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They're not fully wrong though, I'm in the boat were when it comes to not wanting to continue to go on dates is about 50/50 with either them not wanting to or me not wanting to and a lot of it is really just compatibility in values, preferences, career goals and other things. I'd honestly go as far to so at least in terms of long term relationships most young men and woman are incompatible due to a lot of valid reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:35 AM
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Try ashwagandha it lowers stress and pretty much stops you caring about anything including woman so maybe that will help. Maybe I'm also different as I pretty much lost interest in woman from when I was your age 21 to now (24) so my guess is with time you'll get more numb and stop caring about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:24 AM
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Man woman aren't the end all be all. Focus on your career, friends and hobbies and when you're 25 years old you can be in great shape have some friends who you've shared some great experiences with and a hobby that you can get a lot of personal gratification from. Let me tell you this like the average man most woman aren't worth the effort and just by focusing on the things you know make you happy you'll have a lot better of a life, this is what I've learned over taking the past 2-3 years to rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:11 AM
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"Wait you do porn with the boys?" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kK0D_1pCTY0
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:07 AM
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I'm down to annex canada, at least there would be no tariffs on their good then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:58 PM
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if your 21 and older I'd say 10 years+ is an age cap, or your age divided by 2 + 7
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:57 PM
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I was going to quote Geto but thought that might get me in trouble if people don't know the reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:55 PM
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Attractiveness and wealth, two of my friends who fit the bad boy stereotype are both extremely good looking and make six figures at 23 and 26 respectively and while they are great guys to workout with or talk in general they pretty much view women as disposable as they've had so much sex and know they can get a new woman any day of the week they have almost no respect for them(not fully they respect their mom/grandmom).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:01 AM
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Fuck no, I would not be friends with, date or have sex with an average woman and if I was a woman it would be the same for the average guy. Even my male friends aren't average with pretty much all having bachelors or higher degrees or a valuable trade skill and most if not all are making top 75th percentile or higher money for their age. Also when it comes to dating if I can't find someone who is above average in pretty much every category I'd rather stay single than in my eyes settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:51 AM
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War :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:48 PM
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The house one is interesting since I'm 24 and live with my parents but in about half a year to a year will own my own place. That puts me ahead of most men my age I'd reckon but it also sucks since I'll probably hold that against women I date alongside if they have a significantly worse job or student loans/general debt. Like my standards for what a woman has to have when I'm a student vs when I start my career are going to change and I just hope it doesn't cut of too many woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:42 PM
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Just focus on your friends and what makes you happy, also the more you try and date the less you'll care about lack of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:23 PM
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I thought she had trouble with dating? I know she's a lesbian but if she has a good physique she could use dating apps no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 09:47 PM
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Not really since in my mind sex falls behind values, looks, personality and a lot of other things that are more important when it comes to wanting someone to have children with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:15 AM
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An untrained 5'7 woman would lose to an untrained 5'7 man 9 times out of 10. Now Ronda Rousey would beat that same man 100 times out of a 100
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:04 AM
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Was watching a video on the most attractive physiques for men and my conclusion is that unless you are taking anabolic steroids your peak physique after years of training would fall into the most preferred for women. Also on another note saying Cbum has a dad bod in off season is actually insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:50 PM
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The gym is closed and I am in agony, will go run later but I just want the day to be over so I can workout tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:41 PM
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What's your job and your fiance's?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:29 PM
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Referring manuals for baseball and softball. Best side job for a college student out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:28 PM
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I'd lean more towards men who aren't sexually successful don't register for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:26 PM
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That's kinda fucked up on the guys part, I say this as someone who leans heavily towards being more conservative when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:25 PM
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I'm curious but do you think being rejected as a woman is worse then a man being rejected? The reason I ask this is that I've turned down a handful of women maybe 5 max? and it seems to really effect the negatively, my thought process is that if a woman turns down a guy it can be for a lot of valid reasons same for a guy turning down a woman but when a guy turns down a woman I think it can also carry the thought that the guy wouldn't even sleep with the woman who approached him since after one o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:16 PM
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I'm the first loser :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:43 PM
