ARE putting in effort, you’re just justifying why they don’t. Got it. 👍🏻 Edit for the person complaining for a mod: I challenge your statement because you started off saying it’s not true that men don’t put in an effort, then went on to explain why men don’t put in an effort. Your explanation challenges your own statement, as you went on to explain why men don’t plan nice dates, then continued with more reasons why men don’t and shouldn’t have to put in an effort.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:04 AM
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Your experience isn’t universal. Also your views of attractiveness aren’t universal. The couples I see, regardless of age, are usually matched up well physically or else the woman looks out of the man’s league. But I wouldn’t come on here and say that’s the concrete fact just because that’s how I see it. Pretty bold of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:23 AM
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Ooh, edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:23 PM
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“No one” being redpilled men or incels? It’s pretty audacious to try to tell women their own motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:46 AM
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It may be a red flag if someone gets defensive, but I just have never her any interest in knowing how many women my date has slept with and don’t ask. Nobody has ever asked me either. I have dated a lot of great, confident men who are secure with who they are and not so intimidated that they need to know if they’re being compared to anyone else. Additionally, I’m secure and confident and also don’t care who he’s been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:21 PM
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I was thinking the same thing. She seems almost as though she didn’t know guys like that even existed and wasn’t sure how to act, and wants to do it right next date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:56 AM
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What do you mean never be a woman’s first good guy? Do you mean be a bad guy, or don’t date women who haven’t dated any good guys before? Am I the only one who didn’t talk about exes with the person I was dating? Lots of talk in this group about body counts too- also something I never discussed and now that I’m married, we still don’t. Neither of us cares or wants to know about each other’s sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:54 AM
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And then everyone stood up and clapped. 🙄 Stopped reading after the part that basically said “even she conceded I’m right.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:54 AM
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I can’t speak for everyone but if that were true, it might simply be because of the social groups men (or women) of status are involved with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:36 AM
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I actually don’t remember ever being rejected but if I had been, I’d probably think he thought we were somehow incompatible or maybe I wasn’t his type, so he didn’t feel the attraction. If I was into him I might be disappointed but I don’t think I’d jump to that level of self doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:21 AM
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I’m going to be the one to throw out a whataboutism but I’ve seen plenty of groups dedicated to men trashing women. You’re using a logic fallacy by only providing two options: either men are that bad or women are picking bad men. It’s more nuanced than that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:09 AM
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This is such a distorted worldview about marriage. Your personal experience isn’t universal and I suggest you open your eyes and look for the happy marriages too. If you can’t do that, then at least realize marriage doesn’t only benefit women. Often women do all the mental labor in running the household and are expected to do the bulk of the physical labor too- even if they work full time and/or raise kids mostly on their own. If men have combative wives or a dead bedroom maybe they should evalu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:50 AM
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I said just sex, meaning as opposed to a long-term relationship. Sounds like a road that will lead to loneliness to me because at some point, you’ll be too old and will just be the creepy old pervert that even young women aren’t naive enough to touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:23 PM
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This is over complicated and fallacious for many reasons but I’m going to throw another thing out there. These easily impressed young women you speak of will eventually grow up, and by your logic (and your logic alone, I'm not agreeing with what you said) will want nicer things. So unless a man is just looking for sex, this is a bad plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:01 AM
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I’m not, but understand your point. This particular post just didn’t even attempt to hide the fact that he thinks women are subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:32 PM
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This OP is so dehumanizing towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:21 AM
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I can’t speak for everyone but it’s just not that simple/black and white for me. My husband embodies everything I prefer so I’ll just list my personal preferences and say he hits every check. -“charismatic” only in that he’s warm and friendly and not awkward. Too much charisma that comes off flirty seems slutty and disingenuous to me. -confident but not remotely cocky -insanely smart but uses it to elevate others instead of manipulating for personal gain -nice looking- not a “chad” type, but tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:11 AM
