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I didn’t say it was irrelevant. I thought personal anecdotes were allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:55 AM
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I’m okay if you don’t think it’s relevant. I thought it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:51 AM
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Don’t think so , what’s your definition of spam ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:43 AM
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I love the story and enjoy sharing it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:29 AM
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My wife showed me a message from one of her coworkers - her coworker was complaining about this guy she was hanging out with - guy was 10 years older. Coworker : I’m great at reading people. Coworker : I’ve been seeing this guy and he’s great but he said he doesn’t want a relationship so I had sex with him and he still doesn’t want a relationship! What a dick! My wife really didn’t know how to respond lol. So even if the guy is 100% transparent , the girl is still a victim of manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:58 AM
2

I did have an Ex that would treat everything I did as some malicious plan / coordination/ was deeply intentional. When in actual fact most of the time I had just finished a 9 hour shift and wanted to relax / was stressed from work most of the time. None of my friends discuss malicious manipulation plans with me. One of my friends gets stalked / harassed by women he’s slept with, he’s upfront about only wanted sex. He’s shown me messages and letters (yes letters lol ) from them accusing him of be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:52 AM
5

Bro you smashed it out of the park. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:48 PM
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This is interesting. When I was younger I was called a creep by people I had never engaged with. Like from a distance they decided I was a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:39 AM
5

Similar situation , except my grand parents in law grew up poor , so they respect me for growing up poor and keep their kids ( my parents in law ) in line lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:08 AM
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Different commenter , the 2 guys I know that have seen sex workers have a lot of success with women. They’ve just done it when they wanted a break from drama / something cheaper etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:19 PM
1

I can’t tell if this is a copy paste or not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:55 AM
2

All good
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:29 AM
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Are you individual focused on all areas of life ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:18 AM
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Right so you do need some social skills to be sincere and attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:13 AM
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Ya na , all the autistics I know are honest to death. Autistic people are the definition of socially unpolished.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:58 AM
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Na disagree , source : autistic people would be higher in the food chain if sincerity was the only key to being attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:44 AM
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Disagree , the polish is still mandatory. Sincerity without charm is still unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:59 PM
6

Still a difference between sincerity / compassion with no social skills vs sincerity / compassion with social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:19 PM
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It was a head hurt moment, her logic was “a guy should know “. No idea how though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:38 AM
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Different commenter: My wife was a virgin when we met. I know she has a small amount of jealously , but it’s also strange because I don’t think she would’ve been attracted to me if I was a virgin. We tried getting our friends to hook up. My boy was a virgin and had difficulties. When my wife was telling me this , she had the tone that it was bad/ embarrassing / unattractive for a guy to not know what he’s doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:16 AM
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I met my wife on the bus. I talk to anyone , anywhere , elevators , side path , shopping isle , etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:13 AM
1

Yes. Edit : like not in places like the bathroom lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:54 AM
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You can talk to chicks anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:39 AM
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Ya sorry mate , untrue. Ive had better luck cold approaching than dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:24 AM
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Not that it’s “wrong” to make friends through your partner, but it is a social crutch that you’re using. And some people would see that as unattractive. You can see this in other areas of life. Living by yourself vs living with parents. Getting a job by yourself vs a friend / family referring you. Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:59 PM
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Half and half for me , I’ve had some great conversations with other customers. I seem to attract a lot of old ladies looking for things // getting me to grab milk for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:27 AM
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TIL : I’m not western.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:53 PM
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All good , that’s how I interpreted it. And it surprises me how much more common seeing women at hobby shops is compared to back in the day. I went into a local hobby shop recently and there was a group of women with no boyfriends // just a group of girls by themselves. It was the first time I’ve seen it in my years of being a nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:16 AM
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Tbh that’s impressive. When I went to hobby shops when I was younger there was 0 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:04 AM
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Probably true, I grew up in poverty , so bad boys to me are meth heads covered with tattoos // or bikers // white trash bad boys etc. I don’t have much experience identifying middle class bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:35 PM