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second
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:02 AM
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Azzaro most wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:34 AM
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Own a home, at least 100k in investments more towards 150k if everything goes well. Might have gone through selection at that point at be a 18A. Want to run a 10 mile at at least a 7:00 pace but life goal is 6:30
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:28 AM
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You're probably in an international city which is one of the most expensive places on the planet. Also normal jobs in those cities tend to also pay more. For instance police where I live make abut 75k starting but in LA can make 110k
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:02 AM
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For middle/upper middle class families both parents need to work if you want to have a good house in an area with high end schools, add in two cars, vacations, and more a single income can't really get all that since I'd say aa combined income of 110k plus is needed. Diving a little bit deeper wages haven't kept with productivity for a long time and due to that women are pretty much forced to work if they want to have a stable middle/upper middle class family. I've actually seen it first hand wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:49 AM
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Why did you choose your flair to be virgin beta male?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:24 AM
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Intermittent fasting is a game changer. I'd say it's one of the most well researched methods and it not only helps with weight loss but also just general health. Just do 8 hours where you eat say from 8:00 am to 4:00 pm and then 16 hours off. Biggest thing is you have to keep that set window and can't move it around. Other things are weightlifting as the more muscle mass you have the more calories you burn 24/7. Cardio is also a must just not for weight loss but heart health. If you want to be e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:15 AM
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Did my weightlifting, ran, contemplated the harsh reality that we live in a world where there is no cosmic good or evil. Normal weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:10 AM
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Never had an overly negative date, I'd say the worst part is if they stop responding after without reason but that doesn't bother me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:50 AM
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The economy is great if you have a career job or work in a union protected field.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:14 PM
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I think the only reason to every get into Nietzsche is if you struggle with nihilism and want to work on it. On this note I am genuinely envious of people who are religious since it seems like such good tool for stress relief, don't like the reality we live in and all the suffering, no worries everything is magically fixed in the afterlife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:33 PM
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Let me rephrase this, from my perception men might sleep with a woman they wouldn't date due to her only needing to be attractive to qualify for a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:41 PM
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Not really relevant to my question, but thanks anyway I've done some digging into the GSS on my own and it's a good data source.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:40 PM
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Two of my good friends who are very successful with women and confident in themselves still don't date women who have had a large past. They'll sleep with them sure and maybe that is what you mean by them being secure since they know they're not going to be with the chick long term so it's low stress/effort. Most guys are between not caring at all and being very anxious, also at least for most of my married male relatives they either married their high school sweethearts or women from a religiou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:01 PM
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Any up to date studies from the past couple years 2019 forward on divorce rates and N count? Particular for both sexes as we only had ones in the past that mostly focused on women but I want to see if it effects men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:54 PM
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Index funds are a lot safer and more productive long term, bitcoin and nfts are pretty much just an elaborate ponzi scheme.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:46 AM
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Best of luck with that, working out can help deal with withdrawal from what I've heard at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:21 AM
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Your attractive and all following comments are opinion I'd say your a 6 or 7 out of 10 with no changes but if you shaved, slept more, maybe moisturized you'd look better easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:12 AM
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All moral means is pertaining to the good of society, most guys who do well at least in my friend group are typically pretty wealthy and work good jobs so in that regard they are moral. If a guy doesn't have his stuff together and isn't contributing to society and also isn't getting laid by my reasoning he could be considered the amoral one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:54 PM
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Sex isn't inherently bad. You can make an argument for unsafe sex being bad or casual sex being bad but by itself it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:16 PM
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I feel like so many of the posts on here complaining about female sexuality ignore how it's not female sexuality that causes men frustration it is human sexuality. Like if as a guy I don't find a woman attractive I'm not going to hit on her and will turn down her advances, that is the same for if a woman doesn't find a man attractive she will turn him down and while there is a difference in how men will be the ones to approach women they find attractive but women won't approach men they find att…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:44 PM
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Squats mostly target quads, if you want to get a good ass do glute kickbacks, hip abduction and hip adduction. That will work your your glute maximus and the glute Medius and minor as well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:13 PM