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It would depend on what my ex was like. I had exes that were great- mentally stable and healthy, and treated me well. The relationship ended for one reason or another but I don’t hate every ex I have. I do have one ex who pulled a bamboozle on me when I was young and stupid. He started off great, but the relationship ended with a Glock pointed at my head and me being thrown through a door so hard it went off the hinges. So yeah, after that experience I walked into new relationships with some cau…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:40 AM
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You are very wrong. I believe I even said everything he does inspires her to do the same for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:40 AM
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My father in law is a pastor. Retired now, but when he was working, he was working way more than full time hours, with tons of travel. It’s an incredibly demanding job. Even as a retiree he still works because current pastors wouldn’t otherwise even get any vacation time. He’ll travel a hundred miles in any direction to give a service just so a pastor can have a day off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:42 PM
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Gifts and money? No. Effort? Yes. Planned dates that were well thought out. His proposal was extremely romantic and planned down to every detail. They have the exact same profession/income, so she doesn’t need his money. He meets her needs in ways women love and men don’t often think of. He gives her his time, takes notes of what she likes and enjoys, makes sure she’s engaging in self-care, is unselfish and puts her and their daughter first, and still does this a decade into marriage. She values…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:59 PM
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None of them are newlyweds, all have been together over a decade. Some people grow up. Drop the cynicism and maybe it’ll happen to you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:51 AM
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This one is very tricky for me and I keep flip flopping in my reasoning. Initially I thought no. If both parties are honest about what they want and both parties consent, there’s no foul. That’s probably what I’d say if I were forced into a position to answer one way or another. There are caveats though that make it icky to me. There’s a power imbalance. Also, the party that just wants the sex could be opportunistic, and that’s pretty much by definition taking advantage. Overall I’d just say the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:47 AM
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Define “young” when referring to women please. I’m not sure how you can post details like statistics without a properly defined demographic. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:12 AM
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Well she didn’t rate herself. I’ve been her friend for 25 years and back in our clubbing/bar days, our group never had to buy a damn thing and 70% of the time it was because of her. We’re all attractive but men fall over themselves for her. She’s beautiful. She could’ve gotten pretty much any man she wants but her husband went above and beyond for her- insanely romantic shit, and she’s a sucker for that. The pair is so mismatched that my best friend, who lives in Australia and hadn’t been follow…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:07 PM
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I call BS. Every woman I know has preferences but it’s not absolute. My closest girlfriends friends: all over 5’10. All claimed to be most attracted to tall men. All now happily married to men shorter than they are. All of those men are average build and looks. One of my friends, a solid 9, was pursued by a male coworker who she considered to be at best a 5. She wasn’t interested. She grew to know him at work. Agreed to a date. Ten years later they’re happily married with kids. He is maybe 5’5 a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:12 AM
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I love how the OP says exactly the opposite but here come the angry red pilled men to storm the convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:43 PM
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Isn’t that subjective? I can distinctly remember three times being told I look like a goddess- as a sincere compliment and not anyone trying to get laid. I can also distinctly remember being interested in a couple men who weren’t attracted to me at all. We all have our preferences. I prefer shorter men to taller men. A man who’s too smooth/charismatic is a red flag to me. I fell in love with my husband because we’d stay up until 4am talking about ethics & technology while also laughing over stup…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:18 AM
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I’m a woman in support of men’s rights and agree completely. I’ve even showed some of my husband some of the posts in here and he rolls his eyes. 100% for men’s rights, but this sub definitely pushes the envelope into the other end of the spectrum sometimes. I’m not going to argue or report every comment because I think of it largely as a man’s space, this is actually the first I’ve commented in here (that I remember) but an example I can think of is one of the posts about gyms. There have been …
/r/MensRights09/02/23 12:42 PM
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Russia just hit an ungodly number of their utility sources, knocking out their heat in the middle of winter. I hope war never hits my country’s grounds but if it does, I wouldn’t plan to stay either. I’d get my young children and try to get the ever loving F out of there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:49 AM
9