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Half half , like I thought I was ugly until some middle class friends took me shopping , then girls started finding me attractive. I recently went out to a band with 2 autistic mates, mate A - is a giant mother fucker , skinny . But dressed horribly. Mate B is very fat , very very fat and short. But dressed very very cool/ in a good style. A chick danced with Mate B , chicks would move away from Mate A. Edit : if you’re talking ugly - as in physically deformed face - like the hunchback of Notre …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:35 AM
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If your physically attractive , but have holes in your clothes and shop at Kmart , haven’t had a haircut in months. Yes you can still get some girls , but there’s definitely girls who wouldn’t look at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:16 AM
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Maybe this is just white culture? Like to my Chinese wife im a little bit of a “bad boy” in her eyes because I don’t talk to my parents and I smoke weed. Whereas the “bad boys” I went to school with are on meth or in jail. - but they have baby mamas, these people to my wife aren’t people , she sees them as weasel dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:59 PM
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I think being poor disqualifies you from a certain type of woman. But also I think we could be talking about different types of poor, all the poor guys I know don’t live with their parents because their parents are on meth. In my reality living with your parents means you’re in the middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:53 PM
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Idk I’ve stopped encountering bad boys after HS/uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:48 PM
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It’s interesting because my 42 year old mate has been sleeping around with 18/19 year olds. He’s broke so they can’t get anything out of him but they’re still obsessed with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:42 PM
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Ehh , I’ve had people treat me like a lunatic when I cold approached. I’ve also married someone I cold approached. This was same city.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:56 AM
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That’s the objective of a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:21 AM
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I don’t have kids yet , but there’s friends that I give my wife a “prepare” talk to before bringing them over. They’re not bad guys , they’re just underdeveloped// need support and normalizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:55 PM
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What reasons would your parents use?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:20 PM
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Aren’t the underdeveloped males kept around because people care about them and want to try to normalize them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:18 PM
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All good , take it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:44 AM
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Sweet, let me rephrase my question . Andrew tate the musical you put into the same category as rap, Andrew tate the podcast influences your belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:03 AM
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So if it’s Andrew tate - the musical, that would be okay to listen to? Also when people talk you can listen to the beat / tone/ it’s not always about the content / data .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:56 PM
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Why is it different ? In my mind it’s all consuming culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:23 AM
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Is the same rules applied for other media , e.g if some guy listens to tate because the vibes are good it doesn’t mean he’s redpill / sexist ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:53 AM
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I was traveling through a foreign city , I was standing on a train with my luggage. An older lady reached over and adjusted my pants. My wife was shocked , I’m shocked , was that lady creepy ? No she had grandma energy. Would the same happen if a guy with “grandpa” energy adjusted my wife’s pants ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:32 AM
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I recall that only girl that was ever ugly ugly I’ve seen was hideously grotesque ( hunchback of Norte dam level ). She was so ugly people wouldnt bully her at all. When I looked at her I’d feel like crying. I guess I wouldn’t have called her a creep , just … ugly? but not in a mean way..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:30 AM
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What if they were never on red pill communities ? Can they still be part of the patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:27 PM
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Is that the leading factor to the patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:42 PM
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I know there’s people on this subreddit that are labeled as redpill that talk about women that monkey branch , but is that a consistent perspective within the red pill ? // isn’t that the toxic part and blue pill has toxic parts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:37 AM
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Isn’t it more removing them from the pedestal? // acknowledging them as humans with faults like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:51 AM
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Is looks including clothes / attitude / social skill/ vibe or just facial features? / body.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:25 AM
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Please elaborate on this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:42 AM
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Like ya they’re a bit nutty but what part makes them bad people ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:41 AM
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What would be the next steps after telling them it’s due to the patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:39 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:42 AM
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Have you legitimately never lived in a shithole town ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:34 AM
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These suggestions rely on living in a town/city that supports the activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:26 AM
1

You could be describing anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:28 AM
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Yes , it’s the people who disagree with you that are in a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:20 AM
