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But let me ask you this question. What would you do in my case? Some 8 - 6 months ago, she said it first and a month later I said it, we are our best friends. And this happens. She has secretly loved me for over a year now. And you realise that you have loved her as well, for over 9 moths. And at this time you don't realise that she's got feelings for you. So, would you turn away from asking her feelings, as you have shared caring feelings with her all this time? She knows what I'm going through…
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 03:51 AM
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And you don't need to know this, but I'm telling you anyway.. She's in the middle of her own divorce
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 02:14 AM
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I don't think you read this throughout correctly. You're being a bit hostile here and anger usually blocks away from your concentration. I mean that I know my bus passangers don't listen and don't remember what we as bus drivers tell them. So, could you please do me a favour and go read it again, but a little more thought to it? I'm already 49 years old dad who is buying an old house 2 km away from the mom's house. I ain't exactly a catch. So, she just might see something in me?
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 02:05 AM
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I'm fully aware of the risks involved and I have promised to her that I only wish to continue as friends until my divorce is final.. That's in 6 months from now
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 02:00 AM
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She's heard them all, because she became my best friend a year ago.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 01:58 AM
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Ok, good to hear that
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/21 05:05 AM
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Good morning again I'm a bit at a loss here, of what you are saying...? Are you saying that I made a mistake, when I left without a signed custody contract? Please understand that our country's custody agreement application system is different to yours. I remember having heard this story from the radio, some time ago. A divorced couple went to the custody officer with a written and contract, that they've both signed on. The officer took one look at it and threw it in the trash. The this officer …
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/21 04:47 AM
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In Finland our custody agreement is changed every time either party's situations change. In my case, I'm the dad who moved to the studio apartment. This is a change, when we need to change the custody order. Then as I will probably buy the house, I will have a house loan and different electric and water bills. That too requires the custody order to be revisited. This creates a trust in our society. The problems may include having a selfish custody order officer. If the officer should start sidin…
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/21 11:12 PM
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Good morning from Finland again. And thanks for the great responses, from both of you. The peculiar thing is that I have been talking to a lawyer, but from a very particular union lawyer. A week ago I signed up to this union, that is available for us house leavers. The unions name in finnish is Elatusvelvollisten liitto, roughly translated it a union for the alumony obliged people. You pay a 27 € yearly fee and get a chance to talk to any lawyers they have, for free. And I have been talking to t…
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/21 12:56 AM
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By the way, this is the house I have my sights on. The text is in finnish, but any opinions on it are much appreciated. https://www.etuovi.com/kohde/7984287
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/21 01:20 AM
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There's one question that's been stuck in my head, during this weekend. Why can't I enjoy this time I'm involved in? I mean, that is there a rule that says that a man / a dad needs to feel miserable all the time during this? Yes, this is a massive change to have, but I'm allowed to enjoy it and have fun, if such an opportunity presents itself. By the way, I'm also in a position to buy my very own motorbike, quite soon. Okay, I need to try to sleep now. It's 2.10 am and I'm waking up at 4.00 am
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/21 11:11 PM
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I'm realising that I'm changing inside and I'm working on accepting those changes. For example, as my wife was verbally abusive to me, almost non stop. How do you think my sex drive went? Yeah, it didn't and my equipment wasn't working. We've not had any intimacy between us in a couple of years. So, you probably can imagine how my body is changing now? I'm miserable and as such I'm literally looking for any beautiful things or people. And I've always enjoyed looking at beautiful women, so I've c…
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/21 11:05 PM
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It's the 31.5 and 01.47 am Oh man what a ride it's been these last few days. Me and my wife told our children about it on the Friday evening and it's the hardest thing I've ever been in. I felt so angry with myself and I had to stay calm for the boys, to let them see us dealing with the situation. After that, my wife suggested that they could go spend the weekend with her mother and I agreed with her. This turned out to be a good idea. The reason was that I spent the weekend closed in, from Frid…
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/21 10:55 PM
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