I know a lot of bigger women in happy relationships, even marriages, with decent men who look healthy. I’ve also seen a lot of bigger women with men who are equally as big. Fat men exist, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:48 AM
3

I’m not entirely sure this applies to all women, but if it applies to the majority, maybe it’s a security thing or something and wanting an emotional connection with guy #2. When I met my husband, I was very, very attracted to him and didn’t want to wait. With him I felt not only attracted but also secure, which fueled the attraction further. 8 years later I still feel the same way I did at the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:50 AM
1

Are you dating women who are used to dating wealthy men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:05 AM
5

Woman here: 100% agree with OP.
/r/MensRights11/10/22 01:27 AM
-5

I’ve noticed the opposite, but maybe it’s because I’m seeing it from a woman’s perspective. Femoid, riding the cock carousel, hitting the wall…etc. I find it very hostile toward women. And if a women has standards for men… watch out.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 01:57 AM
-3

By “simple” do you really mean “cheap?”
/r/MensRights29/08/22 05:32 AM
0

Well if NY POST says so…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 02:33 AM
1

tever comes against her then that has a price and she will pay it if she wants me to play that role. I can play the male role even to that extent, no problems. Now I want the proper payment for it. I am not taking in a duty that puts my body and life at risk for free. Payment in what form?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:42 PM
2

How will she pay for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:10 PM
-5

I have ne er nears of this happening. Elaborate?
/r/MensRights12/07/22 04:33 AM
2

Is this an age thing? I’m about to Be 42. I don’t hate men. Generally speaking, I get along very well with men. My girlfriends too..we have a friend group of both sexes, not coupled.. we just like each other. Where did this dislike for the other sex come From?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:48 AM
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When I joined this sub, it turned out to be nothing like I thought it would be. I expected people with different beliefs sharing their ideas. When I got was a bunch of an angry men who strike me as incels and who just hate women. I would not use this group as a measure of any capacity of male/male relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:32 AM
2

I agree that it's harder for men in the dating world. There was a time when there was practically an algorithm for men to find a date. The world has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:28 PM
1

It is INCREDIBLY complicated being a woman. I am going to give you a pass and assume you mean in the dating world specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:10 PM
4

Right? I feel like there's these people standing around with a whiteboard trying to figure out a perfect equation and it's like, if you REALLY can't get someone, ANYONE, to date you, one of a few things are going on. 1. You're weird/socially awkward (whether you believe that or not) 2. You're in the wrong places or acting too pushy When I met my husband, we talked for 3 weeks online before we met. We talked about everything. We debated whether green skittles are better as lime or apple, and even…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:06 PM
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additionally, as a woman, I’m not sure I’d be comfortable going near a MR protest.
/r/MensRights02/07/22 03:04 AM
0

Okay, don’t bite my head off: I’m a woman and I do support men’s rights. I’m not a diehard advocate but particularly in family law, men get screwed. That said: I’ve never seen a MRA rally so I’ve never seen women attacking. Where is this happening?
/r/MensRights02/07/22 03:02 AM
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I’m always curious where y’all are from. Dating in my area is just nowhere near this complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:55 AM
1

As a 5’4, 167 pound woman I think it’s offensive you think that’s fat/obese. Some of us work out and have some muscle tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:51 AM
1

Amazing to me how hard it is to understand how hard it is to understand that people have preferences. "Chad" type men are icky to me and I'm a conventionally attractive woman. Every once in a while I wonder if we've just conditioned ourselves to want the best of everything, people included (physical appearance-wise). Even friendship cliques tend to all share a resemblance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:16 PM
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I’ve seen good points, but no. I’m not here in this group much and I usually see bashing of women, I assume by red pulled men. Once in a while though, a man will say something and I’ll think “good point.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:21 AM
8

First of all, I have a man who wouldn’t cheat because of who he is, it has NOTHING to do with me. He holds himself higher. If he wants or needs, he asks. And he does it in such a way he usually gets it. He’s got an alpha. I’d line him him as a sigma. He gives way more than he gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:13 AM
1

There's more to it than abortion. There's, last I knew, 3 ways to choose sex of your baby, or at least tip the odds in favor of one sex. Last I studied this, there was a way to, basically spin the sperm fast enough that it naturally separated them. Then you'd inseminate the woman with the sperm sex of their choice. You'd get about a 70% chance of having the sex you wanted. This was 15 years ago I studied this, I'm sure it's evolved. As always, that kind of technology exists only for the financia…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 10:44 PM
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The reward is in the volunteering/helping. You should open up and try a couple times. Maybe even at an animal shelter, they always appreciate you. You sound like a guy who needs to do more Helping, not less.
/r/MensRights25/03/22 07:27 AM
5

I was a virgin at 18. Not even interested in sex at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:20 AM
2