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I kinda agree , but a big difference is availability. If the 100m race was only available twice a year. But you could run the 500m anytime you feel like going to the race track. I’ve only got a gf once from the social circle setting , it was very very easy, but I was only privileged enough to have that opportunity once and all others have been cold approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:25 AM
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Where is this hate coming from ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:48 PM
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Completely unbiased take lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:46 PM
2

I don’t think people who do cold approach have many “social circles “ options.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:40 PM
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I can understand that , most of the boys are 30+ and never kissed a girl. Both realities are tough. I consider it lucky that there’s no social hurdle for them to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:23 AM
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What. How does your solution work for people with disabilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:01 AM
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In my special education class , every girl had kids before 20. The boys in the class , not so lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:17 PM
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I think some people are natural “seekers/speakers” and others “reactors/listeners” I think autistics are more likely to be seekers, because it’s easier to express our reality then to listen to/ react to a NT reality. I have a mate , I did an experiment to see how long it would take him to message me if I didn’t message him first. It was 3 years lol, he finally messaged me to catch up // we’ve resumed our friendship and he’s apologized and has promised to express himself towards me more. With mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:46 AM
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Tbh I just thought anyone with low self esteem gets treated like crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:38 AM
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I was born redpill /90% of my life experiences reflect redpill( this is well before encountering any internet culture related to it ). But then doing lots of LSD and picking up my wife made me blue pill. I don’t think redpill is dumb , it’s needed for autistics. Source: I’m autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:53 PM
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I like kinda agree with the guy , but just questioning the chick that’s saying cold approaching would work better with a LinkedIn link lol. If you’re in a redneck town , a LinkedIn profile is definitely “status “ but it’s certainly not status in any city.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:53 AM
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Which part ? My life experience doesn’t match yours ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:04 AM
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If guys advertise their LinkedIn that’s a plus for you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:14 AM
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Ay sorry mate , if I followed your logic I’d never meet my wife and wouldn’t have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:12 AM
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lol thats excellent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:31 AM
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When I was getting into dating , it was easier to get sex than relationships. I had a few one night stands before having my first relationship. // looking for long term relationships was a turn off for a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:55 AM
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I don’t know her BMI but she’s skinny / healthy. I know what you mean , my exes were had very .. questionable domestic standards. Edit : I mean stuff like setting the kitchen on fire multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:23 AM
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Before we started dating my wife said “if we date , you propose within 1 year “. She knew what she wanted, very attractive. It’s sad seeing some of her friends struggle with self esteem and being baited along for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:24 PM
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Idk my wife said from the get go “if we date , we date to marry , you propose within 1 year”. And we’re 5 years married now. Her seriousness / commitment to the future is very attractive. That being said I’m autistic and the trait I value highest is honesty / transparency.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:19 PM
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Amen. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:41 AM
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We’re planning to have children soon , I’m very curious on the difference it’ll make to an autistic child to have a good community / educated parents. The special education class I was in growing up had lots of meth parents // never met their dads+ mother is useless and never had a job // alcoholic abusive parents etc. A lot of entering the middle class has been “oh shit , I was discriminated against because of poor not because autism “ or both lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:20 AM
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Cheers , I’m autistic / diagnosed young. Grew up in poverty , the experience of a middle class autistic is very different lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:10 AM
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Does “ugly” in your terms consist of physical ability or does it include social / economic factors ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:03 AM
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If it was a cultural reason instead of a personal one ( for dropping social connections ) would the conversation be different ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:01 AM
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Is your family middle class ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:56 AM
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Were you diagnosed young // in special education classes ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:35 AM
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I don’t think it’s strange to want to date within your neurodivergence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:33 AM
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Half and half , I think it’s “fun” once you can “catch the social vibe “. I’m autistic and it took me a lot of LSD to understand there’s lots of subconscious communication happening and how to catch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:19 AM
