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| 1 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.Your normal strategy basically boils down to “don’t let him know I’m interested at all”. Your successful strategy is “quit playing games and show genuine interest”. I’m not surprised it’s working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 07:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV People that claim that eating out a Women is wrong or emasculating or submissive are the biggest dorks on the planet.I personally can’t imagine why ANY woman would come within 10 feet of AT, but that’s just me. I understand that guys like him think that being able to insert their dick into as many women as possible feels like a win and makes them some kind of sex god. Knowing I was the best sex a woman has ever had and that nothing anyone ever did from then on could ever come close to how good it was with me is actually the marker of a sex god. I promise, if AT or dudes like him aren’t giving a shit if their p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 03:52 PM |
| 7 | CMV People that claim that eating out a Women is wrong or emasculating or submissive are the biggest dorks on the planet.So it’s all about you and it doesn’t matter that there’s an entire person attached to that vagina? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 03:19 PM |
| 11 | CMV People that claim that eating out a Women is wrong or emasculating or submissive are the biggest dorks on the planet.Yeah, I’d hope you’d care if every woman who sleeps with you thinks your utter shit in bed. If you care so little about the enjoyment of the person you’re schtupping, buy a pocket pussy and schtup yourself. At that point you’re just masturbating into a dark hole anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo if AF/BB has roots in evolution, why do men get so butthurt about it? If it’s all as easy as “this is how we were wired to behave” why can’t dudes objectively look at themselves and say “I know I’m not Chad, so I’ll fulfill my evolutionary role and be the BB to ensure the survival of the species” instead of whining that women’s standards are too high | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, mother needs resources to ensure survival of herself. If she has a child, she needs more resources. If dad is off spreading his seed a “near infinite” number of times, and mom is tasked with keeping kiddo alive (presumably away from predators who want to eat tasty helpless baby meat), who is providing the resources? That’s why it behooves dad to invest in the survival of the progeny, not just the creation of the progeny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut what does it matter if none of those offspring survive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy feeling is, if men really cared so much about passing on their genes they’d also care about the longevity and success of their progeny. But lots of the casual sex guys stop caring once they get their nut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityHe didn’t tell me he didn’t believe in covid until we were already out. I’m a doc and he said “so, y’all get a kickback every time you diagnose covid, right? That shit’s not real.” I responded “We don’t. It is. I’m done.” And left | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:26 PM |
| 10 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityIt’s not. Gaslight: verb. To manipulate (someone) using psychological methods into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning Telling you that you don’t know the definition of the word you’re using is not manipulating you. What u/toasterchild did wasn’t manipulation either. Disagreement ≠ gaslighting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:23 PM |
| 20 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityThat’s not what gaslighting is…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:25 PM |
| -1 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityFalse. My icks came from when the guy treated servers poorly, when one said relationships shouldn’t be work, and when one said covid wasn’t real. I’d love to know where you got this totally ridiculous list | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:24 PM |
| 13 | Do you think the lonely men online actually just want sex?Sure they can be connected. However, it’s wrong to use sex as a synonym for romance because while they can be connected, often times they’re not. That’s why “go get an escort” is such frustrating advice for you- cuz an escort will only give you one small piece of the pie you want to eat so badly. It’s not wrong to want sex or want a gf. You’re setting yourself up for failure if you hang your self-worth on whether or not you have one though. Women like confidence- that much is obvious. If not hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:18 AM |
| 45 | Do you think the lonely men online actually just want sex?The only time I suggest an escort is when the guy says something silly like “getting laid would fix all my problems”. It’s pretty obvious that for the folks on subs like r/virgins, what they’re longing for is the emotional intimacy just as much, if not more, than the physical. But admitting to wanting the emotional intimacy more than physical is “soft” and vulnerable so they put on a front like it’s just about sex. Well, if it’s just about sex, go get an escort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?No I’ve been on too many dates where the guy pays and then throws a fit when I won’t go home with him or when I decline a second date. I’ve had guys pay and then venmo request me the cost of my portion after I declined to go home with them. I’d rather just take any consideration that I might owe them sex out of the equation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 12:02 PM |