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So I want to get back into wrestling at an adult and all they have near me is BJJ or MMA. If it was a year or two ago I might have tried to start a combatives club at my college but I'll be done next semester so that's not an option. What would you all say is the closet popular combative to folkstyle wrestling?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:40 AM
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Dating apps are pretty much dead except for niche ones like religious dating apps or minority focused ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:44 PM
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Yeah that's fine since why would we want to be reliant on a potential foreign adversary for our transportation needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:02 PM
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Yeah as long as it's normal weight gain. If I was married to someone and they went from 130-300 I would probably stay with them for the children as long as they're a good person but I would lose physical interest for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:36 AM
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Nah she's based. Lose the weight brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:41 PM
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Yes, especially once you get more into your career.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:35 PM
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Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:34 PM
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What's your bodyfat %?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:49 AM
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Best of luck brother I've been in the 245-265 for 5-6 reps for like a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:59 AM
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Damm I think I found the one or I'm about to have a crazy winter arc, wish me luck bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:54 AM
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Best of luck then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:00 PM
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loml?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:48 PM
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Idk then, you might be attractive but give off cold vibes or something that makes guys wary of approaching you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:21 PM
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Attractive drunks?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:50 PM
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I'd agree mostly but I also tend to go after women from good backgrounds and they typically won't settle for non-commitment even if it's from a really good looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:25 PM
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I'm still figuring it out but I actually think more 9 or 10/10 women might be single then say the above-average to good looking range 6-8. My theory is that most guys don't think they have a shot so they don't talk to them. The reason I say this is I got a number from a very attractive women at my gym today and I brought up as a joke I've never seen anyone approach her so I didn't know if she was single or not(she is single).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:10 PM
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Why not just looksmax and use a lesbian dating app? I'm sure some masculine women would take the lead and you'd just have to choose who you want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:05 PM
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To a certain extent yes, but I'd also so very socially savvy guys(not me) can pick up on how active someone's past has been and make choices based of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:31 PM
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I was bullied until freshman year of highschool when I realized I was 6 foot and could shove the bully in a locker. Unironically for that level of bullying physical violence works best to solve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:09 AM
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Maybe, I go to one of the biggest university's in my state but most women I've gone on date with have been either from my gym or parties with mutual friends. One time one of my friends started dating a girl from his hometown and couldn't get over her past and it was actually pretty hypocritical since I'm pretty sure he'd slept around more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:06 AM
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I've had my bros tell me about if a woman I'm talking to or have dated has a large history. I actually understand why women are so hesitant to be known to be easy or have been in the past since that follows them more then a wrap sheet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:46 AM
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Perhaps then, I'll keep an eye out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:39 PM
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I think 20 is alright but I don't think I'd date a 19 year old. 5 years is getting to be a little to big of a cap for that age range, if it was 23-28 I think that would be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:39 PM
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I really would prefer to date someone with a similar cultural background but good chance I'll be overseas due to work in the future and might find someone there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:38 PM
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I hope it works out man, best of luck out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:37 PM
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they're either dating or engaged to other medical students/doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:35 PM
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Just going to add on to yours, in shape, healthy amount of muscle, height is also sometimes an attractive feature, white teeth, healthy hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:33 PM
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We might be cooked brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:31 PM
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Most closet brother's girlfriend might have younger friends but again high chance they're taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:29 PM
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Attractive, kind, intelligent. Also mutual interest of course. For attractiveness height can vary from 5'0-6'2 but I have a preference for taller women, I only like athletic women as working out and running is part of my daily life for multiple hours and I also really like people who have the work effort to do high level sports. Kindness is just referring to her general demeanor, does she tend to look on the positive side of things, not being a bully or lacking empathy is also a big part of this…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:28 PM