I saw this video once where a guy went around taping men and women together, but not on dates. Studying together, working together, even working out together, grabbing a friendly lunch, etc. typical friend things. He asked how long they’d known each other and a bit of history About their friendship. Then he points the camera to the guy and asks “would you sleep with her?” 100% of the time it was yes. Could it be staged, sure. Seemed pretty real to me, especially the horrified reactions from the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:37 AM
1

Last I knew there was quite a bit of research indicating that people who committed suicide didn’t want to die. I remember reading a paper once that interviewed people who were unsuccessful at dying when they attempted to jump off a bridge, for example, and most of them said the moment they jumped, it was instant regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:44 AM
2

I am a conventionally attractive, western white woman. I'd agree they're "among" the most privileged individuals but like so many things, this is extremely subjective. Being an attractive white woman also can come with a unique set of problems other groups don't have. That said, I think no matter your race/gender/etc., you'll be faced with certain problems and I am not sure if the average problems of attractive white women are comparatively worse than anyone else's. By no means do I think this d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:08 PM
4

This seems like a perfectly accurate summary to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:32 AM
1

Always love a good ad hominem logic fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:31 PM
1

So I've obviously been out of the OLD game for a while, but based on responses here, are online dating apps now all set up so that you you just see a photo of a person and "swipe" left or right based on whether you'd be interested in dating them? That's absurd. How on earth can you determine a person's character that way? I don't want to date someone bsed on a photo of them, I want to have a baseline idea of who they a re.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:37 PM
0

that’s just flat out false, but I think we’re applying different usages of the word “shame.” As a psychologist, I can assure you that shame offers little of value to a person and especially as it pertains to healing. Often it actually contributes to more unsavory behavior. Guilt is healthy, shame is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:25 AM
1

A lot of good answers but I knew my husband was the one for a few other reasons too. 1. He was a genuinely good person and made me want to be better 2. He is smart and I love the intellectually stimulating conversations 3. He does love me, and is fiercely loyal to me 4. He’s up for almost anything new I want to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:11 AM
1

Let’s pretend your BS stats are correct. This completely ignores the fact that the rapists women aren’t protecting their children from are usually MEN. How you gonna blame women for this? Maybe instead, focus that rage on men who rape kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:00 AM
5

The harder they push for the eradication of shame, the more I shame them and encourage others to do so, lack of shame leads to lack of morality , those who believe they can do no wrong or have done no wrong are often the most morally corrupt among us This implies that shame is the only way. You can reinforce good behavior and discourage bad behavior through a variety of methods. There are sound, psychological reasons why there is a push to abolish shame. Start by recognizing the difference betwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:16 AM
3

I met him on POF, there was no swiping involved. I don't know what it's like now, but at the time if you were interested in someone you sent them a message. All I had to do was open and read his message. After that, I clicked on his profile to learn more about him. His message was more than "hey, you're hot, wanna date?" It was clear that he'd looked over my profile and interests, and his message he sent asked me questions about myself based on my profile, and acted genuinely interested in learn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:39 PM
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I am married to, in my opinion, the most handsome, brilliant, and kind man in the world. We met online. For the record, I am conventionally very attractive and have never had a problem finding dates. My husband is not in any capacity unattractive, but we have had many discussions about the difference between online dating as a male and female. I had constant messages- in fact I couldn't keep up at first. He said he had to take a break from it all sometimes because it did affect his self esteem. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:11 AM
1

I interpret this differently. I see men often, usually make no mental notes about their appearance at all. They'd have to stand out in some way for me to notice them. For a man to get my attention at all, as far as noticing his appearance, he would have to stand out in some way. So, if I were to read a woman say that 10% (or even less) of the male population she sees daily are men she finds attractive, I would assume, as a woman, that she is referring to men who are above average looking or stri…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:57 AM
1

I am a woman, who struggled mightily with my weight in my early to mid 20's (I'm "post wall" for all you red pillers). I decided to change my life and switched to lean proteins, fruits and veggies, healthy snack alternatives- I cut my calorie intake probably in half. Drank only water and unsweetened iced tea. Additionally, I REALLY committed to exercise. I found an overweight buddy and we sweat our asses off daily, no excuses ever barring storms (we even went out in the rain) and speed walked ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:15 PM
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