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This is still dependent on being personality aligned with the culture you grew up in // luck can fuck yo shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:14 AM
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Would you have had classmates add / message you on msn/ Skype / fb / new aged equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:08 AM
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Yeah I agree with this. The women I’ve noticed that get passed over are obese - like very very fat. I have 2 friends that are both fit / tradesmen / military both of their spouses are a little heavy but it’s not a problem for them unless it’s obese heavy. I’ve only met one woman that I thought was face ugly , she had literal deformities // hunchback of Norte dame. Despite it being high school no one would bully her, she was that unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:07 AM
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This comment is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:01 AM
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Sometimes, if marriage is involved then it increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:00 AM
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Yeah a bit confusing. I was homeless / drug addict / autistic / parents stole my money and left and I picked up my wife with pure vibe, which goes against red pill. Edit : I do admit , I feel like a lot of red pill is very autistic , and I’m autistic soooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:33 AM
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Why didn’t the single mom just demand a condom be worn ? Like if she has to take the L and raise the kid if things go south . Wear a condom. If it’s a country without condoms / very poor country then i feel bad for there woman( and most people in the poor country )
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:29 AM
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Should we worry about incels that are autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:23 AM
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Yes, because surely there’s no other cultural reason for the lower crime rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:33 AM
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Yes. Why should we worry women that choose fun over thought ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:17 AM
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I can understand the other redditors point that the “step father” is a post bad action fix , whereas the proposal for incel terrorists is before the bad action.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:11 AM
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Do you have experience with this ? It’s one of those things like when I see Reddit relationship posts that are like “my husband of 10 years doesn’t know how to wipe his ass “ and I’m not sure if that’s trolling. But also how do these guys pick up chicks and how do the chicks deal with it for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:46 AM
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Cheers. What do you mean by soul searching issues ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:44 AM
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When I hear adult 25 year old men with potential I generally don’t think of a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:20 AM
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Ah I thought career was covered with the getting rich goal. Is this an experience you’ve had?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:04 PM
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Wouldn’t that be in a different category , whereas the discussion is on a guy with potential// ready to be molded ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:44 AM
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What kind of molding are we talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:10 AM
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A flip side of seeing it ; is they’re ready to be molded.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:09 AM
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I’m confused by this , because potential vs no potential is clearly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:02 AM
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My wife is Chinese , her answer is Yes to different curfews. If my future son is the man that scares women. his mother , aunt ,grand mother and great aunt will beat him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:15 AM
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Everyone I know from my childhood falls under these categories; Was raped as a child , physically abusive father, very alcoholic parents , no father , one parent in Jail , heroin addicted parents, drug addicted parents ( everything but heroin )+ being disabled. I fall under the last category which I do consider “poverty privileged”. But I’m going to stand by my statement of all poor people are abused, both boys and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:07 AM
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Ya that’s called poverty lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:47 AM
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ya hence the “I come from poverty “ statement at the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:47 AM
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Copied from my other reply; I come from poverty , so it’s less “liberated rich white girl at college promiscuousness “ and more “trashy // no self respect promiscuousness “ Example: Friend from HS that would let her boyfriend write “whore” on her forehead during class , go around and ask if anyone wants a ride. I caught up with her half a decade later ( I moved out of the white trash town ). I asked her how she met her babies daddy , her explanation was “well , remember that guy ? I slept with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:21 PM
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I come from poverty , so it’s less “liberated rich white girl at college promiscuousness “ and more “trashy // no self respect promiscuousness “ Example: Friend from HS that would let her boyfriend write “whore” on her forehead during class , go around and ask if anyone wants a ride. I caught up with her half a decade later ( I moved out of the white trash town ). I asked her how she met her babies daddy , her explanation was “well , remember that guy ? I slept with his friend , and then I slept…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:20 PM
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The personality that is usually tied to it. // lack of self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:10 PM
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If I hadn’t met my wife , which gave me a class boost. I’d absolutely be peaking in my 30s because that’s when I’d be climbing out of the lower class.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:09 AM