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Attractive, kind, intelligent. Also mutual interest of course. For attractiveness height can vary from 5'0-6'2 but I have a preference for taller women, I only like athletic women as working out and running is part of my daily life for multiple hours and I also really like people who have the work effort to do high level sports. Kindness is just referring to her general demeanor, does she tend to look on the positive side of things, not being a bully or lacking empathy is also a big part of this…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:28 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:22 PM
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I have 5 older brothers, 4 married and one most likely to be in a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:22 PM
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That's what I'm doing, might just try to get my friends to set me up with their sisters or something at this point as most are from good families.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:16 PM
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Yeah it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:15 PM
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Might be the case but I'd prefer to date someone my age 24 but I honestly can't think of one women my age who has the qualities I am looking for that is single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:15 PM
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I'm 24 and depending on how the next couple months go I'll probably give up and just focus purely on my career but I did always want a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:13 PM
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Even if I'm their type they probably already got a man, also from my perspective if a guy finds a quality women he is so quick to date/lock her down now since at least where I live they are in short supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:08 PM
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Unironically I'm pretty sure almost all attractive relationship oriented women are already taken. I'll be the first to admit I have high standards but finding a woman who meets them and single is becoming a major issue, I hope to god it's better when I move out of the Midwest in half a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:59 PM
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Just go to some parties or a club, find a chick and go back to her place. Drink some alcohol and wear protection and you'll be fine. Maybe drop a little more bodyfat as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:58 AM
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I like those behaviors they're indicators of being able to delay gratification of the top things that influences how successful someone is in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:26 PM
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It feels like a lot of my friends are getting too busy to hand out due to their careers. Two now have to travel 1/3 out of the year and multiple have moved to different parts of my state or country. I'll be the same way in about half a year but it does get lonely since even my friends who are still here we have to plan weeks in advance to hang due to them being married or work/life. On an unrelated note anyone here manage to do Spartans/sprints/half marathons while maintaining muscle mass and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:11 PM
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Yes once I started learning non-verbal signaling I was able to reflect on a lot of times were IOIs were given and honestly unless you're interested in the women giving them its a slight boost of confidence but that's about it. Also any women who isn't overweight is automatically a 7+ where I live haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:56 PM
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Are you about to graduate college or are in trade school or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:51 PM
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Since you now know women find you attractive it's just about planning the next move. If you have your own place or even a dorm and don't really care about long term relationships you can start making moves and trying to hookup. Also the more attractive you are generally the more chances to fumble you get. Also how young are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:17 PM
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I'm cooking dinner and suddenly remember that you older generations got the U.S. almost 36 trillion in debt. Y'all explain yourselves? What happened to planting an orchard for that you will never see bear fruit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:50 PM
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Damm fish must be cheaper over there, where I'm at the prawns, salmon and sushi would be $20 easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:41 PM
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You sound ran through my brother, best of luck out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:40 PM
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Ever wanted to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:53 AM
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Married?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:05 AM
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Least unhinged 4chan pseudo science enjoyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:29 AM
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What job do you have? That haul looks expensive af but I'm still a student so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:52 PM
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I know that but what are the causes. Do wealthy men have access to taller women? Is it seen as a sign of status among the upper class? Is it that wealthy people have had access to better healthcare and nutrition for longer so they are further along the natural height progression?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:36 PM
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Mm probably tasty :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:33 PM
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Tasty :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:32 PM
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Why the fuck are rich people so tall. I was at a high end event recently (working side) and pretty much every guy was 6'2-6'5 and even there were also multiple 6 foot plus women. Do rich people just practice eugenics or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:27 PM
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Maybe, we're also nihilistic and most don't seem to care about pretty much anything. Also my personal opinion but unless it's related to getting a house, getting higher wages, or benefits that make having a family easier I don't think Gen Z men will get out and vote. Fyi I voted but not for Harris or Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:12 PM
