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| 1 | 1 Day, 5 approaches. College Daygame [PART 3]Unless you wan to keep up this UK facade you gotta drop it ASAP. The only way I can see it working is by playing like an I have a secret game. Tell her little bits of the lie like "I'm actually not from South America" while sorta introducing the truth about you. Don't spill it all at once. Will be less shocking that way. Do so fairly early on in the date but after there is a reasonable amount of rapport. If you do this charismatically and confidently it should work. | /r/seduction | 23/02/14 08:20 AM |
| 7 | How do you to set up the kiss?My personal favourite is the triangle-gaze. You shift your gaze from one eye, to their lips, to the other eye and back in a non-chalant and un rushed fashion. I actually just wrote university paper on this gaze in terms of communication theory. There is no explicit but a very implicit message here. If she doesn't want to kiss you she will likely recoil or you will be able to see it in her expression. Then you get to save-face as you never made any intention explicit. If she looks eager or recipr… | /r/seduction | 08/12/13 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Girls with boyfriends who show mild interest, how to best proceed?I'm not sure I get the direction of your analogy. Be mean keep em keen works if that's what your getting at but let's try and transcend that here, we don't need to play those games. We are out for friends not enemies after all. Even if you don't want to break them up but be seen as a good option that's best accomplished through being social and charismatic but not flirty. Being flirty and acting as a voice of descent in their relationship will do you more harm then good in the long run. Edit: wo… | /r/seduction | 07/12/13 09:54 PM |
| 34 | Girls with boyfriends who show mild interest, how to best proceed?How do you proceed? You don't. Don't be "that guy". There are plenty of other girls who you can meet without negatively impacting someone guy's life, like screwing up his relationship. Edit: (in response to your edit) I feel you have the wrong mindset here. This girl may be cute and interesting but she's with someone else. Maintaining or escalating sexual tension should not be a motive here (in my opinion). If you enjoy her company platonically and that tension escalates without your input or ki… | /r/seduction | 07/12/13 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Girl invited me to her house, sat on me and I didn't escalate. Will she give me another shot? Or was have I pushed her too far?To clarify do you mean you didn't escalate further past kissing for example or was there nothing more then conversation? She is likely a little bewildered by your lack of initiation, especially if your intentions are rather clear. When in a situation like that you don't need a smooth or calculated transition into kissing or more. IOIs don't get more obvious then that. Just give a quick triangle gaze so she knows what's coming and pull her in for the kiss. I don't think you've damaged anything fa… | /r/seduction | 07/12/13 09:10 AM |
| 1 | I'm not sure what to do...Accept that you won't look dumb, build some rapport and do so confidently. Have something simple and fun in mind and ask her to join you. Even if she's with her friends a lot, engage them and when there's a time where just you two are talking suggest something. For example: "hey I was gunna go grab a cup of coffee, you should come with" No? Say "No worries" and brush it off, continue with convo for a bit and leave. Yes? Then go from there. It's only awkward if you seem disappointed. Be indiffere… | /r/seduction | 03/12/13 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Dating multiple womenA recursive theme I'm seeing here is the issue of expense in dating multiple women. Does no one cook anymore. Wine-ing and dining a girl is a way better DOV then dropping 80$ on snacks and drinks in my opinion. Pick a few good dishes and practice mastering them. Pick something obscure, ethnic and interesting. Meet up with your date, visit a butcher, grocer and beer and wine store . Make educated choices, demonstrate what you know about food. Then head home and whip up that dish you know like the… | /r/seduction | 27/11/13 05:56 PM |
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