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It’s strange because my women cousins are a few years older than me. They generally considered me a “normal “ guy // they enjoy hanging out with me. But our experiences so vastly differ on so many things. Example : our LSD experiences. They attended wild sex orgies, I would hang out with my mates and watch movies, and do late night walks. I’m very sad that my cousins can’t enjoy a late night walk on LSD ( because it’s not safe for women to be out at night on hard drugs). My cousins are shocked t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:07 AM
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From my experience a lot of guys around me “grow into” themselves more // become more attractive in late 20s/30s due to. Being autistic. Having drug addicted parents. Growing up poor. Having a very poor education. I notice the guys who might be in their prime in the late teens / early 20s are Not autistic, Middle class Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:00 AM
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It’s generally easier for women to get “involved” than guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:56 AM
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Cool , myself and most of the guys I know hit their stride after HS. Me at current age would stomp vs HS me in an “attractiveness” competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:33 AM
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That’s not what I said ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:51 PM
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I’m not sure why ignoring abstract social rules is a “race to the bottom “? Unless the bottom is autism then ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:13 PM
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Ya pretty much. I don’t have men suspecting I’m a rapist, because I’m ignoring abstract social rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:01 PM
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I think this is partially true , but not for malicious reasons. I’m autistic and the language that girls speak is often based on tone/pitch rather than data , I couldn’t understand this // it was so completely alien to me , that it’d be like trying to convince me god exists. After doing a lot of LSD I begin to understand the subconscious language beneath conversation. ( I still can’t convince my other autistic friends that this exists ). After this I’ve been able to get along with plenty of wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:47 AM
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Did you know your husband was emotionally under developed before marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:58 AM
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Totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:53 AM
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Idk man , when I moved to a city from a shithole country town people certainly let me know I was poor and not middle class. These mfs getting 10-30k from dad as a grad present for high school. My parents stole 20k ( almost all my savings) 1 year into college. Money matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:10 AM
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lol at no education / no achievements could be indication of bad character. Is there another easy way to say you grew up rich ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:33 AM
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This is a non US country with healthcare, I want to agree with your comment. But it’s not applicable to the situation in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:30 AM
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One of the most popular guys from my HS has recently come out as autistic. This guy has been lovable / likable since day 1 ( he was always school captain etc) , he’s a local actor and singer. It’s like, ya I know autism is a spectrum but is he really in the same category as the speds in the special education classroom I was in ? My best mate who pretended to be a dinosaur till he was 13 and would bite you if your annoyed him. Or the guy who has no ability to “read the room” and loudly breathes /…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:05 AM
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I think it’s the difference between women having to mask to get friends , men having to mask to get dates. And both start learning that skill at different times.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:05 PM
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I’ve seen slow confidence / low self esteem people be nice to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:02 AM
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Does this conversation topic have a name in feminist circles ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:57 PM
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Most of your statement is true , except I wasn’t lean ( I had never been to the gym at that point ) and I wasn’t handsome ( I started dressing middle class later) , I’d say I was ugly before that point because people would refuse to sit next to me on public transport during rush hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:21 AM
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Homeless with autism + speech impediment at the time as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:34 AM
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I was tall , white , skinny( no gym at the time) . I was in a suit with holes because I had just come from a job interview. I had a messy hair/etc. I thought I was ugly for most of my life. But after dressing middle class ( I grew up poor ) I have been told that I’m handsome by strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:03 AM
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I do admit it was a “good day” for me, before picking her up I left halfway through a job interview, then helped a foreigner to his hotel in the city , so I was in my peak “social mood”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:58 AM
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I’m autistic, I was homeless , no car , no job and successfully cold approached my wife on public transport.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:51 AM
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When I was in China all the advertisements of men were slim/slender more about being “groomed” and no beards / muscles. When I return to my home the advertisements are mostly big burly unshaved men. This would have an impact. When my wife (Chinese ) was in primary school / high school the most popular guy was the guy with the highest academic score, regardless of anything else, he could be short , glasses and awkward but if he had the top score he was the most attractive guy to the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:51 AM
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I do think a big part of red pill / blue pill divide is country shithole town experience vs city.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:25 AM
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I didn’t say it was a good option. I said it was good to have another option.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:40 PM