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My generation didn't even really vote, was like 16% turnout.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:00 PM
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24 and I don't think I'm quite at my natural peak, but for certain lifts I've pretty much stopped progressing like some overhead work. Also I am weary of anything that effects my natural production which is why I'm looking at other peoples bloodwork who are on the substances I would consider doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:24 PM
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I'll give it a shot, I think I'm in a good state to were even if I get turned down it won't effect my mood too much anymore. Also I could also try therapy for some issues I have before hopping on sarms but the issues I have are pretty well known at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:21 PM
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I mean I'll try, I'll ask my brother and a couple friends and see what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:46 PM
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High standards, location, finishing college, also I have a naturally reserved personality. I can be outgoing in professional matters but in my personal life it is hard to advocate for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:46 PM
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They have and to some success when it comes to numbers and dates but I honestly think my personality is just not very appealing. I understand how to make long term plans and succeed in academic and career manners but flirting and signals of attention I just can't read. I've both watched and read about the subject and this combined with high standards has not lead to any long term success. Also I'd say I lean towards being sexually restrictive since I've had women make advances and push for more …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:36 PM
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That's the biggest reason I've not taken them. I don't want my natural levels to be fucked but I've heard from the grapevine that entire groups have taken certain cycles and been fine. Also have two friends on them right now and I'll observe what happens at the end and ask about their levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:31 PM
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<image> This is my current physique I'm 6'3 and 222 right now. I also have no tan and need to shave but I'd say I'm around 12%-15% here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:29 PM
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I already do, I've pretty much maxed out my social circle and typically go out multiple times a week and have both a online and in person friend group, also have a select group of friends I can confide in. Even have a good career lined up come may and am happy with my physique but due a multitude of reasons I'd like to become highly proficient in something so it can bring more value to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:09 PM
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I have come to the conclusion that if I don't have a girlfriend come Christmas I am hopping on steroids/Sarms. I'm looking at Encomipine and maybe csdrine but the ladder seems to have some side effects but I don't really care. Any other recommendations? I also really want to improve my running and these will allow me to do a lift and heavy body-weight/cardio session every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:03 PM
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Like others I mostly voted for school board and judges, my state was called 60 minutes after the voting stations closed for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:52 AM
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Height has been steadily increasing and will most likely continue to do so until we reach around what the netherlands has for men which seems to be around 6'2-6'5
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:45 AM
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I don't have sex with people I don't find attractive and I'd agree that is settling, honestly I'm pretty fine if women just had consistent standards. For example is they'd rather focus on school/career and only be in casual relationships more power to them, what I don't like is when they try and settle with someone who is safe but they don't have a genuine attraction to due to wanting to have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:59 PM
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That's mad victim weight brother, stay safe out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:18 AM
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Eggs with sourdough bread and turkey bacon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:57 PM
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Reposting this in the new thread. Honestly I think average men and women both have it bad when it comes to modern dating. Hear me out, it's the millennials and late Gen Z that seem to have really been hit with a lot of factors that just making dating hard for both of them. The first being that average women do have access to casual sex with attractive men who won't date them and while it may be better then having no options it still leaves many women unhappy, not saying certain women aren't happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:02 PM
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Most of the options are meh, not due to men's fault but more of how society has set up young men for failure. Also being a virgin isn't the end of the world. Follow-up question but would you say you have a fulfilling friend circle and family that is supportive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:59 PM
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I'd say some women like casual sex but it is an alternative to a relationship to a high quality partner, also this is my opinion and I'm not a women but I do think unless a women only wants casual or companions they may be unhappy later on if they can't find a man to have a family with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:56 PM
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If I'm not interested in the women I can be friends with her. In this case I'm not really charming them and more of my genuine self, I've had it occur where a platonic female friend has liked me and I've turned her down, I've also been in the situation where I became attracted to what was first a friend due to their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:47 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:37 PM
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Honestly I think average men and women both have it bad when it comes to modern dating. Hear me out, it's the millennials and late Gen Z that seem to have really been hit with a lot of factors that just making dating hard for both of them. The first being that average women do have access to casual sex with attractive men who won't date them and while it may be better then having no options it still leaves many women unhappy, not saying certain women aren't happy with just hookups but at least f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:32 PM