| 15 | Q4M: What lessons are you taking away from the Jonah Hill text leaks?That would be great. Cuz the she could say “your insecurity isn’t gonna work for me. Best of luck finding your person!” And bounce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Guys should filter out women who don't show any interest, romantically or sexuallyThe other side is putting in work for a woman who’s not interested… isn’t that simping? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Nope. I always pay for a first dat. Can’t have anyone think I owe them something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedGross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedI’m not saying she wasn’t wrong. Let me be clear- she is acting childish and crazy, and by no means do I think she’s at all in the right here. And I agree, if you learn something is going to make you uncomfortable while in a relationship, that’s something you learn. My understanding of this situation (which could be completely erroneous) was that he knew he was insecure at the onset and chose to do it anyway. I very well could be wrong about that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedRetrain them? Women are not dogs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedDid he tell her at the onset of their relationship that he was going to have an issue with this shit? (I honestly don’t know, I read like half of one article about it and then went back to work) If he did, then yeah she shouldn’t have gotten involved with him either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedThat’s ridiculous. “She acts single when she’s single so she’ll act single when she’s in a relationship” is not what I’m saying. “Acting single” is not an hobby, job, or pass-time. But- if you meet her at a club when she’s out with her girls, and she tells you she loves dancing and goes to the club with her girlfriends all the time, you can’t expect her to stop once you start dating. If you’re insecure about dating women who go to the club, you shouldn’t date women who go to the club | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedThis is exactly it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 12:30 PM |
| 9 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedThen you couldn’t have known. My comments aren’t directed at people who don’t advertise who they are from the start. The chick Jonah hill dated advertised who she was from the start. He knew going in who she was, because who she was attracted him to her. He just couldn’t hang with the idea that what attracted him might ALSO attract someone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 12:45 AM |
| -2 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedDid she tell you before you started dating that she was religious and that she took it seriously? If she was on SM, were her posts all about her religion? Did you have dickful thinking and assumed she couldn’t have been that serious? If the answers to any and all of those questions is yes, then yeah you should’ve known | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 11:57 PM |
| 16 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedCuz she’s a bitter ex gf who’s too stupid and immature to realize she looks terrible and should keep private things private? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 11:55 PM |
| 17 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedWho’s condemning him forever, or at all for that matter. He just had a baby FFS, so clearly he’s doing ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 10:25 PM |
| 51 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedHe literally slid into her DMs and they got together while he took surfing lessons from her. He knew EXACTLY what he was getting into | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 10:24 PM |
| 120 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedThe only thing he did wrong was entering into a relationship with someone expecting her to change. She was posting bikini shots, surfing with dudes (that’s how they met), friends with guys, modeling, and whatever else he had a problem with when they got together. Sure, he tried to exert a boundary, but she was doomed to fail based on who she was. It’s like dating a guitarist and then getting mad that they’re always playing their guitar. If you don’t like the behavior of someone before you start … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | The Jonah Hill texts seem to split people very passionately down ideological lines. What are some other specific examples in news/history/fictional media where a person's reaction serves as a great litmus tests for romantic compatibility?Pretty sure those are the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:25 PM |
| 6 | What could Jonah Hill have done better?The only thing he could've done better is to not date her in the first place. The things he complained about (posting bikini pics, surfing with men, modeling, etc) are things she was doing when she met him. That's who she was, but then he comes along, starts dating her, and decides who she is no longer works for his boundaries. And he's shocked when she doesn't just acquiesce to his insecurities. It's pretty simple. You have to like the person as they are when you meet them. You can't go into a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 05:53 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat implies that the cheater is as worth it as Jay-Z.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal implyProbably depends on the state tbh, but I know it’s kosher where I live | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal imply“Paper abortion” already exists. It’s called terminating your parental rights. If you legally do that, you’re not on the hook for child support. Just because men don’t know the how to exercise the rights they already have doesn’t mean women are trying to avoid responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 10:01 PM |
| 4 | Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal implyYou realize you already CAN have a “paper abortion”, right? If you legally terminate your parental rights, you’re no longer on the hook for child support | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 09:59 PM |
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