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Because I chose a different path.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:31 PM
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How does that convert to cool ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:20 AM
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Please quote the text in which I said it was cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:14 AM
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If you rub shit on your forehead and then try talking to people , thats how it felt. I’d sit on buses that be crowded and the seat next to me would be empty. Coworkers would treat me as if I’m a stalker/pervert. After working at Maccas for a year , I worked overnight with one of my coworkers after talking for a bit she said “ ohhh you’re not a pervert / stalker you’re just shy “. Not Indian. I am white. Edit: after that shift with the coworker, she told all the other coworkers and they started t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:30 AM
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When I was homeless , I was sleeping on benches and searching bins. If I have an additional option to be taken advantage of by an older unattractive women , is it better to? Probably not. Is it good that I have an “additional resource/pathway” , sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:20 AM
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Every poor person gets exploited , I guess having an additional “option” is better? When I was homeless I was sleeping on benches and searching bins, if an alternative would be to let an older unattractive women take advantage of me , is it better ? Probably not, is the additional option appreciated ? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:16 AM
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As someone from poverty and autistic , I’ve been treating like inhuman garbage by western women for years. After meeting my wife and having a class “glow up” suddenly I get a lot of attention from western women. It’s a world of difference night/ day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:12 AM
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As someone with autism AND a speech impediment ( 2 separate communication disabilities). I found foreign women to be better because it “equals” the social playground , e.g it’s their 2nd language and I’m double communication disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:07 AM
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Personally I recommend foreigners to my mates. My wife is Chinese , and I love the focus on family , structure and unity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:04 AM
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Isn’t it good that they have an addition resource / option to escape poverty ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:03 AM
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I think this is just a “cool person” thing. Being enthusiastic is not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:06 AM
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Dam if only there was a sub-group of males that don’t mask/pretend “marketing pitch” their behavior. That would be nice. Edit: /s . This group exists they’re called autistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 10:23 PM
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Aye I’m tall , but autistic + speech impediment + poverty poor. I wasn’t called handsome until I leveled up my charisma + started dressing middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:45 AM
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He shoved me several times ? I thought that was a class of assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:58 PM
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Different commenter, I’ve been standing in line to a club and the guy behind me kept trying to provoke violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:37 PM
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I know a lot of guys say “I wouldn’t help a women “ , I say it from time to time( due to fear of reprisals) . My wife has explicitly stopped me from helping a woman that was in trouble and has told me not to help other women. Even with all this my first reaction is to help , and my conscious thought is “ah maybe best not to “ .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:00 AM
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Ya idk . I’m autistic grew up without any knowledge / interaction of redpill/ incels and my perspective/ experiences match a lot of redpill thoughts , but I came to them independently at a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:42 AM
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I recall several potential partners that recoiled when I let my experience known. I lost my V to a chick who didn’t know I was a virgin till we reached the bedroom,the shift in tone after finding out made me think if we weren’t in bed already she would’ve kicked me out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:35 AM
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I have a mate who is attractive/ hits the gym / has a good paying job / great family / volunteers to look after disabled animals / has great hair / is emotionally mature ( if I had to turn gay he”d be at the top of my list ) . But he’s not wild , he doesn’t want one night stands , he’s a virgin and he wants a romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:29 AM
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Of course. /s My understanding of the blue pill , is that vibe / energy can carry you through life without putting emphasis on “facts”? Of attraction like gym / money / etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:15 AM
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Thank you, I appreciate you elaborating on it. I’d answer the original question ( in the post ) with yes , but only for dating not for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:10 AM
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Ah cheers. … Why is stuffing your face with food a pick me behavior ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:48 AM
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Can you please explain why the video is pick me. I’m very confused
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:34 AM
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Kinda, going to the gym is highly encouraged by redpill. Blue pill it’s not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:33 AM
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Different commenter , I had same attitude. My ex was not the one for me but we kept dating for a bit. Because she was good enough for now. When I met my wife , she told me we had to be married within 2 years. So we were :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:16 AM
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Tbh you and tokimon are very cute and should get a room together .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:17 PM