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Not really as I can have sex whenever I want just not with women I find attractive/I would date. Also you said sexual and romantic partners combined with uni and we can change the language to sleeping around but to me it's the same thing. From my perspective many women(not all) can't date the men they want and they'd rather have FWB or situationships then date someone else, which I support as no one should settle as it breeds unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:11 PM
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This seems to be true, I'll give one point for Harris
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:34 PM
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It's also a matter of who is buying up the supply. If corporations are purchasing more and more single family homes and choosing to rent them out the supply of single family houses decreases and more people are forced to rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:24 PM
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I'm on board with raising the federal minimum wage but I can't even find any jobs that have the min wage offered. I'm iffy on the credit since from my understanding if a credit was given to new time homebuyers would that not just increase the cost of the houses?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:23 PM
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I should be capitalized. Also I've been pretty busy with irl responsibilities and haven't had time to do a deep dive of policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:22 PM
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Probably won't vote for him, what do you think of his Vp pick Vance by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:10 PM
1

Has Roe v. Wade getting overturned actually effected internal migration. New York and Cali have both lost pop and my state which has abortion outlawed is projected to grow for multiple decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:10 PM
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Q4All: Convince me whether to vote for either Trump or Harris. I'm pretty neutral towards both and the biggest issues I care about is lowering the price of housing (you can argue which candidate has the best proposal), inflation and wages not keeping up, I live in a red state so it won't matter but I'm curious which candidate everyone thinks is best. Also preferably talk about you candidate while not saying at least their not the other one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:52 PM
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I should always be capitalized, also enjoy your drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:06 PM
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Honestly neither sounds appealing. I'd lean towards modern women in regards to education, financial independence and income and career, but without the hoeing around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:19 PM
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We're mostly referring to young men here 18-30 so getting a six pack should be possible for most of them bar disabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:22 AM
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Damm that's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:15 PM
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Most guys can get a 6-pack by either being lean, working abs like any other muscle group, good genetics, or a combo of any of those three. I know multiple guys with 6 packs and a lot with 4 packs granted I'm pretty big into the gym and in a young age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:48 PM
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We're talking about good guys here and not nice guys and I'm just adding some clarification but to me that means good guys want genuine relationships with women and don't want to leverage anything since they think things are owed due to their behavior like nice guys. Some values that I see for good guys in my age rage 19-27 are that most are just kinda boring, they typically are in alright shape but might not have a six pack, have a descent job for the area or they are students so they don't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:23 PM
1

Sic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:07 PM
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Brother it is the gym people are going to wear skintight clothes and it's pretty normal, granted I'm desensitized to it at this point but don't shift your gym schedule due to being scared of a chick who has a sports bra on, just go do your workout and you'll be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:57 PM
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So based
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:51 PM
1

What sport?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:40 PM
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The guy's on the shorter size and probably did an active sport like wrestling or football. So I'd say you can look like that as an adult who did sports growing up and got into weightlifting. Personelly I'm bigger then this guy but I've been lifting for multiple years at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:54 PM
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I think he's just a troll at this point. I don't mind talking about dick sizes but I legit think unless someone has a micro it's not an issue and even then their are workarounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:50 PM
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Brother, you good?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:47 PM
2

The study says the average is 5.16 inch's and seems to be when measured by healthcare professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:15 PM
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This seems like it was made by some 4chan trolls to demoralize men. 9.5 is in the 99th percentile of pretty much any study done where objective measurements were taking. If you're a guy and are at 5.5 you're probably fine and anything else is just bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:56 PM
1

Can they cook?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:50 PM
1

Maybe possum or lift and lurk, I feel like to carry the heavy ladies Possum might have some strength like a strongman and lift and lurk since he lifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:24 PM
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I love the built fat build. This body type is actually pretty hard to achieve as his has good pecs and arms and if he diets he could be shredded in one month. Like to get that size naturally might take a couple years of lifting. If you're in good shape you can probably find a guy with that body pretty easy, if you want him to be tall as well then it might be harder. To answer it's not high standards if you are a non-overweight woman as that already puts you in the top half of American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:11 PM
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College is kinda trash right now unless you want to be a nurse, certain types of engineers, doctor(good one if you're smart), or lawyer. Even finance is overmatured and the trades are most likely about to make a big comeback. Also you can do join the military if you don't want to have any college debt alongside a lot of other benefits. Heck if you can work with your hands might give certain trades a try like being an electrician.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:49 AM
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400's tough dude. Like if you said 250 and she had some loose skin she can slowly get rid of through getting muscle, surgery and just time that doable, but I think from 400 to a healthy weight would have so much loose skin even with surgery. I would not be intimate and just move on. Also I think the getting to 400 has got to be a sign of something negative like severe lack of control or another mental issue which also isn't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:28 AM
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I'd say the argument is that women can choose to be alone and no one will dog them for it or view them lesser, guys who are single it is often looked upon as a flaw or represents something deeper that is wrong with them. To clarify my stance I think women and men both have valid reasons for being single and no one should feel pressured to date or to not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:12 PM
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Last part is true, I'd say how the US plays their response if china invades we could actually end up with a lot of highly educated population loyal to the US and opposed to china
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:42 PM
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Dude we spent trillions in the middle east, of course we would spend a couple trillion more so our biggest rival can't get one of the top limiting parts for ai, military, and healthcare technology which are chips.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:36 AM
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Unless the US has it's own chips manufacturing capabilities it will fight to protect Taiwan and has the power to do so alongside it's many allies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:24 AM
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Flirty behavior can differ based on a lot of things like location, age, social-economics and what on. I should have clarified that in my personel experience mostly with middle-upper class white or Asian women flirting and plausible deniability is a big thing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:10 AM
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Women like men are afraid of rejection and it's also typically a bigger deal if she is rejected by a guy then if a guy is rejected by the women. Also not all women are direct and plausible deniability is a big thing in the dating world
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:08 AM
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With no context all I can say is those women are immature but they may have had valid reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:07 AM
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You get me, I don't like features that make someone look smaller or have less defined shape. Big thing for that is fat in men and women as it just rounds people out. Granted for women they want to have some fat but in regards to a healthy amount alongside some muscle. Men in my opinion don't look good with anything more then 15% bf and even lower like 9%-12% is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:05 AM
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Stop the cap?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:01 AM
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Maybe I'm having trouble separating the images in my mind, but when I think about women I find attractive in real life most of them have an hourglass figure to some extent as in their hips are bigger than their waist and their waist is about as big as their chest or their chest is bigger. This image isn't my type fully but you can see her hips and chest are both bigger then her waist. It's similar to how a v-taper looks good in men and I also think women prefer men with large shoulders for insta…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:54 AM
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I've been learning a lot more about flirting and non-verbal communication and might make a post about it, but in short what all the guys here miss about women not approaching and such is the part of the picture were women use non-verbal or subtle ways to flirt and show attraction and if you're a guy you need to learn how to navigate those signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:48 AM
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Hourglass body seems more in line with my preference. I also am drawn to more feminine women who are fit. Think athlete but not Olympic level more of a casual type. I think tennis athlete is a good way to describe my type if that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:46 AM
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Is this a robot? Hair length doesn't matter to me as long as it's not a buzz cut but I like voluminous hair. I've like all natural hair colors like blond, brunette and red heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:31 AM
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I've been taken aback once or twice if I've found someone really attractive and they give hints of liking me back. And fairly exceptional looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:29 AM
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Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:28 AM
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Self selection bias might also play a role in the women who think they are more attractive being the ones to show their faces. Also unless it is timestamped with a username I'd claim cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:17 AM
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I don't thing uggo people should date, they should focus on themselves until they are at least average through weight loss, healthy eating, working out, skincare etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:03 PM
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Most likely found another date that she was more interested in. Sorry bro but that's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:23 PM
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Resellers are scum(people who preorder items in mass to resell them at a higher price, could be tickets, consoles etc... Reselling a old item you don't use anymore is fine)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:39 AM