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It’s only an extreme situation in the modern day. I’d say it’d be more common in previous centuries. Ya I completely agree with you though. Another situation that is possibly “honorable” , would be 2 brothers , 1 dies and the other marries widow to look after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:16 AM
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I wonder if this is a recent thing ? If a soldier returns home and marries a dead soldiers widow to look after them , is he still seen as a beta cuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:09 AM
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Cheers for the references mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:36 AM
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Idk I grew up poverty poor and always thought I was ugly. But then after getting a glow up and a middle class friend to help me with clothes people call me attractive / handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:14 AM
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My wife says she doesn’t like being approached , but guess who married a guy who cold approached them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:52 PM
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I enjoyed the reading but not what I was talking about x-x. I get what you’re saying , that there’s subconscious influence from media impacting our preferences etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:41 AM
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To be clear OP is insane. But I do think your example doesn’t match the scenario , because I think ( think because OP explained so poorly lol) your example is the action informs the unattractiveness , whereas OP is talking about the reaction of others informs the unattractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:26 AM
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Pg_throwaway is being an asshole towards you. But I do think your social circle may be lacking in emotionally intelligent men. I’ve seen circles when dudes don’t communicate those things and it usually involves very little emotional communication in general. I think the healthier circles I’ve been in have more discussions related to emotions and thoughts on social scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:59 AM
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Tbf im beginning to suspect OP is autistic and vibe/peer pressure / group think flies over autistics ( source im autistic and went to special school ). So when group think doesn’t impact you it does seem very confusing, and you wonder if others are easily brainwashed etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:53 AM
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You seem like a man with emotional intelligence pg-throwaway and I disagree with insulting men that don’t have it , it’s only going to make them more reluctant to develop it x-x
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:49 AM
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I grew up in the country so it’s more truck driving rednecks but ya similar thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:38 AM
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I missed this as a child ( though I’m autistic so fair fair ). I remember the first year of primary school , thinking that compliments are manipulative and that manipulating others is bad etc, and just being so confused that everyone was dumb and easily brainwashed by others ? It wasn’t until I was older that it clicked for me that people enjoy being manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:36 AM
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How old were you when you started seeing humans as social animals/ monkeys , instead of beings with critical thinking ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:31 AM
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Is that the same as OPs example ? because his is that the social response informs the unattractiveness. I think your examples are the actions themselves informing the negative placement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:16 AM
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I guess I’m looking for an example that is purely a “social sin” and not a moral “sin”. E.g group setting the guy says something that doesn’t socially click right - lowers his position on the hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:05 AM
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Is that the same as social hierarchy? Does being a slut lower your social placement in a mixed gendered group setting ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:59 AM
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Na , I do think that the general “response” of the room helps inform everyone in the room of their response. E.g have you ever been in a social situation when something is said and you can tell some people are waiting for others to respond first ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:44 AM
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I do think that men places lower value on the social hierarchy placement of their partner than reversed. ( to be clear I don’t think this is a “women bad thing “ but just women prioritize different due to lots of factors et )
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:38 AM
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Idk bro making cringy fb posts could be the wolf move lol. I do find it interesting how people when trying to separate themselves from the herd try to paint it has a “I’m too dangerous for them “.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:35 AM
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Unrelated , does that mean that the strange dude from HS that posts “I am a wolf among sheep “ cringe posts on fb is correct ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:51 AM
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have you experienced not being in the fast lane ? // not being in the “normal” category?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:32 AM
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Nothing I’ve witnessed in life makes me believe that “decent human being” == “must follow for dating success as a man “ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:53 PM
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Isn’t Sean Connery a misogynist and he has had sex with women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:01 AM
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Can you elaborate on your definition of radicalism etc ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:59 AM
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Idk but I was redpilled as a kid before discovering the term on the internet .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:31 AM
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I was redpill first , then become blue pill. My redpill was from Watching reality // I formed the red pill thought 20 years before coming across the internet redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:24 AM
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