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Same reason an attractive women might stay single, the options they have to hookup/date aren't what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:01 PM
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Tall women are typically pretty attractive at least imo. Like up to 6'0 I'd be interested
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:52 PM
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Dark days ahead for everyone except the triple divorcedicored lawyer and his compatriots.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:23 PM
1

Brother I'm not, I'm pretty blackpill and even I think she was just making friendly convo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:43 PM
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Dude she just thought the conversation was funny, it's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:00 AM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:32 PM
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Honestly not a big fan of Biden or Harris but at least they have a coherent policy platform that they run of off. At this point what the US really needs is a labor party that works for moderate workers of both sides, but moderates can't win due to gerrymandering.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:59 PM
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Q4A What do you all think is causing the uptick in youth suicide not just amongst young men but young women as well? I might lean towards social media being part of the reason but just want to get everyone's thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:56 PM
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Eh men approach more since they are less risk adverse as a whole and more interested in sex/relationships. Also just because a men approach doesn't mean women have all the power, guys can up and leave whenever they wants oftentimes after they gets what they desires which is often sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:53 PM
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It depends on on in need a person is and how much demand their is for a job, for instance in my state their is a current deficit of tradesman so I'd be fine with two year vocational school training being state funded. Same for say scholarships for teachers, biggest issue would be the scholarship would be contingent on them going into the role they signed up for or having to pay it back. Also I'm not trying to start anything with this or do a gotcha but safety nets exist because of the excess cap…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:06 PM
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I'll give two examples, if someone gets a full ride scholarship to a four year public university they are going to save let's ballpark $64,000. That $64,000 then has interest tacked on to it at a period where young people could be putting their money in investment accounts to get the greatest returns. Also I know a man who was taught to be a provider and make money, he got a finance degree from a top ranked business school did multiple internships both is sophomore and junior year and is a high …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:51 PM
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Valid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:36 PM
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I think I could make a pretty strong argument for how white middle class dudes don't have as many advantages as you think at least in terms of access to scholarships and what they were told to study by their parents and society. I'm not though since I'm set and my family is as well so I don't really care enough to argue over if the middle class got fucked or not (hint hint it did). For people who do complain I kinda say just go learn a trade if you have any braincells and you can make good money…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:26 PM
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Dude you'd be surprised nowadays by how many similar situations I've seen happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:09 PM
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Kinda sound like Dave Ramsey here my man, I'm fine with dogging on people who spend outside their means but I don't that's the main issue with the economy. Also who do you think is the ones doing the refinancing those who already have houses or people trying to get their first house? Also if we start to bring in other things like cost of childcare, student loan payments, credit card debt the economic picture for young people isn't looking great. I'm saying this even though my brother bought his …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:57 PM
1

Poker is fun but I don't gamble, most I'd ever do is penny poker with friends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:53 PM
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I might do dining but warehouse doesn't pay enough for the hours, they offer around $15 for less then 8 hour shifts and if you include the driving and shuttle time the pay is pretty subpar, I'd only do overnight since they pay more but can't due to schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:52 PM
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Ha no, its packed with former players working for pennies, also most toxic and most of all I never did the sport so I'm not super proficient in it. I know people who ref basketball and most don't like it. If I can do wrestling I will bust a lot of refs like to do those.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:51 PM
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What school did you go to, don't have to said exactly but where does the program rank nationally or internationally? Also not doing internships is an interesting choice, what did you do most summers?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:48 PM
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What's a good side hustle/part time job? I already do referring for youth football and typically make around $40 an hour every weekend but that ends in October, I have a career job lined up in 8 months but I'd like a job to make some money for my Roth IRA. The difficulty or barriers to entry aren't a concern since I can typically get certs pretty fast. I'm thinking of doing food service but it would need to either be banquets or a an upscale restaurant where the tipping is good. Also will get in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:14 PM
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Going to disagree with you here, compared to the past at least our economy is run on debt at the moment with U.S Consumer debt being at 17.3 Trillion, this combined with the fact that 4/10 Americans can't afford an emergency expense of $400 and that with the price of a first home and the salary of a new college grad young people simply can't afford homes(and I mean a home where you can have 1-2 children and good schools). I'm saying this as someone who luckily has a good job lined up in a market…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:08 PM
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